Pris Turns 48: Birthday Bashes, Club Eden, and the Gang Bang She Asked For Out Loud

0:07 Alright y'all, before we dive in, a quick heads up. This show is raw, real, and definitely not rated pg. We're talking about adult themes, sexual content, and the kind of stuff you probably don't want blasting through your speakers at work or around your kits. So grab some headphones, pour your drink of choice and get comfy. Oh, and just so we're clear, we are not licensed therapists, counselors, or sex. Couches. Sex coaches. Sex coaches, not sex couches or just a couple of people sharing our lives, experiences and sexy adventures. An ethical non-monogamy.

0:47 So with that, pull up a chair and enjoy the show. And. Hello, and welcome to another episode of Beyond Monogamy. I'm Adam. And I'm Pris. And today we are recapping a wild, wild weekend that we had this past weekend. Although when we're recording this. This just happened. Yes. It is Priscilla's birthday weekend. That's right. Yes, everybody, uh, it was my 48th birthday weekend. Yeah. I've been alive for 48 years. 48 years. And you know what, actually I've been alive for 48 years in nine months. Yeah, that too. That too. And a day.

1:28 That's true. That's an exact, let's not break it down by the hours. Okay. Let's, let's just say, yeah, it was my 40th birthday and, um Wow. Wow. I mean wow. Wow. You guys like truly came out to support. That's pretty cool. Pretty. My 48, it was pretty birthday. Yeah. Yeah, it was, it was a bash and a half. Lemme tell you something. We started talking about setting this whole thing up a few months ago. Yeah. And we said, okay, we're just gonna, we're gonna see what kind of turnout we're gonna have. We did. And you planned a whole weekend of events, essentially. Well, you, you said you wanted to do, we didn't wanna do a house party, and so we did a club.

2:12 Oh yeah. No house, house party. And I did, I, um, I planned a whole bunch of events. We had. I had a little itinerary of what we were doing. And so it started off Friday night. It started off Friday night. Well, technically it started, uh, Thursday. Some good friends of ours had, uh, came in, had come into town. Yeah. And so we got to meet up with them and that was nice. That was nice. And then, but then Friday evening, yeah. Uh, we had some friends. Flew in from another state, from Florida. They flew in homies. That's right. And they, they flew in from Florida along with, uh, a few other friends. We, uh, we had a good night of pizza, and I did, and everybody was exhausted.

2:55 So the plan was on Friday, was to go have pizza at our favorite pizza spot. Mm-hmm. And then from there we were gonna go to a local little bar in our area and just listen to some music and maybe relax. Have good conversation, have good convers conversation. Yeah, we went to the pizza place and we were awe. Exhausted, worn out as if we had partied, like we were exhausted. We had three couples that had come from that had just flew in hours before. Yeah. Um, our other friends, they work a lot and so they were exhausted. We ate a lot of pizza. I was tired.

3:36 Adam was tired, and I was sitting there and I was like, I really don't wanna go. And so I didn't have an, I only had like two people reach out to me about where we were going afterwards, and I just told them I was like. I'm tired, guys. Like I really wanna go home. Yeah. Yeah. And so we ate, we ordered like four pizzas and like two appetizers. Yeah. It was a lot of food. And they hooked us up with a birthday. Cinnamon sticks. Cinnamon sticks. Yeah. I mean, hello. Yeah. Shout out to via 3 1 3. That place is the bomb. Man, It's the bomb. Yeah, it's the bomb. It's so good. Yeah. Highly recommended on that feature. Oh, we had a drink.

4:16 Oh yes, we did that. That was another reason why we were talking. So I would say that, but we literally, we had a drink. Adam bought a lucky Adam, got like a lucky charm drink. Yeah, it was like clear, lucky. It was like clear marshmallow vodka or something. So it was similar to a whiskey sour essentially. But I, I forget what else they put in there. And then, but yeah, and then they had the little two marshmallows with the Lucky Charms. Yeah. I wonder if they had the bag of Lucky Charms backpack. I'm pretty sure they're just picking through the marshmallows Probably. But it, I love Lucky. It was good. It was a good drink. It was super strong and so I drank that some bitch You didn't drink at all? I did even, no sir. Are you sure? He took like three sips. I got me a free arita.

4:57 I got most of it and it was a little cup of a margarita with salt. Now I'm telling you this because guys, if y'all don't already know, we are not drinkers. We don't drink, not anymore. Um, not for, not for any reason other than pick a vice, right? And we picked one, we picked one, and this one's not it. And so we, we just don't drink 'cause it makes us tired. And so we're sitting there and we both drank maybe like three to four sips of our drink. And that, that barely, like, that was nothing like. It was a small cup. Oh my God. We were so we were eating pizza. We were so exhausted. Yeah.

5:37 That, that night ended in really good sleep and everybody was cool with, I was like, guys, is it okay? I was. So anyway, we ate and um, everyone was cool with let's just go. They're gonna go back to their hotel, we're gonna go back to our house. And we did. And that was nice. Yeah, that was a good, a good end to the night for sure. Yeah. We got back and we just cuddled and we watched movies. Mm-hmm. We watched 40-year-old version until we fell asleep. Oh yeah. It was nice because we made our friends come and watch TV in our bedroom with us. Yeah. That was so nice. We've never done that. Nope. Nope. That was, we literally just watched TV guys. It was so much fun.

6:18 It was relaxed. Yeah, because our room is cold. Our bed is comfortable. Yeah, that's true. Yeah. King size. Yes. It's nice. Yeah, it was cool. What else did we do? Uh, well, so that was Friday. That was Friday, Saturday you and I, we got up. Gosh, we got up in the morning. Yeah. Up probably about six o'clock. Yeah. And from there it was, you know, we, we showered and did all that, got ourselves ready and we went and got some coffee. It was chilly. I was like, why did we leave Saturday? I needed a sweater. 'cause it was chilly outside. Yeah. Yeah. And all of my outfits were scandalous. Scandalous outfits a tad bit and so, ugh. Yeah. So we had to, we had to grab, uh, grab some things, a little sweater, and we got some coffee and we came back home.

7:02 Yeah. And, uh, proceeded to pack Yes. For the day. Yes. Uh, so we got everything packed up and ready to go and. We drove down to San Antonio. Yes. Just in time to have a brunch at Alamo Biscuit Company. Yes. We didn't take a picture on the Gu Cha bike. I can't believe it. It was the coffee from freaking Arthur's from Arthur's, which was delicious. Yeah. So, um, uh, so Alamo Biscuit company, I was just about tell 'em Yeah. Yes, please do. Go ahead. It's um, so it's a ponder and if you dunno what a ponder is, it's a place, it's a Mexican restaurant. Not Mexican. The Mexican bakery is what it is. And they also make biscuits.

7:43 They're known for their biscuits and their, um, their biscuits. They have biscuit flights. Like if you were to go like to Snooze, they have pancake flights. Mm-hmm. Um. I don't know where y'all are at, but places around here always have like flights of something. Yeah. Yeah. And so they have biscuit flights. Ooh. They even have a Benedict flight. They do? Yeah. 'cause you've gotten that before. But I wanted something large that was gonna accommodate all of us and still be very chill. So we went, we drove into San Antonio, which is an hour and 10 minutes, and guys, oh my God, it was so crazy because. If you're not from San Antonio right now is Fiesta Times. So, and it's also fanfare, so Tejano fanfare and it was free.

8:26 And what, what is fiesta so fan? Fanfare is what starts it off and it's so it usually happens like rodeo days and then after that I think they have like a few days off and then fanfare starts where fanfare is just a bunch of hanno artists. To people you've never heard before, to people you have heard before. And it's absolutely free. Yeah. You go in, you dance, you do a little pachanga, you little drinking 'cause it's San Antonio. That's all they know how to do. There is freaking drink. I mean, so does Austin. But anyway, but, um, San Antonio and it's like all this like Latin music. Downtown in the market area, and then Fiesta starts now. I don't really know what Fiesta is.

9:06 Mm-hmm. I think it's just the Latin culture, the Mexicanos that they make this big old festival. I'll get more details on it, but I don't really know. Well, actually, you know what, I can look it up real quick. Okay. Let's see. I know that Fiesta starts off I think one day they have like, a marathon or something like a 5K, and you get like, 'cause I always see it on my Facebook. You get like these little badges and every year there's a pin or something for Fiesta and I, I wanna say it starts off. I like Cinco de Mayo or some, there we go. Fiesta San Antonio has been since its 1891, inception, an annual festival held in April in San Antonio, Texas.

9:48 It's the city's signature event, along with some events held in the neighboring cities. Like Bernie shirts, Windcrest. Mm-hmm. Uh, the festival, also known as The Battle of Flowers, commemorates the Battle of the Alamo, which took place in San Antonio, and the Battle of San Jacinto, which led to the Texas' independence from Mexico. Okay. In April, 1836. Yeah, there you go. So it starts off with little things. So it's the hano and then it keeps going, and then up until Fiesta time. And so it was packed. But either way, Austin was having their own thing. So they were having South by Southwest. South. By Southwest. Southwest, yeah. So two things.

10:29 We got there, we got to the Alamo Biscuit place, and then next door to Alamo Biscuit place is Arthur's Coffee. If you've never been, wanna know more about it, you should look it up. You should really look it up. Yeah, it's amazing. And so your girl was feeling exceptionally great. With your little, it's my birthday crown. It's my, I was wearing my, it's my birthday crown. 'cause my coworker got it for me and I wore it Friday. And I wore it all weekend long. That thing you couldn couldn't see it because guys have got a new haircut. I have little curly bangs and it's kind of like muy, but not because I still have my edge, my sides. But it's cute. It's very cute. You look very cute. I'm, I'm kind of tired. I kind of, well rested, but still very tired to me. Yeah.

11:09 Yeah. So the Alamo Biscuit company was, was, it was a great brunch. We were joined by great brunch. Awesome. Friends. We, we had a great time, great conversation. Yes. Um, it was a, it was an awesome way to start Saturday. Yeah. Uh, but by the time we left there feeling like gluttons just full as can be because we can eat. Oh dude. We were so full. Yeah. And we had to go to, uh, a. That mall. We went to Lainer Lara Mall in San Antonio. Uh, 'cause we, yeah, we had to do a little shopping. We had to do a little shopping. Yeah. And I swear I didn't wanna walk around at all. Like I was just, but we needed to. Yeah. So we did. We were kind of still dragging.

11:50 We were very tired. Like, I think we just had, from my sickness all the way up until like now I feel like I hadn't rested. Yeah. Yeah. So it's, it was kind of like non nonstop. Yeah, no, he was not feeling it. And it was kind of sunny, but still chilly. Oh man. I was exhausted. So and so we finally got, we went back to the hotel, the opportunity to go to the hotel to check in. Yeah. They let us do an early check-in, which was cool. Uh, and as soon as we got into the room, it was like we packed. Yeah. Mm-hmm. And we were in the bed. It was like, it's nap time, and I knocked out. Yeah, you did. I knocked out we shared a room, our other friends knocked out.

12:31 We were just completely just ready to call it in. It was nap time. Oh man. Totally wrecked. And so we did, we took a little nap and it was so much fun, just sleeping. I didn't wanna wake up. No, I know it was wake up. I did rough wake up, waking you up, up. It was really hard to wake up. Um, 'cause then once we got up, we had to start getting ready for the evening. Yeah. And so that took some time because we were going from dinner to the club. Yeah. So you had to get all done up. Yeah. And so that took some time. Yeah. And our, our other friends, you know, everyone's getting ready. And then we.

13:12 Head to the restaurant. Yeah, we went to a, a sushi restaurant there in San Antonio. Yeah, it's the best. It's super ins expensive. Sus Shema. Yeah. It's a really, it's not even expensive itself. No. It was actually pretty cheap. Yeah. And we had all, all, we all checked in pretty much to the same hotel except for a few of us, but we were all there at the same hotel. So it was really nice. We all left together, but not really. But we all ended up at the sushi place. Mm-hmm. And that's where everybody met up before going to the club. We had friends come in from Arizona, Arizona, from Florida, from Florida, from throughout Texas, from Houston, from Dallas. Yeah. We had a lot of friends and thank you to all of y'all who did come out from far away, like.

13:57 That was Corpus. From Corpus. Yeah. Like we had such an amazing turnout and so we're all there. And mind you, these people don't even know each other. No. They're all, a lot of 'em are, are all just meeting for the very percent. All of these people. Most of them besides a few, maybe three of those couples. Just no one's from, from social media. Yeah. The show. Yeah. And they, they came and they were all talking and I was like, damn. I was looking at the table and I was like, God damn, we have some hot ass friends. It was a pretty attractive table. It was a really nice, yeah.

14:37 There was some attractive looking people. There really was. Yeah. And so we're there having dinner? Mm-hmm. And some of them had to go back to the hotel, but the other one didn't. Well, it's funny, when we were there, we were all having conversation. Mm-hmm. And towards the end, I don't know what, what brought it up, but you started talking about how you wanted to have a gang bang set up for the night. So we're having a, I don't even, we were eating and they were just asking if I was looking forward to tonight. I was like, yeah, I can't wait. And I don't know what brought it up, but I was like. I wanna have a gang bang. And it didn't have to be tonight, but I was like, I wanna have a gang bang. And so that might happen tonight, right? Because we have a lot of friends that were there and I was like, let's just do this. And I had other friends that were gonna come and I was like, that's gonna be perfect.

15:20 And one of the men look at me and he is like, what? And I was like, yeah. I was like, it's really for my pleasure, not for yours, but you are more than welcome to be in it if you'd like. And he just looked at me, he was laughing. He is like, you are so crazy. I was like, Hey, I'm here not to beat around the bush. If I want something, I'm gonna say it. And yeah. You know, and some of them were like, yeah, that's good. And I'm like, yeah, I mean, why am I gonna be like, you know, they're like, oh, what are you, you, you're gonna have lots of fun. Well, yeah, I planning on it. So that's the idea, right? Yeah. A lot of people, when I say that, they always get like. You, I knew we were gonna have an orgy, like that was gonna be a given. Yeah. But I have, I, people just struggle to talk about it.

16:00 Say the say the thing out loud. You know? Yeah. Why don't be afraid people if that's what you wanna have. You know? Especially if your friends are swingers. Mm-hmm. If you can speak freely about it. Yeah. I don't think anybody's gonna judge it. Like, just say it. I mean, I've said I wanted to have an orgy and it happened. It sure did. It was like, like gy, gods were saying, oh, go and have fun with that pussy. And so I did. Yeah. Well, so we finished dinner and we ended up going running errands. We had to run some errands, but then we ended up going, oh no. We went back to the, we went back and stopped at the front of the club and we just parked there. Yeah, that's right. We waited in front of the club. That's right. Uh, because we. Had to decorate.

16:40 They were gonna let us in at eight 30 so we could decorate 30 minutes beforehand. And damn, was it packed? Club Eden had it packed and yeah, people were already lining up at eight 30. It was a great place. A great date to have my birthday party because it was a really good crowd. Yeah. You know, well, there was a lot of other things going on that night. I think there was a couple of other birthdays that night, or few actually. Uh, and then there was a, a local group had a, uh, meet and greet there. Right. And so all of that was really just adding to it. Mm-hmm. We had an amazing turnout. We did, uh, for the, for the actual event.

17:22 Yeah, we did. Uh, I gotta tell you, I was running anxious completely, uh, when we got to the venue because I just. I still have anxiety guys, like I'm still that guy. Like, so we, yeah, we, things haven't gotten easier for me anxiety wise. I am able to talk to more people now, uh, since the start of the podcast and everything that's happened throughout this past year. It's gotten easier to do social events. Yeah. But let me tell you, my anxiety is still roaring. Yeah. Like crazy. Just to give you an example, we were driving to San Antonio from where we live, and I was telling her the, the entire time I said, you know, are, are you nervous at all?

18:06 Like, are you? And she was like no. Like this is so exciting. Like this is gonna be so much fun when you know all these people and blah, blah, blah. And I'm like, and I'm, the whole time I'm like freaking out on the inside. I'm like, man, this is. I don't know if this is gonna be, I wanted everything to be perfect for you. I wanted you to have a great time. I wanted everybody to enjoy themselves. I wanted everybody to have a good experience. You know, it's one of those things where it's like, I want everything to work out. Yeah. Uh, and the antithesis was as soon as we got into the club and it was time to start decorating, and it's like. I didn't know what the fuck to do. Yeah. So, and luckily I have some really good, great friends who just stepped in and they were like, go ahead and move away.

18:51 I was like, take care this, like, I'm gonna sit him down guys. I was like, this is not working out. So he fo he was following me and I was like, what are you doing? He is like, I'm just going wherever you're at. And I'm like. You don't have anything in your hands. Like I did not, I did not. He just wanted to be next to me. And so Yeah, because she's my, uh, she's my safe zone. Yeah. And so I said, okay, I'm gonna go sit down. We're decorating with the balloons. You sit down and then that was it. And then while I'm in the other side, 'cause we had two content rooms. One was attached to the VIP and the other one wasn't. Yeah. And I'm in the other one, what's not attached to where Adam was at. And I'm like, I get a phone call from. One of our, our friends and they're like, we're trying to get in, but we weren't with you guys, so can you go?

19:36 And I was like, you have to call Adam. And I was like, oh, uh oh, he can handle this. I could not. So I don't know. You went out there and you grabbed her and I was like, okay, where is he? And he is like, okay, he's still out there. So then I stopped what I was doing and I went over there and I grabbed and I helped. But when I went to go see him, he was in that little foyer area and he just looks at me like. Okay. Oh man, I was taking deep breaths, you know? Yeah. Uh, sometimes, you know, not everything is, yeah. Uh, there's gonna be bumps. Yeah. And I know this and I expected this, but at the same time I was like. It's social anxiety. Yeah. I mean, nothing's, well, nothing's logical when you have anxiety. Yeah. That's just the way it's, and so I didn't have anxiety and I was really excited. The only thing I was worried is that we had some single women with us.

20:19 Yeah. And so, well, we have one who's not single. She was with her friend, but. S and she's very independent, but still, I was like, Uhuh, where is she? And I trust everybody at the club. But there was other people that I didn't know there, so I was like, I just wanna make sure I have eyes on everybody. Right. That's with our party. Right. And so I did, and it, that was the only thing I was anxious about. But OI. I loved it. Yeah. Yeah. You know, I mean, for the first hour I was a little anxious. Yeah. But my anxiety went away after the first hour. And pe I, what I, what I really had to do was I had to tell myself, okay, people are here to also have a good time. Yeah. It's not my job to, to entertain all of them.

20:59 So that was my problem. Yeah. Is that I wanted to, I was being hostess and by the time I looked down I was like, oh my God, do you wanna go to the back? But I was on hostess mode. The decorations, making sure everybody was nice and set up. Everybody knew where the rooms were. Yeah. You were giving tours. While I was setting up, I was freaking giving tours. Adam was giving tours of all of our groups, but like in, in bunches. Alright, who's the next party? He was just taking him everywhere. So cute. And then towards the end I was like, okay, I'm gonna go with him. And I go walking with you. But it was nice. It was, um, and you gave away these, these cute little bags. What were those? So I made, loot bags if you don't know what a loot bag is, when you have a little kiddo you know, those little baggies that always have like, like stickers and stuff that you don't need and you don't want your kid to have little kazoos.

21:46 Yeah. So I, I enjoy making them, I still make 'em for our kids, um, as a matter if I have to go buy some, 'cause I have to make 'em for our, our who's gonna be 15 in the and on Wednesday. Yeah. But. I love making those things. So I made some for our party. Yeah. You know, so I made, there were clear little bags with a handle and they buttoned and I put emergency packages in there. The vitamin C. Yeah. I put a little container of Tums. I did a little baggie of safety pins of band-aids. I did hand sanitizer, I did some cooling wipe. I did, I had also a little tiny little makeup blender.

22:28 Little poofy guy, a little blender guy that I had a package of gum in there. I had some wisp or Colgate. Little tiny toothbrushes. You just wet them and you brush your teeth because. You know, if you've been drinking and you've been eating, you wanna go and refresh. And even though the club has lys, uh, Lysol, that mouthwash you still little brushy brush Lysol. Little brushy brush is good, right? Yeah. Um, so I had that and then I had a sticker. I had a little package of lube from Spunk. They are one of our promoters, our sponsors. So yeah, spunk Lube is amazing. Um, little packages of that and then some skin condoms in there. Yeah, in the front I try to do like, I don't know how to use my little cricut that I have.

23:13 But I did put like words on some of them. Some of the bags had slut stuff. The other one was hot girl, glam bag. Just different things. And so it was between me and my daughter. We put all these goodies in there and. We gave him away. Everybody loved them. They're like, yeah, they were big fans, man. He made Lew bags with like, stuff that we could actually use. And I was like, that's exactly what I wanted. Oh, I had Advil in there. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. Um, I wanted things that, okay, when you're done with this little bag, you can just, or you can throw that little bag inside of your other bag and when you're going to the club, like it could be your bag. That's what I was trying to go for. Oh, our next event mm-hmm.

23:53 Is gonna have such amazing little things that I'm making Oh yeah. Yeah. You're already planning it. Already planning it. Because I want to also like have stuff with our logo. Mm-hmm. Oh, I had this company and we're gonna link everything because this company is amazing. They, I have one company who makes my stickers, who makes our stickers for us. Yeah. Yeah. I know I can do all this, but I don't have time to do it. And these people do it like next day and they send it out to us. We had balloons. Oh yeah. We malar balloons or Mylar balloons made with our logo on them and they were freaking cute. Yeah. Yeah. Those really neat. I should've got the other side with my face on it.

24:34 Yeah. Aww. Yeah. But hey, those things really came out great. They were right. They did a great job on those things. Yeah. Yeah. We had 'em all on each end. Um, I don't think I got a lot of pictures of us, of that area. I didn't. But yeah, it was nice. And I had some glow sticks and some glow bracelets, cupcakes. And then at, at some point we finally had to say, okay, let's we're done greeting people. Yeah. Let's, let's go play. Yeah. Yeah. And so we finally, yeah. Yeah. We finally, we went to the back. Yeah. And, uh. Had our little opening set. We had some fun. Yes. M and I always, and that was, that was fun. Uh, and that kind of relaxed us a bit more and kind of brought us back to, Hey, okay.

25:15 Party mode. I was being really flirty. You were, you, you were making out with some people. I was, yeah. You, you made out with a, a woman you just met that night. Like you literally. Did you even, did you get her name before or after? Who are you talking about? There was a girl that we were introduced to and all, and I was standing there. All of a sudden I looked And you were making out with her? No, I didn't get her name, but now I gotta remember who she was. We were introducing, so the people that came to my birthday party aren't from here. We're introducing them to our friends in the community. Yeah. Because I really wanted them to meet them. And so we had a little train of like six people. Yeah. I told Adam, you be the caboose. And so we're getting there.

25:56 We're introducing everybody to, to all these people. I think I maybe got her name, but I don't remember. But oh my goodness. I was like, you're beautiful. She's like, you're hot. And I was like, can I kiss you? I, I just know I was talking to somebody and I looked up and you were just making out with this woman. And then afterwards she came to me and she was like, hi, I am so and so, and I was like, oh. Nice to meet you. Hi. See you later. And then I, I had a, a true moment where I was like, oh, this is how my wife feels when somebody comes out to me. Me. Oh, did you have a person? I, oh, it didn't bother me. Yeah. I was just like, it's like, I don't know. It's, it's, it's like, I don't know what to do with my hands kind of moment. It's like I'm just standing there going, oh, okay.

26:39 I'm gonna, I don't wanna like stare too bad, like be right next to you. But I'm also like, I don't wanna look away either, you know? Don't look away. Yeah. I mean a lot of people. Yeah, you did actually. You got around girl. I did. I was making out with people after as the ride because the car ride. 'cause y'all were in the front and I was like, Ooh, I'm back here with two hotties. Let's do this ladies. You know, for somebody who has listen to this show, I'm sure there's some of you out there who have listened to several shows and you've heard her say how she doesn't like to kiss people. You were just making it. Whatever. They're my friends. Well, these ones are my friends, so I can kiss 'em anytime I want, except for that one. She's my friend now, but I just, you get her name, my friend. Now we got pretty fucking friendly.

27:21 Yes. Yeah. Yeah. You were being very flirty. Very, very outgoing, very outward Pris. Mm-hmm. I hadn't seen her in a while. I hadn't seen her since we been dating. I was around my peeps. Yeah. You know, my girls, my. We have a friend, her name is Ray Amazing. We have another friend named Mary. We have actually our besties, Mary and David, and then Jen Pineapple. Jen, are you crazy? Those are three women, and actually, and my husband and David, and forget it. Those people can hype you up to be like, you're just walking like. It's your birthday. You can do whatever the hell you want. And so, and then the, the ladies are such confident boosters.

28:02 They have such energy and they're all about, they're really great friends. Yeah. So they're all about, let's do this press, let's do their energy just gives me the want to just be out there. Yeah. And it feels so good because that's usually how I am. I don't know where, what. Sometimes I just get bored and I'm like, God, I need some adventure. Yeah, yeah, yeah. No fun. It was, it was, uh, you were, you were feeling pretty, pretty good there. I was. Soul was feeling pretty good. Take us. Okay guys, so then we're saying hi to everybody. Yes, we are. Pris is making out everybody. Yes, she is. And then we had a couple, our friend who went to the back. And let's just tell you real quick, our friend Ray if you followed me for a while, you will see her on one of our collabs that we did.

28:49 And she also was on the show. She was also on the show. Yeah. Okay. So she's crazy. She always has a bag of goodies. She always has a bag of toys and so I make sure she brought her bag of goodies and she did. She had a wand. If you don't know what a wand is, you need to go get one for your girl. 'cause forget the Hitachi. I want that. Yeah, the Hitachi wand. Yeah. And then she has this other del do that looks like a penis. That is amazing. I don't know what it is, but everyone loves it. It's great. Yeah. Is that the one that's, uh, yeah, it's got like a handle to it. Mm-hmm. So it's almost like a, a dildo. Joust. That thing looks hardcore. It looks like a joust. It's, But a penis shaped joust. Yeah.

29:29 So she was back there with some friends. Mid boo. Yeah. Oh, I like that. Yeah. That's good. She was back there with some our, with a friend of ours. I was like, Ooh, we're gonna go back there. Anyway, so we went back there and she busted out with her wand. Yeah, she did. And she's on the other side of the beds. And we're in the middle and we're in the middle of the club. We aren't about to, about cubbies unless our friends that are with us or people that we're playing with wanna be in the cubbies. We're all about like, we like to put on a show. Just put on a show. Yeah. And so, um. Ray had that Hitachi, is it Hitachi? Yeah. It's the Wands that big. That big wand. Yeah, the wand. And she is using it on, um, one of our friends having a good old time, and then she's like, LA, la, la, la, la.

30:17 I wanna please other women who's around here. And she turns around and she sees me. She goes, oh my love. And then she comes over here to us and she's like, here, try this. Oh my goodness. Yeah. The thing was it made me squirt very quickly. Yeah. Very quickly. Yeah. You were on this side, so you didn't get to see Yeah. Yeah. Everybody that was over here, we had a crowd. Yeah, with a crowd all around, like front and back and side to side, like everywhere. People were just stopping because we had 1, 2, 3 people playing on one end. Two in the middle, me and you. And then Ray.

30:58 Yeah. And she's like, what do you want for your birthday, my love? And I was like can my husband fuck you while I watch? That was so nice. That was hot. Yeah. Yeah. That was hot. That was fun. She, uh, she just hopped right on. Mm-hmm. She's like, I've never had that been asked on someone's birthday. I was like, why not? Gimme this machine. Do your, so I had no problem there. And it was fun. 'cause I had, I was busy by myself in this little corner on the Oh yeah. You were enjoying that. Just watching and doing your thing. Mm-hmm. Um, and then after, well after a while, she asked, you asked, well, what do you want? Like, I wanna, I wanna take care of you. You know?

31:38 So you very specifically said. Eat my pussy Uhhuh. And she said, okay. And she got excited and she's like, all right. And so you laid back, uh, and she got in between your legs and then you lifted your head up and you said, and I want you to fuck her. Yeah. While she eats my pussy. And I was like, huh, you got it. And so I got up and I got behind her. Mm-hmm. And I started taking her doggy. Mm-hmm. And, uh, she was going down on you and that was flipping hot. Like that was a frigging hot show right there. Yeah. Uh, just in that alone, that is the end of it.

32:21 That isn't the end. No. No. Uh, so, uh, eventually, ray and I were just getting so into it that she stopped going down on you after a while. She was just, yeah. I said, gimme the toy and you go do your thing. Yeah. And then I told her, okay, write him. And then she rode you? Yeah. And then someone slapped your head. Yeah. A good friend of mines, I love that woman that came up to me. I was like, I didn't know who it was. I, all of a sudden, I'm, I'm, you know, I've got this. I, I mean, if you're gonna feel any pain, you should know who it is. I've got, I've got this exceptionally hot woman riding me, and all of a sudden, sudden I feel, I feel somebody going, whack whack, whack. On my face. Face. And I'm like, what the hell's going on? And I look up and it's, it's our friend.

33:03 Yeah. And I was just like, that's the only person that I would be like, that's cool. Absolutely. I still would like to have sex with you. She listen, she listen to the show and every time we say, God, I can't stand being touch without permission, man, I can't send, she's always comes up to us whenever she says, and she's like, I know you're talking about me. I know you're talking about me. I'm like, well hell, now we're talking about you girl. If it's in a negative light, it is. Never you now talking about, and I'm trying to talk her this, and then she does that and I'm like, oh yeah, that one's, that one's going on the show and it's lovely. I look up and I'm like, oh, it's just her. I said that, talking about she's so decent and she's you don't wanna fuck me.

33:44 He's like, like, yeah, Uhhuh. Yeah, I do. Mm-hmm. I'm okay with it for some reason. And I'm there. Yeah. We, so we had a, a lot of people around, um, watching. Yeah. That, so that was a, that was a big show. And so now from that point. Somehow got involved. Did we go? Yeah. 'cause we were still at the same moment. Yeah. In that same moment. Somehow we all got switched around and I'm over here and you're at one end and I'm on the other end. Yeah. And there was, uh, another woman that was there in the bed. Mm-hmm. And you know, I started I guess focusing on her a little bit. While. You know what, while? No, I was making out with her.

34:24 And then you came around. Yeah. You were first. Yeah. And then you came around and then eventually I came around. Mm-hmm. Um, and then I felt somebody going down on me while I was doing that. And I was like, oh shit, this is nice. Uh, and another one of our friends was down there. Yeah. And I was like, oh, hell yeah. That's cool. This is going well. I don't know. Where was that? I don't know what's happening right now. Now, but this is going very well. So it lasted a while. It lasted a while. Yeah. And then I think I called him over and I was like, all right, I'm done, da. And so yeah, we finished and then we went to the back, back to our area. Freshened up, cleaned up, and we're back in our little VIP area and.

35:06 We're dancing. We have one friend who's just on the dance floor. She danced so much. She said her feet were killing her. Yeah. Um, so we had that. And then I think. It'd be an hour later someone said, oh, they're going to the back. And I was like, oh, okay. Do, oh no, we were looking for friends. And I was like, where did our other friends go? And they're like, oh, they're parallel playing with another couple. And I was like, oh, let's go watch that. Yeah, that was a show. So we go to go watch that. Which was exceptionally hot. Yeah. Um, it's very hot to see hot people. Playing. Actually, I like anybody playing like I love, well, we're voyeurs. I love to watch. I mean, that's exactly what we enjoy. Mm-hmm. Oh my God. But we also like to put on a show too. There was this couple, there was these two girls with this one guy.

35:51 They were kind of young and oh my God. I was like, God dang, y'all are hot. Yeah. That w they, they were putting on a hell of a show. Those were some, They gave me a dance. They gave me a lap dance. Did they? Yeah. So there, yeah, there. That's right. So there was a point in the night where they call everybody to the dance, uh, who has a birthday. Yeah. And you sit down in the chair Yeah. And everybody gives you a lap dance. Yeah. And, uh. I, I gave you a lap dance. You did? I did. I'm not very good at it though. I'm not very good at it either, but it was fun. Yeah. I'm not good at it. Yeah. Um, I had a lot of friends and I was like, okay, I'm tired of people rubbing on me. I gotta go. I a dentist. I'm tired of people rubbing on me. I'm gonna go already. Is that your A DHD? Yeah. And so I went, I was already bored.

36:33 Yeah, I was bored. And so my friend was like, Hey, you left and I get to dance with you. I'm sorry. I was bored already. And so we get up and we go back, everyone's gone. We're like, where's everybody at? Yeah. So after that, they were already in the back playing and I was like, oh, let's go do this again. Do this again. Yeah. So that was fun, but I was so tired. Adam was like, I'm tired too, but we can't sit down. Let's go walk around. So we're walking around the club. Yeah. There were different parts of the night where she's just like, let's sit down. And so we're sitting down. I'm so tired and our back is to the whole party, so we can't even properly people watch. Yeah. I'm literally just like looking at a wall.

37:14 Yeah. And I'm like, yeah, I can't do this because if I'm sitting here like this, I'm gonna be ready to go to bed. Yeah. And I ain't ready to go to bed. Yeah. Uh, so I was like, dude, you gotta come on. Let's get up. Let's walk around. Yeah. Let's go do this. She's like, I'm just so tired. I said, Hey, man, that's the price you pay. You wanted a big bash. It's a big bash. You know, really like I love that. You know what I was thinking that next time I have to get like the big couch area that faces the down floor. Yeah. Not so much the VIP and then just get a content room on the side. Yeah. Like that would just be better. So like we get a couch and then we have our friends get the other couch next to us. And I think two couches is enough because everyone just roams around anyway. Everyone roams around. Yeah. Yeah. You definitely have to have that safe space.

37:55 Yeah. Uh, but that, I gotta say I, club. He didn't, they never, never disappoints. They never disappoint. They always did a great job. DJ Allen is a frigging awesome dj. Yeah. He had the music all night long. Yeah. But it was really cool that we had people who, from out of state, yeah. Come visit this club for the very first time and all of them said the same thing, which is all of 'em. This is the best club I've ever been to. That tells you a lot because these people came from a lot of different areas. And actually even local people had never been there. We brought in Yeah, a few people that had never, ever been to that club and are from the area and they were like, oh my goodness, this club is amazing.

38:40 Yeah. Yeah. So, you know, I thought. You know, it kind of makes you proud, you know? 'cause that's like our home club. That's where we always ats. We love that. Love that. Like I've, I've told y'all many times, I've told y'all women many times, the bathroom is amazing. They're so safe. There's always somebody watching. There is always somebody you can turn to the, it looks clique-ish because you don't know people. But once you meet them. Everybody is super, super friendly. Yeah. Yeah. And you know, if you're new to the club, all you gotta do is get in contact with the host couple. There's always a host, couple always. And they will literally introduce you to the people. Mm-hmm. That will be able to Yeah. Cool your nerves. Yeah. And chill you out. Mm-hmm. Um, and I gotta say I was, I was very impressed with that.

39:23 You know, I, I know that we like this club a, a whole lot, but it's nice to hear from people who are outside of this area, try it for the first time and go, wow. Out of all the clubs that I've been to, this is, yeah, this is pretty tough. I had one of our friends, I forgot to tell you that one of our friends was like, can I go kiss Adam? And I was like, yes, please. Really. I was like, yes, please. You probably don't even know it was, it was Jen, but I was like, yeah. She was like, can I go? Oh, is that why? Okay. I was like, okay. Oh, since she came up to me, she started making out with me and I was like. Okay, thanks. I was like, yes, please. That was nice. Yeah. I didn't realize that that took place. That was funny.

40:03 Yeah, that was, that was a cool moment. That was a lot of fun. Yeah. I was like, yes, go. Cool. His nerves. That's right. That would make sense. Yeah. You know, all in all, it was an incredible night. Uh, we, we had, uh. Our friends, David and Mary actually made a lot of jello shots, hundred jello shots, people, 200 jello shots several different flavors. Yeah. I mean they just went all out for that. And they were just giving it out, you know, anybody that showed up. Yeah. It's like, here you go. We had some cupcakes we were giving out at the end of the night, because we were in a given mood, we gave a lot. We gave a lot. We gave a lot it. So much fun guys. After that. We loaded up the van. Yeah, we, we stayed as long as we could.

40:44 I think it was like three, no, it was two, two o'clock. It was two and we were all exhausted. So luckily we're all at the same club except for one couple. Yeah, we, so it was my bad. We were all at the same comfort in and we all drove to the same place. And when we got out one of the couples was like, yeah, this isn't our. This isn't our hotel. We were like, oh, so our good friends, that was my bad. I'm sorry. Our good friends, David and Mary decided to drive them to their hotel. While they were doing that, I was in bed and I was like, I'm gonna order a Whataburger, which was crazy because she was half asleep. When she did. I was half asleep, but I still had my, I don't even remember what I had.

41:25 I don't know, but you, whatever you, oh, you know what you did a Whataburger Junior. Oh, I had a little Whataburger Junior Guys. Now they have it with bacon and cheese. Yeah. Yes. You know, you ordered the food. We had it door dashed. We had it door dashed, and you literally ate and fell asleep, like almost as soon as you threw away your trash. It was like you were out. My milkshake was done. I was like, okay, guys. Goodnight. Yeah, that was the end of it. I gotta say I, I was crashed shortly thereafter. Yeah. Uh, myself because boy, I was, I was worn. Oh my God. Worn out. Yeah, it, I got it wrecks you. It does. I lot sex. Tell me about my gifts. What? My gifts.

42:06 Oh, you got some pretty gifts. I had, I got so many cool gifts, guys. I got. Almost like $200 worth of Dutch bros gift cards. Yeah. That's so awesome. Um, and like sent to my email, a little gift cards. I got cash. I got perfume, I got geez, candles and what else did I get? Lotions. I even got a whole little set of, put you in the mood candle sense sex candle. It's in my car. I got a spray. I got a lot of cool gifts. I got this leather piece from our friends that came in from Arizona and I'm about to go in there and buy some stuff because like custom chokers.

42:53 Oh yeah. And you can put these pieces on, but they got me a little purse charm. Freaking awesome. You got that mug. What else? I got a mug from? I love Goofy and I got a mug from Disney World from our good friend Larry and his tribe of women. I call Tribe of Women from Sin and Clara. Yeah. Yeah. And Larry. So they came from Florida and they brought me my little goofy mug. And what else did I get? Um, my honeymoon got me lots of stuff. Lots. What else? I still have stuff coming in. Yeah, there's still stuff coming in there. Um, we don't stop celebrating his birthday until the end of the month, so I created a monster.

43:35 Yeah. Yeah. Uh, so somebody asked me, they were like, oh, wow. So she celebrates it the entire month. I said, yeah, you know, well, I mean, she deserves that. And I said, uh. I do. I do something similar. Yeah, you do. And they said, really, you celebrate for the entire month? And I said, well, I celebrate for the entire month and the week before. Yes. So my birthday lands on August 1st, so I'm naturally gonna celebrate from the first to the 31st. Yeah. But then I should also get the week before, because I was supposed to be born on July 31st. Oh. I was born very, it was like one in the morning. Oh, or like 1238 or something like that. So technically I was supposed to be born on on July 31st, so I should have those two days as my actual birthday.

44:22 And then I gotta celebrate a few days before that. So, yeah. Yeah, we do that. That's how that works. And hey, the party is still gonna continue. You guys are hearing this a week later. You're hearing this a week later? A week later. ' cause it's still fresh in our minds. We still have another. Get together this next weekend coming up. So when this drops, I'm gonna have my second party already. Oh man. You know, it never ends, man. So never. It ends. Why should it never ends? It's always, it shouldn't end. It's always one big ung. Yeah. Um, and so we ended the birthday celebration. We had brunch the next morning. We had brunch the next morning. 'cause people were flying out. People were heading back.

45:02 Some of them were driving back, some of them were flying, so we had a brunch at Pancake House Pancake Ha. And that was fun. We said goodbye to everybody. See you later. And we are planning trips to go and visit everyone. We have a. New couple from Arizona. That's definitely coming back for lots of adventures in here in Texas, so, absolutely man. And so, you know, this is, got some great people. This was really, really cool. It was a great opportunity to hang out with our listeners for one thing. Mm-hmm. Uh, you know, we have such awesome listeners out there and, uh, we don't. We don't take that for granted at all.

45:42 No. Like we have some really, really cool people in our circle. And I just, I, I, I'm so appreciative that all the people that showed out, like it was really cool. Yeah, it was an amazing weekend. You know, we were completely, there wasn't enough of me to go around around exhausted. Oh, you know, I beg to differ. There was plenty of you. And it went around, man. You went around, girl. I had a lot of fun and I do really appreciate everybody that came out and showed up. And I am very appreciative of our friends from San Antonio and this community for being super, super welcoming to our friends from out of state and out of the city that have never been to that club. You guys left a very good impression on them.

46:24 Yeah. Because they're still talking about y'all. Yeah. Um. True. So that just tells me that we're surrounding ourselves with some really good people. Yeah. So I mean, it's not just the club that we're proud of but the people that patronize it. Yeah. You know, we've always said the entire club is a vibe. Mm-hmm. Every, when you walk through those doors, it's not just the club itself, but it's the people that run it. It's the people that. Patronize the place. Mm-hmm. It's, it's the, it's the people that we get to see every ti time we go in there. Yeah. Every time they're the welcoming faces that are there. And they, you know, sometimes they're the host couples, sometimes they just help out and volunteer their time. Mm-hmm. And that's an incredible thing that they're doing. Yeah. And so, hey, you know, you really gotta give credit what credit is due.

47:07 Those guys really, really, uh, came out. They did. Mm-hmm. And it was awesome. It was, and we're planning on doing more. Events like that and trying to see where we can get a lot of different groups together, because this was just my birthday. Yeah, yeah. And we had a lot of people show up. So we are definitely gonna be in the makings of doing bigger events where we can have. More people come absolutely. With more time, you know? Yeah, yeah. And you know, everything that we plan, we will let you guys know well in advance because we know that things take time. Babysitters, dog sitters, cats, siters, dog sitters. You know, you gotta save some money. Sometimes it's not the cheapest trip to make.

47:48 But lemme tell you something, if you come to one of our parties. You don't leave disappointed. That's for sure. You do not. We know how to party. We know how to party, man. Yes, of course. Us personally, we're, we're asleep by like two so we know how to party, but it, we're not gonna stay up past two. Sorry. Sorry. Just doesn't happen that way. No. Uh, so all in all, it was an incredible weekend, would you say? Mm-hmm. I think so. Yeah. Yeah. I think it was great. That's so ha. You know, I'm, I'm glad that you had a great time. I have an amazing time. Uh, I think that's the, uh, the best part of my, my entire adventure of it. I will say that, uh, we have some interesting stuff coming up. Mm-hmm. So that was, that was our latest.

48:30 But we have an in person. It's an in-person workshop. Yeah. Called Swingers 1 0 1. Yes. That we're gonna be having at Forbidden Fruit, uh, which is our sponsor here in Austin. So I really want to bring this to everybody's attention because it is coming up. It is the first of its kind, and it's one of many that we plan on doing. But for all of those people out there who are really struggling, uh, you know, maybe have some early on questions if you're in the. Austin area, uh, on March 29th. Yes. That's a Sunday from 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM Uh, I know it's a, it's kind of an odd time, uh, if you're traveling and that sort of thing, but let me tell you.

49:18 If you show, you will not be disappointed. Mm-hmm. You know, we can, we can, we're there to answer your questions. We're there to take care of you guys. Mm-hmm. Uh, I really hope to, uh, see a lot of people out there because, uh, you know, this is what we do. Yeah. You know, and this is a lot of fun. Mm-hmm. Uh, and not only that, it's a great networking opportunity as well. You know, you get to meet other people who have other questions and things like that. Yes. Uh, so, really, really big coming up March 29th, 6:00 PM to 8:00 PM Now, if you, if that's something that you're interested in. Attending, if you're gonna be in the Austin area at that time feel free to look up www dot forbidden fruit com slash workshops.

49:58 And this guy's mug and this beautiful lady next to him, their picture shows up. And bam, there's all your information that you, you need. There you go. Uh, so I, I really hope, uh, we get to see you guys out there. That'd be awesome. And then after that we are doing the Texas Desires, uh, hotel takeover. Mm-hmm. April 11th, the, the weekend of April 11th. Uh, it's my understanding that there's only a few rooms left, so if that's something that, uh, tickles your pickle well, you're gonna have to go to our website, check out the events tab and, yeah. Everything you gotta know is right there. There you go. Uh, if you have any questions, feel free to shoot us a voicemail or shoot us an email or.

50:44 Visit our 100% anonymous beyond monogamy, confessional, where you can leave any of your stories or, uh, anything you wanna say to us. Yeah. Uh, opinions, questions, whatever, what have you, uh, you know, that, uh, is all on our awesome website that has all of our episodes. Yeah. Finger guns pay bang. Uh, not to mention our blogs that I write. And our guest bios, which if you listen to, uh, last Sunday's show, we had our awesome life with Dominique. That was a great show. But everything is there at www.beyond-monogamy.com. Lemme tell you something, I'm excited to use that. Phrase, www.beyond-monogamy.com.

51:28 It's very exciting. It rolls off the tongue. Feel free to tell your friends. Not your family. They may not want to know, but your friends out there who maybe are dabbling in the sexual arts or the non-monogamous, uh, bachelorette tell 'em, let 'em know. Say, Hey, you know, I listened to this podcast and, uh, they may be able to help you. You know what I'm saying? Yes. You know what I'm saying? Alright, guys, like he said, if you want any information about any of our events, you can find it there at our wonderful website at www.beyond-monogamy.com. Yes. And uh. We're on full swap radio.com as well.

52:10 Streaming on Thursdays at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central. So always check us out there if you can. There's also a bevy of other sexual. Podcasters that you can check out. Yeah, it's always a bevy of stars. It's awesome. Yeah. Uh, with that, we really appreciate you guys listening. I think it's so cool everybody that showed out but especially to you guys that just tune in every week. We appreciate you guys. Mm-hmm. Thank you very much and we will see you guys next week. Bye.