Episodes

n this laugh-out-loud QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we’re talking about the real MVPs of lifestyle interruptions: our pets. Ever tried to get down and dirty only to be stared down by your dog? Or have a cat walk across your back mid-thrust? You're not alone. From sex-curious Labradors to judgmental chihuahuas, this episode dives into the hilariously awkward reality of being a swinger with fur babies in the house. We’re sharing our own stories (yes, Pris once had to bribe ...

In this special guest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , the duo reunites with Jeremy, Adam’s high school friend, for a raw and heartfelt conversation about sexuality, identity, and acceptance. Jeremy, who is openly gay and outside the lifestyle, shares his unique perspective on queer experiences, chosen family, and how judgment plays out both inside and outside the lifestyle community. The trio dives into meaningful discussions about dating apps, dealing with shame, and the power of ...

📍 Show Notes 1. Opener & Trigger Quick disclaimer on mature content Adam shares being hurt by judgment on social media (a “vomit emoji” left on their celebratory post) 2. The Impact of Judgment How such reactions drive people “back into the closet” Comparing lifestyle judgment to what LGBTQ+ people experience 3. Discretion vs Authenticity Why some choose to stay hidden Prize the power and impact of openness and advocacy 4. Life-Strengthening Benefits Stories on how ethical non-monogamy has impro...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the financial realities of swinging. They discuss the various costs involved in the lifestyle, from babysitting fees to subscription-based websites, and how it can quickly add up. Adam and Pris share their personal experiences of navigating these expenses with limited budgets in the beginning. They touch on essential costs like grooming and gym memberships, and discuss strategies for managing these expenses. This episode provides ...

In this episode, Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of navigating attraction within the swinging lifestyle. They explore scenarios where one might encounter others who are friendly and engaging but whom they are not sexually attracted to. The podcast offers candid discussions on how to handle such situations gracefully without hurting feelings. Adam and Pris share personal anecdotes on politely declining advances and maintaining friendships despite a lack of physical attraction. They also to...

This podcast episode provides a deep dive into the swinging lifestyle and its personal impact on two hosts, Adam and Pris. Adam introduces the podcast by describing the concept of swinging, recounting how he stumbled upon adult magazines and discovered his father’s hidden interest in the lifestyle. Pris shares her early encounters with open relationships and her initial exploration of swinging, which was fraught with regret due to a judgmental partner. Through candid storytelling, both hosts rev...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris tackle the sensitive topic of sex work within the swinging community, focusing on the rise of OnlyFans among swingers. They explore the contrasting views on monetizing content within the community, with one side arguing that financial gain contradicts the essence of swinging, while the other supports sex work as an inclusive and legitimate expression of lifestyle choices. Pris shares her journey through various forms of sex work, highlighti...

Join Adam and Pris as they recount their journey from bumbling beginnings to seasoned experts in the art of dirty talk. In a playful episode filled with laughter and insight, they share personal stories about discovering what works and what doesn’t when it comes to bedroom banter. Initially, Pris's attempts were marked by a noticeable accent that added humor, while Adam relished in detailing scenarios. The couple discusses how they’ve learned to balance humor, imagination, and descriptive storyt...

In this podcast episode, hosts Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of managing boundaries within friendships, especially in social and lifestyle settings. They explore scenarios where friends cross personal boundaries, whether due to drunken behavior or misunderstanding social cues, and how challenging it can be to address such situations without causing embarrassment. The conversation delves into the difficulties of saying no to friends versus strangers, the importance of empowerment, and th...

Flirting can often feel like navigating a minefield of awkwardness, especially when you're unsure if your advances are welcome. Adam and Pris tackle this topic head-on, sharing their personal experiences and hiccups along the way. They delve into the nuances of flirting, from differentiating friendly behavior from flirtatious intent to managing the anxiety that can arise when expressing attraction. Through humor and honesty, they illustrate how everyone, regardless of experience level, can encou...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris explore the nuanced social, internal, and external pressures that individuals might face in swinger and polyamory lifestyles. Adam shares his experiences of feeling uncomfortable yet pressured to engage in activities, highlighting the importance of communication and consent. They discuss how saying 'no' can be challenging but essential for maintaining autonomy and comfort. Pris talks about their journey in finding the confidence to set boundaries...

Adam and Pris delve into the notion of feeling like a third wheel in intimate relationships, especially within non-monogamous setups. They share insights from their personal journey, highlighting how shifting focus from mere experiences to deeper connections has transformed their interactions. The duo also tackles the art of flirting, encouraging authenticity and intention in communication. They reflect on how insecurities can intertwine with these dynamics and the significance of compersion, of...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the complexities and joys of maintaining a passionate and evolving intimate life after 40. They discuss how aging impacts sex drive and sexual confidence, sharing personal anecdotes and insights into how their relationship has transformed over the years. From dealing with menopause and antidepressants to discovering a newfound physical vitality, Adam and Pris explore the balance of sensuality, intimacy, and evolving desires, offer...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into a listener's letter that explores the complex territory of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. The listener shares their journey as one partner becomes drawn to polyamory, eager to build deeper individual connections outside their primary relationship. Meanwhile, the other partner grapples with feelings of anxiety and discomfort as they struggle to adjust to this new dynamic. Adam and Pris, through candid conversation, sh...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris delve into the concept of an inherent hierarchy within the swinger community, often referred to as 'tiers.' They question whether such a structure truly exists or if it's a perception rooted in individual insecurities. The hosts recount their own experiences as newcomers who felt intimidated by seemingly popular community members, only to later realize that attraction is subjective. Through a candid discussion, the episode serves as a reminder th...

In this episode of 'Beyond Monogamy,' Adam and Pris delve into the topic of labels within the context of ethical non-monogamy. They discuss how labels such as 'cuckold,' 'hot wife,' 'pansexual,' and 'demisexual' can help individuals navigate their identities and desires within various relationship dynamics. While labels can be useful for understanding shared interests, the hosts highlight the evolving nature of identity and how, over time, these labels may become less significant as deeper perso...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the complexities of maintaining an active swinging lifestyle while raising a family. With five children, including four teenagers, they provide insights into the balance between personal desires and parenting responsibilities. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing family and communication, reflecting on their own experiences of navigating babysitters and family commitments. Despite the challenges, Adam and Pris advocate f...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the intriguing topic of squirting, demystifying its nature and addressing common misconceptions. With an open-minded and informative approach, they discuss the difference between squirting and female ejaculation, as well as its composition. The hosts emphasize the importance of communication, especially for those who squirt frequently, and challenge the stigma surrounding this natural occurrence. Both entertaining and educational...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris explore the nuances of emotional connections within the swinging lifestyle. They discuss their personal journey from polyamory to a more friendship-focused approach, emphasizing the importance of setting clear boundaries. The podcast delves into the difference between romantic and non-romantic connections, highlighting the significance of consent and open communication when exploring sexual relationships. Adam and Pris reflect on their expe...

Join Adam and Pris as they revisit a lively Boogie Nights-themed meet and greet that was filled with laughter, new friendships, and unforgettable costumes. Pris dazzled in her 70s jumpsuit, while Adam sported a retro tennis ensemble, sparking conversations and camaraderie. It wasn't just the costumes that left an impact—valuable experiences with meet and greet dynamics are shared, along with useful tips for newcomers. Explore their adventurous weekend, all while meeting new people and fostering ...

In this engaging episode, Adam and Pris delve into the intricacies of hot wife culture, exploring its duality as both potentially empowering and objectifying. They candidly share their personal experiences, discussing how initial participation in this lifestyle was driven by Adam's kink, while Pris initially felt objectified. Over time, she gained empowerment by making decisions about her own desires and boundaries. They explore the dynamic of mutual respect and the journey from objectification ...

Adam and Pris explore the theme of selectiveness in attraction on today’s Beyond Monogamy episode, contrasting their personal journeys and preferences. Pris reflects on her evolving taste, starting from a preference for a specific cultural background to a more inclusive view. Adam shares how his experiences of being judged shaped his preference for personalities over looks. They both discuss how these preferences play a role in their lifestyle choices, from purely physical engagements to deeper ...

Pris and Adam's conversation unveils their ongoing journey in non monogamy, focusing on newfound connections and personal growth. Pris describes her recent date as transformative, embracing attraction and connection with others outside her marriage. Adam discusses his journey to understanding the necessity of emotional bonds for fulfilling sexual experiences. Their narrative addresses past struggles with intimacy and the restrictions they unknowingly imposed on each other. Emphasizing openness a...

On the Beyond Monogamy podcast, Pris and Adam delve into the social dynamics of lifestyle events, sharing their journey from feeling excluded to embracing community bonds. They discuss overcoming initial insecurities, like being left out of private gatherings, and the efforts required to host their own events. With candid reflections, they underline the importance of remaining open and welcoming to foster inclusivity. While expressing the desire for more male-centric meet-ups, Adam humorously ac...