Kink Night at Club Eden: Our First BDSM Club Experience

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All right, y'all.

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Before we dive in, a quick heads-up This
show is raw, real, and definitely not

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rated PG We're talking about adult themes,
sexual content, and the kinda stuff you

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probably don't want blasting through
your speakers at work or around your

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kids So grab some headphones, pour your
drink of choice, and get comfy Oh, and

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just so we're clear, we are not licensed
therapists, counselors, or sex couches.

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Sex coaches.

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Sex coaches Not sex couches We're
just a couple of people sharing

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our lives, experiences, and sexy
adventures in ethical non-monogamy.

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So with that, pull up a chair and
enjoy the show Hello, and welcome to

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another episode of Beyond Monogamy.

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I'm Adam.

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And I'm Pris, and on today's
Wednesday quickie, we are gonna be

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discussing our night at the club.

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It was Kink Night.

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It was Kink Night.

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That was a very long title.

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Yeah.

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I'm sorry.

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You know, when we discussed it earlier,
I thought you were just gonna say,

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"Kink Night," but- Like, literally
a second before we turned it on.

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Yeah, but, uh- My bad … I could
see the gears moving- Everyone's

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used to- … and I was like, "Oh,
wow" … everyone's used to my- ADHD?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Um- Well … but, yes.

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So for many who do know, we obviously
go to Club Eden in San Antonio.

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Yes.

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That's one of our favorite clubs.

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That's our home club.

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That is our home club.

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Um, and on Thursday nights they
have what they call Kink Night.

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Yes.

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Uh, now I've been hearing about Kink
Night for a while now, uh, and, and

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I've been told, "Well, you know, it's
not that packed," because, you know,

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it, it gets packed over the weekends.

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Yeah.

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Uh, so it's not as big of a crowd.

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Yeah.

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There's more single guys.

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You know, I, I'm kinda given, like, this
negative spiel- Yeah … every time.

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And, and, and it… You know, "Are y'all
really into that?" And it's like, I always

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tell you, "Mm, I'm not really into, into
that," but- And it, and it's worth saying

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that kink and swinging are not the same.

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They're not the same, and-
They're not in the same realms

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I'm gonna tell you, we had a, we
had our show last, last Sunday that

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aired with the Kinky Bros. Yeah.

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And talking to them, and then
talking to you and everybody else,

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it kind of made me feel like,
girl, go and… go check it out.

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Keep an open mind.

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Go check it out.

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Keep an open mind.

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Be- and, you know, I, I think that's
one of the biggest, uh, claims when

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it comes to people from kink- Mm-hmm

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uh, trying to cross over into- Mm-hmm
… swinging, is the level of judgment,

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uh, that is- Yes … that is held.

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Yes.

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There's judgment that's held
towards bisexual men- Yes … and

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things that they wanna do.

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Yeah.

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There's, there's, uh, judgment that's
held towards people in the kink

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community- Yeah … and things that
they wanna do, towards pegging, towards

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certain clothing, things like that.

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Mm-hmm.

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Uh, and it just doesn't make much
sense to judge others in different

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communities when we're in a community
that we don't wanna be judged.

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This is a non-judgment area.

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We do not judge around here.

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We only judge the
assholes and the bitches.

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That judge That's judge Yeah.

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There you go.

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That's what we do.

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But- There you go … um, yeah, so
it was our, um, we went for a reason.

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Now, guys, this was planned about a month
ahead because- Yeah … we are super

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busy, and we had a friend that was, um,
wanting to come who is in the dominatrix.

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Yeah, she's been a dom for
about two to three years now.

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Mm-hmm.

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Uh, something that, that her and I first
talked about when she started getting

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into it, and that's when she started, uh,
scoping out some of our content- Mm-hmm

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and some of our, uh, podcasts
and that sort of thing.

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Just because it, it was, it was
a realm that was parallel to

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the- Yeah … community that
she was getting involved in.

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Yeah.

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And she felt like it was interesting
to, to learn different aspects of

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the- Yeah … communities out there.

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Um, and so she, we planned this out
a month ahead, and the day came.

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The day came.

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We were pl- we were really looking
forward to it, just because,

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uh, it's, it's so different.

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You know?

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What I realize now is over the years, even
the kink party that we went to the very

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first time- Yeah … when we first started
in the, the community, um, a lot of that

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stuff was relatively light compared to
some of the stuff that we, uh, saw- Yes

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uh, at kink night this past time.

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Now, from, from what I'm told, and, uh,
understand that a lot of the stuff that

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we saw at kink night- Yeah … that
took place, came from our friend.

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Now, uh, my friend Ronnie, we've, we've
known her for quite some time now.

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She goes by the name Mistress Vampirella.

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I wasn't gonna try to say that, girl.

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It's, it's it's a lot.

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It's a mouthful.

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Yeah.

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Uh, but, uh, this is what she does.

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And, you know, uh, she showed up to the
place dressed in a smoking hot l- what is

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it, like a latex- This woman- … suit?

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This woman had like, she had the skirt,
the, the short little miniskirt, and

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I, I wanna say maybe latex or pleather.

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Yeah, it was shiny, whatever it was.

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It was, it was awesome, and um, she has
big boobies, so she had a little corset.

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Um, it was pushing up the girl.

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Sh- beautiful hair, like-
She looked hot … hot.

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Yeah.

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Um, shoes, like, to, dressed
to the nine as a beautiful dom.

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And- Should I paint the picture of
what exactly everything that we saw?

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Like our homie came and she
brought her sub with her.

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Yeah.

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And two other friends, and so
they were on new to Club Eden.

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Um, and so of course we talk about Club
Eden all the time, and they really wanted

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to come to this, um, to this, this night.

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So we're parked there and she gets out,
the other two ladies get out, and then

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her sub gets out, and he's in a robe.

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Yeah, he showed up in a robe.

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And, and I was like, "Okay, cool."
I had to run Andy's bathroom.

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They came into the club.

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Yeah, we got to meet everybody.

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Mm-hmm.

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They came in.

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Uh, they immediately were met with, uh,
management who gave them a tour- Yeah

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of the whole facility.

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Broke down every area.

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Mm-hmm.

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Now, kink night is different in the
fact that- Yes … a lot of things

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are set up there- Mm-hmm … where
the dance floor is, my understanding.

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Yeah, so they did end up bringing
a Is it a spanking s- chair?

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Spanking saddle?

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You were in the back.

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They brought one out for the-
Yeah, I didn't really see- Yeah

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the front area- Okay,
so- … until we were leaving.

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Okay, so they brought, they
brought a spanking saddle out.

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Oh, okay.

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So a- around the dance floor, there's,
uh, little, there's chains that are

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hanging from the ceiling- Mm-hmm … that
can be utilized, I guess, when they

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have shibari and things like that-
Mm … the different things that

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they need to hang from the ceiling.

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Um, but we didn't see any of that.

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Uh, after our friends got a tour of
the facility- Mm-hmm … they came

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to the couches that we were at,
and they all hung out, you know?

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And that, understand
that we were there early.

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Yes.

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Guys, it's a Thursday night.

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It opens at 8:00.

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They open at 8:00.

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We were there at 8:30.

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Um, and by the time we were sitting
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A little after 9:00.

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And, you know, it, it was, there
was a good little crowd there.

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Mm-hmm.

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Like, like they told, told us
before, it wasn't like Saturday

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when it's really packed.

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Um, but considering what we
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was hardly anything- Yeah

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there was a good little
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I mean, we got to shout out.

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Shout out to our buddy Jordy
because- Ugh … Jordy came through.

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They, um, they knew that we
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made sure we had people there.

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And you- Yeah … if you've never been to
our club, it is the most welcoming club.

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Accepting, yeah.

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An accepting club.

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The people are amazing.

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And so we had a, we had a
few of our friends there.

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And, uh, you know, the,
they're all, all types.

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All types.

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Um, and so we hung out there
for a while out in the front.

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Um, and then after a while…
Well, you and I, you know,

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we did- We- … our thing.

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So we had to go to the
back- … and have our fun.

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Uh, but time went on and we were
like, "You know, probably gonna leave

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around 10:30. We've been here since
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10:30." Nothing had happened yet.

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Because this place, it, you know,
oftentimes a lot of the people don't

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start coming out till about 10:00.

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10:30. Uh, that's when more
people start coming in.

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Things don't really start getting
busy until around 11:00, is

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my understanding, and after.

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Mm-hmm.

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And I was like, "Dude,
we're gonna be gone by then.

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We're gonna miss- Yeah … everything."
Uh, so my lovely friend, uh, the mistress-

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Mm-hmm … basically said, "Look, I
want you guys to scope out what we got

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going on, so let's go to the back."

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Yeah.

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And i- in the very back by the play rooms.

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She tried teaching me how to flog.

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Yeah, so- And I gotta say,
that was kind of cool.

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I gotta get better at it.

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I'm not very good at the whipping
because- I want to be a dom.

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Like, I would love to do that.

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You've expressed interest in it.

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Yeah, I've expressed that.

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And so she was, like, teaching me
how to do it, and I was like…

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That was before we… Yeah.

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I'm jumping ahead because, uh-
My- … it was before we went to the

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bath … before we went out there.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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So, um, herself was dressed.

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I have never seen this
up close and personal.

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It was fantastic.

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It was amazing.

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Yeah.

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Like, he was wearing… I'm sure
there's better names for these, but

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so I don't know what, what this is all
called, but he had a full-blown mask.

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It was a leather mask.

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It had- It was almost like a sensory
mask … he, I- … wasn't it?

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Like, the, it was, I… It's
my understanding, like, he

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couldn't really talk through it.

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He couldn't really see- Because
there's something in his mouth

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or hear too much.

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It's not so much a ball.

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She said it's more like, um- Like
a plug … like a plug or like a-

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Yeah … like a… Yeah, like a plug.

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And so it's in his mouth,
and then he had it wrapped.

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And he had his eyes kind of
covered, I must… I- Yeah, yeah.

239
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Right?

240
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Everything was- And his, and his ears.

241
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Yeah.

242
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Yeah.

243
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And his ears.

244
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So everything on, around the
head was sensory clothes.

245
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He had leather, like, mittens.

246
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His hands were covered.

247
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They were cute.

248
00:10:18,894 --> 00:10:21,844
Um, he had a collar.

249
00:10:22,454 --> 00:10:25,324
He had, um, a harness.

250
00:10:26,024 --> 00:10:30,484
He was pretty much naked except for
wearing these little, like, harness things

251
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that were going all around his body.

252
00:10:32,694 --> 00:10:32,984
Yeah.

253
00:10:33,214 --> 00:10:34,164
He had nipple clamps on.

254
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He, nipple clamps on.

255
00:10:35,334 --> 00:10:37,254
He had- The cage.

256
00:10:37,474 --> 00:10:38,664
He had the cage on.

257
00:10:38,664 --> 00:10:41,014
The cage I'm familiar
because- The cock cage.

258
00:10:41,054 --> 00:10:41,764
The cock cage.

259
00:10:41,764 --> 00:10:47,404
I find that super, super intriguing
because I know of a gentleman that

260
00:10:47,684 --> 00:10:49,674
I talk to, and he wears a cage.

261
00:10:49,684 --> 00:10:49,704
Yeah.

262
00:10:49,714 --> 00:10:52,044
And I find it so freaking cool.

263
00:10:52,044 --> 00:10:54,604
My, my husband would bust
that cage in a second.

264
00:10:55,224 --> 00:10:56,614
Like, it would go bam.

265
00:10:56,624 --> 00:10:58,204
Like- I- … there's no way.

266
00:10:58,304 --> 00:10:59,364
I don't know, man.

267
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Um, so he had a cage.

268
00:11:01,104 --> 00:11:05,944
He also had… That cage goes around,
like, your balls and, and then

269
00:11:05,944 --> 00:11:07,354
your… It goes around your penis.

270
00:11:07,774 --> 00:11:15,334
He had, um… His shoes were like…
Imagine Doc Martens, very strappy Docs.

271
00:11:15,374 --> 00:11:15,644
Yeah.

272
00:11:15,684 --> 00:11:20,394
With, like, like, little round
circles that you can, like, connect,

273
00:11:20,444 --> 00:11:22,254
like, maybe laces or rope, right?

274
00:11:22,624 --> 00:11:27,284
And on his toes, on his big
toes- Yeah … he had rings.

275
00:11:27,664 --> 00:11:32,624
Like- Those are really cool … metal
rings that had, like, um… It was

276
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It was just, and it was so cool.

277
00:11:36,018 --> 00:11:40,578
Like- Because you can tie, you can
basically tie rope to those rings-

278
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To every… Yeah … and, and affix,
uh, him to not move essentially.

279
00:11:44,338 --> 00:11:44,808
Yeah.

280
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Yeah.

281
00:11:45,408 --> 00:11:46,768
And, like, there's no movement.

282
00:11:46,768 --> 00:11:50,878
So there's, um… She was showing
me there was this hook, and his

283
00:11:50,878 --> 00:11:55,928
hands are tied behind his back, and
his ankles were, were tied as well.

284
00:11:56,458 --> 00:12:01,138
And there's this hook that has, like…
You can put in your- It's got, like, a

285
00:12:01,148 --> 00:12:03,148
ball attached to it … It has a ball
that go, like… It's like a butt plug.

286
00:12:03,148 --> 00:12:04,878
And so it goes in your, in your ass.

287
00:12:04,878 --> 00:12:05,068
Yeah.

288
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And it hook- And you connect it.

289
00:12:07,438 --> 00:12:10,278
It, it's almost like it reminds me of
fishing- Yeah … 'cause, you know,

290
00:12:10,288 --> 00:12:11,648
we- Yeah … we come from a bay town.

291
00:12:11,658 --> 00:12:11,678
Yeah.

292
00:12:12,108 --> 00:12:17,668
And yeah, it, the hook part goes in your
ass, then it kinda comes out, and there's

293
00:12:17,708 --> 00:12:19,908
a, an area where you can tie a rope to it.

294
00:12:20,168 --> 00:12:20,588
Yeah.

295
00:12:20,858 --> 00:12:24,178
So I was told also that women
tie it to their ponytails.

296
00:12:24,648 --> 00:12:28,178
And so, like, when the guy
hog-ties women, the woman, if

297
00:12:28,178 --> 00:12:30,318
she's moving, it goes- Oh, wow.

298
00:12:30,338 --> 00:12:30,728
Yeah.

299
00:12:32,018 --> 00:12:38,180
I mean, this was- Probably maybe 10
years earlier, I probably would've

300
00:12:38,180 --> 00:12:41,520
been like, "What the fuck?" Yeah.

301
00:12:41,610 --> 00:12:44,060
But I was so intrigued.

302
00:12:44,080 --> 00:12:45,430
I was like, "Tell me.

303
00:12:45,430 --> 00:12:49,420
What, what else?" And she was like,
"Yeah, we have these vibrating," um,

304
00:12:49,700 --> 00:12:52,160
like… What did she ca- soundbars.

305
00:12:52,260 --> 00:12:54,150
And I was like, "I don't even
know any of that stuff, but okay."

306
00:12:54,320 --> 00:12:54,600
Yeah, she was getting into that.

307
00:12:54,600 --> 00:12:57,250
So she's teaching us how to, how to flog.

308
00:12:57,600 --> 00:13:02,680
Yeah, so she… You know, before we
went to the back, uh, she was kind of

309
00:13:02,680 --> 00:13:07,100
lightly flogging him- Wow … while
he, uh, sat there with us, and she

310
00:13:07,100 --> 00:13:11,360
was giving us lessons, light lessons
on, on the technique of flogging.

311
00:13:11,480 --> 00:13:11,610
Yeah.

312
00:13:12,150 --> 00:13:14,940
Um, and so she was showing
you and, and you were able to

313
00:13:14,940 --> 00:13:16,270
practice on him a little bit.

314
00:13:16,320 --> 00:13:18,950
Yeah, my brain couldn't…
I couldn't do it.

315
00:13:19,100 --> 00:13:21,380
My brain- And I… 'Cause- … does
not like to give pain … she

316
00:13:21,380 --> 00:13:23,310
was having me do it to you.

317
00:13:23,340 --> 00:13:23,700
Yeah.

318
00:13:24,000 --> 00:13:25,750
And I don't know what it is.

319
00:13:25,750 --> 00:13:26,200
And you were like this.

320
00:13:26,200 --> 00:13:29,500
I was like, "Uh." Like I could- I… There
was no- Like, literally, he was like-

321
00:13:29,500 --> 00:13:30,680
flick of the wrist or nothing.

322
00:13:30,680 --> 00:13:34,320
Like, like it was- Like, it wasn't
even… The guy next to us- I felt like

323
00:13:34,320 --> 00:13:37,720
such a pussy … the guy next to us was
like, "No, like this." And I was like,

324
00:13:37,730 --> 00:13:44,270
"Dude, I will punch you." And, um, but
he… Yeah, it was, um… I, I couldn't.

325
00:13:44,410 --> 00:13:45,990
I couldn't, like, do it.

326
00:13:46,500 --> 00:13:49,930
No, I, I, I struggled with it
too, and I, I think because

327
00:13:49,940 --> 00:13:51,220
y- you know, she made a, a…

328
00:13:51,800 --> 00:13:56,220
She made a great, um, I guess comparison.

329
00:13:56,230 --> 00:13:56,250
Uh-huh.

330
00:13:56,250 --> 00:14:00,810
She, she said, "Remember Indiana Jones?
You know how he does with the whip?" Yeah.

331
00:14:00,810 --> 00:14:03,530
"You wanna do it the same
way." And I was like, "Okay,

332
00:14:03,550 --> 00:14:04,740
well, that makes sense." Yeah.

333
00:14:04,780 --> 00:14:07,930
But then I still had to do it to
you, and I was looking to have a good

334
00:14:07,930 --> 00:14:11,170
night, and I didn't wanna upset you,
so I just was like, "Uh," you know.

335
00:14:11,300 --> 00:14:12,440
Like I… It was light.

336
00:14:12,540 --> 00:14:13,030
It was light.

337
00:14:13,070 --> 00:14:13,515
I was horny.

338
00:14:13,515 --> 00:14:14,520
You could never hurt me, baby.

339
00:14:14,580 --> 00:14:17,530
Um, well, hey, I've never had to
do that before, so I don't know.

340
00:14:17,530 --> 00:14:17,970
Yeah.

341
00:14:18,530 --> 00:14:23,400
Um, but once we got that under her
belt, she was like, "Yeah, let's,

342
00:14:23,430 --> 00:14:27,950
uh, you know, let's go scope out
the back area." Because his kink is,

343
00:14:27,980 --> 00:14:29,940
um, he likes to be em- Humiliated

344
00:14:30,100 --> 00:14:31,010
hu- humiliated.

345
00:14:31,050 --> 00:14:31,360
Yeah.

346
00:14:31,550 --> 00:14:32,000
Um.

347
00:14:32,640 --> 00:14:33,270
In front of people.

348
00:14:33,320 --> 00:14:34,520
In front of people.

349
00:14:34,530 --> 00:14:37,620
So that I couldn't even
wrap around my head.

350
00:14:37,630 --> 00:14:38,840
You hear about these things.

351
00:14:38,860 --> 00:14:39,890
Like, you, you know.

352
00:14:39,900 --> 00:14:41,650
Well, it's same as, as cuckolding.

353
00:14:41,700 --> 00:14:43,870
I mean, uh, the… it's the,
the- Uh, let me tell you guys.

354
00:14:43,870 --> 00:14:45,970
I was- … the humiliation-
Yeah … aspect of it.

355
00:14:45,980 --> 00:14:46,000
Yeah.

356
00:14:46,010 --> 00:14:49,120
And they always say it's a, it's a
power exchange, and a lot of this

357
00:14:49,130 --> 00:14:53,170
is a, it, it involves the power
exchange, consented power exchange.

358
00:14:53,180 --> 00:14:53,570
Yeah.

359
00:14:54,060 --> 00:14:58,970
Um, and so that was something that he
was digging about that whole thing.

360
00:14:58,980 --> 00:14:59,550
Yes.

361
00:14:59,730 --> 00:15:01,780
Uh, so we, we went to the back.

362
00:15:01,916 --> 00:15:06,366
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363
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364
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365
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366
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367
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368
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369
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370
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371
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376
00:15:56,036 --> 00:15:58,096
Okay, now back to it Back to it

377
00:15:58,263 --> 00:16:04,643
Um, she basically- Uh, led him to the
back and, and it, it… That, that

378
00:16:04,653 --> 00:16:06,173
had to have been a difficult walk.

379
00:16:06,413 --> 00:16:10,503
She, she had him with like a,
almost like a collared leash, yeah?

380
00:16:10,563 --> 00:16:11,133
Yes.

381
00:16:11,133 --> 00:16:11,923
And- And she was helping him back there

382
00:16:11,923 --> 00:16:15,793
and he was… And yeah, and they
have a suitcase, so I'm, I'm over

383
00:16:15,793 --> 00:16:19,693
here following with the little
suitcase, and everyone's behind us.

384
00:16:20,063 --> 00:16:26,143
And yeah, he's shuffling to the back, and
she gets him on one table, but then it

385
00:16:26,143 --> 00:16:28,683
was like not the right table- Yeah … so
then we moved him to another table.

386
00:16:28,683 --> 00:16:30,663
And it's already busy back there.

387
00:16:30,673 --> 00:16:34,273
Like, there's somebody, there's two
people on the St. Andrew's cross.

388
00:16:34,523 --> 00:16:34,813
Yeah.

389
00:16:34,813 --> 00:16:38,553
There's people sitting down- On the
s- … watching … on the spanking bench.

390
00:16:38,613 --> 00:16:40,533
Somebody on the spanking bench.

391
00:16:40,653 --> 00:16:45,243
Um, and then she'll, she hops him
on this table, and she proceeds

392
00:16:45,243 --> 00:16:49,533
to start tying him to the table.

393
00:16:49,543 --> 00:16:51,993
Yeah, so picture this, if you will.

394
00:16:51,993 --> 00:16:56,113
It's, uh, there's a cage, and on
top of the cage is basically a bed.

395
00:16:56,113 --> 00:16:56,173
Mm-hmm.

396
00:16:56,173 --> 00:17:01,203
And it, four corners of posts kinda go up.

397
00:17:01,363 --> 00:17:01,653
Yeah.

398
00:17:01,663 --> 00:17:05,923
And there's a ceiling to this bed
area, and you can basically…

399
00:17:06,463 --> 00:17:08,023
There's areas where you can tie.

400
00:17:08,033 --> 00:17:08,953
Like a canopy kind of.

401
00:17:09,003 --> 00:17:09,263
Yeah.

402
00:17:09,263 --> 00:17:09,783
Those canopy beds?

403
00:17:09,783 --> 00:17:11,393
Yeah, almost like a,
like a- But all metal.

404
00:17:11,423 --> 00:17:12,253
Yeah, all metal.

405
00:17:12,253 --> 00:17:12,303
Mm-hmm.

406
00:17:12,303 --> 00:17:17,393
And so, uh, she laid him in the bed
and she proceeded to start, uh, tying

407
00:17:17,393 --> 00:17:20,153
him off in s- as much as she could.

408
00:17:20,163 --> 00:17:22,553
They had- So- They had, they had a
bunch of rope … they have a bunch

409
00:17:22,553 --> 00:17:24,333
of rope, so she's tying his feet.

410
00:17:25,483 --> 00:17:29,373
Um, but she had to take off the,
the locks that were on his toes.

411
00:17:30,423 --> 00:17:38,389
And she's tying him, and then she's
tying his hands and- He's telling her,

412
00:17:38,409 --> 00:17:42,559
like, he's mumbling to her what to
do because she says, "This is usually

413
00:17:42,559 --> 00:17:44,119
always done before I even get here."

414
00:17:44,469 --> 00:17:48,179
Yeah, he normally already has it
set up- Yeah … wherever they go.

415
00:17:48,189 --> 00:17:48,409
Yeah.

416
00:17:48,459 --> 00:17:51,689
So this was, uh, her, her doing.

417
00:17:51,689 --> 00:17:52,409
She had to- Yeah.

418
00:17:52,409 --> 00:17:55,929
She had to set everything up, so
she wasn't normally used to that.

419
00:17:55,929 --> 00:17:56,229
Yeah.

420
00:17:56,419 --> 00:18:02,659
Uh, but once he was set up, uh, she
busted out with the electric wand.

421
00:18:03,119 --> 00:18:03,779
Yes.

422
00:18:04,469 --> 00:18:05,799
Now tell me, what, what
is the electric wand?

423
00:18:05,799 --> 00:18:12,689
So I, I do facials on myself, and
it's like a little zap- like, a little

424
00:18:12,689 --> 00:18:16,949
machine of electricity, and it kinda
gives you a little zappy feeling.

425
00:18:17,289 --> 00:18:21,419
So, uh, it was- Like- … told
to me before we actually did it.

426
00:18:22,139 --> 00:18:25,909
Uh, y- you remember those, those
big crystal ball things if you grew

427
00:18:25,909 --> 00:18:27,149
up in the '80s and the early '90s?

428
00:18:27,309 --> 00:18:27,989
Yeah, like you would
touch and it has static.

429
00:18:28,009 --> 00:18:30,689
Yeah, and, and you could touch it
and, and- Yeah … the little elec-

430
00:18:30,919 --> 00:18:32,609
electricity goes to your fingers.

431
00:18:32,619 --> 00:18:32,869
Mm-hmm.

432
00:18:33,269 --> 00:18:35,559
That it's basically a wand of that.

433
00:18:35,629 --> 00:18:35,959
Okay.

434
00:18:35,959 --> 00:18:38,869
And when you have it on its
lowest setting, the, the sensation

435
00:18:38,869 --> 00:18:40,329
that you get is about the same.

436
00:18:40,369 --> 00:18:40,829
Okay.

437
00:18:40,949 --> 00:18:41,309
Yeah.

438
00:18:41,309 --> 00:18:41,522
Yeah.

439
00:18:41,522 --> 00:18:44,389
Um- I was like, "Ooh, I could… I
do that on my face." And she's like,

440
00:18:44,389 --> 00:18:47,229
"No, it's different." I was like,
"No, it's, I, it looks exactly the

441
00:18:47,229 --> 00:18:53,149
same." Um, and so she, she, she's
like, "We're looking for a plug."

442
00:18:53,659 --> 00:18:58,199
So we found a plug, and she's,
like, turning it on, and

443
00:18:58,209 --> 00:18:59,709
she's rubbing it on his body.

444
00:18:59,789 --> 00:18:59,969
Yeah.

445
00:18:59,979 --> 00:19:02,359
All I can think of is
this man is wearing metal.

446
00:19:02,369 --> 00:19:03,769
Oh my God.

447
00:19:03,779 --> 00:19:05,819
I mean- Is something gonna happen?

448
00:19:05,819 --> 00:19:06,039
Yeah.

449
00:19:06,119 --> 00:19:07,269
But, but no.

450
00:19:07,369 --> 00:19:10,729
There's- And other people started,
like, looking to see what she was doing,

451
00:19:10,729 --> 00:19:12,557
and they were… She- Yeah, so- She
was really com- she was comfortable

452
00:19:12,557 --> 00:19:14,369
with- Once she started her show- Yeah

453
00:19:14,369 --> 00:19:19,009
she, she did a real good job of involving
others- Yeah … uh, to where it's like,

454
00:19:19,009 --> 00:19:22,689
"Hey, d- did you wanna see what this
feels like? I can, I can test it on

455
00:19:22,689 --> 00:19:25,309
you," that sort of… Which I thought
was excellent, 'cause she's not only

456
00:19:25,329 --> 00:19:31,209
giving a show, but she's educating people
about what she has and what she's doing.

457
00:19:31,219 --> 00:19:31,499
Yes.

458
00:19:31,779 --> 00:19:36,489
Um, which in and of itself, it's my
understanding the people at, at kink

459
00:19:36,539 --> 00:19:41,599
night at our home club have never
seen anything as hardcore- Yeah

460
00:19:41,609 --> 00:19:44,159
uh, a- at kink night- As,
as- … as, as that … as that.

461
00:19:44,199 --> 00:19:45,959
Um- Because we do see a lot of spanking.

462
00:19:46,249 --> 00:19:49,529
Yeah, and so that's why I said there's a
lo- we've seen a lot of the light stuff.

463
00:19:49,539 --> 00:19:49,559
Yeah.

464
00:19:49,569 --> 00:19:51,689
There's a lot of flogging,
a lot of spanking.

465
00:19:51,779 --> 00:19:52,039
Yeah.

466
00:19:52,089 --> 00:19:53,239
Uh, and things like that.

467
00:19:53,239 --> 00:19:55,959
You get tied to the St.
Andrew's Cross and, a- and,

468
00:19:56,589 --> 00:19:58,409
and different aspects of that.

469
00:19:58,409 --> 00:20:04,009
But what she was doing with her sub
apparently is not often seen there.

470
00:20:05,047 --> 00:20:10,467
And so she proceeds to shock him in,
in, with the wands- He loves it on his-

471
00:20:10,477 --> 00:20:14,347
… on his nipples- He loves it on his
balls … and down his, down his stomach.

472
00:20:14,357 --> 00:20:14,447
Mm-hmm.

473
00:20:14,447 --> 00:20:18,117
And then she started zapping his,
his balls- Yeah … and his dick.

474
00:20:18,367 --> 00:20:18,647
Yeah.

475
00:20:18,697 --> 00:20:24,717
Um, which, you know, I, I really, I
was fascinated by the whole thing.

476
00:20:25,037 --> 00:20:28,517
Pris and I are very
different on our reactions.

477
00:20:28,527 --> 00:20:30,987
So we're standing there with a
front row seat, like, we're s-

478
00:20:31,197 --> 00:20:32,087
literally standing right there.

479
00:20:32,087 --> 00:20:32,467
Yeah.

480
00:20:32,777 --> 00:20:34,287
And I can't stop watching.

481
00:20:34,307 --> 00:20:37,517
I'm like, "Oh, wow," and she's like, "I
can't look," and she looks the other way.

482
00:20:37,837 --> 00:20:43,017
And as he's groaning or making
noises, she's like, "Ugh." You

483
00:20:43,017 --> 00:20:43,777
know, she's making these noises.

484
00:20:43,777 --> 00:20:44,087
I'm like, ugh.

485
00:20:44,087 --> 00:20:47,497
And I had to, like, slap your leg
and go, "Hey, stop it." I know.

486
00:20:47,497 --> 00:20:52,787
I was like, "Oh, my goodness." Um, 'cause
I was… You just weren't used to it.

487
00:20:52,907 --> 00:20:53,637
I wasn't used to it.

488
00:20:53,657 --> 00:20:57,667
After a while, um- You seem to have
gotten fascinated all of a sudden.

489
00:20:57,667 --> 00:21:01,507
You, like, ma- I'm, I don't know, like,
you made yourself watch instead of look

490
00:21:01,507 --> 00:21:03,027
away, and then you were like, "What?

491
00:21:03,087 --> 00:21:04,007
Okay." Yeah.

492
00:21:04,077 --> 00:21:06,367
"Let me see this." Yeah, so I
was like, "Okay, I wanna look at

493
00:21:06,367 --> 00:21:10,277
this." Um- So she had you, uh-
She had me … take that vibrator.

494
00:21:10,277 --> 00:21:12,967
Yeah, and kind of… So she
has a, um- The Hitachi, right?

495
00:21:12,967 --> 00:21:13,417
Yeah.

496
00:21:13,667 --> 00:21:14,777
That's called the wands.

497
00:21:14,837 --> 00:21:16,027
Those, those big vibrating wands.

498
00:21:16,027 --> 00:21:17,267
Yeah, I want one so bad.

499
00:21:17,597 --> 00:21:23,067
Um, and I was rubbing it on his leg, and
he likes it, and just, you know, she,

500
00:21:23,077 --> 00:21:25,737
she rubs it all over him and whatnot.

501
00:21:26,287 --> 00:21:33,217
And then she says, "Okay, we're gonna do
the soundbar." And I was like, "Okay." So-

502
00:21:33,227 --> 00:21:38,487
In my head- I don't, I, I didn't know what
that was … in my head, I thought… She

503
00:21:38,487 --> 00:21:41,617
was like… I was like, "What is that?"
'Cause in my head I was just thinking

504
00:21:41,947 --> 00:21:47,637
she was gonna get two bars and kinda tap
them- I thought it was a tuning fork.

505
00:21:47,657 --> 00:21:47,957
Yeah.

506
00:21:47,957 --> 00:21:50,717
I, I initially thought it was gonna
be- Mm-hmm, yeah … like a tuning

507
00:21:50,717 --> 00:21:54,527
fork where… And, and they did
something, uh, kinky with a tuning fork.

508
00:21:54,527 --> 00:21:54,887
Yeah.

509
00:21:54,887 --> 00:21:56,227
'Cause, 'cause that's
what it sounded like.

510
00:21:56,237 --> 00:21:58,727
The sound, sounding rods or sounding bars.

511
00:21:58,727 --> 00:22:01,447
Um- Um, and so we didn't
really understand that.

512
00:22:01,447 --> 00:22:01,837
And she, yeah.

513
00:22:01,847 --> 00:22:07,127
But she proceeded to take out these, uh,
different size, and I'm talking these,

514
00:22:07,177 --> 00:22:07,837
these things are, these are girthy.

515
00:22:08,167 --> 00:22:12,287
They have to be as- They're
weighty … as, as thick as your pinky.

516
00:22:12,297 --> 00:22:12,577
Yeah.

517
00:22:12,617 --> 00:22:13,257
Like- Ish.

518
00:22:13,257 --> 00:22:13,527
Yeah.

519
00:22:13,527 --> 00:22:17,587
There's different diameters, uh,
different sizes, and she shows us

520
00:22:17,597 --> 00:22:21,057
these different bars and she says-
And she says … "These sounding

521
00:22:21,057 --> 00:22:25,857
rods actually go in your pee hole."
They're what breaks up kidney stones.

522
00:22:25,877 --> 00:22:26,317
Yeah.

523
00:22:26,317 --> 00:22:30,107
And so I got a great education on that,
because I had no idea what they were- Yeah

524
00:22:30,117 --> 00:22:30,897
used for.

525
00:22:31,247 --> 00:22:34,927
But initially, they're used
to break up kidney stones.

526
00:22:34,937 --> 00:22:35,207
Yeah.

527
00:22:35,237 --> 00:22:36,907
And, and that's where they came out.

528
00:22:36,907 --> 00:22:40,337
And they vibrate, but the ones
that she had needed a battery, so

529
00:22:40,337 --> 00:22:43,137
she just used, like, the regular
ones, and we made it vibrate.

530
00:22:43,177 --> 00:22:44,107
Yes, yes.

531
00:22:44,127 --> 00:22:44,677
So guys.

532
00:22:45,427 --> 00:22:45,707
Oof.

533
00:22:45,927 --> 00:22:49,167
This man, he is ta- Ooh … they've
taken out his little cage,

534
00:22:49,537 --> 00:22:50,497
and he's laying there.

535
00:22:51,197 --> 00:22:55,227
And she proceeds to lube the little bar.

536
00:22:57,137 --> 00:23:03,327
holds his penis and inserts these
into his- Yeah … pee hole.

537
00:23:03,657 --> 00:23:03,997
Yeah.

538
00:23:04,087 --> 00:23:06,227
And she's gotta inch it little
bit by little bit to make sure.

539
00:23:06,227 --> 00:23:10,767
As you twist it and it goes,
she's up and down, up and down.

540
00:23:10,767 --> 00:23:14,057
And she's like, "You can feel it at the
bottom. Like, you can't go any further."

541
00:23:14,057 --> 00:23:14,977
You know, once it reaches the base.

542
00:23:14,987 --> 00:23:17,767
Once it reaches a certain
area, you can't go.

543
00:23:17,797 --> 00:23:22,337
And so she's doing that and I… She's
like, "Here, hold the, hold the wand

544
00:23:22,337 --> 00:23:28,467
and, and put it right here so it can
vibrate." So I put that Hitachi thing

545
00:23:28,557 --> 00:23:30,757
right at his balls and I have it on high.

546
00:23:30,757 --> 00:23:32,577
She goes, "Does it go any
higher?" And I was like, "No.

547
00:23:34,167 --> 00:23:42,157
No, it does not." And so I put it there
and she's inserting these little rods.

548
00:23:42,297 --> 00:23:42,847
Incredible.

549
00:23:43,147 --> 00:23:51,843
And I was so fascinated I don't know
what sensation he got from it You

550
00:23:51,843 --> 00:23:53,703
know, we didn't get to, we didn't
stick around- We didn't, yeah … too

551
00:23:53,703 --> 00:23:56,323
much longer unfortunately, 'cause
it was, it was getting late.

552
00:23:56,373 --> 00:23:56,503
Right.

553
00:23:56,503 --> 00:23:58,563
It was, it was- I think we're gonna have
to have the part two on this show- Yeah

554
00:23:58,563 --> 00:23:59,363
because I don't know what that is.

555
00:23:59,363 --> 00:24:02,483
Like Well, y- you know, she's, she's
gonna be coming back to the club.

556
00:24:02,693 --> 00:24:02,803
Yeah.

557
00:24:02,803 --> 00:24:07,773
And I, I would like to maybe take the next
day off and just- Yeah … be able to stay

558
00:24:07,773 --> 00:24:11,273
there late and watch the entire show- Yeah
… and be able to talk to them afterwards,

559
00:24:11,273 --> 00:24:16,423
because I'm really curious about the
sensations that are involved and, and how

560
00:24:16,423 --> 00:24:18,503
it, how it feels and that sort of thing.

561
00:24:18,503 --> 00:24:18,823
Yeah.

562
00:24:18,883 --> 00:24:22,733
Um, I, I'm not interested enough to do
it, but I'm interested enough to ask

563
00:24:22,783 --> 00:24:26,243
them and, a- and find out- Yeah … from,
from the person who actually enjoys it.

564
00:24:26,243 --> 00:24:29,743
And she said, "He's taking
this too easily. I think I

565
00:24:29,743 --> 00:24:31,313
need to go a size up." Cool.

566
00:24:31,593 --> 00:24:33,663
I was like, "Oh, okay." Oh.

567
00:24:33,803 --> 00:24:34,153
Yeah.

568
00:24:34,223 --> 00:24:34,423
No.

569
00:24:34,463 --> 00:24:35,113
S- and she did.

570
00:24:35,123 --> 00:24:35,813
She tried.

571
00:24:35,883 --> 00:24:38,383
That was- Um, but it only went a very-
It was, it was- It only went like halfway

572
00:24:38,383 --> 00:24:40,903
she was like, "You know, we
haven't, we haven't worked him

573
00:24:41,043 --> 00:24:42,253
up to this size yet-" Yeah.

574
00:24:42,263 --> 00:24:44,713
"… so we're gonna ha- that's something
we're gonna have to work on."

575
00:24:45,193 --> 00:24:48,313
And I was like, "Wow, that's
incredible." I was very impressed.

576
00:24:48,853 --> 00:24:55,393
Here's the thing about it, is we, and I
mean you and me, along with many others

577
00:24:55,393 --> 00:25:00,323
who are not in the kink world, we're
kind of fed some bullshit- Oh, for sure

578
00:25:00,323 --> 00:25:01,323
about the kink world.

579
00:25:01,343 --> 00:25:01,853
For sure.

580
00:25:01,893 --> 00:25:06,153
Uh, just the same way as vanilla
people are fed bullshit about, uh-

581
00:25:06,253 --> 00:25:06,803
Swinging … the swinging world.

582
00:25:06,803 --> 00:25:07,053
Yeah.

583
00:25:07,563 --> 00:25:12,353
Uh, w- we, we were fed bullshit growing
up and throughout the years from

584
00:25:12,353 --> 00:25:16,893
television, online, people just who
aren't familiar, who just assume things.

585
00:25:17,243 --> 00:25:23,763
Uh, they, they say all sorts of things,
and until you're there and you're watching

586
00:25:23,763 --> 00:25:29,233
it in person and you're actually seeing
that this person's not being tortured.

587
00:25:29,273 --> 00:25:33,973
I mean, it, it- Yes … would appear, I-
if you're, if, if you're hearing us right

588
00:25:33,973 --> 00:25:35,623
now, holy shit, that sounds like torture.

589
00:25:35,633 --> 00:25:35,963
Mm-hmm.

590
00:25:36,003 --> 00:25:41,513
But you have to understand, this
person really gets off to that.

591
00:25:42,033 --> 00:25:47,113
They get a sense of satisfaction-
Yeah … from what they're doing.

592
00:25:47,373 --> 00:25:56,543
I, I'm not gonna lie to you, I left there
and I was like, "I would love to do this."

593
00:25:56,593 --> 00:26:02,733
So I, I actually got to watch you,
uh, work with Mistress Vampirella.

594
00:26:02,893 --> 00:26:03,163
Yeah.

595
00:26:03,163 --> 00:26:04,643
She was teaching you a few things.

596
00:26:04,653 --> 00:26:04,953
Yeah.

597
00:26:05,153 --> 00:26:09,683
And I saw the light go off in you, and
you were like, "I like this." I was like,

598
00:26:09,733 --> 00:26:15,853
ooh, because I, I mean, I have, I have a
friend who would totally be down for…

599
00:26:16,213 --> 00:26:22,013
Now, I don't know about the humiliation,
but the whole aspect of the You know,

600
00:26:22,043 --> 00:26:25,293
I, I mean, I don't know how far, but I'm
assuming, like, the flogging and all that.

601
00:26:25,293 --> 00:26:25,493
And the pain.

602
00:26:25,493 --> 00:26:26,223
And I was like, yeah.

603
00:26:26,223 --> 00:26:26,233
Yeah.

604
00:26:26,233 --> 00:26:28,613
I was like, kinda hot.

605
00:26:28,763 --> 00:26:34,613
See, I… It's my understanding
that a lot of the pain, um, is kind

606
00:26:34,613 --> 00:26:36,753
of equalized with the aftercare.

607
00:26:37,123 --> 00:26:37,823
Mm, mm-hmm.

608
00:26:37,833 --> 00:26:40,583
That the aftercare is a good
portion, but it's also headspace.

609
00:26:40,583 --> 00:26:41,853
Mm-hmm.

610
00:26:41,973 --> 00:26:45,883
So headspace has a lot to do
with the, uh, the kink world.

611
00:26:45,893 --> 00:26:46,203
Yeah.

612
00:26:46,263 --> 00:26:50,603
And where your headspace is
during, during and after.

613
00:26:50,703 --> 00:26:51,073
Yeah.

614
00:26:51,273 --> 00:26:53,193
Um, those are all very, very big.

615
00:26:53,493 --> 00:26:57,873
Now, you say that you can't do hu- the
humiliation aspect, but I think that

616
00:26:57,883 --> 00:27:00,713
if you- I mean- … had a person that
you were working with- Yeah … and

617
00:27:00,713 --> 00:27:05,113
you knew that this was something that
they really are satisfied from- I could

618
00:27:05,113 --> 00:27:06,083
do it … I think you could do it.

619
00:27:06,083 --> 00:27:06,173
Yeah.

620
00:27:06,463 --> 00:27:07,983
Knowing that it was consented.

621
00:27:08,033 --> 00:27:08,233
Yeah.

622
00:27:08,233 --> 00:27:10,413
Knowing that you weren't
just trying to be an asshole.

623
00:27:10,423 --> 00:27:10,783
Yes.

624
00:27:10,793 --> 00:27:10,813
Yeah.

625
00:27:10,823 --> 00:27:13,573
Like, you're doing something that-
It, it- … they really enjoy.

626
00:27:13,573 --> 00:27:14,113
I, I could.

627
00:27:14,123 --> 00:27:16,573
And I, and that's what I had
to, like, really think about.

628
00:27:16,573 --> 00:27:19,703
'Cause I was like, I, you know,
doesn't mean, like, I have to, like,

629
00:27:20,073 --> 00:27:23,583
spit on them or- Unless they ask for
it … you know, unless they ask for it.

630
00:27:23,583 --> 00:27:26,833
But, like, or, like, I would never,
like, throw my fecal matter at them.

631
00:27:26,833 --> 00:27:30,583
That's, those are the things that I
always, like, used to come up with.

632
00:27:30,583 --> 00:27:33,253
Like- Yeah … oh, humiliation
would be like, oh, I'm gonna pee

633
00:27:33,253 --> 00:27:36,403
on them, or I'm going to… You
know, they're gonna want me to, to

634
00:27:36,423 --> 00:27:37,933
take a deuce on them or something.

635
00:27:37,933 --> 00:27:40,053
Like, that's what I thought of.

636
00:27:40,063 --> 00:27:42,403
Seriously, like, I'm so damaged.

637
00:27:42,453 --> 00:27:45,413
Well, it, and- I'm- But, you know,
we're also fed this through television.

638
00:27:45,553 --> 00:27:45,913
Exactly.

639
00:27:45,923 --> 00:27:49,303
And years of- Exactly … of
just- Yeah … false advertising.

640
00:27:49,313 --> 00:27:49,613
Yeah.

641
00:27:49,613 --> 00:27:49,663
You know?

642
00:27:49,663 --> 00:27:54,223
And, you know, she was not… He
loves to be humiliated, but she was

643
00:27:54,233 --> 00:27:58,433
not saying humiliating things to him.

644
00:27:58,443 --> 00:28:00,873
She wasn't very- She was very kind.

645
00:28:00,873 --> 00:28:03,803
You know, she was like, "Are you
okay? How are you doing?" She was

646
00:28:03,803 --> 00:28:04,713
constantly checking in on him.

647
00:28:04,713 --> 00:28:05,023
Yeah.

648
00:28:05,023 --> 00:28:07,483
Um- She was constantly making sure
he was okay … which I was- She

649
00:28:07,483 --> 00:28:11,333
would do a little bit of humiliating,
you know, to, to- Do what he

650
00:28:11,333 --> 00:28:11,923
likes … because he likes that.

651
00:28:11,923 --> 00:28:12,463
Yeah.

652
00:28:12,573 --> 00:28:17,553
Um, but for the most part, she was
very professional, and you don't

653
00:28:17,563 --> 00:28:19,218
see that side oftentimes- I know

654
00:28:19,218 --> 00:28:20,543
when you look at porn or whatever.

655
00:28:20,543 --> 00:28:20,703
Yeah.

656
00:28:20,703 --> 00:28:23,253
You get caught in whatever
bullshit that you see.

657
00:28:24,103 --> 00:28:27,433
But that's really what
makes this so great.

658
00:28:27,443 --> 00:28:27,613
Mm-hmm.

659
00:28:27,613 --> 00:28:33,843
Is, is y- I really got to sit back and
go, "Holy shit, this is a very, very

660
00:28:34,183 --> 00:28:37,433
safe space-" Yes … for him." Yeah.

661
00:28:37,703 --> 00:28:42,703
And she's in control, and she's going to
ensure that nothing bad is gonna happen.

662
00:28:42,703 --> 00:28:42,863
Yeah.

663
00:28:43,193 --> 00:28:46,463
That things are gonna get taken only
so far, that you're gonna constantly

664
00:28:46,463 --> 00:28:50,503
be checked in on, that, that if
there's a problem, everything stops.

665
00:28:50,503 --> 00:28:50,733
Yeah.

666
00:28:50,733 --> 00:28:51,513
You know, that sort of thing.

667
00:28:51,843 --> 00:28:54,583
And I just thought that was incredible.

668
00:28:54,583 --> 00:28:58,933
And he ta- he told her
how to do those things.

669
00:28:59,303 --> 00:28:59,503
Yeah.

670
00:28:59,503 --> 00:29:05,701
Which I thought was- so amazing
because I wouldn't know where to start.

671
00:29:05,701 --> 00:29:05,821
So I would meet- Well, and you
know, they've only been working

672
00:29:05,821 --> 00:29:05,891
for t- for a few years together.

673
00:29:05,891 --> 00:29:05,901
Yeah.

674
00:29:05,901 --> 00:29:05,971
But he's been doing this for decades.

675
00:29:05,971 --> 00:29:05,991
For decades.

676
00:29:05,991 --> 00:29:06,001
Yeah.

677
00:29:06,001 --> 00:29:06,121
I think, yeah, he's had a lot
of different doms, she said.

678
00:29:06,121 --> 00:29:06,141
Yeah, yeah.

679
00:29:06,141 --> 00:29:06,211
And I was like, that's so cool.

680
00:29:06,211 --> 00:29:07,071
So I, and that's so when, when she told me

681
00:29:20,451 --> 00:29:24,111
that, I was like, "Oh, okay, well, I
don't have to come with my own playbook.

682
00:29:24,111 --> 00:29:27,211
Like, they're gonna ex- tell me
what they want and what they like.

683
00:29:27,211 --> 00:29:33,561
Like, I know what I wanna do, but they're
also going to help me." Yeah, and that's

684
00:29:33,561 --> 00:29:35,971
the aspect that you don't think about
whenever- I, yeah, no … you're thinking

685
00:29:35,971 --> 00:29:40,931
about, "Oh, I'm gonna be a dom," and,
and you're not really certain about that

686
00:29:40,931 --> 00:29:42,731
world, and you've never really- Yeah

687
00:29:42,731 --> 00:29:43,351
fooled around with it.

688
00:29:43,521 --> 00:29:46,031
You don't think about the fact
that- No … "Hey, I'm gonna sit

689
00:29:46,041 --> 00:29:50,001
here with the person that I'm going
to be doing this with." Mm-hmm.

690
00:29:50,001 --> 00:29:53,041
"And I'm gonna talk to them
about what it is you like-

691
00:29:53,161 --> 00:29:54,611
Mm-hmm … what it is you don't like.

692
00:29:54,871 --> 00:29:57,021
What's the, where are the boundaries?

693
00:29:57,021 --> 00:29:59,681
What, you know, where, what
are we consented to do?

694
00:29:59,681 --> 00:30:02,071
What is it that you really,
really want done?" Mm-hmm.

695
00:30:02,081 --> 00:30:05,551
"How far can we go?" You know, you,
you gotta take down all of this

696
00:30:05,551 --> 00:30:09,581
data, and you have to take it in,
and you have to keep that in mind-

697
00:30:09,581 --> 00:30:10,911
Yeah … while you're doing it.

698
00:30:10,911 --> 00:30:11,211
Yeah.

699
00:30:11,641 --> 00:30:16,181
And there is just so much more to it-
Oh my God, I- … than just going back

700
00:30:16,181 --> 00:30:17,271
there and beating the shit out of someone.

701
00:30:17,281 --> 00:30:19,181
I was, y- exactly.

702
00:30:19,181 --> 00:30:19,471
Yeah.

703
00:30:19,631 --> 00:30:21,621
I was so fascinated.

704
00:30:21,641 --> 00:30:26,721
I have been googling and
doing so many things.

705
00:30:26,731 --> 00:30:31,661
Mm. I'm like, I would totally- I- … be
down for that … definitely see a little,

706
00:30:32,221 --> 00:30:34,221
a little idea growing inside of you.

707
00:30:34,221 --> 00:30:38,261
I would rather do that than do porn.

708
00:30:39,391 --> 00:30:39,821
Really?

709
00:30:39,901 --> 00:30:40,271
Yeah.

710
00:30:40,671 --> 00:30:43,751
I could see m- I mean, I would do
porn, but I could see myself doing

711
00:30:43,761 --> 00:30:47,411
that and really enjoying myself in that

712
00:30:49,453 --> 00:30:51,993
As, you know, and porn
just be something I do.

713
00:30:52,143 --> 00:30:52,503
Yeah.

714
00:30:53,123 --> 00:30:53,393
For sure.

715
00:30:53,913 --> 00:30:54,093
Yeah.

716
00:30:54,963 --> 00:30:55,613
There you go.

717
00:30:55,653 --> 00:30:55,913
Yeah.

718
00:30:55,933 --> 00:30:59,743
So I guess you're gonna be a,
a, a dom as well as a porn star?

719
00:31:00,043 --> 00:31:02,633
I mean, I could be a dom porn star.

720
00:31:03,333 --> 00:31:05,823
I've seen weirder things before.

721
00:31:06,693 --> 00:31:07,003
Yeah.

722
00:31:07,273 --> 00:31:10,763
Uh, you know, all in all, I would
give it, uh, you know, the, the

723
00:31:10,773 --> 00:31:15,463
kink night, I have never been to,
uh, a kink night at a club before.

724
00:31:15,463 --> 00:31:15,803
Mm-hmm.

725
00:31:15,803 --> 00:31:21,903
Uh, I, I know that they have some, some
other kink, uh, conventions out there-

726
00:31:21,903 --> 00:31:24,833
Yes, that we will be attending … uh,
that we haven't been to before- … but

727
00:31:24,963 --> 00:31:26,753
we most likely will at some point.

728
00:31:26,763 --> 00:31:26,783
Yeah.

729
00:31:27,173 --> 00:31:29,763
Um- Because there's so
many different categories.

730
00:31:29,803 --> 00:31:30,683
There's a lot.

731
00:31:30,693 --> 00:31:33,103
Like, there's so many different-
There's a lot … like, I seriously

732
00:31:33,113 --> 00:31:34,573
have been so close-minded.

733
00:31:34,603 --> 00:31:39,833
I did not think of all the things that…
The possibilities are endless, guys.

734
00:31:40,093 --> 00:31:43,963
And, you know, it's stuff that
maybe isn't our cup of tea.

735
00:31:43,963 --> 00:31:44,223
Yeah.

736
00:31:44,453 --> 00:31:48,453
But it doesn't turn me off to it.

737
00:31:48,453 --> 00:31:51,903
Like, I, I, I am down to wa-
Yeah … we're people watchers.

738
00:31:51,923 --> 00:31:52,163
Yeah.

739
00:31:52,223 --> 00:31:58,103
100%. And I'm always down to scope out
that experience and see what it's like

740
00:31:58,103 --> 00:32:00,833
from, from a, a, an audience perspective.

741
00:32:01,173 --> 00:32:06,563
And if it looks like something
that, uh, maybe is within my realm

742
00:32:06,563 --> 00:32:08,663
of interest, I'd give it a try.

743
00:32:08,823 --> 00:32:11,363
I have a, I have a question, because
I know that you've said, "You

744
00:32:11,363 --> 00:32:17,613
know, I, I would try this because
I'm a, I'm a pleaser." Would you?

745
00:32:17,613 --> 00:32:21,873
Would you, would y- if I said, "I want
you to, to start, like, spanking me and

746
00:32:21,873 --> 00:32:26,043
I want the little flogging thing," would
that be- It would, it would definitely…

747
00:32:26,043 --> 00:32:30,703
I don't know if I would get pleasure from
doing that to you- Yeah … but I might.

748
00:32:30,843 --> 00:32:31,203
Yeah.

749
00:32:31,263 --> 00:32:31,893
See, that's the thing.

750
00:32:31,893 --> 00:32:34,223
I can't really say for sure- Yeah
… 'cause I've never done it before.

751
00:32:34,233 --> 00:32:34,253
Yeah.

752
00:32:34,553 --> 00:32:40,803
But if, if you were legit saying,
"I'm getting pleasure off of this,

753
00:32:40,863 --> 00:32:44,303
and this is how we need to do it,"
and I could see that you're getting

754
00:32:44,303 --> 00:32:46,233
pleasure off of what I'm doing- Yeah

755
00:32:46,243 --> 00:32:46,843
I think, yeah.

756
00:32:47,013 --> 00:32:47,343
Yeah?

757
00:32:47,383 --> 00:32:47,793
Yeah.

758
00:32:47,903 --> 00:32:48,523
I think so.

759
00:32:48,763 --> 00:32:49,663
I think so, too.

760
00:32:49,703 --> 00:32:53,073
Yeah, because that's what I get
off to, is getting you there.

761
00:32:53,093 --> 00:32:53,553
Yeah.

762
00:32:53,633 --> 00:32:54,083
You know?

763
00:32:54,083 --> 00:32:57,393
And then afterwards, you bang it out
a few times, you know what I mean?

764
00:32:57,393 --> 00:32:58,073
That kinda turned me on.

765
00:32:58,083 --> 00:33:02,723
Uh, now, I will say that experiences
for me, I'm trying to keep an open

766
00:33:02,723 --> 00:33:09,083
mind because, uh, y- you know, it's
tough to enter the kink world when

767
00:33:09,083 --> 00:33:14,933
you've spent so many years in a
toxic masculine type of environment.

768
00:33:14,933 --> 00:33:15,563
Yes.

769
00:33:15,563 --> 00:33:15,823
Yes.

770
00:33:15,823 --> 00:33:20,783
Uh, there's a lot of stuff in
the kink environment that you can

771
00:33:21,143 --> 00:33:24,253
tell a lot of people would sit
back and go, "Huh, I ain't doing

772
00:33:24,253 --> 00:33:25,063
that. I ain't gay." Oh, for sure.

773
00:33:25,573 --> 00:33:25,893
You know?

774
00:33:25,903 --> 00:33:25,953
For sure.

775
00:33:25,953 --> 00:33:28,493
Stuff like that, and it's like-
Yeah … dude, it ain't even like that.

776
00:33:28,613 --> 00:33:28,893
Yeah.

777
00:33:28,913 --> 00:33:29,483
You know what I mean?

778
00:33:30,103 --> 00:33:34,953
Uh, so I think that there is
a lot of stuff that normally I

779
00:33:34,953 --> 00:33:38,913
would never have thought twice to
do that I would consider trying.

780
00:33:38,913 --> 00:33:39,393
Yeah, yeah.

781
00:33:39,533 --> 00:33:40,433
I would consider trying.

782
00:33:40,453 --> 00:33:41,183
And you know what?

783
00:33:41,193 --> 00:33:44,043
Shout-out to my buddy Griff
from- Yeah … @kinkybros.

784
00:33:44,453 --> 00:33:46,563
I think I would totally
try and wear some rubber.

785
00:33:48,013 --> 00:33:48,343
I would- What?

786
00:33:48,343 --> 00:33:50,983
I would be interested in
trying to- How about the thong?

787
00:33:51,183 --> 00:33:52,293
I don't know.

788
00:33:52,343 --> 00:33:53,163
I don't know.

789
00:33:53,163 --> 00:33:54,473
I mean, I would try it with you.

790
00:33:54,593 --> 00:33:54,973
Yeah.

791
00:33:55,163 --> 00:33:58,473
Uh, but not outside the bedroom,
only because I'm just- Did you-

792
00:33:58,533 --> 00:34:00,703
not very secure of my
body … did you hear that, Jason?

793
00:34:01,193 --> 00:34:01,823
That's right, Jason.

794
00:34:02,643 --> 00:34:03,193
Looking at you, buddy.

795
00:34:03,193 --> 00:34:06,563
I mean, we have some really good
connections that have helped us,

796
00:34:06,613 --> 00:34:09,423
um, look outside of our normal,

797
00:34:11,423 --> 00:34:14,153
little minds of- Yeah … curiosity.

798
00:34:14,153 --> 00:34:18,143
Like, it's, these are things that
we've never really talked about and-

799
00:34:19,333 --> 00:34:22,793
frankly, have never really crossed
my mind if I liked it or not, and

800
00:34:23,033 --> 00:34:25,733
e- especially, you know, you either.

801
00:34:25,743 --> 00:34:29,543
Like, we've never- No, and here's
the thing that I have never really

802
00:34:29,543 --> 00:34:30,873
thought of until Kink Night.

803
00:34:30,883 --> 00:34:31,203
Mm-hmm.

804
00:34:31,933 --> 00:34:34,233
You don't have to do
anything you don't wanna do.

805
00:34:34,233 --> 00:34:34,533
Yeah.

806
00:34:34,703 --> 00:34:38,223
And we've said it on the show a
billion times regarding the lifestyle.

807
00:34:38,233 --> 00:34:38,543
Mm-hmm.

808
00:34:38,593 --> 00:34:39,393
And it applies to kink.

809
00:34:39,393 --> 00:34:40,013
Mm-hmm.

810
00:34:40,023 --> 00:34:41,963
You don't have to do
anything you don't wanna do.

811
00:34:41,973 --> 00:34:41,993
No.

812
00:34:42,003 --> 00:34:45,933
If you're s- if you're in the middle
of a scene and you're not feeling it

813
00:34:45,963 --> 00:34:49,593
or you're in pain or there's something
wrong- Mm-hmm … everything stops-

814
00:34:49,613 --> 00:34:51,488
Yeah … as soon as you vocalize that.

815
00:34:51,488 --> 00:34:51,733
Yeah.

816
00:34:51,733 --> 00:34:53,133
And it's okay.

817
00:34:53,273 --> 00:34:53,353
Yeah.

818
00:34:53,403 --> 00:34:56,243
Nobody's gonna degrade you and
go, "Ha, fucking pussy." Yeah.

819
00:34:56,243 --> 00:34:57,073
You know, nothing like that.

820
00:34:57,073 --> 00:35:01,813
It's like we're all here
for some sort of pleasure.

821
00:35:02,023 --> 00:35:02,543
Exactly.

822
00:35:02,553 --> 00:35:08,433
And what pleasure a person gets
is subjective to what they like.

823
00:35:08,433 --> 00:35:09,063
Yeah, yeah.

824
00:35:09,063 --> 00:35:11,593
And it's, it's different for
every individual- Yeah … needs.

825
00:35:11,633 --> 00:35:12,233
It's different.

826
00:35:12,633 --> 00:35:16,443
Uh, my kink, as we've said on
the past shows, is hot wifing.

827
00:35:16,443 --> 00:35:16,503
Mm-hmm.

828
00:35:16,503 --> 00:35:18,403
Well, that's definitely
not everybody's kink.

829
00:35:18,893 --> 00:35:23,513
Um- No … and, you know, there's,
everybody's got something, and,

830
00:35:23,523 --> 00:35:29,263
and I think it's fun to experience
something even if you've never,

831
00:35:29,263 --> 00:35:30,493
i- if you never do it again.

832
00:35:30,523 --> 00:35:31,003
Agreed.

833
00:35:31,023 --> 00:35:33,943
To be able to say, "You know
what? I tried that." Agreed.

834
00:35:33,983 --> 00:35:35,963
"And let me tell you about it,"
you know- Yeah … what I mean?

835
00:35:36,113 --> 00:35:36,163
Agreed.

836
00:35:36,223 --> 00:35:40,643
And I, and I feel like our experience
at Kink Night at Club Eden, uh, in

837
00:35:40,643 --> 00:35:43,223
San Antonio was a great experience.

838
00:35:43,253 --> 00:35:44,063
We will be back.

839
00:35:44,103 --> 00:35:44,963
We will be back.

840
00:35:44,963 --> 00:35:44,988
Yes.

841
00:35:44,988 --> 00:35:46,173
And you know who else will be back?

842
00:35:46,453 --> 00:35:48,433
Mistress Vampirella.

843
00:35:48,433 --> 00:35:48,443
Yes.

844
00:35:48,443 --> 00:35:50,543
She made it real clear
she loved Club Eden.

845
00:35:50,913 --> 00:35:54,973
She loved the space that they provided
for- Yeah … for, uh, for the

846
00:35:54,973 --> 00:35:56,813
kink and the- Yeah … BDSM areas.

847
00:35:57,373 --> 00:36:03,263
She loved how inclusive and accepting
everybody was, and, you know, before she

848
00:36:03,263 --> 00:36:07,643
showed up to the club, she straight up
told me, "I don't know, you know, i- if,

849
00:36:07,773 --> 00:36:12,123
if I don't have a good experience here,
I, I don't know if I'm gonna come back."

850
00:36:12,133 --> 00:36:12,153
Yeah.

851
00:36:12,543 --> 00:36:17,673
Um, but literally the next day she
sent me a message saying, "That was

852
00:36:17,673 --> 00:36:22,143
an incredible experience. The club
was amazing, and because of all of

853
00:36:22,143 --> 00:36:25,873
that, we will definitely be- Mm-hmm
… returning as often as we can." Um,

854
00:36:25,923 --> 00:36:27,293
and they're gonna be giving shows.

855
00:36:27,493 --> 00:36:28,693
So let me tell you something.

856
00:36:28,913 --> 00:36:32,703
If you're not doing anything on
Thursday nights and you find yourself

857
00:36:32,703 --> 00:36:37,063
in San Antonio, it's about 8:00,
8:30, head over to Kink Night.

858
00:36:37,303 --> 00:36:37,983
Why not?

859
00:36:37,983 --> 00:36:40,233
And go gain those experiences.

860
00:36:40,233 --> 00:36:41,083
Go scope it out.

861
00:36:41,093 --> 00:36:42,833
You don't have to do anything.

862
00:36:43,233 --> 00:36:43,853
You don't want to.

863
00:36:43,973 --> 00:36:44,553
If you wanna just watch.

864
00:36:44,563 --> 00:36:45,083
Mm-hmm.

865
00:36:45,083 --> 00:36:48,193
I- y- but there's people
around who are knowledgeable.

866
00:36:48,613 --> 00:36:50,643
There's other people there
that go to Kink Night.

867
00:36:50,643 --> 00:36:53,923
They, they bring in bags
of different things.

868
00:36:54,303 --> 00:36:57,733
Uh, you got spanked with
a spoon from Hobby Lobby.

869
00:36:57,743 --> 00:37:00,563
I got spanked with a spoon, and
let me tell you that I like that.

870
00:37:00,563 --> 00:37:01,933
So I don't like pain.

871
00:37:03,501 --> 00:37:06,791
And I don't like a man to give me pain.

872
00:37:07,061 --> 00:37:09,271
Like, I don't know.

873
00:37:09,271 --> 00:37:10,921
It's like my thing,
like I wanna punch him.

874
00:37:11,181 --> 00:37:14,151
So yeah, I, I enjoyed it.

875
00:37:14,641 --> 00:37:18,731
Yeah, you got kind of a, a cup slap from
the, uh- So what I liked was the, um-

876
00:37:18,731 --> 00:37:20,311
The, the cupping … the cupping part.

877
00:37:20,321 --> 00:37:20,341
Yeah.

878
00:37:20,351 --> 00:37:21,891
I was like, "Ooh." Yeah.

879
00:37:22,031 --> 00:37:22,661
Yeah, I did.

880
00:37:22,661 --> 00:37:23,611
Yeah, I, I saw your, your look on there.

881
00:37:23,611 --> 00:37:26,521
Yeah, I was like- And I was like, "Oh,
yeah" … "Do the other cheek now." Yeah.

882
00:37:26,851 --> 00:37:31,491
Uh, you know, we got to see other people
get on the spanking bench and, uh,

883
00:37:31,521 --> 00:37:35,781
really, you know, you could tell there
was, there was some heavy, heavy-duty

884
00:37:35,781 --> 00:37:36,511
spanking and things like that going on.

885
00:37:36,511 --> 00:37:36,521
Yeah.

886
00:37:36,521 --> 00:37:39,951
I was like, "What's their safe word?"
And, and you know, it was, it was

887
00:37:40,411 --> 00:37:45,961
interesting to watch how they came
down from that intense head space.

888
00:37:45,971 --> 00:37:46,421
Yeah.

889
00:37:46,631 --> 00:37:50,351
And right when we were leaving,
there was somebody who was just

890
00:37:50,371 --> 00:37:52,411
getting tied up with some rope.

891
00:37:52,541 --> 00:37:52,781
Yeah.

892
00:37:52,781 --> 00:37:55,971
And unfortunately we didn't get
to experience any Shibari- No

893
00:37:55,991 --> 00:37:57,001
uh, stuff.

894
00:37:57,331 --> 00:38:01,831
But- Ooh, but we are going- But … to
a Shibari thing … in November.

895
00:38:01,851 --> 00:38:02,111
Yes.

896
00:38:02,111 --> 00:38:02,711
November 14th.

897
00:38:02,711 --> 00:38:03,141
It's called ShibArt-E.

898
00:38:03,291 --> 00:38:03,641
It's, it's art, but it's also Shibari.

899
00:38:03,641 --> 00:38:03,651
Really?

900
00:38:03,651 --> 00:38:04,131
Is that what, is that what it's called?

901
00:38:04,131 --> 00:38:04,271
Yeah.

902
00:38:04,271 --> 00:38:04,411
Okay.

903
00:38:04,411 --> 00:38:06,151
Shib- ShibArt-E-

904
00:38:12,851 --> 00:38:14,311
All right … I believe
is what it's called.

905
00:38:14,681 --> 00:38:19,351
Um, and it's in the Houston area.

906
00:38:19,371 --> 00:38:19,911
Yes.

907
00:38:19,981 --> 00:38:20,411
Mm-hmm.

908
00:38:20,591 --> 00:38:24,561
And as a matter of fact, the
person putting it on, we will

909
00:38:24,561 --> 00:38:28,501
actually be having on the show
in probably the next few weeks.

910
00:38:29,011 --> 00:38:30,751
So stay tuned for that because- Oh, real?

911
00:38:30,751 --> 00:38:34,231
… we're gonna have a long talk
about Shibari, all things Shibari.

912
00:38:35,031 --> 00:38:39,021
And after that- I find that
very sexy … it's, it is sexy.

913
00:38:39,051 --> 00:38:45,271
I would love to get the whole
tied up and… I don't know.

914
00:38:45,381 --> 00:38:46,551
I don't know what else you do.

915
00:38:46,621 --> 00:38:48,821
I was a Cub Scout, so let me
tell you something, I know

916
00:38:48,821 --> 00:38:50,001
a thing or two about knots.

917
00:38:50,051 --> 00:38:50,271
All right.

918
00:38:50,281 --> 00:38:51,331
And I was a fisherman.

919
00:38:51,791 --> 00:38:55,271
So if anything, if all else
fails, every single knot I do

920
00:38:55,271 --> 00:38:56,381
is gonna be a fisherman's knot.

921
00:38:56,421 --> 00:38:56,661
Okay.

922
00:38:56,871 --> 00:38:57,121
Yeah.

923
00:38:57,391 --> 00:39:00,951
So I am interested in- Yeah
… learning more about Shibari.

924
00:39:00,991 --> 00:39:02,051
I think it is beautiful.

925
00:39:02,051 --> 00:39:04,001
It is a, it is artwork.

926
00:39:04,061 --> 00:39:04,381
Yes.

927
00:39:04,451 --> 00:39:06,181
But it's also very functional.

928
00:39:06,271 --> 00:39:06,441
Yeah.

929
00:39:06,441 --> 00:39:08,531
And, and I'm interested
in knowing all about it.

930
00:39:08,531 --> 00:39:10,961
So that is somebody that we're
gonna be having on the show soon,

931
00:39:10,961 --> 00:39:12,621
so keep an eye out for that.

932
00:39:12,801 --> 00:39:14,791
We're gonna be attending that in November.

933
00:39:15,011 --> 00:39:17,421
We're definitely gonna be talking
more about that as we go along.

934
00:39:17,671 --> 00:39:23,791
So that is really the summation
of, of all but maybe two hours-

935
00:39:23,801 --> 00:39:24,611
Yeah … that we were there.

936
00:39:24,611 --> 00:39:25,811
I mean, we weren't there very long.

937
00:39:25,811 --> 00:39:26,161
No, we were not.

938
00:39:26,161 --> 00:39:27,141
That was a lot.

939
00:39:27,251 --> 00:39:27,531
Yeah.

940
00:39:27,531 --> 00:39:30,461
And it's my understanding a lot
more happened after we left.

941
00:39:30,651 --> 00:39:32,041
Unfortunately, we weren't
there to catch it all.

942
00:39:32,041 --> 00:39:32,321
Yeah.

943
00:39:32,731 --> 00:39:39,797
Uh, but I will say this Always
know that there are many people out

944
00:39:39,797 --> 00:39:41,637
there who like different things.

945
00:39:41,647 --> 00:39:42,037
Mm-hmm.

946
00:39:42,427 --> 00:39:43,997
We don't wanna treat anybody with shame.

947
00:39:44,547 --> 00:39:48,527
We don't wanna make anybody feel
less than because they're into

948
00:39:48,527 --> 00:39:50,117
something that maybe we're not into.

949
00:39:50,387 --> 00:39:50,627
Yeah.

950
00:39:50,857 --> 00:39:54,767
This is… The kink community is a very
accepting community, and I think frankly,

951
00:39:54,977 --> 00:39:58,607
the swinger and poly communities, uh,
could take a page out of their book.

952
00:39:58,697 --> 00:39:59,117
Mm-hmm.

953
00:39:59,277 --> 00:40:02,737
And, and learn a thing or two- Agreed
… about, about, uh, not being judgmental.

954
00:40:02,767 --> 00:40:03,197
Agreed.

955
00:40:03,637 --> 00:40:06,327
With that being said, we're gonna
go ahead and conclude this show.

956
00:40:06,757 --> 00:40:09,367
Uh, thank you guys for
joining us as always.

957
00:40:09,367 --> 00:40:11,147
Just a few things before we let you go.

958
00:40:11,167 --> 00:40:16,917
Always- Always … like, subscribe,
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959
00:40:16,917 --> 00:40:19,947
review because we know you love us,
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960
00:40:19,967 --> 00:40:21,197
you just gotta put the stars out.

961
00:40:21,437 --> 00:40:26,407
And if you're listening to us on your
radio, do us a favor, go to YouTube.

962
00:40:26,967 --> 00:40:27,297
Oh, yeah.

963
00:40:27,317 --> 00:40:28,037
Check it out.

964
00:40:28,047 --> 00:40:31,277
Subscribe there, because that
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965
00:40:31,287 --> 00:40:31,827
That's right.

966
00:40:31,837 --> 00:40:32,667
That's the vidya.

967
00:40:32,767 --> 00:40:32,987
Yeah.

968
00:40:33,037 --> 00:40:33,697
That's the vidya.

969
00:40:34,047 --> 00:40:34,097
Yeah.

970
00:40:34,137 --> 00:40:40,447
Um, also, don't forget that every Thursday
at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central we are,

971
00:40:40,587 --> 00:40:43,747
uh, streaming on fullswapradio.com.

972
00:40:43,747 --> 00:40:43,817
Mm-hmm.

973
00:40:43,827 --> 00:40:47,957
You can find us there along with
a bevy of other adult podcasters,

974
00:40:48,317 --> 00:40:50,567
uh, who do fun little shows.

975
00:40:50,567 --> 00:40:52,147
You probably like somebody out there.

976
00:40:52,607 --> 00:40:53,147
Probably.

977
00:40:53,347 --> 00:40:53,947
Probably.

978
00:40:53,977 --> 00:40:54,147
Yes.

979
00:40:54,287 --> 00:40:57,057
Uh, also don't forget to
scope out our website.

980
00:40:57,057 --> 00:40:58,927
That has everything Beyond Monogamy.

981
00:40:58,927 --> 00:41:04,707
I'm talking our blog that I write,
our merch that she makes, everything.

982
00:41:04,747 --> 00:41:07,107
Uh, as a matter of fact, you
can leave us a voicemail.

983
00:41:07,377 --> 00:41:11,887
We have the 100% anonymous
Beyond Monogamy confessional.

984
00:41:11,907 --> 00:41:12,167
Yes.

985
00:41:12,167 --> 00:41:14,507
If you haven't heard of this, I don't
know where you've been listening.

986
00:41:15,747 --> 00:41:15,939
I'm sure they've heard of it.

987
00:41:15,939 --> 00:41:16,597
Because I mention it a lot.

988
00:41:17,277 --> 00:41:22,327
Uh, but you can go in there, you
can leave your opinions, a story,

989
00:41:22,447 --> 00:41:26,537
a question, whatever it is that
you wanna address, whatever it is

990
00:41:26,537 --> 00:41:30,027
that you wanna say, there is no way
that we can track it back to you.

991
00:41:30,477 --> 00:41:33,407
Uh, you can leave us this
information, and most likely we're

992
00:41:33,407 --> 00:41:34,437
gonna talk about it on the show.

993
00:41:34,437 --> 00:41:37,017
And let me tell you something, we've
already got a couple that we're gonna

994
00:41:37,017 --> 00:41:38,647
be talking about this coming Sunday.

995
00:41:38,657 --> 00:41:38,687
Mm-hmm.

996
00:41:38,697 --> 00:41:41,007
So check that out when you get a chance.

997
00:41:41,047 --> 00:41:43,397
You can see, all of our
events are on the tab.

998
00:41:43,397 --> 00:41:44,167
Totes.

999
00:41:44,207 --> 00:41:44,347
Totes.

1000
00:41:44,347 --> 00:41:46,457
All of our social medias.

1001
00:41:46,497 --> 00:41:47,287
Everything is there.

1002
00:41:47,287 --> 00:41:51,437
You can follow everything
on www.beyond-monogamy.com.

1003
00:41:51,687 --> 00:41:52,227
Oh, man.

1004
00:41:52,337 --> 00:41:52,837
I like that.

1005
00:41:52,837 --> 00:41:53,717
You said that very sexy.

1006
00:41:53,717 --> 00:41:54,247
Thank you.

1007
00:41:54,287 --> 00:41:54,607
Yeah.

1008
00:41:54,887 --> 00:41:57,327
And, uh, yeah, so
definitely scope that out.

1009
00:41:57,357 --> 00:42:01,187
We appreciate you guys, uh,
hanging out with us this week, and

1010
00:42:01,197 --> 00:42:03,127
we will see you guys next week.

1011
00:42:03,277 --> 00:42:03,757
Bye.

1012
00:42:04,197 --> 00:42:04,217
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