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May 13, 2026

How to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets Results (Stop Scaring People Off)

How to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets Results (Stop Scaring People Off)

How to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets ResultsIf you're on a swinger or ENM app and wondering why nobody's swiping on you, Adam and Pris from Beyond Monogamy have news for you: your profile might be the problem. In this Quic…

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May 10, 2026

No Clinic, No Shame, No Excuses: At-Home STI Testing with Dr. Andy Kogelnik of ProDX Health

No Clinic, No Shame, No Excuses: At-Home STI Testing with Dr. Andy Kogelnik of ProDX Health

Let me paint you a picture.It's a Tuesday. You've got a lifestyle event coming up this weekend. You know you should test. You also know that means calling your doctor, waiting three weeks for an appointment, sitting in a waiting room next to a guy…

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May 6, 2026

Press the Button: Our Raw, Real Conversation About Prostate Massage

Press the Button: Our Raw, Real Conversation About Prostate Massage

🎙️ New Quickie EpisodePress the Button:Our Raw, Real ConversationAbout Prostate MassageOne listener confession. One live Google session. One husband who might never be the same. This is the conversation nobody else is having — and we j…

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May 3, 2026

Nina Hartley on Pleasure as a Birthright, Gang Bang Planning & 40 Years of Living Non-Monogamously

Nina Hartley on Pleasure as a Birthright, Gang Bang Planning & 40 Years of Living Non-Monogamously

I'll be honest with you. When we first started Beyond Monogamy, I never in a million years thought I'd be sitting across from Nina Hartley having a genuine, deep, life-changing conversation about Zen Buddhism, gang bang logistics, and why forgiven…

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April 29, 2026

We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club — And Pris Owns It

We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club — And Pris Owns It

We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club — And Pris Owns ItLet's be honest: nobody in the lifestyle community is perfect. We talk about enthusiastic consent, pre-screening, and clear communication until we're blue in the face — and then …

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April 26, 2026

HSV in the Lifestyle: Breaking the Herpes Stigma with Courtney Brame

HSV in the Lifestyle: Breaking the Herpes Stigma with Courtney Brame

We Talked About Herpes on the Podcast. Pris Called It a "Death Sentence." Courtney Brame Changed Everything.Alright. Real talk.Not too long ago, Pris and I were brushing our teeth — glamorous, I know — and we started talking about he…

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April 22, 2026

Newbie Confessional: How to Survive Your First Lifestyle Event as a Couple

Newbie Confessional: How to Survive Your First Lifestyle Event as a Couple

We Read Your Confessional. And Honestly? This Dude Is a Hero.Every now and then, a message lands in our inbox that makes us stop scrolling, look at each other, and go — okay, this one's it.A listener found us on TikTok (hi, TikTok fam 👋), …

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April 19, 2026

Live from the Hotel Takeover: Etiquette, Chaos & Keeping Your Relationship First

Live from the Hotel Takeover: Etiquette, Chaos & Keeping Your Relationship First

We Took the Podcast to a Hotel Takeover and It Went Completely Off the Rails (Highly Recommend)Okay. So here's how this was supposed to go.We were going to sit down at the Texas Desires Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, pull up our notes, and give …

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April 15, 2026

Hotel Takeovers 101: Your Real Talk Survival Guide to the Lifestyle's Most Intoxicating Weekend

Hotel Takeovers 101: Your Real Talk Survival Guide to the Lifestyle's Most Intoxicating Weekend

Hotel Takeovers 101: The Real Talk Survival Guide Nobody Handed You at the DoorLet me set the scene for you real quick.This past weekend, Pris and I were at a hotel takeover. Not just attending — we were there working, recording a live p…

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April 12, 2026

Your Dick Has Data: Dr. Elliot Justin on Sex Tech, Nocturnal Erections & Why Most Men Don't Actually Have ED

Your Dick Has Data: Dr. Elliot Justin on Sex Tech, Nocturnal Erections & Why Most Men Don't Actually Have ED

We've covered a lot of ground on this show. Threesomes, jealousy, rules for the lifestyle, swinger parties, opening your marriage, all of it. But this week? We entered territory neither of us expected: the world of sexual health data, wearable techn…

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April 8, 2026

The Emotional Labor of the Lifestyle: Who's Really Doing the Work?

The Emotional Labor of the Lifestyle: Who's Really Doing the Work?

Emotional Labor in the Lifestyle: Who's Really Doing the Work?Nobody talks about this part. Everyone's out here hyped about the fun stuff — the dates, the connections, the experiences — but zero people are posting about what goes into …

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April 5, 2026

Susan Bratton on Expanded Orgasms, Sexual Biohacking, and the STI Testing Protocol Every Lifestyle Couple Needs

Susan Bratton on Expanded Orgasms, Sexual Biohacking, and the STI Testing Protocol Every Lifestyle Couple Needs

She Can Come for Hours. We Talked About It. — Susan Bratton on Beyond MonogamyLet me just say upfront — I've had a lot of great conversations on this show. But this one? This one had me walking away from the mic thinking, "Why the hell…

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April 1, 2026

Is a Couple's Play Partner Off Limits? The Etiquette Nobody Talks About — Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE

Is a Couple's Play Partner Off Limits? The Etiquette Nobody Talks About — Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE

So You Met a Couple's Play Partner and You're Into Them. Now What?Somebody hit us up with a situation that is so real, so common, and so rarely talked about that I had to read the message twice just to make sure I wasn't making it up.Here's what…

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March 29, 2026

Single Fellas in the Lifestyle: We Owe You an Apology

Single Fellas in the Lifestyle: We Owe You an Apology

Single Fellas in the Lifestyle: We Owe You an Apology (Kind Of)Alright, let's do this. This week's episode hit differently, not just because I was fighting through strep throat the entire time — seriously, if I sound like a gravel-voiced fro…

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March 25, 2026

Red Flags & Green Flags in the Swinging Lifestyle

Red Flags & Green Flags in the Swinging Lifestyle

Red Flags, Green Flags, and Pris Calling Herself La Toxica — Wednesday QUICKIE RecapIf you caught our recent SDC live webinar, you already know things got spicy when the topic of red flags and green flags came up. Well, we weren't done. Not …

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March 22, 2026

Pris Turns 48: Birthday Bashes, Club Eden, and the Gang Bang She Asked For Out Loud

Pris Turns 48: Birthday Bashes, Club Eden, and the Gang Bang She Asked For Out Loud

Forty-eight years on this planet. Forty-eight years of being absolutely that girl. And Priscilla celebrated every single one of them this past weekend — across two cities, multiple restaurants, one sushi dinner that turned into a gang bang…

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March 18, 2026

Pregnancy in the Lifestyle: Fetishes, Scares & the Conversations You Need to Have

Pregnancy in the Lifestyle: Fetishes, Scares & the Conversations You Need to Have

Pregnancy in the Lifestyle: Fetishes, Scares & the Conversations You Need to HaveLet's just jump right in, shall we? Pregnancy in the lifestyle. Not exactly the topic you'd expect to come up over a couple of cocktails at a hotel takeover &mdas…

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March 15, 2026

Polyamory, Marriage, and Dating Women: How Real Non-Monogamous Relationships Work

Polyamory, Marriage, and Dating Women: How Real Non-Monogamous Relationships Work

Polyamory, Marriage, and Dating Women: How Real Non-Monogamous Relationships WorkOne of the most common things people ask when they hear about ethical non-monogamy is:“Okay but… how does that actually work?”Not the fantasy v…

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March 11, 2026

How to Last Longer in Bed: Real Tips for Men (That Actually Work)

How to Last Longer in Bed: Real Tips for Men (That Actually Work)

So… You Want to Last Longer in Bed?Let’s be honest.This is one of those questions that about 90% of men have Googled… but only about 5% are brave enough to ask out loud.And lucky for you, one of our listeners did exactly th…

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March 8, 2026

Is There an Age Limit in the Swinger Lifestyle?

Is There an Age Limit in the Swinger Lifestyle?

Is There an Age Limit in the Swinger Lifestyle?Let’s talk about something that a LOT of people think about… but almost nobody says out loud.Am I too old for the lifestyle?Seriously.This question comes up constantly.And not jus…

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March 4, 2026

Red Flags, Road Trips & Jealousy: Welcome to the Real Lifestyle

Red Flags, Road Trips & Jealousy: Welcome to the Real Lifestyle

Red Flags, Road Trips & Jealousy: Welcome to the Real LifestyleAlright y’all.If you’ve ever thought the lifestyle works like Uber Eats for sex — this episode might sting a little.Because sometimes… fantasy and real…

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March 1, 2026

How to Start the Swinging Conversation + Lifestyle Rejection Real Talk

How to Start the Swinging Conversation + Lifestyle Rejection Real Talk

Let me tell you something.There are two conversations that will absolutely rock a relationship:1) “We need to talk about money.”2) “So… how would you feel about possibly having sex with other people?”One of those…

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Feb. 25, 2026

Judged for Ethical Non-Monogamy? How to Handle Critics, Bullies & Moral Authority

Judged for Ethical Non-Monogamy? How to Handle Critics, Bullies & Moral Authority

Oh You’re the Moral Authority Now?Let’s talk about judgment.Not the cute kind. Not the “hmm I don’t like those shoes” kind.I’m talking about the full-blown, preachy, keyboard-warrior, “I could NEVER do…

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Feb. 22, 2026

Cheating vs Ethical Non-Monogamy: Honesty, Jealousy & Modern Dating Culture

Cheating vs Ethical Non-Monogamy: Honesty, Jealousy & Modern Dating Culture

Cheating, “Micro-Cheating,” and Why Ethics Matter More Than LabelsAlright y’all… today’s episode came from one of those moments where parenting, relationships, and modern dating culture all decide to pull up a chair …

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