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July 1, 2026

When They Only Want Your Spouse (And Not You) | Beyond Monogamy Quickie

When They Only Want Your Spouse (And Not You) | Beyond Monogamy Quickie

When They Want Your Spouse and Not You: A Lifestyle Rite of Passage Nobody Warned You AboutAh yes. You've done everything right. You picked the perfect outfit. You drove 30 minutes in traffic. You sat down at the restaurant, smiled your most cha…

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June 28, 2026

Sexual Shame, Religious Trauma & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer

Sexual Shame, Religious Trauma & Ethical Non-Monogamy with Sex Therapist Natasha Helfer

We Talked to the Sex Therapist Who Got Kicked Out of Her Church for Talking About Sex (And It Was EVERYTHING)Let's just say this right off the bat: if you have ever felt like your body was a sin, your desires were a disease, or your sex drive was …

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June 23, 2026

Pressure in the Lifestyle: Are You Pushing Your Partner Too Far?

Pressure in the Lifestyle: Are You Pushing Your Partner Too Far?

Pressure: The Word Nobody in the Lifestyle Wants to Say Out Loud (But We're Saying It)Welcome back to another Wednesday Quickie, where we squeeze all the things we probably shouldn't say into a compact little episode and then release it into the w…

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June 21, 2026

Inside Naughty N'Awlins: The World's Largest Lifestyle Event with Founder Bob Hannaford

Inside Naughty N'Awlins: The World's Largest Lifestyle Event with Founder Bob Hannaford

We Asked the Man Who Built the World's Largest Lifestyle Event to Explain Himself. He Did. Brilliantly.Look, we've covered a lot of ground on this show. We've talked about jealousy, consent, threesomes gone sideways, and one truly unforgettable …

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June 17, 2026

Accidentally Recorded Our Realest Poly Conversation

Accidentally Recorded Our Realest Poly Conversation

The Guest Ghosted. The Mics Were Hot. And Somehow This Became One of Our Best Episodes.Let us set the scene for you. It's a normal recording day at Beyond Monogamy HQ (aka the spare bedroom that smells faintly of candles and questionable decisions…

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June 14, 2026

The Evolution of Pris: How 18 Months & An Open Mind Changed Everything

The Evolution of Pris: How 18 Months & An Open Mind Changed Everything

She Came In With Rules. She Left With Receipts. The Evolution of Pris Has Arrived.When Beyond Monogamy launched a year and a half ago, Pris walked into that first episode like a woman who had done the math, signed the forms, and laminated her bo…

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June 10, 2026

Double Confessional: Lifestyle Roleplay Tips + Is Your Swinger Actually Poly?

Double Confessional: Lifestyle Roleplay Tips + Is Your Swinger Actually Poly?

Double Confessional: Roleplay in a Houston Bar, Hotel Takeover Nerves, and "Wait… Is My Fiancé Actually Poly?"Welcome back to the confessional booth, baby. We pulled out two anonymous submissions this week that were honestly too go…

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June 7, 2026

Polyamory Meets Swinging: Multiamory's Dedeker, Jase & Emily On Unicorn Hunters, Jealousy & Where ENM Communities Collide

Polyamory Meets Swinging: Multiamory's Dedeker, Jase & Emily On Unicorn Hunters, Jealousy & Where ENM Communities Collide

Poly Meets Lifestyle: We Finally Sat Down With Multiamory and It Did Not DisappointLook, we've been doing this show for a while now. We've talked to swingers, educators, coaches, couples who've been through it all and somehow come out smiling. But…

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June 3, 2026

When Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No

When Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No

When Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No: A Quickie That Hits DifferentLet's just get right into it: you and your partner talked it through. You had the conversation. You agreed on what was on the table and what wasn't. You felt good. Yo…

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May 31, 2026

Myrina & Tristan of The Accidental Swingers on Jealousy, Aging, and Naughty Nawlins

Myrina & Tristan of The Accidental Swingers on Jealousy, Aging, and Naughty Nawlins

We Had The Accidental Swingers On The Show and Honestly, We're Not the Same People We Were BeforeLet's just start here: if you are new to the lifestyle, there is a very good chance that Myrina and Tristan from The Accidental Swingers podcast wer…

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May 27, 2026

Killer Pussy: The Night a Lifestyle Club Visit Ended in an Ambulance

Killer Pussy: The Night a Lifestyle Club Visit Ended in an Ambulance

Killer Pussy: The Night a Lifestyle Club Visit Ended in an AmbulanceA Beyond Monogamy Quickie | Hosted by Adam & PrisWe need to have a little talk.Every now and then, a night in the lifestyle goes so spectacularly off-script that you have …

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May 24, 2026

More Than Monogamy: The ENM Documentary That Actually Gets It Right

More Than Monogamy: The ENM Documentary That Actually Gets It Right

More Than Monogamy: The ENM Documentary That Actually Gets It RightLet's be honest. If you've spent any time in the ethical non-monogamy world, you've probably sat through at least one documentary, web series, or TV special that made you want to…

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May 20, 2026

Wandering Aimlessly: Jealousy, Bi Curiosity & the ENM Newbie Survival Guide

Wandering Aimlessly: Jealousy, Bi Curiosity & the ENM Newbie Survival Guide

Wandering Aimlessly: Jealousy, Bi Curiosity & the ENM Newbie Survival Guide (A Quickie That Hits Home)Another week, another confessional that made Adam stop dead in his tracks mid-Disney-vacation and say, "Oh yeah. We're doing a Quickie on t…

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May 17, 2026

Disney World, Swingers, and a Wild Night at the Florida Tree House Lifestyle Club

Disney World, Swingers, and a Wild Night at the Florida Tree House Lifestyle Club

Disney World, Swingers, and a Wild Night at the Florida Tree House Lifestyle ClubWhat happens when a couple who hosts an ethical non-monogamy podcast takes a family vacation to Disney World and somehow ends up at a hidden lifestyle club on private…

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May 13, 2026

How to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets Results (Stop Scaring People Off)

How to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets Results (Stop Scaring People Off)

How to Build a Swinger & ENM Profile That Actually Gets ResultsIf you're on a swinger or ENM app and wondering why nobody's swiping on you, Adam and Pris from Beyond Monogamy have news for you: your profile might be the problem. In this Quic…

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May 10, 2026

No Clinic, No Shame, No Excuses: At-Home STI Testing with Dr. Andy Kogelnik of ProDX Health

No Clinic, No Shame, No Excuses: At-Home STI Testing with Dr. Andy Kogelnik of ProDX Health

Let me paint you a picture.It's a Tuesday. You've got a lifestyle event coming up this weekend. You know you should test. You also know that means calling your doctor, waiting three weeks for an appointment, sitting in a waiting room next to a guy…

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May 6, 2026

Press the Button: Our Raw, Real Conversation About Prostate Massage

Press the Button: Our Raw, Real Conversation About Prostate Massage

🎙️ New Quickie EpisodePress the Button:Our Raw, Real ConversationAbout Prostate MassageOne listener confession. One live Google session. One husband who might never be the same. This is the conversation nobody else is having — and we j…

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May 3, 2026

Nina Hartley on Pleasure as a Birthright, Gang Bang Planning & 40 Years of Living Non-Monogamously

Nina Hartley on Pleasure as a Birthright, Gang Bang Planning & 40 Years of Living Non-Monogamously

I'll be honest with you. When we first started Beyond Monogamy, I never in a million years thought I'd be sitting across from Nina Hartley having a genuine, deep, life-changing conversation about Zen Buddhism, gang bang logistics, and why forgiven…

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April 29, 2026

We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club — And Pris Owns It

We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club — And Pris Owns It

We Skipped Consent at a Lifestyle Club — And Pris Owns ItLet's be honest: nobody in the lifestyle community is perfect. We talk about enthusiastic consent, pre-screening, and clear communication until we're blue in the face — and then …

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April 26, 2026

HSV in the Lifestyle: Breaking the Herpes Stigma with Courtney Brame

HSV in the Lifestyle: Breaking the Herpes Stigma with Courtney Brame

We Talked About Herpes on the Podcast. Pris Called It a "Death Sentence." Courtney Brame Changed Everything.Alright. Real talk.Not too long ago, Pris and I were brushing our teeth — glamorous, I know — and we started talking about he…

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April 22, 2026

Newbie Confessional: How to Survive Your First Lifestyle Event as a Couple

Newbie Confessional: How to Survive Your First Lifestyle Event as a Couple

We Read Your Confessional. And Honestly? This Dude Is a Hero.Every now and then, a message lands in our inbox that makes us stop scrolling, look at each other, and go — okay, this one's it.A listener found us on TikTok (hi, TikTok fam 👋), …

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April 19, 2026

Live from the Hotel Takeover: Etiquette, Chaos & Keeping Your Relationship First

Live from the Hotel Takeover: Etiquette, Chaos & Keeping Your Relationship First

We Took the Podcast to a Hotel Takeover and It Went Completely Off the Rails (Highly Recommend)Okay. So here's how this was supposed to go.We were going to sit down at the Texas Desires Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, pull up our notes, and give …

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April 15, 2026

Hotel Takeovers 101: Your Real Talk Survival Guide to the Lifestyle's Most Intoxicating Weekend

Hotel Takeovers 101: Your Real Talk Survival Guide to the Lifestyle's Most Intoxicating Weekend

Hotel Takeovers 101: The Real Talk Survival Guide Nobody Handed You at the DoorLet me set the scene for you real quick.This past weekend, Pris and I were at a hotel takeover. Not just attending — we were there working, recording a live p…

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April 12, 2026

Your Dick Has Data: Dr. Elliot Justin on Sex Tech, Nocturnal Erections & Why Most Men Don't Actually Have ED

Your Dick Has Data: Dr. Elliot Justin on Sex Tech, Nocturnal Erections & Why Most Men Don't Actually Have ED

We've covered a lot of ground on this show. Threesomes, jealousy, rules for the lifestyle, swinger parties, opening your marriage, all of it. But this week? We entered territory neither of us expected: the world of sexual health data, wearable techn…

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