Somebody said it again this week. Somebody always says it. Adam went to give the disclaimer — the one where he explains that he and Pris are not, in fact, licensed relationship professionals — and what came out of his mouth was “we are not licensed …
Every couple in the swinger lifestyle has an origin story. Some are sexy. Some are sweet. Ours involves a Halloween party, way too much alcohol, a bedroom door closing in Adam's face, and a full year of "wait, are we actually doing this?" conversati…
There are birthdays, and then there are swinger lifestyle birthdays. One involves a grocery-store sheet cake and a card signed by coworkers you barely know. The other involves free sopapillas, THC lemonade, a friend with a literal bag of toys, and a…
The Barber Who Accidentally Booked This Episode Every great episode starts somewhere. This one started in a barber's chair. Adam went in for a cleanup, and mid-fade his barber — a loyal listener, bless his heart — confessed he had absolutely no ide…
Every swinger has a home club the way every churchgoer has a home parish — except ours has a St. Andrew's cross, a porn room, and significantly better fries. On this week's Wednesday QUICKIE, we're finally doing the episode people keep asking for: a…
Before we get into it: yes, Adam's arms are that white on camera. Translucent, really. He described the two of us as "Michael Jackson before and after," which is exactly the kind of loving spousal support this podcast is built on. Also, for the reco…
There are words you weren't allowed to say at the dinner table. Adam learned that at age five, when — armed with nothing but HBO and total confusion — he called his oldest sister a "barnyard slut" over dinner because he thought it had something to d…
Kink 101: Fetish vs. Kink, Power Exchange & Hot Wifing (feat. The Kink Consultant) Let's just get this out of the way first: Adam almost called our guest a "sex couch" instead of a "sex coach." We didn't edit it out because honestly, at this point,…
The Great Hand-Squeeze Heist: Surviving In-the-Moment Jealousy Without Losing Your Cool (Or Your Cocktail) Picture it: you're at a meet-and-greet, drink in hand, having a genuinely great time. Your partner is out there being their fabulous, flirty,…
The Orgasm Gap in the Lifestyle: Why She Comes at Home But Not at the Club Let's set the scene. You and your husband have been in the lifestyle for a year. You've been with over a dozen people — men, women, all of the above. You are, by every measu…
Broke, Stressed & Still Swinging: The Episode We Didn't Plan to Make Let's be honest. Nobody starts a sex-positive podcast thinking, "You know what would make GREAT content? Being completely broke." And yet, here we are. Welcome to the most relatab…
Stirling Cooper Walked So Your Sex Life Could Run — Beyond Monogamy Episode Recap We need to talk about this episode. Like, really talk about it. Because somewhere between "orgasm-induced narcolepsy" and "the celery trick that changes your semen …
When They Want Your Spouse and Not You: A Lifestyle Rite of Passage Nobody Warned You About Ah yes. You've done everything right. You picked the perfect outfit. You drove 30 minutes in traffic. You sat down at the restaurant, smiled your most cha…
We Talked to the Sex Therapist Who Got Kicked Out of Her Church for Talking About Sex (And It Was EVERYTHING) Let's just say this right off the bat: if you have ever felt like your body was a sin, your desires were a disease, or your sex drive was …
Pressure: The Word Nobody in the Lifestyle Wants to Say Out Loud (But We're Saying It) Welcome back to another Wednesday Quickie, where we squeeze all the things we probably shouldn't say into a compact little episode and then release it into the w…
We Asked the Man Who Built the World's Largest Lifestyle Event to Explain Himself. He Did. Brilliantly. Look, we've covered a lot of ground on this show. We've talked about jealousy, consent, threesomes gone sideways, and one truly unforgettable …
The Guest Ghosted. The Mics Were Hot. And Somehow This Became One of Our Best Episodes. Let us set the scene for you. It's a normal recording day at Beyond Monogamy HQ (aka the spare bedroom that smells faintly of candles and questionable decisions…
She Came In With Rules. She Left With Receipts. The Evolution of Pris Has Arrived. When Beyond Monogamy launched a year and a half ago, Pris walked into that first episode like a woman who had done the math, signed the forms, and laminated her bo…
Double Confessional: Roleplay in a Houston Bar, Hotel Takeover Nerves, and "Wait… Is My Fiancé Actually Poly?" Welcome back to the confessional booth, baby. We pulled out two anonymous submissions this week that were honestly too good — and too d…
Poly Meets Lifestyle: We Finally Sat Down With Multiamory and It Did Not Disappoint Look, we've been doing this show for a while now. We've talked to swingers, educators, coaches, couples who've been through it all and somehow come out smiling. But…
When Your Body Says Yes But Your Agreement Said No: A Quickie That Hits Different Let's just get right into it: you and your partner talked it through. You had the conversation. You agreed on what was on the table and what wasn't. You felt good. Yo…
We Had The Accidental Swingers On The Show and Honestly, We're Not the Same People We Were Before Let's just start here: if you are new to the lifestyle, there is a very good chance that Myrina and Tristan from The Accidental Swingers podcast wer…
Killer Pussy: The Night a Lifestyle Club Visit Ended in an Ambulance A Beyond Monogamy Quickie | Hosted by Adam & Pris We need to have a little talk. Every now and then, a night in the lifestyle goes so spectacularly off-script that you have no c…
More Than Monogamy: The ENM Documentary That Actually Gets It Right Let's be honest. If you've spent any time in the ethical non-monogamy world, you've probably sat through at least one documentary, web series, or TV special that made you want to…
