Sex Work, Swinging, & Gooning: Rae's Real Talk On The Lifestyle

0:07 Alright y'all, before we dive in, a quick heads up. This show is raw, real, and definitely not rated pg. We're talking about adult themes, sexual content, and the kind of stuff you probably don't want blasting through your speakers at work or around your kits. So grab some headphones, pour your drink of choice and get comfy. Oh, and just so we're clear, we are not licensed therapists, counselors, or sex. Couches. Sex coaches. Sex coaches, not sex couches or just a couple of people sharing our lives, experiences and sexy adventures.

0:47 An ethical non-monogamy. So with that, pull up a chair and enjoy the show. And. Hello and welcome to another episode of Beyond Monogamy. I'm Adam. And I'm Pris. And today, as you can see, if you are watching the show, there is an incredibly sexy woman that is here at our table. No, we did not meet her out in the parking lot, although we did technically kind of meet her out in the parking lot. Uh, we have a, a wonderful opportunity to do a show with what I've been hoping to do, a show with a content creator who is in the lifestyle. Mm-hmm. And then also. A new person to the lifestyle. Mm-hmm. So this is like, a couple of different angles that I really wanted to get on.

1:28 So we would like to welcome Rae to the show. Welcome to the show. Thank you. Thank you. Welcome to the show. Now, you know, I, I'm curious as far as, you're really new to the lifestyle, right? Oh, very, very new. Um, I. Became single again on August 1st of this year. Okay. Oh wow. Okay then. That's my birthday. It is. Mm-hmm. Happy, happy belated, mega belated. Thank you. Um, but I, first, I'm trying to remember, oh yeah. A neighbor of mine actually, that I was messing around with randomly on a Wednesday. He was like, let's go to this place called TPC. I was like, let's go. And I didn't know what it was really. And uh, ever since then I was like, oh, I kind of feel at home.

2:11 It just worked. Yeah, it just happened and I was like, oh, I think this is what I've been missing. And I'm just very new to it. And most of the events I've been to have been at the Pineapple House, which y'all interviewed. Yeah. Yeah. Um, and I've loved it ever since, but I am very new. That's where we met you to less 10 less than 10 events. So that's Oh, wow. Wow. Less than 10 events. Yes. And you know, I would've never guessed that. 'cause when we met you at the party. You just fit in. Yeah. Very comfortable. Like a fat kid in a candy store. Like I mean, you were there and I would've never guessed that you were new until you told us thank you. That actually means a lot to me. 'cause like every single time I go there granted, y'all got me two wine glasses in, so I'm That's okay.

2:52 I'm much. Social butterfly, but I was, every time I go I'm just like nervous. Yeah. Yeah. It is nerve wracking. Yeah. I get that. Oh, especially as a, as still get nervous. A single woman. Yeah. I'm not even going to as a couple. Yeah. Like that's, that's very nerve wracking because you are the, what everyone looks for. And what everyone kind of like is like, hey, trying to get your attention and stuff. Yeah. So, yeah. That, oh man. When you walked into the house mm-hmm. When we met you, like all eyes were on you. Yeah. Like in a good way. Yeah. And it's just one of those things you just kind of command the attention when you walk in. It's like, whoa. Who's that? That's good. You heard the record Scratch movies. Everybody just kind of looked back. Alright, now they're too loud. Did I do the dumb, did I do the the silly face though?

3:32 Yeah. You're on. Yeah. No. So. I think it's really cool that you're new in the lifestyle. Mm-hmm. We're gonna explore more of that, but I actually want to talk about your content creation. Yeah, absolutely. Um, because we have freshly discovered you and yeah. It's kind of cool, like, I gotta say one the stuff that I followed, you're freaking hilarious, man. You're so fun. Or thank you, like you're a hard time taking compliments, but that is such really sweet. Thank you. Yeah. I try to be as authentic as I can on that for sure. And it really does show shows, you know, kind of gives us a, an idea of just kind of that free wielding personality of like, this is me take it or leave it, you know, kind of trash talk in, but also like, yes, there is a little bit of tea on there.

4:14 I have my whole tea highlight on Yeah, both men and women, including. Him like a, everyone seems to really like those. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. It's fun. When, when did you start making content? Um, so I started making content at 19. Okay. Which is very young. Yeah. Um, and honestly, most people like who do it at that age, like they're just trying to get out of bad situation. They're just trying to move out. And that's what I did, and then I did it and. It just all kind of fell into place and I was like, this is actually, I'm kind of good at this. Like I kind of understand the schedule and I've always really struggled with that regular nine to five work schedule. Mm-hmm. And so it just kind of worked out and I've been doing it ever since.

4:56 So it's like end of 2019, beginning of 2020. Wow. So it was especially booming. 'cause during the pandemic, everyone was. Beating off. And so, uh, and that's like when OnlyFans was really booming. But yeah, it's been a while. That's when I started. Yeah. And then I got off and then I came back. Well, it's, you started much earlier before that. Yeah. But we, we revamped it. Wow. That's cool. Yeah. So, so when you started, was there. Was there a theme when you first started or was it kind of like, let me just kind of figure this out and see where I go with it? Oh man. So for my age at the time I'm sure y'all remember like on TikTok and really everywhere else, that e girl, that was the thing.

5:36 So the E girl, the gamer girl, the whatever. Oh, okay. And I already kind of fit that and that was like the huge, gooning trend on TikTok was, yeah. You know, the silly, like mega blush, big eyeliner, the freckles, the pigtails, the gamer headset. Mm-hmm. That was the thing. And that was already what I was already kind of like at that time. So I just, it just all worked out. 'cause I was like, oh, let just get into this trend. Yeah. And it just. Took ahead. It just happened there, huh? Yeah, it was, I was pretty lucky, honestly, the way that it all panned out. It's so cool. Yeah. That's interesting. Now, as a content creator, and this is the part that I'm always curious about mm-hmm. Because what platforms are you on first off?

6:17 Like your social medias and that sort of stuff. I just have Instagram, TikTok, my Twitter. I have to, you know, as y'all know, with TikTok guidelines. Yeah. Honestly, my TikTok is less promotional. It's really just kind of to shit posts and for people to see different sign me. Um, it's really my Instagram that I, am trying to drive traffic to, but it's just Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, and OnlyFans. OnlyFans. Yeah. Right on. That's awesome. Yeah. Only on OnlyFans. Yeah. Right on. That's cool. And on, well, on, on, I haven't like. Delved into your OnlyFans. Yeah. Is it more, is it a lot of your solo content? Are you, are you dressed up? Is it like cosplay and stuff like that? Yeah, so that's kind of my niche is cosplaying.

6:57 I've always loved cosplaying. I think that it's, I love makeup and so, you know, getting suggestions from, for characters and, you know, I, I'm a huge anime and video game nerd, especially with anime and so. I just love cosplaying. Yeah. And that's kind of my niche is that they like to see me in different cosplays, and then sometimes I'll do just regular photos of me. Yeah, yeah. But for the most part, yeah, like on there, it's, it's solo content as of the, it's been on and off. Like with other people, um, OnlyFans is kind of tricky about tagging and stuff. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Mm-hmm. Very annoying. Mm-hmm. But, um, it's really just been this year that I've been really going hard on trying to record with other people and, and it, I'm still nervous about it every time.

7:43 Yeah. Yeah. But it's been very fun. It's a mutually beneficial decision. Exactly. It's like, it's, it's, it's great and honestly. Being new to the swingers community as well, that's actually like they're helping each other, right? Yeah. Get used to new Yeah. One, one handwash the other, so to speak. Yeah. Thing with people. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. That's, I, and so that's, that kinda leads me into, so I've talked about this in past shows. Where there is a large amount of the community that seems to believe that content creators cannot be actual lifestylers. And this drives me nuts. Because I don't, I don't agree with it. And we've voiced this before, but a lot of people have said, well, how are you going to ask people to pay for your content?

8:31 Mm-hmm. When I can probably sleep with you for free in the lifestyle. Mm. And it's like, okay. I can understand the questioning of it. Yeah. Mm-hmm. But at the same time, we are a community that accepts everybody. Mm-hmm. And there's a pot for every lid and somebody's into this, and maybe you're not into it. Why do you have to? Mm-hmm. Why do you have to dog it? You know what I'm saying? Yeah, exactly. Yeah. And so we've run into that too. We've run into, when we started talking monetization of the podcast and people are like, well, that's not for the community. Yeah. You know, things like that. Yeah. You know? People have an issue with monetization and the lifestyle. Mm-hmm. Yeah. They feel like things should be mm-hmm. Free. I'm kind of curious what your thoughts are on it, you know, and this is also coming from someone who's just new to all this.

9:16 Yeah. So I feel like I have a very doey perspective, but. Honestly. So first I actually ran into my first issue relating to that where there was actually a guy asking a mutual friend of ours, like, um, well he RSVP to an event, and then he personally dmd me mm-hmm. And was like, are you gonna be at this one? And when I said No, he didn't show up. And so it was very clear that the, a lot of my fan base is from Houston. Okay. So that is something even in just regular dating, I have to be wary of Yeah. Um, of like false pretenses mm-hmm. And stuff like that. But as for like, monetization with the lifestyle, I mean, you're not walking into the room filming everyone Yeah.

9:57 Being like, I'm making money off of you. Yeah. And you don't get a say in that. Yeah. It's, you know, filming with people consensual. Mm-hmm. You know, I feel like. Times are hard. Like why not make an extra buck? Like why not do that? And it's cool if they don't want to do it. Yeah. But that doesn't really work for everybody. And I think that it's a wonderful place to make content because you have such a accepting community and you have a community of people that really just want to be there for the vibes, really. Oh yeah. And I feel like it's a great place to connect and meet with people. It's almost like, it's like a box wrapped with a bow. Like, why not?

10:37 If you wanna play with me, are you cool with on camera? We can both make money. Like, yeah, that's f it's a peanut butter and jelly situation. They just go together. Like you would, you wouldn't figure there'd be issue with it. Yeah. I think that this is a great place to, to make content, you know? Yeah. But you know, and you know, I, I see a lot of the complaints come from a, a specific type of person. These are the same guys that will message women and be like, Hey, can you send me nudes? Like it's titty Tuesday. Mm-hmm. Can you send me a picture of your tets? Mm-hmm. You know, and it's like they want women to give them free pictures, and then when somebody like Pris or, or somebody that, that has an OF goes, well, you can see 'em if you pay 7 99. Then they're, they get butt hurt.

11:18 Yeah. You know, and it's like, well, what the fuck? Yeah. You guys don't belong here. Yeah. It's that weird, weirdly placed in entitlement. Yeah. And I think that's like outside of the swingers community as well as that, a lot of people think that they're just entitled to have things. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And like regardless of me doing OF, like there's been so many times where people have felt genuinely entitled to have my nudes and I'm like, I don't know you. Yeah. Like, you know what I'm saying? Yeah. I. I'm not surprised. Yeah, and you know, a lot of those assumptions come throughout the lifestyle for different aspects. So like, if you're a bisexual woman, automatically people figure, oh, well you're gonna sleep with anybody.

11:59 Oh my God. They always assume that, and it's, and I'm just easily, so, easily attainable. Yeah. Yeah. If there's a. Phallic thing on the floor, and probably it's probably gonna go inside me. It's just like, no, I like, people are still picky. Yes. You know? Yes. Like, yes. Yeah. And, and it's funny because, uh, we're gonna be doing a future show with another podcaster friend of ours who it's called United By Swinging. And really I wanted to focus on them on a show because. There's a lot of bi men who struggle to come out in the lifestyle. They just don't feel comfortable. Mm-hmm. Because people, especially a lot of maybe homophobic men in the lifestyle. I saw Y's episode about that. Yeah. I'm pretty sure I watched that one.

12:40 Yeah. And you know, it's, it's. It's problematic. Yeah. And it's like, I'm, I'm straight, but I don't have issues with a guy touching me or anything. Or if, if we play with a couple that has a bisexual male, like, doesn't bother me. But there are people who have issues with that. Yeah. And uh, you know, when I was talking to, uh, certain bi men that, that are afraid to come out, it's like a lot of these men just figure, oh, they want to sleep with me. Yes. And it's like, no dude, like that doesn't mean that they want to sleep with every guy. Yeah. I mean, it's kind of like the running joke of like, when you tell, like when you're younger, like much younger, and you tell your friend that you're gay, they're like, oh, I hope, like what? Do you have a crush on me? Or something? And it's like, okay, hold your horses, take it easy.

13:21 Get off your high horse. Not my type, but it's kind of like that. Yeah. Like they assume that just bi people or gay people, like they're just gonna want that. Yeah. Yeah. And it's like, and and, but it's also that, that it leans into the assumption. Of the lifestyle period where when you, when people outside of the lifestyle find out that you're in the lifestyle, they automatically assume, oh, well, are you flirting with me? Yeah. Yes. Are you trying to bed me? Yes. You know? And it's like, no, bro, no, I'm good. Yeah. Like, we don't have to, we don't have to have that talk. We just ask, you know, we've actually seen faces of people that have asked oh, well, what's your podcast? And it's like, well, it's a sex podcast. We're, we're in the lifestyle. Mm-hmm. And.

14:01 You know, once they see that they either go Really okay, or they go, oh, okay. Sorry. It's like, it's, it's cool. If you want, you can tap the wrist and it'll take you to the, it'll take you to the show, you know? So, yeah. I, I always found it kind of interesting and I know that there's gonna be a lot of major opinions about it. Yeah. Uh, but people who are involved in sex work. Are just as included in this as everybody else's. I mean, it's job. They're all trying to make money. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, times and party. And at that point I really do, like, I don't, I think that these problems exist everywhere. Yeah. So it's like no community of people.

14:44 I mean, I was just talking about it earlier where it's like. There's always gonna be weirdos. Yeah. Always. Yeah. There's always gonna be annoying people or people you don't get along with or people who disagree with you. Because when you have a community of people, everyone is different. Yeah. And so I'm not surprised that these problems still exist here. Mm-hmm. And to pretend that they wouldn't Yeah. Is just ignorant. Ignorant. Yeah. Exactly. Yes. Yeah. No, it is. It's, um, and it's, it's really hard. It was really hard for me when I, when we started coming out and stuff like that, that it was like, dang, people just have, they're judgy and they're, how are you gonna make money off of this? Yeah. And how are you gonna do that? And it's like, gotta be got a lot simpler than people think.

15:27 Yeah. Yeah. Everybody could be doing it. Yeah. It's a lot simpler. Like the difficulties are like usually unspoken, but like, yeah. It's easy. If you have a camera and you have a body, it could work. Yes, that's right. And, you know, so, so what I found interesting is and I, stop me if I'm wrong, but. You're just a naturally horny person though. Yes. I actually made a story post, which I'm pretty sure you saw. I did. And I was like a heart. Wait, was it the Gooning one? Yes, it was the Gooning one. Yeah. Y'all feel to young now ask somebody. I thought I knew what Gooning was and I really had to go and I embarrassed my children and asked them, and I did two children. Oh yeah. Oh Lord. Oh no. It's an open, yeah, I asked my boy, I was like, what is that?

16:08 Oh my God. Don't laugh at me. I knew what it was, but I wanted to embarrass them. That's hilarious. Yeah. Um, I have always, I'm gonna go on a bit of a tangent here. It's my, go ahead. I have always been a very hypersexual person. Okay. Since a very, very young age and like to the point where I remember being like 12, 13, which obviously puberty age, but it was just like, this is a bit much like even for me, I was like, this is a little much, man. You have to do schoolwork at some point and it just never really died down. Yeah. And the only times it did die down was when I was in monogamous relationships. Yeah. That's when all of a sudden my just sex drive just I, well, no, suddenly I didn't really care about it.

16:52 I didn't really care about sex. I didn't. Like by myself. I was doing what I needed to do, but like with them, like my sex drive was so low. Mm-hmm. Yeah. It was just dying slowly every single time. And then I went to my first swingers event and or I went to the clubs and then the first swingers event at Pineapple House and I was like, this, I think I've reached Nirvana, like this is kind of. Where I need to be because everyone here is freaky. Like I don't feel like the freaky one in the room. Yeah. Yeah. Everyone's no, yeah. Doing their own thing. They have their own thing that they're there for. Yeah. And I don't feel, so, I feel like there's something like wrong with me, I guess.

17:36 Yeah. Like I need to repress that. I guess that's where I'm getting at. Mm-hmm. So, yeah. So it's funny that you say that because I've, I've said it, I've said it on the show that I have a very, very hyper hypersexual, life, and I've always have. Yeah. Uh, and so I remember as a young kid just growing up and not, not getting enough Yeah. And thinking, God, there's something wrong with me. Yeah. Yeah. Like, I shouldn't be masturbating 10 times a day. I feel that, you know what I'm saying? Like Yeah. Like this is not natural. Yeah. Because I have to go about my day. Yeah. But I still get things done. You know what I'm saying? And so. It was exciting to see that there are other hypersexual people out there who are kind of dealing, and, and of course you're in the perfect spot.

18:21 Mm-hmm. Because you're a content creator. So you can rub one out for business or pleasure. That's literally what I say, all my story all the time where I'm like, I love gooning, and Gooning is my job. So it's like I just, it works. It works all. Let's tell the older people that listen, oh, what is gooning? So Gooning is, it can have, it can have casual, I mean, we gotta tell them casual, casual or negative connotation. But for the most part, when people are like, oh, I'm about to goon it, or like, I'm gooning. You're rubbing one out, you're jerking it. Like it's that's what it is. Like now the word gooner uhhuh, that more so has like a negative connotation. Um, but, but it's just someone who, who just beats off a lot.

19:02 Yeah. You know? So you would be considered a honey? Oh yeah. 100. Yeah, you would be considered one. But it's not bad because I'm a goonette bro. There you go. So, you know, I don't have people that have negative connotations with it. Yeah. I do. Not really. I, I have. Fluctuations of high sex drive, but I'm very submissive. Especially like, yeah, she keeps up. I keep up and I remember when we first got together, I was like, dude, really? You're gonna be one of those guys? But then I was like, oh wow, sex is actually this good. Okay. It down. It really is. Like when it's good, when it's good, you can good. It's good forever. Yes. And it's like can't get enough. Oh wow. I've only just recently. People like really wouldn't expect this. And I have to say this on camera, that I've had really bad sex, like my whole sexual life.

19:46 Same. Yeah. Like, and granted, I've, I'm only 25, but like from 16 to 25. Yeah. Rough. Yeah. Okay. So it's been rough. I have not gotten good head until this year. Yeah. I saw your story on that until two months ago. Um, I like, it's just been bad. And then. Ever since. It's funny, it's like, it's almost like the universe is like calling me to this place because like every time I go or even like with the people that I'm meeting, I'm like, oh, it's really good. Yeah. Yeah. It's really good. And especially I will say that I've, I've gotten I'm older and I started younger, so just imagine all these years of having crappy sex. Horrible sex. Yeah. Yeah. Awful sex.

20:27 I found that it's even better when you're in the lifestyle and you actually tell somebody what you like, because for some reason I couldn't tell people like the guy I was with or the woman I was with. Yeah. I feel that it feels like there's some sort of. Disconnection. Weird disconnection, pressure, and also tension. Yeah. They might even get defensive. Yeah. Yeah. It's just, I've seen that actually. So it's easier in the lifestyle. You're like, look, I don't like head like this. I like it like this. And you're like, well, and especially, yeah, especially if you're a woman in the lifestyle. It's also different for women in the lifestyle. Our bodies are just the way we s them. Yeah. The way we feel pleasure is so much different than men. And it's kind of like the age old joke of oh, don't stop.

21:07 Keep doing that. And then they change it up. Why would you do that? No, don't do that. Don't just send people. Yeah. It's all about, I feel like, at least my experience with non-monogamy so far. You have to have good communication. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Or else it's not gonna work. And if you don't like something drama, you need to say something. Exactly. Yeah. Yes. Yeah. It was very inviting too. Yes. Yeah. Yeah. Talking about really quick about the lifestyle, and I just, it just popped in my head. Mm-hmm. Because you're, you're new, very, and you are. Considered a unicorn, right? Yes. Single bi. Okay. I I, I, I am trying to learn the terms. Yeah, it's okay. I know that, like, is, is unicorn like just a single female or a single bi?

21:47 It's a, a single bi female. Mm-hmm. Who, who is actually looking for couples. Okay. Yeah. So it's very, very specific and, and people, I have to get offended by it, i'm sorry if you get offended. Oh no, I, I actually just got a unicorn headband. Oh, there you go. And I wanna go to events so I don't have to answer the question. Yeah. Do you, do you feel safe in the communities that you're going to, I know you, we've met you at the Pineapple house, which is, I feel a very safe place. But since you've been in the, in the community or in the lifestyle, do you feel it's safe in every place that you go to? Am I allowed to talk about specific places? You could talk about whatever. Okay. I mean, we don't need to, so like. S I'm not a huge fan of Pendulum Club. Okay. Um, it's just, maybe it's the crowd.

22:30 I'm just not a huge fan of, of the men that approached me there. Mm-hmm. To be honest. And granted, I don't really go to clubs anymore like that with, without like a sexual partner because Yeah. It's just a swarm. It's like so suffocating. Um, and it's almost like a, like a, like a weird line kind of, for, it's just strange. Wow. And it's overwhelming. Mm-hmm. And I don't, it makes me uncomfortable. But first of all, I love the night game. It's, I love that place. It's here in Houston. It's fantastic. I felt very safe there. And in the back rooms that they have with the private rooms and the like, public play rooms, there's a guy like there in the back. Okay. And I saw firsthand that there was a guy, I don't know why he was yelling, there was an altercation.

23:15 Mm-hmm. And the, the, the guard, I guess I'm just gonna call him that. Yeah. Um, he sounds ominous, but, but he immediately, like it stopped. It immediately stopped it. And that just made me feel really good and safe as a woman. Um, like he keeps a good eye. Everyone there is friendly. As for like, I, the events that I've been to, I've only been at the Pineapple House so far. Okay. Yeah. Okay. So this is my first event that hasn't been there. Okay. Or in my hometown. Yeah. And I can only speak from that and I have felt so unbelievably comfortable. Yeah. I'm a huge fan of like. Nicole and Isaac were so amazing with just making me feel like, Hey, you doing okay? I know you're new. Mm-hmm. They're so, no, they're great hosts. Good. Such good hosts. And that makes me feel very safe and comfortable. Yeah. Legitimately, I've, like, so far I have, and granted, I haven't been going to as many events as I could have, but.

23:59 With the ones that I have, I have felt very safe and welcomed. That's good. Really safes. That's good. Other than that one guy, but yeah, they, they took care of that actually for me. Yeah. They saw and they're like, okay, he's not allowed to anymore. Yeah. So I'm like, great. We, and, and I'm sure you keep your head on a swivel, you gotta good pay attention to your surroundings, I mean mm-hmm. It's. Crazy out there. Yeah. Women, the instinct. Yeah. You have to go with your gut. This is Eden. This is gonna be your first time here? Yes. It's pretty much like the club you just described. It's, um, there's somebody back there. This is the only club that we've really been to. We've been to not Colette's, what was it? Players. The players. It was, it was fine. It's different now, but. Eden is really safe.

24:40 I feel like, especially for single women and single men, we see 'em all time. We've been pretty satisfied here. It's really considered our home club. Like it's pretty chill. Enjoy it. And we haven't been to the Houston clubs yet. No. Uh, we want to. Oh, you haven't? No. Okay. Yeah. I honestly go to the night game first. It's really cool. I will shout out of certain thing that they have there that I've never seen anywhere else. It's a shadow box. Oh, so you go behind it? Yeah. Yeah. And when you dance behind it, it goes slowmo in the front. Sexy. Interesting. I love watching the women on there. Yeah. We're gonna have to make a trip out there. Yes, we are. Yeah. Hey, hit me up. We'll, we're gonna be, we're gonna be going to Houston a lot, so. Yeah. Yeah. You know, I, I, so you've been doing this, this content for a while now?

25:23 Mm-hmm. And as far as your cos play when did you say, okay, you know what? I'm gonna set up the camera and I'm just gonna like, because it's sexy, I'm gonna goon it out. I'm gonna be real with y'all. It immediately started like that. Yeah. Okay. Yeah, I was trying to just full send it, I guess. And I it started out actually with my best friend 'cause we were both trying to move out together. Mm-hmm. And we're like, this is fantastic. And, and the people were coming for both of us and it kind of made it more like, um. It gave it a certain vibe because it was two girls on there. Mm-hmm. Um, but we slowly faded her out and now she's my manager, but she, um. She helped me, you know, kind of steer the direction of just these, it started out really bad, like Snapchat weird grainy filters.

26:10 Yeah, yeah, yeah. Like, you know, everyone starts at a certain point and it was, man, I need to, and honestly, I need to go back and delete some of those. They were really, they were really bad, but, you know, as it, as the more I did it, it was, it just started getting into like, oh hey. You like anime, I've seen your Instagram, you should cosplay this, and then another reason you should cosplay that. So I started slowly cosplay these popular characters that, you know, they like to beat off to. Yeah, yeah. And then I'm like, oh wait, I love Cosplaying. This is it. And so that just kind of became a regular thing. And yeah, people would be surprised, but I just do it on my phone. That's awesome. Phone, you know, your videos. I are really great videos. Yeah. They're not amateur looking at all. I, I really wouldn't have guessed your phone.

26:51 My, wow, that's impressive. Yeah. I edit all of my stuff. Wow. That's, and so as, as a content creator doing what you do, how many hours do you put towards it a week? Is it, is it for me a full-time job or that's, that's where I, I get tired honestly. So like my schedule, and granted, they're so. My subs are so sweet to me. Yeah. I'm so thankful for the fan base that I have because they are really, really sweet. Yeah. Um, they, they're very understanding that it's just me. It's just a one man show. 'cause there is a high expectation for OnlyFans girls because a lot of them are managed uhhuh, so it's, you know, they pump out crazy stuff all the time. Yeah. That's not me. We're like homegrown, you know? So, um, small business.

27:31 But the hours, it honestly depends on the week and what content I am making. 'cause if I'm just throwing on a quick, cos play to take. Photos for the timeline, which the general schedule is like Monday sorry, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday. Okay. Those are where, like my photo sets will happen, or if I do a video, sometimes it's one to two videos a week on the timeline. But for like my PPPs, like the extra paid stuff, like if I'm filming with people, if I'm scheduling stuff out, like it's always October and December are insane for filming with other people. Really. 'cause that's the coplay, I mean, Halloween, you're. Dressing up. Oh, everybody looking for a dress up video? Yes. Right. And then for Christmas, they're wanting to get a Christmas present for themselves.

28:12 A lot of people don't see family on the holidays. Oh yeah. And they're gonna beat off. Yeah. And that's great. You know, Merry Christmas, but like, it's some day, sorry, some weeks. Yeah, it's, it can be like. 10 hours of full work. Really not that bad. Um, in terms of like regular jobs? Yeah. I've been in and outta the service industry since I was 16, so this is great for me. But on the really intense weeks, I will be working for like 10 to 12 hours a day editing stuff ev like almost every day of that week or something. Wow. And it ends up being. An egregious amount of hours. Like Yeah. I honestly don't keep track of my hours. Yeah. 'cause I don't too much because it's just, it's just everywhere.

28:53 It's too much. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. I get that. You know, I, we, not only the podcasts, but you know, Pris and I, we, we do, uh, tiktoks and the reels mm-hmm. And all that stuff. Yeah. And like I have, I have a series that I do on my tiktoks and the reels, and Pris has hers. It's a lot of work. It is because it's like, not only are you recording, but you're editing and you're scheduling. Mm-hmm. And just all of this stuff. Mm-hmm. And it's a lot of creativity that, my goodness man, if it's like, I just want to get under the bed sometimes, it's hard. Honestly, it's not even the stuff, I'm gonna be real, the stuff for my OnlyFans it's really the stuff for Instagram, like my tiktoks and reels.

29:34 Mm-hmm. Those are take a long time. A long time. Yeah. Yeah. Because I edit either the lighting or I, I have to retake it like it's, there's so many people online who would be like, wish I had that job. You know, and, you know, whatever. Like, I mean, I wish I had, I have to record a TikTok. There's been nights where I would have to record just one TikTok for two hours straight 'cause I can't get it. Mm. Or like if there's something trending that I need to hop on. Yeah. And it's a dance. Yeah. Oh my God. Oh my God. I can't even imagine. It's, it's just, it's just intense and I'm like sweating in my room and trying to figure this out. Especially in Coplay Hot and yeah, the poses sometimes that I have to do with those Coplay sometimes are.

30:17 Very difficult, but, and I was wondering about that because I've seen some of, of your stuff and your, I mean, your makeup is perfect. Mm-hmm. And you're in these things and I'm like, dude, you're in Texas. Like, you've gotta be sweating. Oh. But you can't tell by the pictures like you look pristine. Thankfully, I actually don't sweat as much. Okay. Yeah. Um, that's like, I don't sweat on my face that much. I get very red, but I don't sweat on my face. I don't have a deal with sweat a lot, but it's just hot. It's hot. It is hot. It's not only Texas, it is Houston, Texas. Oh yeah. Humidity. It is the most mud, humidity, disgusting humidity, weather for 90% of the year. Humidity. And it does. It gets very hot, especially with outside photos on my patio with.

30:59 Oh my goodness. They're unbearable. Sometimes we're out there for like almost an hour. My best friend's sweating, taking my pictures if I'm sweating, posing it's nasty. Sounds like fun. Yeah. Now, now where do you get your ideas from? Like, I mean, as you go along, like how is it just, do you sit there and think, okay, what am I gonna do next? Like I, I've seen you do polls kind of asking some of your friends. That's a recent thing. Yeah, that is. So how did you come about it before? Honestly. And I actually have realized this year that it's very unsustainable to have a spark process. It is unsustainable. It's unsustainable, it's so difficult, it's unsustainable, and it's like, I don't do well with that, like diamonds form under pressure thing.

31:43 Um, and having to wait for some, for me to have a good idea. Mm-hmm. It's just not sustainable. And so, my process was really. It's really just meetings with my best friend, being like, where should we go? Have you seen anything trending that you think that I should hop on? As for poses, honestly, a lot of them are repeat poses in different areas because they're not really, of course they're coming for the poses, but they wanna see me in a specific cosplay. Mm-hmm. And they wanna see my body. Mm-hmm. So nine times outta 10, the guys that are just browsing on my stuff, they're not like, it's about 20 degrees off. You know, like Okay, I gotcha. They're not being anal about that. Yeah. But I'm taking my tip back. But the, I, um, the ideas are really, most of it is from my best friend.

32:26 She Okay. I will, there's so many days, literally la this past Monday, um, I was like, dude, I am so out of ideas for poses for this week. I don't know what to do. And she'll just immediately get right back on it. And then there's some days where I'm like, I know exactly what I want to do. Yeah. Yeah. And it's just kind of. Repeats of poses that I'll tweak a little bit to make it refreshing. But, um, yeah. Yeah, that's, you know, I am just gonna give you something right quick. Linda, from Bob's burgers. Linda, I, I've actually had people suggest know you would totally kick, you would do a kickass, Linda. Now you have to do it for them. I love Linda. Well, because I'm looking at with your glasses and everyth, like if you were to get the glasses the cat, like, dude, you would have that.

33:06 She's hot, man. She's hot. Love wine. Bob's Burger. Yeah. No, you could totally, but you could have that. There you go. And one of these days I want to see is, I'll, I'll take that suggestion. It's coming from a very important person now. I, you know, I'm, I'm actually, I've been really excited to have you on the show, partly because a, I think you're incredibly hot. Yes. You, uh, which you're just, you're lovely to look at. Thank you. And you're fun and you're real. Like down earth, you have a great energy. Yes. And we realized that immediately when we met you. Like, I mean, they were telling me, they were like, she's here. And I was like, who? And they were telling me who it was. And I was like, where? Let's go say hi to her. That's what, oh, I'm so sorry. Nicole. Nicole brought you over to To me.

33:47 Yes. And thank God for that. I was like, Ooh. Yep. I like this one. And you know, this is nice. Yeah, this is, I really could not read you. I know everything. Oh, she's good at that. Yeah, she's good at that this whole time. I mean, I even texted you being like, I hope Pris doesn't hate me. Yeah. I don't, I No, you have no idea how many times I get texted like that. Yeah, yeah. I get those all the time. Yeah. No, and I'm very quiet in chat. Like I, I am better in person. Um, yeah, for sure. I can talk your ear off in person. I just, I get really bo uh, focused or something and I just don't answer back. But that's just the way I am. Yeah. And I'm totally cool with that. Yeah. I'm such a flexible person, so Yeah. And I'm, I'm a chatter. And you and I when we talk, he's home all the time.

34:28 It's like, okay, uh, it's called content creation. Guys home all the time. I'm sorry, but you have a couple of content creators, full-timers here. Don't talk shit man. You with your normie job. I want, I wanna be home. Gooning out all day. Girl, you couldn't afford that. I You couldn't handle it. You couldn't handle it. Let's try this. You can't live this life. Let's try this. It takes a special person to walk. I a manager these shoes. I know man. Pris is kind of a special lady. She is pretty special. You just saying that 'cause you wanna sleep with her, which I understand. I do. I mean, you don't have to try too hard, Judy. And see. So this is kind of the cool part here is that we get to say this on our show because this is our platform here.

35:10 Is that. Yes. For those of you who are naysayers about, well, you cannot. Have the lifestyle and you know, you can't do the lifestyle and content creation. That is totally false because we are about to make some content. That's it. We are, and we're gonna do, so we're gonna mention that we're hitting it tonight. Sexy. Yeah. So as you can see, the lights are going down. So with that, we're gonna start wrapping up here. Yes. And we've got some fun to have. Yeah. We have some business to events too. So, big shout out to to Chris. And Club Eden for letting us do the show here. Thank you. Yes, thank you. We appreciate that. Uh, thank you Rae for joining us. Thank you. We are actually here tonight for the Beyond Monogamy event that we do, uh, here at, at Club Eden.

35:54 And so we will you'll hear back later guys, 'cause we got some stuff to do. We got some fun to Dan know I gotta, oh yeah, we gotta hit it. So with that, thank you for listening and we will see you guys next week. Bye. Bye. Bye.