Broke, Stressed & Still Swinging: When Life Gets in the Way of the Lifestyle

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All right, y'all.

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Before we dive in, a quick heads up

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This show is raw, real, and
definitely not rated PG.

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We're talking about adult themes,
sexual content, and the kinda stuff you

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probably don't want blasting through your
speakers at work or around your kids.

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So grab some headphones, pour your
drink of choice, and get comfy.

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Oh, and just so we're clear,
we are not licensed therapists,

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counselors, or sex couches.

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Sex coaches.

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Sex coaches.

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Not sex couches.

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We're just a couple of people sharing
our lives, experiences, and sexy

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adventures in ethical non-monogamy.

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So with that, pull up a
chair and enjoy the show.

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Hello, and welcome to another
episode of Beyond Monogamy.

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I'm Adam.

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And I'm Pris.

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And today's quickie, we're, we're
talking about something very,

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very real, very, very relatable.

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I'm sure many of you, uh, are going
to be able to relate to this one.

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Uh, it w- hey, man.

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Hey.

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Hey.

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Hey, guys.

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How's it going?

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Hi.

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Uh, I am broke.

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No, I'm just kidding.

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Um, as-

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Well, uh, we're financially strapped

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…
financially strapped.

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Yeah, and so, you know, th- for many
people who are listening to this right

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now, uh, you've probably heard several
of our shows where we were building

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up Naughty N'Awlins and how great
it's gonna be when we get out there.

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Unfortunately, we had to back out of
going, um, because we just couldn't-

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Nope

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…
we couldn't spend the money.

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Nope.

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Uh, financially speaking, I mean,
you guys know as well as I do,

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these are tough economical times.

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You have to pick and choose.

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You gotta pick and choose.

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You gotta pick and choose, and that's
because the, the Naughty N'Awlins

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people were very, very accommodating.

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Very.

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Uh, they were wonderful people
with us and, and they, they

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worked out as much as they could.

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But I just could not, we could
not reconcile the costs of driving

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out there and the meals and,
you know, we still gotta feed

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ourselves and then, you know, uh-

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We still have a family to feed

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here … we still have a family to feed.

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We still got bills to pay.

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You know, it's, sometimes you just
gotta sit back and go, "Okay, as much

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as I'd like to live that highlight reel-

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Yeah

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…
we gotta be adults here," you know?

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Yeah.

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Um, and so- And … that,
that was a tough decision that

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we had to make.

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Yeah.

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It, it was, um, it was a tough decision.

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I- it's hard when you're financially
sh- struggling and you have places

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that you wanna do, or things that you
wanna do and places you wanna go to.

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It's, uh… What is the
word I'm looking for?

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It sucks

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That's a good word to use.

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Yeah, that's a good word to use.

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It sucks.

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Well, you know, so people see us with
the podcast, they automatically assume

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that we're rolling in the dough.

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That's not how this works.

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I don't know who thinks that,

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but- That's not how this works What?

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You know, we do this show because we
like to do this show, uh, and we're

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big advocates of the lifestyle, and
we're very involved in the lifestyle.

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Um, and we love every aspect of it.

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But even still, we are still
a swinging couple, and we

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still have to pay for things.

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Uh, you know, there's entrance fees,
there's things that cost, you know,

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and, uh, you still gotta pay for them.

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Mm-hmm.

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And as we have said in the
past, it can get expensive-

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Yeah

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…
if you wanna take up on certain
aspects of this lifestyle, whether

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it be websites where you meet other
swingers- Yeah … or going to the

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club or house parties or whatever.

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You know, there's a, a lot of people
that, um, that have, like- Like

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have shows, like have podcasts and-

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have other things

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Content creators out there.

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Content, uh, content creators,
but they have other aspects.

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So they have other income-

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Other

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streams of income, yeah … other
streams of income coming in.

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Um Our situation is very different.

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I am a full-time employee.

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And, you know, as many of you know,
I was laid off back in August-

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of last year.

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so- So, you know, we've come down
to the end of the line as far as

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the severance pay and everything-
Yeah … like that, and I'm like,

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"Okay, I need to find some work."

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Yeah.

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Uh, because while we've done a great
job with the show, and we've made some

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leaps and bounds, and we're doing-
Yeah … better every single day-

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Yeah

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um, it doesn't replace an income.

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Yeah.

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Reality.

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You know?

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Like, reality is- Yeah … we
are just regular people and in

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this economy with one income.

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With one income.

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Holy fuck.

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Mama bear's been holding it down.

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How do we do it?

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Um-

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Oh.

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Now you guys know.

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My Only- And you know, people are
like, "Oh man, he always says- My-

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how he masturbates
eight to 10 times a day.

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Where does he find the time?"

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I tell you-

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I'm unemployed, guys.

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I am… And my OnlyFans is great,
and it's fun, but I do not post

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enough on there because I am a
full-time employee somewhere else,

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and it's very hard for me to do that.

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It's very hard for me to get on there
and try to make s- that a stream.

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You know what's also, while we're on that,
I found that an, an interesting point of

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discussion, because we were talking about
that the other day, about your OnlyFans.

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Yeah.

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And, you know, OnlyFans, obviously,
guys, OnlyFans is, is a, is

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just another form of income.

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It's another stream- Yeah … of income.

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It's something that a lot of, uh, content
creators in this niche, uh, will normally

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do because it's, you know, especially if
you're exhibitionist like us and that sort

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of thing, uh, you get to put on a show
and make a little extra money on the side.

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It's kinda fun.

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Um, but my lovely wife here has had
trouble getting her OnlyFans off the, uh,

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off the runway, primarily because she is
not, uh, one of those to placate to men.

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Um- Mm … you know, the porn
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does, uh, placate towards men.

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It, it, it really just, uh, is,
is a, a platter for most men.

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It's like, "Here you go.

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This is what I have to offer you.

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This is the kind of stuff that I shoot.

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This is the kind of thing that I offer.

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I do dick ratings.

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I do this.

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I do that." It's all really
kind of molded for men.

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Um, and my wife does, she, she
likes some men, but she really

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doesn't care for a whole lot of men.

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No.

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Uh, for the stupid things that they
say or for the way that they act or

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for the very macho way of being that
she, uh, ends up becoming alpha for.

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So that's been a difficulty because she
just can't play that role of, "Oh, hey,

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I missed you. Oh, hi, I, I can't wait to
talk to you." I mean, look at this face.

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If you're watching the show- No

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you can see the face.

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She's like, "Yeah, no." That's
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No.

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Um, and so it's been one of
those things where it's like you

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can't really- No … that's a

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tough one.

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I did try.

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Yeah.

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So

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I did- No … I did try.

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It's- When Honey Boo here, um, lost
his job, I did try to up my game, and

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so I was kind of being nice to people.

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Nice to men.

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And I was, like, doing the whole little
flirty, "Oh, can you buy me a coffee?" Or,

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"You wanna subscribe?" I was doing that.

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Um, and it sucked.

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It sucked.

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It

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sucked.

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Yeah.

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So I don't, one, like to beg.

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I'm not a beggar.

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Um, two, if you wanna see me naked
you're gonna have to pay for it or

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you're gonna go to a club, and that's
just the way that, that- In which case

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you're still paying for it

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yeah.

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'Cause you

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gotta go to

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the club.

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Exactly.

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And so I don't, um, I can't… I
can push it, but I'm gonna push

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it to my, what I wanna push.

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Like, yeah, um, if you want
something special I can probably

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create it, but it's hard.

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It, it, it… But not only
that, it's just really hard.

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I can't balance the two.

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I can't post pictures and work.

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Like, we've tried this.

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Yeah, it is really- It, um- … a
full-time job doing that stuff

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…
you know.

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And can I give it to Adam to, to edit it?

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Yeah, but- I love my husband,
but he's doing other things.

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Like, yes, he, you know, he's, he's
just doing other things, and so

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it's like it's hard for, for me to
delegate that to him because he's

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doing other things for the show.

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So another form of income, that one
was not… I mean, I still have it.

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Yeah, and it- I mean, it
gives me money every month,

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but- … and it doesn't, it's
not, it's not bad But yeah.

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It's just not where, uh- And
a lot of- … it would be-

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…
replacing an income.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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And a lot of content creators have it, and
they have it growing because they put…

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That's their job.

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Yeah.

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Like, that's their job.

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That's what they do.

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Like, they're home.

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They, they can do that and-
Yeah … edit their shit and,

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and take care of it, and that's

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And, you know, a lot of content creators
don't help other content creators.

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Yeah.

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And that was- Yeah … uh, I've seen you
reach out to other content creators and

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ask, "Hey, you know, can I get some tips?"

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Like, "What am I doing
wrong?" Let me tell you.

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Like- Some OnlyFan women fucking suck.

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Like, talk about women-
Yeah … not helping women.

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OnlyFan women, women who are content
creators and just do OnlyFans or just

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do porn like that are fucking assholes.

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Yeah, you haven't had too many, um- Like,

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they're… No.

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Uh,

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good- And I am the opposite.

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Like, I go to our community because I
know single m- not single moms, but I

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know moms that could use some income.

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Some are teachers.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Some are nurses, you know?

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It's like their time is off.

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I've gone to them, been like,
"Dude, open a OnlyFans and let's

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fucking make some shit." Yeah,

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yeah.

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Like, this is business.

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It's difficult.

248
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It's difficult.

249
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I, I mean, like, we've had, uh, we've
had good experiences- Yeah … like,

250
00:09:44,898 --> 00:09:46,948
with, uh, Lacey from Swing Nation.

251
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She's always been there to, to, you
know, give advice and that sort of stuff.

252
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And, and

253
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Amber.

254
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Uh, and Amber from Savage
Swingers has always been great.

255
00:09:53,568 --> 00:09:56,418
You know- Yeah … it, it's
nice to be able to message

256
00:09:56,418 --> 00:09:57,748
somebody and say, "Hey, I…

257
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What are your thoughts on this?" Yeah.

258
00:09:59,228 --> 00:10:01,298
Like, how… It, it doesn't cost anything.

259
00:10:01,298 --> 00:10:02,788
But you see, but for them,
they help us with a lot of our

260
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podcasts, a lot of our show stuff.

261
00:10:04,148 --> 00:10:04,168
Yeah.

262
00:10:04,248 --> 00:10:05,658
I'm talking about specific-

263
00:10:05,668 --> 00:10:07,528
Yeah, but as far as
OnlyFan- … OnlyFans people.

264
00:10:07,608 --> 00:10:08,148
Yeah … yeah.

265
00:10:08,148 --> 00:10:10,978
And, and what I've noticed is
there's a lot of people who say,

266
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"Oh, well, I, I started an OnlyFans,
and, uh, you know, I wanna, I wanna

267
00:10:15,128 --> 00:10:17,038
do collabs with other people."

268
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So then- Because that's

269
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how you grow

270
00:10:18,178 --> 00:10:18,368
…
yeah.

271
00:10:18,368 --> 00:10:21,058
And so then you're here going, "Okay,
well, let's schedule something,"

272
00:10:21,058 --> 00:10:22,768
and then they go, "Uh, yeah." Sike.

273
00:10:22,768 --> 00:10:24,238
"You know, I'm just, I'm just not

274
00:10:24,398 --> 00:10:25,218
ready" Yeah, it's like-

275
00:10:25,218 --> 00:10:25,888
…
cr-

276
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it's like crickets.

277
00:10:27,138 --> 00:10:28,768
And, like, there's, there was one.

278
00:10:28,778 --> 00:10:30,928
Like, we did a, the, with Ray, right?

279
00:10:30,938 --> 00:10:31,108
Yeah.

280
00:10:31,138 --> 00:10:33,618
We did that, and that, that
was a little bit of income.

281
00:10:33,618 --> 00:10:36,728
And I was like, "I'm so down.
I can have sex be business."

282
00:10:37,418 --> 00:10:39,695
Yeah, and so can I. Like, the-
As, as you might have seen

283
00:10:39,695 --> 00:10:40,088
in that- As… Yeah … in that video.

284
00:10:40,088 --> 00:10:41,868
Like, that was business, right?

285
00:10:41,868 --> 00:10:42,748
We did a threesome.

286
00:10:42,758 --> 00:10:44,198
It was a really great one.

287
00:10:44,198 --> 00:10:44,828
It was a, it was

288
00:10:44,828 --> 00:10:45,738
a really hot threesome.

289
00:10:45,738 --> 00:10:45,778
We, it was really…

290
00:10:45,778 --> 00:10:46,118
Yeah.

291
00:10:46,118 --> 00:10:46,448
Yeah.

292
00:10:46,448 --> 00:10:52,938
And it sold, and it's still selling, but
I like that, those kind of collaborations.

293
00:10:53,108 --> 00:10:58,708
And to get women to collab,
it's like fucking pulling teeth.

294
00:10:58,798 --> 00:11:03,558
And let me tell you- I, I'm pretty
confident that I'm not ugly.

295
00:11:04,328 --> 00:11:05,428
No, you're very attractive.

296
00:11:05,428 --> 00:11:07,158
I'm, I'm, I'm okay.

297
00:11:07,368 --> 00:11:07,988
Yeah, I think you're- You

298
00:11:07,988 --> 00:11:08,248
know?

299
00:11:08,258 --> 00:11:08,838
…
I think you're a hottie.

300
00:11:08,968 --> 00:11:13,758
And it's like, "Dude, let's make some
money," and all you hear is crap.

301
00:11:13,918 --> 00:11:19,318
I mean, I get s- I get the idea of, of
being, uh, insecure about your body.

302
00:11:19,718 --> 00:11:21,298
But if you're already showing it off.

303
00:11:22,008 --> 00:11:25,078
I mean, even me, like we did
that threesome on, on film.

304
00:11:25,088 --> 00:11:25,108
Yeah.

305
00:11:25,118 --> 00:11:27,198
Like I, I'm insecure about my body, but-

306
00:11:27,208 --> 00:11:27,338
Yeah

307
00:11:27,968 --> 00:11:29,488
…
um, you know, I-

308
00:11:29,718 --> 00:11:30,028
I mean,

309
00:11:30,028 --> 00:11:30,868
same … I was good with it.

310
00:11:30,868 --> 00:11:33,188
Like it was, it was a hot fucking video.

311
00:11:33,188 --> 00:11:35,848
Like I wanted to… Yeah, in that video
I wanted to wear lingerie, and she's

312
00:11:35,848 --> 00:11:36,998
like, "Oh yeah, we, I don't usually."

313
00:11:36,998 --> 00:11:38,698
And I was like, "Okay, well
I guess I'm not." Yeah.

314
00:11:38,898 --> 00:11:39,488
I was naked.

315
00:11:39,618 --> 00:11:39,908
Yeah.

316
00:11:40,018 --> 00:11:44,418
I'm s- I'm insecure, but I'm confident
enough to say that if it was me

317
00:11:44,418 --> 00:11:47,578
and another woman, I can make that
shit, we can make that shit hot.

318
00:11:48,038 --> 00:11:48,378
Yeah.

319
00:11:48,678 --> 00:11:49,688
It's like, no.

320
00:11:50,058 --> 00:11:54,818
And so trying to get that extra
income, trying to find little ways

321
00:11:55,258 --> 00:11:58,908
in this niche to grow that is hard.

322
00:11:59,208 --> 00:11:59,538
Yeah,

323
00:11:59,538 --> 00:12:01,618
well- If you're a full-time
employee elsewhere.

324
00:12:02,278 --> 00:12:05,808
Yeah, it, it really takes… It-
that's, that's a full-time job, dude.

325
00:12:05,848 --> 00:12:06,248
Yeah.

326
00:12:06,308 --> 00:12:09,378
Um, and, you know, it,
it, it is what it is.

327
00:12:09,378 --> 00:12:12,698
I, I, I'm really focused on the
podcast more than anything else.

328
00:12:12,698 --> 00:12:13,258
Yeah.

329
00:12:13,328 --> 00:12:16,488
And, uh, you know, the OnlyFans, I
always said, I was like, "Man, that's

330
00:12:16,488 --> 00:12:18,128
really, that's really your thing."

331
00:12:18,708 --> 00:12:21,448
Um, and it's… I've watched you struggle.

332
00:12:21,458 --> 00:12:22,978
It's like, God, I just, I can't.

333
00:12:22,988 --> 00:12:23,008
Yeah.

334
00:12:23,018 --> 00:12:23,838
And it's like, I get

335
00:12:23,838 --> 00:12:23,898
it.

336
00:12:23,898 --> 00:12:26,598
I've reached out, like, I've reached
out to people, and I've reached…

337
00:12:26,638 --> 00:12:27,858
I like to have sex with people.

338
00:12:27,858 --> 00:12:31,128
I mean, I can make it very
transactional for, like, for business,

339
00:12:31,418 --> 00:12:32,728
but I have to at least meet you.

340
00:12:32,758 --> 00:12:33,188
Yeah.

341
00:12:33,348 --> 00:12:33,858
Like, you know what I mean?

342
00:12:33,858 --> 00:12:34,258
Like, I have to

343
00:12:34,258 --> 00:12:37,078
at least- Well, see, and that's the thing,
and so people have complained before.

344
00:12:37,078 --> 00:12:40,638
They're like, "Well, you're not a
real swinger if you're selling sex on-

345
00:12:41,008 --> 00:12:41,938
Bullshit … online and stuff like that.

346
00:12:41,938 --> 00:12:43,648
And it's like, well,
hold on a second because-

347
00:12:43,788 --> 00:12:44,118
Bullshit

348
00:12:44,158 --> 00:12:48,998
…
um, you know, actually we are
swingers first and foremost.

349
00:12:48,998 --> 00:12:49,098
Yeah.

350
00:12:49,098 --> 00:12:52,388
Like, this isn't… We, we don't really
make a whole lot of money on OnlyFans.

351
00:12:52,738 --> 00:12:57,388
We do have fun with other swingers,
and so when you watch our porn,

352
00:12:57,388 --> 00:13:01,338
most of the time you're watching
us with other swingers having fun.

353
00:13:01,388 --> 00:13:01,738
Yeah.

354
00:13:01,788 --> 00:13:05,858
Um, and people can look at that
and go, "Oh, shit," you know, "if

355
00:13:05,898 --> 00:13:09,418
I ended up in a club with them, I
could probably have sex with them."

356
00:13:09,428 --> 00:13:12,108
Yeah, and those of you who know
us and have been in the club

357
00:13:12,108 --> 00:13:14,318
with us know that that's factual.

358
00:13:14,378 --> 00:13:14,578
Yeah.

359
00:13:14,578 --> 00:13:14,968
You know?

360
00:13:15,338 --> 00:13:20,668
Uh, so, you know, you're not, you're
not buying high production value porn.

361
00:13:20,678 --> 00:13:23,568
You're buying essentially a-
Adventure … swinger experience.

362
00:13:23,568 --> 00:13:23,918
Yeah.

363
00:13:23,918 --> 00:13:24,608
Essentially.

364
00:13:24,608 --> 00:13:25,008
Yeah.

365
00:13:25,598 --> 00:13:25,748
Yeah.

366
00:13:25,748 --> 00:13:28,128
You know, it's kinda cool
in that, in that respect.

367
00:13:28,548 --> 00:13:32,268
But, you know, it… You can make
a… The economy's tight, man.

368
00:13:32,268 --> 00:13:35,918
You can, you can make some money-
It is … uh, off of, uh, porn.

369
00:13:35,928 --> 00:13:35,948
Yeah.

370
00:13:35,978 --> 00:13:37,248
I mean, there's nothing wrong with that.

371
00:13:37,698 --> 00:13:38,468
People do it all the time.

372
00:13:38,558 --> 00:13:39,038
Yes.

373
00:13:39,538 --> 00:13:39,778
Yeah.

374
00:13:39,778 --> 00:13:40,808
And it's so easy.

375
00:13:41,098 --> 00:13:41,398
Yeah.

376
00:13:41,428 --> 00:13:42,468
It is so easy.

377
00:13:42,842 --> 00:13:43,912
Hold on, hold on.

378
00:13:43,912 --> 00:13:45,592
We need to tell you guys about 3Fun first.

379
00:13:45,782 --> 00:13:46,332
Oh, yeah.

380
00:13:46,942 --> 00:13:50,002
Okay, so 3Fun is the app.

381
00:13:50,132 --> 00:13:51,242
You guys know the app.

382
00:13:51,662 --> 00:13:54,072
And if you don't know, it's for
couples and singles who wanna

383
00:13:54,072 --> 00:13:55,762
connect with like-minded people.

384
00:13:55,962 --> 00:13:57,282
And it actually works.

385
00:13:57,392 --> 00:13:58,662
Like, we're not just saying that.

386
00:13:59,052 --> 00:14:02,342
It's easy, it's low pressure, and
it's way less awkward than trying

387
00:14:02,342 --> 00:14:03,362
to figure it out on your own.

388
00:14:03,532 --> 00:14:04,562
Way less.

389
00:14:05,062 --> 00:14:06,012
We're gonna leave it at that.

390
00:14:06,502 --> 00:14:06,792
Yep.

391
00:14:07,242 --> 00:14:08,382
Download 3Fun.

392
00:14:08,532 --> 00:14:10,522
The link is in the show notes.

393
00:14:10,712 --> 00:14:12,222
Okay, where were we?

394
00:14:12,672 --> 00:14:12,962
Huh.

395
00:14:13,418 --> 00:14:17,458
But yeah, so it's between that and
just trying to find other income,

396
00:14:18,218 --> 00:14:19,678
it's hard to keep up with events.

397
00:14:19,728 --> 00:14:24,388
There's a lot of… They're expensive
because, rightfully so, people

398
00:14:24,418 --> 00:14:28,638
are renting out a whole hotel,
or they're renting out- Yeah.

399
00:14:28,638 --> 00:14:33,568
Yeah … um, multiple hotels or, you
know… It's an expensive event to be…

400
00:14:33,598 --> 00:14:36,208
To be in the lifestyle costs money.

401
00:14:36,638 --> 00:14:36,948
It does.

402
00:14:36,948 --> 00:14:40,128
Like- I mean, you could, you
could be obviously non-monogamous-

403
00:14:40,138 --> 00:14:41,008
We've- … on the cheap.

404
00:14:41,018 --> 00:14:41,038
Um.

405
00:14:41,208 --> 00:14:46,008
We've done, we've done a show where we
did, like, kind of on a budget, right?

406
00:14:46,018 --> 00:14:46,038
Yeah.

407
00:14:46,538 --> 00:14:47,228
$5 a day, I'm good

408
00:14:47,718 --> 00:14:48,148
You know?

409
00:14:48,428 --> 00:14:52,688
But like going to clubs, clubs
are expensive if you're single,

410
00:14:53,388 --> 00:14:55,838
if you're coming from out of
town, like clubs- And believe

411
00:14:56,018 --> 00:14:57,798
me, you don't wanna go to a cheap club

412
00:14:57,878 --> 00:14:58,828
Yeah, you don't.

413
00:14:59,058 --> 00:15:00,108
You do not wanna go-

414
00:15:00,108 --> 00:15:00,478
Don't fuck with your

415
00:15:00,478 --> 00:15:03,008
safety You don't, you don't
wanna go to a cheap club.

416
00:15:03,248 --> 00:15:08,368
Um, and so like, you know, and then they
have themes, and us lifestylers, I don't

417
00:15:08,368 --> 00:15:10,198
know what it is, but we love those themes.

418
00:15:10,368 --> 00:15:14,488
I hate them, but I do them
Um, and so it's costly.

419
00:15:14,498 --> 00:15:17,278
So we did have to look at our calendar,
and we're gonna have to look at our

420
00:15:17,278 --> 00:15:22,418
calendar for the next year because-
If sexy man here gets a job soon,

421
00:15:22,448 --> 00:15:24,028
everything gets pushed back, right?

422
00:15:24,088 --> 00:15:24,638
Yeah.

423
00:15:24,638 --> 00:15:24,828
Because, you

424
00:15:24,828 --> 00:15:25,148
know.

425
00:15:25,158 --> 00:15:25,178
Yeah.

426
00:15:25,208 --> 00:15:28,088
And, you know, by the time you guys
are listening to this, who knows?

427
00:15:28,128 --> 00:15:32,618
I mean, I, I've, I have some possible
opportunities coming up, and, uh,

428
00:15:32,668 --> 00:15:36,828
if they come to fruition, which I
really hope they do, uh, I will be

429
00:15:36,828 --> 00:15:39,228
100% back in the, uh, workforce.

430
00:15:39,258 --> 00:15:43,298
Now, that will not change- You do so in
a big- That will not change the show.

431
00:15:43,448 --> 00:15:43,628
No.

432
00:15:44,158 --> 00:15:47,018
We will continue doing
the show as we have been.

433
00:15:47,408 --> 00:15:51,948
I will still continue putting as much,
um, quality into the show as I can.

434
00:15:52,008 --> 00:15:52,228
Yeah.

435
00:15:52,738 --> 00:15:56,508
Uh, but that will… You know, that-

436
00:15:57,098 --> 00:15:57,858
I have a question.

437
00:15:57,898 --> 00:15:58,378
Yeah.

438
00:15:58,508 --> 00:15:59,258
I have a question.

439
00:15:59,598 --> 00:16:04,678
Being this stressful, this stressed out,
how do you, um, how was the sex drive?

440
00:16:04,808 --> 00:16:06,098
Let's be honest with everybody.

441
00:16:06,558 --> 00:16:10,168
You know, I, I have had days
where we did not have sex.

442
00:16:10,668 --> 00:16:11,048
Yeah.

443
00:16:11,548 --> 00:16:12,498
Like, days.

444
00:16:12,518 --> 00:16:12,868
Yeah.

445
00:16:13,138 --> 00:16:16,148
Couple days will pass,
uh, when you're that

446
00:16:16,768 --> 00:16:16,828
stressed.

447
00:16:16,828 --> 00:16:16,848
You

448
00:16:16,848 --> 00:16:17,148
didn't even masturbate.

449
00:16:17,148 --> 00:16:17,538
No.

450
00:16:18,538 --> 00:16:19,348
That says a lot.

451
00:16:19,378 --> 00:16:19,678
Yeah.

452
00:16:19,728 --> 00:16:20,738
That says a lot.

453
00:16:20,838 --> 00:16:21,158
That is stress.

454
00:16:21,158 --> 00:16:22,468
That says stressed right there.

455
00:16:22,468 --> 00:16:22,868
That is stress.

456
00:16:22,868 --> 00:16:24,678
Uh, is when I'm not even-

457
00:16:24,688 --> 00:16:25,008
Yeah

458
00:16:25,288 --> 00:16:28,421
…
uh, you know, sh- that's not
self-love there, you know what I mean?

459
00:16:28,421 --> 00:16:28,578
Yeah.

460
00:16:28,578 --> 00:16:33,778
Yeah, no, um, when, uh, with
as stressed as we have been-

461
00:16:33,938 --> 00:16:34,438
Mm-hmm

462
00:16:34,568 --> 00:16:36,558
…
uh, it's a difficulty.

463
00:16:36,598 --> 00:16:42,168
And that was the hard part too, is that we
still, in order to stay in everything, you

464
00:16:42,168 --> 00:16:43,988
know, we go to the club on the weekends.

465
00:16:44,008 --> 00:16:44,238
Yeah.

466
00:16:44,238 --> 00:16:48,918
And it's like, man, I have so many
times sat back and gone, "Yeah,

467
00:16:49,018 --> 00:16:50,298
let's just stay home." Yeah.

468
00:16:50,318 --> 00:16:51,048
I don't feel sexy.

469
00:16:51,048 --> 00:16:53,108
And we, we- I don't wanna
go- Yeah … anywhere.

470
00:16:53,248 --> 00:16:55,368
And, and, and just around,
like, we don't have… We have

471
00:16:55,368 --> 00:16:56,438
a membership already, right?

472
00:16:56,448 --> 00:16:56,468
Yeah.

473
00:16:56,478 --> 00:16:58,128
So we've already paid our dues for that.

474
00:16:58,528 --> 00:17:00,478
Um, but so it's an hour away from us.

475
00:17:00,918 --> 00:17:01,168
Yeah.

476
00:17:01,168 --> 00:17:03,298
Um- So we gotta drive an hour over there.

477
00:17:03,298 --> 00:17:03,688
And-

478
00:17:03,688 --> 00:17:05,778
And then we're gonna be there all night

479
00:17:06,138 --> 00:17:07,478
And then we have to drive back.

480
00:17:07,868 --> 00:17:08,198
Yeah.

481
00:17:08,398 --> 00:17:11,998
You know, so it's, it's,
you know, gas is expensive.

482
00:17:12,448 --> 00:17:16,738
You have to think about all these
things along with, when I get

483
00:17:16,738 --> 00:17:19,358
there, am I gonna be in the right
mind because I'm so stressed out?

484
00:17:19,478 --> 00:17:20,438
Is it even worth it?

485
00:17:20,478 --> 00:17:21,258
Is it even worth it?

486
00:17:21,278 --> 00:17:21,298
So.

487
00:17:21,308 --> 00:17:21,448
Yeah.

488
00:17:22,208 --> 00:17:26,718
Um, you know, that's, those are… Like
I said, this is a very relatable episode.

489
00:17:26,718 --> 00:17:28,958
I'm sure there's a lot of you
out there who have dealt with

490
00:17:28,958 --> 00:17:35,508
this, uh, dealing with stress and
trying to keep a healthy libido.

491
00:17:35,638 --> 00:17:35,848
Yes.

492
00:17:35,898 --> 00:17:37,358
Uh, trying to feel sexy.

493
00:17:37,378 --> 00:17:38,268
Oh my God.

494
00:17:38,448 --> 00:17:38,738
Dude.

495
00:17:38,758 --> 00:17:39,948
How do people do it?

496
00:17:39,968 --> 00:17:40,808
We are-

497
00:17:40,808 --> 00:17:40,928
Ugh

498
00:17:41,018 --> 00:17:44,628
…
Adam and I are, we eat our emotions.

499
00:17:44,638 --> 00:17:44,998
Bro.

500
00:17:45,598 --> 00:17:47,898
And- Yeah … we have not gone to the gym-

501
00:17:48,488 --> 00:17:48,738
Nope

502
00:17:48,878 --> 00:17:49,868
…
in a while.

503
00:17:49,938 --> 00:17:50,058
No.

504
00:17:50,078 --> 00:17:51,118
And, um- I'm

505
00:17:51,308 --> 00:17:53,068
renaming myself Shamu.

506
00:17:53,598 --> 00:17:54,728
N- no.

507
00:17:55,128 --> 00:17:56,108
I'm, I'm big,

508
00:17:56,108 --> 00:17:56,138
man.

509
00:17:56,138 --> 00:18:01,428
We are, we are, um, we're still very…
I'm feeling sexy amongst ourselves.

510
00:18:02,110 --> 00:18:06,670
But still very in that
depressed mode that it's hard.

511
00:18:06,770 --> 00:18:07,630
Body dysmorphia.

512
00:18:07,630 --> 00:18:09,590
We've, yeah, I mean we've-
And I got more body morphia

513
00:18:09,670 --> 00:18:09,820
…
we've-

514
00:18:09,830 --> 00:18:10,890
I've morphed into a-

515
00:18:11,000 --> 00:18:11,370
We've-

516
00:18:11,380 --> 00:18:12,250
…
fucking fat motherfucker.

517
00:18:13,050 --> 00:18:14,490
I mean, we've gained some weight.

518
00:18:14,490 --> 00:18:15,630
I feel like I have.

519
00:18:15,630 --> 00:18:19,340
I feel like I've gained some weight,
but I did, yesterday I put on that

520
00:18:19,340 --> 00:18:20,330
little lingerie and I was like-

521
00:18:20,530 --> 00:18:21,740
Oh, you looked freaking hot, man

522
00:18:21,740 --> 00:18:24,310
…
I was like, damn, my ass is getting big.

523
00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:24,910
Yeah.

524
00:18:25,410 --> 00:18:25,730
Yeah.

525
00:18:26,370 --> 00:18:28,200
Your ass has been taking those carbs.

526
00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:28,250
I

527
00:18:28,510 --> 00:18:29,000
took those carbs.

528
00:18:29,540 --> 00:18:29,580
That's

529
00:18:29,820 --> 00:18:30,000
right.

530
00:18:30,070 --> 00:18:34,650
Um, so yeah, so like This is
also to be honest, but also

531
00:18:34,650 --> 00:18:36,890
to tell you guys it's okay

532
00:18:37,120 --> 00:18:37,610
Yeah

533
00:18:37,710 --> 00:18:38,580
It's gonna be okay

534
00:18:38,800 --> 00:18:39,500
And you know what?

535
00:18:39,510 --> 00:18:42,870
That's the other thing too, is
yeah, like for me, for example,

536
00:18:42,870 --> 00:18:44,080
I have a very high sex drive.

537
00:18:44,490 --> 00:18:45,950
We have sex a lot.

538
00:18:46,020 --> 00:18:46,390
Yeah

539
00:18:46,460 --> 00:18:51,110
Um, you know, I almost… I have
this reputation for just constantly.

540
00:18:51,170 --> 00:18:55,860
And so being as stressed as I
am, you know- Yeah … sometimes

541
00:18:55,860 --> 00:18:57,510
I feel like I gotta force it.

542
00:18:57,980 --> 00:19:01,104
And man, I just, if I'm not feeling
it, I'm not feeling it You have

543
00:19:01,104 --> 00:19:01,512
to force what?

544
00:19:01,512 --> 00:19:01,920
Like the sex?

545
00:19:01,920 --> 00:19:02,300
Yeah

546
00:19:02,330 --> 00:19:04,950
Oh, yeah, because we're,
I'm on separate things.

547
00:19:05,020 --> 00:19:11,250
Like I'm on, I have a, a hormone
patch that I take, and if my hormone

548
00:19:11,250 --> 00:19:15,210
patch is on and it's like the second
day for me, I get super horny.

549
00:19:15,680 --> 00:19:16,040
Yeah

550
00:19:16,100 --> 00:19:16,550
And so

551
00:19:17,130 --> 00:19:18,460
And so I gotta fight through that shit.

552
00:19:18,460 --> 00:19:20,860
I know, hey, first world
problems, I get it.

553
00:19:20,900 --> 00:19:23,890
Oh, we're gonna feel s- we're
gonna feel bad for Adam.

554
00:19:24,030 --> 00:19:26,310
He has to have sex with a horny, hot wife.

555
00:19:26,990 --> 00:19:27,930
Oh.

556
00:19:28,300 --> 00:19:29,080
Yeah, I get it.

557
00:19:29,090 --> 00:19:30,230
I'm not complaining.

558
00:19:30,230 --> 00:19:34,120
I'm just saying it's very difficult
when you have a very horny wife who

559
00:19:34,120 --> 00:19:38,430
wants to tear your clothes off, and
you don't feel sexy- … because

560
00:19:38,430 --> 00:19:40,490
you're stressed about finances.

561
00:19:40,840 --> 00:19:43,900
And she's like, "Fucking put your dick in
me," and I'm like, "It won't get hard."

562
00:19:44,380 --> 00:19:47,170
"I can't." It's, I need an, an inflatable.

563
00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:47,210
I

564
00:19:47,210 --> 00:19:48,490
just slap it a few times.

565
00:19:48,530 --> 00:19:48,670
It works.

566
00:19:48,670 --> 00:19:48,680
Oh

567
00:19:48,870 --> 00:19:50,230
my gosh, no, don't do that.

568
00:19:50,320 --> 00:19:50,830
It works.

569
00:19:51,250 --> 00:19:53,270
That would make me, uh,
feel, I don't, I don't know.

570
00:19:53,770 --> 00:19:55,160
It might make, make me
feel pretty good actually.

571
00:19:55,340 --> 00:19:55,470
You

572
00:19:56,290 --> 00:19:56,930
feel abused?

573
00:19:56,970 --> 00:19:58,060
Uh, probably.

574
00:19:58,120 --> 00:19:59,570
That's, that's my kink, I guess.

575
00:19:59,870 --> 00:20:03,870
So yeah, it, it's, it
definitely, it, it's hard- Yeah

576
00:20:03,870 --> 00:20:04,900
when you're stressed.

577
00:20:04,900 --> 00:20:08,250
It's hard to… And then we put
a lot of pressure on ourselves-

578
00:20:08,250 --> 00:20:08,740
Yeah

579
00:20:08,890 --> 00:20:12,820
…
uh, to operate in certain ways, and
then we still want to socialize.

580
00:20:12,830 --> 00:20:12,850
Yeah.

581
00:20:13,130 --> 00:20:16,670
That's my hard part is, and this
is where I feel bad because my

582
00:20:16,670 --> 00:20:18,690
wife is, she wants to be active.

583
00:20:18,690 --> 00:20:20,230
She wants to go be social.

584
00:20:20,460 --> 00:20:22,650
She wants to go do things in the water.

585
00:20:22,950 --> 00:20:25,160
She wants to go- She
wants to be at the river.

586
00:20:25,160 --> 00:20:26,510
Dude, we live- She
wants to be at the pool.

587
00:20:26,520 --> 00:20:27,750
She wants to be at a lake

588
00:20:27,750 --> 00:20:30,800
…
we live, we live in Central Texas.

589
00:20:30,860 --> 00:20:32,500
It is fucking hot.

590
00:20:32,820 --> 00:20:33,960
Which is why I like to stay in the

591
00:20:33,970 --> 00:20:34,180
air

592
00:20:34,180 --> 00:20:34,860
conditioner

593
00:20:35,510 --> 00:20:37,330
And I am an outside person.

594
00:20:37,330 --> 00:20:38,700
I love to be outside.

595
00:20:38,740 --> 00:20:40,330
I love to be in the sun.

596
00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,120
Heat does not bother me.

597
00:20:42,130 --> 00:20:43,480
She's like, "I want water."

598
00:20:43,490 --> 00:20:45,272
And I want water- "Go take a shower, man.
Go take a shower" … because so, and

599
00:20:45,272 --> 00:20:45,730
the pool down the street- You got a tub.

600
00:20:46,010 --> 00:20:46,210
You got

601
00:20:46,710 --> 00:20:47,120
a tub.

602
00:20:47,120 --> 00:20:48,020
Just go take a bath … like,

603
00:20:48,200 --> 00:20:50,480
it's like, dude, I cannot be home- Just

604
00:20:50,490 --> 00:20:50,700
wash

605
00:20:50,700 --> 00:20:51,140
around.

606
00:20:51,140 --> 00:20:53,030
We wear some water wings … all
the time by my… Like, it's just,

607
00:20:53,050 --> 00:20:54,710
it's depressing, not my thing

608
00:20:55,070 --> 00:20:57,160
Well, you know, you hit the
nail on the head on that one.

609
00:20:57,190 --> 00:20:58,000
It is depressing.

610
00:20:58,290 --> 00:20:59,280
And y- you know what?

611
00:20:59,500 --> 00:21:00,630
Goddamn, I'm depressed.

612
00:21:00,630 --> 00:21:01,270
It is what it is.

613
00:21:01,480 --> 00:21:01,887
Yes, I know.

614
00:21:01,887 --> 00:21:03,500
And, and, and we've had that discussion.

615
00:21:03,500 --> 00:21:07,980
I am, I'm depressed, and it's…
I don't wanna go anywhere.

616
00:21:07,990 --> 00:21:08,010
Yeah.

617
00:21:08,020 --> 00:21:10,020
I don't wanna, I don't
wanna leave the house.

618
00:21:10,020 --> 00:21:10,340
Yeah.

619
00:21:10,610 --> 00:21:14,150
Um, do, do I know that we're probably
gonna have a great time when we

620
00:21:14,150 --> 00:21:15,170
go hang out with our friends?

621
00:21:15,240 --> 00:21:16,470
Absolutely, I do know that.

622
00:21:16,490 --> 00:21:16,510
Yeah.

623
00:21:16,520 --> 00:21:17,150
But you know what?

624
00:21:17,410 --> 00:21:17,580
It's the

625
00:21:17,580 --> 00:21:17,620
getting there.

626
00:21:17,620 --> 00:21:19,730
I don't wanna have a great fucking time.

627
00:21:20,110 --> 00:21:21,360
I wanna be depressed.

628
00:21:21,370 --> 00:21:21,390
Yeah.

629
00:21:21,400 --> 00:21:22,690
I wanna sit on the couch.

630
00:21:22,730 --> 00:21:23,690
I wanna be bored.

631
00:21:23,710 --> 00:21:28,600
I wanna get stoned and just zombie
out on some trash TV, and then go to

632
00:21:28,600 --> 00:21:33,640
bed early and wake up late, you know,
because damn, uh, sometimes that's the,

633
00:21:33,650 --> 00:21:35,460
the little bit of pleasure that I have-

634
00:21:35,490 --> 00:21:35,850
Yeah

635
00:21:35,910 --> 00:21:37,560
uh, when, when I'm in a depressed state.

636
00:21:37,580 --> 00:21:42,150
Now that I n- I know that
when I'm, when I'm working out

637
00:21:42,330 --> 00:21:45,680
regularly and I'm eating healthy-

638
00:21:45,790 --> 00:21:46,230
Yeah

639
00:21:46,540 --> 00:21:47,560
…
and I'm hydrating-

640
00:21:47,580 --> 00:21:48,020
Yes

641
00:21:48,300 --> 00:21:50,550
…
I know how good I feel.

642
00:21:50,570 --> 00:21:50,900
Yes.

643
00:21:51,580 --> 00:21:52,110
I've been there.

644
00:21:52,110 --> 00:21:55,050
I need, so I need that feeling, and
yesterday I told him last night, I was

645
00:21:55,060 --> 00:22:01,170
like, "I need that feeling," because I'm
feeling very, very, uh, mentally shitty.

646
00:22:01,870 --> 00:22:02,440
Yeah?

647
00:22:03,250 --> 00:22:03,950
Foggy?

648
00:22:04,600 --> 00:22:05,660
Oh, God.

649
00:22:05,660 --> 00:22:06,570
Would you say foggy?

650
00:22:06,790 --> 00:22:08,140
Mentally foggy?

651
00:22:08,230 --> 00:22:09,250
More than foggy.

652
00:22:09,250 --> 00:22:10,940
Like- Absence

653
00:22:11,600 --> 00:22:12,350
Not present

654
00:22:12,360 --> 00:22:13,180
Not present

655
00:22:13,230 --> 00:22:13,590
Yeah?

656
00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:14,090
Yeah

657
00:22:14,510 --> 00:22:15,090
Wow.

658
00:22:15,110 --> 00:22:15,130
Yeah.

659
00:22:15,630 --> 00:22:16,840
Yeah, no, tell me about it.

660
00:22:17,150 --> 00:22:19,450
Um, I'm present-

661
00:22:19,530 --> 00:22:19,780
Yeah

662
00:22:20,550 --> 00:22:21,850
…
but I don't wanna be.

663
00:22:22,350 --> 00:22:24,570
Shows like this make me so emotional.

664
00:22:24,570 --> 00:22:25,000
Why?

665
00:22:25,050 --> 00:22:26,460
Well, 'cause are you wearing your patch?

666
00:22:26,460 --> 00:22:30,460
No.

667
00:22:30,960 --> 00:22:33,530
But you know, this is why
people, uh, listen to the show.

668
00:22:33,620 --> 00:22:34,700
It, it's a real show.

669
00:22:34,910 --> 00:22:39,060
And you know, I, I, I'm sorry this
isn't the, "Oh yeah, you know, so

670
00:22:39,060 --> 00:22:42,690
I took off her panties, and I did
this." I'm sorry, it's not sexy.

671
00:22:42,950 --> 00:22:43,960
I don't feel sexy.

672
00:22:44,260 --> 00:22:46,100
You know, we were at the club last night.

673
00:22:46,500 --> 00:22:48,730
Uh, we had, uh, we had fun.

674
00:22:48,730 --> 00:22:49,620
We had a good

675
00:22:49,630 --> 00:22:49,800
time.

676
00:22:49,800 --> 00:22:49,850
We had a good time.

677
00:22:49,850 --> 00:22:49,980
We

678
00:22:49,980 --> 00:22:50,447
did have a good

679
00:22:50,447 --> 00:22:50,554
time.

680
00:22:50,554 --> 00:22:53,170
This, this is like the second
time in a row that we've gone,

681
00:22:53,650 --> 00:22:54,900
and it's been a good time.

682
00:22:54,940 --> 00:22:56,160
Yeah, we had a good time.

683
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:57,770
We were able to do some socializing.

684
00:22:57,770 --> 00:22:58,300
I, I think it's because of
the drinks I'm drinking.

685
00:22:59,240 --> 00:23:03,160
So she's been drinking these
drinks, uh, called Buddies,

686
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:04,340
where you- Oh my God, guys

687
00:23:04,340 --> 00:23:08,460
…
pick 'em up at the, the local, uh,
Specs, the, the, the liquor store,

688
00:23:08,990 --> 00:23:11,770
uh, here in Texas, and they carry 'em.

689
00:23:11,770 --> 00:23:14,710
They're 10 milligrams of THC- THC

690
00:23:14,710 --> 00:23:15,630
in a seltzer.

691
00:23:15,630 --> 00:23:15,660
Yeah, yeah.

692
00:23:15,670 --> 00:23:16,670
In a flavored seltzer.

693
00:23:16,680 --> 00:23:17,100
Yes.

694
00:23:17,740 --> 00:23:25,550
And, uh, for some reason, and I can vouch
for this, this woman has tried several

695
00:23:25,550 --> 00:23:30,460
different THC and CBD, uh, edibles-

696
00:23:30,560 --> 00:23:30,910
Yeah

697
00:23:30,920 --> 00:23:32,760
…
and things like that-
Yeah … and even smoked.

698
00:23:33,260 --> 00:23:38,170
Nothing has affected her the way
these Buddy drinks have affected her.

699
00:23:38,170 --> 00:23:38,440
Let me

700
00:23:38,510 --> 00:23:39,740
tell you guys, they put me-

701
00:23:39,750 --> 00:23:40,410
Sexually

702
00:23:40,410 --> 00:23:46,110
yeah, they put me in such a
relaxed mode, very relaxed

703
00:23:46,110 --> 00:23:48,300
mode, that I'm like, "Oh, God."

704
00:23:48,830 --> 00:23:53,190
Worth saying we are not sponsored by them,
and we're not affiliates with them at all.

705
00:23:53,210 --> 00:23:53,810
This is-

706
00:23:54,010 --> 00:23:54,910
Y- this is just me- This

707
00:23:54,910 --> 00:23:55,050
is

708
00:23:55,290 --> 00:23:56,190
just … telling you that.

709
00:23:56,500 --> 00:23:56,750
Yeah.

710
00:23:56,770 --> 00:24:03,720
So our best friends showed 'em to us once,
and I didn't care for it the first time.

711
00:24:03,730 --> 00:24:04,060
Really?

712
00:24:04,510 --> 00:24:05,600
I think I was really full.

713
00:24:05,600 --> 00:24:06,900
We had eaten pizza.

714
00:24:06,960 --> 00:24:08,320
Just, it was making me full.

715
00:24:08,730 --> 00:24:08,980
Oh, yeah.

716
00:24:08,980 --> 00:24:10,110
And so I didn't, I didn't drink it.

717
00:24:10,110 --> 00:24:10,290
That's right.

718
00:24:10,290 --> 00:24:17,270
So then I tried it a second time, and
I was like, "Okay, that's nice." Well,

719
00:24:17,340 --> 00:24:22,460
Adam bought 'em, Adam bought me some
about a week ago, last weekend, and I

720
00:24:22,460 --> 00:24:28,710
was like, "Ooh." I drank all four of
them, and holy crap, that was good.

721
00:24:28,930 --> 00:24:30,660
And they're low calorie
because they're seltzer.

722
00:24:30,670 --> 00:24:31,830
Uh-huh, yeah.

723
00:24:31,830 --> 00:24:32,158
So they're like, what?

724
00:24:32,158 --> 00:24:32,630
They do give me a little gas … 5 to

725
00:24:32,630 --> 00:24:34,460
10 calories, something like that.

726
00:24:34,460 --> 00:24:34,990
Yeah, like I feel-

727
00:24:34,990 --> 00:24:35,990
Well, yeah, 'cause it's a seltzer

728
00:24:35,990 --> 00:24:36,380
…
seltzer.

729
00:24:36,380 --> 00:24:36,508
Yeah.

730
00:24:36,508 --> 00:24:39,830
So I feel gassy afterwards, but it's nice.

731
00:24:39,870 --> 00:24:42,570
Um, yeah, it makes me feel
really good and relaxed, and

732
00:24:42,570 --> 00:24:44,500
it's like, so the club was nice.

733
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:45,320
Yeah.

734
00:24:45,450 --> 00:24:49,000
Well, you know, um, that's just
something else that you gotta spend on.

735
00:24:49,500 --> 00:24:49,830
You know what I'm saying?

736
00:24:49,830 --> 00:24:49,850
But

737
00:24:49,850 --> 00:24:51,010
they're Buddies.

738
00:24:51,010 --> 00:24:51,360
I love Buddies.

739
00:24:51,360 --> 00:24:52,910
But- But it's four, four cans for

740
00:24:52,910 --> 00:24:57,580
$10 … I mean, if, if you're looking
for an aphrodisiac that you wanna try-

741
00:24:57,620 --> 00:24:58,200
You should try

742
00:24:58,210 --> 00:25:01,020
Buddies … uh, obviously- And
it's the pineapple paradise

743
00:25:01,020 --> 00:25:01,880
it's there o- off the shelf.

744
00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:07,090
You're not, you're not going down, down
the street- Yeah … uh, to a, a plug's

745
00:25:07,100 --> 00:25:08,500
house where you could get in trouble.

746
00:25:08,860 --> 00:25:09,870
Like, that's not a thing.

747
00:25:10,200 --> 00:25:10,250
Yeah.

748
00:25:10,330 --> 00:25:11,470
Just go into the Specs.

749
00:25:11,470 --> 00:25:13,020
They have those, uh, Buddies there.

750
00:25:13,020 --> 00:25:13,630
You grab 'em.

751
00:25:13,800 --> 00:25:14,190
Yes.

752
00:25:14,230 --> 00:25:14,930
Give 'em a shot.

753
00:25:14,970 --> 00:25:15,330
Who knows?

754
00:25:15,350 --> 00:25:15,550
They're delicious.

755
00:25:15,660 --> 00:25:16,590
Maybe they'll work for you.

756
00:25:16,590 --> 00:25:17,190
I don't know.

757
00:25:17,650 --> 00:25:18,790
I have never had one.

758
00:25:18,790 --> 00:25:20,000
I cannot vouch.

759
00:25:20,714 --> 00:25:21,144
Um,

760
00:25:21,374 --> 00:25:24,504
I think if he had them and he
had like four, I think, you know,

761
00:25:24,604 --> 00:25:26,244
six cans would be good for you

762
00:25:26,394 --> 00:25:26,754
Jesus

763
00:25:27,254 --> 00:25:29,084
Because I could definitely do six cans

764
00:25:29,184 --> 00:25:30,714
I'd walk out of there inflated

765
00:25:30,724 --> 00:25:31,664
No.

766
00:25:31,694 --> 00:25:35,664
I mean, gassy, but damn, seriously
baby, they make you feel good

767
00:25:35,734 --> 00:25:36,004
Uh-huh

768
00:25:36,124 --> 00:25:37,834
The club was good last night

769
00:25:37,984 --> 00:25:38,224
Yeah.

770
00:25:38,224 --> 00:25:41,434
We d- we did have a, a good time,
which is nice because, you know- Oh,

771
00:25:41,434 --> 00:25:41,604
but

772
00:25:41,604 --> 00:25:41,854
wait.

773
00:25:41,854 --> 00:25:42,794
We're saying- … when you're stressed-

774
00:25:42,794 --> 00:25:43,634
Yeah, that's what we're saying, that-

775
00:25:43,634 --> 00:25:47,714
When you're stressed, it, you know,
you get to show up and, and blow some

776
00:25:47,714 --> 00:25:51,014
steam and, and kind of get all of
that shit- Yeah … out of your head.

777
00:25:51,024 --> 00:25:51,784
That's nice But

778
00:25:51,844 --> 00:25:52,664
we twisted this.

779
00:25:52,934 --> 00:25:53,964
The story was- We

780
00:25:53,964 --> 00:25:54,244
twisted this

781
00:25:54,254 --> 00:25:59,804
…
that not everything is a, a show
about… This is a real show.

782
00:25:59,854 --> 00:26:01,224
Like, it's real, real life

783
00:26:01,284 --> 00:26:01,764
Yeah.

784
00:26:01,824 --> 00:26:02,124
Yeah.

785
00:26:02,264 --> 00:26:04,524
You know, and, uh, like I said- It's
not always sex … I'm sure a lot

786
00:26:04,524 --> 00:26:07,094
of you guys can, uh, can relate.

787
00:26:07,094 --> 00:26:12,234
So- Yeah … un- you know, we were,
we were bummed, uh, to have to contact

788
00:26:12,234 --> 00:26:14,974
the Naughty Nollens people and let
them know, "Hey, you know, I'm sorry.

789
00:26:15,464 --> 00:26:19,044
Uh, we were planning on being
exhibitors out there, uh, but we're

790
00:26:19,044 --> 00:26:20,644
gonna have to aim for next year-

791
00:26:20,864 --> 00:26:21,194
Yeah

792
00:26:21,284 --> 00:26:24,094
…
uh, because this year's just not
gonna work." Like, I, I can't

793
00:26:24,094 --> 00:26:29,264
justify us spending that money,
um, when we have bills to pay.

794
00:26:29,504 --> 00:26:29,924
Yeah

795
00:26:30,244 --> 00:26:30,624
You know?

796
00:26:30,624 --> 00:26:36,574
So it's not the fun answer, but it
is the adult responsible answer.

797
00:26:36,664 --> 00:26:37,064
Yeah

798
00:26:37,474 --> 00:26:41,294
Which, hey, you know, not n-
we can't always party, man.

799
00:26:42,214 --> 00:26:42,524
No.

800
00:26:42,664 --> 00:26:45,424
You have to, you have to do
the right thing sometimes.

801
00:26:45,434 --> 00:26:48,304
Yes And sometimes that means
you gotta, gotta pay them bills

802
00:26:48,314 --> 00:26:48,684
Yeah.

803
00:26:48,744 --> 00:26:50,134
And I did take some days off.

804
00:26:50,654 --> 00:26:51,014
Yeah.

805
00:26:51,024 --> 00:26:51,054
Good.

806
00:26:51,174 --> 00:26:53,034
I took, um- That's good … I still took-

807
00:26:53,294 --> 00:26:53,724
That's good

808
00:26:53,744 --> 00:26:58,274
…
next Thursday and next Friday
off, and- I'm going to relax

809
00:26:58,714 --> 00:26:59,414
and- As you should

810
00:26:59,454 --> 00:27:04,404
I'm gonna relax and, and try to
set my mind- Get centered … um,

811
00:27:04,424 --> 00:27:05,914
yeah, definitely get centered-

812
00:27:06,194 --> 00:27:06,514
Yeah

813
00:27:06,544 --> 00:27:07,534
…
because I need that.

814
00:27:08,044 --> 00:27:09,034
Yeah, get centered.

815
00:27:09,034 --> 00:27:10,454
Go spend some time at water.

816
00:27:10,524 --> 00:27:11,124
Yes.

817
00:27:11,194 --> 00:27:12,344
Anywhere water.

818
00:27:12,394 --> 00:27:13,324
Exactly.

819
00:27:13,504 --> 00:27:13,834
Yeah.

820
00:27:13,874 --> 00:27:19,324
No, um, I, I feel like, you know, and
I'll, uh, we've told… We haven't

821
00:27:19,324 --> 00:27:22,404
really told a lot of people and we're
gonna kind of make the announcement now.

822
00:27:22,634 --> 00:27:22,854
Yeah.

823
00:27:22,894 --> 00:27:28,294
Uh, because we didn't wanna have to
tell person after person, "Yeah, no,

824
00:27:28,304 --> 00:27:32,734
we're not going to Knotty Nollins after
all." Um, a lot of people have come up

825
00:27:32,774 --> 00:27:36,754
to us and said, "Hey, are you gonna,
are y'all going to the beach takeover?"

826
00:27:36,754 --> 00:27:41,644
Now, if, if you've listened to our
show, uh, we attended a Port Aransas

827
00:27:41,674 --> 00:27:45,474
beach takeover, um, about a year ago.

828
00:27:45,984 --> 00:27:46,264
Yeah.

829
00:27:46,294 --> 00:27:46,984
About a year ago.

830
00:27:47,494 --> 00:27:51,004
And, uh, it was an interesting experience.

831
00:27:51,014 --> 00:27:54,244
I don't wanna say it was grade A, but
it, that wasn't the, the takeover's

832
00:27:55,064 --> 00:27:55,884
problem, that was an, an us thing.

833
00:27:55,884 --> 00:27:55,994
That was an

834
00:27:56,424 --> 00:27:56,794
us problem.

835
00:27:57,294 --> 00:27:58,464
That was an us thing.

836
00:27:59,154 --> 00:27:59,654
Feel- That was a me problem

837
00:27:59,654 --> 00:28:01,504
…
feel free to look up that episode.

838
00:28:01,504 --> 00:28:01,874
Yeah.

839
00:28:01,924 --> 00:28:03,094
Um, but yeah.

840
00:28:03,094 --> 00:28:03,994
W- we-

841
00:28:04,004 --> 00:28:05,004
That's a really fun event

842
00:28:05,184 --> 00:28:08,654
we have the, you know- Mm-hmm … people
have asked us, like the people that we've

843
00:28:08,664 --> 00:28:11,484
talked to that we've explained we're
not going to Knotty Nollins after all,

844
00:28:11,924 --> 00:28:14,664
they're like, "Well, are you gonna go to
the beach takeover?" And it's like, you

845
00:28:14,664 --> 00:28:18,334
know, as much as I would enjoy that, uh-

846
00:28:18,334 --> 00:28:19,434
Because all of our friends are going

847
00:28:19,454 --> 00:28:21,094
all of our friends are gonna be out there.

848
00:28:21,104 --> 00:28:21,124
Yeah.

849
00:28:21,124 --> 00:28:22,664
Um- And we, we can go

850
00:28:22,674 --> 00:28:23,284
…
we can.

851
00:28:23,304 --> 00:28:26,444
I just, I can't because
for a couple reasons.

852
00:28:26,444 --> 00:28:32,084
One, um, every, by now
everything is taken up as far as

853
00:28:32,084 --> 00:28:33,966
hotels, as far as, um- I'm not

854
00:28:33,966 --> 00:28:34,744
even worried about that

855
00:28:34,864 --> 00:28:37,424
…
as any place to stay,
like it's already taken.

856
00:28:37,424 --> 00:28:37,464
Yeah.

857
00:28:37,474 --> 00:28:39,024
Well, I know you're
not worried about that.

858
00:28:39,024 --> 00:28:39,094
Well,

859
00:28:39,094 --> 00:28:39,754
because I mean-

860
00:28:39,754 --> 00:28:40,534
That to me- … because we

861
00:28:40,534 --> 00:28:40,894
have a place

862
00:28:40,964 --> 00:28:44,704
already … that's, well, see that's the
thing is I would wanna have to make, I'd

863
00:28:44,704 --> 00:28:46,094
have to make sure that that's secure.

864
00:28:46,194 --> 00:28:46,644
Yeah.

865
00:28:46,884 --> 00:28:49,764
You know, I wouldn't wanna be
staying with a whole bunch of people.

866
00:28:49,844 --> 00:28:50,164
Yeah.

867
00:28:50,334 --> 00:28:55,014
And on top of all that, we don't have
our stuff to set up, you know, all,

868
00:28:55,024 --> 00:28:56,764
just there's just a lot of factors.

869
00:28:57,244 --> 00:28:59,734
And then when we're out there, we're
gonna be running into a lot of people

870
00:28:59,734 --> 00:29:01,974
who do listen to the show who are
gonna be like, "What are you doing

871
00:29:01,974 --> 00:29:06,294
here? You should be at Knotty Nollins."
And we'll be like, "Oh, yeah. Um,

872
00:29:07,094 --> 00:29:09,054
can't really afford that," you know?

873
00:29:09,594 --> 00:29:11,224
And it's gonna be like, "Well,
what the hell are you doing here?

874
00:29:11,984 --> 00:29:12,534
Go home.

875
00:29:13,064 --> 00:29:17,074
Go home and pay some bills." Uh, you
know, you still gotta pay for meals.

876
00:29:17,114 --> 00:29:19,434
You still gotta… I don't know.

877
00:29:19,544 --> 00:29:23,214
I just, it, it just doesn't
feel like a good plan to me.

878
00:29:23,334 --> 00:29:23,734
Mm-hmm.

879
00:29:23,784 --> 00:29:26,004
So we canceled all of our plans.

880
00:29:26,004 --> 00:29:28,514
We were supposed to spend, uh,
the Fourth of July with some

881
00:29:28,514 --> 00:29:29,984
friends- Yes … out of town.

882
00:29:30,344 --> 00:29:31,614
We had to cancel those plans.

883
00:29:31,614 --> 00:29:31,954
Cancel

884
00:29:31,954 --> 00:29:32,234
that.

885
00:29:32,254 --> 00:29:35,654
Uh, because we just couldn't… I mean,
gas was expensive- Mm-hmm … you know,

886
00:29:35,654 --> 00:29:37,374
and you still gotta pay for meals.

887
00:29:37,874 --> 00:29:38,144
Yeah.

888
00:29:38,334 --> 00:29:40,574
You know, if I could put that
off for a weekend, just kind of

889
00:29:40,574 --> 00:29:42,304
put my hunger on a, on a shelf-

890
00:29:42,474 --> 00:29:42,964
We're not empty nesters … for the

891
00:29:42,964 --> 00:29:43,284
weekend,

892
00:29:43,284 --> 00:29:45,684
that would be lovely … like we
have, we still have lots of family,

893
00:29:45,684 --> 00:29:50,534
and we have a big- house bill stuff.

894
00:29:50,564 --> 00:29:51,304
Like I feel like-

895
00:29:51,304 --> 00:29:52,094
Big house bill stuff

896
00:29:52,104 --> 00:29:52,544
Yeah.

897
00:29:52,614 --> 00:29:53,534
You know, like it's a lot.

898
00:29:53,914 --> 00:29:56,444
Like we don't b- we don't
live beyond our means.

899
00:29:56,494 --> 00:29:56,714
No.

900
00:29:56,724 --> 00:30:02,684
We do wanna downsize, but I don't
know if we're going to be able to, so.

901
00:30:03,264 --> 00:30:04,604
Well, that was your fault, man.

902
00:30:04,614 --> 00:30:06,734
You told the kids that they
could stay as long as they want.

903
00:30:06,734 --> 00:30:07,204
I did.

904
00:30:07,204 --> 00:30:07,234
And

905
00:30:07,234 --> 00:30:07,984
I'm like, "Fuck,

906
00:30:08,604 --> 00:30:09,384
don't say that."

907
00:30:09,884 --> 00:30:10,044
So guys- On tape … random,
random right now, right?

908
00:30:10,044 --> 00:30:10,814
Because we're not empty nesters.

909
00:30:10,864 --> 00:30:14,374
We have two adult, two… We have one
adult that lives out of the house.

910
00:30:14,404 --> 00:30:16,474
We have two adult children that are 19.

911
00:30:16,674 --> 00:30:19,174
One has left, and we have one more here.

912
00:30:19,424 --> 00:30:24,594
And it is so funny because I've t- I have
been telling my kids, so not the oldest,

913
00:30:24,594 --> 00:30:26,184
oldest one, but the ones that are 19.

914
00:30:26,654 --> 00:30:29,414
I've been telling all four of our
children that have been in the house

915
00:30:30,214 --> 00:30:31,554
they'll never have to leave Mom and Dad.

916
00:30:31,864 --> 00:30:33,224
They can live here forever.

917
00:30:33,234 --> 00:30:33,264
Dude.

918
00:30:33,854 --> 00:30:35,224
They can always live with us.

919
00:30:35,484 --> 00:30:36,504
Don't say that.

920
00:30:36,534 --> 00:30:39,824
I then had a wonderful shroom

921
00:30:40,324 --> 00:30:40,994
Experience

922
00:30:41,094 --> 00:30:45,214
Experience And let me tell you that I
opened up my eyes to a lot of things,

923
00:30:45,234 --> 00:30:47,924
and I've realized that I don't wanna

924
00:30:48,274 --> 00:30:50,334
I want, I want to be an empty nester.

925
00:30:50,414 --> 00:30:50,814
Yeah?

926
00:30:50,864 --> 00:30:51,244
Like-

927
00:30:51,304 --> 00:30:52,694
You wanna enjoy that time

928
00:30:52,904 --> 00:30:55,114
without kids … I have a,
I have a three-year plan.

929
00:30:55,114 --> 00:31:00,664
I have three years to supplement
my income, because I do not

930
00:31:00,664 --> 00:31:02,194
want to work for people.

931
00:31:02,674 --> 00:31:08,984
So I have three years to gather
the income that I make in a year

932
00:31:09,164 --> 00:31:14,354
and save that so that I could have
a year ahead on everything, right?

933
00:31:14,454 --> 00:31:14,634
Yeah.

934
00:31:14,824 --> 00:31:20,674
And so with that, I'm like, "Fuck
that, I don't want any kids." So we're

935
00:31:20,674 --> 00:31:24,724
trying to downsize, but I've told them
all they could live with us forever.

936
00:31:24,784 --> 00:31:25,624
Yeah, yeah.

937
00:31:25,624 --> 00:31:26,674
Um- Way to go on that one.

938
00:31:26,944 --> 00:31:29,644
But we do have three years Big
stuff In three years everybody

939
00:31:29,644 --> 00:31:31,334
has to move out because, um-

940
00:31:31,944 --> 00:31:34,774
Well, you know, understand we've
never been without kids- We've

941
00:31:34,774 --> 00:31:35,614
never been without kids

942
00:31:35,644 --> 00:31:36,494
uh, in the entirety- First of

943
00:31:36,764 --> 00:31:37,154
all, I have never- … of

944
00:31:37,154 --> 00:31:37,344
the time that

945
00:31:37,354 --> 00:31:40,304
we've been together … ever been alone-

946
00:31:41,024 --> 00:31:41,294
Yeah

947
00:31:41,674 --> 00:31:42,484
…
ever.

948
00:31:42,494 --> 00:31:42,514
Yeah.

949
00:31:42,834 --> 00:31:45,354
Like, I've always had somebody with me.

950
00:31:45,754 --> 00:31:46,004
Yeah.

951
00:31:46,144 --> 00:31:50,344
And I was like, "You know, I
wanna spend the last of our,"

952
00:31:51,004 --> 00:31:52,464
I call them the golden years.

953
00:31:52,494 --> 00:31:53,074
Holy fuck.

954
00:31:53,074 --> 00:31:56,064
I, I, I mean- Stop it … because it's
not like that kind of golden years.

955
00:31:56,094 --> 00:31:56,494
Golden- Get

956
00:31:56,494 --> 00:31:56,864
out of here with

957
00:31:56,864 --> 00:31:59,164
that … I mean, like, golden
years, like, we're gonna be

958
00:31:59,164 --> 00:32:01,364
financially free golden years.

959
00:32:01,574 --> 00:32:02,114
Is that what that means?

960
00:32:02,114 --> 00:32:05,684
And so for, uh, for me, that's what my
interpretation is, and when that happens,

961
00:32:05,694 --> 00:32:07,514
you… I wanna be… It's just me and you.

962
00:32:07,524 --> 00:32:09,714
Me, you, and our dog.

963
00:32:10,174 --> 00:32:14,124
Y- you know, we have always,
even though we've never not had

964
00:32:14,144 --> 00:32:15,354
kids, we've always had kids-

965
00:32:15,544 --> 00:32:15,974
Always

966
00:32:15,974 --> 00:32:17,144
since, since we've been dating.

967
00:32:17,234 --> 00:32:17,444
Yes.

968
00:32:17,554 --> 00:32:20,154
Uh, 'cause I came to the
relationship with kids, you came

969
00:32:20,154 --> 00:32:21,334
to the relationship with kids.

970
00:32:21,424 --> 00:32:21,454
Yes.

971
00:32:21,454 --> 00:32:22,524
And they were babies.

972
00:32:22,534 --> 00:32:22,554
They

973
00:32:22,794 --> 00:32:23,104
were infants.

974
00:32:23,154 --> 00:32:25,664
And we raised this family together.

975
00:32:25,754 --> 00:32:26,264
Yes, yes.

976
00:32:26,264 --> 00:32:28,844
Um, we've never been without kids.

977
00:32:28,844 --> 00:32:28,874
Mm-hmm.

978
00:32:28,874 --> 00:32:32,534
But we have had times where
we have- We, we used to have-

979
00:32:32,544 --> 00:32:35,704
felt like we were without
kids for, like, a day.

980
00:32:35,714 --> 00:32:36,024
Yeah.

981
00:32:36,024 --> 00:32:36,394
You know?

982
00:32:36,394 --> 00:32:37,424
They're older now.

983
00:32:37,434 --> 00:32:38,854
S- even our babies are older.

984
00:32:38,864 --> 00:32:39,364
Yeah.

985
00:32:39,764 --> 00:32:44,824
Uh, but you know, it's one thing to
say, "Oh yeah, well, they're just

986
00:32:44,894 --> 00:32:47,254
out of town for the weekend," or,
"They're staying at their friend's

987
00:32:47,254 --> 00:32:47,984
house for the night." Yeah, yeah.

988
00:32:48,744 --> 00:32:53,094
Um, it's completely different to say- Yeah

989
00:32:53,094 --> 00:32:56,564
"Oh, they're, they're in five
states away from here," you know?

990
00:32:56,564 --> 00:32:56,614
Yeah.

991
00:32:56,624 --> 00:32:57,354
Or whatever.

992
00:32:57,804 --> 00:32:59,514
Uh, it's, it's just different.

993
00:32:59,604 --> 00:33:03,094
It w- I don't know what it's gonna be
like when it's just me and you alone

994
00:33:03,384 --> 00:33:03,609
with the kids.

995
00:33:03,609 --> 00:33:04,494
I'm, uh, I don't care.

996
00:33:04,494 --> 00:33:05,364
I'm r- I'm ready for it.

997
00:33:06,054 --> 00:33:07,434
I don't know what that's gonna be like.

998
00:33:07,744 --> 00:33:09,214
I'm so ready for it.

999
00:33:09,254 --> 00:33:09,514
Um-

1000
00:33:09,514 --> 00:33:10,134
Kind of scared.

1001
00:33:11,124 --> 00:33:13,674
But like you said, you know,
so I'm, I'm ready for that.

1002
00:33:13,674 --> 00:33:19,064
I'm ready to, uh, to enjoy,
enjoy our, our freedom.

1003
00:33:19,564 --> 00:33:20,634
Our financial freedom

1004
00:33:20,684 --> 00:33:22,004
Our financial freedom

1005
00:33:22,464 --> 00:33:24,544
Well, that is definitely something
good to work to get- You know,

1006
00:33:24,544 --> 00:33:25,534
downsizing, like-

1007
00:33:25,764 --> 00:33:28,724
You're working on your, what, your
second career, your third career?

1008
00:33:28,724 --> 00:33:28,944
I

1009
00:33:28,944 --> 00:33:30,024
am working on…

1010
00:33:30,054 --> 00:33:32,744
I'm gonna t- I'm gonna call
this my forever career.

1011
00:33:32,784 --> 00:33:33,044
Yeah?

1012
00:33:33,294 --> 00:33:34,384
Um, yeah.

1013
00:33:34,394 --> 00:33:35,954
And, and- And

1014
00:33:35,954 --> 00:33:37,024
what is it that you're looking to do?

1015
00:33:37,034 --> 00:33:41,334
I'm work- I'm working on my fi- I'm
working on my forever career, and

1016
00:33:41,334 --> 00:33:44,484
I'm working on two side hustles.

1017
00:33:45,044 --> 00:33:45,474
Um-

1018
00:33:45,504 --> 00:33:46,744
Forever career and two side hustles.

1019
00:33:46,744 --> 00:33:47,114
Yeah.

1020
00:33:47,224 --> 00:33:53,014
So my, um, I'm c- I want to
become a financial advisor.

1021
00:33:53,324 --> 00:34:01,064
Um, I already work in that field, and
so I love the idea of helping people.

1022
00:34:01,954 --> 00:34:06,584
And Helping people financially
because especially Latinos,

1023
00:34:06,614 --> 00:34:08,874
we're so money illiterate.

1024
00:34:09,204 --> 00:34:09,504
Yeah.

1025
00:34:09,574 --> 00:34:12,504
Like, saving isn't something
that we were taught.

1026
00:34:13,324 --> 00:34:16,804
Um, our parents work… I mean, and
I'm, I'm saying, I, and I'm pretty

1027
00:34:16,804 --> 00:34:20,474
sure other cultures did it, but, but
Mexicanos, we don't talk about that.

1028
00:34:21,254 --> 00:34:21,924
No, you know-

1029
00:34:21,924 --> 00:34:24,454
We don't talk about how mom
is living check to check.

1030
00:34:24,474 --> 00:34:24,954
We don't-

1031
00:34:25,194 --> 00:34:27,894
Those were two subjects we didn't
talk about- Mm-hmm … in the

1032
00:34:27,894 --> 00:34:31,184
house, were, uh, money and sex-

1033
00:34:31,254 --> 00:34:31,474
Yeah … i-

1034
00:34:31,894 --> 00:34:32,444
growing up.

1035
00:34:32,504 --> 00:34:32,684
Yeah.

1036
00:34:32,684 --> 00:34:33,274
We didn't talk about those things.

1037
00:34:33,274 --> 00:34:37,994
Those are two things, and it's
like, um, if you talked about it,

1038
00:34:38,674 --> 00:34:43,144
if you asked your parents about
it, you're being disrespectful.

1039
00:34:43,414 --> 00:34:48,674
And so I wanna teach people that it's okay
to talk to your… It's okay, one, to,

1040
00:34:49,594 --> 00:34:52,044
to save your money and to watch it grow.

1041
00:34:52,194 --> 00:34:52,544
Mm.

1042
00:34:52,704 --> 00:34:53,954
Um, I love that.

1043
00:34:53,984 --> 00:34:55,454
I see it every day.

1044
00:34:55,474 --> 00:35:00,214
It's amazing, let me tell you guys, it
is so fucking easy to grow your money.

1045
00:35:00,234 --> 00:35:02,944
It's ridiculous that no
one has taught us this.

1046
00:35:03,304 --> 00:35:04,114
And so I wanna do that.

1047
00:35:05,034 --> 00:35:05,574
There you go.

1048
00:35:05,784 --> 00:35:06,694
That sounds interesting.

1049
00:35:06,774 --> 00:35:07,164
Yeah.

1050
00:35:07,254 --> 00:35:11,984
I'm doing that, and then, um, I'm
creating… I don't wanna talk about it

1051
00:35:11,984 --> 00:35:15,794
too much, but I'm creating something for
women for the lifestyle that's going to,

1052
00:35:16,214 --> 00:35:18,224
um, make their lives a little easier.

1053
00:35:18,634 --> 00:35:18,984
Wow.

1054
00:35:19,044 --> 00:35:22,984
Um, and then the second, or
the second, um, side hustle is

1055
00:35:23,134 --> 00:35:26,154
I want to be a event planner.

1056
00:35:26,474 --> 00:35:32,414
I'm great at planning parties,
large corporate, corporate parties-

1057
00:35:32,484 --> 00:35:32,764
Yeah

1058
00:35:33,024 --> 00:35:38,334
…
um, and getting vendors, and I have
a lot of connections in the vending-

1059
00:35:38,834 --> 00:35:42,024
life, but I wanna do event planning

1060
00:35:42,274 --> 00:35:42,294
.
Yeah?

1061
00:35:42,304 --> 00:35:42,474
Yeah.

1062
00:35:42,474 --> 00:35:42,524
All right.

1063
00:35:42,574 --> 00:35:46,994
So like I want to help people,
um, do hotel takeovers.

1064
00:35:47,034 --> 00:35:52,004
I want to find people… When you
take, when you're having a house party,

1065
00:35:52,114 --> 00:35:56,614
um, you know, hey, I want those, I
call them, we call them yoga beds.

1066
00:35:57,084 --> 00:35:58,044
We call them yoga beds.

1067
00:35:58,044 --> 00:35:59,624
But I don't know what they are, right?

1068
00:35:59,634 --> 00:36:00,884
Those are those- Those
loungey chaise … those

1069
00:36:00,884 --> 00:36:01,674
round kinda like-

1070
00:36:01,674 --> 00:36:02,274
Yeah, the lounge-

1071
00:36:02,274 --> 00:36:02,384
two

1072
00:36:02,384 --> 00:36:02,704
hills

1073
00:36:02,794 --> 00:36:03,124
…
yeah.

1074
00:36:03,454 --> 00:36:05,514
Um, I know there's a
word for them, but those.

1075
00:36:05,544 --> 00:36:07,784
Where can I get some of
those, or can I rent them?

1076
00:36:08,114 --> 00:36:09,834
And then the St. Andrew's cross.

1077
00:36:10,424 --> 00:36:11,964
Does somebody, can you get that?

1078
00:36:11,984 --> 00:36:15,874
I wanna find vendors that
have that specific niche.

1079
00:36:16,654 --> 00:36:17,724
That's what I wanna do.

1080
00:36:18,024 --> 00:36:18,354
Huh.

1081
00:36:18,504 --> 00:36:25,264
So look out because you're gonna see and
hear more about that for sure because the

1082
00:36:25,264 --> 00:36:29,924
way you guys help our podcast grow, you
guys are gonna help our businesses grow.

1083
00:36:30,214 --> 00:36:32,044
And with that, we all
just help each other.

1084
00:36:32,754 --> 00:36:33,744
And we're gonna help your money grow.

1085
00:36:33,744 --> 00:36:34,734
Yeah, yeah.

1086
00:36:34,734 --> 00:36:35,614
Fun fact.

1087
00:36:35,654 --> 00:36:36,214
Yes?

1088
00:36:36,864 --> 00:36:38,664
The St. Andrew's cross.

1089
00:36:38,664 --> 00:36:39,334
Mm-hmm.

1090
00:36:39,344 --> 00:36:40,244
You know why it's called that?

1091
00:36:40,434 --> 00:36:40,904
No.

1092
00:36:41,404 --> 00:36:45,264
The- I mean, I have an idea, but
it's probably not the right one

1093
00:36:45,534 --> 00:36:48,664
…
so St. Andrew, A- Andrew was
one of the apostles- Yeah, I

1094
00:36:48,664 --> 00:36:49,374
know … that followed Jesus.

1095
00:36:49,374 --> 00:36:49,884
Yeah.

1096
00:36:50,514 --> 00:36:53,994
Uh, Jesus was of course crucified
on a cross in the T. Yeah.

1097
00:36:54,654 --> 00:36:57,564
Um, they were gonna crucify Andrew.

1098
00:36:57,594 --> 00:36:57,924
Uh-huh.

1099
00:36:58,254 --> 00:37:04,734
And he didn't feel like he could be
crucified the same way that Jesus was-

1100
00:37:04,894 --> 00:37:05,344
Uh-huh

1101
00:37:05,774 --> 00:37:09,144
…
and requested to be rather put-

1102
00:37:09,374 --> 00:37:09,644
Oh

1103
00:37:09,694 --> 00:37:10,514
…
in an X.

1104
00:37:10,524 --> 00:37:11,304
In an X.

1105
00:37:11,454 --> 00:37:11,894
Yeah.

1106
00:37:12,154 --> 00:37:14,184
And so the St. Andrew's cross-

1107
00:37:14,394 --> 00:37:14,934
Oh

1108
00:37:15,124 --> 00:37:15,864
…
is an X-

1109
00:37:15,934 --> 00:37:16,264
Okay

1110
00:37:16,424 --> 00:37:17,634
…
they, they tie you to.

1111
00:37:17,664 --> 00:37:17,974
Yeah.

1112
00:37:18,014 --> 00:37:18,424
You know.

1113
00:37:18,434 --> 00:37:18,734
Yeah.

1114
00:37:19,114 --> 00:37:20,714
Uh, or you hold onto- Yeah … whatever.

1115
00:37:20,724 --> 00:37:21,334
You know, that's-

1116
00:37:21,724 --> 00:37:21,944
Yeah

1117
00:37:22,064 --> 00:37:22,364
…
but yeah.

1118
00:37:22,864 --> 00:37:23,364
So there you go.

1119
00:37:24,074 --> 00:37:24,654
There's a little bit of-

1120
00:37:24,654 --> 00:37:25,304
Fun fact … knowledge there.

1121
00:37:25,304 --> 00:37:30,074
But yeah, those are, um- Those are
my, my things that I'm working on

1122
00:37:31,054 --> 00:37:32,124
That's some good stuff.

1123
00:37:32,124 --> 00:37:32,484
Yeah.

1124
00:37:32,564 --> 00:37:33,584
That's some good stuff.

1125
00:37:33,584 --> 00:37:33,958
I'm excited.

1126
00:37:33,958 --> 00:37:38,234
Well, you know, the, uh, the
podcast is growing, uh, pretty well.

1127
00:37:38,274 --> 00:37:38,534
Yeah.

1128
00:37:38,714 --> 00:37:42,804
And we've got some possible
opportunities in the future here.

1129
00:37:42,804 --> 00:37:47,424
We've got some incredible guests
coming up throughout the year and,

1130
00:37:47,424 --> 00:37:49,794
uh, you know, that's just gonna
keep getting better and better.

1131
00:37:50,354 --> 00:37:54,874
Um, I am actually working on,
as far as the show, a, a little

1132
00:37:54,874 --> 00:37:56,394
bit of, little bit of a tour.

1133
00:37:57,214 --> 00:37:58,474
A little bit of a tour.

1134
00:37:58,554 --> 00:38:01,344
Little bit of a live show tour-

1135
00:38:01,394 --> 00:38:01,844
Yeah

1136
00:38:01,904 --> 00:38:03,104
…
uh, for next year.

1137
00:38:03,114 --> 00:38:03,584
Yeah.

1138
00:38:03,704 --> 00:38:08,844
Uh, so, you know, there's some events
that happen throughout the year.

1139
00:38:08,844 --> 00:38:13,304
I'm working on some, working on some
things that we might be, uh, showing

1140
00:38:13,304 --> 00:38:15,414
up to your state and doing a live show.

1141
00:38:15,834 --> 00:38:16,114
Yeah.

1142
00:38:16,134 --> 00:38:18,224
You might hear us sometime, so who knows?

1143
00:38:18,754 --> 00:38:19,084
Yeah.

1144
00:38:19,114 --> 00:38:21,484
Uh, so yeah, we've got a lot
of balls that we're juggling.

1145
00:38:21,984 --> 00:38:23,958
Although I've been stressed, so
I haven't been juggling- I like

1146
00:38:23,958 --> 00:38:25,174
juggling … my balls as much.

1147
00:38:25,244 --> 00:38:26,114
I like juggling balls.

1148
00:38:26,134 --> 00:38:29,564
But, uh, you know, as you can see,
this is a very, very real episode.

1149
00:38:30,064 --> 00:38:33,104
Uh- Yeah … you know, I felt it necessary
to come on here and let you guys know

1150
00:38:33,104 --> 00:38:36,924
I'm sorry, but we will not be at Naughty
Nollans to do our show this year.

1151
00:38:37,154 --> 00:38:39,474
We will definitely be
there next year, though.

1152
00:38:39,524 --> 00:38:41,094
Uh, we will not be missing that.

1153
00:38:41,754 --> 00:38:45,534
Uh, so yeah, if you're, uh, if you're
expecting us out there, Naughty Nollan,

1154
00:38:45,534 --> 00:38:47,154
sorry, we will not be in attendance.

1155
00:38:47,504 --> 00:38:51,194
Uh, also if you're expecting us
at the, the beach takeover, sorry,

1156
00:38:51,194 --> 00:38:52,624
we will not be in attendance.

1157
00:38:53,014 --> 00:38:58,844
Uh, I will be here, uh, on my couch
most likely, or doing water things.

1158
00:38:58,914 --> 00:38:59,744
I kinda wanna go.

1159
00:39:00,494 --> 00:39:00,974
What?

1160
00:39:01,124 --> 00:39:01,944
Yeah.

1161
00:39:02,094 --> 00:39:03,124
You freak.

1162
00:39:03,164 --> 00:39:06,624
I kinda wanna go one day just so
we could see our besties and go and

1163
00:39:06,774 --> 00:39:06,864
have some fun.

1164
00:39:06,964 --> 00:39:08,074
Gosh, that sounds miserable.

1165
00:39:08,074 --> 00:39:11,034
You, you're talking about fitting
in a lot of things into a small

1166
00:39:11,034 --> 00:39:14,304
window of time That's not fun.

1167
00:39:14,554 --> 00:39:14,924
Okay.

1168
00:39:15,324 --> 00:39:16,944
Yeah, I mean, the idea is to have fun.

1169
00:39:17,294 --> 00:39:19,104
I can tell you I will not have fun-

1170
00:39:19,314 --> 00:39:19,634
Okay

1171
00:39:19,684 --> 00:39:21,014
…
if we, if we have to do that.

1172
00:39:21,014 --> 00:39:21,984
It's not gonna be fun at all.

1173
00:39:22,184 --> 00:39:22,214
Mm-hmm.

1174
00:39:22,844 --> 00:39:24,174
I don't like to be pressed for time.

1175
00:39:24,624 --> 00:39:25,174
Very true.

1176
00:39:25,494 --> 00:39:25,824
Yeah.

1177
00:39:26,324 --> 00:39:30,354
So yeah, unfortunately we're gonna be
missing out on those festivities, but,

1178
00:39:30,354 --> 00:39:32,004
uh, hey, you know, it is what it is.

1179
00:39:32,004 --> 00:39:33,054
There's always next year.

1180
00:39:33,584 --> 00:39:37,174
Um, and we have some other
opportunities coming up- Yeah … uh,

1181
00:39:37,174 --> 00:39:38,474
at some point as well, so.

1182
00:39:38,514 --> 00:39:38,764
Yeah.

1183
00:39:39,014 --> 00:39:39,714
We'll see.

1184
00:39:39,744 --> 00:39:43,794
But anyhow, thanks for joining
us for another quickie episode.

1185
00:39:44,564 --> 00:39:48,947
And, uh, with that, you know how to
find us, uh, everything- Well, follow

1186
00:39:48,947 --> 00:39:49,378
us … everything that we have.

1187
00:39:49,378 --> 00:39:49,392
Yeah.

1188
00:39:49,392 --> 00:39:50,074
Follow us on every- follow

1189
00:39:50,074 --> 00:39:52,734
us on Instagram, follow us on Snap.

1190
00:39:53,194 --> 00:39:53,574
Spotify.

1191
00:39:54,414 --> 00:39:55,344
Spotify.

1192
00:39:55,354 --> 00:39:55,384
Yes.

1193
00:39:55,384 --> 00:39:57,224
Follow us everywhere, guys.

1194
00:39:57,234 --> 00:39:58,474
We are everywhere.

1195
00:39:58,974 --> 00:40:00,024
Spotify Help.

1196
00:40:00,244 --> 00:40:01,264
And where do they go?

1197
00:40:01,764 --> 00:40:02,094
Spotify.

1198
00:40:02,764 --> 00:40:05,004
W- oh, and if you could… Do
you wanna follow our footsteps?

1199
00:40:05,004 --> 00:40:05,574
Oh, yeah.

1200
00:40:05,834 --> 00:40:09,764
Well, for all, all things Beyond
Monogamy, you're talking our merch,

1201
00:40:09,764 --> 00:40:13,254
you're talking our blogs, our
episodes, our clips, everything.

1202
00:40:13,544 --> 00:40:17,764
E- even to find the different platforms
that we're on, all you gotta do

1203
00:40:17,764 --> 00:40:20,694
is go to www.beyond-monogamy.com.

1204
00:40:20,704 --> 00:40:25,464
That is everything, plus the
100% anonymous confessional-

1205
00:40:25,474 --> 00:40:25,944
Mm-hmm

1206
00:40:25,984 --> 00:40:30,154
…
that you can, uh, type, type,
type, type, type, type, uh, away,

1207
00:40:30,174 --> 00:40:36,254
whatever it is that you wanna say,
and, uh, we may put it on the show.

1208
00:40:36,544 --> 00:40:36,904
Yes.

1209
00:40:37,234 --> 00:40:37,434
Yeah.

1210
00:40:37,454 --> 00:40:39,054
We also have a Linktree, guys.

1211
00:40:39,124 --> 00:40:43,484
If in there somewhere you find
it, you'll find all the other

1212
00:40:43,704 --> 00:40:45,564
even spicy places we're at.

1213
00:40:46,454 --> 00:40:48,754
That's right, 'cause we
had a long talk about porn-

1214
00:40:49,044 --> 00:40:49,454
That's right

1215
00:40:49,784 --> 00:40:50,404
…
that we make.

1216
00:40:50,904 --> 00:40:53,114
And mama's trying to
supplement her income.

1217
00:40:53,774 --> 00:40:55,764
Hey, you know, man- I ain't- I,
we ain't got no shame … let me

1218
00:40:55,764 --> 00:40:56,504
tell you, we ain't got, I ain't
got no shame, so there you go.

1219
00:40:56,504 --> 00:40:57,744
We ain't got no shame.

1220
00:40:58,474 --> 00:41:02,234
By the way, if you're there at
www.beyond-monogamy.com, there's a

1221
00:41:02,244 --> 00:41:04,564
little coffee mug that pops up there.

1222
00:41:04,564 --> 00:41:04,653
Buy

1223
00:41:04,653 --> 00:41:05,094
his Dutch Bros. Why don't

1224
00:41:05,094 --> 00:41:07,684
you go and click that and buy
his Dutch Bros, 'cause I gotta

1225
00:41:07,684 --> 00:41:09,144
cut back apparently, my caffeine.

1226
00:41:09,144 --> 00:41:09,374
Yes.

1227
00:41:09,664 --> 00:41:12,894
Um, I have told him this morning that
he cannot have any more Dutch Bros.

1228
00:41:12,964 --> 00:41:14,754
Oh, this is- And
so- … this is tough times

1229
00:41:15,254 --> 00:41:15,834
…
he had his

1230
00:41:15,914 --> 00:41:16,684
last one today.

1231
00:41:16,794 --> 00:41:16,884
Tough times.

1232
00:41:16,884 --> 00:41:18,524
The bastards won't sponsor us, so-

1233
00:41:19,234 --> 00:41:20,064
you know what?

1234
00:41:20,504 --> 00:41:20,544
Sorry.

1235
00:41:20,664 --> 00:41:22,621
You know, and I try, and
I tried to apply there.

1236
00:41:22,621 --> 00:41:23,006
I'm gonna have to find a new coffee.

1237
00:41:23,006 --> 00:41:30,564
So I, I, I, I applied there, um, because
let me tell you, I will work three jobs.

1238
00:41:30,594 --> 00:41:31,464
I don't care.

1239
00:41:31,474 --> 00:41:31,494
Mm-hmm.

1240
00:41:31,504 --> 00:41:33,474
Like, that's just my, that's my thing.

1241
00:41:33,794 --> 00:41:38,054
Um, and so I applied there and
they're not, they can't even hire me

1242
00:41:38,054 --> 00:41:40,944
because I don't have flexible time.

1243
00:41:41,934 --> 00:41:44,774
Oh, you could be that, and every time
you pull up you're smoking a joint.

1244
00:41:45,274 --> 00:41:45,794
Possibly

1245
00:41:45,914 --> 00:41:46,944
Yeah, that might do it.

1246
00:41:47,544 --> 00:41:47,574
Yeah.

1247
00:41:47,584 --> 00:41:53,984
Anyways, yeah, you know, everything
there, uh, is at www.beyond-monogamy.com.

1248
00:41:53,984 --> 00:41:58,844
Don't forget also that we are also
streaming every Thursday at 2:00 PM and

1249
00:41:58,844 --> 00:42:02,984
7:00 PM Central on fullswapradio.com.

1250
00:42:03,264 --> 00:42:05,654
Excellent place to hear a lot of other-

1251
00:42:05,774 --> 00:42:06,054
Yes

1252
00:42:06,394 --> 00:42:09,734
alternative sex type podcasts.

1253
00:42:09,744 --> 00:42:09,944
Yeah.

1254
00:42:09,944 --> 00:42:11,884
And I think, like, ethical
non-monogamy stuff.

1255
00:42:11,904 --> 00:42:12,364
Yeah.

1256
00:42:12,404 --> 00:42:13,104
All that good stuff.

1257
00:42:13,114 --> 00:42:14,794
Kink, you name it, it's all there.

1258
00:42:15,604 --> 00:42:17,964
Um, so yeah, definitely scope that out.

1259
00:42:18,294 --> 00:42:18,994
Am I missing anything?

1260
00:42:19,024 --> 00:42:20,034
Nope, I think that's it.

1261
00:42:20,154 --> 00:42:20,684
Okay.

1262
00:42:21,004 --> 00:42:23,404
Well, with that, thank you
guys so much for joining us on

1263
00:42:23,404 --> 00:42:25,424
this very, very real episode.

1264
00:42:25,494 --> 00:42:26,454
She even cried.

1265
00:42:26,954 --> 00:42:28,284
It's very sad.

1266
00:42:28,604 --> 00:42:32,534
But it's not sad because things
are, things are always up when

1267
00:42:32,534 --> 00:42:33,514
you're down at the bottom.

1268
00:42:33,514 --> 00:42:33,984
That's right.

1269
00:42:34,034 --> 00:42:34,614
That's right.

1270
00:42:34,914 --> 00:42:39,224
Anyways, thanks for joining us for another
week, and we will see you guys next week.

1271
00:42:39,394 --> 00:42:40,284
Bye.