A sex crimes detective falls for his therapist. Years later, they're swingers in the Bible Belt who still sit in church every Sunday.
Adam and Pris sit down with Kole and Bella Hart, a Texas couple living the swinger lifestyle with a pew that has their name on it. He went from detective to firefighter. She went from licensed therapist to Bible teacher. And they're here to prove that ethical non-monogamy (ENM) doesn't look just one way.
IN THIS EPISODE:
- How a detective and his therapist met: two sessions, a discharge, and a lost license
- Going from seeing himself as a "sexual deviant" to embracing ethical non-monogamy
- Bella's path from never having heard of swinging to full swap
- Faith and the swinger lifestyle: feeling like a hypocrite in church, and finding peace
- Jealousy, being territorial, and the "not her" veto
- Pre-claiming, reclaiming, and why aftercare in open relationships matters
- Starting an OnlyFans as swingers, and the "you're not real swingers" critique
- Advice for the curious couple next door who wants to bring it up
Find Kole & Bella's links in the show notes at https://www.beyond-monogamy.com
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