The swinger lifestyle has a dark corner nobody wants to talk about. We're talking about it.
Predators in the lifestyle: how to spot them, the red flags, and how to protect yourself.
This week on Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris get real about sexual predators in the swinger and ethical non-monogamy (ENM) community. It's a heavier conversation than usual — but after seeing too much of this come up lately, it's one the lifestyle needs.
In this episode:
- What actually makes a predator: the difference between an awkward newbie's mistake and a repeated PATTERN of circumventing consent
- The red flags: pushing past a no, repeat asking to wear someone down, escalating touch without checking in, using alcohol to lower guards, and pressuring one half of a couple when the other said no
- The story of the drunk single guy (and his big box of White Claws) who creeped out an entire club — and how great club staff shut it down
- The gut-punch of realizing former friends were grooming newbies and targeting the newly single
- The debate: do you call out a known predator to the whole community? (Adam is not swinger Batman. Pris is done being silent.)
- Why CNC (consensual non-consent) means things aren't always what they look like — and the look that tells you something is truly wrong
- Protecting yourself in open relationships: speaking up, partner check-ins, reading the room, and verification through platforms like SDC and 3Fun
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