Our very first swinger experiences were a DISASTER — and we're finally telling the whole story.
A listener confessional asks: what were your first times in the lifestyle really like, and how has it changed?

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris open up about their rocky start in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy: the drunk Halloween party that nearly ended everything before it began, Pris's nerve-wracked first single-guy experience, Adam's unauthorized "round two" and the death glare that followed (he calls it visual cyanide), the full swap couple who became lifelong favorites, and the single strangest swap in podcast history — featuring a historic mansion, uncontrollable laughter, and a velociraptor impression.

Along the way: jealousy and how to actually navigate it, why performance problems are almost never about you, the danger of playing drunk, the disconnect nobody warns you about, and the communication habits that saved their marriage. If you're a couple new to the lifestyle — or thinking about opening your relationship — this one is your cheat sheet of what NOT to do.

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