She wants out of the lifestyle. He's just getting started. And a pool party newbie can't figure out why every guy but him gets the memo. This week it's an all-mailbag episode of Beyond Monogamy.
Adam & Pris dig into two listener questions this week — no guest, just the inbox. First up: a couple married over 20 years, three to five years into ethical non-monogamy (ENM), now stuck on opposite ends of the spectrum. He loves the lifestyle. She's done. We talk through jealousy, trust, boundaries, and how to figure out what's actually fair for both partners when one of you wants to stop.
Then we flip the mood: a newbie swinger asks the ladies how to actually read the room at a lifestyle pool party without coming off as pushy, creepy, or invisible. What are the signals men miss? How should you approach a woman, or a couple, the right way? We get into it.
Real conversations about non-monogamy, jealousy in open relationships, swinger lifestyle communication, and pool party etiquette — the stuff nobody else is talking about out loud.
Got a question or confession of your own? Head to beyond-monogamy.com and drop it in our 100% anonymous confessional. While you're there, catch our free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central, check out the blog, and browse past episodes.
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