Nov. 16, 2025
The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover
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The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover
Episode Summary
This episode opens with a listener voicemail from a lesbian couple asking how they fit into the lifestyle—so we break down inclusive, real-world guidance for same-sex couples navigating LS spaces, boundaries, and community. Then we sit down with Texas Desires to preview their Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, Dec 5–6, where we’ll be recording a live Beyond Monogamy podcast.
Expect a true full-property buyout (not just a “top-floor party”), flat $500 room rate (king for 2 or double-queen for up to 4), BYOB, and upgraded breakfast included—no hidden fees. To reserve, email Loyd@rbhacc.com (one “L”).
Listener Voicemail: “How do lesbian couples fit into the lifestyle?”
- We discuss why many events historically skew toward the straight-male / bi-female dynamic and how to navigate that as a same-sex couple—focusing on mentorship, clear boundaries, and finding welcoming communities.
- Practical tips: look for friendly faces, build your table if no one pulls out a chair, and use lighthearted icebreakers to meet people.
Texas Desires: Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover (San Antonio • Dec 5–6)
- Dates/Location: Dec 5–6 in San Antonio (exact hotel released the week of for attendee safety).
- True hotel buyout: Texas Desires rents the entire hotel for the weekend, creating a cohesive, clothing-optional vibe within legal rules.
- Pricing (flat, no add-ons): $500 per room; up to 4 people in a double-queen, 2 people in a king. Organizer covers credit card fees, hotel taxes, security, and DJ.
- Food & Drinks: BYOB; breakfast included and upgraded; food trucks on site (purchase your own food).
- Rules & Comfort: Clothing required in food-service areas; full itinerary coming soon. Ladies—bring comfy shoes!
- How to Reserve: Email Loyd@rbhacc.com (one “L”). Rooms still available—don’t lose your spot!
Why This Takeover’s Different
Texas Desires designs a true weekend escape—an all-inclusive, full-property experience for the lifestyle community, not a scattered, mixed-public hotel setup. It’s an event where connection, comfort, and freedom meet.
Beyond Monogamy Events
Keep an eye on our Events Page for updates on this takeover and other upcoming meetups. We’ll sync our calendar as Texas Desires releases their full itinerary.
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Calls to Action
- Reserve your room: Email Loyd@rbhacc.com (one “L”).
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- Share & Review the show—help us grow the lifestyle community!
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Alright y'all, before we
dive in, a quick heads up.
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This show is raw, real, and
definitely not rated pg.
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We're talking about adult themes, sexual
content, and the kind of stuff you
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probably don't want blasting through your
speakers at work or around your kits.
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So grab some headphones, pour your
drink of choice and get comfy.
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Oh, and just so we're clear, we are not
licensed therapists, counselors, or sex.
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Couches.
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Sex coaches.
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Sex coaches, not sex couches
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or just a couple of people sharing our
lives, experiences and sexy adventures.
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An ethical non-monogamy.
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So with that, pull up a
chair and enjoy the show.
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And.
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Hello, and welcome to another
episode of Beyond Monogamy.
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I'm Adam.
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And I'm Pris.
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And today's episode is a little different.
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We got a voicemail through our website,
which I was really excited about.
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Yeah, that was kind of cool.
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Yeah.
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You know, we finally.
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Finally.
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And it really finally, it really,
it really caught our attention.
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It's one of those messages that really
makes you stop and think and say,
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Hmm, maybe we should talk about this.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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It's short, it's honest, and it's
a question that I think a lot
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of people in the lifestyle can
relate to and one way or another.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So I figured why not bring
it straight to the show?
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You guys, you gotta know how to do it.
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These are real questions, real
conversations, and zero filters.
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Ooh.
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All right, well, let's roll the voicemail.
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Hi, my name is Jan, and my question is how
do lesbian couples fit into the lifestyle?
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We both were previously married to
men and enjoyed the lifestyle a bit
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then, but are interested in trying
to pursue more friendships and
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experiences, but not sure how that
works, in our current relationship.
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Now that is such a great question.
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And first off, thank you so
much for sending that in.
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We appreciate it.
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He got so excited.
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I did.
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We love when our listeners reach out
because it opens up the conversation.
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It it, it just doesn't
get talked about enough.
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It does.
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No, no it doesn't.
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No, it doesn't.
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Exactly what she said right there was
really, it really, really hits on a
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part of the lifestyle that isn't always.
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Easy to navigate, especially
for couples who don't fit the
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so-called standard LS malt.
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You know, that's, that's a really
good point and I think it's
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interesting because the lifestyle
really kind of is tailor made for the
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straight man and the bisexual woman.
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When you really think about
it, I, oh, I will 100% agree.
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Yes.
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When you really think about
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Yes.
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The straight guy and the
bisexual woman of a couple.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I am noticing now there's
a lot of bisexual men and
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bisexual women and together.
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They're kind of going out there.
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And I'm noticing that now more so.
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Well, so I, I, I think it's always been
hard for anybody outside of the norm.
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Mm-hmm.
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Or what people consider the norm to be of
that straight man, bisexual woman dynamic.
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Mm-hmm.
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And I've actually had this question
come up to me before, on, uh, one
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of my TikTok lives that I did.
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Mm-hmm.
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Uh, there was a, a, a gentleman who
was, who was listening in on, on
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my live, and he said, you know, I
actually am married to another man
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and we want to explore the lifestyle.
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And we've attended a couple of events,
but we've gotten nothing but foul looks
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from people like, we don't fit in and
is there a place for us to fit in?
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And this is very similar to
the voicemail that we got.
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It's unfortunate that
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I mean unfortunately you, it is
a difficult little, I, I would, I
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can see where the difficulty is.
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It comes down to the
judgment and the lifestyle.
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You know, we Exactly.
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None of us want to be
judged for our lifestyle.
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Yeah.
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But then we're gonna go into
a lifestyle and judge others.
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For their lifestyle, because
it's different than ours.
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I think our community where
we're at is very, very open.
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It can be, I, it's not as accepting.
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I mean, if you recall, there are other
couples out there who really have issue.
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You know, especially men have issue
with bisexual and gay men oftentimes.
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Mm-hmm.
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Because they have this deep seated
fear, oh man, a gay man's gonna touch
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my balls, or something like that.
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You know, it's like, come on, dude.
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If you express your boundaries
openly and clearly to the people
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that you're interested in playing
with, it shouldn't even be an issue.
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Exactly.
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Exactly.
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It shouldn't, it shouldn't be an issue.
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We're pretty clear.
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But I mean, I get the que
I understand the question.
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And so they're just trying to, to navigate
into like just joining the lifestyle.
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Would And finding their place.
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And finding their place.
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Yeah.
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I think depending on where they're at
it's, they need to find a person who, or
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a couple or just friends that are gonna
actually help them navigate that way.
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I mean, I can see where the, where being
a lesbian couple is a little difficult.
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I can also see where that
might be something that people
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actually navigate toward more.
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I, I don't know why you
do make a good point.
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Like, I feel like that's gonna
be a, like if they were to come
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in it, they could be fetishized.
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Yes.
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I mean, every, everybody who's different
than the norm can be fetishized.
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Yes.
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Um, and, and I think that
you'll notice that, you know,
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different races are fetishized.
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You as a Latina are fetishized.
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Yes.
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It just.
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It, it's just is what it is.
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It's kind of wanting what
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Um, what what I feel is, is sad
is that people who are different
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feel like maybe they don't belong.
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And I think it's a two part thing.
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Mm-hmm.
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When you automatically are coming
from this space where you have
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been judged in the past mm-hmm.
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For how you want to live.
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When you enter a new space,
you automatically have those
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insecurities in your head.
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Yes.
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And so for example, I have always
felt like I was, uh, unattractive.
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And so I'm always gonna have those
insecurities in my head, right?
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And even if somebody is accepting
me and telling me the opposite, I'm
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still gonna have 'em in my head.
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Yes.
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So if I put myself.
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In that, in the shoes
of somebody like that.
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And I say, well, I'm, I am married
to the same sex uhhuh and we
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want to explore the lifestyle.
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Obviously I'm gonna have it
in my head that people are
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probably not going to accept it.
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But at the same time, when I go to
meet and greets and I go to events
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and I try to link up with others.
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Just to meet and yeah.
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And join a community.
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That's gonna be in the back of my head.
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And if, if people aren't as
receptive to bringing me into
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the folds, I'm gonna blame that.
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And a lot of times people don't do that.
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They just don't know how to socialize.
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So, I mean, a little, a few tips.
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I would definitely try to find a community
that you are more comfortable with.
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There's apps.
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You know, that they can kind of look into.
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And if you go to a lifestyle
meet and greet or a lifestyle
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event, introduce yourselves.
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I am, I know that it's
easier said than done.
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It, um, it's hard.
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You kind of have to just remove yourself
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Like you have to Yeah.
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We're adults.
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It's not like it was when we were younger
and it was harder for us to make friends.
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Or whatnot.
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You really, a lot of lifestyle people
are easygoing, so I understand the fear
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of it, but actually like just go in.
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Go in and just find a friendly face.
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You know, there's always gonna be
somebody who's gonna be welcoming.
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It's, it's very rare that
there's not at least one person
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who's willing to talk to you.
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Uh, yeah, exactly.
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Um, I definitely think that if you're
new to the lifestyle, you want to
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find somebody who will mentor and
maybe introduce you to others.
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That always helps.
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We try to play that role.
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When we're at events.
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Um, but even still this
particular case, mm-hmm.
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Both of these ladies were married
to men previously, and were
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in the lifestyle with those.
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Previous connections.
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Oh, wow.
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So they were, they, they know
what the lifestyle's about.
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Yeah.
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They know how it goes.
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They just, so they probably
already have a community.
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They just don't know.
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Probably, you know, they probably
know some people from the past Yeah.
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That they can, uh, rekindle
with, I would assume.
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But that is big assumption.
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I could be wrong.
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And if you don't just make yourself
just be like, Hey, I remember you.
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You know, and then be
like, oh no, they don't.
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But yeah, just pretend.
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You know, fake it till you make it.
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I will say that I, I. I am a big believer
in if you don't have a community or if
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you don't feel like you have a place
in the community then you make one.
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You know what I'm saying?
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That's a really good point.
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Like if, if nobody is willing to pull out
a chair and say, here, sit at our table.
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Yeah.
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Then build your own table.
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There you go.
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And tell people, Hey, you know
what, you can come sit with us.
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There you go.
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And you know, honestly, that's kind
of been our thing from the start.
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Because when we moved out here, we weren't
really, we still didn't know anybody.
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We didn't know anybody.
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We would go into the meet
and greets and we would just.
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Sit there.
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Yeah.
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And if we saw people kind of just
standing around, they would just
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come to our table and we would just
all be standing holding up the wall.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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I finally, finally, it
was kind of awkward.
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Finally, I finally said, you know what?
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This is not gonna work.
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If we're ever gonna do this,
we have to like say hi.
246
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You started wearing
your little Adam shirts.
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Get yourself an Adam shirt.
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Don't get an Adam shirt.
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Get yourself.
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Uh, my name is Adam Shirt.
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They're gonna come to you, or you
want to have some real fun, and, I
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don't know maybe my sense of humor is
very different than yours, but if it
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were me and I was, uh, one half of a
lesbian couple, now going into a an
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Ls event, what would you do, honey?
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I would ask, I would walk into an LS
event wearing matching shirts, one that
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says lesbian, and then your partner
can have an arrow pointing towards
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you that says, I'm with lesbian.
258
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And that would be hilarious because
that what that is, is an icebreaker.
259
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It's okay.
260
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Now it sounds really, really silly.
261
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It sounds very elementary, but
realistically it's an icebreaker.
262
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Yeah, and it's one of the reasons why I
used to wear my shirts to meet and greets
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at the beginning that had my name splayed
all over because it was an icebreaker.
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It was a way for people to come up to
me when they've been drinking and go,
265
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Hey I see your name is Adam, isn't it?
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It's like, well, no, my name is Gary.
267
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You know?
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And you carry yourself into a
whole different conversation.
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Yes.
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And before you know it, you are the
ones being referred to after that,
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that meeting where people are like,
did you see them wearing the lesbian?
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And I'm with lesbian shirts,
like, that's hilarious.
273
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So there you go.
274
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I'm gonna get you a shirt like
that says I'm with lesbian.
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Yeah, there you go.
276
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Why not?
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I says, I'm with hot wife.
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Uh, I've seen actually a sweater that
says, oh my goodness, I like that.
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Uh, I, I've seen a sweater that
says my wife tends to stab people.
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And I said, I need to get that sweater.
281
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You need that shirt?
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I do.
283
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So, so you can either go
with it two ways, right?
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Yeah.
285
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You can go with it the funny way, which
I wanna say I would, I would go that way.
286
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I would rock that way.
287
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Or you can just go and be like, hi.
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Blah, blah, blah, yeah.
289
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And just break it.
290
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It's really that simple break that click.
291
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It's, it is very simple.
292
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It's that simple.
293
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And it's not that simple.
294
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It's very, like, I go in, there are
cliques and believe me, we've gone
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to meet, they exist, meet and greet.
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There are, we've gone to meet and greets
where people actually, a lot of people
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know is, but then there's maybe new
people and I'll be like, hi, I'm Pris,
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and this is Adam and blah, blah, blah.
299
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And they'll look at us like.
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Hi.
301
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Oh, we've been straight up
snubbed before and I don't care.
302
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Yeah.
303
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I said hi to you.
304
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I've made my introduction and I'm done.
305
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I did my part.
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Yeah.
307
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And then we walk away, you know, and then
we find some, and you know, sometimes
308
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you can tell who's receptive to having
conversation you can and who's not.
309
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Yeah.
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If they turn their their shoulder to
you or they turn their back to you,
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they're obviously not interested.
312
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And you can move along from there.
313
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And I don't know if this is okay to
say, but everybody loves a lesbian.
314
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I don't see why it wouldn't,
everybody loves lesbians.
315
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Everybody loves gay people.
316
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I don't, especially in the lifestyle.
317
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I know you're in Texas, right?
318
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I, I know, but it doesn't matter.
319
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So I will, I will say, obviously for
this to even be a question, yeah.
320
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You guys have probably faced
judgment before, or people who have,
321
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obviously I think everybody do we
know where they're from, Austin.
322
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People, you're from Austin,
come over here, we'll take you.
323
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We'll introduce you to people.
324
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Reach out to us.
325
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I mean, realistically.
326
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Yes.
327
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Yes.
328
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You're in our area.
329
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Yes.
330
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Um, and, you know, we can, we can
always make some introductions and
331
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get you started in the community.
332
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Yes.
333
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Even if you weren't in our area
and judging by this, I guarantee
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you there are a lot of people in
the same situation who are not.
335
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Yeah.
336
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My suggestion would really be just
to put those insecurities away.
337
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Put them away as much as possible,
stick them in your pocket.
338
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Um, and I know that's
easier said than done.
339
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I struggle with insecurities all the time.
340
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But you kind of have to remove yourself.
341
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You have to disconnect from that,
and you have to portray a character.
342
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You have to walk in there the first
couple times and portray this.
343
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This, almost this parody of yourself where
you're just gonna come out of yourself
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and you're gonna introduce yourself.
345
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And as time goes on, you know,
as you introduce yourself and
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you introduce your partner.
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They're gonna put two and two together.
348
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And obviously if you are in the Austin
area and certain other areas, you are
349
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going to be accepted a lot faster Yes.
350
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Than, than you will in some other areas.
351
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Yes.
352
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But this community is very
large and it's very vast.
353
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Mm-hmm.
354
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And you can find your tribe.
355
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Mm-hmm.
356
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And I can't express that enough.
357
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Not just to, uh, my lesbian friends,
not just to my, uh, my gay male friends.
358
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Yeah.
359
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Uh, but to everybody.
360
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I've had single men reach out to me.
361
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I've had dragons reach out to
me, unicorns reach out to me.
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All everybody's trying to
find their connections.
363
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They're trying to find their people.
364
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You said Dragon and I thought.
365
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Like a real dragon.
366
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R I'm tired.
367
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Yes.
368
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No.
369
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Uh, a dragon just to, uh, remind everybody
is a, basically a male version of a
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unicorn, and that is a bisexual male.
371
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I like that.
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Who plays with couples.
373
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I like that better than a, well, a bull
is, is not usually a bisexual male.
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A bull.
375
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Oh, a dragon is a bisexual.
376
00:14:48,936 --> 00:14:53,501
A bull is a, a a he could be
bisexual, but a bull is, is
377
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primarily for the hot wife dynamic.
378
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He's the one who, the single
guy who sleeps with a woman
379
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sleeps with all the women.
380
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You know what I mean?
381
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Understood.
382
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Uh, and so they're, they
are referred to as bulls.
383
00:15:04,811 --> 00:15:08,321
Uh, you know, just one of the many
labels that we have around there.
384
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We have so many.
385
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It's, um, it's funny.
386
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It is what it is.
387
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Yeah.
388
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Yeah.
389
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You know, I mean.
390
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It's a matter of feeling included.
391
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It's a matter of feeling.
392
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Mm-hmm.
393
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Like you belong.
394
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Mm-hmm.
395
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And I think all of us
want to have that feeling.
396
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And I think it's difficult because
it's such a vast and diverse community.
397
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Yes.
398
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That you're not gonna be
accepted in some spaces.
399
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I mean, just plain and simple.
400
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Yeah.
401
00:15:34,231 --> 00:15:35,161
That is very true.
402
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That's very true.
403
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But the majority, you will find somebody.
404
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Yes, absolutely.
405
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You will find somebody.
406
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Absolutely.
407
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And so I just, I just wanna
set realistic expectations.
408
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Yeah.
409
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Because it, you know, obviously the
insecurities is there for a reason.
410
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You know, with that kind of
dynamic it's, you're not always
411
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accepted in certain places.
412
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Yeah.
413
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And, and people will ask you dumb
questions and they will make dumb comments
414
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as I'm sure you may have seen already.
415
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Um, and sometimes it's hard to.
416
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To get past that sometimes it's upsetting.
417
00:16:06,036 --> 00:16:06,576
Yeah.
418
00:16:06,996 --> 00:16:09,486
My wife and I handle dumb
comments very differently.
419
00:16:09,486 --> 00:16:12,306
Me personally, I use those
as opportunities to educate.
420
00:16:13,506 --> 00:16:15,516
My wife, on the other hand,
I do not, does different.
421
00:16:15,571 --> 00:16:20,886
I, I, I do not, I don't stand, I, I'm
not very, I only with certain people.
422
00:16:20,886 --> 00:16:23,136
I'm not very, what's the word?
423
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Friendly.
424
00:16:24,756 --> 00:16:26,976
Guess that's the word.
425
00:16:27,366 --> 00:16:28,506
And I'm very friendly.
426
00:16:28,846 --> 00:16:30,676
You are friendly, but you are very direct.
427
00:16:31,216 --> 00:16:36,556
I'm very direct and in the middle of my
directness I will still be friendly, but
428
00:16:36,556 --> 00:16:46,006
I just wanna paint a very clear picture
of what my boundaries, rules, my thoughts.
429
00:16:46,006 --> 00:16:46,066
Yeah.
430
00:16:46,136 --> 00:16:50,256
My preferences, my beliefs, and so.
431
00:16:51,696 --> 00:16:52,746
It is what it is.
432
00:16:52,776 --> 00:16:53,106
Yeah.
433
00:16:53,316 --> 00:16:57,396
And I will say, not everybody likes me.
434
00:16:57,396 --> 00:16:59,256
Not everybody likes Adam.
435
00:16:59,256 --> 00:17:02,596
Like, yeah you have to find your people.
436
00:17:02,956 --> 00:17:07,861
And I think I, you know, I really feel
you're gonna have a really good time.
437
00:17:07,861 --> 00:17:10,516
One, you left us a voicemail.
438
00:17:10,516 --> 00:17:10,576
Yeah.
439
00:17:10,776 --> 00:17:13,476
You want to be in the community.
440
00:17:13,686 --> 00:17:15,276
You want to.
441
00:17:15,981 --> 00:17:21,111
Enjoy the lifestyle and frankly being
able to interact with somebody like us
442
00:17:21,171 --> 00:17:23,751
regarding that, you have no fear Yeah.
443
00:17:24,086 --> 00:17:26,541
Of, of being able to go out
there and get out there.
444
00:17:26,541 --> 00:17:30,331
So you already have half the battle park,
you're, you're doing it you know, it's
445
00:17:30,331 --> 00:17:33,781
real important to set your boundaries
and, and express what it is that you're
446
00:17:33,811 --> 00:17:35,461
looking for when you meet others.
447
00:17:35,491 --> 00:17:35,581
Mm-hmm.
448
00:17:35,821 --> 00:17:40,681
Now, normally good People who converse
Uhhuh will straight up ask you what
449
00:17:40,681 --> 00:17:42,751
your dynamic is right up front.
450
00:17:42,841 --> 00:17:42,961
Yes.
451
00:17:42,961 --> 00:17:44,041
What are you looking for?
452
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This and that.
453
00:17:44,731 --> 00:17:44,941
Yeah.
454
00:17:44,991 --> 00:17:48,981
Be open with it, you know, be, be
very, very direct with it, because
455
00:17:49,371 --> 00:17:52,791
curiosity can be respectful when
it's handled with intention.
456
00:17:53,241 --> 00:17:54,261
Ooh, yep.
457
00:17:54,351 --> 00:17:54,621
Yeah.
458
00:17:54,896 --> 00:17:56,091
That's very true.
459
00:17:56,151 --> 00:17:56,511
Yeah.
460
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Yeah.
461
00:17:56,841 --> 00:17:58,221
And you gotta find the right fit.
462
00:17:58,456 --> 00:18:04,296
So you gotta look for LS Events,
clubs, there's groups and there's.
463
00:18:05,481 --> 00:18:09,021
A lot of diversity and there's
different orientations in there,
464
00:18:09,021 --> 00:18:10,581
so don't even worry about that.
465
00:18:10,581 --> 00:18:13,311
There's apps, there's Facebook groups.
466
00:18:13,316 --> 00:18:13,356
Yes.
467
00:18:13,361 --> 00:18:17,701
And I know specifically there's the
integrated Facebook groups and within
468
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those Facebook groups you have people
who start other Facebook groups Yes.
469
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That are for.
470
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Singles in the lifestyle?
471
00:18:23,941 --> 00:18:23,971
Yes.
472
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For bisexual men in the
lifestyle, for women only.
473
00:18:26,336 --> 00:18:27,656
For bisexual women, yes.
474
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For women only.
475
00:18:28,766 --> 00:18:28,916
Yes.
476
00:18:28,946 --> 00:18:33,206
So I guarantee you there is
a, a group out there for you.
477
00:18:33,296 --> 00:18:36,686
There is, um, if you haven't
tried, you can also look on SDC.
478
00:18:36,686 --> 00:18:39,196
You put yourself a profile out
there, which I'll have a link.
479
00:18:39,546 --> 00:18:43,656
For, uh, in our show notes, but
if you go to SDC, you can actually
480
00:18:43,656 --> 00:18:46,266
set up your profile and they have
different groups there mm-hmm.
481
00:18:46,511 --> 00:18:46,711
Mm-hmm.
482
00:18:46,791 --> 00:18:47,736
That you can seek out.
483
00:18:47,946 --> 00:18:48,006
Yeah.
484
00:18:48,036 --> 00:18:51,096
Uh, and it just makes it a little bit
easier for you to find your tribe.
485
00:18:51,216 --> 00:18:51,606
Yeah.
486
00:18:51,786 --> 00:18:51,991
You know?
487
00:18:52,191 --> 00:18:52,591
I like that.
488
00:18:52,806 --> 00:18:53,226
Yeah.
489
00:18:53,466 --> 00:18:55,716
Comfort and communication
matter more than labels.
490
00:18:55,776 --> 00:18:57,156
Way more than labels.
491
00:18:57,396 --> 00:19:02,196
And I think really when it
comes down to it, we are not.
492
00:19:02,836 --> 00:19:06,046
W we really are big into the community.
493
00:19:06,046 --> 00:19:08,116
You hear us talk about the
community all the time.
494
00:19:08,116 --> 00:19:13,336
Obviously, we would not feel this way
about the community if it didn't exist.
495
00:19:13,576 --> 00:19:16,246
This community is wonderful.
496
00:19:16,306 --> 00:19:16,936
It is.
497
00:19:16,936 --> 00:19:18,946
It's really, it's a very,
you'll be treated well.
498
00:19:18,976 --> 00:19:20,686
It's a very open community.
499
00:19:20,686 --> 00:19:26,536
And especially now that I know that you're
in Austin there's so many groups, so much
500
00:19:26,536 --> 00:19:28,846
community in the surrounding areas that.
501
00:19:29,596 --> 00:19:33,796
I think you both are going
to have a great time.
502
00:19:33,906 --> 00:19:34,326
Yeah, I really do.
503
00:19:34,326 --> 00:19:34,926
Absolutely.
504
00:19:35,146 --> 00:19:39,616
And you know, one thing about it
is too, if you feel the need to
505
00:19:39,616 --> 00:19:48,016
find more of a community of what
you feel you need, you can always.
506
00:19:48,661 --> 00:19:51,186
Put out a a, a meet and greet or Yes.
507
00:19:51,186 --> 00:19:53,941
Or set up an event for that specifically.
508
00:19:53,946 --> 00:19:53,986
Yes.
509
00:19:54,211 --> 00:19:54,301
Yes.
510
00:19:54,301 --> 00:19:56,941
And you will have people
show That's a good idea.
511
00:19:57,046 --> 00:19:57,266
Yes.
512
00:19:57,366 --> 00:19:58,146
That's a good idea.
513
00:19:58,146 --> 00:20:01,441
A brand new mixer and you are
putting it on, so you control that.
514
00:20:01,741 --> 00:20:03,691
You put it out there, you
go into these groups and you
515
00:20:03,691 --> 00:20:04,841
say, Hey, I'm putting on this.
516
00:20:05,046 --> 00:20:08,526
This meet and greet for this
specific type of person.
517
00:20:08,526 --> 00:20:08,586
Yeah.
518
00:20:08,586 --> 00:20:10,086
This is what we're looking for.
519
00:20:10,091 --> 00:20:14,491
If you match that, please come out
and have a drink with us or whatever.
520
00:20:14,491 --> 00:20:16,111
You know, there's a lot of
That's a really good idea.
521
00:20:16,171 --> 00:20:16,501
Yeah.
522
00:20:16,501 --> 00:20:18,206
There's a lot of different
ways, ways, ways to do that.
523
00:20:18,206 --> 00:20:19,501
I that I think it's pretty cool.
524
00:20:19,531 --> 00:20:19,831
Yeah.
525
00:20:19,891 --> 00:20:22,621
Uh, you know, the more we talk about
this stuff, the more normalized it
526
00:20:22,621 --> 00:20:25,261
becomes and I think that it's very true.
527
00:20:25,261 --> 00:20:25,681
Yeah.
528
00:20:25,741 --> 00:20:27,241
So that was a great conversation.
529
00:20:27,451 --> 00:20:30,541
And a reminder that the
lifestyle is at its best.
530
00:20:30,541 --> 00:20:30,661
Yes.
531
00:20:30,811 --> 00:20:33,151
When everyone feels seen,
respected, and included.
532
00:20:33,411 --> 00:20:37,491
Yes, exactly, these are the kinds of
conversations that keep the community
533
00:20:37,491 --> 00:20:38,301
growing in the right direction.
534
00:20:39,191 --> 00:20:41,081
Honest, open and real.
535
00:20:41,141 --> 00:20:41,651
Yeah.
536
00:20:42,131 --> 00:20:45,891
So when we come back, we're sitting
down with Lloyd and Brooke Dittfurth,
537
00:20:46,661 --> 00:20:49,301
the couple behind Texas Desires.
538
00:20:49,511 --> 00:20:55,451
Now they're the ones who are putting
on our, uh, the hotel takeover in San
539
00:20:55,451 --> 00:20:56,861
Antonio, December 5th through the 7th.
540
00:20:56,981 --> 00:20:59,531
And you'll hear a lot more
about that here in a little bit.
541
00:20:59,841 --> 00:21:02,421
But they're gonna be here to talk
about that and the incredible
542
00:21:02,421 --> 00:21:04,521
things that they've been building
in the lifestyle community.
543
00:21:04,766 --> 00:21:07,646
Ooh, you're definitely gonna
wanna hear this one guys.
544
00:21:07,646 --> 00:21:08,186
Absolutely.
545
00:21:08,186 --> 00:21:11,246
So hold on just a second
'cause we're coming right back.
546
00:21:11,246 --> 00:21:11,906
Alright
547
00:21:19,792 --> 00:21:24,712
So we are seriously excited about today's
guests because they are the powerhouse
548
00:21:24,712 --> 00:21:29,092
duo bringing one of the hottest lifestyle
weekends of the year to San Antonio.
549
00:21:29,272 --> 00:21:33,532
Joining us today are Loyd and Brooke
Dittfurth, the creators behind
550
00:21:33,652 --> 00:21:38,272
Texas Desires and their hosting an
unforgettable hotel takeover happening
551
00:21:38,452 --> 00:21:40,732
December 5th through the seventh.
552
00:21:41,182 --> 00:21:42,442
Uh, and.
553
00:21:42,887 --> 00:21:43,457
I'm excited.
554
00:21:43,457 --> 00:21:43,577
Me too.
555
00:21:43,607 --> 00:21:44,117
I'm excited.
556
00:21:44,117 --> 00:21:44,777
I know you're excited.
557
00:21:44,777 --> 00:21:44,897
Me too.
558
00:21:44,957 --> 00:21:48,527
I'm, this is a clothing optional
weekend packed with energy theme
559
00:21:48,527 --> 00:21:51,017
parties, games and community and beyond.
560
00:21:51,017 --> 00:21:55,272
Monogamy is going to be there doing a live
podcast right in the middle of the action.
561
00:21:55,272 --> 00:21:55,967
Yes, we are.
562
00:21:55,967 --> 00:21:58,937
So let's welcome Loyd and Brooke to
the show to find out everything we
563
00:21:58,937 --> 00:22:02,597
need to know about the Texas Desires
naughty and nice hotel takeover.
564
00:22:03,017 --> 00:22:06,077
Thanks Brooke and Loyd
for coming to the show.
565
00:22:06,077 --> 00:22:07,697
We appreciate it, guys.
566
00:22:07,727 --> 00:22:08,657
Yeah, thanks for making time.
567
00:22:08,762 --> 00:22:09,782
Thanks for having, yes.
568
00:22:10,857 --> 00:22:11,607
Yeah, for sure.
569
00:22:11,607 --> 00:22:13,347
We're, we're glad that
you guys could join us.
570
00:22:13,407 --> 00:22:17,637
Now, before we even get started into
the actual event itself, I'm actually
571
00:22:17,637 --> 00:22:19,287
curious about you guys just a little bit.
572
00:22:19,437 --> 00:22:22,677
How long have y'all been in the
lifestyle and what is your dynamic?
573
00:22:23,547 --> 00:22:24,027
So
574
00:22:26,097 --> 00:22:27,297
official story?
575
00:22:28,047 --> 00:22:28,617
Yes.
576
00:22:29,217 --> 00:22:29,757
Feed me Seymour.
577
00:22:29,757 --> 00:22:30,627
I love this.
578
00:22:30,627 --> 00:22:31,807
This is what I got into this for.
579
00:22:32,622 --> 00:22:33,262
I gotta know.
580
00:22:33,282 --> 00:22:33,552
version.
581
00:22:33,552 --> 00:22:35,442
You can do the long
version, whatever you want.
582
00:22:35,447 --> 00:22:37,002
Gimme the, gimme the juice.
583
00:22:37,272 --> 00:22:40,002
If you've met my husband, he
will give you the long version
584
00:22:40,002 --> 00:22:43,497
so I, and you'll speed it up.
585
00:22:44,712 --> 00:22:47,672
And so basically my
wife had breast cancer.
586
00:22:47,672 --> 00:22:50,972
She got good, she got big boobs,
flat tummy, all that was great.
587
00:22:51,632 --> 00:22:56,552
And we had a friend
convince us to go to desire.
588
00:22:57,602 --> 00:23:03,122
To go to a clothing optional
resort and you'll love it.
589
00:23:03,542 --> 00:23:04,322
Just go.
590
00:23:04,772 --> 00:23:09,662
And so our first diving
into the lifestyle world.
591
00:23:09,932 --> 00:23:10,682
Wow.
592
00:23:11,222 --> 00:23:13,962
We went to get naked for four days.
593
00:23:14,017 --> 00:23:14,197
Yeah.
594
00:23:14,227 --> 00:23:17,167
Like we don't do anything half-assed.
595
00:23:17,167 --> 00:23:17,732
We go,
596
00:23:18,392 --> 00:23:19,597
you go full fledged
597
00:23:19,867 --> 00:23:20,647
away.
598
00:23:20,867 --> 00:23:21,852
Balls to the wall.
599
00:23:22,712 --> 00:23:23,287
The wall, and
600
00:23:23,287 --> 00:23:25,177
then we back out of the pool and say.
601
00:23:25,777 --> 00:23:27,007
How do we feel about that?
602
00:23:27,697 --> 00:23:28,327
Is that good?
603
00:23:29,032 --> 00:23:29,332
Do we
604
00:23:29,332 --> 00:23:29,532
wanna
605
00:23:29,532 --> 00:23:29,552
do that?
606
00:23:30,187 --> 00:23:31,567
It's all trial and error.
607
00:23:31,777 --> 00:23:32,107
Yeah.
608
00:23:33,577 --> 00:23:40,297
And I'm not gonna say like we're all
in on all things lifestyle but we
609
00:23:40,297 --> 00:23:45,637
love the community so much that we've
immersed ourselves in it quite a bit.
610
00:23:46,732 --> 00:23:46,942
Nice.
611
00:23:46,942 --> 00:23:51,082
And I think like the friend aspect of
it too, like, these people are very
612
00:23:51,082 --> 00:23:56,172
genuine that you meet the majority of the
people and nobody's out to like people.
613
00:23:56,172 --> 00:23:59,052
It's a stigma on the swing
your lifestyle, right?
614
00:23:59,052 --> 00:23:59,922
Like absolutely.
615
00:23:59,922 --> 00:24:03,462
Uh, all y'all do is go around and
have sex with everybody, right?
616
00:24:03,462 --> 00:24:05,792
But they, they ever
knew anything about it.
617
00:24:05,792 --> 00:24:07,097
They would know that, you know, exactly.
618
00:24:07,692 --> 00:24:08,532
That's not the case.
619
00:24:08,712 --> 00:24:10,902
We have more friends
than we have playmates.
620
00:24:10,962 --> 00:24:11,082
Mm-hmm.
621
00:24:11,322 --> 00:24:12,012
Exactly.
622
00:24:12,012 --> 00:24:13,242
It's an actual community.
623
00:24:13,422 --> 00:24:13,842
I don't people say that.
624
00:24:14,107 --> 00:24:14,442
It was my friend that
625
00:24:14,442 --> 00:24:18,702
last night, she's, she's not into the
lifestyle and she was like, wow, really?
626
00:24:18,852 --> 00:24:20,622
I would think that you've
been in it for so long.
627
00:24:20,622 --> 00:24:22,812
You have like thousands of
people you've slept with.
628
00:24:22,812 --> 00:24:24,252
And I'm like, no.
629
00:24:24,582 --> 00:24:25,362
Thousands of people.
630
00:24:25,722 --> 00:24:26,172
Or was that
631
00:24:26,622 --> 00:24:28,267
Well, 'cause we've been
in it for so long, so Wow.
632
00:24:29,202 --> 00:24:29,442
Wow.
633
00:24:29,682 --> 00:24:33,762
Basically in a nutshell is
we just kinda like dove in.
634
00:24:33,762 --> 00:24:37,032
And that was a few years
ago, three years ago.
635
00:24:37,032 --> 00:24:37,542
Three years ago.
636
00:24:37,602 --> 00:24:40,822
We ended up going back to that
same resort three months later
637
00:24:40,822 --> 00:24:42,022
and stay in for another week.
638
00:24:42,577 --> 00:24:43,117
Oh my gosh.
639
00:24:43,927 --> 00:24:45,037
'Cause I do YouTube.
640
00:24:45,397 --> 00:24:45,487
Mm-hmm.
641
00:24:45,727 --> 00:24:51,787
Um, we started doing lifestyle resorts
and going to those, and then we started
642
00:24:51,787 --> 00:24:56,347
doing hotel takeovers and going here
and going there and trying this out.
643
00:24:56,347 --> 00:25:00,787
And then we go to this campground
thing and then we did this, and then
644
00:25:00,787 --> 00:25:02,917
we, and it just kind of got to be,
645
00:25:03,427 --> 00:25:04,837
yeah, no, I'm, I'm listening,
646
00:25:05,107 --> 00:25:05,227
but
647
00:25:06,937 --> 00:25:08,887
this one here loves to be naked.
648
00:25:08,917 --> 00:25:09,467
If he could walk around.
649
00:25:10,217 --> 00:25:10,877
All the time.
650
00:25:10,877 --> 00:25:11,357
He would.
651
00:25:11,357 --> 00:25:15,727
So we're always going to places where
he doesn't have to wear clothes.
652
00:25:15,877 --> 00:25:16,087
Yeah.
653
00:25:17,047 --> 00:25:19,537
And either it's great, it's
freeing, it's wonderful.
654
00:25:19,687 --> 00:25:21,607
Um, but yeah, it was, yeah.
655
00:25:21,607 --> 00:25:22,747
He, he likes to be naked.
656
00:25:22,747 --> 00:25:24,157
You know, I do like that.
657
00:25:24,157 --> 00:25:26,767
I've heard about, I've heard
that about the resorts, and
658
00:25:27,517 --> 00:25:29,377
I'm okay with being naked.
659
00:25:29,377 --> 00:25:31,447
Like, I don't, I used to be
really insecure, but it's
660
00:25:31,447 --> 00:25:32,647
like, it's very freeing.
661
00:25:32,647 --> 00:25:35,767
I heard it's very like liberating
and being like, because
662
00:25:35,767 --> 00:25:36,817
there's nobody judging you.
663
00:25:37,177 --> 00:25:38,167
No, exactly.
664
00:25:38,252 --> 00:25:38,622
It's so fun.
665
00:25:39,352 --> 00:25:42,722
Station with a woman's vagina
sitting in your face and you're
666
00:25:42,722 --> 00:25:43,862
not even thinking about that.
667
00:25:43,862 --> 00:25:47,072
You're just having a normal
conversation like we are right now.
668
00:25:47,072 --> 00:25:47,852
So I love that.
669
00:25:47,857 --> 00:25:47,947
That
670
00:25:47,952 --> 00:25:48,307
sounds like
671
00:25:48,307 --> 00:25:48,507
fun.
672
00:25:48,507 --> 00:25:49,742
Yeah, it sounds like fun.
673
00:25:50,372 --> 00:25:51,182
Horrible story.
674
00:25:51,662 --> 00:25:53,312
Uh, we're oblivious to things.
675
00:25:53,417 --> 00:25:53,707
Okay.
676
00:25:55,112 --> 00:25:58,862
And if you want something,
you have to say it.
677
00:25:59,042 --> 00:25:59,132
Mm-hmm.
678
00:25:59,522 --> 00:26:01,112
Spell it out.
679
00:26:01,622 --> 00:26:02,492
Yes, very much so.
680
00:26:02,492 --> 00:26:05,942
Because we had a couple
that was flirting with us.
681
00:26:06,662 --> 00:26:12,962
And they were telling us what their
stuff was and what their cues were.
682
00:26:13,472 --> 00:26:17,702
And then, uh, they ended up
staying another night at Desire.
683
00:26:18,362 --> 00:26:25,172
And I was doing my YouTube video on
the rooms and the amenities, uh, room
684
00:26:25,172 --> 00:26:26,522
by the hour if you wanna check it out.
685
00:26:27,092 --> 00:26:31,292
And yeah, I, uh, so I go ahead and, uh.
686
00:26:32,252 --> 00:26:35,342
They're like, yeah, it
was like $600 for tonight.
687
00:26:36,032 --> 00:26:36,752
It was crazy.
688
00:26:37,202 --> 00:26:37,352
Mm-hmm.
689
00:26:37,592 --> 00:26:38,942
Something like $600 a piece.
690
00:26:38,942 --> 00:26:40,232
I think it was 1200 bucks for the night.
691
00:26:40,237 --> 00:26:40,587
Mm-hmm.
692
00:26:40,727 --> 00:26:42,752
And it was in the new part of the resort.
693
00:26:42,752 --> 00:26:45,392
And I'm like, dude, can I do your room?
694
00:26:45,392 --> 00:26:47,192
He's like, yeah, come on up.
695
00:26:48,002 --> 00:26:48,962
I'll come get you.
696
00:26:49,532 --> 00:26:50,582
We go up there.
697
00:26:50,912 --> 00:26:55,352
This woman who I literally had
a 30 minute long con, extremely
698
00:26:55,352 --> 00:26:56,912
intelligent conversation with.
699
00:26:58,277 --> 00:27:00,827
Is laying on the bed, sprawled
out with the soundtrack of
700
00:27:00,827 --> 00:27:01,877
50 Shades of Gray Playing.
701
00:27:03,197 --> 00:27:10,277
My dumb ass goes in there and I literally
filmed the room and didn't take any cues
702
00:27:10,277 --> 00:27:11,927
of what they thought was gonna go on.
703
00:27:12,647 --> 00:27:13,522
Oh my goodness.
704
00:27:13,622 --> 00:27:18,437
We get on the plane and I'm
editing the video and I could have
705
00:27:18,437 --> 00:27:23,387
punched through the back of my
skull and my wife and I was like.
706
00:27:24,287 --> 00:27:24,767
Yeah, we missed
707
00:27:24,767 --> 00:27:25,097
that.
708
00:27:25,307 --> 00:27:28,037
We totally, she's like,
what are you talking about?
709
00:27:28,037 --> 00:27:31,697
I was like, here, and I, I showed
her, I was like, that's the 50
710
00:27:31,697 --> 00:27:33,677
Shades of Gray Gray soundtrack.
711
00:27:34,577 --> 00:27:35,417
And she's like,
712
00:27:36,272 --> 00:27:36,972
oh shit.
713
00:27:39,437 --> 00:27:40,307
Sucker
714
00:27:41,807 --> 00:27:42,917
missed opportunities.
715
00:27:43,917 --> 00:27:46,647
Well, going, going from that
actually makes a great transition.
716
00:27:46,647 --> 00:27:49,197
You know what it does for
anyone new to Texas desires.
717
00:27:50,322 --> 00:27:54,162
If you can tell us what your
brand and community are all about.
718
00:27:54,162 --> 00:27:54,222
Yeah.
719
00:27:54,252 --> 00:27:57,192
Like what inspired you two to start
this whole journey of Texas desires?
720
00:27:58,452 --> 00:28:04,242
We, ooh, I can't drop the giant
721
00:28:05,112 --> 00:28:05,622
thing yet.
722
00:28:05,622 --> 00:28:06,312
The giant thing yet.
723
00:28:06,372 --> 00:28:06,702
Right.
724
00:28:06,702 --> 00:28:08,352
And I know what the
giant thing is, but Okay.
725
00:28:08,667 --> 00:28:09,462
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
726
00:28:09,822 --> 00:28:13,152
Unveiled at the at the takeover event.
727
00:28:13,362 --> 00:28:13,572
Yes.
728
00:28:14,577 --> 00:28:16,017
It's pretty big.
729
00:28:16,137 --> 00:28:21,487
But we, but I think we want to have
that sense of community, but also
730
00:28:21,757 --> 00:28:23,917
where, you know, we're not mixing.
731
00:28:23,917 --> 00:28:28,347
I mean, we've been to a lot of things
and places and we like the fact that
732
00:28:28,347 --> 00:28:32,277
we could, do something and take, a
whole community and put us all in one
733
00:28:32,277 --> 00:28:36,207
little, one little area and just have
a weekend fun, and have that place
734
00:28:36,207 --> 00:28:37,977
to go and do those kind of things.
735
00:28:38,087 --> 00:28:39,527
I think that's one of the
736
00:28:39,527 --> 00:28:43,547
things I, I think a lot of it is
we've just experienced so much.
737
00:28:43,647 --> 00:28:51,027
And, our, we've had the ability
to experience things and nobody
738
00:28:51,027 --> 00:28:56,547
really has done takeovers the
way I think they should be done.
739
00:28:57,087 --> 00:29:00,177
And I, yeah, so I'm, I'm actually Loyd
and I, I don't mean to cut you off,
740
00:29:00,177 --> 00:29:02,937
but that leads me to my next question.
741
00:29:02,967 --> 00:29:03,027
Yeah.
742
00:29:03,027 --> 00:29:06,027
Because, you guys have
been to several takeovers?
743
00:29:06,027 --> 00:29:07,557
We've only been to one, honestly.
744
00:29:07,557 --> 00:29:07,617
Yeah.
745
00:29:07,857 --> 00:29:11,637
And it wasn't the greatest experience
that we had, but uh, we were actually
746
00:29:11,637 --> 00:29:13,167
looking forward to going to another one.
747
00:29:13,167 --> 00:29:16,807
When we talked to you guys about
this one, you built something
748
00:29:16,807 --> 00:29:20,017
that's not just a party, but it's
like a, an entire weekend escape.
749
00:29:20,047 --> 00:29:20,137
Mm-hmm.
750
00:29:20,377 --> 00:29:24,007
What sets your events apart from
the ones that you've attended?
751
00:29:24,007 --> 00:29:25,837
Like what, what's gonna
set this one different?
752
00:29:27,007 --> 00:29:29,407
So the difference is we bought the hotel.
753
00:29:30,242 --> 00:29:30,512
On.
754
00:29:30,752 --> 00:29:31,082
Like
755
00:29:31,622 --> 00:29:31,772
for
756
00:29:31,772 --> 00:29:32,887
the weekend, for the weekend.
757
00:29:33,887 --> 00:29:37,937
So I ended up, I dumped a lot of money.
758
00:29:38,237 --> 00:29:38,747
Yeah,
759
00:29:38,837 --> 00:29:39,257
there you go.
760
00:29:39,447 --> 00:29:43,117
And that's what's different because
the hotel takeovers that we go
761
00:29:43,117 --> 00:29:46,447
to with a, with one group, and
they're usually all about the same.
762
00:29:46,627 --> 00:29:48,577
They take over one of the top floors.
763
00:29:48,607 --> 00:29:52,657
They have, theme rooms, people that
wanna do theme rooms, things like that.
764
00:29:52,837 --> 00:29:55,897
And you can go up there, you can
have whatever clothes on or not
765
00:29:56,017 --> 00:29:59,017
have clothes on up there, but you
have to be dressed if you're down.
766
00:29:59,312 --> 00:30:01,442
Stairs and go to like another floor.
767
00:30:01,442 --> 00:30:04,802
Like your room is on the 11th floor
and the party's on the 12th floor.
768
00:30:05,102 --> 00:30:07,292
You actually have to have
clothes on to go up there.
769
00:30:08,012 --> 00:30:10,532
And so ours is different
because we have the whole hotel.
770
00:30:10,892 --> 00:30:13,622
If you wanna ride the elevator
down, butt ass naked, go.
771
00:30:13,977 --> 00:30:15,267
'cause we have the whole hotel.
772
00:30:15,267 --> 00:30:18,567
We have no, no kids, no grandmas.
773
00:30:18,567 --> 00:30:19,707
No grandpas, no.
774
00:30:19,787 --> 00:30:22,367
I mean, yes we do have 'em, but
they're probably gonna be naked too.
775
00:30:22,427 --> 00:30:22,802
But yes.
776
00:30:23,947 --> 00:30:25,387
But not the kids, but yeah.
777
00:30:25,417 --> 00:30:26,167
His grandma's and grandma.
778
00:30:26,257 --> 00:30:30,797
Uh, but yeah, so that's what's different
is that it's all lifestyle though.
779
00:30:30,847 --> 00:30:34,867
Every person that is in that hotel
for those th uh, two days and,
780
00:30:34,957 --> 00:30:37,597
and is going to be lifestyle.
781
00:30:38,347 --> 00:30:38,647
Yes,
782
00:30:38,647 --> 00:30:39,367
100%.
783
00:30:39,637 --> 00:30:40,687
I'm excited.
784
00:30:40,717 --> 00:30:41,077
Yeah,
785
00:30:41,587 --> 00:30:41,872
there's a lot of.
786
00:30:42,892 --> 00:30:43,822
There is a lot of newbies
787
00:30:43,852 --> 00:30:47,122
and they were interested because
they were looking for a safe place.
788
00:30:47,362 --> 00:30:52,162
That they can ex, they can
experience a resort like atmosphere.
789
00:30:52,792 --> 00:30:53,242
Yeah.
790
00:30:53,542 --> 00:31:01,232
Without, spending three, $4,000
to go to Cancun or go to hedo, or.
791
00:31:02,157 --> 00:31:07,947
Even going over to Secrets to Florida or,
you know, they may have gone to one of the
792
00:31:07,947 --> 00:31:13,107
smaller deals, but they didn't really feel
like it was worth it or whatever, whatnot,
793
00:31:13,107 --> 00:31:14,757
and they wanted to try something new.
794
00:31:15,087 --> 00:31:15,447
Yeah.
795
00:31:16,317 --> 00:31:18,267
So yeah, it, it's, it's
gonna be interesting.
796
00:31:18,267 --> 00:31:23,457
There's a lot of, I'm gonna call 'em,
veterans gonna be here, that are extremely
797
00:31:23,457 --> 00:31:25,947
experienced, but there's also a lot of.
798
00:31:26,922 --> 00:31:30,192
We've never done anything like this,
and we're kind of new to this world.
799
00:31:30,192 --> 00:31:32,652
That's one reason we're gonna
have a panel for newbies.
800
00:31:33,372 --> 00:31:33,702
Um, oh,
801
00:31:33,702 --> 00:31:34,362
I love that.
802
00:31:34,752 --> 00:31:36,012
Yeah, it is.
803
00:31:36,882 --> 00:31:38,412
Oh, by the way, I don't
know if, did I tell you that
804
00:31:39,372 --> 00:31:41,682
you've, you've really like
put a lot of thought in it.
805
00:31:41,682 --> 00:31:42,282
I love that.
806
00:31:42,282 --> 00:31:42,672
I love that.
807
00:31:42,672 --> 00:31:43,992
It's not gonna be just, you know.
808
00:31:44,052 --> 00:31:44,862
Yeah, no.
809
00:31:44,862 --> 00:31:46,632
And he has to tell,
ask me these questions.
810
00:31:46,632 --> 00:31:50,662
'cause his ADH D brain over here
will think of something and he'll
811
00:31:50,662 --> 00:31:54,412
be, he won't tell me until after he
is already doing everything for it.
812
00:31:54,412 --> 00:31:56,182
And I'm like, wait,
where did this come from?
813
00:31:56,452 --> 00:31:56,752
Yeah.
814
00:31:57,202 --> 00:31:57,412
Yeah.
815
00:31:57,412 --> 00:31:57,802
That's why,
816
00:31:57,827 --> 00:31:58,972
that's, that's awesome.
817
00:31:58,972 --> 00:32:02,062
I mean, I look, I'm looking
forward to it because I, like
818
00:32:02,062 --> 00:32:03,562
you said, I, we don't have.
819
00:32:03,847 --> 00:32:08,287
Three, $4,000 to drop at a a resort
as much as we would love to go.
820
00:32:08,347 --> 00:32:08,497
Yeah.
821
00:32:08,707 --> 00:32:10,477
Like it has to be really
planned out for us.
822
00:32:10,477 --> 00:32:11,197
We have a big family.
823
00:32:11,197 --> 00:32:11,287
Right.
824
00:32:11,617 --> 00:32:16,807
So this is and I've actually been
told by a lot of people who are new
825
00:32:16,807 --> 00:32:19,027
that they're looking forward to this.
826
00:32:19,597 --> 00:32:20,047
Yes.
827
00:32:20,197 --> 00:32:21,337
I am excited.
828
00:32:21,997 --> 00:32:22,357
Yeah.
829
00:32:23,197 --> 00:32:29,137
So I, I've gotta go ahead and tell
you I'm the type of person that when
830
00:32:29,137 --> 00:32:32,527
I hear negative things or rumors.
831
00:32:33,022 --> 00:32:33,832
That come up.
832
00:32:34,162 --> 00:32:34,432
Yeah.
833
00:32:35,242 --> 00:32:42,922
I learned the juice to 1 million to
make it a billion times better than I
834
00:32:42,922 --> 00:32:44,752
could have ever thought about before.
835
00:32:44,872 --> 00:32:46,402
'cause it actually helps me.
836
00:32:46,612 --> 00:32:46,702
Mm-hmm.
837
00:32:46,942 --> 00:32:52,762
I guess you so there's so many things
that like people were talking about
838
00:32:52,762 --> 00:32:54,982
how, well that's not a very good value.
839
00:32:55,102 --> 00:32:56,092
And then I'm like, wow.
840
00:32:57,142 --> 00:32:57,952
There we go.
841
00:32:57,952 --> 00:32:58,492
I got you.
842
00:32:58,492 --> 00:33:02,962
A 90% discount on a world class
boudoire photographer who's gonna
843
00:33:02,962 --> 00:33:04,492
come in and do play sessions.
844
00:33:05,337 --> 00:33:05,557
Wow.
845
00:33:05,562 --> 00:33:06,502
Wow.
846
00:33:07,162 --> 00:33:09,412
You ain't gonna find that nowhere else.
847
00:33:09,442 --> 00:33:09,652
No.
848
00:33:10,777 --> 00:33:11,647
Hundred to show up.
849
00:33:12,007 --> 00:33:15,687
And actually, you know what I, I
went through the, the flyers and the
850
00:33:15,687 --> 00:33:19,677
information that you guys had put
out, and I actually compiled, uh,
851
00:33:19,677 --> 00:33:24,177
what, what looks like, and if I could
get into the amazing weekend here.
852
00:33:24,177 --> 00:33:26,967
Friday night is naughty neon Noel.
853
00:33:27,687 --> 00:33:28,827
If I'm right about that.
854
00:33:29,067 --> 00:33:29,277
Yep.
855
00:33:29,277 --> 00:33:31,857
That's a full on Christmas neon rave.
856
00:33:32,307 --> 00:33:32,607
Yeah.
857
00:33:32,607 --> 00:33:36,087
Where guests wear neon greens,
reds, whites, or hot pink.
858
00:33:36,087 --> 00:33:40,077
That glows under UV light and
you can actually accent with your
859
00:33:40,077 --> 00:33:41,967
favorite rave or holiday accessories.
860
00:33:41,967 --> 00:33:43,077
That sounds like a blast.
861
00:33:43,437 --> 00:33:44,637
Yeah, that sounds like a lot.
862
00:33:44,637 --> 00:33:46,017
I can't wait to go shopping.
863
00:33:46,482 --> 00:33:46,802
I know.
864
00:33:46,962 --> 00:33:50,517
I, so I already have some neon
stuff and I'm not, I mean, I'm just
865
00:33:50,517 --> 00:33:51,967
gonna throw something on and do it.
866
00:33:51,967 --> 00:33:54,607
I would like to see everybody
else's, what they come up with.
867
00:33:54,607 --> 00:33:58,207
I love, I love the themes
where you can dress up and see
868
00:33:58,207 --> 00:33:59,437
what everybody comes up with.
869
00:33:59,467 --> 00:34:00,127
Yeah.
870
00:34:00,127 --> 00:34:03,097
And then Saturday is frostbite fantasy.
871
00:34:03,097 --> 00:34:06,187
It's a cool icy glow theme
where guests wear glowing white,
872
00:34:06,187 --> 00:34:07,897
light blue, or silver lingerie.
873
00:34:07,977 --> 00:34:11,637
Are outfits at Sparkle, under
colored and UV lights with LED
874
00:34:11,637 --> 00:34:13,527
jewelry or light of Christmas wear.
875
00:34:14,187 --> 00:34:15,867
How did you even come
up with these themes?
876
00:34:15,867 --> 00:34:16,407
You just,
877
00:34:16,467 --> 00:34:18,507
I'll be honest, we didn't.
878
00:34:21,352 --> 00:34:22,582
Yeah, our dj.
879
00:34:22,792 --> 00:34:23,992
Shout out to our dj.
880
00:34:23,992 --> 00:34:24,352
Yeah.
881
00:34:24,357 --> 00:34:24,477
Yeah.
882
00:34:24,682 --> 00:34:25,372
Ner, no
883
00:34:25,372 --> 00:34:25,552
nun.
884
00:34:25,612 --> 00:34:25,732
Oh,
885
00:34:26,047 --> 00:34:26,397
Allen.
886
00:34:26,402 --> 00:34:26,602
Allen.
887
00:34:26,902 --> 00:34:27,202
Yeah.
888
00:34:27,442 --> 00:34:28,342
DJ Allen Noon.
889
00:34:28,402 --> 00:34:29,242
Oh my goodness.
890
00:34:29,242 --> 00:34:29,752
Lemme, that's guy.
891
00:34:29,752 --> 00:34:32,692
Tell through that he is my favorite dj.
892
00:34:32,692 --> 00:34:33,292
He really is
893
00:34:33,292 --> 00:34:34,132
our favorite dj.
894
00:34:34,192 --> 00:34:34,522
Yeah.
895
00:34:34,527 --> 00:34:34,557
Yeah.
896
00:34:34,852 --> 00:34:35,272
Guess what?
897
00:34:35,272 --> 00:34:35,662
He's gonna
898
00:34:35,662 --> 00:34:37,677
be there both nights
and he is, my goodness.
899
00:34:38,872 --> 00:34:40,402
He actually is.
900
00:34:40,492 --> 00:34:45,022
Uh, um, so I met him at
the hotel a week ago or so.
901
00:34:45,077 --> 00:34:45,367
Okay.
902
00:34:46,597 --> 00:34:51,907
With the owners to find out what
the best place was for the crowd.
903
00:34:51,907 --> 00:34:52,867
That's probably coming.
904
00:34:53,167 --> 00:34:53,527
Yeah,
905
00:34:54,427 --> 00:34:54,787
of course.
906
00:34:54,787 --> 00:34:57,877
'cause I'm not a DJ and I don't
do loud music kind of deal.
907
00:34:58,507 --> 00:35:00,277
I like deal kind of guy.
908
00:35:00,277 --> 00:35:00,337
Yeah.
909
00:35:00,487 --> 00:35:04,942
And uh, so he's the one who
figured out all of that.
910
00:35:05,827 --> 00:35:06,367
Wow.
911
00:35:06,397 --> 00:35:07,327
Yeah, that sounds like him.
912
00:35:07,357 --> 00:35:09,637
He's really good about,
um, he knows his business.
913
00:35:09,637 --> 00:35:11,767
He does know his business and his music.
914
00:35:11,767 --> 00:35:13,897
And so you picked a really good dj.
915
00:35:13,927 --> 00:35:14,377
Yeah, he's,
916
00:35:14,377 --> 00:35:15,547
he really is our favorite.
917
00:35:15,787 --> 00:35:18,717
Now you've also packed the weekend
with fun the Friday theme room
918
00:35:18,717 --> 00:35:20,487
judging and a dj, obviously.
919
00:35:20,487 --> 00:35:20,937
Dj.
920
00:35:21,117 --> 00:35:21,717
Yeah.
921
00:35:22,272 --> 00:35:26,242
Nooner and Saturday's
live podcast with you.
922
00:35:26,242 --> 00:35:26,332
Love.
923
00:35:26,452 --> 00:35:27,742
Truly with us.
924
00:35:27,892 --> 00:35:27,952
Yeah.
925
00:35:28,102 --> 00:35:32,272
Uh, we'll, we'll be doing a live
podcast and a q and a from, uh, from
926
00:35:32,272 --> 00:35:33,682
there, which is gonna be a lot of fun.
927
00:35:33,922 --> 00:35:37,882
And that show will actually be airing
most likely the following weekend.
928
00:35:38,242 --> 00:35:39,502
Yeah, that's gonna be awesome.
929
00:35:39,922 --> 00:35:40,072
Yeah.
930
00:35:40,552 --> 00:35:43,582
I think you guys, y'all have a
spicy bingo going on as well.
931
00:35:43,912 --> 00:35:44,212
Yeah.
932
00:35:44,212 --> 00:35:47,212
So spicy bingo is, uh, Saturday.
933
00:35:47,572 --> 00:35:48,922
That's gonna be Saturday.
934
00:35:49,162 --> 00:35:49,522
Okay.
935
00:35:50,227 --> 00:35:53,347
Right before yours, we're
gonna have spicy games.
936
00:35:53,377 --> 00:35:53,407
Okay?
937
00:35:54,907 --> 00:35:54,967
Okay.
938
00:35:54,967 --> 00:36:01,717
We're actually still looking for
volunteers, uh, to go ahead and, uh, we're
939
00:36:01,717 --> 00:36:05,857
looking for volunteers to play the game
that are staying at the, at the hotel.
940
00:36:05,887 --> 00:36:10,807
That way we can, uh, get them on board and
we're not trying to pull 'em out of a hat.
941
00:36:10,837 --> 00:36:10,867
Okay.
942
00:36:12,742 --> 00:36:13,402
And we
943
00:36:13,402 --> 00:36:14,122
needed help.
944
00:36:14,122 --> 00:36:15,202
We need volunteers.
945
00:36:15,202 --> 00:36:16,402
So I like that.
946
00:36:16,552 --> 00:36:19,192
What do, I know you posted something.
947
00:36:19,252 --> 00:36:22,612
What is, what does the game entail
that you need volunteers for?
948
00:36:22,612 --> 00:36:23,812
Can we get into that a little?
949
00:36:24,352 --> 00:36:29,002
So there's a few games that
we'll be, they'll be chosen for.
950
00:36:29,182 --> 00:36:29,632
Okay.
951
00:36:29,732 --> 00:36:33,147
There is one I'm going
to Cock-a-doodle who?
952
00:36:33,567 --> 00:36:34,107
Okay.
953
00:36:34,542 --> 00:36:34,602
It
954
00:36:35,172 --> 00:36:36,842
involves blindfolds.
955
00:36:37,572 --> 00:36:38,112
Oh.
956
00:36:38,262 --> 00:36:38,922
And touching.
957
00:36:39,702 --> 00:36:40,972
And touching blindfolds and touching.
958
00:36:40,992 --> 00:36:41,022
Okay.
959
00:36:41,262 --> 00:36:41,562
Right.
960
00:36:42,007 --> 00:36:43,242
I, I love games.
961
00:36:43,277 --> 00:36:43,567
Yeah.
962
00:36:43,572 --> 00:36:43,932
Yeah.
963
00:36:43,982 --> 00:36:44,282
Great.
964
00:36:44,432 --> 00:36:48,022
This will be right out oh,
don't forget Friday night
965
00:36:48,082 --> 00:36:49,492
we're having a scavenger hunt.
966
00:36:49,497 --> 00:36:49,547
Yeah.
967
00:36:49,942 --> 00:36:50,362
Yeah.
968
00:36:50,362 --> 00:36:50,392
Uh,
969
00:36:50,422 --> 00:36:53,507
Friday is going to be a scavenger hunt
that will involve the theme rooms.
970
00:36:54,772 --> 00:36:58,612
There will be some actions that
will need to be done to check
971
00:36:58,612 --> 00:37:01,552
off those, uh, scavenger boxes.
972
00:37:02,992 --> 00:37:03,052
Oh, okay.
973
00:37:03,152 --> 00:37:06,212
And we are going to be choosing teams, so.
974
00:37:07,472 --> 00:37:09,107
We won't tell 'em how
we're choosing teams.
975
00:37:09,107 --> 00:37:09,857
Yeah, no, we're not
976
00:37:09,892 --> 00:37:10,212
doing to
977
00:37:10,262 --> 00:37:11,462
Mystery, mystery, mystery.
978
00:37:11,792 --> 00:37:15,602
So there's a lot, we're still thinking
of different things to do as well,
979
00:37:15,602 --> 00:37:20,172
just to just jam pack, events and
just have it just be just like.
980
00:37:20,887 --> 00:37:21,337
Oh my God.
981
00:37:21,337 --> 00:37:23,737
We did this and then we turned
around and did this, and oh my gosh.
982
00:37:23,737 --> 00:37:27,367
They didn't, there was no like dull
moment, like where we didn't know
983
00:37:27,367 --> 00:37:28,897
what we were supposed to be doing.
984
00:37:28,927 --> 00:37:32,707
Like other than just sitting around
in our room and not doing anything.
985
00:37:32,707 --> 00:37:33,097
Right.
986
00:37:33,637 --> 00:37:33,847
Yeah.
987
00:37:33,847 --> 00:37:33,907
Yeah.
988
00:37:33,907 --> 00:37:36,157
You're gonna come and you're
gonna sit in your room.
989
00:37:36,157 --> 00:37:37,147
That's your prerogative.
990
00:37:37,417 --> 00:37:38,467
And you do that if you
991
00:37:38,467 --> 00:37:39,007
want, and people may want to,
992
00:37:39,097 --> 00:37:40,657
and you, and that's, that's fine.
993
00:37:40,657 --> 00:37:42,337
But just know you're gonna
miss out on all the fun.
994
00:37:42,487 --> 00:37:42,757
Yes.
995
00:37:45,507 --> 00:37:47,307
But you can come observe.
996
00:37:48,027 --> 00:37:48,447
I love that.
997
00:37:48,447 --> 00:37:48,717
Right.
998
00:37:48,717 --> 00:37:49,407
That's right.
999
00:37:49,707 --> 00:37:51,387
Well, you know, all of that is happening.
1000
00:37:51,387 --> 00:37:54,117
And then of course, uh, there's
the, the Christmas party.
1001
00:37:54,327 --> 00:37:54,447
Yep.
1002
00:37:54,507 --> 00:37:59,397
Uh, which for those who are in
our community here in Texas that a
1003
00:37:59,397 --> 00:38:02,272
lot of them know, uh, the Facebook
group, friends of Friends mm-hmm.
1004
00:38:02,352 --> 00:38:05,857
And they're having a, uh,
Christmas party and they'll be
1005
00:38:05,857 --> 00:38:08,437
having it at, uh, at this event.
1006
00:38:08,527 --> 00:38:09,277
That's gonna be fun.
1007
00:38:09,307 --> 00:38:09,937
Pretty cool.
1008
00:38:10,267 --> 00:38:10,477
Yeah.
1009
00:38:10,477 --> 00:38:11,737
We actually were, uh.
1010
00:38:12,412 --> 00:38:18,802
We were going to be doing this event
anyways, and we had talked to them, be
1011
00:38:18,802 --> 00:38:22,942
like, Hey, we, we want to do this event,
we'd like to promote it on your page.
1012
00:38:23,032 --> 00:38:25,012
And so George was like.
1013
00:38:26,002 --> 00:38:26,182
I like.
1014
00:38:26,182 --> 00:38:27,352
Yeah, that's no problem.
1015
00:38:27,862 --> 00:38:33,482
And then, uh, when we found the original
property, uh, that we were gonna be
1016
00:38:33,482 --> 00:38:36,002
renting, it was a smaller boutique hotel.
1017
00:38:36,332 --> 00:38:41,882
And then about an hour later, he
calls, he is like, got a problem.
1018
00:38:42,422 --> 00:38:43,082
I was like, huh.
1019
00:38:43,772 --> 00:38:48,932
And then, uh, Jules is like, it's
not a problem, but that's the
1020
00:38:48,932 --> 00:38:50,252
weekend of our Christmas party.
1021
00:38:51,737 --> 00:38:54,707
And I'm like, oh, well I guess
we won't have this thing.
1022
00:38:54,707 --> 00:38:56,177
And she said, no, no, no, no.
1023
00:38:57,857 --> 00:39:00,467
We there, we've never done a takeover.
1024
00:39:00,467 --> 00:39:00,947
I'm like,
1025
00:39:02,357 --> 00:39:02,657
sure.
1026
00:39:03,257 --> 00:39:03,287
Oh
1027
00:39:03,737 --> 00:39:04,067
yeah.
1028
00:39:04,232 --> 00:39:04,692
Not there.
1029
00:39:05,192 --> 00:39:05,892
But yeah.
1030
00:39:06,527 --> 00:39:09,467
And I literally had to
double the size of the hotel.
1031
00:39:09,577 --> 00:39:09,877
Right.
1032
00:39:10,117 --> 00:39:10,507
Yeah.
1033
00:39:10,567 --> 00:39:11,857
Well, you know, you did pretty good.
1034
00:39:11,857 --> 00:39:12,667
You did pretty good.
1035
00:39:12,847 --> 00:39:15,127
Now, I, I, it's my understanding
you also are gonna have a
1036
00:39:15,127 --> 00:39:16,207
few food trucks out there.
1037
00:39:16,207 --> 00:39:16,627
Is that right?
1038
00:39:17,257 --> 00:39:21,757
So we are still working on
that and working through that.
1039
00:39:21,972 --> 00:39:22,262
Okay.
1040
00:39:24,002 --> 00:39:25,087
It is a potential
1041
00:39:25,267 --> 00:39:27,127
we, well, that, that is the plan.
1042
00:39:28,207 --> 00:39:34,047
As of now we are, are planning on doing
food trucks, uh, Friday, then Saturday
1043
00:39:34,047 --> 00:39:36,717
for lunch and then Saturday evening.
1044
00:39:37,317 --> 00:39:41,907
But we also have had some people
reach out and we may end up.
1045
00:39:42,957 --> 00:39:45,717
Just going ahead and like
doing, having somebody kind of
1046
00:39:45,717 --> 00:39:47,067
come in with a catering thing.
1047
00:39:47,647 --> 00:39:49,777
We're still working through
all those details, so I can't
1048
00:39:49,777 --> 00:39:51,547
really say hold me down to it.
1049
00:39:51,877 --> 00:39:52,332
Yeah, sure.
1050
00:39:52,717 --> 00:39:52,927
Sure.
1051
00:39:53,317 --> 00:39:55,237
Things change so, so fast.
1052
00:39:55,237 --> 00:39:57,877
And you know, it's a lot
that goes into it for sure.
1053
00:39:57,877 --> 00:39:58,087
A lot.
1054
00:39:58,087 --> 00:39:58,117
Oh
1055
00:39:58,572 --> 00:39:58,732
yeah.
1056
00:39:58,837 --> 00:39:59,167
Yeah.
1057
00:39:59,527 --> 00:40:03,837
I, I think the last one that we attended
was like a potluck where everybody
1058
00:40:03,837 --> 00:40:05,422
just had to bring a meal and Yeah.
1059
00:40:05,422 --> 00:40:06,422
We all brought something.
1060
00:40:06,692 --> 00:40:06,982
Yeah.
1061
00:40:07,282 --> 00:40:07,502
Oh,
1062
00:40:08,607 --> 00:40:09,597
and that's great.
1063
00:40:09,597 --> 00:40:11,607
When they're just the one nighters, right?
1064
00:40:11,787 --> 00:40:11,847
Yeah.
1065
00:40:12,147 --> 00:40:13,227
Yes.
1066
00:40:13,232 --> 00:40:14,367
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
1067
00:40:14,457 --> 00:40:14,817
I
1068
00:40:15,387 --> 00:40:15,687
do.
1069
00:40:15,957 --> 00:40:16,317
I like that.
1070
00:40:17,022 --> 00:40:20,302
Out of curiosity, just because,
you know, we're, I'm a woman and I,
1071
00:40:20,332 --> 00:40:23,722
I'm, I wanna know, so I know it's
a clothing optional event and it's
1072
00:40:23,722 --> 00:40:25,672
open to couples and single ladies.
1073
00:40:25,762 --> 00:40:28,342
How are you making sure
that everyone feels safe and
1074
00:40:28,342 --> 00:40:29,362
comfortable in that environment?
1075
00:40:29,902 --> 00:40:35,182
Okay, so we, uh, have the same security
guys that they use for the beach takeover.
1076
00:40:35,272 --> 00:40:35,512
Okay.
1077
00:40:36,142 --> 00:40:39,442
There's interior, there's
exterior, there's in the parking
1078
00:40:39,442 --> 00:40:41,132
lot, there's at the door.
1079
00:40:41,417 --> 00:40:45,377
Uh, we also have a medic who's
going to be running around with them
1080
00:40:45,977 --> 00:40:49,217
just in case somebody may take too
many blue pills and get a little
1081
00:40:49,577 --> 00:40:49,817
Yes.
1082
00:40:50,987 --> 00:40:52,967
We have,
1083
00:40:55,307 --> 00:40:58,487
so that, that we have
additional staff who are.
1084
00:40:58,907 --> 00:41:02,807
Going to be identifiable,
who are also gonna be walking
1085
00:41:02,807 --> 00:41:04,027
the halls, picking up trash.
1086
00:41:04,577 --> 00:41:04,817
That's good.
1087
00:41:04,817 --> 00:41:07,547
Different stuff like that, keeping
everything kind of cleaned up.
1088
00:41:08,027 --> 00:41:08,507
I like that.
1089
00:41:08,567 --> 00:41:08,927
Uh,
1090
00:41:09,257 --> 00:41:10,907
so know that they will report anything.
1091
00:41:10,907 --> 00:41:11,417
Yeah.
1092
00:41:11,417 --> 00:41:11,537
And
1093
00:41:11,537 --> 00:41:16,697
so, but at the same time, you know,
when people check in, like they're
1094
00:41:16,697 --> 00:41:18,647
gonna know who all these people are.
1095
00:41:18,697 --> 00:41:21,697
And that all they've gotta
do is make a phone call.
1096
00:41:21,697 --> 00:41:26,557
If you feel any uncomfortable
whatsoever just let us know.
1097
00:41:26,767 --> 00:41:30,577
I am totally cool with sending
somebody through a four story window.
1098
00:41:32,347 --> 00:41:32,527
Same.
1099
00:41:33,367 --> 00:41:34,777
We're on the, we're on the same page.
1100
00:41:34,837 --> 00:41:35,347
Okay.
1101
00:41:37,297 --> 00:41:37,987
But also,
1102
00:41:37,987 --> 00:41:40,967
I mean, I think there was a big
thing about, I, you know, the, the
1103
00:41:40,967 --> 00:41:45,087
elephant in the room of, you know,
single men and we have them on a list.
1104
00:41:45,087 --> 00:41:46,287
So, I mean,
1105
00:41:46,287 --> 00:41:51,477
there, there are, so there are
a few single ladies who have
1106
00:41:51,477 --> 00:41:54,487
came and we've said couples,
1107
00:41:54,967 --> 00:41:55,417
right?
1108
00:41:56,407 --> 00:42:01,852
If we have single women who are
coming, we have allowed a. Single
1109
00:42:01,852 --> 00:42:04,612
man to get a a room by themselves.
1110
00:42:04,612 --> 00:42:08,662
And of course they've been vetted
by people, so, and we, all of them.
1111
00:42:08,962 --> 00:42:13,102
Yeah, no, I was gonna say we have a lot
of single guys in the community that
1112
00:42:13,252 --> 00:42:19,642
have been in the community and have not
been what everyone seems to think, that.
1113
00:42:21,157 --> 00:42:21,447
Yeah.
1114
00:42:21,452 --> 00:42:21,802
Yeah.
1115
00:42:21,982 --> 00:42:22,432
Yeah.
1116
00:42:22,432 --> 00:42:23,272
So that's what that is.
1117
00:42:23,272 --> 00:42:23,812
That's nice.
1118
00:42:23,812 --> 00:42:24,442
That's good to hear.
1119
00:42:24,442 --> 00:42:24,712
Yeah.
1120
00:42:24,922 --> 00:42:27,472
But we're, we're trying to
be inclusive to everyone.
1121
00:42:28,222 --> 00:42:28,282
Yeah.
1122
00:42:28,282 --> 00:42:28,552
Here.
1123
00:42:29,062 --> 00:42:32,362
And somebody got upset right in the
beginning 'cause they thought that we were
1124
00:42:32,362 --> 00:42:36,622
just gonna be like, oh, we're gonna charge
y'all a million dollars to come here.
1125
00:42:36,722 --> 00:42:39,482
No, we're not, we haven't
changed whatsoever.
1126
00:42:39,572 --> 00:42:39,812
Same
1127
00:42:39,812 --> 00:42:41,162
price into that.
1128
00:42:41,162 --> 00:42:45,872
We're not looking to make it, we're not
gonna make any money off of this thing.
1129
00:42:45,932 --> 00:42:46,022
Mm-hmm.
1130
00:42:46,212 --> 00:42:46,597
It's for fun.
1131
00:42:46,597 --> 00:42:47,347
It's for the community.
1132
00:42:47,347 --> 00:42:47,917
That's awesome.
1133
00:42:47,977 --> 00:42:48,037
We
1134
00:42:48,607 --> 00:42:51,397
wanna have fun and we want everybody
else to have fun and we want people
1135
00:42:51,397 --> 00:42:53,227
to experience this for the first time.
1136
00:42:53,227 --> 00:42:53,617
Right.
1137
00:42:53,617 --> 00:42:56,287
And a lot of people are going to
experience it for the first time.
1138
00:42:56,317 --> 00:42:59,557
'cause they don't really have any
of those takeovers in San Antonio.
1139
00:42:59,737 --> 00:42:59,797
Yeah.
1140
00:42:59,797 --> 00:42:59,857
So.
1141
00:43:00,157 --> 00:43:04,477
I think a lot of the apprehension too
is it's the fear of the unknown, right?
1142
00:43:04,807 --> 00:43:05,077
For sure.
1143
00:43:05,077 --> 00:43:05,197
And
1144
00:43:05,587 --> 00:43:07,537
you don't know what's
gonna happen and yeah.
1145
00:43:07,897 --> 00:43:10,837
Half the people probably don't
even know who Loyd and I are,
1146
00:43:12,557 --> 00:43:14,567
and that that's, that's okay.
1147
00:43:14,657 --> 00:43:15,017
You know?
1148
00:43:15,017 --> 00:43:16,187
But you're gonna get to know us.
1149
00:43:16,277 --> 00:43:16,877
That's right.
1150
00:43:16,967 --> 00:43:17,777
Absolutely.
1151
00:43:17,777 --> 00:43:22,037
Well, you know, while we're on, uh,
pricing, let's talk logistics and pricing.
1152
00:43:22,037 --> 00:43:23,117
Let's talk details.
1153
00:43:23,417 --> 00:43:26,447
What's the cost of this awesome
adventure, which covers both
1154
00:43:26,447 --> 00:43:27,347
Friday and Saturday rooms.
1155
00:43:28,652 --> 00:43:30,662
Oh, so it's 500 bucks for a room.
1156
00:43:30,697 --> 00:43:34,727
You can have up to four
people in a double queen room.
1157
00:43:35,177 --> 00:43:37,547
You can have two people in a king room.
1158
00:43:38,687 --> 00:43:41,147
It's, that's it.
1159
00:43:41,717 --> 00:43:43,127
And it's just the flat rate.
1160
00:43:43,127 --> 00:43:45,167
There's no added fees
or anything like that.
1161
00:43:45,437 --> 00:43:45,647
Oh,
1162
00:43:46,187 --> 00:43:46,547
that's it.
1163
00:43:46,547 --> 00:43:47,222
Nope, that's it.
1164
00:43:47,322 --> 00:43:49,517
I'm, I'm actually eating
the credit card fees.
1165
00:43:49,607 --> 00:43:49,757
Mm-hmm.
1166
00:43:49,757 --> 00:43:51,467
I'm paying the taxes on the hotel.
1167
00:43:51,482 --> 00:43:51,702
Wow.
1168
00:43:52,472 --> 00:43:57,452
I'm paying the security, I'm
paying the dj, I'm paying.
1169
00:43:57,452 --> 00:43:57,692
I'm not.
1170
00:43:58,232 --> 00:44:00,082
The only thing if you
would have to do Yeah.
1171
00:44:00,082 --> 00:44:00,927
If food, yeah.
1172
00:44:00,927 --> 00:44:01,127
If
1173
00:44:01,127 --> 00:44:03,212
the food trucks are out there,
y'all gonna ask buy your own food.
1174
00:44:03,212 --> 00:44:03,532
You're have, pay your own food.
1175
00:44:03,622 --> 00:44:03,832
Right?
1176
00:44:03,832 --> 00:44:04,132
Yeah.
1177
00:44:04,132 --> 00:44:04,282
Right.
1178
00:44:04,282 --> 00:44:04,762
Yeah.
1179
00:44:05,212 --> 00:44:06,442
That's the least we can do.
1180
00:44:08,152 --> 00:44:10,072
Bring your own alcohol, providing that.
1181
00:44:10,192 --> 00:44:10,432
Yeah.
1182
00:44:10,432 --> 00:44:10,492
Um.
1183
00:44:11,977 --> 00:44:14,042
Oh and breakfast is included.
1184
00:44:14,042 --> 00:44:14,732
Breakfast is included.
1185
00:44:14,747 --> 00:44:21,647
We are going to upscale the breakfast
amenities because we wanna make sure
1186
00:44:21,647 --> 00:44:27,567
that, you know, we have options that
are, I do not realize that there are
1187
00:44:27,567 --> 00:44:29,577
certain food options that are not.
1188
00:44:31,722 --> 00:44:32,862
Tasteful
1189
00:44:35,322 --> 00:44:35,622
afterwards.
1190
00:44:36,042 --> 00:44:36,582
Okay.
1191
00:44:36,942 --> 00:44:37,842
After consumption.
1192
00:44:38,352 --> 00:44:44,237
Um, and yeah and certain
foods make things taste better
1193
00:44:44,597 --> 00:44:45,227
apparently.
1194
00:44:45,587 --> 00:44:46,157
Okay,
1195
00:44:46,607 --> 00:44:46,937
gotcha.
1196
00:44:48,137 --> 00:44:48,467
Yeah.
1197
00:44:48,467 --> 00:44:50,687
So we're adding some of those,
1198
00:44:51,257 --> 00:44:55,217
but also also for people that have
food allergies and things, people that
1199
00:44:55,307 --> 00:44:58,037
can eat bread, waffles and that stuff.
1200
00:44:59,207 --> 00:44:59,427
So,
1201
00:45:00,002 --> 00:45:00,692
okay.
1202
00:45:00,692 --> 00:45:00,702
Yeah.
1203
00:45:00,702 --> 00:45:00,932
Yeah.
1204
00:45:00,932 --> 00:45:02,282
You covered all your bases.
1205
00:45:02,492 --> 00:45:05,702
And as of right now, I know the location
has not been released to protect the
1206
00:45:05,702 --> 00:45:07,172
safety of everyone who's attending.
1207
00:45:07,892 --> 00:45:10,052
When are y'all gonna be
releasing that information?
1208
00:45:11,102 --> 00:45:11,732
A week of week.
1209
00:45:11,732 --> 00:45:11,972
Of the week of, mm-hmm.
1210
00:45:12,272 --> 00:45:12,692
Okay.
1211
00:45:12,812 --> 00:45:13,502
Okay.
1212
00:45:13,502 --> 00:45:14,072
Excellent.
1213
00:45:14,322 --> 00:45:14,562
Yeah.
1214
00:45:14,952 --> 00:45:15,342
Roughly.
1215
00:45:15,342 --> 00:45:15,352
I,
1216
00:45:15,492 --> 00:45:18,282
I gotta tell you, we are thrilled
to be doing a live podcast
1217
00:45:18,282 --> 00:45:19,852
from, uh, the Christmas party.
1218
00:45:20,122 --> 00:45:22,762
What made you decide to bring Beyond
Monogamy into the mix this year?
1219
00:45:24,187 --> 00:45:27,337
Y'all actually had a conversation
with me at that very first meeting
1220
00:45:28,597 --> 00:45:31,427
and yeah, I was literally willingly,
1221
00:45:31,627 --> 00:45:32,197
willingly.
1222
00:45:32,297 --> 00:45:32,627
Just kidding.
1223
00:45:33,647 --> 00:45:36,827
So even though I'm married to
her, I was basically living in San
1224
00:45:36,827 --> 00:45:38,447
Antonio in a hotel at the time.
1225
00:45:38,712 --> 00:45:38,932
Oh.
1226
00:45:39,887 --> 00:45:41,147
Running out of San Antonio.
1227
00:45:41,152 --> 00:45:42,137
We live in Dallas.
1228
00:45:42,137 --> 00:45:44,087
We're actually moving back on the first.
1229
00:45:44,297 --> 00:45:44,807
Oh wow.
1230
00:45:45,317 --> 00:45:45,647
That was our
1231
00:45:45,647 --> 00:45:47,237
welcome home party too, by the way.
1232
00:45:47,237 --> 00:45:47,297
Yeah.
1233
00:45:47,507 --> 00:45:49,877
I am so happy for you guys.
1234
00:45:50,387 --> 00:45:50,597
Well, and.
1235
00:45:51,947 --> 00:45:56,717
You guys didn't treat
me like, Ew, single guy.
1236
00:45:58,607 --> 00:45:59,747
I was like, oh.
1237
00:46:00,107 --> 00:46:04,327
And then, so I kinda, I'm not
a big I don't listen to things
1238
00:46:04,327 --> 00:46:05,317
when I drive down the road.
1239
00:46:05,437 --> 00:46:07,687
So I don't consume much content there.
1240
00:46:08,147 --> 00:46:12,132
But it was, and I've seen some of your
stuff and I thought, you know what?
1241
00:46:13,212 --> 00:46:16,332
I would like to help these guys have.
1242
00:46:16,422 --> 00:46:19,662
I if we can do something
cool for him and, and.
1243
00:46:20,232 --> 00:46:21,917
Give 'em this kind of an opportunity.
1244
00:46:22,187 --> 00:46:22,817
Heck yeah.
1245
00:46:22,817 --> 00:46:22,877
So,
1246
00:46:23,327 --> 00:46:25,882
hey, you know, we're, we're,
we're so excited about it because,
1247
00:46:25,882 --> 00:46:26,882
uh, and really appreciates it.
1248
00:46:26,887 --> 00:46:32,757
We have a, a lot of it, this is kind
of gonna kick off our 2026 events.
1249
00:46:32,787 --> 00:46:32,997
Yeah.
1250
00:46:33,027 --> 00:46:37,437
So we're ending our 2025 events with
you guys and then we're gonna have
1251
00:46:37,467 --> 00:46:42,057
a, uh, an event at, uh, club Eden
in San Antonio on December 13th.
1252
00:46:42,207 --> 00:46:44,547
And that's pretty much
gonna finish our year.
1253
00:46:44,667 --> 00:46:44,907
That's it.
1254
00:46:44,937 --> 00:46:45,147
Uh,
1255
00:46:45,147 --> 00:46:47,607
and then we are gonna be
doing some national events.
1256
00:46:47,747 --> 00:46:49,247
Next year in 2026.
1257
00:46:49,247 --> 00:46:51,977
So 2026 is gonna be very big for us.
1258
00:46:52,067 --> 00:46:57,367
But as far as Texas desires what's
2026 looking like for you guys?
1259
00:46:57,907 --> 00:46:57,997
Yeah.
1260
00:46:57,997 --> 00:46:59,257
Have y'all thought about that yet?
1261
00:46:59,267 --> 00:47:00,797
Is there gonna be more coming out?
1262
00:47:00,797 --> 00:47:00,827
I
1263
00:47:00,827 --> 00:47:02,237
be waiting to see how this one is.
1264
00:47:03,497 --> 00:47:03,857
Yeah.
1265
00:47:03,857 --> 00:47:04,247
So
1266
00:47:04,247 --> 00:47:04,772
there is more.
1267
00:47:05,232 --> 00:47:07,817
Um, so I know the big
announcements, you know?
1268
00:47:07,907 --> 00:47:07,967
Yeah.
1269
00:47:08,027 --> 00:47:09,617
Sidestepping the big announcement.
1270
00:47:09,617 --> 00:47:10,817
Is there anything else that's coming?
1271
00:47:10,817 --> 00:47:10,937
Plan
1272
00:47:11,807 --> 00:47:11,867
out?
1273
00:47:11,867 --> 00:47:13,037
This isn't the only hotel.
1274
00:47:13,037 --> 00:47:13,097
No,
1275
00:47:13,727 --> 00:47:14,867
I listen.
1276
00:47:15,297 --> 00:47:18,447
I would love to do a
couple more next year.
1277
00:47:19,737 --> 00:47:19,767
Okay.
1278
00:47:19,767 --> 00:47:20,397
A bit bigger.
1279
00:47:20,547 --> 00:47:23,097
I've actually got somebody
from a Marriott property who's
1280
00:47:23,097 --> 00:47:24,987
going to be at the takeover.
1281
00:47:25,287 --> 00:47:25,797
Nice.
1282
00:47:26,172 --> 00:47:36,197
A, a, a bigger property down the road that
has interior pool area kind of Oh man.
1283
00:47:36,287 --> 00:47:36,437
Yeah.
1284
00:47:36,612 --> 00:47:37,622
Outdoor and stuff.
1285
00:47:37,622 --> 00:47:37,902
Yeah.
1286
00:47:38,627 --> 00:47:42,707
And they're going to observe
us, not really observe.
1287
00:47:42,767 --> 00:47:43,787
That's the wrong way to say.
1288
00:47:44,117 --> 00:47:44,927
They're cool with it.
1289
00:47:44,957 --> 00:47:46,337
They go to resorts and stuff.
1290
00:47:46,337 --> 00:47:48,797
They just wanna see how
the community reacts.
1291
00:47:48,797 --> 00:47:48,887
Yes.
1292
00:47:48,967 --> 00:47:50,317
It gets wild, crazy.
1293
00:47:50,647 --> 00:47:52,987
And they probably won't
want us in their hotel, but.
1294
00:47:53,587 --> 00:48:00,637
So if everybody can not get super wild
and crazy and rappel from the second
1295
00:48:00,637 --> 00:48:07,187
floor balconies down into the lobby or any
of that kinda stuff, I'd appreciate it.
1296
00:48:07,877 --> 00:48:13,097
So, but uh, but so we're
looking at doing a few more.
1297
00:48:13,347 --> 00:48:13,437
Right.
1298
00:48:13,437 --> 00:48:17,247
Any people listening who wants to
experience the naia Nice hotel takeover?
1299
00:48:17,247 --> 00:48:18,777
How can they reserve their spots?
1300
00:48:18,837 --> 00:48:20,007
Are there still spots?
1301
00:48:20,367 --> 00:48:20,907
Yes.
1302
00:48:20,907 --> 00:48:31,917
Oh, uh, there are our, so the thing is
we have about, I'm gonna say 15 left.
1303
00:48:31,932 --> 00:48:32,222
Okay.
1304
00:48:33,042 --> 00:48:40,332
Also have another probably 20 who
they've said, yes, I want a room.
1305
00:48:40,332 --> 00:48:41,142
And I said, okay.
1306
00:48:41,142 --> 00:48:42,972
I sent 'em an invoice
and they haven't paid it.
1307
00:48:43,032 --> 00:48:43,422
So
1308
00:48:43,662 --> 00:48:44,682
Ah, okay.
1309
00:48:45,222 --> 00:48:45,737
It's gonna be,
1310
00:48:46,122 --> 00:48:50,772
I have a feeling that there's either
going to be some rooms still available,
1311
00:48:51,822 --> 00:48:55,032
I'm gonna be sending emails out
to those people to be like, Hey,
1312
00:48:55,842 --> 00:48:58,212
or are you covering this or not?
1313
00:48:58,362 --> 00:48:58,752
And.
1314
00:48:59,892 --> 00:49:02,322
If they say no, we're just
not gonna be able to do it.
1315
00:49:02,352 --> 00:49:02,772
Okay.
1316
00:49:02,772 --> 00:49:04,062
Then that room's gonna open up.
1317
00:49:04,422 --> 00:49:04,482
Okay.
1318
00:49:04,482 --> 00:49:06,372
You'll probably see a
last minute rush too.
1319
00:49:06,402 --> 00:49:06,522
You
1320
00:49:06,522 --> 00:49:06,942
will.
1321
00:49:06,942 --> 00:49:08,682
That's the, I mean, that's
the unfortunate thing.
1322
00:49:09,792 --> 00:49:10,002
Yeah.
1323
00:49:10,002 --> 00:49:14,652
I mean, I, I'm hoping not, and I, I am
hoping that, that it, it goes by this
1324
00:49:14,652 --> 00:49:18,847
week and next week, especially with
the government coming back up, go.
1325
00:49:19,007 --> 00:49:22,722
I think that was a lot of thing, a
lot of people's reservations, so.
1326
00:49:22,872 --> 00:49:22,932
Yeah.
1327
00:49:22,962 --> 00:49:23,202
Uh,
1328
00:49:23,562 --> 00:49:23,892
for sure.
1329
00:49:23,892 --> 00:49:30,602
But they can email Loyd@RBHACC.com.
1330
00:49:30,872 --> 00:49:35,282
So to clarify, technically our
company is called RBH Accommodations.
1331
00:49:35,642 --> 00:49:35,912
Okay.
1332
00:49:36,602 --> 00:49:39,512
So when you get that credit card
receipt, whenever you pay off the
1333
00:49:39,512 --> 00:49:41,912
bill, it's for RBH accommodations.
1334
00:49:42,512 --> 00:49:48,422
Not, I went shopped in a porn
shop, credit card statement.
1335
00:49:48,812 --> 00:49:49,472
Okay.
1336
00:49:49,472 --> 00:49:50,222
That's good to know.
1337
00:49:50,252 --> 00:49:52,652
'cause that those don't
normally work out that great.
1338
00:49:52,682 --> 00:49:52,742
So
1339
00:49:52,742 --> 00:49:54,182
people, if you got an invoice.
1340
00:49:54,737 --> 00:49:58,097
Pay it, reach out to them, let
them know what your plans are.
1341
00:49:58,097 --> 00:49:58,337
We don't
1342
00:49:58,337 --> 00:49:59,207
lose your spot.
1343
00:49:59,237 --> 00:50:00,317
Don't lose your spot.
1344
00:50:00,317 --> 00:50:01,667
You don't wanna lose your spot.
1345
00:50:01,667 --> 00:50:04,667
And for people, the couples that
are out there, there are still rooms
1346
00:50:04,667 --> 00:50:07,247
available, so jump on them 'cause
you don't wanna miss this party.
1347
00:50:07,337 --> 00:50:08,027
Absolutely.
1348
00:50:08,027 --> 00:50:12,587
Of course all the details including, uh,
the email that was just said out loud,
1349
00:50:12,587 --> 00:50:14,057
that's all gonna be in our show notes.
1350
00:50:14,327 --> 00:50:17,837
And, uh, it's actually gonna be
found on our website under the events
1351
00:50:17,837 --> 00:50:22,177
tab at www.beyond-monogamy.com.
1352
00:50:22,247 --> 00:50:22,967
That's right.
1353
00:50:23,107 --> 00:50:25,447
well, I am excited to be part of this.
1354
00:50:25,447 --> 00:50:29,257
Like to even just go, I'm not
really, you said rave and I've
1355
00:50:29,257 --> 00:50:30,547
been wanting to go to a rave.
1356
00:50:30,547 --> 00:50:31,022
She love the
1357
00:50:31,102 --> 00:50:31,542
rave idea.
1358
00:50:31,852 --> 00:50:32,142
Love.
1359
00:50:32,502 --> 00:50:32,702
She's always,
1360
00:50:33,397 --> 00:50:35,557
she was doing this thing with
her hands, like she's got
1361
00:50:35,557 --> 00:50:36,667
glow sticks in 'em, but she, I
1362
00:50:36,817 --> 00:50:37,117
never.
1363
00:50:39,107 --> 00:50:42,077
So, you know, we're gonna, we're
gonna, we're gonna have fun for sure.
1364
00:50:42,167 --> 00:50:42,257
Yes.
1365
00:50:42,377 --> 00:50:42,437
Yeah.
1366
00:50:43,487 --> 00:50:43,737
Lots of dance.
1367
00:50:43,737 --> 00:50:45,797
Lots of dancing, and
lots of walking around.
1368
00:50:45,992 --> 00:50:46,212
Oh.
1369
00:50:46,337 --> 00:50:46,667
Oh.
1370
00:50:46,697 --> 00:50:52,597
I would like to add for ladies if you
are wanting to wear heels of any kind,
1371
00:50:52,747 --> 00:50:54,307
anything like that, that's great.
1372
00:50:54,327 --> 00:50:57,837
For the Christmas party, but I would
actually have some shoes to actually
1373
00:50:57,837 --> 00:50:59,787
be comfortable walking around in.
1374
00:51:00,087 --> 00:51:04,347
Nobody's really gonna care what your
feet look like or what's on your feet.
1375
00:51:04,377 --> 00:51:06,297
They're looking at your
lingerie or whatever.
1376
00:51:06,297 --> 00:51:09,257
But definitely bring some
shoes to wear for sure.
1377
00:51:09,257 --> 00:51:09,317
Yeah.
1378
00:51:09,737 --> 00:51:12,137
And I, I, I guess I should also clarify.
1379
00:51:12,237 --> 00:51:15,537
That people will have to wear clothes.
1380
00:51:15,747 --> 00:51:15,837
Oh yeah.
1381
00:51:15,897 --> 00:51:22,767
In areas where food is being served and
we are following all laws and regulations.
1382
00:51:23,007 --> 00:51:23,577
Love it.
1383
00:51:24,237 --> 00:51:24,687
Yes.
1384
00:51:24,747 --> 00:51:27,147
I'm, I'm glad that you had mentioned
that because when we were talking about
1385
00:51:27,147 --> 00:51:30,567
the breakfast and I was going, well, I
wonder if there's anybody getting that's
1386
00:51:30,567 --> 00:51:33,807
gonna try and eat naked downstairs,
1387
00:51:34,257 --> 00:51:37,977
and we know that's gonna happen,
but let's, we've very much
1388
00:51:37,977 --> 00:51:39,717
been like, dude, and that'll
1389
00:51:39,717 --> 00:51:41,607
be in the rules packet and everything too.
1390
00:51:43,637 --> 00:51:43,837
Excellent.
1391
00:51:43,837 --> 00:51:45,072
It'll all be announced.
1392
00:51:45,072 --> 00:51:49,962
We will put out, I think we, um, are
going to get our itinerary gathered
1393
00:51:49,962 --> 00:51:53,112
up and, you know, timeframes and all
that stuff of when the events are
1394
00:51:53,112 --> 00:51:57,512
gonna happen and we'll get that posted
probably another week or so as well.
1395
00:51:57,602 --> 00:51:57,632
Okay.
1396
00:51:57,782 --> 00:51:59,012
Okay, great.
1397
00:51:59,012 --> 00:52:03,122
Well, I, I know that whatever, uh,
whatever you guys have as far as
1398
00:52:03,122 --> 00:52:04,922
information we're gonna have as well.
1399
00:52:05,132 --> 00:52:08,612
And we're gonna be, uh, keeping our
events tab and all of our social
1400
00:52:08,612 --> 00:52:11,192
media's privy to that as we go along.
1401
00:52:11,472 --> 00:52:12,222
Loyd and Brooke.
1402
00:52:12,672 --> 00:52:15,582
Thank you guys for joining us today
and for everything that you're
1403
00:52:15,582 --> 00:52:20,052
doing to keep the Texas lifestyle
scene vibrant and yes inclusive.
1404
00:52:20,292 --> 00:52:24,042
Yeah, the Texas Desire Hotel
Takeover is going down December 5th
1405
00:52:24,042 --> 00:52:27,942
and 6th in San Antonio, and we're
excited to have everyone there
1406
00:52:27,942 --> 00:52:29,622
to be a part of our live show.
1407
00:52:29,962 --> 00:52:33,112
We're also very happy that y'all
are doing this for the community.
1408
00:52:33,112 --> 00:52:40,172
It's super awesome to reserve,
email Loyd at Loyd@rbhacc.com
1409
00:52:40,192 --> 00:52:42,022
or head over to our events tabs.
1410
00:52:42,172 --> 00:52:42,472
Go ahead.
1411
00:52:43,477 --> 00:52:45,192
One L. One LL
1412
00:52:45,192 --> 00:52:45,997
Oh one L. Yeah.
1413
00:52:47,097 --> 00:52:47,277
Oh, good.
1414
00:52:47,517 --> 00:52:47,547
Okay.
1415
00:52:47,607 --> 00:52:49,867
So we'll, we'll make sure that that's yes.
1416
00:52:49,897 --> 00:52:51,877
Showing correct in all our information.
1417
00:52:52,147 --> 00:52:52,237
Yes.
1418
00:52:52,657 --> 00:52:55,297
But yeah, definitely check
out our events tab at mm-hmm.
1419
00:52:55,327 --> 00:52:57,817
www.beyondmonogamy.com.
1420
00:52:58,057 --> 00:53:01,927
While you're there, check out our latest
episodes, drop a Confession, which we
1421
00:53:01,927 --> 00:53:05,977
love, and join our Patreon community
for the behind the scenes extras.
1422
00:53:07,207 --> 00:53:10,672
And make sure you're following us
on socials, Facebook, Instagram,
1423
00:53:10,677 --> 00:53:14,197
TikTok, and X, as well as join our
Reddit and Discord communities.
1424
00:53:14,407 --> 00:53:15,427
Absolutely huge.
1425
00:53:15,427 --> 00:53:19,667
Thanks again to Texas Desires
for joining us, Brooke and Loyd.
1426
00:53:19,717 --> 00:53:22,807
We can't wait to see you guys
and everybody at the naughty
1427
00:53:22,807 --> 00:53:23,947
and nice Hotel takeover.
1428
00:53:23,947 --> 00:53:26,467
And with that, everybody,
thank you for listening and we
1429
00:53:26,467 --> 00:53:27,967
will see you guys next week.
1430
00:53:28,027 --> 00:53:28,507
Bye.
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Alright y'all, before we
dive in, a quick heads up.
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This show is raw, real, and
definitely not rated pg.
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We're talking about adult themes, sexual
content, and the kind of stuff you
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probably don't want blasting through your
speakers at work or around your kits.
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So grab some headphones, pour your
drink of choice and get comfy.
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Oh, and just so we're clear, we are not
licensed therapists, counselors, or sex.
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Couches.
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Sex coaches.
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Sex coaches, not sex couches
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or just a couple of people sharing our
lives, experiences and sexy adventures.
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An ethical non-monogamy.
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So with that, pull up a
chair and enjoy the show.
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And.
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Hello, and welcome to another
episode of Beyond Monogamy.
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I'm Adam.
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And I'm Pris.
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And today's episode is a little different.
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We got a voicemail through our website,
which I was really excited about.
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00:01:04,773 --> 00:01:05,553
Yeah, that was kind of cool.
20
00:01:05,583 --> 00:01:05,973
Yeah.
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You know, we finally.
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Finally.
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00:01:08,258 --> 00:01:11,948
And it really finally, it really,
it really caught our attention.
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It's one of those messages that really
makes you stop and think and say,
25
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Hmm, maybe we should talk about this.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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It's short, it's honest, and it's
a question that I think a lot
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of people in the lifestyle can
relate to and one way or another.
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Yeah.
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Yeah.
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So I figured why not bring
it straight to the show?
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You guys, you gotta know how to do it.
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These are real questions, real
conversations, and zero filters.
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Ooh.
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All right, well, let's roll the voicemail.
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Hi, my name is Jan, and my question is how
do lesbian couples fit into the lifestyle?
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We both were previously married to
men and enjoyed the lifestyle a bit
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then, but are interested in trying
to pursue more friendships and
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experiences, but not sure how that
works, in our current relationship.
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Now that is such a great question.
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And first off, thank you so
much for sending that in.
43
00:02:01,287 --> 00:02:02,127
We appreciate it.
44
00:02:02,247 --> 00:02:03,147
He got so excited.
45
00:02:03,597 --> 00:02:03,747
I did.
46
00:02:03,747 --> 00:02:07,497
We love when our listeners reach out
because it opens up the conversation.
47
00:02:07,497 --> 00:02:09,507
It it, it just doesn't
get talked about enough.
48
00:02:09,512 --> 00:02:09,672
It does.
49
00:02:09,672 --> 00:02:10,557
No, no it doesn't.
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No, it doesn't.
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Exactly what she said right there was
really, it really, really hits on a
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part of the lifestyle that isn't always.
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Easy to navigate, especially
for couples who don't fit the
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so-called standard LS malt.
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You know, that's, that's a really
good point and I think it's
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interesting because the lifestyle
really kind of is tailor made for the
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straight man and the bisexual woman.
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When you really think about
it, I, oh, I will 100% agree.
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Yes.
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When you really think about
it like that is tailor made.
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Yes.
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The straight guy and the
bisexual woman of a couple.
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I am noticing now there's
a lot of bisexual men and
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bisexual women and together.
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They're kind of going out there.
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And I'm noticing that now more so.
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Well, so I, I, I think it's always been
hard for anybody outside of the norm.
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Mm-hmm.
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Or what people consider the norm to be of
that straight man, bisexual woman dynamic.
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Mm-hmm.
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And I've actually had this question
come up to me before, on, uh, one
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of my TikTok lives that I did.
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Mm-hmm.
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Uh, there was a, a, a gentleman who
was, who was listening in on, on
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my live, and he said, you know, I
actually am married to another man
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and we want to explore the lifestyle.
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And we've attended a couple of events,
but we've gotten nothing but foul looks
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from people like, we don't fit in and
is there a place for us to fit in?
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And this is very similar to
the voicemail that we got.
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It's unfortunate that
it even has to be asked.
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I mean unfortunately you, it is
a difficult little, I, I would, I
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can see where the difficulty is.
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It comes down to the
judgment and the lifestyle.
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You know, we Exactly.
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None of us want to be
judged for our lifestyle.
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But then we're gonna go into
a lifestyle and judge others.
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For their lifestyle, because
it's different than ours.
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I think our community where
we're at is very, very open.
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It can be, I, it's not as accepting.
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I mean, if you recall, there are other
couples out there who really have issue.
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You know, especially men have issue
with bisexual and gay men oftentimes.
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Mm-hmm.
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Because they have this deep seated
fear, oh man, a gay man's gonna touch
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my balls, or something like that.
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You know, it's like, come on, dude.
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If you express your boundaries
openly and clearly to the people
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that you're interested in playing
with, it shouldn't even be an issue.
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It shouldn't, it shouldn't be an issue.
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We're pretty clear.
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But I mean, I get the que
I understand the question.
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And so they're just trying to, to navigate
into like just joining the lifestyle.
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Would And finding their place.
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And finding their place.
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I think depending on where they're at
it's, they need to find a person who, or
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a couple or just friends that are gonna
actually help them navigate that way.
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I mean, I can see where the, where being
a lesbian couple is a little difficult.
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I can also see where that
might be something that people
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actually navigate toward more.
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I, I don't know why you
do make a good point.
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Like, I feel like that's gonna
be a, like if they were to come
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in it, they could be fetishized.
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I mean, every, everybody who's different
than the norm can be fetishized.
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Um, and, and I think that
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different races are fetishized.
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You as a Latina are fetishized.
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It just.
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It, it's just is what it is.
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It's kind of wanting what
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Um, what what I feel is, is sad
is that people who are different
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feel like maybe they don't belong.
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And I think it's a two part thing.
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Mm-hmm.
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When you automatically are coming
from this space where you have
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been judged in the past mm-hmm.
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For how you want to live.
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When you enter a new space,
you automatically have those
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insecurities in your head.
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And so for example, I have always
felt like I was, uh, unattractive.
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And so I'm always gonna have those
insecurities in my head, right?
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And even if somebody is accepting
me and telling me the opposite, I'm
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still gonna have 'em in my head.
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So if I put myself.
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In that, in the shoes
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And I say, well, I'm, I am married
to the same sex uhhuh and we
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want to explore the lifestyle.
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Obviously I'm gonna have it
in my head that people are
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probably not going to accept it.
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But at the same time, when I go to
meet and greets and I go to events
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and I try to link up with others.
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Just to meet and yeah.
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And join a community.
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That's gonna be in the back of my head.
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And if, if people aren't as
receptive to bringing me into
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the folds, I'm gonna blame that.
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And a lot of times people don't do that.
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They just don't know how to socialize.
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So, I mean, a little, a few tips.
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I would definitely try to find a community
that you are more comfortable with.
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There's apps.
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You know, that they can kind of look into.
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And if you go to a lifestyle
meet and greet or a lifestyle
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event, introduce yourselves.
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I am, I know that it's
easier said than done.
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It, um, it's hard.
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You kind of have to just remove yourself
and just go in there and say hi.
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Like you have to Yeah.
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We're adults.
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It's not like it was when we were younger
and it was harder for us to make friends.
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Or whatnot.
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You really, a lot of lifestyle people
are easygoing, so I understand the fear
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of it, but actually like just go in.
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Go in and just find a friendly face.
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You know, there's always gonna be
somebody who's gonna be welcoming.
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Yeah.
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It's, it's very rare that
there's not at least one person
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who's willing to talk to you.
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Uh, yeah, exactly.
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Um, I definitely think that if you're
new to the lifestyle, you want to
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find somebody who will mentor and
maybe introduce you to others.
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That always helps.
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We try to play that role.
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When we're at events.
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Um, but even still this
particular case, mm-hmm.
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Both of these ladies were married
to men previously, and were
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in the lifestyle with those.
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Previous connections.
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Oh, wow.
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So they were, they, they know
what the lifestyle's about.
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They know how it goes.
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They just, so they probably
already have a community.
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They just don't know.
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Probably, you know, they probably
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That they can, uh, rekindle
with, I would assume.
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But that is big assumption.
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I could be wrong.
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And if you don't just make yourself
just be like, Hey, I remember you.
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You know, and then be
like, oh no, they don't.
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But yeah, just pretend.
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You know, fake it till you make it.
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I will say that I, I. I am a big believer
in if you don't have a community or if
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you don't feel like you have a place
in the community then you make one.
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You know what I'm saying?
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That's a really good point.
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Like if, if nobody is willing to pull out
a chair and say, here, sit at our table.
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Then build your own table.
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There you go.
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And tell people, Hey, you know
what, you can come sit with us.
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There you go.
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And you know, honestly, that's kind
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Because when we moved out here, we weren't
really, we still didn't know anybody.
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We didn't know anybody.
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We would go into the meet
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And if we saw people kind of just
standing around, they would just
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come to our table and we would just
all be standing holding up the wall.
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I finally, finally, it
was kind of awkward.
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Finally, I finally said, you know what?
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This is not gonna work.
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If we're ever gonna do this,
we have to like say hi.
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You started wearing
your little Adam shirts.
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Get yourself an Adam shirt.
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Don't get an Adam shirt.
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Get yourself.
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Uh, my name is Adam Shirt.
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They're gonna come to you, or you
want to have some real fun, and, I
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don't know maybe my sense of humor is
very different than yours, but if it
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were me and I was, uh, one half of a
lesbian couple, now going into a an
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Ls event, what would you do, honey?
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I would ask, I would walk into an LS
event wearing matching shirts, one that
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says lesbian, and then your partner
can have an arrow pointing towards
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you that says, I'm with lesbian.
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And that would be hilarious because
that what that is, is an icebreaker.
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It's okay.
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Now it sounds really, really silly.
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It sounds very elementary, but
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Yeah, and it's one of the reasons why I
used to wear my shirts to meet and greets
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at the beginning that had my name splayed
all over because it was an icebreaker.
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It was a way for people to come up to
me when they've been drinking and go,
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Hey I see your name is Adam, isn't it?
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It's like, well, no, my name is Gary.
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You know?
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And you carry yourself into a
whole different conversation.
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Yes.
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And before you know it, you are the
ones being referred to after that,
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that meeting where people are like,
did you see them wearing the lesbian?
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And I'm with lesbian shirts,
like, that's hilarious.
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So there you go.
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I'm gonna get you a shirt like
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Yeah, there you go.
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Why not?
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I says, I'm with hot wife.
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Uh, I've seen actually a sweater that
says, oh my goodness, I like that.
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Uh, I, I've seen a sweater that
says my wife tends to stab people.
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And I said, I need to get that sweater.
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You need that shirt?
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I do.
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So, so you can either go
with it two ways, right?
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You can go with it the funny way, which
I wanna say I would, I would go that way.
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I would rock that way.
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Or you can just go and be like, hi.
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Blah, blah, blah, yeah.
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And just break it.
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It's really that simple break that click.
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It's, it is very simple.
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It's that simple.
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And it's not that simple.
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It's very, like, I go in, there are
cliques and believe me, we've gone
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to meet, they exist, meet and greet.
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There are, we've gone to meet and greets
where people actually, a lot of people
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know is, but then there's maybe new
people and I'll be like, hi, I'm Pris,
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and this is Adam and blah, blah, blah.
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And they'll look at us like.
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Hi.
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Oh, we've been straight up
snubbed before and I don't care.
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Yeah.
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I said hi to you.
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I've made my introduction and I'm done.
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I did my part.
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Yeah.
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And then we walk away, you know, and then
we find some, and you know, sometimes
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you can tell who's receptive to having
conversation you can and who's not.
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If they turn their their shoulder to
you or they turn their back to you,
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they're obviously not interested.
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And you can move along from there.
313
00:12:20,906 --> 00:12:25,076
And I don't know if this is okay to
say, but everybody loves a lesbian.
314
00:12:25,826 --> 00:12:28,556
I don't see why it wouldn't,
everybody loves lesbians.
315
00:12:28,556 --> 00:12:30,506
Everybody loves gay people.
316
00:12:30,926 --> 00:12:32,696
I don't, especially in the lifestyle.
317
00:12:32,696 --> 00:12:33,566
I know you're in Texas, right?
318
00:12:33,821 --> 00:12:37,146
I, I know, but it doesn't matter.
319
00:12:37,146 --> 00:12:40,896
So I will, I will say, obviously for
this to even be a question, yeah.
320
00:12:40,896 --> 00:12:44,626
You guys have probably faced
judgment before, or people who have,
321
00:12:44,656 --> 00:12:47,116
obviously I think everybody do we
know where they're from, Austin.
322
00:12:49,021 --> 00:12:53,881
People, you're from Austin,
come over here, we'll take you.
323
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We'll introduce you to people.
324
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Reach out to us.
325
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I mean, realistically.
326
00:12:58,051 --> 00:12:58,351
Yes.
327
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Yes.
328
00:12:58,771 --> 00:12:59,851
You're in our area.
329
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Yes.
330
00:13:00,631 --> 00:13:03,791
Um, and, you know, we can, we can
always make some introductions and
331
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get you started in the community.
332
00:13:05,381 --> 00:13:05,831
Yes.
333
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Even if you weren't in our area
and judging by this, I guarantee
334
00:13:10,521 --> 00:13:13,401
you there are a lot of people in
the same situation who are not.
335
00:13:13,401 --> 00:13:14,091
Yeah.
336
00:13:14,871 --> 00:13:19,776
My suggestion would really be just
to put those insecurities away.
337
00:13:19,876 --> 00:13:22,151
Put them away as much as possible,
stick them in your pocket.
338
00:13:22,181 --> 00:13:24,041
Um, and I know that's
easier said than done.
339
00:13:24,041 --> 00:13:25,901
I struggle with insecurities all the time.
340
00:13:26,451 --> 00:13:28,341
But you kind of have to remove yourself.
341
00:13:28,341 --> 00:13:32,031
You have to disconnect from that,
and you have to portray a character.
342
00:13:32,131 --> 00:13:35,161
You have to walk in there the first
couple times and portray this.
343
00:13:35,441 --> 00:13:39,221
This, almost this parody of yourself where
you're just gonna come out of yourself
344
00:13:39,221 --> 00:13:40,571
and you're gonna introduce yourself.
345
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And as time goes on, you know,
as you introduce yourself and
346
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you introduce your partner.
347
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They're gonna put two and two together.
348
00:13:48,296 --> 00:13:52,766
And obviously if you are in the Austin
area and certain other areas, you are
349
00:13:52,766 --> 00:13:55,166
going to be accepted a lot faster Yes.
350
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Than, than you will in some other areas.
351
00:13:56,786 --> 00:13:56,936
Yes.
352
00:13:57,306 --> 00:14:00,696
But this community is very
large and it's very vast.
353
00:14:00,696 --> 00:14:00,706
Mm-hmm.
354
00:14:01,086 --> 00:14:03,006
And you can find your tribe.
355
00:14:03,006 --> 00:14:03,096
Mm-hmm.
356
00:14:03,821 --> 00:14:05,111
And I can't express that enough.
357
00:14:05,111 --> 00:14:10,451
Not just to, uh, my lesbian friends,
not just to my, uh, my gay male friends.
358
00:14:10,661 --> 00:14:10,721
Yeah.
359
00:14:10,751 --> 00:14:12,401
Uh, but to everybody.
360
00:14:12,621 --> 00:14:15,741
I've had single men reach out to me.
361
00:14:15,741 --> 00:14:18,711
I've had dragons reach out to
me, unicorns reach out to me.
362
00:14:18,921 --> 00:14:21,891
All everybody's trying to
find their connections.
363
00:14:22,131 --> 00:14:23,301
They're trying to find their people.
364
00:14:23,301 --> 00:14:24,591
You said Dragon and I thought.
365
00:14:25,366 --> 00:14:26,566
Like a real dragon.
366
00:14:26,836 --> 00:14:28,171
R I'm tired.
367
00:14:28,176 --> 00:14:28,246
Yes.
368
00:14:28,246 --> 00:14:28,606
No.
369
00:14:28,606 --> 00:14:35,296
Uh, a dragon just to, uh, remind everybody
is a, basically a male version of a
370
00:14:35,296 --> 00:14:37,726
unicorn, and that is a bisexual male.
371
00:14:38,296 --> 00:14:38,716
I like that.
372
00:14:38,716 --> 00:14:40,036
Who plays with couples.
373
00:14:40,096 --> 00:14:45,766
I like that better than a, well, a bull
is, is not usually a bisexual male.
374
00:14:46,651 --> 00:14:47,371
A bull.
375
00:14:48,151 --> 00:14:48,776
Oh, a dragon is a bisexual.
376
00:14:48,936 --> 00:14:53,501
A bull is a, a a he could be
bisexual, but a bull is, is
377
00:14:53,501 --> 00:14:55,601
primarily for the hot wife dynamic.
378
00:14:55,601 --> 00:14:59,231
He's the one who, the single
guy who sleeps with a woman
379
00:14:59,531 --> 00:15:01,061
sleeps with all the women.
380
00:15:01,061 --> 00:15:01,541
You know what I mean?
381
00:15:01,541 --> 00:15:02,111
Understood.
382
00:15:02,111 --> 00:15:04,781
Uh, and so they're, they
are referred to as bulls.
383
00:15:04,811 --> 00:15:08,321
Uh, you know, just one of the many
labels that we have around there.
384
00:15:08,381 --> 00:15:09,341
We have so many.
385
00:15:09,341 --> 00:15:11,141
It's, um, it's funny.
386
00:15:11,441 --> 00:15:12,551
It is what it is.
387
00:15:13,091 --> 00:15:13,451
Yeah.
388
00:15:13,661 --> 00:15:14,021
Yeah.
389
00:15:14,071 --> 00:15:14,441
You know, I mean.
390
00:15:16,041 --> 00:15:18,321
It's a matter of feeling included.
391
00:15:18,321 --> 00:15:19,581
It's a matter of feeling.
392
00:15:19,581 --> 00:15:19,671
Mm-hmm.
393
00:15:19,911 --> 00:15:20,456
Like you belong.
394
00:15:20,516 --> 00:15:20,936
Mm-hmm.
395
00:15:21,111 --> 00:15:23,901
And I think all of us
want to have that feeling.
396
00:15:24,321 --> 00:15:29,421
And I think it's difficult because
it's such a vast and diverse community.
397
00:15:30,111 --> 00:15:30,351
Yes.
398
00:15:30,351 --> 00:15:32,901
That you're not gonna be
accepted in some spaces.
399
00:15:33,111 --> 00:15:33,936
I mean, just plain and simple.
400
00:15:33,936 --> 00:15:34,176
Yeah.
401
00:15:34,231 --> 00:15:35,161
That is very true.
402
00:15:35,311 --> 00:15:36,241
That's very true.
403
00:15:37,021 --> 00:15:38,971
But the majority, you will find somebody.
404
00:15:39,031 --> 00:15:39,536
Yes, absolutely.
405
00:15:39,536 --> 00:15:40,536
You will find somebody.
406
00:15:40,536 --> 00:15:40,546
Absolutely.
407
00:15:40,751 --> 00:15:43,601
And so I just, I just wanna
set realistic expectations.
408
00:15:43,601 --> 00:15:43,661
Yeah.
409
00:15:43,661 --> 00:15:46,871
Because it, you know, obviously the
insecurities is there for a reason.
410
00:15:47,151 --> 00:15:50,331
You know, with that kind of
dynamic it's, you're not always
411
00:15:50,331 --> 00:15:51,561
accepted in certain places.
412
00:15:51,591 --> 00:15:51,681
Yeah.
413
00:15:51,771 --> 00:15:56,481
And, and people will ask you dumb
questions and they will make dumb comments
414
00:15:56,691 --> 00:15:58,461
as I'm sure you may have seen already.
415
00:15:58,971 --> 00:16:02,751
Um, and sometimes it's hard to.
416
00:16:03,456 --> 00:16:05,916
To get past that sometimes it's upsetting.
417
00:16:06,036 --> 00:16:06,576
Yeah.
418
00:16:06,996 --> 00:16:09,486
My wife and I handle dumb
comments very differently.
419
00:16:09,486 --> 00:16:12,306
Me personally, I use those
as opportunities to educate.
420
00:16:13,506 --> 00:16:15,516
My wife, on the other hand,
I do not, does different.
421
00:16:15,571 --> 00:16:20,886
I, I, I do not, I don't stand, I, I'm
not very, I only with certain people.
422
00:16:20,886 --> 00:16:23,136
I'm not very, what's the word?
423
00:16:23,676 --> 00:16:24,006
Friendly.
424
00:16:24,756 --> 00:16:26,976
Guess that's the word.
425
00:16:27,366 --> 00:16:28,506
And I'm very friendly.
426
00:16:28,846 --> 00:16:30,676
You are friendly, but you are very direct.
427
00:16:31,216 --> 00:16:36,556
I'm very direct and in the middle of my
directness I will still be friendly, but
428
00:16:36,556 --> 00:16:46,006
I just wanna paint a very clear picture
of what my boundaries, rules, my thoughts.
429
00:16:46,006 --> 00:16:46,066
Yeah.
430
00:16:46,136 --> 00:16:50,256
My preferences, my beliefs, and so.
431
00:16:51,696 --> 00:16:52,746
It is what it is.
432
00:16:52,776 --> 00:16:53,106
Yeah.
433
00:16:53,316 --> 00:16:57,396
And I will say, not everybody likes me.
434
00:16:57,396 --> 00:16:59,256
Not everybody likes Adam.
435
00:16:59,256 --> 00:17:02,596
Like, yeah you have to find your people.
436
00:17:02,956 --> 00:17:07,861
And I think I, you know, I really feel
you're gonna have a really good time.
437
00:17:07,861 --> 00:17:10,516
One, you left us a voicemail.
438
00:17:10,516 --> 00:17:10,576
Yeah.
439
00:17:10,776 --> 00:17:13,476
You want to be in the community.
440
00:17:13,686 --> 00:17:15,276
You want to.
441
00:17:15,981 --> 00:17:21,111
Enjoy the lifestyle and frankly being
able to interact with somebody like us
442
00:17:21,171 --> 00:17:23,751
regarding that, you have no fear Yeah.
443
00:17:24,086 --> 00:17:26,541
Of, of being able to go out
there and get out there.
444
00:17:26,541 --> 00:17:30,331
So you already have half the battle park,
you're, you're doing it you know, it's
445
00:17:30,331 --> 00:17:33,781
real important to set your boundaries
and, and express what it is that you're
446
00:17:33,811 --> 00:17:35,461
looking for when you meet others.
447
00:17:35,491 --> 00:17:35,581
Mm-hmm.
448
00:17:35,821 --> 00:17:40,681
Now, normally good People who converse
Uhhuh will straight up ask you what
449
00:17:40,681 --> 00:17:42,751
your dynamic is right up front.
450
00:17:42,841 --> 00:17:42,961
Yes.
451
00:17:42,961 --> 00:17:44,041
What are you looking for?
452
00:17:44,041 --> 00:17:44,671
This and that.
453
00:17:44,731 --> 00:17:44,941
Yeah.
454
00:17:44,991 --> 00:17:48,981
Be open with it, you know, be, be
very, very direct with it, because
455
00:17:49,371 --> 00:17:52,791
curiosity can be respectful when
it's handled with intention.
456
00:17:53,241 --> 00:17:54,261
Ooh, yep.
457
00:17:54,351 --> 00:17:54,621
Yeah.
458
00:17:54,896 --> 00:17:56,091
That's very true.
459
00:17:56,151 --> 00:17:56,511
Yeah.
460
00:17:56,721 --> 00:17:56,841
Yeah.
461
00:17:56,841 --> 00:17:58,221
And you gotta find the right fit.
462
00:17:58,456 --> 00:18:04,296
So you gotta look for LS Events,
clubs, there's groups and there's.
463
00:18:05,481 --> 00:18:09,021
A lot of diversity and there's
different orientations in there,
464
00:18:09,021 --> 00:18:10,581
so don't even worry about that.
465
00:18:10,581 --> 00:18:13,311
There's apps, there's Facebook groups.
466
00:18:13,316 --> 00:18:13,356
Yes.
467
00:18:13,361 --> 00:18:17,701
And I know specifically there's the
integrated Facebook groups and within
468
00:18:17,701 --> 00:18:21,331
those Facebook groups you have people
who start other Facebook groups Yes.
469
00:18:21,421 --> 00:18:22,231
That are for.
470
00:18:22,466 --> 00:18:23,936
Singles in the lifestyle?
471
00:18:23,941 --> 00:18:23,971
Yes.
472
00:18:24,086 --> 00:18:26,331
For bisexual men in the
lifestyle, for women only.
473
00:18:26,336 --> 00:18:27,656
For bisexual women, yes.
474
00:18:27,686 --> 00:18:28,736
For women only.
475
00:18:28,766 --> 00:18:28,916
Yes.
476
00:18:28,946 --> 00:18:33,206
So I guarantee you there is
a, a group out there for you.
477
00:18:33,296 --> 00:18:36,686
There is, um, if you haven't
tried, you can also look on SDC.
478
00:18:36,686 --> 00:18:39,196
You put yourself a profile out
there, which I'll have a link.
479
00:18:39,546 --> 00:18:43,656
For, uh, in our show notes, but
if you go to SDC, you can actually
480
00:18:43,656 --> 00:18:46,266
set up your profile and they have
different groups there mm-hmm.
481
00:18:46,511 --> 00:18:46,711
Mm-hmm.
482
00:18:46,791 --> 00:18:47,736
That you can seek out.
483
00:18:47,946 --> 00:18:48,006
Yeah.
484
00:18:48,036 --> 00:18:51,096
Uh, and it just makes it a little bit
easier for you to find your tribe.
485
00:18:51,216 --> 00:18:51,606
Yeah.
486
00:18:51,786 --> 00:18:51,991
You know?
487
00:18:52,191 --> 00:18:52,591
I like that.
488
00:18:52,806 --> 00:18:53,226
Yeah.
489
00:18:53,466 --> 00:18:55,716
Comfort and communication
matter more than labels.
490
00:18:55,776 --> 00:18:57,156
Way more than labels.
491
00:18:57,396 --> 00:19:02,196
And I think really when it
comes down to it, we are not.
492
00:19:02,836 --> 00:19:06,046
W we really are big into the community.
493
00:19:06,046 --> 00:19:08,116
You hear us talk about the
community all the time.
494
00:19:08,116 --> 00:19:13,336
Obviously, we would not feel this way
about the community if it didn't exist.
495
00:19:13,576 --> 00:19:16,246
This community is wonderful.
496
00:19:16,306 --> 00:19:16,936
It is.
497
00:19:16,936 --> 00:19:18,946
It's really, it's a very,
you'll be treated well.
498
00:19:18,976 --> 00:19:20,686
It's a very open community.
499
00:19:20,686 --> 00:19:26,536
And especially now that I know that you're
in Austin there's so many groups, so much
500
00:19:26,536 --> 00:19:28,846
community in the surrounding areas that.
501
00:19:29,596 --> 00:19:33,796
I think you both are going
to have a great time.
502
00:19:33,906 --> 00:19:34,326
Yeah, I really do.
503
00:19:34,326 --> 00:19:34,926
Absolutely.
504
00:19:35,146 --> 00:19:39,616
And you know, one thing about it
is too, if you feel the need to
505
00:19:39,616 --> 00:19:48,016
find more of a community of what
you feel you need, you can always.
506
00:19:48,661 --> 00:19:51,186
Put out a a, a meet and greet or Yes.
507
00:19:51,186 --> 00:19:53,941
Or set up an event for that specifically.
508
00:19:53,946 --> 00:19:53,986
Yes.
509
00:19:54,211 --> 00:19:54,301
Yes.
510
00:19:54,301 --> 00:19:56,941
And you will have people
show That's a good idea.
511
00:19:57,046 --> 00:19:57,266
Yes.
512
00:19:57,366 --> 00:19:58,146
That's a good idea.
513
00:19:58,146 --> 00:20:01,441
A brand new mixer and you are
putting it on, so you control that.
514
00:20:01,741 --> 00:20:03,691
You put it out there, you
go into these groups and you
515
00:20:03,691 --> 00:20:04,841
say, Hey, I'm putting on this.
516
00:20:05,046 --> 00:20:08,526
This meet and greet for this
specific type of person.
517
00:20:08,526 --> 00:20:08,586
Yeah.
518
00:20:08,586 --> 00:20:10,086
This is what we're looking for.
519
00:20:10,091 --> 00:20:14,491
If you match that, please come out
and have a drink with us or whatever.
520
00:20:14,491 --> 00:20:16,111
You know, there's a lot of
That's a really good idea.
521
00:20:16,171 --> 00:20:16,501
Yeah.
522
00:20:16,501 --> 00:20:18,206
There's a lot of different
ways, ways, ways to do that.
523
00:20:18,206 --> 00:20:19,501
I that I think it's pretty cool.
524
00:20:19,531 --> 00:20:19,831
Yeah.
525
00:20:19,891 --> 00:20:22,621
Uh, you know, the more we talk about
this stuff, the more normalized it
526
00:20:22,621 --> 00:20:25,261
becomes and I think that it's very true.
527
00:20:25,261 --> 00:20:25,681
Yeah.
528
00:20:25,741 --> 00:20:27,241
So that was a great conversation.
529
00:20:27,451 --> 00:20:30,541
And a reminder that the
lifestyle is at its best.
530
00:20:30,541 --> 00:20:30,661
Yes.
531
00:20:30,811 --> 00:20:33,151
When everyone feels seen,
respected, and included.
532
00:20:33,411 --> 00:20:37,491
Yes, exactly, these are the kinds of
conversations that keep the community
533
00:20:37,491 --> 00:20:38,301
growing in the right direction.
534
00:20:39,191 --> 00:20:41,081
Honest, open and real.
535
00:20:41,141 --> 00:20:41,651
Yeah.
536
00:20:42,131 --> 00:20:45,891
So when we come back, we're sitting
down with Lloyd and Brooke Dittfurth,
537
00:20:46,661 --> 00:20:49,301
the couple behind Texas Desires.
538
00:20:49,511 --> 00:20:55,451
Now they're the ones who are putting
on our, uh, the hotel takeover in San
539
00:20:55,451 --> 00:20:56,861
Antonio, December 5th through the 7th.
540
00:20:56,981 --> 00:20:59,531
And you'll hear a lot more
about that here in a little bit.
541
00:20:59,841 --> 00:21:02,421
But they're gonna be here to talk
about that and the incredible
542
00:21:02,421 --> 00:21:04,521
things that they've been building
in the lifestyle community.
543
00:21:04,766 --> 00:21:07,646
Ooh, you're definitely gonna
wanna hear this one guys.
544
00:21:07,646 --> 00:21:08,186
Absolutely.
545
00:21:08,186 --> 00:21:11,246
So hold on just a second
'cause we're coming right back.
546
00:21:11,246 --> 00:21:11,906
Alright
547
00:21:19,792 --> 00:21:24,712
So we are seriously excited about today's
guests because they are the powerhouse
548
00:21:24,712 --> 00:21:29,092
duo bringing one of the hottest lifestyle
weekends of the year to San Antonio.
549
00:21:29,272 --> 00:21:33,532
Joining us today are Loyd and Brooke
Dittfurth, the creators behind
550
00:21:33,652 --> 00:21:38,272
Texas Desires and their hosting an
unforgettable hotel takeover happening
551
00:21:38,452 --> 00:21:40,732
December 5th through the seventh.
552
00:21:41,182 --> 00:21:42,442
Uh, and.
553
00:21:42,887 --> 00:21:43,457
I'm excited.
554
00:21:43,457 --> 00:21:43,577
Me too.
555
00:21:43,607 --> 00:21:44,117
I'm excited.
556
00:21:44,117 --> 00:21:44,777
I know you're excited.
557
00:21:44,777 --> 00:21:44,897
Me too.
558
00:21:44,957 --> 00:21:48,527
I'm, this is a clothing optional
weekend packed with energy theme
559
00:21:48,527 --> 00:21:51,017
parties, games and community and beyond.
560
00:21:51,017 --> 00:21:55,272
Monogamy is going to be there doing a live
podcast right in the middle of the action.
561
00:21:55,272 --> 00:21:55,967
Yes, we are.
562
00:21:55,967 --> 00:21:58,937
So let's welcome Loyd and Brooke to
the show to find out everything we
563
00:21:58,937 --> 00:22:02,597
need to know about the Texas Desires
naughty and nice hotel takeover.
564
00:22:03,017 --> 00:22:06,077
Thanks Brooke and Loyd
for coming to the show.
565
00:22:06,077 --> 00:22:07,697
We appreciate it, guys.
566
00:22:07,727 --> 00:22:08,657
Yeah, thanks for making time.
567
00:22:08,762 --> 00:22:09,782
Thanks for having, yes.
568
00:22:10,857 --> 00:22:11,607
Yeah, for sure.
569
00:22:11,607 --> 00:22:13,347
We're, we're glad that
you guys could join us.
570
00:22:13,407 --> 00:22:17,637
Now, before we even get started into
the actual event itself, I'm actually
571
00:22:17,637 --> 00:22:19,287
curious about you guys just a little bit.
572
00:22:19,437 --> 00:22:22,677
How long have y'all been in the
lifestyle and what is your dynamic?
573
00:22:23,547 --> 00:22:24,027
So
574
00:22:26,097 --> 00:22:27,297
official story?
575
00:22:28,047 --> 00:22:28,617
Yes.
576
00:22:29,217 --> 00:22:29,757
Feed me Seymour.
577
00:22:29,757 --> 00:22:30,627
I love this.
578
00:22:30,627 --> 00:22:31,807
This is what I got into this for.
579
00:22:32,622 --> 00:22:33,262
I gotta know.
580
00:22:33,282 --> 00:22:33,552
version.
581
00:22:33,552 --> 00:22:35,442
You can do the long
version, whatever you want.
582
00:22:35,447 --> 00:22:37,002
Gimme the, gimme the juice.
583
00:22:37,272 --> 00:22:40,002
If you've met my husband, he
will give you the long version
584
00:22:40,002 --> 00:22:43,497
so I, and you'll speed it up.
585
00:22:44,712 --> 00:22:47,672
And so basically my
wife had breast cancer.
586
00:22:47,672 --> 00:22:50,972
She got good, she got big boobs,
flat tummy, all that was great.
587
00:22:51,632 --> 00:22:56,552
And we had a friend
convince us to go to desire.
588
00:22:57,602 --> 00:23:03,122
To go to a clothing optional
resort and you'll love it.
589
00:23:03,542 --> 00:23:04,322
Just go.
590
00:23:04,772 --> 00:23:09,662
And so our first diving
into the lifestyle world.
591
00:23:09,932 --> 00:23:10,682
Wow.
592
00:23:11,222 --> 00:23:13,962
We went to get naked for four days.
593
00:23:14,017 --> 00:23:14,197
Yeah.
594
00:23:14,227 --> 00:23:17,167
Like we don't do anything half-assed.
595
00:23:17,167 --> 00:23:17,732
We go,
596
00:23:18,392 --> 00:23:19,597
you go full fledged
597
00:23:19,867 --> 00:23:20,647
away.
598
00:23:20,867 --> 00:23:21,852
Balls to the wall.
599
00:23:22,712 --> 00:23:23,287
The wall, and
600
00:23:23,287 --> 00:23:25,177
then we back out of the pool and say.
601
00:23:25,777 --> 00:23:27,007
How do we feel about that?
602
00:23:27,697 --> 00:23:28,327
Is that good?
603
00:23:29,032 --> 00:23:29,332
Do we
604
00:23:29,332 --> 00:23:29,532
wanna
605
00:23:29,532 --> 00:23:29,552
do that?
606
00:23:30,187 --> 00:23:31,567
It's all trial and error.
607
00:23:31,777 --> 00:23:32,107
Yeah.
608
00:23:33,577 --> 00:23:40,297
And I'm not gonna say like we're all
in on all things lifestyle but we
609
00:23:40,297 --> 00:23:45,637
love the community so much that we've
immersed ourselves in it quite a bit.
610
00:23:46,732 --> 00:23:46,942
Nice.
611
00:23:46,942 --> 00:23:51,082
And I think like the friend aspect of
it too, like, these people are very
612
00:23:51,082 --> 00:23:56,172
genuine that you meet the majority of the
people and nobody's out to like people.
613
00:23:56,172 --> 00:23:59,052
It's a stigma on the swing
your lifestyle, right?
614
00:23:59,052 --> 00:23:59,922
Like absolutely.
615
00:23:59,922 --> 00:24:03,462
Uh, all y'all do is go around and
have sex with everybody, right?
616
00:24:03,462 --> 00:24:05,792
But they, they ever
knew anything about it.
617
00:24:05,792 --> 00:24:07,097
They would know that, you know, exactly.
618
00:24:07,692 --> 00:24:08,532
That's not the case.
619
00:24:08,712 --> 00:24:10,902
We have more friends
than we have playmates.
620
00:24:10,962 --> 00:24:11,082
Mm-hmm.
621
00:24:11,322 --> 00:24:12,012
Exactly.
622
00:24:12,012 --> 00:24:13,242
It's an actual community.
623
00:24:13,422 --> 00:24:13,842
I don't people say that.
624
00:24:14,107 --> 00:24:14,442
It was my friend that
625
00:24:14,442 --> 00:24:18,702
last night, she's, she's not into the
lifestyle and she was like, wow, really?
626
00:24:18,852 --> 00:24:20,622
I would think that you've
been in it for so long.
627
00:24:20,622 --> 00:24:22,812
You have like thousands of
people you've slept with.
628
00:24:22,812 --> 00:24:24,252
And I'm like, no.
629
00:24:24,582 --> 00:24:25,362
Thousands of people.
630
00:24:25,722 --> 00:24:26,172
Or was that
631
00:24:26,622 --> 00:24:28,267
Well, 'cause we've been
in it for so long, so Wow.
632
00:24:29,202 --> 00:24:29,442
Wow.
633
00:24:29,682 --> 00:24:33,762
Basically in a nutshell is
we just kinda like dove in.
634
00:24:33,762 --> 00:24:37,032
And that was a few years
ago, three years ago.
635
00:24:37,032 --> 00:24:37,542
Three years ago.
636
00:24:37,602 --> 00:24:40,822
We ended up going back to that
same resort three months later
637
00:24:40,822 --> 00:24:42,022
and stay in for another week.
638
00:24:42,577 --> 00:24:43,117
Oh my gosh.
639
00:24:43,927 --> 00:24:45,037
'Cause I do YouTube.
640
00:24:45,397 --> 00:24:45,487
Mm-hmm.
641
00:24:45,727 --> 00:24:51,787
Um, we started doing lifestyle resorts
and going to those, and then we started
642
00:24:51,787 --> 00:24:56,347
doing hotel takeovers and going here
and going there and trying this out.
643
00:24:56,347 --> 00:25:00,787
And then we go to this campground
thing and then we did this, and then
644
00:25:00,787 --> 00:25:02,917
we, and it just kind of got to be,
645
00:25:03,427 --> 00:25:04,837
yeah, no, I'm, I'm listening,
646
00:25:05,107 --> 00:25:05,227
but
647
00:25:06,937 --> 00:25:08,887
this one here loves to be naked.
648
00:25:08,917 --> 00:25:09,467
If he could walk around.
649
00:25:10,217 --> 00:25:10,877
All the time.
650
00:25:10,877 --> 00:25:11,357
He would.
651
00:25:11,357 --> 00:25:15,727
So we're always going to places where
he doesn't have to wear clothes.
652
00:25:15,877 --> 00:25:16,087
Yeah.
653
00:25:17,047 --> 00:25:19,537
And either it's great, it's
freeing, it's wonderful.
654
00:25:19,687 --> 00:25:21,607
Um, but yeah, it was, yeah.
655
00:25:21,607 --> 00:25:22,747
He, he likes to be naked.
656
00:25:22,747 --> 00:25:24,157
You know, I do like that.
657
00:25:24,157 --> 00:25:26,767
I've heard about, I've heard
that about the resorts, and
658
00:25:27,517 --> 00:25:29,377
I'm okay with being naked.
659
00:25:29,377 --> 00:25:31,447
Like, I don't, I used to be
really insecure, but it's
660
00:25:31,447 --> 00:25:32,647
like, it's very freeing.
661
00:25:32,647 --> 00:25:35,767
I heard it's very like liberating
and being like, because
662
00:25:35,767 --> 00:25:36,817
there's nobody judging you.
663
00:25:37,177 --> 00:25:38,167
No, exactly.
664
00:25:38,252 --> 00:25:38,622
It's so fun.
665
00:25:39,352 --> 00:25:42,722
Station with a woman's vagina
sitting in your face and you're
666
00:25:42,722 --> 00:25:43,862
not even thinking about that.
667
00:25:43,862 --> 00:25:47,072
You're just having a normal
conversation like we are right now.
668
00:25:47,072 --> 00:25:47,852
So I love that.
669
00:25:47,857 --> 00:25:47,947
That
670
00:25:47,952 --> 00:25:48,307
sounds like
671
00:25:48,307 --> 00:25:48,507
fun.
672
00:25:48,507 --> 00:25:49,742
Yeah, it sounds like fun.
673
00:25:50,372 --> 00:25:51,182
Horrible story.
674
00:25:51,662 --> 00:25:53,312
Uh, we're oblivious to things.
675
00:25:53,417 --> 00:25:53,707
Okay.
676
00:25:55,112 --> 00:25:58,862
And if you want something,
you have to say it.
677
00:25:59,042 --> 00:25:59,132
Mm-hmm.
678
00:25:59,522 --> 00:26:01,112
Spell it out.
679
00:26:01,622 --> 00:26:02,492
Yes, very much so.
680
00:26:02,492 --> 00:26:05,942
Because we had a couple
that was flirting with us.
681
00:26:06,662 --> 00:26:12,962
And they were telling us what their
stuff was and what their cues were.
682
00:26:13,472 --> 00:26:17,702
And then, uh, they ended up
staying another night at Desire.
683
00:26:18,362 --> 00:26:25,172
And I was doing my YouTube video on
the rooms and the amenities, uh, room
684
00:26:25,172 --> 00:26:26,522
by the hour if you wanna check it out.
685
00:26:27,092 --> 00:26:31,292
And yeah, I, uh, so I go ahead and, uh.
686
00:26:32,252 --> 00:26:35,342
They're like, yeah, it
was like $600 for tonight.
687
00:26:36,032 --> 00:26:36,752
It was crazy.
688
00:26:37,202 --> 00:26:37,352
Mm-hmm.
689
00:26:37,592 --> 00:26:38,942
Something like $600 a piece.
690
00:26:38,942 --> 00:26:40,232
I think it was 1200 bucks for the night.
691
00:26:40,237 --> 00:26:40,587
Mm-hmm.
692
00:26:40,727 --> 00:26:42,752
And it was in the new part of the resort.
693
00:26:42,752 --> 00:26:45,392
And I'm like, dude, can I do your room?
694
00:26:45,392 --> 00:26:47,192
He's like, yeah, come on up.
695
00:26:48,002 --> 00:26:48,962
I'll come get you.
696
00:26:49,532 --> 00:26:50,582
We go up there.
697
00:26:50,912 --> 00:26:55,352
This woman who I literally had
a 30 minute long con, extremely
698
00:26:55,352 --> 00:26:56,912
intelligent conversation with.
699
00:26:58,277 --> 00:27:00,827
Is laying on the bed, sprawled
out with the soundtrack of
700
00:27:00,827 --> 00:27:01,877
50 Shades of Gray Playing.
701
00:27:03,197 --> 00:27:10,277
My dumb ass goes in there and I literally
filmed the room and didn't take any cues
702
00:27:10,277 --> 00:27:11,927
of what they thought was gonna go on.
703
00:27:12,647 --> 00:27:13,522
Oh my goodness.
704
00:27:13,622 --> 00:27:18,437
We get on the plane and I'm
editing the video and I could have
705
00:27:18,437 --> 00:27:23,387
punched through the back of my
skull and my wife and I was like.
706
00:27:24,287 --> 00:27:24,767
Yeah, we missed
707
00:27:24,767 --> 00:27:25,097
that.
708
00:27:25,307 --> 00:27:28,037
We totally, she's like,
what are you talking about?
709
00:27:28,037 --> 00:27:31,697
I was like, here, and I, I showed
her, I was like, that's the 50
710
00:27:31,697 --> 00:27:33,677
Shades of Gray Gray soundtrack.
711
00:27:34,577 --> 00:27:35,417
And she's like,
712
00:27:36,272 --> 00:27:36,972
oh shit.
713
00:27:39,437 --> 00:27:40,307
Sucker
714
00:27:41,807 --> 00:27:42,917
missed opportunities.
715
00:27:43,917 --> 00:27:46,647
Well, going, going from that
actually makes a great transition.
716
00:27:46,647 --> 00:27:49,197
You know what it does for
anyone new to Texas desires.
717
00:27:50,322 --> 00:27:54,162
If you can tell us what your
brand and community are all about.
718
00:27:54,162 --> 00:27:54,222
Yeah.
719
00:27:54,252 --> 00:27:57,192
Like what inspired you two to start
this whole journey of Texas desires?
720
00:27:58,452 --> 00:28:04,242
We, ooh, I can't drop the giant
721
00:28:05,112 --> 00:28:05,622
thing yet.
722
00:28:05,622 --> 00:28:06,312
The giant thing yet.
723
00:28:06,372 --> 00:28:06,702
Right.
724
00:28:06,702 --> 00:28:08,352
And I know what the
giant thing is, but Okay.
725
00:28:08,667 --> 00:28:09,462
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
726
00:28:09,822 --> 00:28:13,152
Unveiled at the at the takeover event.
727
00:28:13,362 --> 00:28:13,572
Yes.
728
00:28:14,577 --> 00:28:16,017
It's pretty big.
729
00:28:16,137 --> 00:28:21,487
But we, but I think we want to have
that sense of community, but also
730
00:28:21,757 --> 00:28:23,917
where, you know, we're not mixing.
731
00:28:23,917 --> 00:28:28,347
I mean, we've been to a lot of things
and places and we like the fact that
732
00:28:28,347 --> 00:28:32,277
we could, do something and take, a
whole community and put us all in one
733
00:28:32,277 --> 00:28:36,207
little, one little area and just have
a weekend fun, and have that place
734
00:28:36,207 --> 00:28:37,977
to go and do those kind of things.
735
00:28:38,087 --> 00:28:39,527
I think that's one of the
736
00:28:39,527 --> 00:28:43,547
things I, I think a lot of it is
we've just experienced so much.
737
00:28:43,647 --> 00:28:51,027
And, our, we've had the ability
to experience things and nobody
738
00:28:51,027 --> 00:28:56,547
really has done takeovers the
way I think they should be done.
739
00:28:57,087 --> 00:29:00,177
And I, yeah, so I'm, I'm actually Loyd
and I, I don't mean to cut you off,
740
00:29:00,177 --> 00:29:02,937
but that leads me to my next question.
741
00:29:02,967 --> 00:29:03,027
Yeah.
742
00:29:03,027 --> 00:29:06,027
Because, you guys have
been to several takeovers?
743
00:29:06,027 --> 00:29:07,557
We've only been to one, honestly.
744
00:29:07,557 --> 00:29:07,617
Yeah.
745
00:29:07,857 --> 00:29:11,637
And it wasn't the greatest experience
that we had, but uh, we were actually
746
00:29:11,637 --> 00:29:13,167
looking forward to going to another one.
747
00:29:13,167 --> 00:29:16,807
When we talked to you guys about
this one, you built something
748
00:29:16,807 --> 00:29:20,017
that's not just a party, but it's
like a, an entire weekend escape.
749
00:29:20,047 --> 00:29:20,137
Mm-hmm.
750
00:29:20,377 --> 00:29:24,007
What sets your events apart from
the ones that you've attended?
751
00:29:24,007 --> 00:29:25,837
Like what, what's gonna
set this one different?
752
00:29:27,007 --> 00:29:29,407
So the difference is we bought the hotel.
753
00:29:30,242 --> 00:29:30,512
On.
754
00:29:30,752 --> 00:29:31,082
Like
755
00:29:31,622 --> 00:29:31,772
for
756
00:29:31,772 --> 00:29:32,887
the weekend, for the weekend.
757
00:29:33,887 --> 00:29:37,937
So I ended up, I dumped a lot of money.
758
00:29:38,237 --> 00:29:38,747
Yeah,
759
00:29:38,837 --> 00:29:39,257
there you go.
760
00:29:39,447 --> 00:29:43,117
And that's what's different because
the hotel takeovers that we go
761
00:29:43,117 --> 00:29:46,447
to with a, with one group, and
they're usually all about the same.
762
00:29:46,627 --> 00:29:48,577
They take over one of the top floors.
763
00:29:48,607 --> 00:29:52,657
They have, theme rooms, people that
wanna do theme rooms, things like that.
764
00:29:52,837 --> 00:29:55,897
And you can go up there, you can
have whatever clothes on or not
765
00:29:56,017 --> 00:29:59,017
have clothes on up there, but you
have to be dressed if you're down.
766
00:29:59,312 --> 00:30:01,442
Stairs and go to like another floor.
767
00:30:01,442 --> 00:30:04,802
Like your room is on the 11th floor
and the party's on the 12th floor.
768
00:30:05,102 --> 00:30:07,292
You actually have to have
clothes on to go up there.
769
00:30:08,012 --> 00:30:10,532
And so ours is different
because we have the whole hotel.
770
00:30:10,892 --> 00:30:13,622
If you wanna ride the elevator
down, butt ass naked, go.
771
00:30:13,977 --> 00:30:15,267
'cause we have the whole hotel.
772
00:30:15,267 --> 00:30:18,567
We have no, no kids, no grandmas.
773
00:30:18,567 --> 00:30:19,707
No grandpas, no.
774
00:30:19,787 --> 00:30:22,367
I mean, yes we do have 'em, but
they're probably gonna be naked too.
775
00:30:22,427 --> 00:30:22,802
But yes.
776
00:30:23,947 --> 00:30:25,387
But not the kids, but yeah.
777
00:30:25,417 --> 00:30:26,167
His grandma's and grandma.
778
00:30:26,257 --> 00:30:30,797
Uh, but yeah, so that's what's different
is that it's all lifestyle though.
779
00:30:30,847 --> 00:30:34,867
Every person that is in that hotel
for those th uh, two days and,
780
00:30:34,957 --> 00:30:37,597
and is going to be lifestyle.
781
00:30:38,347 --> 00:30:38,647
Yes,
782
00:30:38,647 --> 00:30:39,367
100%.
783
00:30:39,637 --> 00:30:40,687
I'm excited.
784
00:30:40,717 --> 00:30:41,077
Yeah,
785
00:30:41,587 --> 00:30:41,872
there's a lot of.
786
00:30:42,892 --> 00:30:43,822
There is a lot of newbies
787
00:30:43,852 --> 00:30:47,122
and they were interested because
they were looking for a safe place.
788
00:30:47,362 --> 00:30:52,162
That they can ex, they can
experience a resort like atmosphere.
789
00:30:52,792 --> 00:30:53,242
Yeah.
790
00:30:53,542 --> 00:31:01,232
Without, spending three, $4,000
to go to Cancun or go to hedo, or.
791
00:31:02,157 --> 00:31:07,947
Even going over to Secrets to Florida or,
you know, they may have gone to one of the
792
00:31:07,947 --> 00:31:13,107
smaller deals, but they didn't really feel
like it was worth it or whatever, whatnot,
793
00:31:13,107 --> 00:31:14,757
and they wanted to try something new.
794
00:31:15,087 --> 00:31:15,447
Yeah.
795
00:31:16,317 --> 00:31:18,267
So yeah, it, it's, it's
gonna be interesting.
796
00:31:18,267 --> 00:31:23,457
There's a lot of, I'm gonna call 'em,
veterans gonna be here, that are extremely
797
00:31:23,457 --> 00:31:25,947
experienced, but there's also a lot of.
798
00:31:26,922 --> 00:31:30,192
We've never done anything like this,
and we're kind of new to this world.
799
00:31:30,192 --> 00:31:32,652
That's one reason we're gonna
have a panel for newbies.
800
00:31:33,372 --> 00:31:33,702
Um, oh,
801
00:31:33,702 --> 00:31:34,362
I love that.
802
00:31:34,752 --> 00:31:36,012
Yeah, it is.
803
00:31:36,882 --> 00:31:38,412
Oh, by the way, I don't
know if, did I tell you that
804
00:31:39,372 --> 00:31:41,682
you've, you've really like
put a lot of thought in it.
805
00:31:41,682 --> 00:31:42,282
I love that.
806
00:31:42,282 --> 00:31:42,672
I love that.
807
00:31:42,672 --> 00:31:43,992
It's not gonna be just, you know.
808
00:31:44,052 --> 00:31:44,862
Yeah, no.
809
00:31:44,862 --> 00:31:46,632
And he has to tell,
ask me these questions.
810
00:31:46,632 --> 00:31:50,662
'cause his ADH D brain over here
will think of something and he'll
811
00:31:50,662 --> 00:31:54,412
be, he won't tell me until after he
is already doing everything for it.
812
00:31:54,412 --> 00:31:56,182
And I'm like, wait,
where did this come from?
813
00:31:56,452 --> 00:31:56,752
Yeah.
814
00:31:57,202 --> 00:31:57,412
Yeah.
815
00:31:57,412 --> 00:31:57,802
That's why,
816
00:31:57,827 --> 00:31:58,972
that's, that's awesome.
817
00:31:58,972 --> 00:32:02,062
I mean, I look, I'm looking
forward to it because I, like
818
00:32:02,062 --> 00:32:03,562
you said, I, we don't have.
819
00:32:03,847 --> 00:32:08,287
Three, $4,000 to drop at a a resort
as much as we would love to go.
820
00:32:08,347 --> 00:32:08,497
Yeah.
821
00:32:08,707 --> 00:32:10,477
Like it has to be really
planned out for us.
822
00:32:10,477 --> 00:32:11,197
We have a big family.
823
00:32:11,197 --> 00:32:11,287
Right.
824
00:32:11,617 --> 00:32:16,807
So this is and I've actually been
told by a lot of people who are new
825
00:32:16,807 --> 00:32:19,027
that they're looking forward to this.
826
00:32:19,597 --> 00:32:20,047
Yes.
827
00:32:20,197 --> 00:32:21,337
I am excited.
828
00:32:21,997 --> 00:32:22,357
Yeah.
829
00:32:23,197 --> 00:32:29,137
So I, I've gotta go ahead and tell
you I'm the type of person that when
830
00:32:29,137 --> 00:32:32,527
I hear negative things or rumors.
831
00:32:33,022 --> 00:32:33,832
That come up.
832
00:32:34,162 --> 00:32:34,432
Yeah.
833
00:32:35,242 --> 00:32:42,922
I learned the juice to 1 million to
make it a billion times better than I
834
00:32:42,922 --> 00:32:44,752
could have ever thought about before.
835
00:32:44,872 --> 00:32:46,402
'cause it actually helps me.
836
00:32:46,612 --> 00:32:46,702
Mm-hmm.
837
00:32:46,942 --> 00:32:52,762
I guess you so there's so many things
that like people were talking about
838
00:32:52,762 --> 00:32:54,982
how, well that's not a very good value.
839
00:32:55,102 --> 00:32:56,092
And then I'm like, wow.
840
00:32:57,142 --> 00:32:57,952
There we go.
841
00:32:57,952 --> 00:32:58,492
I got you.
842
00:32:58,492 --> 00:33:02,962
A 90% discount on a world class
boudoire photographer who's gonna
843
00:33:02,962 --> 00:33:04,492
come in and do play sessions.
844
00:33:05,337 --> 00:33:05,557
Wow.
845
00:33:05,562 --> 00:33:06,502
Wow.
846
00:33:07,162 --> 00:33:09,412
You ain't gonna find that nowhere else.
847
00:33:09,442 --> 00:33:09,652
No.
848
00:33:10,777 --> 00:33:11,647
Hundred to show up.
849
00:33:12,007 --> 00:33:15,687
And actually, you know what I, I
went through the, the flyers and the
850
00:33:15,687 --> 00:33:19,677
information that you guys had put
out, and I actually compiled, uh,
851
00:33:19,677 --> 00:33:24,177
what, what looks like, and if I could
get into the amazing weekend here.
852
00:33:24,177 --> 00:33:26,967
Friday night is naughty neon Noel.
853
00:33:27,687 --> 00:33:28,827
If I'm right about that.
854
00:33:29,067 --> 00:33:29,277
Yep.
855
00:33:29,277 --> 00:33:31,857
That's a full on Christmas neon rave.
856
00:33:32,307 --> 00:33:32,607
Yeah.
857
00:33:32,607 --> 00:33:36,087
Where guests wear neon greens,
reds, whites, or hot pink.
858
00:33:36,087 --> 00:33:40,077
That glows under UV light and
you can actually accent with your
859
00:33:40,077 --> 00:33:41,967
favorite rave or holiday accessories.
860
00:33:41,967 --> 00:33:43,077
That sounds like a blast.
861
00:33:43,437 --> 00:33:44,637
Yeah, that sounds like a lot.
862
00:33:44,637 --> 00:33:46,017
I can't wait to go shopping.
863
00:33:46,482 --> 00:33:46,802
I know.
864
00:33:46,962 --> 00:33:50,517
I, so I already have some neon
stuff and I'm not, I mean, I'm just
865
00:33:50,517 --> 00:33:51,967
gonna throw something on and do it.
866
00:33:51,967 --> 00:33:54,607
I would like to see everybody
else's, what they come up with.
867
00:33:54,607 --> 00:33:58,207
I love, I love the themes
where you can dress up and see
868
00:33:58,207 --> 00:33:59,437
what everybody comes up with.
869
00:33:59,467 --> 00:34:00,127
Yeah.
870
00:34:00,127 --> 00:34:03,097
And then Saturday is frostbite fantasy.
871
00:34:03,097 --> 00:34:06,187
It's a cool icy glow theme
where guests wear glowing white,
872
00:34:06,187 --> 00:34:07,897
light blue, or silver lingerie.
873
00:34:07,977 --> 00:34:11,637
Are outfits at Sparkle, under
colored and UV lights with LED
874
00:34:11,637 --> 00:34:13,527
jewelry or light of Christmas wear.
875
00:34:14,187 --> 00:34:15,867
How did you even come
up with these themes?
876
00:34:15,867 --> 00:34:16,407
You just,
877
00:34:16,467 --> 00:34:18,507
I'll be honest, we didn't.
878
00:34:21,352 --> 00:34:22,582
Yeah, our dj.
879
00:34:22,792 --> 00:34:23,992
Shout out to our dj.
880
00:34:23,992 --> 00:34:24,352
Yeah.
881
00:34:24,357 --> 00:34:24,477
Yeah.
882
00:34:24,682 --> 00:34:25,372
Ner, no
883
00:34:25,372 --> 00:34:25,552
nun.
884
00:34:25,612 --> 00:34:25,732
Oh,
885
00:34:26,047 --> 00:34:26,397
Allen.
886
00:34:26,402 --> 00:34:26,602
Allen.
887
00:34:26,902 --> 00:34:27,202
Yeah.
888
00:34:27,442 --> 00:34:28,342
DJ Allen Noon.
889
00:34:28,402 --> 00:34:29,242
Oh my goodness.
890
00:34:29,242 --> 00:34:29,752
Lemme, that's guy.
891
00:34:29,752 --> 00:34:32,692
Tell through that he is my favorite dj.
892
00:34:32,692 --> 00:34:33,292
He really is
893
00:34:33,292 --> 00:34:34,132
our favorite dj.
894
00:34:34,192 --> 00:34:34,522
Yeah.
895
00:34:34,527 --> 00:34:34,557
Yeah.
896
00:34:34,852 --> 00:34:35,272
Guess what?
897
00:34:35,272 --> 00:34:35,662
He's gonna
898
00:34:35,662 --> 00:34:37,677
be there both nights
and he is, my goodness.
899
00:34:38,872 --> 00:34:40,402
He actually is.
900
00:34:40,492 --> 00:34:45,022
Uh, um, so I met him at
the hotel a week ago or so.
901
00:34:45,077 --> 00:34:45,367
Okay.
902
00:34:46,597 --> 00:34:51,907
With the owners to find out what
the best place was for the crowd.
903
00:34:51,907 --> 00:34:52,867
That's probably coming.
904
00:34:53,167 --> 00:34:53,527
Yeah,
905
00:34:54,427 --> 00:34:54,787
of course.
906
00:34:54,787 --> 00:34:57,877
'cause I'm not a DJ and I don't
do loud music kind of deal.
907
00:34:58,507 --> 00:35:00,277
I like deal kind of guy.
908
00:35:00,277 --> 00:35:00,337
Yeah.
909
00:35:00,487 --> 00:35:04,942
And uh, so he's the one who
figured out all of that.
910
00:35:05,827 --> 00:35:06,367
Wow.
911
00:35:06,397 --> 00:35:07,327
Yeah, that sounds like him.
912
00:35:07,357 --> 00:35:09,637
He's really good about,
um, he knows his business.
913
00:35:09,637 --> 00:35:11,767
He does know his business and his music.
914
00:35:11,767 --> 00:35:13,897
And so you picked a really good dj.
915
00:35:13,927 --> 00:35:14,377
Yeah, he's,
916
00:35:14,377 --> 00:35:15,547
he really is our favorite.
917
00:35:15,787 --> 00:35:18,717
Now you've also packed the weekend
with fun the Friday theme room
918
00:35:18,717 --> 00:35:20,487
judging and a dj, obviously.
919
00:35:20,487 --> 00:35:20,937
Dj.
920
00:35:21,117 --> 00:35:21,717
Yeah.
921
00:35:22,272 --> 00:35:26,242
Nooner and Saturday's
live podcast with you.
922
00:35:26,242 --> 00:35:26,332
Love.
923
00:35:26,452 --> 00:35:27,742
Truly with us.
924
00:35:27,892 --> 00:35:27,952
Yeah.
925
00:35:28,102 --> 00:35:32,272
Uh, we'll, we'll be doing a live
podcast and a q and a from, uh, from
926
00:35:32,272 --> 00:35:33,682
there, which is gonna be a lot of fun.
927
00:35:33,922 --> 00:35:37,882
And that show will actually be airing
most likely the following weekend.
928
00:35:38,242 --> 00:35:39,502
Yeah, that's gonna be awesome.
929
00:35:39,922 --> 00:35:40,072
Yeah.
930
00:35:40,552 --> 00:35:43,582
I think you guys, y'all have a
spicy bingo going on as well.
931
00:35:43,912 --> 00:35:44,212
Yeah.
932
00:35:44,212 --> 00:35:47,212
So spicy bingo is, uh, Saturday.
933
00:35:47,572 --> 00:35:48,922
That's gonna be Saturday.
934
00:35:49,162 --> 00:35:49,522
Okay.
935
00:35:50,227 --> 00:35:53,347
Right before yours, we're
gonna have spicy games.
936
00:35:53,377 --> 00:35:53,407
Okay?
937
00:35:54,907 --> 00:35:54,967
Okay.
938
00:35:54,967 --> 00:36:01,717
We're actually still looking for
volunteers, uh, to go ahead and, uh, we're
939
00:36:01,717 --> 00:36:05,857
looking for volunteers to play the game
that are staying at the, at the hotel.
940
00:36:05,887 --> 00:36:10,807
That way we can, uh, get them on board and
we're not trying to pull 'em out of a hat.
941
00:36:10,837 --> 00:36:10,867
Okay.
942
00:36:12,742 --> 00:36:13,402
And we
943
00:36:13,402 --> 00:36:14,122
needed help.
944
00:36:14,122 --> 00:36:15,202
We need volunteers.
945
00:36:15,202 --> 00:36:16,402
So I like that.
946
00:36:16,552 --> 00:36:19,192
What do, I know you posted something.
947
00:36:19,252 --> 00:36:22,612
What is, what does the game entail
that you need volunteers for?
948
00:36:22,612 --> 00:36:23,812
Can we get into that a little?
949
00:36:24,352 --> 00:36:29,002
So there's a few games that
we'll be, they'll be chosen for.
950
00:36:29,182 --> 00:36:29,632
Okay.
951
00:36:29,732 --> 00:36:33,147
There is one I'm going
to Cock-a-doodle who?
952
00:36:33,567 --> 00:36:34,107
Okay.
953
00:36:34,542 --> 00:36:34,602
It
954
00:36:35,172 --> 00:36:36,842
involves blindfolds.
955
00:36:37,572 --> 00:36:38,112
Oh.
956
00:36:38,262 --> 00:36:38,922
And touching.
957
00:36:39,702 --> 00:36:40,972
And touching blindfolds and touching.
958
00:36:40,992 --> 00:36:41,022
Okay.
959
00:36:41,262 --> 00:36:41,562
Right.
960
00:36:42,007 --> 00:36:43,242
I, I love games.
961
00:36:43,277 --> 00:36:43,567
Yeah.
962
00:36:43,572 --> 00:36:43,932
Yeah.
963
00:36:43,982 --> 00:36:44,282
Great.
964
00:36:44,432 --> 00:36:48,022
This will be right out oh,
don't forget Friday night
965
00:36:48,082 --> 00:36:49,492
we're having a scavenger hunt.
966
00:36:49,497 --> 00:36:49,547
Yeah.
967
00:36:49,942 --> 00:36:50,362
Yeah.
968
00:36:50,362 --> 00:36:50,392
Uh,
969
00:36:50,422 --> 00:36:53,507
Friday is going to be a scavenger hunt
that will involve the theme rooms.
970
00:36:54,772 --> 00:36:58,612
There will be some actions that
will need to be done to check
971
00:36:58,612 --> 00:37:01,552
off those, uh, scavenger boxes.
972
00:37:02,992 --> 00:37:03,052
Oh, okay.
973
00:37:03,152 --> 00:37:06,212
And we are going to be choosing teams, so.
974
00:37:07,472 --> 00:37:09,107
We won't tell 'em how
we're choosing teams.
975
00:37:09,107 --> 00:37:09,857
Yeah, no, we're not
976
00:37:09,892 --> 00:37:10,212
doing to
977
00:37:10,262 --> 00:37:11,462
Mystery, mystery, mystery.
978
00:37:11,792 --> 00:37:15,602
So there's a lot, we're still thinking
of different things to do as well,
979
00:37:15,602 --> 00:37:20,172
just to just jam pack, events and
just have it just be just like.
980
00:37:20,887 --> 00:37:21,337
Oh my God.
981
00:37:21,337 --> 00:37:23,737
We did this and then we turned
around and did this, and oh my gosh.
982
00:37:23,737 --> 00:37:27,367
They didn't, there was no like dull
moment, like where we didn't know
983
00:37:27,367 --> 00:37:28,897
what we were supposed to be doing.
984
00:37:28,927 --> 00:37:32,707
Like other than just sitting around
in our room and not doing anything.
985
00:37:32,707 --> 00:37:33,097
Right.
986
00:37:33,637 --> 00:37:33,847
Yeah.
987
00:37:33,847 --> 00:37:33,907
Yeah.
988
00:37:33,907 --> 00:37:36,157
You're gonna come and you're
gonna sit in your room.
989
00:37:36,157 --> 00:37:37,147
That's your prerogative.
990
00:37:37,417 --> 00:37:38,467
And you do that if you
991
00:37:38,467 --> 00:37:39,007
want, and people may want to,
992
00:37:39,097 --> 00:37:40,657
and you, and that's, that's fine.
993
00:37:40,657 --> 00:37:42,337
But just know you're gonna
miss out on all the fun.
994
00:37:42,487 --> 00:37:42,757
Yes.
995
00:37:45,507 --> 00:37:47,307
But you can come observe.
996
00:37:48,027 --> 00:37:48,447
I love that.
997
00:37:48,447 --> 00:37:48,717
Right.
998
00:37:48,717 --> 00:37:49,407
That's right.
999
00:37:49,707 --> 00:37:51,387
Well, you know, all of that is happening.
1000
00:37:51,387 --> 00:37:54,117
And then of course, uh, there's
the, the Christmas party.
1001
00:37:54,327 --> 00:37:54,447
Yep.
1002
00:37:54,507 --> 00:37:59,397
Uh, which for those who are in
our community here in Texas that a
1003
00:37:59,397 --> 00:38:02,272
lot of them know, uh, the Facebook
group, friends of Friends mm-hmm.
1004
00:38:02,352 --> 00:38:05,857
And they're having a, uh,
Christmas party and they'll be
1005
00:38:05,857 --> 00:38:08,437
having it at, uh, at this event.
1006
00:38:08,527 --> 00:38:09,277
That's gonna be fun.
1007
00:38:09,307 --> 00:38:09,937
Pretty cool.
1008
00:38:10,267 --> 00:38:10,477
Yeah.
1009
00:38:10,477 --> 00:38:11,737
We actually were, uh.
1010
00:38:12,412 --> 00:38:18,802
We were going to be doing this event
anyways, and we had talked to them, be
1011
00:38:18,802 --> 00:38:22,942
like, Hey, we, we want to do this event,
we'd like to promote it on your page.
1012
00:38:23,032 --> 00:38:25,012
And so George was like.
1013
00:38:26,002 --> 00:38:26,182
I like.
1014
00:38:26,182 --> 00:38:27,352
Yeah, that's no problem.
1015
00:38:27,862 --> 00:38:33,482
And then, uh, when we found the original
property, uh, that we were gonna be
1016
00:38:33,482 --> 00:38:36,002
renting, it was a smaller boutique hotel.
1017
00:38:36,332 --> 00:38:41,882
And then about an hour later, he
calls, he is like, got a problem.
1018
00:38:42,422 --> 00:38:43,082
I was like, huh.
1019
00:38:43,772 --> 00:38:48,932
And then, uh, Jules is like, it's
not a problem, but that's the
1020
00:38:48,932 --> 00:38:50,252
weekend of our Christmas party.
1021
00:38:51,737 --> 00:38:54,707
And I'm like, oh, well I guess
we won't have this thing.
1022
00:38:54,707 --> 00:38:56,177
And she said, no, no, no, no.
1023
00:38:57,857 --> 00:39:00,467
We there, we've never done a takeover.
1024
00:39:00,467 --> 00:39:00,947
I'm like,
1025
00:39:02,357 --> 00:39:02,657
sure.
1026
00:39:03,257 --> 00:39:03,287
Oh
1027
00:39:03,737 --> 00:39:04,067
yeah.
1028
00:39:04,232 --> 00:39:04,692
Not there.
1029
00:39:05,192 --> 00:39:05,892
But yeah.
1030
00:39:06,527 --> 00:39:09,467
And I literally had to
double the size of the hotel.
1031
00:39:09,577 --> 00:39:09,877
Right.
1032
00:39:10,117 --> 00:39:10,507
Yeah.
1033
00:39:10,567 --> 00:39:11,857
Well, you know, you did pretty good.
1034
00:39:11,857 --> 00:39:12,667
You did pretty good.
1035
00:39:12,847 --> 00:39:15,127
Now, I, I, it's my understanding
you also are gonna have a
1036
00:39:15,127 --> 00:39:16,207
few food trucks out there.
1037
00:39:16,207 --> 00:39:16,627
Is that right?
1038
00:39:17,257 --> 00:39:21,757
So we are still working on
that and working through that.
1039
00:39:21,972 --> 00:39:22,262
Okay.
1040
00:39:24,002 --> 00:39:25,087
It is a potential
1041
00:39:25,267 --> 00:39:27,127
we, well, that, that is the plan.
1042
00:39:28,207 --> 00:39:34,047
As of now we are, are planning on doing
food trucks, uh, Friday, then Saturday
1043
00:39:34,047 --> 00:39:36,717
for lunch and then Saturday evening.
1044
00:39:37,317 --> 00:39:41,907
But we also have had some people
reach out and we may end up.
1045
00:39:42,957 --> 00:39:45,717
Just going ahead and like
doing, having somebody kind of
1046
00:39:45,717 --> 00:39:47,067
come in with a catering thing.
1047
00:39:47,647 --> 00:39:49,777
We're still working through
all those details, so I can't
1048
00:39:49,777 --> 00:39:51,547
really say hold me down to it.
1049
00:39:51,877 --> 00:39:52,332
Yeah, sure.
1050
00:39:52,717 --> 00:39:52,927
Sure.
1051
00:39:53,317 --> 00:39:55,237
Things change so, so fast.
1052
00:39:55,237 --> 00:39:57,877
And you know, it's a lot
that goes into it for sure.
1053
00:39:57,877 --> 00:39:58,087
A lot.
1054
00:39:58,087 --> 00:39:58,117
Oh
1055
00:39:58,572 --> 00:39:58,732
yeah.
1056
00:39:58,837 --> 00:39:59,167
Yeah.
1057
00:39:59,527 --> 00:40:03,837
I, I think the last one that we attended
was like a potluck where everybody
1058
00:40:03,837 --> 00:40:05,422
just had to bring a meal and Yeah.
1059
00:40:05,422 --> 00:40:06,422
We all brought something.
1060
00:40:06,692 --> 00:40:06,982
Yeah.
1061
00:40:07,282 --> 00:40:07,502
Oh,
1062
00:40:08,607 --> 00:40:09,597
and that's great.
1063
00:40:09,597 --> 00:40:11,607
When they're just the one nighters, right?
1064
00:40:11,787 --> 00:40:11,847
Yeah.
1065
00:40:12,147 --> 00:40:13,227
Yes.
1066
00:40:13,232 --> 00:40:14,367
Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
1067
00:40:14,457 --> 00:40:14,817
I
1068
00:40:15,387 --> 00:40:15,687
do.
1069
00:40:15,957 --> 00:40:16,317
I like that.
1070
00:40:17,022 --> 00:40:20,302
Out of curiosity, just because,
you know, we're, I'm a woman and I,
1071
00:40:20,332 --> 00:40:23,722
I'm, I wanna know, so I know it's
a clothing optional event and it's
1072
00:40:23,722 --> 00:40:25,672
open to couples and single ladies.
1073
00:40:25,762 --> 00:40:28,342
How are you making sure
that everyone feels safe and
1074
00:40:28,342 --> 00:40:29,362
comfortable in that environment?
1075
00:40:29,902 --> 00:40:35,182
Okay, so we, uh, have the same security
guys that they use for the beach takeover.
1076
00:40:35,272 --> 00:40:35,512
Okay.
1077
00:40:36,142 --> 00:40:39,442
There's interior, there's
exterior, there's in the parking
1078
00:40:39,442 --> 00:40:41,132
lot, there's at the door.
1079
00:40:41,417 --> 00:40:45,377
Uh, we also have a medic who's
going to be running around with them
1080
00:40:45,977 --> 00:40:49,217
just in case somebody may take too
many blue pills and get a little
1081
00:40:49,577 --> 00:40:49,817
Yes.
1082
00:40:50,987 --> 00:40:52,967
We have,
1083
00:40:55,307 --> 00:40:58,487
so that, that we have
additional staff who are.
1084
00:40:58,907 --> 00:41:02,807
Going to be identifiable,
who are also gonna be walking
1085
00:41:02,807 --> 00:41:04,027
the halls, picking up trash.
1086
00:41:04,577 --> 00:41:04,817
That's good.
1087
00:41:04,817 --> 00:41:07,547
Different stuff like that, keeping
everything kind of cleaned up.
1088
00:41:08,027 --> 00:41:08,507
I like that.
1089
00:41:08,567 --> 00:41:08,927
Uh,
1090
00:41:09,257 --> 00:41:10,907
so know that they will report anything.
1091
00:41:10,907 --> 00:41:11,417
Yeah.
1092
00:41:11,417 --> 00:41:11,537
And
1093
00:41:11,537 --> 00:41:16,697
so, but at the same time, you know,
when people check in, like they're
1094
00:41:16,697 --> 00:41:18,647
gonna know who all these people are.
1095
00:41:18,697 --> 00:41:21,697
And that all they've gotta
do is make a phone call.
1096
00:41:21,697 --> 00:41:26,557
If you feel any uncomfortable
whatsoever just let us know.
1097
00:41:26,767 --> 00:41:30,577
I am totally cool with sending
somebody through a four story window.
1098
00:41:32,347 --> 00:41:32,527
Same.
1099
00:41:33,367 --> 00:41:34,777
We're on the, we're on the same page.
1100
00:41:34,837 --> 00:41:35,347
Okay.
1101
00:41:37,297 --> 00:41:37,987
But also,
1102
00:41:37,987 --> 00:41:40,967
I mean, I think there was a big
thing about, I, you know, the, the
1103
00:41:40,967 --> 00:41:45,087
elephant in the room of, you know,
single men and we have them on a list.
1104
00:41:45,087 --> 00:41:46,287
So, I mean,
1105
00:41:46,287 --> 00:41:51,477
there, there are, so there are
a few single ladies who have
1106
00:41:51,477 --> 00:41:54,487
came and we've said couples,
1107
00:41:54,967 --> 00:41:55,417
right?
1108
00:41:56,407 --> 00:42:01,852
If we have single women who are
coming, we have allowed a. Single
1109
00:42:01,852 --> 00:42:04,612
man to get a a room by themselves.
1110
00:42:04,612 --> 00:42:08,662
And of course they've been vetted
by people, so, and we, all of them.
1111
00:42:08,962 --> 00:42:13,102
Yeah, no, I was gonna say we have a lot
of single guys in the community that
1112
00:42:13,252 --> 00:42:19,642
have been in the community and have not
been what everyone seems to think, that.
1113
00:42:21,157 --> 00:42:21,447
Yeah.
1114
00:42:21,452 --> 00:42:21,802
Yeah.
1115
00:42:21,982 --> 00:42:22,432
Yeah.
1116
00:42:22,432 --> 00:42:23,272
So that's what that is.
1117
00:42:23,272 --> 00:42:23,812
That's nice.
1118
00:42:23,812 --> 00:42:24,442
That's good to hear.
1119
00:42:24,442 --> 00:42:24,712
Yeah.
1120
00:42:24,922 --> 00:42:27,472
But we're, we're trying to
be inclusive to everyone.
1121
00:42:28,222 --> 00:42:28,282
Yeah.
1122
00:42:28,282 --> 00:42:28,552
Here.
1123
00:42:29,062 --> 00:42:32,362
And somebody got upset right in the
beginning 'cause they thought that we were
1124
00:42:32,362 --> 00:42:36,622
just gonna be like, oh, we're gonna charge
y'all a million dollars to come here.
1125
00:42:36,722 --> 00:42:39,482
No, we're not, we haven't
changed whatsoever.
1126
00:42:39,572 --> 00:42:39,812
Same
1127
00:42:39,812 --> 00:42:41,162
price into that.
1128
00:42:41,162 --> 00:42:45,872
We're not looking to make it, we're not
gonna make any money off of this thing.
1129
00:42:45,932 --> 00:42:46,022
Mm-hmm.
1130
00:42:46,212 --> 00:42:46,597
It's for fun.
1131
00:42:46,597 --> 00:42:47,347
It's for the community.
1132
00:42:47,347 --> 00:42:47,917
That's awesome.
1133
00:42:47,977 --> 00:42:48,037
We
1134
00:42:48,607 --> 00:42:51,397
wanna have fun and we want everybody
else to have fun and we want people
1135
00:42:51,397 --> 00:42:53,227
to experience this for the first time.
1136
00:42:53,227 --> 00:42:53,617
Right.
1137
00:42:53,617 --> 00:42:56,287
And a lot of people are going to
experience it for the first time.
1138
00:42:56,317 --> 00:42:59,557
'cause they don't really have any
of those takeovers in San Antonio.
1139
00:42:59,737 --> 00:42:59,797
Yeah.
1140
00:42:59,797 --> 00:42:59,857
So.
1141
00:43:00,157 --> 00:43:04,477
I think a lot of the apprehension too
is it's the fear of the unknown, right?
1142
00:43:04,807 --> 00:43:05,077
For sure.
1143
00:43:05,077 --> 00:43:05,197
And
1144
00:43:05,587 --> 00:43:07,537
you don't know what's
gonna happen and yeah.
1145
00:43:07,897 --> 00:43:10,837
Half the people probably don't
even know who Loyd and I are,
1146
00:43:12,557 --> 00:43:14,567
and that that's, that's okay.
1147
00:43:14,657 --> 00:43:15,017
You know?
1148
00:43:15,017 --> 00:43:16,187
But you're gonna get to know us.
1149
00:43:16,277 --> 00:43:16,877
That's right.
1150
00:43:16,967 --> 00:43:17,777
Absolutely.
1151
00:43:17,777 --> 00:43:22,037
Well, you know, while we're on, uh,
pricing, let's talk logistics and pricing.
1152
00:43:22,037 --> 00:43:23,117
Let's talk details.
1153
00:43:23,417 --> 00:43:26,447
What's the cost of this awesome
adventure, which covers both
1154
00:43:26,447 --> 00:43:27,347
Friday and Saturday rooms.
1155
00:43:28,652 --> 00:43:30,662
Oh, so it's 500 bucks for a room.
1156
00:43:30,697 --> 00:43:34,727
You can have up to four
people in a double queen room.
1157
00:43:35,177 --> 00:43:37,547
You can have two people in a king room.
1158
00:43:38,687 --> 00:43:41,147
It's, that's it.
1159
00:43:41,717 --> 00:43:43,127
And it's just the flat rate.
1160
00:43:43,127 --> 00:43:45,167
There's no added fees
or anything like that.
1161
00:43:45,437 --> 00:43:45,647
Oh,
1162
00:43:46,187 --> 00:43:46,547
that's it.
1163
00:43:46,547 --> 00:43:47,222
Nope, that's it.
1164
00:43:47,322 --> 00:43:49,517
I'm, I'm actually eating
the credit card fees.
1165
00:43:49,607 --> 00:43:49,757
Mm-hmm.
1166
00:43:49,757 --> 00:43:51,467
I'm paying the taxes on the hotel.
1167
00:43:51,482 --> 00:43:51,702
Wow.
1168
00:43:52,472 --> 00:43:57,452
I'm paying the security, I'm
paying the dj, I'm paying.
1169
00:43:57,452 --> 00:43:57,692
I'm not.
1170
00:43:58,232 --> 00:44:00,082
The only thing if you
would have to do Yeah.
1171
00:44:00,082 --> 00:44:00,927
If food, yeah.
1172
00:44:00,927 --> 00:44:01,127
If
1173
00:44:01,127 --> 00:44:03,212
the food trucks are out there,
y'all gonna ask buy your own food.
1174
00:44:03,212 --> 00:44:03,532
You're have, pay your own food.
1175
00:44:03,622 --> 00:44:03,832
Right?
1176
00:44:03,832 --> 00:44:04,132
Yeah.
1177
00:44:04,132 --> 00:44:04,282
Right.
1178
00:44:04,282 --> 00:44:04,762
Yeah.
1179
00:44:05,212 --> 00:44:06,442
That's the least we can do.
1180
00:44:08,152 --> 00:44:10,072
Bring your own alcohol, providing that.
1181
00:44:10,192 --> 00:44:10,432
Yeah.
1182
00:44:10,432 --> 00:44:10,492
Um.
1183
00:44:11,977 --> 00:44:14,042
Oh and breakfast is included.
1184
00:44:14,042 --> 00:44:14,732
Breakfast is included.
1185
00:44:14,747 --> 00:44:21,647
We are going to upscale the breakfast
amenities because we wanna make sure
1186
00:44:21,647 --> 00:44:27,567
that, you know, we have options that
are, I do not realize that there are
1187
00:44:27,567 --> 00:44:29,577
certain food options that are not.
1188
00:44:31,722 --> 00:44:32,862
Tasteful
1189
00:44:35,322 --> 00:44:35,622
afterwards.
1190
00:44:36,042 --> 00:44:36,582
Okay.
1191
00:44:36,942 --> 00:44:37,842
After consumption.
1192
00:44:38,352 --> 00:44:44,237
Um, and yeah and certain
foods make things taste better
1193
00:44:44,597 --> 00:44:45,227
apparently.
1194
00:44:45,587 --> 00:44:46,157
Okay,
1195
00:44:46,607 --> 00:44:46,937
gotcha.
1196
00:44:48,137 --> 00:44:48,467
Yeah.
1197
00:44:48,467 --> 00:44:50,687
So we're adding some of those,
1198
00:44:51,257 --> 00:44:55,217
but also also for people that have
food allergies and things, people that
1199
00:44:55,307 --> 00:44:58,037
can eat bread, waffles and that stuff.
1200
00:44:59,207 --> 00:44:59,427
So,
1201
00:45:00,002 --> 00:45:00,692
okay.
1202
00:45:00,692 --> 00:45:00,702
Yeah.
1203
00:45:00,702 --> 00:45:00,932
Yeah.
1204
00:45:00,932 --> 00:45:02,282
You covered all your bases.
1205
00:45:02,492 --> 00:45:05,702
And as of right now, I know the location
has not been released to protect the
1206
00:45:05,702 --> 00:45:07,172
safety of everyone who's attending.
1207
00:45:07,892 --> 00:45:10,052
When are y'all gonna be
releasing that information?
1208
00:45:11,102 --> 00:45:11,732
A week of week.
1209
00:45:11,732 --> 00:45:11,972
Of the week of, mm-hmm.
1210
00:45:12,272 --> 00:45:12,692
Okay.
1211
00:45:12,812 --> 00:45:13,502
Okay.
1212
00:45:13,502 --> 00:45:14,072
Excellent.
1213
00:45:14,322 --> 00:45:14,562
Yeah.
1214
00:45:14,952 --> 00:45:15,342
Roughly.
1215
00:45:15,342 --> 00:45:15,352
I,
1216
00:45:15,492 --> 00:45:18,282
I gotta tell you, we are thrilled
to be doing a live podcast
1217
00:45:18,282 --> 00:45:19,852
from, uh, the Christmas party.
1218
00:45:20,122 --> 00:45:22,762
What made you decide to bring Beyond
Monogamy into the mix this year?
1219
00:45:24,187 --> 00:45:27,337
Y'all actually had a conversation
with me at that very first meeting
1220
00:45:28,597 --> 00:45:31,427
and yeah, I was literally willingly,
1221
00:45:31,627 --> 00:45:32,197
willingly.
1222
00:45:32,297 --> 00:45:32,627
Just kidding.
1223
00:45:33,647 --> 00:45:36,827
So even though I'm married to
her, I was basically living in San
1224
00:45:36,827 --> 00:45:38,447
Antonio in a hotel at the time.
1225
00:45:38,712 --> 00:45:38,932
Oh.
1226
00:45:39,887 --> 00:45:41,147
Running out of San Antonio.
1227
00:45:41,152 --> 00:45:42,137
We live in Dallas.
1228
00:45:42,137 --> 00:45:44,087
We're actually moving back on the first.
1229
00:45:44,297 --> 00:45:44,807
Oh wow.
1230
00:45:45,317 --> 00:45:45,647
That was our
1231
00:45:45,647 --> 00:45:47,237
welcome home party too, by the way.
1232
00:45:47,237 --> 00:45:47,297
Yeah.
1233
00:45:47,507 --> 00:45:49,877
I am so happy for you guys.
1234
00:45:50,387 --> 00:45:50,597
Well, and.
1235
00:45:51,947 --> 00:45:56,717
You guys didn't treat
me like, Ew, single guy.
1236
00:45:58,607 --> 00:45:59,747
I was like, oh.
1237
00:46:00,107 --> 00:46:04,327
And then, so I kinda, I'm not
a big I don't listen to things
1238
00:46:04,327 --> 00:46:05,317
when I drive down the road.
1239
00:46:05,437 --> 00:46:07,687
So I don't consume much content there.
1240
00:46:08,147 --> 00:46:12,132
But it was, and I've seen some of your
stuff and I thought, you know what?
1241
00:46:13,212 --> 00:46:16,332
I would like to help these guys have.
1242
00:46:16,422 --> 00:46:19,662
I if we can do something
cool for him and, and.
1243
00:46:20,232 --> 00:46:21,917
Give 'em this kind of an opportunity.
1244
00:46:22,187 --> 00:46:22,817
Heck yeah.
1245
00:46:22,817 --> 00:46:22,877
So,
1246
00:46:23,327 --> 00:46:25,882
hey, you know, we're, we're,
we're so excited about it because,
1247
00:46:25,882 --> 00:46:26,882
uh, and really appreciates it.
1248
00:46:26,887 --> 00:46:32,757
We have a, a lot of it, this is kind
of gonna kick off our 2026 events.
1249
00:46:32,787 --> 00:46:32,997
Yeah.
1250
00:46:33,027 --> 00:46:37,437
So we're ending our 2025 events with
you guys and then we're gonna have
1251
00:46:37,467 --> 00:46:42,057
a, uh, an event at, uh, club Eden
in San Antonio on December 13th.
1252
00:46:42,207 --> 00:46:44,547
And that's pretty much
gonna finish our year.
1253
00:46:44,667 --> 00:46:44,907
That's it.
1254
00:46:44,937 --> 00:46:45,147
Uh,
1255
00:46:45,147 --> 00:46:47,607
and then we are gonna be
doing some national events.
1256
00:46:47,747 --> 00:46:49,247
Next year in 2026.
1257
00:46:49,247 --> 00:46:51,977
So 2026 is gonna be very big for us.
1258
00:46:52,067 --> 00:46:57,367
But as far as Texas desires what's
2026 looking like for you guys?
1259
00:46:57,907 --> 00:46:57,997
Yeah.
1260
00:46:57,997 --> 00:46:59,257
Have y'all thought about that yet?
1261
00:46:59,267 --> 00:47:00,797
Is there gonna be more coming out?
1262
00:47:00,797 --> 00:47:00,827
I
1263
00:47:00,827 --> 00:47:02,237
be waiting to see how this one is.
1264
00:47:03,497 --> 00:47:03,857
Yeah.
1265
00:47:03,857 --> 00:47:04,247
So
1266
00:47:04,247 --> 00:47:04,772
there is more.
1267
00:47:05,232 --> 00:47:07,817
Um, so I know the big
announcements, you know?
1268
00:47:07,907 --> 00:47:07,967
Yeah.
1269
00:47:08,027 --> 00:47:09,617
Sidestepping the big announcement.
1270
00:47:09,617 --> 00:47:10,817
Is there anything else that's coming?
1271
00:47:10,817 --> 00:47:10,937
Plan
1272
00:47:11,807 --> 00:47:11,867
out?
1273
00:47:11,867 --> 00:47:13,037
This isn't the only hotel.
1274
00:47:13,037 --> 00:47:13,097
No,
1275
00:47:13,727 --> 00:47:14,867
I listen.
1276
00:47:15,297 --> 00:47:18,447
I would love to do a
couple more next year.
1277
00:47:19,737 --> 00:47:19,767
Okay.
1278
00:47:19,767 --> 00:47:20,397
A bit bigger.
1279
00:47:20,547 --> 00:47:23,097
I've actually got somebody
from a Marriott property who's
1280
00:47:23,097 --> 00:47:24,987
going to be at the takeover.
1281
00:47:25,287 --> 00:47:25,797
Nice.
1282
00:47:26,172 --> 00:47:36,197
A, a, a bigger property down the road that
has interior pool area kind of Oh man.
1283
00:47:36,287 --> 00:47:36,437
Yeah.
1284
00:47:36,612 --> 00:47:37,622
Outdoor and stuff.
1285
00:47:37,622 --> 00:47:37,902
Yeah.
1286
00:47:38,627 --> 00:47:42,707
And they're going to observe
us, not really observe.
1287
00:47:42,767 --> 00:47:43,787
That's the wrong way to say.
1288
00:47:44,117 --> 00:47:44,927
They're cool with it.
1289
00:47:44,957 --> 00:47:46,337
They go to resorts and stuff.
1290
00:47:46,337 --> 00:47:48,797
They just wanna see how
the community reacts.
1291
00:47:48,797 --> 00:47:48,887
Yes.
1292
00:47:48,967 --> 00:47:50,317
It gets wild, crazy.
1293
00:47:50,647 --> 00:47:52,987
And they probably won't
want us in their hotel, but.
1294
00:47:53,587 --> 00:48:00,637
So if everybody can not get super wild
and crazy and rappel from the second
1295
00:48:00,637 --> 00:48:07,187
floor balconies down into the lobby or any
of that kinda stuff, I'd appreciate it.
1296
00:48:07,877 --> 00:48:13,097
So, but uh, but so we're
looking at doing a few more.
1297
00:48:13,347 --> 00:48:13,437
Right.
1298
00:48:13,437 --> 00:48:17,247
Any people listening who wants to
experience the naia Nice hotel takeover?
1299
00:48:17,247 --> 00:48:18,777
How can they reserve their spots?
1300
00:48:18,837 --> 00:48:20,007
Are there still spots?
1301
00:48:20,367 --> 00:48:20,907
Yes.
1302
00:48:20,907 --> 00:48:31,917
Oh, uh, there are our, so the thing is
we have about, I'm gonna say 15 left.
1303
00:48:31,932 --> 00:48:32,222
Okay.
1304
00:48:33,042 --> 00:48:40,332
Also have another probably 20 who
they've said, yes, I want a room.
1305
00:48:40,332 --> 00:48:41,142
And I said, okay.
1306
00:48:41,142 --> 00:48:42,972
I sent 'em an invoice
and they haven't paid it.
1307
00:48:43,032 --> 00:48:43,422
So
1308
00:48:43,662 --> 00:48:44,682
Ah, okay.
1309
00:48:45,222 --> 00:48:45,737
It's gonna be,
1310
00:48:46,122 --> 00:48:50,772
I have a feeling that there's either
going to be some rooms still available,
1311
00:48:51,822 --> 00:48:55,032
I'm gonna be sending emails out
to those people to be like, Hey,
1312
00:48:55,842 --> 00:48:58,212
or are you covering this or not?
1313
00:48:58,362 --> 00:48:58,752
And.
1314
00:48:59,892 --> 00:49:02,322
If they say no, we're just
not gonna be able to do it.
1315
00:49:02,352 --> 00:49:02,772
Okay.
1316
00:49:02,772 --> 00:49:04,062
Then that room's gonna open up.
1317
00:49:04,422 --> 00:49:04,482
Okay.
1318
00:49:04,482 --> 00:49:06,372
You'll probably see a
last minute rush too.
1319
00:49:06,402 --> 00:49:06,522
You
1320
00:49:06,522 --> 00:49:06,942
will.
1321
00:49:06,942 --> 00:49:08,682
That's the, I mean, that's
the unfortunate thing.
1322
00:49:09,792 --> 00:49:10,002
Yeah.
1323
00:49:10,002 --> 00:49:14,652
I mean, I, I'm hoping not, and I, I am
hoping that, that it, it goes by this
1324
00:49:14,652 --> 00:49:18,847
week and next week, especially with
the government coming back up, go.
1325
00:49:19,007 --> 00:49:22,722
I think that was a lot of thing, a
lot of people's reservations, so.
1326
00:49:22,872 --> 00:49:22,932
Yeah.
1327
00:49:22,962 --> 00:49:23,202
Uh,
1328
00:49:23,562 --> 00:49:23,892
for sure.
1329
00:49:23,892 --> 00:49:30,602
But they can email Loyd@RBHACC.com.
1330
00:49:30,872 --> 00:49:35,282
So to clarify, technically our
company is called RBH Accommodations.
1331
00:49:35,642 --> 00:49:35,912
Okay.
1332
00:49:36,602 --> 00:49:39,512
So when you get that credit card
receipt, whenever you pay off the
1333
00:49:39,512 --> 00:49:41,912
bill, it's for RBH accommodations.
1334
00:49:42,512 --> 00:49:48,422
Not, I went shopped in a porn
shop, credit card statement.
1335
00:49:48,812 --> 00:49:49,472
Okay.
1336
00:49:49,472 --> 00:49:50,222
That's good to know.
1337
00:49:50,252 --> 00:49:52,652
'cause that those don't
normally work out that great.
1338
00:49:52,682 --> 00:49:52,742
So
1339
00:49:52,742 --> 00:49:54,182
people, if you got an invoice.
1340
00:49:54,737 --> 00:49:58,097
Pay it, reach out to them, let
them know what your plans are.
1341
00:49:58,097 --> 00:49:58,337
We don't
1342
00:49:58,337 --> 00:49:59,207
lose your spot.
1343
00:49:59,237 --> 00:50:00,317
Don't lose your spot.
1344
00:50:00,317 --> 00:50:01,667
You don't wanna lose your spot.
1345
00:50:01,667 --> 00:50:04,667
And for people, the couples that
are out there, there are still rooms
1346
00:50:04,667 --> 00:50:07,247
available, so jump on them 'cause
you don't wanna miss this party.
1347
00:50:07,337 --> 00:50:08,027
Absolutely.
1348
00:50:08,027 --> 00:50:12,587
Of course all the details including, uh,
the email that was just said out loud,
1349
00:50:12,587 --> 00:50:14,057
that's all gonna be in our show notes.
1350
00:50:14,327 --> 00:50:17,837
And, uh, it's actually gonna be
found on our website under the events
1351
00:50:17,837 --> 00:50:22,177
tab at www.beyond-monogamy.com.
1352
00:50:22,247 --> 00:50:22,967
That's right.
1353
00:50:23,107 --> 00:50:25,447
well, I am excited to be part of this.
1354
00:50:25,447 --> 00:50:29,257
Like to even just go, I'm not
really, you said rave and I've
1355
00:50:29,257 --> 00:50:30,547
been wanting to go to a rave.
1356
00:50:30,547 --> 00:50:31,022
She love the
1357
00:50:31,102 --> 00:50:31,542
rave idea.
1358
00:50:31,852 --> 00:50:32,142
Love.
1359
00:50:32,502 --> 00:50:32,702
She's always,
1360
00:50:33,397 --> 00:50:35,557
she was doing this thing with
her hands, like she's got
1361
00:50:35,557 --> 00:50:36,667
glow sticks in 'em, but she, I
1362
00:50:36,817 --> 00:50:37,117
never.
1363
00:50:39,107 --> 00:50:42,077
So, you know, we're gonna, we're
gonna, we're gonna have fun for sure.
1364
00:50:42,167 --> 00:50:42,257
Yes.
1365
00:50:42,377 --> 00:50:42,437
Yeah.
1366
00:50:43,487 --> 00:50:43,737
Lots of dance.
1367
00:50:43,737 --> 00:50:45,797
Lots of dancing, and
lots of walking around.
1368
00:50:45,992 --> 00:50:46,212
Oh.
1369
00:50:46,337 --> 00:50:46,667
Oh.
1370
00:50:46,697 --> 00:50:52,597
I would like to add for ladies if you
are wanting to wear heels of any kind,
1371
00:50:52,747 --> 00:50:54,307
anything like that, that's great.
1372
00:50:54,327 --> 00:50:57,837
For the Christmas party, but I would
actually have some shoes to actually
1373
00:50:57,837 --> 00:50:59,787
be comfortable walking around in.
1374
00:51:00,087 --> 00:51:04,347
Nobody's really gonna care what your
feet look like or what's on your feet.
1375
00:51:04,377 --> 00:51:06,297
They're looking at your
lingerie or whatever.
1376
00:51:06,297 --> 00:51:09,257
But definitely bring some
shoes to wear for sure.
1377
00:51:09,257 --> 00:51:09,317
Yeah.
1378
00:51:09,737 --> 00:51:12,137
And I, I, I guess I should also clarify.
1379
00:51:12,237 --> 00:51:15,537
That people will have to wear clothes.
1380
00:51:15,747 --> 00:51:15,837
Oh yeah.
1381
00:51:15,897 --> 00:51:22,767
In areas where food is being served and
we are following all laws and regulations.
1382
00:51:23,007 --> 00:51:23,577
Love it.
1383
00:51:24,237 --> 00:51:24,687
Yes.
1384
00:51:24,747 --> 00:51:27,147
I'm, I'm glad that you had mentioned
that because when we were talking about
1385
00:51:27,147 --> 00:51:30,567
the breakfast and I was going, well, I
wonder if there's anybody getting that's
1386
00:51:30,567 --> 00:51:33,807
gonna try and eat naked downstairs,
1387
00:51:34,257 --> 00:51:37,977
and we know that's gonna happen,
but let's, we've very much
1388
00:51:37,977 --> 00:51:39,717
been like, dude, and that'll
1389
00:51:39,717 --> 00:51:41,607
be in the rules packet and everything too.
1390
00:51:43,637 --> 00:51:43,837
Excellent.
1391
00:51:43,837 --> 00:51:45,072
It'll all be announced.
1392
00:51:45,072 --> 00:51:49,962
We will put out, I think we, um, are
going to get our itinerary gathered
1393
00:51:49,962 --> 00:51:53,112
up and, you know, timeframes and all
that stuff of when the events are
1394
00:51:53,112 --> 00:51:57,512
gonna happen and we'll get that posted
probably another week or so as well.
1395
00:51:57,602 --> 00:51:57,632
Okay.
1396
00:51:57,782 --> 00:51:59,012
Okay, great.
1397
00:51:59,012 --> 00:52:03,122
Well, I, I know that whatever, uh,
whatever you guys have as far as
1398
00:52:03,122 --> 00:52:04,922
information we're gonna have as well.
1399
00:52:05,132 --> 00:52:08,612
And we're gonna be, uh, keeping our
events tab and all of our social
1400
00:52:08,612 --> 00:52:11,192
media's privy to that as we go along.
1401
00:52:11,472 --> 00:52:12,222
Loyd and Brooke.
1402
00:52:12,672 --> 00:52:15,582
Thank you guys for joining us today
and for everything that you're
1403
00:52:15,582 --> 00:52:20,052
doing to keep the Texas lifestyle
scene vibrant and yes inclusive.
1404
00:52:20,292 --> 00:52:24,042
Yeah, the Texas Desire Hotel
Takeover is going down December 5th
1405
00:52:24,042 --> 00:52:27,942
and 6th in San Antonio, and we're
excited to have everyone there
1406
00:52:27,942 --> 00:52:29,622
to be a part of our live show.
1407
00:52:29,962 --> 00:52:33,112
We're also very happy that y'all
are doing this for the community.
1408
00:52:33,112 --> 00:52:40,172
It's super awesome to reserve,
email Loyd at Loyd@rbhacc.com
1409
00:52:40,192 --> 00:52:42,022
or head over to our events tabs.
1410
00:52:42,172 --> 00:52:42,472
Go ahead.
1411
00:52:43,477 --> 00:52:45,192
One L. One LL
1412
00:52:45,192 --> 00:52:45,997
Oh one L. Yeah.
1413
00:52:47,097 --> 00:52:47,277
Oh, good.
1414
00:52:47,517 --> 00:52:47,547
Okay.
1415
00:52:47,607 --> 00:52:49,867
So we'll, we'll make sure that that's yes.
1416
00:52:49,897 --> 00:52:51,877
Showing correct in all our information.
1417
00:52:52,147 --> 00:52:52,237
Yes.
1418
00:52:52,657 --> 00:52:55,297
But yeah, definitely check
out our events tab at mm-hmm.
1419
00:52:55,327 --> 00:52:57,817
www.beyondmonogamy.com.
1420
00:52:58,057 --> 00:53:01,927
While you're there, check out our latest
episodes, drop a Confession, which we
1421
00:53:01,927 --> 00:53:05,977
love, and join our Patreon community
for the behind the scenes extras.
1422
00:53:07,207 --> 00:53:10,672
And make sure you're following us
on socials, Facebook, Instagram,
1423
00:53:10,677 --> 00:53:14,197
TikTok, and X, as well as join our
Reddit and Discord communities.
1424
00:53:14,407 --> 00:53:15,427
Absolutely huge.
1425
00:53:15,427 --> 00:53:19,667
Thanks again to Texas Desires
for joining us, Brooke and Loyd.
1426
00:53:19,717 --> 00:53:22,807
We can't wait to see you guys
and everybody at the naughty
1427
00:53:22,807 --> 00:53:23,947
and nice Hotel takeover.
1428
00:53:23,947 --> 00:53:26,467
And with that, everybody,
thank you for listening and we
1429
00:53:26,467 --> 00:53:27,967
will see you guys next week.
1430
00:53:28,027 --> 00:53:28,507
Bye.
