Swinger Club 101: What Newbies Should Know Before Going to a Lifestyle Club

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Alright y'all, before we
dive in, a quick heads up.

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This show is raw, real, and
definitely not rated pg.

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We're talking about adult themes, sexual
content, and the kind of stuff you

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probably don't want blasting through your
speakers at work or around your kits.

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So grab some headphones, pour your
drink of choice and get comfy.

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Oh, and just so we're clear, we are not
licensed therapists, counselors, or sex.

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Couches.

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Sex coaches.

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Sex coaches,

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not sex couches

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or just a couple of people sharing our
lives, experiences and sexy adventures.

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An ethical non-monogamy.

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So with that, pull up a
chair and enjoy the show.

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And.

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Welcome to another episode
of Beyond Monogamy.

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I'm Adam.

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And I'm Pris.

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And today on our Wednesday quickie, we
are going to be talking to the newbies.

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This is what you should know
before you go to a club.

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Woo woo.

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Oh, is that club music?

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No, that was supposed to be like a siren.

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Oh.

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But I, I think I did it.

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I don't know.

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Okay.

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I was like, yeah, I think

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it, it works well as a club music kind of

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thing.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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So

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that's good.

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So tell us, sir.

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Yes.

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Yes.

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How does

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this work?

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Uh, so.

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We have a really awesome event coming up.

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This beautiful woman next to
me has her birthday event.

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The big thing is happening
on March 14th and it we're

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celebrating at our favorite club.

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Yes.

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And a lot of people that are coming in
haven't really been to a club before.

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And so we figured what better time to
talk about what it's like what you can

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possibly experience, what you can expect,
because I know me personally, uh, if

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I've never done anything for, you know,
if I haven't done it like the first time

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Uhhuh,

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I have, I'm like extremely anxious.

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So if it's like my first
experience at a certain club

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and I don't know what to expect.

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I'm completely nervous.

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Yes.

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Majorly

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yes.

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Anxious.

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Yes.

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And so it is my hope.

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It is my hope that we can relieve
some of that anxiety if you

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have that same anxiety as me.

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Yes.

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Or if you can be as cool as
a cucumber for over here.

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I

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do not get anxiety.

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Evidently

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I get very, I get excited,
like, let's do this.

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Have you always gotten like that though?

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Like when we first started
going to the club, I mean

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really, really, really, really

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well.

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No, I got, I was really insecure, but
then like, I think right after the

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first time I was like, oh, this is cool
because you and I just kind of chill.

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That's true.

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We do a lot of people watching.

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Yeah.

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So we don't really feel like we have to
go play with others or anything like that.

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We just kind of did our thing.

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We just kind of did our

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thing.

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So no, I don't have any anxiety.

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yeah.

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If you're gonna go the day on a
Saturday, which is the day of my

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birthday, let me explain to you,
you're gonna get on the website.

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Usually at every club.

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They all have websites

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for the most part.

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Look at their events.

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Um, unless

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they're sketch.

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Yeah, look at the events.

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You might have to sign up ahead of time,
get your little membership there, because

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you have to be a member at most of
these clubs in order for you to get in.

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This is true.

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Okay.

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Now, most of the clubs do run some
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you don't you don't live in that area.

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Mm-hmm.

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And so that.

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You know, that's always an option.

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But then they offer, you know,
discounted prices for of course three

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month or six months or whatever.

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Depending on the club.

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Yeah.

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And you wanna get on there because
usually they do reserve tables.

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So sometimes it's first comfort
serve, but you wanna get a table

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or you wanna have a safe spot.

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If you have somebody who has anxiety.

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Like this handsome man right here,

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just a tad.

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We'll not go if we don't,
if we can't get a couch,

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well, I'm sorry, but I really
feel like I need my safe space.

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Yeah.

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And yay.

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I don't care.

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I, I don't care who knows it.

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I feel better knowing that there's a
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around, even if it's a table.

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Mm-hmm.

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To lay an arm on or something.

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You know, you

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don't really.

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Yeah, I don't require a whole lot.

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I want a couch, so Yeah.

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Queen Sheba here.

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want a couch.

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But anyway, she likes

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the couches.

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It's usually, there's
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There's a dance floor, there's a DJ stage
there's tables, there's high tops, and

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then there's always like a VIP section

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on the norm.

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There should be hopefully a VIP area.

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Bathrooms.

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Are there, there's a smoking area.

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You, you stop.

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I wanna stop you there at bathrooms,
because we've been to a couple

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of clubs, we've been to a few.

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Mm-hmm.

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In our area.

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What could you tell everybody?

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What could they expect
for bathrooms as far as,

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so the,

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your experiences have

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been specific club that we're going,
that this one that we're talking about.

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Great bathrooms, very.

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Very clean.

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They, this one has wipes like a
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Mm mm-hmm.

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Um, there's mouthwash on the counter.

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The ladies' bathroom is beautiful.

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There's two couches.

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There's a long ottoman in the middle.

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There's a lots of mirrors, and then
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So most of us just kind of get
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and just kind of change.

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There's bathrooms of course, or stalled,
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There's about six stalls, so.

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Wow.

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Yeah, we have a big bathroom.

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I heard our bathroom is
way better than y'alls.

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Oh, man.

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Yeah.

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And you know, I get it.

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It's a guy like,

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uh, yeah, I get it.

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I mean, most guys, uh,
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there nothing like, there's like.

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No cologne or No, like mouthwash.

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They have mouthwash back there,
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Yes.

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Um, I've seen some places that
have, uh, like more than mouthwash.

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Like they have like little, little
baby colognes and stuff, you know?

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Stuff like that.

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Uh, which I thought, I
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I think, I think it's cool
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Because they don't have to.

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they

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don't.

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Uh, but, you know, Hey, what's
your, what's your membership hang?

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That's right.

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Right.

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there's a little photo area.

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A little backdrop.

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Oh yeah.

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That's

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always a good time.

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You can take, we always take
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you can put your phone there.

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There's a pool table, there's lockers.

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Some, some places have pool tables.

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Not all places too.

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That's

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right.

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But this specifically, they do.

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Oh yeah.

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These, these two specific ones too.

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Mm-hmm.

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Wow.

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Yeah.

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What else?

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That's it.

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Now, what to bring,

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what do you bring?

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What do you bring?

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What is an Adam and Pris's bag?

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Well, you know, if, if it's your
very first time going to the club,

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I don't know if you necessarily want
to bring too much, because I mean,

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do you play on the first, the first

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time?

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Well, somebody asks, what
do you go in wearing?

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Hmm.

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Good question.

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It's just dress up.

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You just, I have worn
jeans and a nice blouse.

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It's, it's very, it's club attire.

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So there you go.

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Club

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attire.

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Club attire.

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Club attire.

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Yeah.

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Okay.

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I've also seen people go, like, if they're
gonna go fishing, so how about this?

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Look your best, because a
first impression is important.

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This is true, but also consider that
there are themes on certain net as well.

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Yeah.

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So, you know, you can show up.

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A lot of people will show
up fully in themed clothing.

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Sometimes there's a line to get
in and you're standing outside.

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That's something that
you need to be aware of.

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By the way, guys if you have extreme
anxiety, I'm just saying if you have

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anxiety, if you pull up there and you're
there early, you might end up having

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to wait in line outside the place.

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Mm-hmm.

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You know, and if you're dressed
in full full gear whatever the

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theme is, it, it may, it may be

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lifestyles, love things.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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We love things.

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So you will find a moment where
there's, everybody is wearing red

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or everybody is wearing yellow.

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Or it's cookie monster day and we're
all dressed up as cookie monsters.

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Yeah.

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Or like Pris's birthday
where everything is

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gonna be green.

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It's all gonna be green and gold.

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That's right.

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But green

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gold,

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it's it's St. Patrick's time, so

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this is true.

271
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So that, that's easy.

272
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So that, that in and of itself is a

273
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theme.

274
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You know, my birthdays random.

275
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My birthdays have always
been themed at St. Patrick's.

276
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Mm-hmm.

277
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Mm-hmm.

278
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Or Easter.

279
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Yes.

280
00:08:45,972 --> 00:08:48,522
When I was growing up,
it was always Easter.

281
00:08:48,717 --> 00:08:48,807
Huh.

282
00:08:49,617 --> 00:08:52,077
As an adult it became St. Patrick's.

283
00:08:52,407 --> 00:08:52,827
Wow.

284
00:08:53,007 --> 00:08:53,787
Isn't that funny?

285
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How weird.

286
00:08:54,867 --> 00:08:55,107
Yeah.

287
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I don't want that theme anymore.

288
00:08:56,542 --> 00:08:56,762
No.

289
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Is this the

290
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last year of

291
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that theme be?

292
00:08:58,707 --> 00:08:59,127
Uh, yeah.

293
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My 50th is gonna be amazing.

294
00:09:01,227 --> 00:09:01,647
Yeah.

295
00:09:01,737 --> 00:09:01,977
My,

296
00:09:02,547 --> 00:09:03,417
you're already planning.

297
00:09:03,417 --> 00:09:07,407
My 50th is gonna be amazing
because that's the year I will

298
00:09:07,407 --> 00:09:11,157
no longer be employed for sure.

299
00:09:11,427 --> 00:09:11,787
Yeah.

300
00:09:12,327 --> 00:09:15,147
I am throwing in the reins and that's it.

301
00:09:15,147 --> 00:09:17,457
I'm not gonna work anymore
unless it's for my own company.

302
00:09:18,072 --> 00:09:20,022
Yeah, there's a lot of different
things that are gonna be happening.

303
00:09:20,082 --> 00:09:20,772
Manifest it.

304
00:09:20,862 --> 00:09:21,522
Yep, that's right.

305
00:09:21,522 --> 00:09:22,332
It is there.

306
00:09:22,332 --> 00:09:23,442
It's there for the taking.

307
00:09:23,442 --> 00:09:23,712
Yes.

308
00:09:23,712 --> 00:09:24,132
Gotta dig it.

309
00:09:24,672 --> 00:09:26,892
And we're gonna, we're
gonna pick that fruit, baby.

310
00:09:27,392 --> 00:09:29,042
Oh, we're, we're gonna
pick that fruit together.

311
00:09:29,192 --> 00:09:30,722
So, um, yeah, no.

312
00:09:31,442 --> 00:09:32,732
What should you have in our bag?

313
00:09:32,732 --> 00:09:33,722
So, what's in our bag?

314
00:09:34,082 --> 00:09:35,042
What is in our bag?

315
00:09:35,042 --> 00:09:35,732
Well, you know, I

316
00:09:36,092 --> 00:09:37,202
don't take a lot, but you said,

317
00:09:38,102 --> 00:09:41,882
well, so for the very first time, it
really depends on your experiences.

318
00:09:41,942 --> 00:09:42,247
I think you

319
00:09:42,247 --> 00:09:42,327
can

320
00:09:42,327 --> 00:09:42,337
take.

321
00:09:42,837 --> 00:09:46,347
You take a bag, but I, I always
recommend one of those bags

322
00:09:46,347 --> 00:09:48,357
that can be doubled as a cooler.

323
00:09:48,357 --> 00:09:50,667
Maybe something that has some
insulation in the middle.

324
00:09:50,667 --> 00:09:50,727
Yeah.

325
00:09:51,267 --> 00:09:51,537
Uh,

326
00:09:51,567 --> 00:09:52,467
well we don't drink,

327
00:09:52,857 --> 00:09:56,487
we don't, but these places
oftentimes are BYOB.

328
00:09:56,547 --> 00:09:56,727
Yeah.

329
00:09:57,027 --> 00:10:01,562
Uh, and so it helps if you wanna
bring your own drinks if Yeah.

330
00:10:01,562 --> 00:10:01,947
You basically got back,

331
00:10:02,187 --> 00:10:02,427
you

332
00:10:02,427 --> 00:10:04,257
can get, um, setups there.

333
00:10:04,647 --> 00:10:04,977
Yeah.

334
00:10:05,502 --> 00:10:06,522
But also, uh.

335
00:10:07,277 --> 00:10:11,957
You want to, I, I know there's a lot
of ladies who bring extra clothing.

336
00:10:12,647 --> 00:10:12,737
Mm-hmm.

337
00:10:12,977 --> 00:10:13,397
So maybe, so you're gonna

338
00:10:13,457 --> 00:10:14,507
go in your clubbing and you're gonna

339
00:10:14,507 --> 00:10:14,807
Yeah.

340
00:10:14,897 --> 00:10:15,827
Bring a set.

341
00:10:15,827 --> 00:10:16,937
You show your, yeah.

342
00:10:16,937 --> 00:10:21,257
You show in, in your club attire and then
at some point you get more comfortable,

343
00:10:21,287 --> 00:10:24,437
you change into some snazzy outfit,

344
00:10:24,617 --> 00:10:25,757
whatever you want.

345
00:10:25,757 --> 00:10:25,877
That's

346
00:10:25,907 --> 00:10:29,062
maybe skimpier, maybe a little skiier

347
00:10:29,062 --> 00:10:29,302
side.

348
00:10:29,302 --> 00:10:30,727
Um, some guys change as well.

349
00:10:31,507 --> 00:10:32,677
Some go, yeah.

350
00:10:33,247 --> 00:10:35,227
Some put on their own little outfits.

351
00:10:35,287 --> 00:10:35,917
Um,

352
00:10:35,947 --> 00:10:36,037
yep.

353
00:10:36,037 --> 00:10:36,047
Yep.

354
00:10:36,047 --> 00:10:36,057
Yep.

355
00:10:36,557 --> 00:10:40,507
What else I would take If
you there, they do supply it.

356
00:10:40,507 --> 00:10:41,947
But I would take your own lube.

357
00:10:42,637 --> 00:10:44,467
I would take your own condoms.

358
00:10:44,647 --> 00:10:46,027
Yeah, we always take ours.

359
00:10:46,027 --> 00:10:46,957
I I know that.

360
00:10:46,962 --> 00:10:47,092
Yeah.

361
00:10:47,162 --> 00:10:49,917
That some places do, uh, supply them.

362
00:10:50,757 --> 00:10:52,377
Uh, but we always bring our own.

363
00:10:52,437 --> 00:10:54,857
'cause you just, it's, it's, it's,

364
00:10:55,277 --> 00:10:55,427
it's

365
00:10:55,607 --> 00:10:55,757
our own.

366
00:10:55,812 --> 00:10:56,012
Yeah.

367
00:10:56,012 --> 00:10:56,222
Um, I,

368
00:10:57,107 --> 00:10:58,577
we're responsible for our own

369
00:10:58,582 --> 00:10:58,812
stuff.

370
00:10:59,312 --> 00:11:01,952
That I send, like I said,
there's wipes in there.

371
00:11:02,672 --> 00:11:04,832
Um, so in our bag we always have gum.

372
00:11:05,372 --> 00:11:05,942
Oh yeah.

373
00:11:06,062 --> 00:11:07,262
We always, always chapstick.

374
00:11:07,682 --> 00:11:08,042
Yeah.

375
00:11:08,852 --> 00:11:09,992
Gum or mints.

376
00:11:10,022 --> 00:11:11,972
And we normally have a big thing of it

377
00:11:12,062 --> 00:11:13,202
and we put it on our table.

378
00:11:13,202 --> 00:11:13,562
We do.

379
00:11:13,562 --> 00:11:17,642
We keep it on the table because you know,
hey, people are drinking, people are

380
00:11:17,642 --> 00:11:19,802
smoking, and then they want to kiss Pete.

381
00:11:19,952 --> 00:11:21,092
I'll be like, here you go.

382
00:11:21,272 --> 00:11:21,782
That's right.

383
00:11:22,142 --> 00:11:22,622
Have a gum.

384
00:11:23,132 --> 00:11:23,522
Yeah.

385
00:11:23,642 --> 00:11:23,942
Have a

386
00:11:23,942 --> 00:11:24,212
mint.

387
00:11:24,302 --> 00:11:25,742
Doing, doing ourselves the

388
00:11:25,742 --> 00:11:25,892
service.

389
00:11:26,342 --> 00:11:28,112
I take body spray.

390
00:11:29,087 --> 00:11:33,587
Take a fan, like one of those little,
um, they're called Clapper fans.

391
00:11:33,587 --> 00:11:36,617
That's not what I call, they're, you
know, little I, are they Clapper fans?

392
00:11:36,707 --> 00:11:38,002
I honestly, I don't dunno,

393
00:11:38,182 --> 00:11:39,887
you know those little fans that you can,

394
00:11:40,757 --> 00:11:40,907
the

395
00:11:41,407 --> 00:11:42,247
paper fans?

396
00:11:43,057 --> 00:11:43,597
Yeah,

397
00:11:44,077 --> 00:11:44,377
paper

398
00:11:44,377 --> 00:11:44,677
fans.

399
00:11:44,677 --> 00:11:44,687
Yeah.

400
00:11:44,687 --> 00:11:45,787
I don't dunno what
they're officially called.

401
00:11:45,787 --> 00:11:46,657
I don't know what they're
officially called.

402
00:11:46,657 --> 00:11:50,187
I thought, well, I look 'em up and
they're called C Clacker fans, so.

403
00:11:50,487 --> 00:11:50,742
Oh, okay.

404
00:11:51,242 --> 00:11:52,202
Well, they do clack.

405
00:11:52,262 --> 00:11:53,072
Yeah, they do.

406
00:11:53,402 --> 00:11:53,702
That would

407
00:11:53,702 --> 00:11:54,302
explain that.

408
00:11:54,302 --> 00:11:56,762
But don't think that's like the name
from, I think those are the specific ones.

409
00:11:56,762 --> 00:11:59,682
Everybody has a clacker
fan for the most part.

410
00:11:59,682 --> 00:11:59,712
Or

411
00:12:00,522 --> 00:12:04,062
there's those electronic
fans that you can wear.

412
00:12:04,062 --> 00:12:04,117
I have one this too.

413
00:12:04,117 --> 00:12:07,482
Wear around your neck or you can have,
don't do that on a leash, you know,

414
00:12:08,352 --> 00:12:09,837
because some people show up in leashes.

415
00:12:10,037 --> 00:12:10,757
Yeah, I guess

416
00:12:10,937 --> 00:12:13,572
so you can attach one of those fans to it.

417
00:12:13,857 --> 00:12:14,367
Hey,

418
00:12:14,427 --> 00:12:16,227
I may put you in a leash for that,

419
00:12:16,437 --> 00:12:17,067
for the fan

420
00:12:17,072 --> 00:12:18,237
and just have it facing me.

421
00:12:18,537 --> 00:12:19,137
Girl.

422
00:12:20,007 --> 00:12:21,747
Don't walk me around with your fan.

423
00:12:21,747 --> 00:12:24,057
I'm just gonna be your,
uh, walking talking fan.

424
00:12:24,177 --> 00:12:24,267
Yes,

425
00:12:24,867 --> 00:12:25,557
only fans

426
00:12:26,057 --> 00:12:26,417
like it.

427
00:12:27,377 --> 00:12:29,657
We just some, we just branded some shit.

428
00:12:30,157 --> 00:12:31,387
That's branding right there.

429
00:12:31,887 --> 00:12:32,547
That's how that works.

430
00:12:32,547 --> 00:12:35,277
Um, so yeah, so we do that.

431
00:12:35,282 --> 00:12:35,432
Um.

432
00:12:35,932 --> 00:12:39,832
We, I also have like
contact solution in our bag.

433
00:12:40,102 --> 00:12:43,582
We take our glasses in case
our contacts are too dry.

434
00:12:44,327 --> 00:12:44,617
Yeah.

435
00:12:44,797 --> 00:12:45,097
Yeah.

436
00:12:45,097 --> 00:12:46,687
That happens towards the end of the night.

437
00:12:46,687 --> 00:12:48,007
You know, you gotta take out your contact.

438
00:12:48,007 --> 00:12:48,487
Yeah.

439
00:12:48,987 --> 00:12:49,377
Yeah.

440
00:12:50,127 --> 00:12:50,967
Hello.

441
00:12:51,467 --> 00:12:52,432
Do you not hear us in here?

442
00:12:52,932 --> 00:12:56,502
So, yeah, it's, um, it's definitely,
you gotta take all that good stuff.

443
00:12:56,802 --> 00:12:59,412
I've even seen people take blankets.

444
00:13:00,037 --> 00:13:00,552
Yeah, yeah.

445
00:13:00,702 --> 00:13:01,932
The waterproof blankets.

446
00:13:02,622 --> 00:13:02,682
Yeah.

447
00:13:02,682 --> 00:13:04,392
Um, you can take toys.

448
00:13:05,202 --> 00:13:06,162
What else?

449
00:13:06,312 --> 00:13:06,642
Yeah.

450
00:13:06,642 --> 00:13:07,512
You've taken some,

451
00:13:07,572 --> 00:13:08,022
yeah.

452
00:13:08,622 --> 00:13:08,832
Yeah.

453
00:13:08,832 --> 00:13:09,702
And you know.

454
00:13:10,202 --> 00:13:15,812
We actually, and I don't know if every
state does this, but I know Texas does

455
00:13:15,812 --> 00:13:20,612
this, there's a, a website that you
can go to that you sign up mm-hmm.

456
00:13:20,852 --> 00:13:23,612
And you put your information
in and they basically give you

457
00:13:23,612 --> 00:13:26,062
like a bag load of condoms,

458
00:13:26,092 --> 00:13:28,072
like a hundred condoms every
three months or something.

459
00:13:28,372 --> 00:13:30,682
Well, I, I didn't count 'em,
but it was a lot, a lot.

460
00:13:31,492 --> 00:13:33,712
It's a large bag of condoms

461
00:13:33,952 --> 00:13:34,102
Yeah.

462
00:13:34,132 --> 00:13:34,942
That they sent us.

463
00:13:34,942 --> 00:13:37,552
And you can, and you can
sign up for it every free.

464
00:13:38,302 --> 00:13:38,722
Three months

465
00:13:38,722 --> 00:13:39,262
and specify.

466
00:13:39,262 --> 00:13:42,052
Do you like the, the certain brands right?

467
00:13:42,052 --> 00:13:42,322
Or certain,

468
00:13:42,322 --> 00:13:42,652
yeah.

469
00:13:42,652 --> 00:13:42,922
Yeah.

470
00:13:42,922 --> 00:13:46,282
So like the ones we
give are, are non latex.

471
00:13:46,282 --> 00:13:46,672
So they're,

472
00:13:46,837 --> 00:13:47,127
yeah.

473
00:13:47,132 --> 00:13:47,572
Yeah.

474
00:13:47,632 --> 00:13:50,722
But they have latex, non latex have like.

475
00:13:51,222 --> 00:13:53,922
Like, even like, I think
they have some like

476
00:13:54,132 --> 00:13:54,372
flavor

477
00:13:54,402 --> 00:13:55,852
ribbed and stuff like that.

478
00:13:55,852 --> 00:13:55,977
Ooh.

479
00:13:56,007 --> 00:13:57,132
Like variety, kind.

480
00:13:57,132 --> 00:13:57,282
Pleasure

481
00:13:57,702 --> 00:13:58,497
rib for her.

482
00:13:58,502 --> 00:13:58,962
Pleasure.

483
00:13:59,052 --> 00:13:59,232
Yeah.

484
00:13:59,232 --> 00:14:01,872
I think you just gotta check the
box, but they send them to you.

485
00:14:02,112 --> 00:14:02,592
That's cool.

486
00:14:02,622 --> 00:14:05,352
And, uh, yeah, every three months.

487
00:14:05,352 --> 00:14:05,442
Nice.

488
00:14:05,532 --> 00:14:07,512
You get 'em for free, which
I think is pretty cool.

489
00:14:07,692 --> 00:14:07,812
Yeah.

490
00:14:07,812 --> 00:14:12,192
Like, I don't know if any other
states do that, but if there are

491
00:14:12,192 --> 00:14:15,492
and you know of it, do me a favor
and hit comment or something.

492
00:14:15,732 --> 00:14:15,852
Yeah.

493
00:14:16,092 --> 00:14:18,697
Uh, let us know because
I'd like to know that.

494
00:14:19,197 --> 00:14:21,257
Just in case I go, you know?

495
00:14:21,497 --> 00:14:21,977
Yeah.

496
00:14:22,097 --> 00:14:22,727
You never know.

497
00:14:22,817 --> 00:14:23,147
Yeah.

498
00:14:23,537 --> 00:14:27,467
Um, when you go to the back, they,
so again, the bar has a setup.

499
00:14:28,037 --> 00:14:31,577
You can get set up, you can pay for
a bracelet and, and get your setups.

500
00:14:32,087 --> 00:14:33,112
Um, when you go to the back.

501
00:14:33,612 --> 00:14:34,662
There's lockers.

502
00:14:35,352 --> 00:14:35,832
Yeah.

503
00:14:35,862 --> 00:14:36,252
Yeah.

504
00:14:36,252 --> 00:14:39,102
Some, some spaces do have lockers.

505
00:14:39,107 --> 00:14:39,147
Mm-hmm.

506
00:14:39,432 --> 00:14:42,462
And, and 'cause somebody had asked
me that one time and it's like, well,

507
00:14:42,462 --> 00:14:44,202
where, where do we put our stuff?

508
00:14:44,382 --> 00:14:44,652
Yeah.

509
00:14:44,832 --> 00:14:48,132
And it's like, well, you really want
to have your own dedicated space.

510
00:14:48,372 --> 00:14:52,482
If you ask me, try and
have like a a, a table

511
00:14:53,082 --> 00:14:53,262
if

512
00:14:53,667 --> 00:14:54,787
you can, a couch

513
00:14:55,177 --> 00:14:55,547
they have

514
00:14:55,687 --> 00:14:56,892
if you can get it.

515
00:14:56,892 --> 00:14:56,952
Yeah.

516
00:14:57,522 --> 00:14:59,052
But if you can't get it.

517
00:14:59,787 --> 00:15:03,987
Then you can get, sorry, I was
getting a little, I was getting bish.

518
00:15:04,487 --> 00:15:08,187
But if you can get it you know, get it.

519
00:15:08,247 --> 00:15:08,307
Yeah.

520
00:15:08,427 --> 00:15:10,317
But if you can't, then there's lockers.

521
00:15:10,317 --> 00:15:11,367
So there's lockers

522
00:15:11,367 --> 00:15:12,087
or cubbies,

523
00:15:12,147 --> 00:15:13,107
and there's cubbies.

524
00:15:13,107 --> 00:15:14,967
When you're going to the back,
there's cubbies and you can't

525
00:15:14,967 --> 00:15:16,197
take your drinks back there.

526
00:15:16,227 --> 00:15:19,287
You cannot take any pictures
when you're in the back rooms,

527
00:15:19,617 --> 00:15:22,167
while you're on the dance floor,
while you're in the main area.

528
00:15:22,167 --> 00:15:26,007
You can, you can also be
totally nude in the main area.

529
00:15:26,817 --> 00:15:28,167
Um, so be careful with that.

530
00:15:28,167 --> 00:15:33,057
Be, be mindful that if you're going to be
all full commando, it's great, but your

531
00:15:33,057 --> 00:15:35,307
neighbor may be taking pictures, although

532
00:15:35,487 --> 00:15:38,037
now that's this club specifically.

533
00:15:38,037 --> 00:15:39,117
Yeah, not all clubs are like

534
00:15:39,117 --> 00:15:39,207
that,

535
00:15:39,207 --> 00:15:43,017
although they should be
mindful about who's around 'em.

536
00:15:43,707 --> 00:15:45,687
People just take pictures.

537
00:15:46,187 --> 00:15:49,037
Well see, not, not all
clubs let you have your

538
00:15:49,037 --> 00:15:49,517
phones up.

539
00:15:49,517 --> 00:15:49,607
Yes.

540
00:15:49,607 --> 00:15:50,387
Not all clubs.

541
00:15:50,717 --> 00:15:53,717
So that's the thing is the,
the, the club that we're

542
00:15:53,717 --> 00:15:56,477
discussing specifically, you can,

543
00:15:56,657 --> 00:15:56,867
yeah.

544
00:15:56,927 --> 00:15:58,997
But I know that there are several clubs.

545
00:15:58,997 --> 00:15:59,182
Clubs, you can't even have

546
00:15:59,182 --> 00:16:01,217
them out, that you cannot
have your phone out at all.

547
00:16:01,337 --> 00:16:01,677
Yeah, yeah.

548
00:16:01,787 --> 00:16:04,487
Uh, so there's normally like an area.

549
00:16:04,762 --> 00:16:06,832
Out in the lobby or something like that.

550
00:16:06,837 --> 00:16:06,867
Mm-hmm.

551
00:16:06,947 --> 00:16:08,122
Where you can take pictures.

552
00:16:08,332 --> 00:16:08,482
Yeah.

553
00:16:08,542 --> 00:16:10,072
In front of like a backdrop.

554
00:16:10,642 --> 00:16:13,027
Uh, but then the rest of
the night, yeah, that's

555
00:16:13,027 --> 00:16:13,107
it.

556
00:16:13,137 --> 00:16:13,427
Yeah.

557
00:16:13,622 --> 00:16:14,462
And then the back.

558
00:16:14,462 --> 00:16:15,902
You cannot take your phones.

559
00:16:15,902 --> 00:16:17,432
You can't take anything to drink.

560
00:16:18,152 --> 00:16:22,562
Then I guess there's also what, there's
some private rooms that you can rent.

561
00:16:22,592 --> 00:16:24,302
They're called content rooms.

562
00:16:24,802 --> 00:16:25,972
You can rent those.

563
00:16:26,182 --> 00:16:28,102
We'll have them for my birthday.

564
00:16:28,602 --> 00:16:29,982
Um, let's see.

565
00:16:30,482 --> 00:16:34,112
They change all the sheets, so once
you're done playing, they will come.

566
00:16:34,212 --> 00:16:37,802
The, the people that are there
working we'll come change the

567
00:16:37,802 --> 00:16:41,797
sheets, get new towels, clean up
that area like nobody was even there.

568
00:16:42,577 --> 00:16:44,072
So make sure you tip them.

569
00:16:44,072 --> 00:16:44,732
Bring some cash.

570
00:16:45,572 --> 00:16:46,112
Yes.

571
00:16:46,112 --> 00:16:47,852
Tip your homies that are helping you.

572
00:16:48,632 --> 00:16:51,782
Yes, because they definitely, uh, earn it.

573
00:16:51,872 --> 00:16:52,142
Yeah,

574
00:16:52,142 --> 00:16:52,742
that's for sure.

575
00:16:53,522 --> 00:16:54,722
Those guys, they work hard there.

576
00:16:54,722 --> 00:16:55,292
They do.

577
00:16:55,292 --> 00:16:55,382
Oh yeah.

578
00:16:55,382 --> 00:16:56,762
And it's very comforting.

579
00:16:56,762 --> 00:16:57,782
'cause they are watching.

580
00:16:58,742 --> 00:16:59,732
What else?

581
00:17:00,232 --> 00:17:01,102
Different areas.

582
00:17:01,102 --> 00:17:04,522
There's cubbies that you
can close curtains on.

583
00:17:04,522 --> 00:17:05,662
There's beds in the middle.

584
00:17:06,162 --> 00:17:09,432
There's another big bed that has
like a big area where it has a couch.

585
00:17:09,852 --> 00:17:12,582
There's a lot of different
scenarios that you can play out.

586
00:17:13,312 --> 00:17:15,472
There's also an area for BDSM.

587
00:17:15,922 --> 00:17:16,222
Yeah.

588
00:17:16,222 --> 00:17:19,402
This club specifically has an area mm-hmm.

589
00:17:19,403 --> 00:17:20,572
Uh, for BDSM

590
00:17:20,632 --> 00:17:22,842
in the same, in the same club.

591
00:17:23,532 --> 00:17:23,802
Yeah.

592
00:17:24,072 --> 00:17:24,312
Yeah.

593
00:17:24,672 --> 00:17:27,372
The other one that we went to, you
had to walk out and then come back in.

594
00:17:28,062 --> 00:17:28,512
Yeah.

595
00:17:28,692 --> 00:17:29,112
Yeah.

596
00:17:29,142 --> 00:17:33,972
Um, this club specifically has a
nice little BDSM area back there.

597
00:17:33,977 --> 00:17:33,987
Mm-hmm.

598
00:17:34,057 --> 00:17:38,497
And I think, uh, they have somebody
that comes through on Saturdays

599
00:17:38,622 --> 00:17:40,212
and does like scenes and stuff.

600
00:17:40,212 --> 00:17:40,572
Yeah.

601
00:17:40,632 --> 00:17:41,772
Which is pretty cool, man.

602
00:17:41,772 --> 00:17:42,342
That's neat.

603
00:17:42,642 --> 00:17:43,932
Yeah, there's a lot of different things.

604
00:17:43,932 --> 00:17:48,492
There's a lot of different
things that you can do there.

605
00:17:49,152 --> 00:17:52,002
There's really not any, a lot
of rules for the front part.

606
00:17:52,502 --> 00:17:53,822
People are out there having fun.

607
00:17:53,822 --> 00:17:55,467
They're dancing, they're vibing.

608
00:17:55,472 --> 00:17:57,062
DJ's usually good.

609
00:17:57,842 --> 00:17:58,892
Pretty much like a club.

610
00:17:58,892 --> 00:18:01,142
There's also a stripper pole.

611
00:18:01,892 --> 00:18:03,662
You feel like being a stripper?

612
00:18:04,292 --> 00:18:04,622
Yeah.

613
00:18:04,772 --> 00:18:06,452
Um, you cannot give them money.

614
00:18:06,872 --> 00:18:07,172
No.

615
00:18:07,562 --> 00:18:10,312
Cannot give anybody money while
they're dancing because that is

616
00:18:10,347 --> 00:18:10,547
a big

617
00:18:11,522 --> 00:18:12,182
no-no.

618
00:18:12,182 --> 00:18:12,222
That is a no-no.

619
00:18:12,842 --> 00:18:14,892
But yeah, it's gonna
be a really good, fun.

620
00:18:14,982 --> 00:18:17,952
It's a fun atmosphere no matter what.

621
00:18:18,042 --> 00:18:18,192
No.

622
00:18:18,192 --> 00:18:20,592
You gave us the, the verbal tour.

623
00:18:20,742 --> 00:18:21,252
Yeah.

624
00:18:21,252 --> 00:18:26,637
What, what aught, newbies
need to know before going in.

625
00:18:26,917 --> 00:18:26,997
Hmm.

626
00:18:27,802 --> 00:18:31,222
What kind of experiences can they expect?

627
00:18:31,732 --> 00:18:34,222
Um, something, what
should they look out for?

628
00:18:34,612 --> 00:18:34,702
Yes.

629
00:18:34,702 --> 00:18:38,212
So it's gonna seem really clickish
when you walk in there because a

630
00:18:38,212 --> 00:18:41,542
lot of people already know, a lot
of people meet their friends there.

631
00:18:41,642 --> 00:18:45,482
But, and it does, it does seem clickish.

632
00:18:45,982 --> 00:18:49,912
But once you, you can ask a
manager, say, Hey, I'm new.

633
00:18:49,912 --> 00:18:52,162
You can even ask the host
this couple, Hey, I'm new.

634
00:18:52,162 --> 00:18:53,572
Can you introduce me to somebody?

635
00:18:54,142 --> 00:18:56,602
They'll introduce you to a couple or two.

636
00:18:56,932 --> 00:19:00,622
But don't be intimidated like
you're there for a good time.

637
00:19:01,102 --> 00:19:05,662
I think that if one of y'all has the
courage, say hi to your neighbor.

638
00:19:06,292 --> 00:19:06,622
Yeah.

639
00:19:06,622 --> 00:19:06,952
You know, that

640
00:19:06,952 --> 00:19:07,852
does not mean you're gonna

641
00:19:07,852 --> 00:19:08,947
have, that sounds like a lot.

642
00:19:09,637 --> 00:19:13,837
To say hi to somebody, but I, it,
it is actually a really good idea.

643
00:19:13,897 --> 00:19:13,957
Yeah.

644
00:19:13,957 --> 00:19:14,317
Smile.

645
00:19:14,672 --> 00:19:14,792
I,

646
00:19:14,797 --> 00:19:17,887
I think when you first get
into the club, when you're.

647
00:19:18,292 --> 00:19:21,742
There and you're registering
with whoever working the door.

648
00:19:21,862 --> 00:19:22,252
Right.

649
00:19:22,252 --> 00:19:26,272
If you just let them know that
you're new there, they'll normally

650
00:19:26,272 --> 00:19:28,372
hook you up with like a host couple.

651
00:19:28,372 --> 00:19:28,462
Mm-hmm.

652
00:19:28,822 --> 00:19:34,282
Or a manager or somebody who can
give you a tour of the place and

653
00:19:34,282 --> 00:19:40,072
introduce you to maybe a person
or two who is experienced there.

654
00:19:40,252 --> 00:19:40,402
Yeah.

655
00:19:40,402 --> 00:19:41,092
That they know.

656
00:19:41,212 --> 00:19:41,632
Yeah.

657
00:19:41,722 --> 00:19:43,462
Um, and can kind of.

658
00:19:44,137 --> 00:19:47,857
Introduce you to some people, if,
if that's something that you want.

659
00:19:48,067 --> 00:19:48,427
Yeah.

660
00:19:48,707 --> 00:19:52,007
Some people come in and they
just wanna sit and look around

661
00:19:52,037 --> 00:19:53,807
and just, and just look around
and what we've seen people come

662
00:19:53,807 --> 00:19:55,847
in, look around, and then leave.

663
00:19:55,847 --> 00:19:55,907
Yeah.

664
00:19:56,357 --> 00:20:03,217
Now I do wanna stress, do
not go in with intentions.

665
00:20:03,717 --> 00:20:04,647
Not intentions.

666
00:20:04,647 --> 00:20:05,457
What's that word?

667
00:20:05,457 --> 00:20:05,787
Like

668
00:20:06,087 --> 00:20:06,747
expectations.

669
00:20:06,747 --> 00:20:07,617
Expectations.

670
00:20:07,617 --> 00:20:09,057
Don't go in with expectations.

671
00:20:09,807 --> 00:20:12,567
If you're going with your partner,
have fun with your partner.

672
00:20:13,227 --> 00:20:18,467
If something else happens and, and you
know it, you, you get to have fun with

673
00:20:18,467 --> 00:20:22,507
other people, that's great, but don't go
in there and then come back and be like,

674
00:20:23,047 --> 00:20:30,067
oh, my weekend at the club was fun because
yeah, I just didn't have, whoa, homie.

675
00:20:30,067 --> 00:20:30,532
It works both ways.

676
00:20:31,032 --> 00:20:31,322
Okay.

677
00:20:31,357 --> 00:20:31,957
Period.

678
00:20:32,527 --> 00:20:33,217
Works both ways.

679
00:20:33,217 --> 00:20:36,847
Like if you wanna have fun with somebody,
you have to go up to that person.

680
00:20:36,847 --> 00:20:38,047
You have to initiate

681
00:20:38,047 --> 00:20:38,197
things.

682
00:20:38,312 --> 00:20:38,602
Yeah.

683
00:20:38,737 --> 00:20:38,857
Yeah.

684
00:20:38,857 --> 00:20:42,547
They're not reading your
minds like, you know, um, um,

685
00:20:42,547 --> 00:20:43,207
that is true.

686
00:20:43,297 --> 00:20:43,567
Yeah.

687
00:20:43,567 --> 00:20:43,987
I mean,

688
00:20:44,137 --> 00:20:46,927
I feel like a lot of people
go in with expectations.

689
00:20:46,927 --> 00:20:47,137
Like,

690
00:20:47,647 --> 00:20:51,277
like people are just gonna come up
to you and, and gravitate towards

691
00:20:51,277 --> 00:20:52,837
you and be like, Hey, let's.

692
00:20:53,347 --> 00:20:54,847
Let's, let's hang out.

693
00:20:54,847 --> 00:20:55,777
No, let's go to the back.

694
00:20:55,777 --> 00:20:57,247
And that, that really doesn't happen.

695
00:20:57,627 --> 00:20:58,197
Even

696
00:20:58,317 --> 00:20:59,547
a lot of people have to be comfortable.

697
00:20:59,607 --> 00:21:00,177
Yes.

698
00:21:00,267 --> 00:21:05,057
Even if you've been chatting with
this person, chatting online and

699
00:21:05,057 --> 00:21:08,387
in person are two different things.

700
00:21:09,137 --> 00:21:13,577
So if you've never chatted with this
person, like personally and you know,

701
00:21:13,607 --> 00:21:16,697
you, you, you're just gonna assume,
oh, I've been flirting with them on

702
00:21:16,697 --> 00:21:18,707
Messenger, now we're gonna go get it on.

703
00:21:18,887 --> 00:21:20,387
No, it's not.

704
00:21:20,387 --> 00:21:21,347
It doesn't work like that.

705
00:21:21,992 --> 00:21:22,832
Believe it or not,

706
00:21:23,222 --> 00:21:24,752
that was awfully specific.

707
00:21:25,252 --> 00:21:27,772
It's not specific, it's just being honest.

708
00:21:27,772 --> 00:21:30,832
Because I've talked to people and
they're like, yeah, I just been

709
00:21:30,832 --> 00:21:34,162
chatting with him for a long time, and
I thought For sure, and it's like, no,

710
00:21:34,662 --> 00:21:34,992
yeah,

711
00:21:35,022 --> 00:21:38,822
no, you know, you and I
could just not be in that.

712
00:21:39,322 --> 00:21:39,682
Yeah.

713
00:21:39,682 --> 00:21:43,612
You know, that's, that's the big thing is
don't, don't expect anything from anybody.

714
00:21:43,882 --> 00:21:45,712
Consent is everything.

715
00:21:45,832 --> 00:21:46,162
Yes.

716
00:21:46,162 --> 00:21:49,372
So it doesn't matter what you're
talking about, if you're talking

717
00:21:49,372 --> 00:21:54,357
about, you know, any kind of touch,
consent is really, uh, important.

718
00:21:54,377 --> 00:21:54,797
Mm-hmm.

719
00:21:55,412 --> 00:21:57,512
Don't assume, you know, don't

720
00:21:58,112 --> 00:21:58,232
assume.

721
00:21:58,232 --> 00:21:58,982
Be respectful.

722
00:21:59,012 --> 00:22:00,122
Be respectful.

723
00:22:00,332 --> 00:22:02,402
Treat everybody respectfully.

724
00:22:02,972 --> 00:22:06,362
I'm curious 'cause you know, you've
mentioned this before, where you've

725
00:22:06,362 --> 00:22:11,322
been there and you like to have
your, your top down or whatever in

726
00:22:11,322 --> 00:22:14,682
front of everybody, and you're kind
of dancing and vib into the music.

727
00:22:15,222 --> 00:22:15,312
Mm-hmm.

728
00:22:15,552 --> 00:22:19,722
There's been times where you've said
people have made you feel uncomfortable.

729
00:22:19,902 --> 00:22:20,202
Oh, when you do so.

730
00:22:20,202 --> 00:22:20,292
Yes.

731
00:22:20,792 --> 00:22:21,632
What, what is that?

732
00:22:21,722 --> 00:22:28,232
So it's the, the, the stare with
the jaw out and just never blinking.

733
00:22:28,562 --> 00:22:28,982
Yeah.

734
00:22:29,372 --> 00:22:30,302
Like they're just like.

735
00:22:30,802 --> 00:22:31,552
It's like, what?

736
00:22:31,642 --> 00:22:32,182
Why?

737
00:22:32,482 --> 00:22:32,542
Yeah.

738
00:22:33,202 --> 00:22:36,172
And like it, it's just, it
makes you feel uncomfortable.

739
00:22:36,172 --> 00:22:38,902
Like it's not, they're boobs.

740
00:22:39,402 --> 00:22:40,302
Everybody has them.

741
00:22:40,782 --> 00:22:44,052
It's funny because we're always
sitting at a, at a couch and

742
00:22:44,052 --> 00:22:46,092
people tend to walk in front of us.

743
00:22:46,092 --> 00:22:46,182
Mm-hmm.

744
00:22:46,422 --> 00:22:46,512
And.

745
00:22:47,322 --> 00:22:53,172
Always, there's some guy who just is
like following his, his wife or partner

746
00:22:53,532 --> 00:22:55,752
and just staring at you the whole way.

747
00:22:56,592 --> 00:22:58,392
And it's like, bro, you're gonna fall.

748
00:22:58,892 --> 00:23:00,092
That's just not safe.

749
00:23:00,592 --> 00:23:02,682
So they know how to take mental pictures,

750
00:23:02,682 --> 00:23:03,072
right?

751
00:23:03,522 --> 00:23:07,512
You know, I'm, I'm gonna, and this
was something that I had to clear up

752
00:23:07,512 --> 00:23:11,532
with my wife, who doesn't really know
how to not stare with other women,

753
00:23:12,222 --> 00:23:13,932
uh, when she finds somebody who's hot.

754
00:23:14,877 --> 00:23:16,647
It just don't be a creep about it.

755
00:23:17,067 --> 00:23:17,697
You know what I mean?

756
00:23:17,697 --> 00:23:17,757
Yeah.

757
00:23:17,997 --> 00:23:23,097
There's ways, like, we're all
adults here and boobs are great.

758
00:23:23,157 --> 00:23:25,377
We all love them, but you know,

759
00:23:25,917 --> 00:23:27,267
don't make us feel uncomfortable.

760
00:23:27,267 --> 00:23:29,307
Don't make, don't make
'em feel uncomfortable.

761
00:23:29,307 --> 00:23:30,507
Don't make us feel uncomfortable.

762
00:23:30,507 --> 00:23:30,837
It's, it's, that's

763
00:23:30,837 --> 00:23:31,077
right.

764
00:23:31,467 --> 00:23:31,917
One thing.

765
00:23:31,917 --> 00:23:32,127
It is.

766
00:23:32,127 --> 00:23:33,327
And the birdies fly away.

767
00:23:33,357 --> 00:23:33,597
Yeah.

768
00:23:33,627 --> 00:23:38,937
It's one thing to like,
glance, admire, but.

769
00:23:39,437 --> 00:23:44,237
When you flip your chair and you're
literally facing me and you're like two

770
00:23:44,237 --> 00:23:47,717
tables away, but I know that the chair
was flipped just to look at my boobs.

771
00:23:48,047 --> 00:23:49,037
Come on guys.

772
00:23:49,832 --> 00:23:50,492
That's silly.

773
00:23:50,992 --> 00:23:51,232
That's silly.

774
00:23:51,472 --> 00:23:52,207
Yeah, yeah,

775
00:23:52,212 --> 00:23:52,582
yeah.

776
00:23:52,582 --> 00:23:56,392
Don't, I mean, and on a,
like he said, consent, right?

777
00:23:56,892 --> 00:23:59,742
Don't you see a butt
sticking out in the air?

778
00:23:59,772 --> 00:24:01,572
Does not mean for you to slap it.

779
00:24:02,472 --> 00:24:02,832
Yeah,

780
00:24:03,042 --> 00:24:03,642
don't do that.

781
00:24:03,732 --> 00:24:04,602
That's a no-no.

782
00:24:05,102 --> 00:24:08,552
You know, you want to dance with
somebody, you still gotta ask for consent,

783
00:24:08,777 --> 00:24:09,437
ask to dance.

784
00:24:09,857 --> 00:24:12,212
Um, uh, you, you want to
touch them in any kind of way.

785
00:24:12,212 --> 00:24:13,322
You gotta ask.

786
00:24:13,322 --> 00:24:14,942
Like, I can't say it more than enough.

787
00:24:14,942 --> 00:24:18,602
Like all of that is, is
it's gotta be consensual.

788
00:24:18,962 --> 00:24:19,352
Yes.

789
00:24:19,352 --> 00:24:25,227
And we say this because we have
seen people get sexually assaulted.

790
00:24:25,502 --> 00:24:25,862
Yes.

791
00:24:25,862 --> 00:24:26,852
And this goes for both.

792
00:24:26,852 --> 00:24:27,272
Both, yeah.

793
00:24:27,362 --> 00:24:30,452
So women to men, men to women, like both.

794
00:24:30,952 --> 00:24:33,502
Genders are as bad.

795
00:24:33,502 --> 00:24:34,732
Like consent.

796
00:24:34,737 --> 00:24:35,942
Consent, people consent.

797
00:24:36,377 --> 00:24:37,487
Just, just watch.

798
00:24:38,057 --> 00:24:39,287
Watch your navy beans.

799
00:24:39,287 --> 00:24:39,767
That's all.

800
00:24:39,827 --> 00:24:40,247
That's it, you know?

801
00:24:40,747 --> 00:24:41,037
Yeah.

802
00:24:41,122 --> 00:24:42,142
You just gotta ask.

803
00:24:42,142 --> 00:24:43,642
Just it's no big deal.

804
00:24:44,062 --> 00:24:45,262
It's most likely, I guess.

805
00:24:45,267 --> 00:24:45,277
Yeah.

806
00:24:45,857 --> 00:24:46,267
What else?

807
00:24:47,207 --> 00:24:48,347
It's a good vibe.

808
00:24:48,347 --> 00:24:49,487
It really is a good vibe.

809
00:24:49,487 --> 00:24:51,577
There's a lot of friendly faces.

810
00:24:51,577 --> 00:24:53,077
Don't be intimidated.

811
00:24:53,227 --> 00:24:54,337
Don't be afraid.

812
00:24:54,337 --> 00:24:58,237
And, and I, I say this because
I found this out the hard way.

813
00:24:58,237 --> 00:25:02,377
Don't be afraid to mingle with people.

814
00:25:02,677 --> 00:25:02,887
Mm-hmm.

815
00:25:03,127 --> 00:25:04,717
Um, and I, and I mean that because it

816
00:25:04,717 --> 00:25:05,707
says the man that just sits.

817
00:25:06,067 --> 00:25:06,427
No.

818
00:25:06,427 --> 00:25:09,547
You know, but I have learned,
because this one, she takes me from.

819
00:25:09,997 --> 00:25:15,577
Space to space and introduces us to
everyone like we're mayor of the town.

820
00:25:16,167 --> 00:25:21,197
But really you would expect, like
people sit there and they look like

821
00:25:21,227 --> 00:25:22,907
they don't want to be fucked with.

822
00:25:23,027 --> 00:25:23,387
Yes.

823
00:25:23,447 --> 00:25:26,567
And that's automatically what you think
is like, they're just sitting there and

824
00:25:26,567 --> 00:25:28,067
they don't, they have a face on there.

825
00:25:28,067 --> 00:25:30,737
Like they don't wanna be
fucked with possibly because

826
00:25:30,737 --> 00:25:31,937
they're new or whatever, but

827
00:25:32,657 --> 00:25:34,607
we've had two people sit next to us.

828
00:25:34,937 --> 00:25:35,357
Yeah.

829
00:25:36,227 --> 00:25:38,297
And have been so rude.

830
00:25:38,597 --> 00:25:39,377
Oh yeah.

831
00:25:39,377 --> 00:25:40,187
I was like, huh?

832
00:25:40,547 --> 00:25:41,267
Because I'm, I'm just

833
00:25:41,267 --> 00:25:42,077
not very friendly.

834
00:25:42,077 --> 00:25:42,167
If

835
00:25:42,167 --> 00:25:43,802
you sit next to us, I'm like, hi.

836
00:25:44,177 --> 00:25:44,567
Hi.

837
00:25:44,567 --> 00:25:47,267
I'm, you know, we're pissing out
'em, and that's it, that's all I say.

838
00:25:47,327 --> 00:25:49,897
Just because, you know,
they're our neighbors.

839
00:25:50,137 --> 00:25:50,557
Yeah.

840
00:25:50,677 --> 00:25:52,807
And, uh, little Ice Cold.

841
00:25:53,017 --> 00:25:53,137
Yeah.

842
00:25:53,677 --> 00:25:56,347
Little ice cold as is their choice.

843
00:25:56,347 --> 00:25:58,057
That's the, that's, that's their thing.

844
00:25:58,057 --> 00:26:00,097
Some people don't like to
talk to others, you know?

845
00:26:00,787 --> 00:26:03,547
But at least we, you
know, we did our part.

846
00:26:04,047 --> 00:26:04,827
They can't say that.

847
00:26:04,887 --> 00:26:07,917
Like they left there and they
were like, nobody talked to us.

848
00:26:07,977 --> 00:26:08,067
Yeah.

849
00:26:08,247 --> 00:26:09,777
Well we, we kind of did.

850
00:26:09,777 --> 00:26:10,287
That's true.

851
00:26:10,587 --> 00:26:11,757
We left the door open.

852
00:26:12,327 --> 00:26:12,417
Yeah.

853
00:26:12,417 --> 00:26:13,887
You know, up until we left,

854
00:26:14,337 --> 00:26:14,787
that was it.

855
00:26:15,207 --> 00:26:15,867
So, yeah.

856
00:26:15,997 --> 00:26:20,407
That, that is the, the thing that you
can expect is that people are a lot

857
00:26:20,407 --> 00:26:21,937
more friendlier than you may think.

858
00:26:22,567 --> 00:26:24,757
Uh, so there's gonna be a
lot of anxiety about that.

859
00:26:24,762 --> 00:26:24,922
Mm-hmm.

860
00:26:25,142 --> 00:26:27,602
Uh, also, if you've never, uh.

861
00:26:28,102 --> 00:26:30,022
Sex in front of people before.

862
00:26:30,502 --> 00:26:35,242
This is an opportunity for you
if you really, really want that.

863
00:26:35,302 --> 00:26:37,822
Like, if you want to
try and experience that.

864
00:26:38,252 --> 00:26:43,352
There are at every club
usually, uh, the ability to.

865
00:26:43,852 --> 00:26:45,772
Have sex behind closed doors.

866
00:26:45,952 --> 00:26:46,042
Mm-hmm.

867
00:26:46,472 --> 00:26:49,802
But there's also ways to
kind of let people watch.

868
00:26:50,162 --> 00:26:51,992
There's curtains, there's shearer.

869
00:26:51,992 --> 00:26:52,262
Yeah.

870
00:26:52,262 --> 00:26:54,002
You can close 'em, you can leave 'em open.

871
00:26:54,002 --> 00:26:54,392
Yeah.

872
00:26:54,602 --> 00:26:54,932
Yeah.

873
00:26:54,932 --> 00:26:59,192
And, and so that's, that's a big thing
that if you, if you think that that's.

874
00:26:59,702 --> 00:27:04,622
A kink of yours if maybe you've, I don't
know, already had experience of parallel

875
00:27:04,622 --> 00:27:06,362
play with somebody else or whatever.

876
00:27:06,362 --> 00:27:09,362
Maybe that's, yeah, maybe that's
something that, that interests you.

877
00:27:09,362 --> 00:27:11,612
Maybe it's something that'll get you off.

878
00:27:11,612 --> 00:27:15,782
Because lemme tell you something,
I did not realize just how much

879
00:27:15,782 --> 00:27:19,457
of an exhibitionist I was until we
really started going to the clubs.

880
00:27:19,457 --> 00:27:19,857
Mm-hmm.

881
00:27:20,357 --> 00:27:22,412
And then I was like, oh snap.

882
00:27:22,562 --> 00:27:23,192
This is it.

883
00:27:23,692 --> 00:27:24,472
This is it.

884
00:27:24,532 --> 00:27:25,072
Oh, I love it.

885
00:27:25,132 --> 00:27:26,482
I want to do this forever.

886
00:27:27,202 --> 00:27:27,532
Yeah.

887
00:27:27,712 --> 00:27:28,462
No, it's fun.

888
00:27:28,792 --> 00:27:29,092
Yeah,

889
00:27:29,212 --> 00:27:32,742
it's um, it's nerve wracking, but it fun.

890
00:27:32,742 --> 00:27:32,782
It can be fun.

891
00:27:33,522 --> 00:27:35,532
It can be, and you can walk by and watch.

892
00:27:36,112 --> 00:27:39,022
There's a window there
you can see through it.

893
00:27:39,382 --> 00:27:40,582
It's very.

894
00:27:41,082 --> 00:27:41,952
Accepting.

895
00:27:41,952 --> 00:27:45,282
You just, you know, you
consent, don't touch anybody.

896
00:27:45,612 --> 00:27:46,092
Yes.

897
00:27:46,092 --> 00:27:46,332
No.

898
00:27:46,332 --> 00:27:46,482
I care.

899
00:27:46,482 --> 00:27:47,772
If it's your neighbor and you've been,

900
00:27:48,117 --> 00:27:49,107
don't touch anybody.

901
00:27:49,117 --> 00:27:51,762
Don't touch, because we've
actually had that happen before.

902
00:27:52,312 --> 00:27:56,742
And, and it's complete strangers, like,
it's like, what are, what are you doing?

903
00:27:56,742 --> 00:27:58,392
Just because we're here, that doesn't mean

904
00:27:58,452 --> 00:27:58,782
Yeah.

905
00:27:59,112 --> 00:27:59,592
You know?

906
00:27:59,697 --> 00:28:02,277
So you gotta ask hundred percent.

907
00:28:02,277 --> 00:28:05,577
Now, there's nothing wrong
with asking, and if you ask.

908
00:28:06,077 --> 00:28:10,217
Even if they say no, they're not
gonna be rude about it, most likely.

909
00:28:10,217 --> 00:28:11,717
And you just accept the no and go.

910
00:28:11,717 --> 00:28:11,927
Okay.

911
00:28:11,927 --> 00:28:12,677
Well that's cool.

912
00:28:12,677 --> 00:28:13,157
Thank you.

913
00:28:14,072 --> 00:28:14,542
Thank you.

914
00:28:14,542 --> 00:28:14,902
Thanks

915
00:28:14,972 --> 00:28:15,262
guys.

916
00:28:15,402 --> 00:28:16,637
Thanks for talking to me.

917
00:28:17,137 --> 00:28:19,417
Thanks for acknowledging my presence.

918
00:28:19,917 --> 00:28:20,847
That's the sound of You suck Dick.

919
00:28:20,847 --> 00:28:20,877
Oh,

920
00:28:21,377 --> 00:28:22,497
is that what I sound like?

921
00:28:22,977 --> 00:28:23,452
I dunno.

922
00:28:23,782 --> 00:28:24,772
I'm too busy.

923
00:28:24,772 --> 00:28:27,062
Uh, you know in Wonderland.

924
00:28:27,332 --> 00:28:27,422
Yeah.

925
00:28:27,922 --> 00:28:28,582
And you're doing your thing.

926
00:28:28,582 --> 00:28:28,852
Nice.

927
00:28:28,852 --> 00:28:29,902
Save there, sir.

928
00:28:30,442 --> 00:28:30,752
That's, Hey boy.

929
00:28:30,752 --> 00:28:31,522
Hey, you're incredible.

930
00:28:32,022 --> 00:28:35,712
Um, I mean, you know, so
there's, there's that part.

931
00:28:36,132 --> 00:28:36,402
Okay.

932
00:28:36,432 --> 00:28:41,502
There's a lot to, to go through
on etiquette wise, you know,

933
00:28:41,682 --> 00:28:44,082
but make sure you smell good.

934
00:28:44,582 --> 00:28:45,092
Good hygiene.

935
00:28:45,092 --> 00:28:46,172
Good hygiene.

936
00:28:46,172 --> 00:28:46,232
Yeah.

937
00:28:46,282 --> 00:28:51,112
Brush your teeth, wear
deodorant, use body spray.

938
00:28:51,712 --> 00:28:51,982
Oh.

939
00:28:51,982 --> 00:28:56,842
Also keep in mind that if you're
dancing all night and then

940
00:28:56,842 --> 00:28:58,522
you're gonna play afterwards.

941
00:28:58,552 --> 00:28:58,612
Yeah.

942
00:28:58,612 --> 00:28:58,732
Sweat,

943
00:28:58,852 --> 00:29:00,922
remember you're probably sweating.

944
00:29:01,012 --> 00:29:01,432
Yeah.

945
00:29:01,552 --> 00:29:03,862
Um, you know, et cetera, et cetera.

946
00:29:03,862 --> 00:29:05,452
That goes for guys and gals.

947
00:29:05,692 --> 00:29:05,752
Yeah.

948
00:29:05,752 --> 00:29:07,612
Take yourself some extra clothing.

949
00:29:07,612 --> 00:29:07,942
Yeah.

950
00:29:07,942 --> 00:29:11,487
Some maybe towel, maybe take yourself
a, your own package of wipes just

951
00:29:11,632 --> 00:29:13,102
in case there's none available.

952
00:29:13,252 --> 00:29:13,762
There you go.

953
00:29:14,752 --> 00:29:15,202
Or a little.

954
00:29:15,702 --> 00:29:15,822
A

955
00:29:16,802 --> 00:29:18,097
little pat, a little towelette.

956
00:29:18,397 --> 00:29:18,487
Yeah.

957
00:29:18,487 --> 00:29:20,317
Those KFC Towelettes maybe.

958
00:29:20,497 --> 00:29:20,767
Yeah.

959
00:29:21,457 --> 00:29:22,837
You know, Tony Romas

960
00:29:22,927 --> 00:29:23,557
something?

961
00:29:23,647 --> 00:29:23,977
Yeah.

962
00:29:24,517 --> 00:29:25,207
Or just a wipe.

963
00:29:25,707 --> 00:29:26,367
Or just a wipe.

964
00:29:26,867 --> 00:29:28,937
Something that smells like lemon pledge.

965
00:29:29,437 --> 00:29:30,907
Uh, just make sure that you're Yeah.

966
00:29:30,907 --> 00:29:33,757
That, that you catch that before
you get caught up in, in the

967
00:29:33,757 --> 00:29:35,107
heat of the moment to somebody.

968
00:29:35,107 --> 00:29:35,167
Yeah.

969
00:29:35,167 --> 00:29:35,812
Look your best.

970
00:29:36,312 --> 00:29:37,632
Don't come in there.

971
00:29:37,632 --> 00:29:42,132
Like I just, oh, I just decided
I was gonna not go fishing,

972
00:29:42,132 --> 00:29:43,272
but I want to go to the club.

973
00:29:43,332 --> 00:29:46,602
No, look nice, look nice.

974
00:29:46,602 --> 00:29:47,772
Give a little effort.

975
00:29:48,582 --> 00:29:49,572
That's pretty much it

976
00:29:50,072 --> 00:29:52,322
as far as what they can, uh, expect.

977
00:29:52,822 --> 00:29:53,182
Yeah.

978
00:29:53,422 --> 00:29:53,752
Yeah.

979
00:29:53,812 --> 00:29:58,182
You know, like I said, if crowds
are not your thing, could, you

980
00:29:58,182 --> 00:30:00,822
could have a little bit of anxiety.

981
00:30:01,497 --> 00:30:03,867
Make sure you have a safe space.

982
00:30:04,467 --> 00:30:05,487
A safe space.

983
00:30:05,727 --> 00:30:08,127
If we're ever there,
we're your safe space.

984
00:30:08,127 --> 00:30:08,607
That's right.

985
00:30:09,107 --> 00:30:12,137
I'm the situation of your bi situational.

986
00:30:12,637 --> 00:30:12,937
Are you?

987
00:30:13,297 --> 00:30:13,537
I don't know.

988
00:30:13,987 --> 00:30:14,167
No,

989
00:30:14,617 --> 00:30:15,487
I don't think so.

990
00:30:15,667 --> 00:30:16,537
I don't think so.

991
00:30:17,197 --> 00:30:18,637
I'm gonna stay away from that line.

992
00:30:18,847 --> 00:30:19,027
Yes.

993
00:30:19,357 --> 00:30:19,627
Yeah.

994
00:30:19,627 --> 00:30:23,407
So we, yeah, we are really excited
to, uh, yeah, to have this event.

995
00:30:23,437 --> 00:30:25,627
We're really, really glad
that people are coming.

996
00:30:25,897 --> 00:30:30,947
I do wanna remind everybody though,
that this is a social club of which

997
00:30:30,947 --> 00:30:32,717
you do have to buy membership.

998
00:30:32,717 --> 00:30:35,447
So this is not a free club.

999
00:30:35,477 --> 00:30:35,537
No.

1000
00:30:35,537 --> 00:30:39,437
So don't show up expecting
to just get in for free.

1001
00:30:39,737 --> 00:30:40,217
Nope.

1002
00:30:40,502 --> 00:30:42,962
But once you're in, you see us?

1003
00:30:42,962 --> 00:30:43,052
Mm-hmm.

1004
00:30:43,322 --> 00:30:44,462
And say, Hey, what up?

1005
00:30:44,462 --> 00:30:46,172
Uh, yo, yo yo.

1006
00:30:46,172 --> 00:30:47,432
And guess where we're at?

1007
00:30:47,762 --> 00:30:49,622
The VIP popping bottles.

1008
00:30:49,622 --> 00:30:49,772
That's

1009
00:30:49,772 --> 00:30:50,132
right.

1010
00:30:50,632 --> 00:30:51,592
Popping water bottles.

1011
00:30:52,162 --> 00:30:52,582
That's right.

1012
00:30:52,582 --> 00:30:53,272
Because we don't drink.

1013
00:30:53,772 --> 00:30:56,802
Um, you can get online and
start that membership now.

1014
00:30:57,462 --> 00:30:57,852
Yeah.

1015
00:30:58,472 --> 00:30:58,562
Get

1016
00:30:58,562 --> 00:30:59,612
everything started.

1017
00:30:59,612 --> 00:31:01,262
That sounded like one of those telethons.

1018
00:31:01,267 --> 00:31:04,112
You can, I know you can upload your
driver's license so they don't have

1019
00:31:04,112 --> 00:31:05,522
to ask for it when you're there.

1020
00:31:05,732 --> 00:31:07,382
Get it all done.

1021
00:31:07,682 --> 00:31:07,922
Yeah.

1022
00:31:07,922 --> 00:31:08,972
You know, if, if

1023
00:31:09,332 --> 00:31:09,662
saves

1024
00:31:09,662 --> 00:31:13,052
you time, if the club that you want
to go to, which this one specifically

1025
00:31:13,052 --> 00:31:18,342
does, you can get all set up online and,
and way ahead of time, which is great.

1026
00:31:18,342 --> 00:31:20,232
You can buy your tickets and do all that.

1027
00:31:20,787 --> 00:31:23,397
And it moves things along so much faster.

1028
00:31:23,487 --> 00:31:23,877
Mm-hmm.

1029
00:31:24,447 --> 00:31:27,297
And it does, it takes it easy on
the, on the people working the door.

1030
00:31:28,107 --> 00:31:28,497
Yeah.

1031
00:31:28,497 --> 00:31:28,507
Yeah.

1032
00:31:28,972 --> 00:31:29,452
I like that.

1033
00:31:29,937 --> 00:31:30,387
Yeah.

1034
00:31:30,387 --> 00:31:31,077
It's pretty cool.

1035
00:31:31,077 --> 00:31:31,587
Now there, hopefully

1036
00:31:31,587 --> 00:31:31,707
we

1037
00:31:31,712 --> 00:31:32,277
get all there.

1038
00:31:32,277 --> 00:31:34,347
It is, uh, BYOB by the way.

1039
00:31:34,347 --> 00:31:34,827
It is.

1040
00:31:34,827 --> 00:31:36,447
So you can bring your own goodies.

1041
00:31:36,927 --> 00:31:37,467
That's right.

1042
00:31:38,397 --> 00:31:39,837
And they have really good food.

1043
00:31:40,707 --> 00:31:41,967
Yeah, they do have good food.

1044
00:31:42,057 --> 00:31:42,717
Good food there.

1045
00:31:42,837 --> 00:31:43,617
Bring your appetite.

1046
00:31:43,767 --> 00:31:44,187
There you go.

1047
00:31:44,307 --> 00:31:46,617
But don't eat too much 'cause
you know the greasy food.

1048
00:31:46,617 --> 00:31:47,877
And then if you plan on playing.

1049
00:31:48,377 --> 00:31:49,457
It's not a good idea.

1050
00:31:49,457 --> 00:31:51,497
I'm just saying it's not
the greatest of idea.

1051
00:31:51,987 --> 00:31:56,067
You know, don't do like loaded
fries and then, you know,

1052
00:31:56,067 --> 00:31:56,877
expect, do whatever you want.

1053
00:31:56,877 --> 00:31:57,177
Play.

1054
00:31:57,807 --> 00:32:00,417
I'm just saying that's, it's bad.

1055
00:32:00,917 --> 00:32:01,517
So, yeah.

1056
00:32:01,577 --> 00:32:07,637
Uh, I, if you really have any questions,
you guys can always hit us up.

1057
00:32:07,637 --> 00:32:09,107
Just, uh, go to the website.

1058
00:32:09,482 --> 00:32:13,112
Www dot beyond monogamy com.

1059
00:32:13,712 --> 00:32:16,652
Um, there's space there that
you can leave us a voicemail.

1060
00:32:16,652 --> 00:32:19,952
You can send us an email, you
can send us a message, or you can

1061
00:32:19,952 --> 00:32:25,502
leave us a little 100% anonymous
beyond monogamy confessional.

1062
00:32:25,982 --> 00:32:26,372
Mm-hmm.

1063
00:32:26,872 --> 00:32:27,652
That's pretty awesome.

1064
00:32:28,152 --> 00:32:28,852
So yeah.

1065
00:32:29,027 --> 00:32:29,357
Um.

1066
00:32:30,137 --> 00:32:31,937
That's always a route that you could go.

1067
00:32:31,937 --> 00:32:37,252
And also don't forget that we are
streaming on Thursdays at 2:00 PM and 7:00

1068
00:32:37,252 --> 00:32:41,687
PM central time on full swap radio.com.

1069
00:32:42,197 --> 00:32:44,567
And uh, we have some pretty
cool stuff going on with

1070
00:32:44,567 --> 00:32:47,327
Full Swap Radio, uh, dot com.

1071
00:32:47,387 --> 00:32:48,392
Crazy csba.

1072
00:32:48,397 --> 00:32:48,587
Mm-hmm.

1073
00:32:48,797 --> 00:32:53,837
That they actually, uh,
they have their big winter.

1074
00:32:54,337 --> 00:32:54,557
Yes.

1075
00:32:54,662 --> 00:32:59,732
Uh, happening next year and they
actually gave us a, a code that

1076
00:32:59,732 --> 00:33:05,102
we can give to our listeners that
would give them a discount ongoing.

1077
00:33:05,102 --> 00:33:07,082
So that's where we're
gonna be at next year.

1078
00:33:07,352 --> 00:33:07,832
I love

1079
00:33:07,832 --> 00:33:07,982
that.

1080
00:33:08,492 --> 00:33:10,712
Sending out that information,
which is pretty cool.

1081
00:33:10,772 --> 00:33:11,192
Yeah.

1082
00:33:11,192 --> 00:33:14,892
We do have another event that
we're gonna be attending and we

1083
00:33:14,892 --> 00:33:17,232
have a code for that as well.

1084
00:33:17,412 --> 00:33:18,522
We have naughty nolins.

1085
00:33:18,987 --> 00:33:19,527
Oh yeah,

1086
00:33:19,557 --> 00:33:21,297
yeah, we have a little signup code.

1087
00:33:21,297 --> 00:33:23,727
So y'all, um, will share that as well.

1088
00:33:24,147 --> 00:33:26,847
Yeah, so, uh, be sure
and check our socials.

1089
00:33:27,537 --> 00:33:29,517
Uh, we update everything there.

1090
00:33:30,117 --> 00:33:31,947
And then of course, the
website, which is awesome.

1091
00:33:32,447 --> 00:33:34,427
www.beyondmonogamy.com.

1092
00:33:34,937 --> 00:33:36,647
Oh, man, that, that was really sexy.

1093
00:33:37,147 --> 00:33:40,597
You can find all of our merch
blogs, all of our events.

1094
00:33:41,527 --> 00:33:45,487
Information and all of our other
social medias on our websites.

1095
00:33:45,787 --> 00:33:46,177
Yes.

1096
00:33:46,177 --> 00:33:48,397
So scope it out, uh, with that.

1097
00:33:48,397 --> 00:33:51,937
Thank you guys so much for listening,
and we will see you guys next week.

1098
00:33:52,297 --> 00:33:52,627
Bye.