QUICKIE: Conversations on Clits and Balls: Unpacking Desires

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Hello again and welcome to another episode of Beyond

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Monogamy. I'm Adam. And I'm Pris. And today

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on our Wednesday quickie, we are going to be talking about

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oral. Oral again? Yeah.

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Oh, man, it's such a good topic. It's hard to stay away from,

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you. Know, I mean, you can have so many different

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topics on the same topic. Absolutely. And you know what? As we

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were starting at the top of the topic.

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Yes. I was curious about something. When it

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comes to you in oral, when you go down on

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other men. Oh, are you.

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Are you one for spending time in the

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balls region or are you just shaft kind

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of woman? I am just a shaft kind of woman.

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Really? You don't go for the balls? Others. Okay, so, like,

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for you. Yeah, I mean, that's. I don't. But I don't really go for

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your balls, do you? And I. I.

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You do. And I enjoy when you do. You don't as often.

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There you go. So I don't do it a lot. But when you do.

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So I do it even less to others. Yeah. How about that? Ah,

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so that's not a lot. But is there a reason?

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Why? Why? Why?

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So I'm be real. Real talk.

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Real talk. Real talk. It's too close to their ass.

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Really? Yeah. Isn't the whole knob close

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to the ass? I mean, by that.

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By that thought. No. When you go down on a woman, her vagina

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is pretty close to her ass. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.

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But I don't. I don't see you shying away from that. No.

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Because I don't know, I wouldn't go for her ass,

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so. No, but no. I mean,

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boys are dirtier than girls. Are they really?

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I don't think that's true. Have you gone down on a guy?

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No, but I just don't think that's true. Have you gone

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down on a guy? I have not. I have, but I've gone down

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on a lot of women. Have they been dirty?

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Actually, no. Have they smelled foul?

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I've only had an experience Once. Ever, ever,

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ever, ever, ever, ever, ever. Like, try to think. Yeah.

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Only once. Okay. I've never had that experience

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with a woman. You haven't been with too many women. No,

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but I haven't had an experience. I haven't been with a lot of men,

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and I've had that experience. Yeah, you have. You've been with a lot

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of men. Come on, now. But I mean, think about it. Like, a lot of

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men, I'm. I haven't really been with a

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lot of men. Do you know what I mean? I suppose. So, like,

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you're experienced. You were experienced before I even came

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into the fold. 20. Before me?

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Yeah. Like, in total, 20. Nah,

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Dukes. We can write up a whole page of names.

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Really? Yeah. And that's because some of them, we don't know

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the names. I don't

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know why you're trying to make yourself sound so innocent. Hey, we're not. No,

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I'm not saying innocent. Nothing wrong with being low. I love it.

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I love being a hoe. I love being slutty. I wear that.

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Great. Yeah. If you can walk. I was just curious. Wow, really? And now

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I gotta count that because that's awesome. Yeah. Anyway, I'd, like, wear that in a

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little badge, like the president. Got a high body count, man. Oh,

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yeah, that's sexy. You got a high body

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count. I want that number. Well, I'm gonna audit you.

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Oh, that made me hot. Really? Yeah. That's weird.

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Mm. But I mean, that. That's great. But that's weird.

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What was a question. I don't even think there was

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a question, honestly. Oh. Why? I don't. So. Okay.

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Well, I've been down on enough men that. That region.

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Yeah. Doesn't smell good, usually.

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Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Okay. So.

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Interesting. Yeah. So ever since then.

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I just don't make it a point. It's.

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Very few men that have ever had my Lengua

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on their Wallace. I gotcha. Yeah.

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So. But. And you definitely have a preference on ball size?

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I do, yeah. I like large

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balls. But why? I don't know. What is it

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about that? It's sexy. Really? Yeah,

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it's sexy. Interesting. Like,

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I lar. I like large nipples.

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I get you. I mean, I'm not a baby.

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You can come at me with little nipples and little boobies.

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I will. That's okay. Yeah. The love's gonna be there.

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I don't discriminate. I'm just saying. I like big nipples.

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Yeah. I don't

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like very large clits. Really?

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Yeah. So my preferences and whatever,

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but. But, yeah. So, hey,

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So I like. Yeah, I like large balls. You don't like large clits.

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But how do you even decipher what is. You don't

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know. I know, but I don't know what until I'm down there.

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Right. So, yeah, unless they have a puffy taco.

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She's. If you can use it for

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shelter in a rainstorm. Yeah, it might be a

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large cliff. I've been seeing a lot of puffy tacos and I'm going to

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tell you that. Sexy.

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Okay. Yeah. Yeah. Yes,

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I think. You know what? I think vaginas are sexy, aren't they?

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You know, I, I just don't think penises are

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very good to look at. So I will

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semi agree with you. I think most women would agree. I've heard a lot of

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women say this. So, I mean, I don't, I don't think, I think vaginas,

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I think. Well, no, I think vaginas are beautiful.

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Yeah. Every vagina, different shapes now.

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They're not all pretty, they're just all different.

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I've never seen one that I was like, oh my God, I can't look at

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that. I have. Really? So there you go. Wow.

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I have. I just didn't like the color and the way it

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looked. You didn't like the color? Yeah, like it was, I just wasn't for me,

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wasn't appetizing green. No.

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So I didn't like. Okay.

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I don't like every penis.

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Not every penis is pretty. But I

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will tell you, I've gotten a few videos.

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Pretty penises. Yeah. Yeah. I think

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you have a beautiful penis. You know, you've said that before

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and that just, I don't know, that's like such a weird. I'm gonna get a

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tattoo of your penis. Really? On me.

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You know what would be great is if my penis could tattoo a

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picture of itself on you. Be incredible.

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I'm a talented man. So. Yeah.

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You know, I, I, you've always said that I had a very,

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very, very handsome penis. You do. But I don't know what that,

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like, I don't know. That just never made sense to me. And I remember

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we can talk about. This off the air. The very first,

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what was it? The, the orgy that we threw. The swingers party

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that we had at our house the very first time.

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And I remember there was a girl that was

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going down on me and she looked up at you and you.

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And she was like, he's. You were right. She.

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He really does have a great looking dick.

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Yeah. And I was like, what the hell does what?

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It's just such a weird compliment. Pretty. It's a strange

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compliment. And you have big balls. I do have big balls.

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Yeah. And you have lost a lot of weight,

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and you have gained weight, and you have lost weight. So your

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balls have this, like, feeling of

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like, I don't know, hacky sacks or something.

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And they're like. They fit in my mouth, like,

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perfectly. Wow. You know? Okay. Yeah.

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And that's. I will show

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you later. Okay. Exactly what I mean.

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My balls are like the Oprah of testicles.

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Yes. Because they fluctuate. Yes. Okay. They are

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beautiful. Well, thank you for that. So all of that is great. I try

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to keep myself trimmed down there. Yes. I appreciate that.

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Yeah. I'm not snazzy. Yeah.

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But, you know, when it comes to oral.

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Mm. I gotta say, I'm a fan of going down on

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women. Yes. And I don't think

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I've had any bad experiences for how long? You know,

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So I can go down on a woman for about 30

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minutes to an hour. And then after that, it's like,

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all right, we need to wrap this up or we need to

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move on to something else. What gives

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you the cue that she wants you to continue for that long?

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When she just content. Like, when she just keeps me down there.

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So when a woman is done, she'll normally start pulling at me or

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she'll make certain sounds. Okay, so she's done that. Right. You come back up,

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you make out with her, whatever. Right. And then you go back down again.

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Well, so what I would probably do is I would have. I would have sex

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with her and then in the middle of sex, go down on her and then

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go back to having sex again. Right. I think that's hot.

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But pretty much, this is the given for

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all of my experiences when I'm with. When I'm with a woman. This is how

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it goes, and this is how OCD I am, because this is how organized

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I have it. Are you ready, ladies? Go. If I'm

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going to start with somebody, we have a makeout session,

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Right. We're kissing, all that good stuff. It's getting hot and heavy.

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Clothes start getting removed, and the bed is there.

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So we go from making out and getting naked to

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she's laying down and I go down on her.

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Okay. Okay. So that's the first phase of

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this. Okay. So when she lays down on the bed, I'll kiss her some more.

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I'll work my way down into doing her legs, and I

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will just go straight for it. Okay. And I'll go

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down on her for a while. And the. The goal here is to at least

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make her come once. But if I can make her come a couple

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of times, normally I will try and

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make her come to the point where she'll stop me because she

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can't come anymore. That's always a nice part to

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reach. But that's the idea,

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essentially, is that I'll go down on her to. To a certain degree.

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Okay. Then once there's some sort of satisfaction there,

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we switch. Okay. I laid down. Okay. She goes

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down on me. Now, this is not to completion.

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And this is where most women get it wrong.

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I think a lot of women who start going down on me in

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that phase want me to come already.

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Yes. I'm not ready to do that. Yes. I know that. This is

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still a part of the foreplay. What are we doing here? You're gonna make me

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come and then what? You're gonna have to work me some more so that I

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can have sex. Come on. Don't do that. So the idea here is to

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let me see your skills. Make me moan.

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Make me feel like, oh, my God. She's. She's gonna take me to the edge.

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She's gonna bring you back down, but. Bring me back down. Right? Right,

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ladies? He loves that. I do. I'm. I'm. I love

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being edged and, you know, get me there,

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but don't get me there. You know, that whole thing.

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And realistically,

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the longest I can do that for is probably about 30 minutes.

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And then after that, I'm like, okay, she's got to be getting tired.

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I'm not going to be able to enjoy this if I'm worried about her.

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Right? So, yeah, whatever. 20, 30 minutes,

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et cetera. From there, then we

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go into having sex. Okay. Of course. So you gotta fumble for the condom.

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You gotta put that bitch on, you know,

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this is where it varies. All right? It really depends.

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My go to if I want to finish is

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going to be missionary. Right? Right. That is my go to

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because I can control the strokes. I can get real deep.

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Yeah. I know how to make myself come. You know what I

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mean? Like, so I can really get there with missionary.

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Yeah. I'm not going to tell anybody my. Secret, so I'm not gonna.

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So I'm not gonna. Sorry. I'm not gonna go to missionary

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unless I. I'm like, okay, I'm gonna have to wrap this up soon.

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Right? So if I want to make this session last, then we'll

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do, you know, either doggy or

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we'll do, you know, she can Ride me. It just really depends

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on. On the woman. You know what I mean? But if

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I go straight into missionary. Yeah. I'm. I'm not going to

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last long. Yeah. And I'll pretty much be

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done. Like, that'll be like. I can go a second round,

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but that will be such a good round. I may not

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want to. Yeah. So, I mean,

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but that's kind of how I always have it organized. You know, there's a whole

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organization to this madness.

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And so if you toss in another person, say you,

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then that changes the aspect a little bit more.

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Yeah. And I. I basically become a porn director

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in my own head. Yeah. On our experiences.

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And a lot of it is around oral.

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I mean, realistically, penetrative sex is

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great and I love it, but the more people you add to

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sex, the more oral focused you

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need to be. Okay. You know what I mean? Yeah.

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Because penetrative sex, you can only do

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so much for so long. And especially with you.

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I can't do doggy with you. No, Most people

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cannot. I just do not. Because it puts air in you. Yeah.

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Yeah. And it's so. Because of that,

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I'm always paranoid about doing that with you. So I

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don't do that with you. And so then there's less

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that we have to choose from as far as different positions and

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whatnot. Right. So then you really have to focus on

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oral. Right. You know what I mean? To kind of keep it fresh and

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keep things moving along. Yeah, yeah. To keep everybody satisfied.

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Crazy weird. Yeah. Yeah. But I think oral is.

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Is great. You know, I love the fact that you love to give and receive.

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Yes, I love the fact that I love to give and receive. I love it

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especially. I mean, I love it when there's

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two guys next to each other. And I'm. That was.

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You did that this past weekend. That was. Yeah.

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And I like that. Yeah, I liked that. Yeah. Yeah, that was. That was pretty

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hot. It was. Yeah. Because I always see that in porn and that rarely.

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I think that was like the second time I've ever done that. Yeah.

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Yeah. Yeah. It doesn't happen often.

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No. But you know, the funny thing is, is that people really

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kind of shy away from admitting,

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or most guys shy away from admitting that they like to

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be a part of an M F M3 song,

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as if it's got some sort of homophobic undertones

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or whatever. I don't know. Oh. You know what I mean? Yeah.

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But it's like, dude, I love being a.

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A guy in that sort of threesome dynamic.

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I think it's hot. Yeah. Because we. It's the ultimate pleasing

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of the woman. Yeah. You know what I mean? And that's what I get off

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on. Yeah. You know, I get off on. On making the

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person that I'm with come. And I like that because it's focused

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on me. Yeah. Yeah. So. Yeah. That sort

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of thing I've always been down for. Yeah. But anytime I've suggested

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it with certain people, it's come off.

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Like, they'll look at me like I'm trying to get with

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them and it's. Like, no, guy, you gotta learn your letters.

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Yeah. It's not like that. We gotta do a show on that.

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You think? Yeah, for sure. Because I didn't even know what

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it was until a few months ago.

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Yeah. I didn't know, like, the spacing and all that. And, you know,

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realistically, you know, if you're gonna be in a sexual lifestyle

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such as this. Yes. You really gotta get comfortable with

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the fact that there's gonna be a little guy and guy touching. It is

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what it is. Yeah. And if you cannot handle that,

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like. You'Re not playing swords. Yeah. It's. You're not going out of your way

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to say, hey, nice balls. Let me grab them. Nobody's gonna do

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that. Okay. But now, wait, you have been complimented.

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Well, yeah. On how pretty your dick is. And by men. And I appreciate

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that. Straight men. Yeah. That's pretty nice. Yeah. Because, you know,

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it's a genuine compliment. Was just gonna say they want nothing out of that.

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Yeah. Yeah, yeah, yeah. I, I, I think

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it's, it's pretty cool that, that I've gotten that from people

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before, but. Yeah. You. I'm sorry I interrupted you. Oh, man.

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You threw me off. I don't. Something about guy and guy touching is.

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You know, realistically, I, I've known some people to

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really freak out about that. Oh, wow. Yeah. And just

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people that are not very secure in their own. Yeah. Self. Yeah.

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And it's like, you know when there's this many bodies

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on a bed all at once? Yeah.

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You can, you can touch a little bit. You know,

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I mean. And when the guy's rubbing my clit.

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Then just make sure you're way above where my

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shaft is. I mean, you don't have to r. I don't, I don't need to

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get. Fingernail rug burn. That's weird.

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That's weird. Like, I don't need that. Oh, you know,

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my goodness. No. I like, I like oral.

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I like. Ooh, complete fantasy.

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I would love to have a play date with Two other women

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and me and just have oral, you know,

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and. You used to always tell me that. The stories back from when

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you were married the first time. Yeah. And you had that friend

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of yours, and the two of y'all would go to

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the mall and you'd go shopping. You go here and you'd go there,

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and you'd end up in your closet having sex here

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and there. Like. Like, I'm always telling you, dude, go find. Go find

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a friend. Yeah. That you can spend some time with. Yeah. You want to take

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me along with you? No. I mean, I think. I think I'm good. I could

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probably find a friend like that. Yeah. I mean, why not?

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If that's. Why not? If that's what you want to do, why not? I know.

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Sexual freedom, man. Sexual. That's what I'm about.

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I love that. Yeah. You should be having fun if that's what you want to

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do. Have fun with it, man. Yeah. Yeah.

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Knock yourself out. You know, you have. There's nothing wrong with

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having a genuine friend, a good person that you can relate

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to and be friends with and not have to worry about catching feelings

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or anything like that. Just somebody that you can be friends with and have.

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Yeah, that's what I want. Like, I want to be flirty. Like, we're going to

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the mall, we're holding hands, we're stealing little kisses.

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Like, I want. You know.

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But could you do that? I could. Could you? I could now. Really?

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I think. I think when we were in that kind of phase,

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I just. I wasn't myself.

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It wasn't comfortable. You were not transparent.

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Right. And so it just kept me from kind of,

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like, pursuing anything because, yeah, you know,

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it wasn't going to be fair. Well. And, you know, I will tell you something

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else. When we were poly,

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I feel you could have done way better than you did,

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probably. You. You dated women.

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You dated women that were not in your league. I'm sorry,

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you don't think so? No. You dated women that were not

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in your league. You were lowering the bar probably

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20 times lower than you should have. Yeah. Really.

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Realistically, you shouldn't have lowered the bar at all, but you

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had a very low bar, and you were dating women that

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were just not on your level, and you could

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have done so much better with. Thank you.

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Yeah. Yeah. So I think now,

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in this time in your life, I think you know your worth.

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I think you know where you should have

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your bar. Yes. And I think if you

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were to ever get back into that, I think it would be a completely different

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ball game. Yeah. Yeah. I mean, maybe I'm

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a different person. I mean, we're just having hypothetical conversations.

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And I'm a different. I think it would be something completely different. We definitely.

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I, I did make it very shitty, Paulie. Polly was not my

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thing. And I really thought breaking of the marriage,

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stuff like that was the issue.

364
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Yeah. But yeah, we've. We've kind of touched base on it a

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few times. I just don't like the word. I don't like the word poly.

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Like it just so you have trauma

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with the word. And you know, I don't need a girlfriend.

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I just want. I want a girlfriend, but it's not like that

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kind of girlfriend. Like, I don't want to be like a friend.

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I want a friend friend, you know,

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that that's all. That's all. I want nothing,

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nothing more. You know, someone that you can. I don't want you to move in.

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And if it's a couple that's wanting to date a couple, I mean, hello,

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we are here and we are fun. We are fun.

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Yeah, I think we're fun. We are fun, but we

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are fun. But, you know, it's one of those things when it comes to couple

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on couple. I mean, you, you don't really know if you're getting the full connection

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a lot of times. Yeah. From what I'm told.

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Yeah. You know, you can't always listen to everybody because everybody

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says that this is true. And everybody says sometimes, oh, I can't find that

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four way connection. And not to brag,

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but you and I have found that. I think we have

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with a lot of people. Yeah.

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And maybe it's because we're not to say that we're the most open minded,

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but we, we've just dealt with a lot of different types of people

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that were comfortable when somebody is

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a certain way, you know, so like that four way connection,

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it hasn't been a big issue.

389
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This is true. Yet. This is true. But I say it won't.

390
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But, you know, you know, we haven't really explored anything like that anyway.

391
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Yeah. So it's just one of those things where. But even like friendship

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connection. Yeah. But even like playing, it hasn't really been a

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major issue. That's true. You know, and so.

394
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But you know, realistically, we don't really play too often.

395
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No, it's not a whole lot of people we play. No. But have

396
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you noticed that everybody that we have played with has been couples? Yes.

397
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Yeah. Which is fun. Yeah. Like, I think that's so

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much fun, you know, and so

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that's what I'm saying. Like the four way connection, whether it's friendship or

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playing, we've been pretty successful in that.

401
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Yes. You know, we're pretty go with the. Flow, that's for sure.

402
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We're not, you know,

403
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we've met maybe a couple of people where,

404
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oh, the guy was a creepy guy,

405
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you know, or the lady was a certain way,

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but very rare. I think for the most part the connections we've made have been

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pretty good. Yeah, yeah, yeah. It's nice. It's been nice.

408
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But you know, realistically, a lot

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of the friends we have are primarily

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that they're just friends. They're not really. There's a lot of our friends that we

411
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don't play with. Yes. As a matter of fact, I'd say a good

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primary portion of our friends we don't play with. Yes.

413
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Now my question to you is this. Can you be

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friends with somebody and have

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sex with them? Yes. That makes it even more fun.

416
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Not everybody would agree with that. Yeah, I know. Yeah. Not everybody would agree with

417
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that. That is a different. That's situational.

418
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Yeah. For person to person. And I can be normal. Yeah.

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Like if we were somewhere, I don't have,

420
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like, it's. We're friends. Right. Do you know what I mean? Like what happens in

421
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the bedroom happens in the bedroom. So you can be friends with someone and go

422
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up to them and say, hey, can you, can you eat my pussy right now?

423
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Yes. And then after everything's done go back to like

424
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nothing. Yes. So can I. Yeah, yeah,

425
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yeah, yeah. I'm really able to just

426
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be that. And if we're meeting vanilla friends, I know how to

427
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behave. Yeah. And so it's funny, when we

428
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talk to people in the lifestyle, we make these friends and whatnot. And you know

429
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that there's people that are very discreet and you

430
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know that if you see them in public, it could

431
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be like a complete meltdown. Like it could be a freak out.

432
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And I. Realistically, if we see anybody

433
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out in public, I don't normally say hello to them

434
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unless they say hello to me first because I don't

435
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know what. Everybody's different. Discretion levels are. Yeah. You know,

436
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we aren't very discreet. We don't care. Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah.

437
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But I'm not going to go up to you and like kiss you,

438
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give. You a kiss or grab your dick or something. I'll probably give you a

439
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hug. I'll probably shake your hand. It looks like a friend saying hello to a

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friend. And that's it? You don't have to explain. Oh, well, who's that? Well,

441
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that's just a friend of mine. Yeah. Somebody I know. Yeah. You know,

442
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it's really. That. That's. That's as easy as it is weird.

443
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But everybody's got their own thing. Yeah. So you just never know.

444
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You don't. And some people would not be able to have that

445
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friendship and involve sex.

446
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I definitely could. Yeah. Yeah. So you could be a really, really good

447
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friend to somebody, almost best friend status and

448
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have that sexual connection and not have it pass anything.

449
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Yes. Good for you. Yes. That's good friends.

450
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Yeah. Yeah. No, I could too,

451
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with no problem. I could even be around their kids.

452
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But I don't associate sex with,

453
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like feelings of romanticism.

454
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No. And I guess that's where I. I don't have that.

455
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I used to. You used to. Yeah, it was a thing. Yeah. No,

456
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we went from oral to this. Yeah. I was trying to. To make

457
00:27:45,126 --> 00:27:48,782
my way back to oral, but I don't think it's going to work there.

458
00:27:48,806 --> 00:27:52,926
But that's interesting. Yeah, that was interesting. Now this is a really good topic.

459
00:27:53,038 --> 00:27:56,750
Yeah. Well, you can't catch lightning in a bottle twice.

460
00:27:56,830 --> 00:27:59,700
But we can. Because what are we about to do?

461
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Have sex? No, we're going to record.

462
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:05,740
Oh, Sundays.

463
00:28:06,160 --> 00:28:10,296
Okay. So to be continued. To be continued.

464
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Anyways, thank you guys so much for joining us this week.

465
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We will see you next week.