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Oct. 26, 2025

October-November 2025 Newsletter

October-November 2025

Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

Hey friends — if you’ve been enjoying Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the best way to show some love is by dropping us a quick review on whatever platform you listen on. Those stars and comments might seem small, but they make a huge difference in helping our community grow and helping new people find us.And while you’re here, don’t forget to check out our Beyond Monogamy Confessional — a totally anonymous place where you can spill your thoughts, stories, or secrets from the lifestyle. We read them all (and sometimes share a few favorites on the show 👀).

👉 www.beyond-monogamy.com/p/confess/​

Episodes

​Transforming Love: Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Shame, Attachment & Polywise Relationships​

Adam & Pris sit down with Jessica Fern and David Cooley to discuss attachment styles, resentment, and the Shame Triangle. They explore how to transform conflict with tools rooted in IFS and restorative practices. The conversation covers real-life dynamics, like navigating capacity, time, and the "50/50" myth. Adam & Pris also share their own experiences with polyamory and burnout. You can listen to the full episode here.

​QUICKIE: The Great Expectations​

In this QUICKIE episode, Adam & Pris talk about managing expectations in ethical non-monogamy. They unpack how expectations shape attraction, confidence, and connection, and discuss the myth of having "no expectations." They explore emotional intelligence, insecurity, chemistry and provide practical perspectives on the expectations we hold in swinging and open relationship life. You can listen to the full episode here.

​This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes​

Adam & Pris chat with UK writer Rosie Kay about living ethically non-monogamous, bisexuality, and breaking stereotypes. Rosie shares her journey, from discovering her bisexuality to finding freedom in London's clubs. They dive into bisexuality without shame, emotional honesty, and consent, while discussing the cultural contrasts between the UK and US lifestyle scenes. You can listen to the full episode here.

​Forbidden Fruit: How Austin’s Oldest Adult Store Kept Sex Positive Since the ’80s​

Adam & Pris interview Lynn Raridon, owner of Forbidden Fruit, Austin's sex-positive boutique and education hub. From the early 1980s to today, Forbidden Fruit has blended sexual empowerment, community connection, and hands-on education. They discuss legal hurdles, clever pivots, and the store's evolution into a community institution and an Austin icon. You can listen to the full episode here.

Posts

​Transforming Love: How Jessica Fern & David Cooley Turn Attachment, Shame & Jealousy Into Tools for Growth​

This blog post summarizes the key takeaways from the episode with Jessica Fern and David Cooley. It highlights the concepts of attachment, jealousy vs. resentment, the Shame Triangle, and capacity in relationships. The post also provides actionable advice from the conversation. You can read the full post here.

​The Illusion of 'No Expectations' in Ethical Non-Monogamy​

This blog post dives into the hidden expectations we all carry and how they impact our experiences in the lifestyle. The post explores societal norms, cultural conditioning, and personal desires, while discussing managing them for healthier, more fulfilling relationships. To claim we have none is, in essence, to deny a fundamental part of our human experience. You can read the full post here.

​This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Being Unapologetically Yourself​

This blog post focuses on the interview with Rosie Kay, exploring her journey into non-monogamy and bisexuality. It discusses the UK lifestyle scene, consent, and the importance of being unapologetically yourself. It also highlights Rosie's insights on the stereotypes and inclusivity within the lifestyle community. You can read the full post here.

​Forbidden Fruit Austin: The Legendary Sex-Positive Boutique That Keeps Austin Sexy​

This blog post summarizes the conversation with Lynn Raridon, owner of Forbidden Fruit in Austin. It details the store's history, its role in promoting sex-positivity, and the various workshops and events it offers. The post also highlights the store's commitment to education, empowerment, and community building. You can read the full post here.

Reviews

We've received some wonderful reviews this past month! Thank you to everyone who took the time to share their thoughts. Your feedback means the world to us and helps others discover the show. We're so glad you're finding value and enjoyment in our conversations. Keep them coming!

  • ​Mind Blown 🤯 - Rating: 5/5 - "10/10 would recommend if you want your mind blown, your cheeks hurt from laughing, and your heart racing. Adam & Pris, consider me intrigued… 😘 Must tune in!"
  • ​Beyond Monogamy hits the mark EVERY time!!! - Rating: 5/5 - "I absolutely love Beyond Monogamy with Adam and Pris! It’s one of the most informative and authentic podcasts about the lifestyle I’ve come across. Adam and Pris are such genuine hosts—you can feel their honesty and passion in every episode. The topics they dive into are relevant, thoughtful, and always right on point. Whether you’re new to the lifestyle or already part of it, this podcast is a fantastic resource and a truly enjoyable listen."
  • ​An Insightful, Hilarious, and Refreshingly Honest Podcast - Rating: 5/5 - "If you’re looking for a show that feels like sitting at the table with your friends, this is it. The hosts have an amazing natural banter that makes every episode feel lively and engaging — you can tell they genuinely enjoy bouncing off each other. What I love most is how they tackle the thoughts we’re all having but might not say out loud. Their conversations are authentic, unfiltered (in the best way), and refreshingly relatable. On top of that, they provide a truly thoughtful look into the world of ethical non-monogamy. Instead of sensationalizing it, they break it down with insight, empathy, and humor, making complex topics feel approachable and human. Whether you’re curious about LS or already part of the community, their discussions open your mind and give you a deeper understanding."

We hope you enjoyed this month's recap! Be sure to check out the full episodes and blog posts for even more insights and stories. Thanks for being a part of the Beyond Monogamy community!

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