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Alright y'all, before we
dive in, a quick heads up.

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This show is raw, real, and
definitely not rated pg.

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We're talking about adult themes, sexual
content, and the kind of stuff you

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probably don't want blasting through your
speakers at work or around your kits.

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So grab some headphones, pour your
drink of choice and get comfy.

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Oh, and just so we're clear, we are not
licensed therapists, counselors, or sex.

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Couches.

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Sex coaches.

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Sex coaches, not sex couches

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or just a couple of people sharing our
lives, experiences and sexy adventures.

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An ethical non-monogamy.

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So with that, pull up a
chair and enjoy the show.

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And.

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Hello, and welcome to another
episode of Beyond Monogamy.

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I'm Adam.

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And I'm Pris.

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And today on our Wednesday quickie,
we are gonna be talking about.

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What are we talking about?

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Did you really forget?

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I already told you I did.

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Wow.

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Communication, y'all.

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Events, events.

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Events.

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That's what we're talking about.

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I mean, gimme a second
because you talk a lot.

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I do talk a lot, so I
don't remember what it was.

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That is fair.

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I can't disagree with you there.

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But that's kind of my job.

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I mean, that's what we do.

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That's what we're here for anyway.

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Yes, we are talking about lifestyle
events, uh, because we have a lot

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of events going on and you know.

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There are all sorts of events.

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Yes.

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And for anybody who's new or for
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I figured we could talk about that.

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Because events can be really,
really scary sometimes.

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Yes, yes.

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They can be scary.

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Yes.

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They can be a tad scary.

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They can be a little scary.

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Yeah.

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You know, if it's a community that
you're not really familiar with, if

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it's if you're brand new, if you're an
introvert, if you're an introvert, if

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crowds make you nervous, like this guy.

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We're talking about events
'cause we have a lot of events

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that are gonna be happening.

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We do.

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We do.

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And, um, realistically.

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Yes, we do have a lot of events
that we're gonna be attending.

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We're going to be attaching our
name to we will be a part of but

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we would really love to see a lot
of our listeners at these events.

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Which I think is really cool.

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And I think it's important to talk about
events because if a lot of our listeners

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are new, if you are wanting to attend an
event, I really would like for you to be

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prepared to know to ex what to expect.

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I'm, we're gonna have to
touch that subject Yeah.

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On the new people in a second, like
later on, because I had something happen

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today or a question come up to me today.

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Okurr get me about that.

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So yeah.

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You want it now?

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Yeah, sure.

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Somebody asked me how he's new to the, to,
to the, um, lifestyle and he's created a

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profile on SDC and all that good stuff.

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Yeah.

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But he asked me if I could
help him like meet people now.

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If you know me and I, you already know
what the answer like to think I answer

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is, oh, I so know what the answer is.

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What is the answer?

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You first of all, don't really
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you legitimately to do that.

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Or if he's just trying to get close to
you, which most guys are trying to do.

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And also, and so you
already struggle with that.

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I'm not even it.

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And, and I'm not going to if you go to a
meet and greet, I will totally introduce

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you as a new person to whomever, but
if I don't know you, I told him, I

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said, if I don't know you, I am not
going to, it's, I mean, you're not

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verifying if you're introducing people.

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So, but I think what the reason why you
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really care for that is because we've seen
instances where people have introduced

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others in the lifestyle, and then all
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situation and the person that made the
introduction somehow gets thrown under

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the bus and is like, you, yeah, you're the
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So I told him about our meet and greet.

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Oh, great.

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I was like, Hey, if you wanna
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should really go to events.

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There's parties on that
platform you're on.

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Like that's just the way
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Is that, I personally do not know you.

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You, yes.

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You're a follower.

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Yes.

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You've commented, but I don't know you.

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So I like to keep my community safe.

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I'm not gonna invite anybody,
and this could be man or woman.

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I'm not gonna invite you straight out
just because, I don't know who you are.

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And that's just me.

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You knows it's an easy fix though,
in which case this person could

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show up to one of our events meet.

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Yeah, that's what I told him.

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Yeah.

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And meet you.

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I was like, I'm angry coming
up and, and then that's it.

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You know, the rest is history
from there, you're verifiable.

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You know?

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Exactly.

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I like that.

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Yeah, that's good.

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But really and to answer that question
for a lot of people, going to an event.

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If you are introverted, if you're nervous
about meeting new people, if you have

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anxiety, especially social anxiety and
that sort of thing, you're walking into an

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event and you don't know what to expect.

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You've never been to one.

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You don't know who's gonna be there.

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All of that.

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You don't know what it is.

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It's very scary.

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And for me, that was always a situation.

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That's why we bailed on
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Like I did not go.

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Because it was just like, I don't, I
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don't know if I can handle that anxiety.

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Um, understand that the first
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Mm-hmm.

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The first event.

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That you attend is like that, but the more
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Um, you start seeing a lot of the
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you and it just gets easier.

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It does, yeah.

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It gets a lot easier.

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Does the nervousness ever
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I mean, I don't get nervous.

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I get nervous.

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No, I don't get nervous at all.

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I get nervous.

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I get nervous.

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I get nervous because we do
our Beyond monogamy events.

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I'm gonna be so nervous at those things.

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Why?

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Because the attention is on us.

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Oh, I don't mind that.

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Oh, I don't like that at all.

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Hello?

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I model for Winnie the Pooh.

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You're, you're used to being in the
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Guys, this was when she was a kid.

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This was, this wasn't a couple years ago.

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I'm all for Sears, babe.

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Yes, yes.

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No, um, I don't mind having
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No, that's not a, I I, I'm already nervous
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I used to be nervous about that.

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Yeah, I, I'm not anymore, so I'm excited.

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I can't wait.

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I can't wait to meet new people
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part that I'm looking, forward to.

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I love meeting new people.

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But at the same time, coming
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thing is extreme anxiety.

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Because while I love meeting new people,
I also, I don't like meeting new people.

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Oh, because it's scary.

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But I make you.

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Yeah, you do.

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You do.

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Good.

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You do it.

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Is it, it's really hard.

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It comes with the territory.

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You kind of have to, yeah.

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It's really hard.

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Meet new people.

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But it does come with a territory.

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Mm-hmm.

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It is required.

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And what I've seen is everybody that I've
met, I've absolutely fallen in love with.

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I'm like, dude, you guys are awesome.

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We need to hang out.

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And so I, I am the total opposite.

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See, I don't understand this.

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It's so weird.

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We're so different sometimes.

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Like we can be complete
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It's crazy.

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Yeah, it's crazy.

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It's okay.

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You're my soulmate.

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You're my, oh yeah.

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How about that?

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We don't have to like everybody.

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I'm glad you do though.

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I'm glad I do too, too.

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You're definitely going
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Ugh.

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I don't wanna be alone.

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Maybe you'll see your ex. I
definitely won't be in heaven, baby.

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That's getting my love.

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Ugh.

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Oh, okay.

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So anyway, event, so we
have some events coming up.

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Our first one coming up
is this November 8th.

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This Saturday we're gonna
be at Forbidden Fruit.

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I was like, wait, are
they gonna listen to it?

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You will listen to it because
this is Wednesday's quickie.

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So my dad, hello?

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Oh my gosh.

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You are cute.

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This Saturday will be at Forbidden Fruit.

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What is Forbidden Fruit.

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What is Forbidden Fruit?

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Forbidden Fruit is A, our
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toy company or, or toy store.

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Yes.

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In Austin.

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Adult toy store.

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Yes.

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Adult toy store.

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Yeah.

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Don't, don't go in there for a train.

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In Austin, they have been around since,
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They've been in different buildings.

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So if you're native to Austin,
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Yeah.

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So we will be there Saturday.

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They're gonna have like a
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A little party.

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It's a, it's a block party
jam, a little block party.

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We're gonna have a little jam
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There's, um.

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A little bit of a strip
mall kind of thing.

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Yeah.

261
00:09:03,110 --> 00:09:04,280
Where there's different stores there.

262
00:09:04,280 --> 00:09:06,410
There's like a bookstore, there's a bar.

263
00:09:06,860 --> 00:09:07,760
It's like at the Guadalupe,
there's a restaurant.

264
00:09:08,160 --> 00:09:10,570
There's all sorts of
different places there.

265
00:09:10,570 --> 00:09:13,645
That will be, yeah, a part of the
the little thrift stores block party.

266
00:09:13,870 --> 00:09:14,080
Yeah.

267
00:09:14,080 --> 00:09:15,760
There's different stores there.

268
00:09:15,760 --> 00:09:15,820
Yeah.

269
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There're none of them are chains.

270
00:09:17,140 --> 00:09:19,990
They're all, uh, Austin,
locally owned Austin.

271
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Stores, small businesses.

272
00:09:21,435 --> 00:09:21,600
Yeah.

273
00:09:21,755 --> 00:09:22,715
So it's gonna be really cool.

274
00:09:22,715 --> 00:09:26,045
Um, I will tell you now,
parking is horrible, but you

275
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can park in the neighborhood.

276
00:09:27,905 --> 00:09:28,145
Yeah.

277
00:09:28,175 --> 00:09:28,805
Call me.

278
00:09:28,865 --> 00:09:31,655
I'll go and walk to your car
and you can walk with me.

279
00:09:31,655 --> 00:09:33,035
I'll, we're here, we're there.

280
00:09:33,800 --> 00:09:35,150
Don't let that deter you.

281
00:09:35,630 --> 00:09:35,840
Yeah.

282
00:09:35,845 --> 00:09:37,925
Don't let the parking situation
de don't let the parking situation

283
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'cause you're gonna be walking
away from a really fun time.

284
00:09:40,130 --> 00:09:40,220
Yes.

285
00:09:40,220 --> 00:09:41,045
It's so fine.

286
00:09:41,045 --> 00:09:43,910
So we are gonna be inside
of Forbidden Fruit.

287
00:09:44,030 --> 00:09:44,120
Mm-hmm.

288
00:09:44,420 --> 00:09:48,370
Uh, we'll have a station set up there
where we will be hobnobbing with

289
00:09:48,370 --> 00:09:49,960
anybody who comes in and sees us.

290
00:09:49,960 --> 00:09:52,810
And if nobody shows up, that's
okay because I have anxiety

291
00:09:53,170 --> 00:09:54,880
and we will have merch there.

292
00:09:55,390 --> 00:09:56,820
We will have we'll be.

293
00:09:57,570 --> 00:09:58,500
We'll be there for pictures.

294
00:09:58,500 --> 00:09:59,700
We'd love to take pictures.

295
00:09:59,730 --> 00:10:00,540
Yes, apparently.

296
00:10:01,020 --> 00:10:03,960
And, uh, you know, we'll
be there doing lives.

297
00:10:03,960 --> 00:10:06,450
We'll be a part of a q and a sesh.

298
00:10:06,630 --> 00:10:06,750
Yes.

299
00:10:06,780 --> 00:10:07,620
All that good stuff.

300
00:10:07,620 --> 00:10:12,180
So we'll be out there starting
at noon on November eight.

301
00:10:12,450 --> 00:10:13,200
At noon.

302
00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:13,220
At noon.

303
00:10:13,500 --> 00:10:17,670
Now I'm planning on being there till
four, but say somebody really catches our

304
00:10:17,670 --> 00:10:21,660
attention or we just are really busy out
there, uh, we may be out there longer.

305
00:10:21,810 --> 00:10:24,480
We may go out to eat afterwards
just because people are

306
00:10:24,480 --> 00:10:25,400
inviting us out and I figured.

307
00:10:26,085 --> 00:10:26,895
They can all just come.

308
00:10:28,095 --> 00:10:28,365
Really?

309
00:10:28,455 --> 00:10:28,815
Yeah.

310
00:10:29,085 --> 00:10:29,385
Oh wow.

311
00:10:29,535 --> 00:10:30,225
They can all just come.

312
00:10:31,485 --> 00:10:33,105
So yeah, that's our first event.

313
00:10:33,205 --> 00:10:33,565
Yeah.

314
00:10:33,565 --> 00:10:37,825
And then, uh, we're going to be
spending the rest of the month

315
00:10:37,825 --> 00:10:39,415
preparing for Thanksgiving.

316
00:10:39,805 --> 00:10:41,605
As I'm sure all of you are.

317
00:10:41,905 --> 00:10:42,055
Yes.

318
00:10:42,085 --> 00:10:44,995
Uh, I don't think there's a whole
lot going on during the week of

319
00:10:44,995 --> 00:10:46,675
Thanksgiving, but you just never know.

320
00:10:46,675 --> 00:10:49,525
I'm sure everybody's having friends
givings and things like that.

321
00:10:49,825 --> 00:10:49,885
Yeah.

322
00:10:49,885 --> 00:10:53,515
To our Seattle listeners, if
there's any Seattle listeners.

323
00:10:53,545 --> 00:10:53,965
Yes.

324
00:10:53,995 --> 00:10:58,075
We, um, will be in
Seattle for Thanksgiving.

325
00:10:58,135 --> 00:11:02,960
So we are looking to are going,
we're going with family, but

326
00:11:02,960 --> 00:11:04,460
they're giving us a, a night.

327
00:11:04,460 --> 00:11:06,350
So we have a night.

328
00:11:06,350 --> 00:11:06,440
We have a night.

329
00:11:06,830 --> 00:11:09,050
Not that our kids aren't
big enough to be in anyway.

330
00:11:09,720 --> 00:11:11,275
We have a night, so
they're giving us a night.

331
00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:12,690
Yeah, they're giving us a night.

332
00:11:12,690 --> 00:11:13,315
So if we.

333
00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:17,070
If you're a listener and
there's a spot you want us to

334
00:11:17,070 --> 00:11:19,260
go hit up, let us know, please.

335
00:11:19,320 --> 00:11:20,130
Yeah, absolutely.

336
00:11:20,130 --> 00:11:26,190
You know, it'll be, uh, really what we
want is to be able to meet others in

337
00:11:26,340 --> 00:11:29,700
other communities outside of the community
that we have already established.

338
00:11:29,730 --> 00:11:29,820
Mm-hmm.

339
00:11:30,060 --> 00:11:31,920
We want to meet your peoples.

340
00:11:31,950 --> 00:11:32,130
Yeah.

341
00:11:32,190 --> 00:11:34,290
We want to see your local clubs.

342
00:11:34,290 --> 00:11:38,370
We want to get out there and we
want you to show us the spots.

343
00:11:38,430 --> 00:11:38,550
Yes.

344
00:11:38,910 --> 00:11:43,615
Uh, because frankly, we're probably
gonna be visiting there often, so, yeah.

345
00:11:43,770 --> 00:11:44,130
Yeah.

346
00:11:44,130 --> 00:11:46,650
So this is gonna be our
first trip to Seattle.

347
00:11:46,650 --> 00:11:47,430
I've never been there.

348
00:11:47,430 --> 00:11:48,180
He's never been there.

349
00:11:48,180 --> 00:11:50,070
So, yeah, that, that would be fun.

350
00:11:50,460 --> 00:11:50,790
Absolutely.

351
00:11:50,790 --> 00:11:56,480
So then after that, after that we have
a very specific hotel takeover that's

352
00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:58,730
gonna be taking place December 5th.

353
00:11:58,785 --> 00:11:59,805
Through the seventh.

354
00:12:00,105 --> 00:12:00,375
Yes.

355
00:12:00,655 --> 00:12:04,165
Naughty and nice, I believe is
the name of the hotel takeover.

356
00:12:04,195 --> 00:12:06,385
Yes, it located in San Antonio, Texas.

357
00:12:06,685 --> 00:12:12,685
Now I'm telling you all this because this
specific event is on our events page.

358
00:12:12,685 --> 00:12:12,775
Mm-hmm.

359
00:12:13,015 --> 00:12:17,935
That is listed on our website,
www.beyond-monogamy.com.

360
00:12:18,745 --> 00:12:24,620
If you go to that website, you go to the
events tab and that's where you will find.

361
00:12:25,605 --> 00:12:28,725
All the information you need
for this hotel takeover.

362
00:12:28,725 --> 00:12:31,875
Now we are not just
attending the takeover.

363
00:12:31,875 --> 00:12:35,590
We are actually the entertainment hosts.

364
00:12:35,715 --> 00:12:37,005
We're some of the entertainment.

365
00:12:37,665 --> 00:12:38,430
We're not gonna be DJing.

366
00:12:38,430 --> 00:12:38,740
He ain't gonna be DJing.

367
00:12:39,225 --> 00:12:40,275
I will not be DJing.

368
00:12:40,275 --> 00:12:42,885
We will actually be a part
of the daytime entertainment.

369
00:12:42,945 --> 00:12:43,035
Yeah.

370
00:12:43,035 --> 00:12:46,135
Uh, we will be doing a live show.

371
00:12:46,150 --> 00:12:48,040
From the hotel.

372
00:12:48,140 --> 00:12:51,290
And we'll be taking q
and As from the audience.

373
00:12:51,560 --> 00:12:57,560
Now we are gonna be doing a live show via
TikTok, most likely, and maybe Facebook.

374
00:12:57,620 --> 00:12:57,920
Yeah.

375
00:12:57,920 --> 00:12:59,510
We'll have some social
media stuff like there.

376
00:12:59,510 --> 00:13:01,280
It will not be dropping no.

377
00:13:01,670 --> 00:13:02,780
Until mm-hmm.

378
00:13:03,020 --> 00:13:03,500
Sunday.

379
00:13:03,560 --> 00:13:03,890
Yeah.

380
00:13:04,310 --> 00:13:07,160
And I'm not sure where we're, we're
gonna do it live because, you know.

381
00:13:07,985 --> 00:13:11,975
We, we just get a, not us, but some people
get a little crazy when we're at lifestyle

382
00:13:11,975 --> 00:13:13,775
events, can't say certain things.

383
00:13:13,775 --> 00:13:17,615
And some of us don't wear a lot
of clothes or, well, I'm talking

384
00:13:17,615 --> 00:13:19,565
about the show itself will be live.

385
00:13:19,595 --> 00:13:19,805
Yeah.

386
00:13:19,805 --> 00:13:22,355
And we'll be separated
from the audience, I think.

387
00:13:22,360 --> 00:13:22,810
Oh, is that what you're gonna do?

388
00:13:23,165 --> 00:13:24,765
Oh, so the audience gonna
be in front of us, us.

389
00:13:25,235 --> 00:13:26,525
And so you've got it all set up?

390
00:13:26,525 --> 00:13:27,725
Yeah, it's all up here.

391
00:13:27,755 --> 00:13:28,145
Okay.

392
00:13:28,205 --> 00:13:28,985
All in the nogging.

393
00:13:29,015 --> 00:13:29,315
Cool.

394
00:13:29,345 --> 00:13:29,645
Yeah.

395
00:13:29,915 --> 00:13:32,105
So, uh, I mean essentially
we'll be on display.

396
00:13:32,105 --> 00:13:35,165
We'll be doing a show out there
and then I'll have a microphone

397
00:13:35,165 --> 00:13:36,740
set up, uh, in the back mm-hmm.

398
00:13:36,820 --> 00:13:39,485
Of the audience where people can go up
there, they can ask a question, look at

399
00:13:39,485 --> 00:13:42,125
you, and it will get put on our show.

400
00:13:42,125 --> 00:13:42,935
Just the same as this.

401
00:13:42,935 --> 00:13:44,045
You are so resourceful.

402
00:13:44,105 --> 00:13:44,615
I know.

403
00:13:45,140 --> 00:13:45,820
I do some things along.

404
00:13:46,160 --> 00:13:46,620
That's nice.

405
00:13:46,620 --> 00:13:47,525
I can do some things.

406
00:13:47,525 --> 00:13:48,215
Lemme tell you.

407
00:13:48,585 --> 00:13:49,545
Sexual related too.

408
00:13:49,905 --> 00:13:50,385
Um.

409
00:13:50,610 --> 00:13:53,580
But we are very excited
about that takeover.

410
00:13:53,850 --> 00:14:01,830
If you are interested in that takeover,
I will ask you to go to that site of

411
00:14:01,830 --> 00:14:06,540
ours, go to the events tab, because
those things are selling out fast.

412
00:14:06,545 --> 00:14:06,635
Yes.

413
00:14:06,660 --> 00:14:07,110
Yes, they are.

414
00:14:07,170 --> 00:14:09,060
Uh, there, there's gonna be, uh.

415
00:14:09,570 --> 00:14:11,010
Room's going pretty quick.

416
00:14:11,100 --> 00:14:11,370
Yeah.

417
00:14:11,590 --> 00:14:15,010
And, and last I heard, I
think it's like 50% already.

418
00:14:15,070 --> 00:14:15,220
Yeah.

419
00:14:15,220 --> 00:14:17,000
And they just barely announced it, yeah.

420
00:14:17,000 --> 00:14:20,955
So it's gonna be a good,
um, a good little turnout.

421
00:14:20,985 --> 00:14:21,675
Absolutely.

422
00:14:21,675 --> 00:14:26,145
Now, I will tell you, if you travel
to go to this event and you're

423
00:14:26,145 --> 00:14:29,205
gonna be out there, please let us
know that you traveled out there

424
00:14:29,205 --> 00:14:30,525
and that you traveled to see us.

425
00:14:30,525 --> 00:14:31,425
Mm-hmm.

426
00:14:31,980 --> 00:14:32,820
Let's talk.

427
00:14:32,850 --> 00:14:37,050
Maybe we can, uh, show you, uh, show
you our club at some point if you make

428
00:14:37,050 --> 00:14:38,310
a trip out or something like that.

429
00:14:38,310 --> 00:14:38,370
Yeah.

430
00:14:38,370 --> 00:14:41,160
You know, like we definitely
are big into our community.

431
00:14:41,160 --> 00:14:45,190
We love our listeners and we want
to be able to, uh, treat them the

432
00:14:45,190 --> 00:14:46,330
way we would wanna be treated.

433
00:14:46,450 --> 00:14:47,020
Yeah, for sure.

434
00:14:47,350 --> 00:14:49,060
So we're real excited about that.

435
00:14:49,160 --> 00:14:53,830
I honestly, guys, I'm gonna
be real with you, real talk.

436
00:14:55,210 --> 00:14:57,070
I don't know what the hell I'm doing.

437
00:14:57,850 --> 00:14:59,710
With what am I doing?

438
00:14:59,710 --> 00:15:03,430
Like we're gonna do a show
in front of an audience.

439
00:15:03,670 --> 00:15:03,940
Yeah.

440
00:15:03,940 --> 00:15:04,030
And.

441
00:15:05,530 --> 00:15:08,620
I, like I said, I've never listened to
a podcast I was telling you about that.

442
00:15:08,800 --> 00:15:10,180
I already told you how we're gonna do it.

443
00:15:10,240 --> 00:15:15,010
And you've attended a live podcast
before, so you know how this thing goes.

444
00:15:15,010 --> 00:15:15,160
Yes.

445
00:15:15,430 --> 00:15:16,960
I don't know how this thing goes.

446
00:15:17,260 --> 00:15:19,330
And so I've got my little equipment.

447
00:15:19,330 --> 00:15:22,570
I'm gonna have everything set
up and the way I have this in my

448
00:15:22,570 --> 00:15:24,070
head, this is what I'm thinking.

449
00:15:24,070 --> 00:15:24,460
Okay.

450
00:15:24,640 --> 00:15:27,430
Okay guys, this is what I'm thinking.

451
00:15:28,210 --> 00:15:30,055
Let's knock this shit down.

452
00:15:30,725 --> 00:15:31,215
Okay, go.

453
00:15:31,215 --> 00:15:34,150
This is what I'm thinking is essentially.

454
00:15:35,815 --> 00:15:38,485
You and I we're gonna be,
we're gonna be here up front,

455
00:15:38,485 --> 00:15:39,415
we're gonna have a table there.

456
00:15:39,415 --> 00:15:41,310
We'll have all of our,
we'll have our mics.

457
00:15:41,310 --> 00:15:41,590
Mm-hmm.

458
00:15:41,670 --> 00:15:42,835
We'll have a mic towards the back.

459
00:15:42,890 --> 00:15:43,910
Audience will be there.

460
00:15:44,510 --> 00:15:46,010
Everybody's sitting down back.

461
00:15:46,160 --> 00:15:47,595
Audience sit down Co correcto.

462
00:15:47,595 --> 00:15:47,875
Got it.

463
00:15:47,875 --> 00:15:50,060
We're gonna have our phones facing us.

464
00:15:50,150 --> 00:15:50,330
Okay.

465
00:15:50,360 --> 00:15:52,970
We'll have this on, uh, on Facebook Live.

466
00:15:53,030 --> 00:15:53,240
Okay.

467
00:15:53,540 --> 00:15:54,110
You know what I'm saying?

468
00:15:54,200 --> 00:15:54,350
Yeah.

469
00:15:54,710 --> 00:15:56,240
And we'll have the
audience in front of us.

470
00:15:56,915 --> 00:16:05,165
And I'm thinking we will do half a
show of us discussing the events.

471
00:16:05,165 --> 00:16:05,855
We'll, something, yeah.

472
00:16:05,945 --> 00:16:08,765
Or a topic, whatever
like we normally would.

473
00:16:09,305 --> 00:16:14,975
But then we will open the other half
of the show up to Q and As, and that

474
00:16:14,975 --> 00:16:17,165
will be the last part of the show.

475
00:16:18,335 --> 00:16:18,725
I don't know.

476
00:16:18,875 --> 00:16:19,325
What do you think?

477
00:16:19,985 --> 00:16:20,435
What do you think?

478
00:16:20,930 --> 00:16:21,560
Is that a thing?

479
00:16:21,590 --> 00:16:22,220
Would that be a thing?

480
00:16:22,340 --> 00:16:24,860
Would that be a Well, at my
podcast, they just did a show.

481
00:16:25,820 --> 00:16:26,330
Yes.

482
00:16:26,390 --> 00:16:28,640
And they didn't have anybody in interact.

483
00:16:28,915 --> 00:16:30,500
I, I completely understand that.

484
00:16:30,500 --> 00:16:32,180
We didn't, but that was also a true crime.

485
00:16:32,180 --> 00:16:32,390
Yeah.

486
00:16:32,390 --> 00:16:33,140
Very different.

487
00:16:33,140 --> 00:16:35,240
So, um, and I don't, I
know, let's brainstorm.

488
00:16:35,240 --> 00:16:37,160
It's not really educational informed.

489
00:16:37,190 --> 00:16:37,250
Yeah.

490
00:16:37,250 --> 00:16:40,820
I mean, we're gonna have people
here who like to ask questions.

491
00:16:40,850 --> 00:16:41,150
Okay.

492
00:16:41,150 --> 00:16:42,380
Well hold on, pause.

493
00:16:42,620 --> 00:16:44,510
Did you just say what?

494
00:16:44,600 --> 00:16:46,550
That my, Ashley and my Brit.

495
00:16:47,110 --> 00:16:48,005
Oh, I, uh, oh.

496
00:16:48,215 --> 00:16:49,715
We're not giving advice.

497
00:16:49,715 --> 00:16:50,255
No, no, no, no.

498
00:16:50,255 --> 00:16:51,815
I didn't say they weren't giving advice.

499
00:16:51,815 --> 00:16:52,715
I didn't say that at all.

500
00:16:52,745 --> 00:16:53,465
What'd you say?

501
00:16:53,885 --> 00:16:56,855
I said, okay, so I,
that it was educational.

502
00:16:56,915 --> 00:17:00,135
Well, I'm saying that we our niche uhhuh.

503
00:17:01,200 --> 00:17:01,935
That we have.

504
00:17:01,955 --> 00:17:02,375
Mm-hmm.

505
00:17:02,635 --> 00:17:05,790
We have a lot of new people
who need to know certain things

506
00:17:05,790 --> 00:17:07,410
or they're questioning things.

507
00:17:07,410 --> 00:17:07,420
Yes.

508
00:17:07,420 --> 00:17:10,680
Or they, they want to know
our opinions about things.

509
00:17:10,680 --> 00:17:10,770
Yes.

510
00:17:11,010 --> 00:17:16,770
Whereas your people, your little True
Crime podcast, they, Uhhuh is more

511
00:17:16,770 --> 00:17:19,200
telling a story, but they are educational.

512
00:17:19,300 --> 00:17:23,890
We're not telling a story
because they say, be loud.

513
00:17:24,655 --> 00:17:25,615
Be rude.

514
00:17:26,395 --> 00:17:26,845
Be rude.

515
00:17:27,055 --> 00:17:27,415
Yeah.

516
00:17:27,445 --> 00:17:29,605
'cause when you're getting
attacked, you need a B or

517
00:17:29,605 --> 00:17:30,835
someone's trying to come at you.

518
00:17:31,405 --> 00:17:31,825
All right.

519
00:17:31,825 --> 00:17:32,125
All right.

520
00:17:32,125 --> 00:17:33,500
This isn't the True Crime podcast.

521
00:17:33,500 --> 00:17:34,175
We're doing crime stuff.

522
00:17:34,175 --> 00:17:34,895
We're not doing that.

523
00:17:34,925 --> 00:17:35,165
Okay.

524
00:17:35,165 --> 00:17:39,395
So, so I think that, uh, a q and
a let, good brainstorm on that.

525
00:17:39,745 --> 00:17:41,545
But you know, I mean,
there's other stuff too.

526
00:17:42,170 --> 00:17:42,805
I, yeah, I know.

527
00:17:42,805 --> 00:17:46,525
So the thing is, is I'm opening it up to
q and a, but we're, we're not announcing

528
00:17:46,525 --> 00:17:48,235
who these people are on our show.

529
00:17:48,415 --> 00:17:48,565
Mm-hmm.

530
00:17:48,805 --> 00:17:48,865
Yeah.

531
00:17:48,865 --> 00:17:50,545
So they would have anonymity.

532
00:17:50,545 --> 00:17:51,985
They wouldn't be filmed or anything.

533
00:17:51,985 --> 00:17:53,725
It's just a matter of
them going up to the mic.

534
00:17:54,055 --> 00:17:54,395
They would be.

535
00:17:54,745 --> 00:17:57,595
They wouldn't be discreet in
front of a room full of swingers.

536
00:17:57,595 --> 00:17:59,275
I mean, we all know who they are.

537
00:17:59,365 --> 00:18:00,625
Yeah, they're there.

538
00:18:01,175 --> 00:18:05,265
But they could easily just
go to the microphone and say,

539
00:18:05,625 --> 00:18:07,305
um, yes, I have a question.

540
00:18:07,425 --> 00:18:13,765
I was just wondering Adam, if maybe
it's difficult for you to live your life

541
00:18:14,135 --> 00:18:20,745
with such a, a humongous Wang, and I'll
be like, honey, can you answer that?

542
00:18:21,795 --> 00:18:22,905
Are we talking about the same, Adam?

543
00:18:23,535 --> 00:18:24,705
Dang.

544
00:18:24,705 --> 00:18:24,795
Geez.

545
00:18:27,315 --> 00:18:28,365
I can't hang with you, man.

546
00:18:28,365 --> 00:18:29,295
That's just abuse.

547
00:18:29,355 --> 00:18:31,725
Yeah, no, we should, um, let's
talk about like what we're

548
00:18:31,725 --> 00:18:33,700
gonna do detail wise on that.

549
00:18:33,700 --> 00:18:33,860
Okay.

550
00:18:33,865 --> 00:18:36,425
That would, that's a really
good I like where you're going.

551
00:18:37,865 --> 00:18:39,935
I think that's a really great idea.

552
00:18:40,625 --> 00:18:41,075
Thank you.

553
00:18:41,285 --> 00:18:43,055
Yeah, it's a really great idea.

554
00:18:43,265 --> 00:18:44,855
I mean, it's, it's coming outta nowhere.

555
00:18:44,885 --> 00:18:46,445
'cause like I said, I've never
been to one of these things before.

556
00:18:46,445 --> 00:18:46,505
Yeah.

557
00:18:46,505 --> 00:18:47,900
So, we'll look into it, but I, I think.

558
00:18:48,545 --> 00:18:50,075
I think you're headed the right way.

559
00:18:50,495 --> 00:18:53,645
We just need to kind of figure
out the logistics of it all.

560
00:18:54,005 --> 00:18:59,375
I don't know, you guys, if you have
an opinion, I'd love to hear it and

561
00:18:59,375 --> 00:19:00,635
you know where you can leave it.

562
00:19:02,060 --> 00:19:04,325
It sounds like I'm gonna be an
asshole and be like, show it up.

563
00:19:04,325 --> 00:19:05,975
You're at No, I'm not gonna say that.

564
00:19:06,215 --> 00:19:10,595
I actually, if you go to our
website, Uhhuh, www, is that

565
00:19:10,595 --> 00:19:11,320
where you want me to put my.

566
00:19:11,720 --> 00:19:13,280
What my stuff to you?

567
00:19:13,400 --> 00:19:14,270
No goodness though.

568
00:19:14,270 --> 00:19:19,160
If you go to our website,
www.beyond-monogamy.com, if you go

569
00:19:19,160 --> 00:19:24,650
there, you will actually be able
to go to a little tab that says,

570
00:19:24,650 --> 00:19:25,805
beyond Monogamy, confessional.

571
00:19:26,990 --> 00:19:32,450
And this is an anonymous thing
I've created anonymously.

572
00:19:32,870 --> 00:19:33,260
Yes.

573
00:19:33,260 --> 00:19:34,010
That's how, yeah.

574
00:19:34,070 --> 00:19:34,970
It is so cool.

575
00:19:34,970 --> 00:19:35,210
Guys.

576
00:19:35,210 --> 00:19:36,530
I don't know why y'all haven't gone there.

577
00:19:36,710 --> 00:19:38,810
Yeah, well we've had some
people actually already.

578
00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:39,380
Oh, have you?

579
00:19:40,010 --> 00:19:40,460
Yeah.

580
00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:42,140
And uh, it's really, it's.

581
00:19:42,290 --> 00:19:43,910
It really is truly anonymous.

582
00:19:43,940 --> 00:19:44,000
Yeah.

583
00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:45,770
I have no idea who submitted these ones.

584
00:19:46,110 --> 00:19:50,880
And so I, I do have a couple that I'm
gonna be doing shows on at some point.

585
00:19:51,240 --> 00:19:54,930
And that's really the thing is this is
an anonymous thing that you can go in

586
00:19:54,930 --> 00:19:58,740
there, you can tell us your stories, you
can tell us your opinions, you can tell

587
00:19:58,740 --> 00:20:04,480
us what you are struggling with, maybe
what, what you feel about the lifestyle.

588
00:20:04,480 --> 00:20:05,770
You can talk about the podcast.

589
00:20:05,770 --> 00:20:08,645
You can give us suggestions about
what you'd, uh, like to hear.

590
00:20:10,495 --> 00:20:14,005
So yeah, I, I think the Beyond Monogamy
confessional is really, really cool.

591
00:20:14,065 --> 00:20:14,305
Yeah.

592
00:20:14,395 --> 00:20:19,470
And I think that, uh, we could
we could really, uh, focus on

593
00:20:19,470 --> 00:20:21,270
your, whatever you got to say.

594
00:20:21,270 --> 00:20:22,530
We can put it on the show.

595
00:20:22,535 --> 00:20:22,555
Yeah.

596
00:20:23,070 --> 00:20:23,340
Yeah.

597
00:20:23,580 --> 00:20:27,435
But go in there and, and let us know
what you're thinking on a, on our little.

598
00:20:28,605 --> 00:20:29,685
Event that we're gonna be.

599
00:20:30,045 --> 00:20:33,295
Yeah, I'm just curious if you have some
suggestions he's curious to talk about.

600
00:20:33,295 --> 00:20:33,520
I'm just curious.

601
00:20:33,735 --> 00:20:34,335
Just curious.

602
00:20:34,335 --> 00:20:35,355
It doesn't mean I'm gonna use it.

603
00:20:35,745 --> 00:20:36,315
Just curious.

604
00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:36,440
Yeah.

605
00:20:36,690 --> 00:20:37,240
We're gonna brainstorm.

606
00:20:37,240 --> 00:20:38,745
Maybe somebody can think outside the box.

607
00:20:38,745 --> 00:20:39,615
We're gonna brainstorm.

608
00:20:39,615 --> 00:20:40,035
That's right.

609
00:20:40,035 --> 00:20:41,825
But I think you have an idea there.

610
00:20:41,830 --> 00:20:41,930
Yeah.

611
00:20:41,930 --> 00:20:42,695
Just, yeah.

612
00:20:42,700 --> 00:20:43,805
You just need to mold it.

613
00:20:43,865 --> 00:20:44,315
Maybe.

614
00:20:44,615 --> 00:20:47,945
I do know that we're gonna be
doing a lot more events next year.

615
00:20:48,455 --> 00:20:48,575
Yes.

616
00:20:48,605 --> 00:20:53,045
Um, so we will be at the end of January.

617
00:20:53,705 --> 00:20:55,385
Literally the end of January 31st.

618
00:20:55,385 --> 00:20:55,475
Mm-hmm.

619
00:20:55,715 --> 00:21:00,365
To February 1st, we
will be at a, an event.

620
00:21:00,980 --> 00:21:03,090
Through fullswapradio.com.

621
00:21:03,110 --> 00:21:03,200
Mm-hmm.

622
00:21:03,440 --> 00:21:06,650
Which, uh, is an adult streaming
station that we are on.

623
00:21:07,300 --> 00:21:11,020
And they actually are
having like a winter bash.

624
00:21:11,890 --> 00:21:16,160
And uh, we will be attending
that in Missouri, Kansas

625
00:21:16,160 --> 00:21:17,305
City, Missouri, Kansas City.

626
00:21:17,570 --> 00:21:19,580
Uh, so that's a weekend long trip there.

627
00:21:19,585 --> 00:21:20,390
That'll be interesting.

628
00:21:20,630 --> 00:21:24,620
And then from there, we've got some
other stuff going on throughout the.

629
00:21:24,710 --> 00:21:27,560
The year we are probably
gonna be making a trip.

630
00:21:27,620 --> 00:21:28,160
Oh, we are.

631
00:21:28,160 --> 00:21:31,430
We're gonna be making a
trip to Denver, Colorado.

632
00:21:31,480 --> 00:21:35,320
We have Labor Day, what's in September?

633
00:21:36,130 --> 00:21:36,760
Labor Day.

634
00:21:36,760 --> 00:21:38,500
I think Labor Day weekend.

635
00:21:38,500 --> 00:21:40,270
We will be in

636
00:21:41,270 --> 00:21:41,850
Los Angeles.

637
00:21:43,270 --> 00:21:46,025
Yes, we will be in Los
Angeles Labor Day weekend.

638
00:21:46,085 --> 00:21:50,705
And then I'm working on.

639
00:21:52,205 --> 00:21:53,975
A Florida trip.

640
00:21:56,165 --> 00:21:57,065
A Florida trip.

641
00:21:57,245 --> 00:21:59,285
Oh man, that should be interesting.

642
00:21:59,315 --> 00:22:02,705
I wanna go wherever Amber and them are.

643
00:22:03,125 --> 00:22:03,965
Savage, swingers.

644
00:22:03,965 --> 00:22:05,075
Savage, swingers.

645
00:22:05,465 --> 00:22:07,115
Where they're, where they
are, wherever they're at.

646
00:22:07,115 --> 00:22:10,865
I wanna go with them to one of
their places, one of their events.

647
00:22:10,895 --> 00:22:11,135
Mm-hmm.

648
00:22:11,495 --> 00:22:13,995
So I'm gonna try to set that up with her.

649
00:22:14,775 --> 00:22:17,715
For those of you who don't know,
you can look at a past episode.

650
00:22:17,715 --> 00:22:21,375
We actually had, uh, Savage
Swingers on Amber and Jeff.

651
00:22:21,375 --> 00:22:25,875
They were, uh, they are content
creators for the lifestyle on TikTok.

652
00:22:25,875 --> 00:22:26,655
They're super cool.

653
00:22:26,655 --> 00:22:28,705
So I think I wanna do
one of their events, but.

654
00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:33,570
There's a lot of, um, a lot of
opportunities there, guys, if y'all wanna

655
00:22:33,660 --> 00:22:37,340
go and chill with us or just get out.

656
00:22:37,610 --> 00:22:41,820
See, this is the hard part about being
a podcaster who's getting out and

657
00:22:41,820 --> 00:22:43,260
meeting new people and stuff like that.

658
00:22:43,880 --> 00:22:45,970
Is the events portion of.

659
00:22:46,555 --> 00:22:48,985
I, this is why I don't
handle the logistics of it.

660
00:22:48,985 --> 00:22:49,045
Yeah.

661
00:22:49,045 --> 00:22:51,895
And this is why you do, I get
very anxious because I'm like,

662
00:22:51,895 --> 00:22:53,155
dude, nobody's gonna show.

663
00:22:53,605 --> 00:22:55,705
Oh, I mean, you're already
going somewhere, so it doesn't

664
00:22:55,705 --> 00:22:56,635
matter if anybody shows.

665
00:22:56,635 --> 00:22:59,005
I know, but still it's just like, ugh.

666
00:22:59,785 --> 00:23:00,955
It's like rejection.

667
00:23:00,955 --> 00:23:01,435
Yo.

668
00:23:02,035 --> 00:23:03,535
No, don't think of it like that.

669
00:23:03,535 --> 00:23:04,870
Oh, guys, it's, it's fun.

670
00:23:04,870 --> 00:23:05,400
I'm very fragile.

671
00:23:05,740 --> 00:23:06,205
Oh, I am.

672
00:23:06,205 --> 00:23:10,050
I would love for you guys to
go and meet us, but I am not

673
00:23:10,050 --> 00:23:12,120
going specifically for that.

674
00:23:12,120 --> 00:23:13,530
I'm going to have some fun.

675
00:23:14,655 --> 00:23:15,225
At a different place.

676
00:23:15,250 --> 00:23:17,115
I know, I think I'm going
specifically for that.

677
00:23:17,625 --> 00:23:20,985
I'm, I just, I'm thinking that
if nobody shows up, look at me.

678
00:23:21,045 --> 00:23:22,335
Look at me in the eyeball.

679
00:23:22,365 --> 00:23:22,845
Right here.

680
00:23:22,905 --> 00:23:23,325
Look at me.

681
00:23:24,345 --> 00:23:26,175
This guy will be very, very sad.

682
00:23:27,030 --> 00:23:30,660
If nobody shows up to one of our events,
oh my gosh, I can't even imagine.

683
00:23:30,990 --> 00:23:34,860
I know that if it was here in Texas,
I could probably get some people

684
00:23:34,860 --> 00:23:36,780
from our local community to go.

685
00:23:37,180 --> 00:23:41,080
But if you're talking about skipping
town to another state, oh my gosh.

686
00:23:41,350 --> 00:23:45,000
I know that we got listeners in other
states, but goodness gracious I don't

687
00:23:45,000 --> 00:23:46,500
know if you guys are gonna show up.

688
00:23:48,150 --> 00:23:49,530
That thought just kills me.

689
00:23:49,980 --> 00:23:50,940
That's very scary.

690
00:23:51,090 --> 00:23:51,150
Yeah.

691
00:23:51,900 --> 00:23:52,500
Very scary.

692
00:23:52,500 --> 00:23:52,920
Harry Care.

693
00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:52,980
Yeah.

694
00:23:53,400 --> 00:23:54,120
Don't be scared, baby.

695
00:23:54,420 --> 00:23:55,080
No, I'll be there with you.

696
00:23:55,740 --> 00:23:56,490
Well, this is true.

697
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:59,310
If anything, I always have you,
I'll put different masks on.

698
00:23:59,835 --> 00:24:02,265
I'll let all my personalities come out.

699
00:24:02,505 --> 00:24:03,285
Yeah, that's weird.

700
00:24:04,995 --> 00:24:07,275
That is weird and kind of scary.

701
00:24:07,275 --> 00:24:08,715
I'd be like, I'm one of your followers.

702
00:24:08,980 --> 00:24:09,200
Oh.

703
00:24:11,100 --> 00:24:12,285
Oh my gosh.

704
00:24:12,285 --> 00:24:12,765
Really?

705
00:24:13,785 --> 00:24:14,655
That's so scary.

706
00:24:15,945 --> 00:24:17,175
You know, that scares me.

707
00:24:17,955 --> 00:24:20,685
And the Halloween is over, so we
don't have to do that anymore.

708
00:24:20,865 --> 00:24:21,105
Yeah.

709
00:24:21,105 --> 00:24:22,845
So we have a few events.

710
00:24:22,915 --> 00:24:26,545
We're not doing international events yet.

711
00:24:27,145 --> 00:24:28,645
We have to wait because.

712
00:24:29,005 --> 00:24:30,715
That's expensive.

713
00:24:31,255 --> 00:24:31,855
Yeah.

714
00:24:31,855 --> 00:24:33,835
We, we ain't got no passport
and we've got children.

715
00:24:33,835 --> 00:24:35,905
We cannot be just leaving the country.

716
00:24:36,745 --> 00:24:37,135
Yeah.

717
00:24:37,695 --> 00:24:39,975
Unfortunately, yeah, unfortunately.

718
00:24:39,975 --> 00:24:40,035
Yeah.

719
00:24:40,395 --> 00:24:46,215
So if you had to give advice to somebody
who's new to the lifestyle and they're

720
00:24:46,725 --> 00:24:53,745
maybe looking for events, what, what are
good places to find events for new people?

721
00:24:54,255 --> 00:24:56,385
I would go to different platforms.

722
00:24:56,385 --> 00:25:01,565
So there are, there's
SDC, SDC is a good one.

723
00:25:01,570 --> 00:25:01,610
Mm-hmm.

724
00:25:01,695 --> 00:25:01,775
Yeah.

725
00:25:01,775 --> 00:25:01,865
Mm-hmm.

726
00:25:01,865 --> 00:25:03,335
Kasidie is a good one.

727
00:25:03,340 --> 00:25:03,530
Yeah.

728
00:25:03,755 --> 00:25:03,905
Yeah.

729
00:25:04,005 --> 00:25:06,135
Those places will have events.

730
00:25:06,135 --> 00:25:09,030
There's an event tab you can get on there.

731
00:25:09,290 --> 00:25:12,555
You can see what parties are in
your local area, what parties

732
00:25:12,555 --> 00:25:14,355
are outside of your local area.

733
00:25:14,745 --> 00:25:15,385
A lot of the.

734
00:25:16,465 --> 00:25:20,005
Places or the parties, some
of them are open to whomever.

735
00:25:20,005 --> 00:25:21,415
They just want you to send 'em a message.

736
00:25:21,715 --> 00:25:23,425
So I would start there.

737
00:25:23,425 --> 00:25:29,695
If I was brand new and I just happened
to come across your handsome face, head

738
00:25:29,695 --> 00:25:37,315
low, I'd stop and be like, where can I
find people like you, sir? I'd be like,

739
00:25:37,315 --> 00:25:38,425
girl, I'm right here in front of you.

740
00:25:38,485 --> 00:25:42,595
Okay, but what if I want
you and your friend?

741
00:25:42,985 --> 00:25:44,945
Where do I find those kind of play dates?

742
00:25:45,280 --> 00:25:46,420
Oh yeah.

743
00:25:46,540 --> 00:25:46,930
Wow.

744
00:25:46,990 --> 00:25:47,530
There you go.

745
00:25:47,830 --> 00:25:49,640
You're gonna be like SDC.

746
00:25:49,780 --> 00:25:49,930
Yeah.

747
00:25:49,930 --> 00:25:52,540
And hey, Pris and Adam have a bi.

748
00:25:52,540 --> 00:25:53,980
In their bio, there's a link.

749
00:25:53,980 --> 00:25:54,520
Oh, that's true.

750
00:25:54,520 --> 00:25:54,970
That's true.

751
00:25:54,970 --> 00:25:56,750
And we, we do have a link for SDC.

752
00:25:56,765 --> 00:25:56,965
There you go.

753
00:25:56,980 --> 00:25:59,920
So there's a, that's where I would
go, a good jumping off point, but we

754
00:25:59,920 --> 00:26:01,210
also have a link for Kasidie as well.

755
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:01,330
Yeah.

756
00:26:01,600 --> 00:26:03,250
So if you are interested
in either one of those.

757
00:26:04,000 --> 00:26:05,200
You can look at our show notes.

758
00:26:05,200 --> 00:26:06,640
We will have you set up there.

759
00:26:06,640 --> 00:26:11,140
So newbies, if you want any information,
we give you the platforms for it.

760
00:26:11,140 --> 00:26:12,520
There's so many.

761
00:26:12,550 --> 00:26:15,040
Get on the website, scroll all the way to
the bottom, you'll see all our socials,

762
00:26:15,040 --> 00:26:17,770
but on there you'll see everything.

763
00:26:18,040 --> 00:26:18,340
Yeah.

764
00:26:18,340 --> 00:26:23,380
You know, I will say that I didn't realize
just how popular, uh, SDC is, and I

765
00:26:23,380 --> 00:26:27,910
hear very often, I, I always like to ask
people about when I see them at events.

766
00:26:27,910 --> 00:26:29,320
Well, how did you find this event?

767
00:26:29,350 --> 00:26:29,680
Yeah.

768
00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:31,640
And I hear often.

769
00:26:32,295 --> 00:26:33,535
Well, I found it on SDC.

770
00:26:33,555 --> 00:26:33,915
Yeah.

771
00:26:34,305 --> 00:26:35,085
And I'm like, wow.

772
00:26:35,145 --> 00:26:35,985
It's an app.

773
00:26:36,015 --> 00:26:36,555
Yeah.

774
00:26:36,555 --> 00:26:37,935
There's a free version and yeah.

775
00:26:37,935 --> 00:26:38,985
You gotta pay for it.

776
00:26:38,985 --> 00:26:43,015
But guys, I'm a I'm tight with my money.

777
00:26:43,225 --> 00:26:43,285
Yeah.

778
00:26:43,315 --> 00:26:46,615
And that if, if you're going to be
in the lifestyle and you're going to

779
00:26:46,615 --> 00:26:50,275
do it correctly, I would start there.

780
00:26:51,535 --> 00:26:51,895
Yeah.

781
00:26:51,985 --> 00:26:52,255
Yeah.

782
00:26:52,285 --> 00:26:54,565
You know, I wish I had known
that when we had started.

783
00:26:54,565 --> 00:26:54,625
Yeah.

784
00:26:54,655 --> 00:26:56,815
But I don't, I don't know if
they were around at that time.

785
00:26:56,845 --> 00:26:58,765
Um, there was other
platforms that we were on.

786
00:26:58,765 --> 00:26:59,485
There were, yeah.

787
00:26:59,500 --> 00:27:00,535
And they were not good.

788
00:27:01,015 --> 00:27:01,375
But yeah.

789
00:27:01,375 --> 00:27:03,175
This place was here That
was there already, was it?

790
00:27:03,175 --> 00:27:03,565
I think so.

791
00:27:03,565 --> 00:27:03,805
Yeah.

792
00:27:03,805 --> 00:27:06,685
I, I guess 'cause we weren't in a bigger
city, we didn't really know about it.

793
00:27:06,685 --> 00:27:08,605
We weren't, we didn't like
paying for it like back then.

794
00:27:08,605 --> 00:27:09,265
Oh gosh, so bad.

795
00:27:09,265 --> 00:27:12,775
We were kind of just dipping our toes
locally and not really taking care of it.

796
00:27:12,775 --> 00:27:15,135
But yeah, it's that,
that's where I would start.

797
00:27:15,165 --> 00:27:16,245
You can get a lot.

798
00:27:16,860 --> 00:27:20,250
Of information there, and there's
really a lot of people on that platform.

799
00:27:20,340 --> 00:27:20,855
There is, my goodness.

800
00:27:21,480 --> 00:27:22,500
Yeah, I never realized.

801
00:27:22,780 --> 00:27:26,740
That is definitely good advice to,
to give newbies as far as events.

802
00:27:26,740 --> 00:27:26,800
Yeah.

803
00:27:27,020 --> 00:27:29,840
Another one would be Facebook communities.

804
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:34,350
I know that they're hard to get into
because a lot of the really good Facebook

805
00:27:34,350 --> 00:27:35,940
communities, a lot of the really.

806
00:27:36,310 --> 00:27:39,280
Good Facebook groups, you
have to, they're vetted.

807
00:27:39,280 --> 00:27:40,930
You have to be invited to them.

808
00:27:40,930 --> 00:27:41,680
You have to be invited.

809
00:27:41,680 --> 00:27:45,100
Uh, now somebody had asked me,
well, if I have to be invited to

810
00:27:45,100 --> 00:27:46,720
them, how do I get invited to them?

811
00:27:46,750 --> 00:27:46,960
Yeah.

812
00:27:46,960 --> 00:27:48,220
Which is a really great question.

813
00:27:48,220 --> 00:27:49,150
Uh, it's, it's a valid question.

814
00:27:49,155 --> 00:27:50,035
It's a really good question.

815
00:27:50,340 --> 00:27:51,690
You can go to a club.

816
00:27:52,700 --> 00:27:57,020
So this is the one thing that I hear often
is that you, that people go to a club

817
00:27:57,020 --> 00:28:00,680
their first time out and they meet the
people at the club because a lot of these

818
00:28:00,680 --> 00:28:02,450
clubs are very, very friendly people.

819
00:28:02,450 --> 00:28:02,960
Mm-hmm.

820
00:28:03,095 --> 00:28:07,580
And a lot of times people will ask
you, they'll say, are you on Facebook?

821
00:28:07,940 --> 00:28:08,810
Are you in this group?

822
00:28:09,230 --> 00:28:12,650
And that's when you say, I'm
not, but how do I get there?

823
00:28:12,650 --> 00:28:12,710
Yeah.

824
00:28:12,710 --> 00:28:14,420
And they'll say, let me friend you.

825
00:28:14,900 --> 00:28:15,800
I'll get you in the group.

826
00:28:15,860 --> 00:28:16,070
Yeah.

827
00:28:16,070 --> 00:28:18,350
Everybody wants to be that person, right?

828
00:28:18,350 --> 00:28:18,440
Yes.

829
00:28:18,710 --> 00:28:21,440
That wants to, to bring
in the, the cool people.

830
00:28:21,500 --> 00:28:21,740
Yeah.

831
00:28:22,100 --> 00:28:24,800
Uh, so that's definitely recommended.

832
00:28:24,800 --> 00:28:25,910
You can give that a shot.

833
00:28:25,910 --> 00:28:29,130
I think Facebook communities
are very good to have around.

834
00:28:29,530 --> 00:28:29,775
They're good.

835
00:28:30,645 --> 00:28:32,295
To attend, meet and greets.

836
00:28:32,385 --> 00:28:33,015
Yes.

837
00:28:33,075 --> 00:28:35,895
Oftentimes those same meet
and greets will be Yes.

838
00:28:35,925 --> 00:28:39,615
Posted on SDC as well, I believe,
and, and Kasidie and things like that.

839
00:28:39,615 --> 00:28:42,145
But they really have people.

840
00:28:42,145 --> 00:28:43,075
It's a community.

841
00:28:43,135 --> 00:28:43,825
It is, yeah.

842
00:28:43,830 --> 00:28:45,805
Of, of people locally.

843
00:28:46,165 --> 00:28:46,255
Mm-hmm.

844
00:28:46,495 --> 00:28:50,185
And they'll have naughty bingo events.

845
00:28:50,515 --> 00:28:50,695
Oh yeah.

846
00:28:50,695 --> 00:28:54,085
There's a lot of, so there's, there's,
now the communities are even bigger

847
00:28:54,085 --> 00:28:56,575
'cause like they have naughty bingo.

848
00:28:56,575 --> 00:28:58,215
They have, what's that other thing?

849
00:28:58,215 --> 00:28:59,265
They have not naughty.

850
00:28:59,265 --> 00:29:00,165
Bingo.

851
00:29:01,395 --> 00:29:01,755
I don't know.

852
00:29:01,785 --> 00:29:02,235
I don't know.

853
00:29:02,235 --> 00:29:04,785
It's not poker I'll,
it'll come back to me.

854
00:29:05,445 --> 00:29:05,715
But anyway.

855
00:29:05,715 --> 00:29:09,165
Well, for those of you who don't know
and can't, uh, read between the lines,

856
00:29:09,165 --> 00:29:13,155
naughty bingo is actually bingo.

857
00:29:13,485 --> 00:29:16,875
And if you win, you win adult prizes.

858
00:29:17,395 --> 00:29:21,615
And by adult prizes, stuff
that can be inserted.

859
00:29:22,380 --> 00:29:24,480
Or not, you know, adult toys.

860
00:29:25,530 --> 00:29:30,150
Well, yeah, but some people, adult toys
could mean a posable action figure.

861
00:29:30,150 --> 00:29:32,580
I mean, you don't know some people,
there's some freaks out there.

862
00:29:32,700 --> 00:29:33,630
I don't think so.

863
00:29:33,630 --> 00:29:35,280
I think you could have
been safe with that.

864
00:29:35,280 --> 00:29:36,540
There's some freaks out there.

865
00:29:36,780 --> 00:29:37,560
I'm just saying.

866
00:29:37,650 --> 00:29:39,720
So yeah, it's, um, yeah.

867
00:29:39,750 --> 00:29:42,150
So new newbies go there for sure.

868
00:29:42,750 --> 00:29:43,020
Yeah.

869
00:29:43,020 --> 00:29:46,110
And when you go to an event,
all right, you're already in.

870
00:29:46,785 --> 00:29:47,985
Introduce yourself.

871
00:29:48,045 --> 00:29:49,185
Go find the host.

872
00:29:49,245 --> 00:29:52,065
Go say who you are, whoever
invited you, go say hi.

873
00:29:52,725 --> 00:29:54,945
Okay guys, this is where we differ.

874
00:29:55,455 --> 00:29:56,505
You have to say hi.

875
00:29:56,505 --> 00:29:59,000
You're never gonna grow
your circle if you do not.

876
00:29:59,120 --> 00:29:59,535
I agree.

877
00:29:59,540 --> 00:30:00,040
Say hi to people.

878
00:30:00,045 --> 00:30:00,795
I do agree.

879
00:30:00,800 --> 00:30:02,080
I agree full heartedly.

880
00:30:02,080 --> 00:30:04,390
But let's be real guys.

881
00:30:04,660 --> 00:30:08,650
If you're new to this, you're not gonna
feel comfortable going around and,

882
00:30:08,650 --> 00:30:10,600
and introducing yourself to people.

883
00:30:10,840 --> 00:30:13,390
So here would be my suggestion.

884
00:30:15,205 --> 00:30:20,455
You go to the event, okay, you're
gonna hold up a wall for a while,

885
00:30:21,085 --> 00:30:23,395
you're gonna be at the event,
but you're gonna hold up a wall.

886
00:30:23,455 --> 00:30:24,655
Yeah, because you don't know anybody.

887
00:30:24,655 --> 00:30:25,555
You're gonna look around.

888
00:30:25,795 --> 00:30:26,275
But there's ways.

889
00:30:26,275 --> 00:30:32,965
Try and find one person, just one person
who seems to really be in the mix.

890
00:30:33,265 --> 00:30:34,075
And just watch 'em.

891
00:30:34,585 --> 00:30:35,245
Just watch 'em.

892
00:30:35,785 --> 00:30:39,295
Not in a creepy way, but just keep
your eye on this person that appears to

893
00:30:39,295 --> 00:30:43,105
be floating around and, and everybody
seems to know, 'cause at some point.

894
00:30:43,420 --> 00:30:44,500
They're gonna go to the bathroom.

895
00:30:45,280 --> 00:30:49,600
And when they do go to the bathroom
too, I hope they're of the same sex.

896
00:30:50,170 --> 00:30:55,600
Go to the bathroom and you
say, Hey, how you doing?

897
00:30:55,630 --> 00:31:01,050
I'm sorry that I met you here in the
bathroom, but I too am a swinger.

898
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:02,160
So you need a paper towel.

899
00:31:02,400 --> 00:31:07,510
And you know, I'm, I'm new to this
event and I don't have any idea how

900
00:31:07,510 --> 00:31:09,880
to go out there and talk to people.

901
00:31:09,880 --> 00:31:10,870
Do you think you can help me?

902
00:31:11,630 --> 00:31:12,020
Yeah.

903
00:31:12,620 --> 00:31:17,180
If I met somebody in the bathroom and told
me that, I'd be like, come on, let's go.

904
00:31:17,720 --> 00:31:19,040
Let me introduce you to my wife.

905
00:31:19,040 --> 00:31:20,540
This is the man I met in the bathroom.

906
00:31:20,540 --> 00:31:20,990
Oh God.

907
00:31:20,990 --> 00:31:23,690
I'd be like, yeah, no, it's
the man I met in the bathroom.

908
00:31:23,840 --> 00:31:24,740
He's a real nice guy.

909
00:31:25,520 --> 00:31:26,300
Gave me a paper towel.

910
00:31:28,130 --> 00:31:29,390
You should talk to him sometime.

911
00:31:29,420 --> 00:31:31,520
Is he the bathroom attendant?

912
00:31:32,750 --> 00:31:33,320
No.

913
00:31:33,890 --> 00:31:35,030
'cause it's a McDonald's.

914
00:31:35,540 --> 00:31:37,700
So I honestly, I, I will be honest.

915
00:31:38,240 --> 00:31:39,230
Start small.

916
00:31:39,260 --> 00:31:42,380
It, to me it's, it's kind of like
doing the whole toe in the water thing.

917
00:31:42,380 --> 00:31:46,490
When you know the water's cold,
you're inching your way in, right?

918
00:31:46,490 --> 00:31:49,010
So you start with one person,
that one person's gonna

919
00:31:49,010 --> 00:31:50,420
introduce you to a couple people.

920
00:31:50,660 --> 00:31:52,760
Then from there, before you know
it, you're in a small group.

921
00:31:52,760 --> 00:31:54,320
Then before you're in a bigger group.

922
00:31:54,320 --> 00:31:57,260
And then before you know it, you know all
these people, you're backing up 'cause

923
00:31:57,260 --> 00:31:58,550
you're like, dang, that's too many people.

924
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:01,910
And then, and then some of these people
are, some of them are really nice.

925
00:32:02,375 --> 00:32:05,285
Some of 'em are not, but
most of them are really nice.

926
00:32:05,615 --> 00:32:10,685
And most of 'em, once they see you in
the group, they may introduce themselves.

927
00:32:11,025 --> 00:32:14,085
But as you talk to others,
it starts getting a little

928
00:32:14,085 --> 00:32:16,065
bit easier to talk to others.

929
00:32:16,455 --> 00:32:19,935
It's easier to just look at somebody
and know that they are a part of the

930
00:32:19,965 --> 00:32:23,085
group and say, hi, I am so and so.

931
00:32:23,115 --> 00:32:23,595
Yeah.

932
00:32:23,725 --> 00:32:24,475
Nice to meet you.

933
00:32:24,475 --> 00:32:25,825
A lot of the groups have bracelets.

934
00:32:25,825 --> 00:32:27,565
When you go in, they'll give
you something to know that.

935
00:32:27,985 --> 00:32:29,005
You're in a big crowd.

936
00:32:29,405 --> 00:32:35,675
You mentioned something and I was
gonna say, oh, newbies, I get it.

937
00:32:36,095 --> 00:32:38,945
You're new to the territory,
you're new to the Facebook

938
00:32:38,945 --> 00:32:40,445
group, you're new to whatever.

939
00:32:41,225 --> 00:32:47,915
If you be aware that if you have a
profile picture and it is not of you.

940
00:32:49,940 --> 00:32:53,000
It's gonna be hard for
people to know who you are.

941
00:32:53,510 --> 00:32:54,165
Yeah, this is true.

942
00:32:54,165 --> 00:32:56,960
This is true in these groups,
you can do an introduction.

943
00:32:57,350 --> 00:33:07,070
I do not like to friend anybody on social
media that has a cartoony face picture.

944
00:33:07,070 --> 00:33:07,730
It's not you.

945
00:33:08,310 --> 00:33:09,990
And, or a picture of a car.

946
00:33:09,990 --> 00:33:10,980
Or a, a picture of, of a car.

947
00:33:10,980 --> 00:33:11,520
I get it.

948
00:33:11,520 --> 00:33:13,615
I totally understand.

949
00:33:14,090 --> 00:33:15,230
Discreetness discretion.

950
00:33:15,235 --> 00:33:15,525
Yeah.

951
00:33:15,525 --> 00:33:15,535
Yeah.

952
00:33:15,765 --> 00:33:17,120
I, I, I totally get it.

953
00:33:17,120 --> 00:33:21,445
But um, just keep in mind that if you have
that, make an introduction in the group.

954
00:33:22,520 --> 00:33:25,610
And the group tabs always have
events and stuff like that, so.

955
00:33:25,720 --> 00:33:26,170
Totally.

956
00:33:26,410 --> 00:33:26,500
Yeah.

957
00:33:26,560 --> 00:33:29,560
Uh, I think that's, that's a really
good point because I've heard

958
00:33:29,560 --> 00:33:33,820
new people, uh, show up at events
and get upset that nobody Yeah.

959
00:33:33,820 --> 00:33:34,900
Has come up to them.

960
00:33:35,320 --> 00:33:38,860
Uh, and oftentimes it's because
nobody knows who they are.

961
00:33:38,950 --> 00:33:39,370
Oh, yeah.

962
00:33:39,430 --> 00:33:41,890
Uh, and then of course they're
new and they're not hobnobbing

963
00:33:41,890 --> 00:33:43,690
with people, so nobody knows.

964
00:33:43,900 --> 00:33:47,830
Most of these meet and greets
oftentimes are held in vanilla bars.

965
00:33:47,830 --> 00:33:48,220
Mm-hmm.

966
00:33:48,520 --> 00:33:49,300
And so, if.

967
00:33:49,765 --> 00:33:53,935
You haven't made yourself known to
some people, they're not gonna know

968
00:33:53,935 --> 00:33:56,245
that you're a part of the group, and
if they don't know you're a part of

969
00:33:56,245 --> 00:33:58,195
the group, they're not gonna assume.

970
00:33:58,645 --> 00:33:58,945
Yeah.

971
00:33:58,945 --> 00:34:01,495
Uh, we tend to keep to
ourselves when it comes to that.

972
00:34:01,495 --> 00:34:04,795
We don't just go to random people
and go, Hey, are you a swinger?

973
00:34:04,795 --> 00:34:04,855
Yeah.

974
00:34:05,335 --> 00:34:08,455
Because you're giving off swinger
vibes and maybe you should be with us.

975
00:34:08,505 --> 00:34:10,275
There are some people that have done that.

976
00:34:10,275 --> 00:34:13,485
I've seen it at, at meet and
greets, but I mean, you just need

977
00:34:13,485 --> 00:34:15,225
to keep in mind and be patient.

978
00:34:15,225 --> 00:34:15,730
And if it's.

979
00:34:16,665 --> 00:34:17,655
Really, really bad.

980
00:34:17,655 --> 00:34:20,175
Your anxiety, at least just
find one person mm-hmm.

981
00:34:20,445 --> 00:34:22,935
That can help introduce you to others.

982
00:34:22,995 --> 00:34:23,235
Yeah.

983
00:34:23,295 --> 00:34:25,665
And that, that would really
be my, my best advice.

984
00:34:25,665 --> 00:34:29,155
Now, as far as events go they
don't have to be that bad.

985
00:34:29,635 --> 00:34:31,555
I wouldn't suggest getting drunk.

986
00:34:32,485 --> 00:34:35,335
I understand that it's probably at a bar.

987
00:34:35,765 --> 00:34:39,255
But I really would suggest
you at least have a drink.

988
00:34:39,255 --> 00:34:40,755
But don't get outta control.

989
00:34:41,005 --> 00:34:42,715
You want to be on your best wits.

990
00:34:43,075 --> 00:34:47,095
At these places, people just the same
at meet and greets can get sexually

991
00:34:47,095 --> 00:34:50,515
assaulted just the same as you can in
a club, at a house party or whatever.

992
00:34:50,755 --> 00:34:51,895
Be aware of your surroundings.

993
00:34:51,895 --> 00:34:53,935
Always be aware of your surroundings.

994
00:34:54,145 --> 00:34:57,505
But outside of that, I know I'm giving
you a lot of scary stuff to think about.

995
00:34:57,505 --> 00:35:00,955
The community's really,
really, um, amazing.

996
00:35:01,105 --> 00:35:02,695
It's really a safe space where we're at.

997
00:35:02,695 --> 00:35:02,755
Yeah.

998
00:35:02,825 --> 00:35:06,215
I do, I can't speak for other
communities 'cause we're not in those

999
00:35:06,215 --> 00:35:10,685
other communities, but what we are
at, where we're at they're very, um.

1000
00:35:12,500 --> 00:35:14,900
We watch out for each other, so Yeah.

1001
00:35:14,960 --> 00:35:15,620
Yeah, we do.

1002
00:35:15,680 --> 00:35:16,070
We do.

1003
00:35:16,070 --> 00:35:20,780
So, uh, you know, I just wanted to give
a lot of people some things to think

1004
00:35:20,780 --> 00:35:24,410
about when it comes to events and let
you guys know what we have coming up.

1005
00:35:24,620 --> 00:35:24,680
Yeah.

1006
00:35:24,740 --> 00:35:28,910
But I just really wanted to say thank you
for everybody who listens week to week.

1007
00:35:28,910 --> 00:35:30,830
We really appreciate everybody's support.

1008
00:35:30,830 --> 00:35:33,080
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1009
00:35:33,360 --> 00:35:38,560
Everybody who really believes in what we
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1010
00:35:38,560 --> 00:35:39,910
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1011
00:35:40,390 --> 00:35:43,275
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1012
00:35:44,635 --> 00:35:48,445
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1013
00:35:48,445 --> 00:35:50,065
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1014
00:35:51,145 --> 00:35:55,165
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1015
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1017
00:35:58,850 --> 00:35:59,210
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1018
00:35:59,605 --> 00:35:59,935
Yeah.

1019
00:36:00,115 --> 00:36:00,925
Yes, absolutely.

1020
00:36:01,315 --> 00:36:04,165
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1022
00:36:12,940 --> 00:36:17,140
All of our podcasts, all of our past
shows, we also have that amazing

1023
00:36:17,140 --> 00:36:19,120
confessional that my honey created.

1024
00:36:19,120 --> 00:36:20,110
I think it's amazing.

1025
00:36:20,350 --> 00:36:23,290
We have a blog post 'cause he's amazing.

1026
00:36:23,295 --> 00:36:23,585
Thank you.

1027
00:36:23,590 --> 00:36:26,020
We have merch because I'm amazing.

1028
00:36:26,080 --> 00:36:26,350
Yes, she is.

1029
00:36:26,410 --> 00:36:28,840
And all the juicy extras are on there.

1030
00:36:28,840 --> 00:36:31,750
So don't like, don't skip
it because we're amazing.

1031
00:36:31,750 --> 00:36:32,345
You leave here.

1032
00:36:32,935 --> 00:36:33,955
Go to the website.

1033
00:36:34,045 --> 00:36:34,315
Yeah.

1034
00:36:34,315 --> 00:36:36,235
You know, really there's
a lot to be seen there.

1035
00:36:36,235 --> 00:36:38,730
It's not just a a, a
weak website like lot.

1036
00:36:38,730 --> 00:36:38,890
Yeah.

1037
00:36:38,890 --> 00:36:40,295
And tomorrow when you,
there's lot of love in there.

1038
00:36:40,295 --> 00:36:42,685
When you listen to our Wednesday
quickie, go and leave a review,

1039
00:36:43,135 --> 00:36:44,365
it doesn't take very long.

1040
00:36:44,805 --> 00:36:45,775
ChatGPT helps you.

1041
00:36:46,015 --> 00:36:46,915
Yeah, absolutely.

1042
00:36:46,915 --> 00:36:50,095
You know that, that really
would make a big deal for us.

1043
00:36:50,100 --> 00:36:50,210
Yes.

1044
00:36:50,230 --> 00:36:51,595
You know, it does, it does help us.

1045
00:36:51,595 --> 00:36:52,465
It helps us grow.

1046
00:36:52,525 --> 00:36:55,250
It helps us spread in, in it.

1047
00:36:55,840 --> 00:36:57,070
In a good way, I don't know.

1048
00:36:57,670 --> 00:37:02,335
Anyway, also, don't forget, our next
meet and greet is happening November

1049
00:37:02,335 --> 00:37:07,150
8th, like we said on Saturday at
Forbidden Fruit in Austin, and

1050
00:37:07,150 --> 00:37:08,860
we would love to see you there.

1051
00:37:08,950 --> 00:37:10,570
And I mean that 100%.

1052
00:37:10,570 --> 00:37:11,740
We would love to see you there.

1053
00:37:11,740 --> 00:37:14,860
We love to listen to our
listeners tell stories.

1054
00:37:14,890 --> 00:37:17,560
We love to meet with them and it
we're gonna have a lot going on

1055
00:37:17,560 --> 00:37:18,490
and there's a lot going on there.

1056
00:37:18,825 --> 00:37:19,335
Yeah, definitely.

1057
00:37:19,335 --> 00:37:22,245
And we'll have all the information in
our, yeah, everything will be in our show

1058
00:37:22,245 --> 00:37:27,035
notes and we'll have it on our website
under the events tab if you want any

1059
00:37:27,035 --> 00:37:29,045
information as far as where it's at.

1060
00:37:29,585 --> 00:37:33,335
You can find everything there under
our events tab at the website.

1061
00:37:33,715 --> 00:37:38,515
We're also streaming every
Thursday on full swap radio.com

1062
00:37:38,575 --> 00:37:41,065
at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central.

1063
00:37:41,275 --> 00:37:43,015
So tune into our show.

1064
00:37:43,675 --> 00:37:45,205
Give us some love there too.

1065
00:37:45,205 --> 00:37:47,545
You know, because we're needy.

1066
00:37:48,265 --> 00:37:48,925
A little bit.

1067
00:37:48,985 --> 00:37:50,040
Just a little bit, a little bit.

1068
00:37:50,425 --> 00:37:51,815
I mean, I'm really the needy one.

1069
00:37:51,815 --> 00:37:51,875
Yeah.

1070
00:37:51,975 --> 00:37:52,785
You're not so needy.

1071
00:37:54,285 --> 00:37:54,850
I'm needy with you.

1072
00:37:55,560 --> 00:37:56,910
True that I like that.

1073
00:37:56,910 --> 00:37:57,990
Don't ever stop being needy.

1074
00:37:59,250 --> 00:38:02,460
And if you want to help us
continue growing in this

1075
00:38:02,460 --> 00:38:08,550
community, join our Patreon at
patreon.com/beyondMonogamyWithAdamPris.

1076
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:13,320
Just forget the, and it's just
Adam PRIs because we had to Yes.

1077
00:38:13,920 --> 00:38:15,810
That's where you'll get early access to.

1078
00:38:16,755 --> 00:38:21,465
This show and other shows and behind the
scene moments and of course after hours

1079
00:38:21,465 --> 00:38:26,295
content, there is stuff what, there is
a little wink, wink little stuff that

1080
00:38:26,295 --> 00:38:30,735
we can't have on the TikTok and other
platforms, you know what I'm saying?

1081
00:38:31,155 --> 00:38:31,635
I do.

1082
00:38:31,725 --> 00:38:32,655
I think, you know what I'm saying?

1083
00:38:32,775 --> 00:38:33,345
Yes.

1084
00:38:33,405 --> 00:38:33,765
Yeah.

1085
00:38:34,105 --> 00:38:35,575
Be sure and check that out.

1086
00:38:35,575 --> 00:38:39,715
And with all of that, I just
wanna say thanks for listening

1087
00:38:40,225 --> 00:38:42,175
and we will see you next week.

1088
00:38:42,715 --> 00:38:42,985
Bye.