Aug. 10, 2025

Examining The Lull: When the Lifestyle Goes from Hot to...Not

Examining The Lull: When the Lifestyle Goes from Hot to...Not
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Examining The Lull: When the Lifestyle Goes from Hot to...Not

In this candid and unfiltered episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite tattooed duo takes on a topic every swinger, poly, and ethically non-monogamous couple hits sooner or later—the dreaded Lifestyle Lull. From burnout after back-to-back events, to the toll of repetitive routines, Adam & Pris share their own “meh” moments, why they happen, and the real-life ways they’ve reignited their spark without breaking boundaries.

You’ll hear the behind-the-scenes truth about juggling a packed LS schedule, family life, work, and the mental/emotional load that comes with always being “on” socially and sexually. They get into:

  • Signs you’re in a lifestyle rut (and why it’s totally normal)

  • How social burnout and “swinger hangovers” sneak up on you

  • Financial, family, and time realities no one talks about

  • The mental load of playing with new partners vs. your long-term partner

  • Fresh ways to recharge: new events, exploring kinks, changing your social circle

  • Why reconnecting with your partner might be the ultimate fix

Whether you’re brand-new to the Lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, this episode will have you nodding, laughing, and maybe rethinking your weekend plans.


Show Notes

Feeling like your swinger lifestyle has gone from hot to not? You’re not alone. In this week’s Beyond Monogamy Podcast, Adam & Pris talk openly about hitting a lifestyle lull—what causes it, how it affects both your sex life and social life, and the exact things they’ve done to bounce back.

From avoiding “repetitive event syndrome” to experimenting with new kinks, to finding the right people who recharge your energy, this episode is a must-listen for anyone in ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, or the swinging scene.

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