What It’s Really Like to Be a Unicorn in the Lifestyle — A Conversation with Jessica
Episode Title: Unicorns in the Lifestyle: Interview with a Real-Life Unicorn
Guests: Jessica (Unicorn), Adam & Pris
Duration: ~60 minutes
Published by: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
What Is a Unicorn in the Lifestyle?
In the world of ethical non-monogamy, a “unicorn” is a single, bisexual woman who’s open to joining an established couple—usually for fun, connection, and sometimes more. They’re often admired and sought-after, but being a unicorn isn’t just glitter and threesomes.
In this week’s episode of Beyond Monogamy, we sit down with our real-life unicorn friend, Jessica. She opens up about what it really means to be a unicorn in the lifestyle, how she got started, and what couples often get wrong when seeking a third.
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🔥 Topics We Cover in This Episode:
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Jessica’s journey into the lifestyle as a unicorn
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Why she stayed after breaking up with her partner
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The biggest red flags unicorns look out for in couples
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Common misconceptions and stereotypes about unicorns
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Communication, consent, and setting boundaries
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Tips for couples who want to respectfully connect with unicorns
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Unicorn burnout and emotional aftercare
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What Jessica really thinks about unicorn “hunters”
Key Takeaways
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Unicorns are not fantasy objects. They’re real people with needs, boundaries, and expectations—just like everyone else.
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Respect and communication are everything. Couples looking to invite a unicorn need to be transparent and aligned with each other before reaching out.
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Being a unicorn is empowering—but not always easy. From ghosting to objectification, Jessica shares the ups and downs of her experiences.
Why This Episode Matters
We know the term “unicorn” gets thrown around a lot in the swinging and non-monogamous world—but not enough people talk about the reality behind it. Whether you’re a couple hoping to connect with a unicorn or a solo woman curious about entering the lifestyle, this episode is full of honest, helpful insights from someone who’s living it.
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Are you a unicorn or someone who’s played with one?
Drop your experiences, questions, or shoutouts in the comments below or leave us a voicemail at www.beyond-monogamy.com!
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