The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & the Texas Desires Naughty & Nice Takeover
The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris — honest, funny, and real talk about non-monogamy, every week.
Let’s Kill the Myth (With a Smile)
There’s this myth in the lifestyle that needs to be drop-kicked into the hotel pool: that LS spaces are only for one kind of couple. Hard nope. This episode starts with a heartfelt voicemail from a lesbian couple asking how they fit in. We get real about inclusivity, boundaries, and finding your people without sacrificing your vibe.
Then we shift gears into an event we’re pumped about: the Texas Desires Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, happening December 5–6. We’ll be there recording a live Beyond Monogamy podcast right from the event floor.
Texas Desires Takeover: The Need-to-Know
- Dates: December 5–6
- Location: San Antonio, TX (hotel revealed closer to the event for attendee safety)
- Full buyout: This is a true hotel takeover — not just one floor
- Flat price: $500 per room (no hidden fees)
- King = 2 people
- Double-Queen = up to 4 people
- BYOB + upgraded breakfast included
- Food trucks on site (grab what you like, when you like)
- Comfort & rules: clothing required in food-service areas; consent required everywhere
- Reserve your room: email Loyd@rbhacc.com (that’s Loyd with one “L”)
We love that Texas Desires designs weekends that feel like a private, comfortable escape for the community — not a scattered hotel experience with confused vanilla tourists in the lobby.
Inclusivity Isn’t a Trend — It’s the Future
For a long time, events were built around limited dynamics. The community is evolving — and that’s a good thing. Representation matters. Whether you’re same-sex, bi, queer, curious, or just building your own rules with your person, there’s a seat for you at the table (or by the pool).
In the episode, we share practical ways to find welcoming spaces, introduce yourselves without awkwardness, and set boundaries that make connection feel fun, safe, and genuinely sexy.
Why We’re Showing Up (And You Should Too)
We’re there as podcasters and participants. We love seeing the “I didn’t think we’d fit in… and then we did” moment. That’s what this is all about: connection, communication, and community — the lifestyle’s best three C’s.
Quick Recap
- Texas Desires Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover — San Antonio — Dec 5–6
- True hotel buyout • $500 flat • BYOB • upgraded breakfast • food trucks
- We’re recording a live Beyond Monogamy podcast at the event
- Reserve now: Loyd@rbhacc.com (one “L”)
Listen to the Episode
Hit play on the episode to hear our full conversation about inclusivity for lesbian couples, plus the inside scoop on what to expect at the Texas Desires takeover.
Links & How to Support
- Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Calls to Action
- Reserve your room: email Loyd@rbhacc.com (Loyd with one “L”)
- Subscribe on YouTube, follow on socials, join Patreon
- Share & review the show — it helps more people find the community
- Submit a Confessional: tell us your story (anonymously or not) on our site
Adam
Co-host
Adam is the bald, bearded, caffeine-fueled voice behind Beyond Monogamy — a guy who never expected to become a spokesperson for ethical non-monogamy… but here we are. After more than a decade navigating the lifestyle with his wife and co-host Pris, he’s learned a ton about communication, boundaries, jealousy (yep, he has it too), and what it really takes to build a relationship that feels like home and adventure at the same time.
Whether he’s diving into deep relationship conversations, calling out the myths the lifestyle loves to cling to, or just hyping up couples to choose their joy unapologetically, Adam brings honesty, humor, and tattoo-level commitment to every episode. If you’ve ever thought, “Is it just us?”, he’s the guy handing you a coffee and saying, “Nah — welcome to the club.”
Beyond Monogamy is his way of making sure nobody has to explore this world alone. Because love gets bigger when community gets louder.
📍 Based in Texas
☕ Early-morning gym rat
🎙 Podcast host, connection-builder, lifestyle storyteller
💭 Motto: “We don’t break rules — we make better ones.”
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