🎉 Pre-Birthday Bash in the Lifestyle: From Anxious Butterflies to Poolside Playtime

Welcome to another unapologetically real episode of our life in the lifestyle!
I’m Adam, that handsome bald guy with the salt-and-pepper beard. And I’m Pris, your sexy, tattooed Latina with the long curly hair and that signature white streak. This time, we’re giving you the inside scoop on my big pre-birthday weekend — part lifestyle meet-and-greet, part play party, part social experiment… all wrapped up in our trademark Beyond Monogamy chaos.

🏡 The Airbnb: Not Your Average Weekend Getaway

Forget boring banquet halls or vanilla hotel ballrooms — we booked a sprawling Airbnb in Bulverde, Texas, with:

• Above-ground pool for splashy flirting

• Media room with a projector (yes, it can play Netflix… but you know it’s getting used for porn)

• Beds and cuddle spaces for when the flirting turns into more

• Outdoor teepee with AC for adventurous pairs or small group play

• Bunk bed setup for overnight guests

If you’ve never been to a lifestyle house party, here’s your quick glossary:

• Social-only parties: People come to hang out, drink, dance, maybe make out.

• DTF parties: You walk in and it’s all play, all the time.

• Hybrid parties (like ours): Social vibe first, play spaces available if the chemistry’s right.

👫 Who We Invited (and Why It Matters)

We threw the invite out far and wide — friends from all over Texas, different circles in the lifestyle, even first-timers. That’s key because:

• First-timers need a no-pressure environment to see how they feel.

• Mixing circles helps break cliques and expand your community.

• A known core group keeps the energy safe, friendly, and drama-free.

Our RSVP list was pushing 60+ people, so we knew we were in for a wild ride.

😏 The Pre-Party Warm-Up: Friday at the Club

Before Saturday’s big bash, we eased in with a night at the local swinger club. Smaller crowd (first of the month + Friday night), but perfect for a close group of friends — and let’s just say Adam made the rounds.
We’re talking multiple play sessions with different partners — all friends we’ve built trust and chemistry with over time.

Educational moment: This is where communication and pre-negotiation matter. Pris and I have rules, like starting the night together and staying transparent about play. But we also had a moment where our reconnection didn’t happen before the night ended… and yeah, that conversation had to happen the next morning.

💬 Real Talk: Handling Lifestyle “Oops” Moments

Here’s what we’ve learned about avoiding emotional landmines in the lifestyle:

1. Communicate before the event – Who’s on the yes list, the maybe list, and the nope list?

2. Check in during the event – Sometimes one quick “We good?” keeps everything smooth.

3. Don’t unpack every issue mid-party – If it’s not urgent, save it for the next day so it doesn’t kill the vibe.

4. Own your part – If something doesn’t go how you planned, talk about it openly instead of letting it stew.

🎯 Adam’s Birthday “Goals” (And Why We’re Cool With That)

Let’s be real — this was my birthday bash, so I had my wish list:

• Play with friends I don’t see often

• Meet and connect with new people

• Keep the vibe fun, flirty, and low-pressure for everyone

And before you clutch your pearls — this is part of our negotiated dynamic. We’ve been doing this for years, and we know what works for us.

🤝 Why Parties Like This Matter in the Lifestyle

For us, this wasn’t just about getting laid (though… that’s a perk). It was about:

• Strengthening bonds with our core group

• Giving first-timers a safe, welcoming space

• Mixing friend groups to grow the community

• Reminding ourselves that this lifestyle is about fun, freedom, and connection

📣 Final Thoughts Before the Big Night

By the time we wrapped recording, we were six hours from guests arriving. The nervous energy was real, but so was the excitement. Whether it turned into an epic night of back-to-back play sessions or just an incredible social, it was a celebration of the way we do life and love.

If you like riding shotgun for our adventures — from sexy wins to the occasional “oops” moment — make sure you’re subscribed to the Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris podcast and YouTube channel.

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