What if someone finally made the ENM documentary you always wished existed? No outsiders with clipboards. No dramatic music. Just education, humor, real experts, and real couples — made by three independent filmmakers who actually live this life.
This week on Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris sit down with the full creative team behind More Than Monogamy: director Dylan Birdsall of All the Birds LLC, and Urvashi & Kama from Spark Erotic — award-winning erotic filmmakers with 25 films, 11 years, and five consecutive CineKink Audience Choice Awards under their belt.
We talk about the making of the film, the five-year journey it took to get here, and the mental health walls Dylan had to push through to see it finished. We also get into compersion confessions, jealousy as an early warning system, the ethical erotica vs. porn conversation nobody's having, and why the kink section got cut from the film (and why that was actually the right move).
IN THIS EPISODE:
- How infidelity led Urvashi & Kama into ENM — and why it worked out
- Dylan's origin story: virgin → lifestyle regular at record speed
- Why the doc focused on education over titillation
- Polyamory vs. polygamy — and why confusing the two still damages the whole ENM community
- Jealousy: villain, early warning system, or both?
- Compersion confessions from all five people in the room (Pris is very honest)
- How Spark Erotic makes erotica from both male and female perspectives
- The British production company that ghosted them — and the Hail Mary that saved the film
- What's coming next from Spark Erotic (hint: a vibrator loses its remote at a party)
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Dylan's work & full filmography:
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Spark Erotic films:
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Urvashi's erotic photography:
📸 https://urvashiseye.com/home
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