Ever catch your swinger instincts flirting at the grocery store? Adam & Pris break down "lifestyle brain" and why it's so easy to misread the signals.
On this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris get into "code switching" between swinger mode and vanilla mode, why Adam freezes up flirting with vanilla women but not lifestyle women, how to flirt without being creepy, the hot wife dynamic (fantasy vs. being a real partner), whether masturbating to someone else counts as cheating (spoiler: they do not agree), and how to read the room when a vanilla person gets curious about ethical non-monogamy.
Topics: swinger lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, ENM, open relationship, hot wife lifestyle, flirting, jealousy and compersion, non-monogamy podcast
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