Ever catch your swinger brain flirting at the grocery store? Adam and Pris dig into "lifestyle brain" — what happens when your ethical non-monogamy instincts sneak into regular vanilla life, and why it's so easy to misread the signals.
This episode covers:
• "Code switching" between swinger mode and vanilla mode
• Why Adam freezes up flirting with vanilla women but not lifestyle women
• How to flirt without being creepy (and the compliments that actually land)
• The hot wife dynamic: fantasy vs. being a real partner
• Is masturbating to someone else cheating? Adam & Pris do NOT agree
• Reading the room when a vanilla person gets curious about ENM
Catch us live: Free livestream every Thursday at 7PM Central at beyond-monogamy.com (https://beyond-monogamy.com) — episodes, blog, merch, and our 100% anonymous confessional are all there too.
FullSwapRadio: Catch us every Thursday at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central on fullswapradio.com (https://fullswapradio.com) .
Event — Swinger 101 Workshop: November 15th at Forbidden Fruit in Austin. $20/person, light refreshments included. Perfect if you're curious or just getting started.
Event — Krazy Winter Nights: February 19–21, 2027 in Kansas City, Missouri. Adam & Pris will be doing a live show! Grab tickets at krazykasbh.com (https://krazykasbh.com) and use discount code BEYOMONO for a discount.
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Sponsor — SDC: If your lifestyle brain needs somewhere to go, SDC is where we tell everyone to start. Use code 38236 when you sign up.
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