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💻 Episode Summary

This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we’re diving into a topic that every swinger, poly couple, and ethically non-monogamous adventurer should have on their radar: catfishing in the lifestyle.

No, not fishing in swamps or noodling in muddy rivers—we’re talking about people pretending to be someone they’re not online, sliding into lifestyle spaces with fake photos, shady profiles, and sometimes even predatory intentions.

From AOL chatrooms and puppy-love disasters to today’s TikTok scammers asking Adam for $45 nail money (yes, that happened), we unpack decades of personal stories, listener anecdotes, and lifestyle lessons. We break down:

• 🎭 The Types of Catfish:
  – Filter fiends & “20-year-old” photos
  – Fake couples (ahem… actually just one lonely guy)
  – Profiles with pro-model shots only
  – “I swear my partner knows!”… when they don’t
  – The scammers fishing for your nudes (and why we don’t trade pics unless you’re real)

• 🚩 Red Flags to Watch For:
  – No face pics
  – Always “too busy” to meet or video chat
  – Overeager for nudes or instant hookups
  – Stories that just don’t add up

• 💔 The Fallout:
  – Emotional letdowns & wasted time
  – Safety concerns, especially for women
  – Erosion of trust in lifestyle communities
  – Why a single lie makes people wonder, “What else are they hiding?”

• 🛡️ Protect Yourself:
  – Video verify (FaceTime, Messenger, Zoom—anything live)
  – Meet first at lifestyle clubs or trusted meet & greets
  – Cross-reference profiles on sites like SDC, SLS, Kasidie
  – Build a trusted network who can vouch for people
  – And above all—trust your gut. If it feels off, it probably is.

Through all the laughs and real talk, Adam and Pris remind us that the lifestyle is built on trust, consent, and honesty. Without that, the sexy adventures we love lose their magic.

🔥 Key Takeaway

Catfishing isn’t just annoying—it can be unsafe. Protect yourself, protect your community, and keep the fun alive by staying vigilant and unapologetically real.

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We want YOUR stories! Have you ever been catfished in the lifestyle? Drop us a voicemail, send a message, or hit us up on our socials. We might even feature your story in a future QUICKIE episode.

📺 Where to Listen & Watch

Catch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris everywhere podcasts stream:

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✍️ Show Notes (SEO-Heavy)

Title: QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?

Description:
In this week’s QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get messy (literally) with a raw and funny conversation about cum. Why do some love it while others hate it? Is swallowing a turn-on or a dealbreaker? What role does diet play in taste? And how does cum play fit into the swinger lifestyle with all its rules, boundaries, and safety concerns?

From embarrassing stories and personal kinks to the psychology of facials and cream pies, this episode is all about opening up the conversation — sticky jokes included.

You’ll Hear About:

• Why porn creates unrealistic cum expectations

• Swallowing vs. spitting (and why consent always matters)

• The psychology behind facials and cream pies

• Cum rules in the swinger lifestyle

• How diet, hydration, and habits affect taste

• Turn-ons, turn-offs, and awkward cum moments

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Paul shares insider insights on why people seek out alternative relationship styles, what their massive trove of real-world data reveals about the future of monogamy, and how 20% of members now identify as “disclosed non-monogamous”—meaning their partners are aware of, or even participate in, their activity on the site.

We dive into cultural shifts, surprising academic studies (like research showing 80% of women on the platform are in sexless or orgasm-less marriages, while men often join seeking emotional validation), and the myths that mainstream society gets wrong about ethical non-monogamy.

And yes, we also got some juicy behind-the-scenes details—like why France is Ashley Madison’s weakest market (because infidelity is already culturally normalized!) and the story of Bobby Goldman, aka The Curvy Widow, who turned her Ashley Madison adventures into an off-Broadway play.

Whether you’re curious about the lifestyle, actively practicing ethical non-monogamy, or just fascinated by the psychology of relationships, this episode peels back the stereotypes and gives you an inside look at how monogamy and non-monogamy are evolving in 2025 and beyond.

📌 Show Notes & Key Takeaways

• Guest: Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer, Ashley Madison

• Ashley Madison Facts:

  • 🌎 85+ million members worldwide

  • 📊 Roughly 1.13 active women for every 1 active paid man account (yes, women are there!)

  • 🔐 Features include private photo lockers, stealth mode, and discretion tools to protect user privacy

  • 💡 Fun fact: Ashley Madison has even been parodied on The Simpsons, proving its cultural impact

• Hot Topics Discussed:

  • Why monogamy shouldn’t always be the default

  • How women often lead the transition into non-monogamy

  • The “One Penis Policy” red flag in lifestyle dynamics

  • Why toys aren’t competition—they’re allies

  • How better communication = stronger relationships, monogamous or not

• Memorable Quote: “When monogamy becomes monotony.” – Paul Keable

🔗 Connect With Us

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👉 YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
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🕒 Episode Timeline Highlights

[00:02] – The “All Swingers Are Hot” Myth
Adam & Pris admit they once thought swingers were all gym-bodied models. Reality check? Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, and vibes. Ads and social media only show the “highlight reel.” Real life = regular people who just happen to be into consensual non-monogamy.

[00:05] – Swinging = Cheating?
Nope! Swinging is built on consent and honesty, not sneaking around. Pris shares how people back home used to tell her to “just cheat” instead of being openly poly. Spoiler: that’s not how ethical non-monogamy works.

[00:07] – Orgies Everywhere?
The stereotype says swinger parties are non-stop sex. Reality? Many parties are more drinks than dicks. Some are social, some are DTF, but not every event turns into a late-night orgy fest.

[00:09] – Jealousy Doesn’t Exist?
Pris calls herself “territorial, not jealous,” while Adam confesses he gets a little turned on when other people want Pris. Bottom line: jealousy happens — it’s human nature. Communication keeps it from blowing up.

[00:11] – Only People in Their 20s Do It
Big myth. Most community members are in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Twentysomethings may play on apps or college parties, but real community and connection usually grow later.

[00:14] – Midlife Crisis Stereotype
Swinging isn’t just about “key parties for suburban boomers.” Sure, some discover it later in life, but Adam & Pris argue it’s more about freedom, empty-nest energy, and exploring fantasies — not a “crisis.”

[00:17] – The Pineapple Obsession
Ah yes, the iconic upside-down pineapple. It is everywhere, but not everyone rocking one is in the lifestyle. Some folks are just really into tropical fruit or… hospitality tattoos.

[00:20] – Always DTF, All the Time?
Nope. Swingers aren’t horny robots. Most prefer conversation, connection, and consent over “let’s bang strangers immediately.”

[00:22] – No Boundaries?
Swingers may actually have more boundaries than the “vanilla” world. From soft swap rules to consent culture, boundaries are what make it work.

[00:23] – It’s Just White, Middle-Class Couples
False. Adam & Pris (both Hispanic) point out how diverse lifestyle communities really are.

[00:25] – Everyone Is Bi
Not true. Some are, some aren’t. And no, two men and a woman in a threesome doesn’t automatically mean the guys are gay. Inside the lifestyle, the “all women are bi” stereotype is also exaggerated.

[00:27] – Swingers Only Club & Party
Sure, some love it, but many are just as happy brunching, binging Netflix, or chilling with lifestyle friends. Not every weekend ends with strobe lights and a playroom.

[00:28-30] – Funny Extras & Inside Jokes

• All swingers own hot tubs (if only).

• Black silicone wedding bands = swinger “flag” (or maybe just gym wear).

• All men are porn-star sized (false).

• Eye contact = “I want you” (false, sometimes you’re just listening).

• “Practice makes perfect” → Maybe swingers are better lovers? Adam & Pris lean toward yes.

😂 Examples of Stereotypes

From Outside the Lifestyle:

• Swinging = cheating.

• Everyone’s bisexual.

• Swingers are all white, rich, and midlife crisis couples.

• Every party = giant orgy.

From Inside the Lifestyle:

• The “real unicorn” is a straight woman.

• Black wedding rings, pineapple tattoos, or hot tubs = guaranteed swinger.

• All lifestyle men have mustaches (really?).

• “Practice makes perfect” — swingers are assumed to be expert lovers.

🔑 Takeaway

Most stereotypes are laughable at best and damaging at worst. The lifestyle is as diverse and unique as the people in it. It’s not about fitting a pineapple-shaped mold — it’s about honesty, fun, and writing your own story.

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Adam and Pris get personal, funny, and brutally honest about their own experiences in the swinging lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. They share stories of performance anxiety, distractions, delayed ejaculation, women who take a long time (or never) to orgasm, and the mental tricks that can get in the way of the Big O. Plus, they bust through common myths like:

• “Men always finish.”

• “If he doesn’t orgasm, he’s not attracted to me.”

• “Women orgasm easily during penetration.”

• “Toys mean I’m not enough.”

• “If it didn’t end in orgasm, it was bad sex.”

This episode isn’t just about sex mechanics — it’s about shifting perspective, communication, and celebrating pleasure in all its forms (with or without the finish line).

Episode Highlights with Timestamps

• [00:02:00] Adam shares a recent play experience where a partner admitted she rarely orgasms — and why communication made the moment better.

• [00:04:00] Pris reveals how few partners have been able to make her orgasm, and the shift she made in openly sharing what works for her.

• [00:07:00] The story of a “gold star lesbian” partner and Pris faking it… until she didn’t.

• [00:09:30] Adam admits how distractions, stress, and even clocks in the room have blocked his ability to finish.

• [00:12:00] The impact of alcohol, drugs, and overstimulation on men’s ability to orgasm.

• [00:16:00] Myth-busting: “Men always finish” and the pressure behind it.

• [00:18:00] Myth-busting: “If he doesn’t finish, he’s not attracted to me.”

• [00:23:00] Adam’s story about lasting for hours at 19 and how cultural myths about “lasting forever” shaped his views.

• [00:26:00] Myth-busting: “If she doesn’t orgasm, I failed as a lover.”

• [00:28:00] Discussion on toys: helpers, not competitors.

• [00:34:00] Squirting ≠ orgasm — important distinctions.

• [00:38:00] Adam on the insecurity of thinking women only wanted Pris, not him.

• [00:45:00] Locker room talk, cultural machismo, and how bragging about “orgasms achieved” feeds insecurity.

• [00:50:00] The psychology of orgasm, fantasies, and why some men come quicker with new partners.

• [00:53:00] How shifting perception from “must orgasm” to “enjoy the ride” changes everything.

• [00:57:00] Call to listeners: Share your “when the Big O didn’t happen” stories for a future QUICKIE episode.

Show Notes

Welcome to another wild and real conversation on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris. In this episode, When the Big O Doesn’t Happen, we tackle one of the most common, yet rarely talked about, experiences in sex: what happens when someone can’t finish.

👉 We discuss performance anxiety, pressure, myths, insecurities, swinging lifestyle dynamics, and how to shift focus toward connection and pleasure instead of just chasing orgasms.

👉 Whether you’re exploring the swinger lifestyle, polyamory, or ethical non-monogamy, this episode offers laughs, relatability, and some practical reassurance that you’re not alone when the Big O doesn’t make an appearance.

Where to Listen & Connect

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This fun, candid conversation covers mismatched libidos, how to keep sex exciting after years together, the realities of high sex drive relationships, and how lifestyle couples often break the mold. They discuss “wrong” times for sex, how menopause can shift desire, and even the role of toys, lube, and experimentation in keeping the spark alive. Adam and Pris also touch on the emotional side — insecurities, communication, and what to do when one partner just isn’t in the mood.

Whether you’re having daily “bang-a-thons,” enjoying slow-burn intimacy, or wondering how to spice things up, this episode blends humor, honesty, and practical advice for couples in and out of the lifestyle. It’s equal parts sexy banter, relationship insight, and playful oversharing — just the way Beyond Monogamy listeners love it.

Show Notes:

Topics Covered:

• Adam & Pris’s personal sex frequency (spoiler: it’s a lot) vs. national averages

• Why lifestyle couples may naturally have more sex than vanilla couples

• “Wrong” times for sex (and why Adam thinks they don’t exist)

• How high libidos can be both a blessing and a scheduling challenge

• The effect of menopause, stress, and life changes on sexual desire

• Strategies for keeping sex fresh after years together — toys, positions, new experiences

• Navigating mismatched sex drives and maintaining intimacy

• The emotional side: insecurity, compersion, and lifestyle dynamics

• Pills, patches, and creams — medications that can help with libido issues

• Fun personal stories, including why ribs and milkshakes once led to truck hookups

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You’ll hear the behind-the-scenes truth about juggling a packed LS schedule, family life, work, and the mental/emotional load that comes with always being “on” socially and sexually. They get into:

• Signs you’re in a lifestyle rut (and why it’s totally normal)

• How social burnout and “swinger hangovers” sneak up on you

• Financial, family, and time realities no one talks about

• The mental load of playing with new partners vs. your long-term partner

• Fresh ways to recharge: new events, exploring kinks, changing your social circle

• Why reconnecting with your partner might be the ultimate fix

Whether you’re brand-new to the Lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, this episode will have you nodding, laughing, and maybe rethinking your weekend plans.

Show Notes

Feeling like your swinger lifestyle has gone from hot to not? You’re not alone. In this week’s Beyond Monogamy Podcast, Adam & Pris talk openly about hitting a lifestyle lull—what causes it, how it affects both your sex life and social life, and the exact things they’ve done to bounce back.

From avoiding “repetitive event syndrome” to experimenting with new kinks, to finding the right people who recharge your energy, this episode is a must-listen for anyone in ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, or the swinging scene.

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We’re recapping EVERYTHING from Adam’s big birthday weekend — the swinger club, the Airbnb takeover, the sexy chaos, the unexpected drama, and yes… the lap dances, public play, and post-party recovery. 🎂🔥

From nervous planning to wild partying, Adam & Pris take you behind the scenes of their epic 60+ person hybrid house party in Bulverde, Texas — featuring sex-positive vibes, a projector playing porn over a mattress (yes, really), poolside fun, and a few communication hiccups along the way.

This is the real, raw (and sometimes messy) look at what it’s like to throw a lifestyle birthday party and what we learned about friends, sex, expectations, and keeping it sexy AF while staying grounded in communication and love.

💥 BONUS: Want to stay at the same place we threw the party? Check out our friend Martin Ray’s Airbnb here:
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🔥 In This Episode:

• Adam’s honest confession about birthday anxiety 😬

• How we threw a 60+ person hybrid lifestyle party (and survived)

• The difference between house parties, play parties, and full DTF chaos

• Swinger etiquette: BYOB, hygiene, clean up after yourself please 🙃

• Adam’s rotation at the swinger club (yep, he had a harem)

• Reconnection struggles + post-play communication realness

• Lap dances, projector porn, and poolside stories

• Why we didn’t play with new people at the party (and what we’d change)

• Thoughts on pills, consent, intoxication, and creating safe spaces

• What it means to be part of this beautiful, messy, sex-positive community 💕

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In this fun, flirty, and candid episode, Adam and Pris take you behind the scenes of their wildest birthday celebration yet! Recorded from their luxe Airbnb in Bulverde, Texas, this episode is a warm-up to Adam’s 43rd birthday bash—complete with poolside vibes, swinger shenanigans, sexy basketball-themed outfits, and over 60 guests expected.

They reflect on what it means to truly celebrate within the lifestyle, from their early days of not getting invited to house parties to now throwing their own hybrid event—a party that blends socializing and sexy play. They share personal stories about their Friday night visit to the swingers’ club with close friends, talk through the difference between play parties and social parties, and even break down the realities of reconnecting as a couple afterward.

Expect a lot of honesty, laughter, a dash of anxiousness, and real talk about boundaries, desires, communication, and—of course—birthday sex goals. The episode closes with a teaser for their next “Quickie” where they'll give you the full debrief of how the birthday bash actually went down.

🔥 What You'll Hear in This Episode:

• 🎂 Adam’s feelings about aging and why he finally wanted to celebrate big this year

• 🏡 A full description of their dreamy, sex-positive Airbnb party setup

• 🍾 Why lifestyle house parties are not always play parties

• 💬 Navigating invitations, first-timers’ nerves, and common questions

• 🛏️ The difference between DTF parties and hybrid events

• 😏 Adam's Friday night sex recap—including who, where, and how many

• ❤️ Reconnection, edging, and managing playtime expectations

• 🧠 Real talk on anxiety, communication, and checking in with your partner

• 🛑 What to do when something feels off and how to bring it up respectfully

• 💋 Pris’s thoughts on reclaiming and managing jealousy gracefully

• 🏀 Hopes, fears, and what they want to happen at tonight’s main birthday party

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🎧 Stay Tuned…

Catch our Wednesday Quickie for the official post-party recap. Will Adam survive the harem? Will Pris go full party goddess? Will anyone sleep at all? 👀

In this no-holds-barred Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dive back into the world of booty business in the most Beyond Monogamy way possible. From their own hilarious and personal experiences to prepping disasters, myths, curiosity, and boundaries, this episode is full of laughs, real talk, and some serious honesty about all things backdoor. Whether you're a curious first-timer or a seasoned seat captain, you're gonna want to hear this. Oh — and yes, we’re still locking the back door… for now.

📝 Show Notes:

Topics Covered:

• Boozy backdoor requests (yes, drunk Pris is bold!)

• Anal prep: what we didn't know then vs. what we know now

• Lube talk — why “just spit on it” is not a thing

• The myth of the “anal orgasm”

• Poop stories, plug training, and why some things should never be warming

• Dominance, power dynamics, and fingers where fingers weren’t expected

• Why this isn’t a judgment zone — just don’t use our lube budget on Frank’s Hot Sauce

PLUS:

• Listener invitation: we want to hear YOUR anal stories! The good, the bad, and the unexpectedly gassy. Stay anonymous or join us as a guest — no shame in the booty game.

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See you next week — BYE! 🍑

From her upbringing in a swinger household (yes, really!) to the lessons learned through poly pitfalls and fantasy fulfillment, Jessica doesn’t hold back. We talk red flags, relationship dynamics, and the art of empowered play—all while laughing, flirting, and sipping our favorite Dutch Bros.

Whether you’re a couple seeking a unicorn, a single lady considering stepping into the lifestyle, or just here for the spicy stories, this episode will make you rethink what it really means to be a unicorn.

📄 Show Notes:

Guest: Jessica – Lifestyle unicorn, proud bisexual woman, and certified badass
Hosts: Adam & Pris
Episode Theme: Unicorns in the Lifestyle – the truth, the fantasy, and the real talk

🎧 What You'll Hear in This Episode:

• When Jessica realized she was bisexual and how her family reacted

• Growing up in a swinger household (!)

• Transitioning from a partnered swinger to a solo unicorn

• The biggest red flags she sees from couples

• Why confidence is a unicorn’s secret weapon

• How she handles being fetishized—and where she draws the line

• What makes a couple unicorn-worthy

• Jessica’s fantasy bucket list (yes, she’s been the surprise guest 👀)

• Unicorn burnout and learning her boundaries

• And Adam’s not-so-subtle birthday fantasy wishlist 😏

🦄 Jessica’s Unicorn Tips for Couples:

• Both partners should communicate—no one-sided vibes

• Don’t just hunt—connect

• Don’t love-bomb or breadcrumb—just be real

• Respect her time, her space, and her place in the dynamic

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📋 Show Notes:

In This Episode:

• What aftercare really means in swinging—not just kink.

• Pris’s early disconnects and emotional needs post-play.

• Adam’s role in providing reassurance and reclaiming.

• How their dynamic changed after polyamory.

• What “aftercare” looks like for them today (spoiler: cuddles, food, and mini-rounds).

• An unexpected (and moody) moment after sexy video play.

• Upcoming plans for Adam’s birthday bash & how aftercare will fit into a wild weekend.

• Communication tips for couples figuring out their own post-play rituals.

Listener Takeaway:
Aftercare isn’t one-size-fits-all. It’s about connection, reassurance, and finding rituals that keep you grounded. Whether it’s a cuddle, convo, or simply being held—it matters.

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With Pris battling sinus hell and Adam riding a tidal wave of sexual energy, tensions rose, communication faltered, and an epic (but educational) clash ensued. From missed signals and mixed emotions to makeup conversations and lessons learned, this episode is a vulnerable, laugh-out-loud, and totally relatable look at the highs and lows of navigating the lifestyle when you're not on the same page.

Whether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with insights, love, and the occasional eye-roll. 😅

📝 Show Notes:

In this episode:

• How a sexy weekend at a swinger beach takeover turned into an unexpected emotional low

• What happens when one partner’s energy is high and the other is running on empty

• The impact of unspoken expectations and poor planning

• Why checking in is just as sexy as checking out (of the moment)

• The difference between “separate play” in theory vs. reality

• How illness, anxiety, and miscommunication can crash even the sexiest of plans

• Rebuilding trust, processing conflict, and loving through the mess

• The real reason you need to talk before the clothes come off

• And a peek into the passionate, hilarious, and heartfelt way Adam & Pris always find their way back to each other

Key takeaway:
Even experienced lifestyle couples fumble. But with accountability, open hearts, and clear communication, those messy moments can become opportunities for deeper love, stronger connection, and better future playdates.

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📝 Show Notes

🎧 What to Expect (Hooks)

• The origin story: Pris’s early experiences and Adam’s initiation
• First swings: Revisiting that nervous yet thrilling moment
• Polyamory experiment: Why it began, why it ended—and what they learned
• Emotional growth:
  • Managing jealousy and reassurance
  • The value of communication and community
• ADHD & Anxiety: How mental health shaped social dynamics
• Kinks & Connection Styles: Their unique approach
• Launch plans: What’s next for the podcast

🧭 Podcast Timeline

• [00:15] Intro & purpose of show
• [01:05] Pris shares her early adventures
• [04:55] Adam’s perspective on first shared experience
• [11:13] Moving to Austin—broader community
• [23:05] Mental health & social confidence
• [43:27] Kinks & sexual dynamics as a duo
• [59:52] Life update: fully in the lifestyle
• [01:02:34] Holiday message & final goodbyes

💡 Key Takeaways

• Transparent communication builds trust
• Non-monogamy is a journey—different stages have different needs
• Personal growth often comes through discomfort
• Community adds stability, acceptance, and fun content for this show

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