QUICKIE: Lifestyle House Parties: A Firsthand Account

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Hello and welcome to another episode of Beyond Monogamy.

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I'm Adam. And I'm Pris. And today on our Wednesday quickie,

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we're talking about LS House parties. LS house parties.

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And why are we talking about Ellis House parties? Because it is New Year's

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and we are very excited because you're listening to

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this on New Year's Day. We're recording this on New Year's Eve.

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And we are excited because we're going to a couple of house parties tonight.

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For the first time in 12 years, we are

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celebrating a New Year's Eve out,

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away from the family, outdoors. And really

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never have we been to a. An LS House party.

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Never for New Year's Eve? No. No, not at

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all. This is going to be interesting. This is going to be a lot of

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fun. We're both excited about it. We went out shopping to look

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for something nice to wear. Yeah. Yeah. So, yeah, it is

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New Year's. We are excited to start

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2025 with this wonderful podcast. We're really

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appreciate that you're here and listening to us. And,

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you know, we're gonna celebrate tonight. We're gonna. We're gonna have it all out because

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both parties we're going to are play parties. Yes.

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There are some parties that are lifestyle parties that are not play parties.

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Some of them are just kind of meet and greet gatherings. So you definitely,

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before you go, wanna ask, is this a play party?

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I did. Yes. You did. I did. And we found out.

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Yes. And I was told to start the party. Oh, and we

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are party starters, are we not? We are now. We weren't before.

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We are now. Do you remember our first house party? I do.

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I do. I remember that we were invited through somebody

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from Adult Friend Finder. They reached out to us and said,

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hey, we've got this party that this older couple hosts and y'all

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should come out. So they gave us the information and we showed up there.

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This huge mansion like house.

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When we pulled up, it was just amazing. We couldn't believe it

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very dark, but they had these neon lights on

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their porch that were like, pineapple light. Yeah.

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And this couple opened the door and they

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had to have been in their 60s, maybe older. Yeah, possibly older.

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The story was broken down to me that they. They really

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didn't play with a whole lot of people in the lifestyle, but they just really

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liked throwing lifestyle parties. Yeah. Yeah. And if I remember correctly,

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the house itself was kind of divided on a left

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side wing and a right side wing. Both wings had

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themed bedrooms in them. And then in the center

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was the living room, the dining room, and all that good stuff. And then,

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of course, outside, you walk out there, there's a. A hot tub and a.

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And a pool. Yeah. And a nice deck area. And so it was

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a really, really nice setup. But this was the first party we went

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to as a couple. Yeah. And I was deathly nervous.

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Yeah. We met some friends. There. There was other. There was other acquaintances.

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We were very new. We were still new. So they were friends, but they were

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kind of like light friends. Like, we didn't really know them. No.

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Yeah. We were still kind of alone. Yeah. And I remember us

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very specifically sitting on this couch right next to each other,

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and I'm kind of scanning the room,

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and there are some women who are dressed very

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sexy. There were other women that were just completely naked

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and walking around with maybe some stilettos on.

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Yeah. There was some women that were dressed in

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nice sexy lingerie, you know, and pretty

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much guys who were either fully dressed or they had their shirts off. Like,

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we. You know, there's. There's not much for guys. Yeah. To.

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So. So. Yeah. You leave your whitey tighties on.

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Yeah. And that's. Right. You know, you just gotta keep them on. Yes. So I

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remember sitting there and scanning the room and being like,

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where are we? Right here. Yeah. What are we doing? We were

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both nervous. I think you and I were both nervous for two different reasons.

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Yeah. Why were you nervous? So at parties, I.

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I'm always scared that someone's gonna come up to me and touch me without asking

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me. And back then I was. It was not new to me,

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but I always had to just be on guard. I feel like every woman.

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Well, maybe not every woman, but I am always on guard about

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somebody touching me inappropriately without being asked because,

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you know, they're drinking and. And whatnot. And it's

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like, that's. And something. So let's get to the

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party part. Do you remember what happened at the party?

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Yeah, so I remember a number of things because

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we weren't really drinking then. I was so nervous.

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But I remember first and foremost,

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there was like play started happening in this one

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bedroom and everybody. Yeah. It was almost like an orgy type. We walked

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into this bedroom and there was this girl who was,

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you know, she was wearing a dress. She had it hiked up. She was laying

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on the bed and there was this guy who was right in between

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her legs, just going down on her and right there on the bed.

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But she kept talking and talking and talking about all sorts of

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stuff. And this one dude walked up to her and was like, you're talking too

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much. And pulled out his dick and stuck it in her mouth. Yes.

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And she started sucking it. Yeah. And I was like, wow.

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I remember sitting back going, that takes some balls.

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Literally. Literally and figuratively. But that, that takes some

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balls. That was the time I, that, you know, now I'm thinking about it.

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There was a Sibian machine there too. Right? There was. And that other lady

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was on it. And I was like, what is that? So I was, as a

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new person. I didn't know what that was. I was extremely

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overstimulated. I didn't know where to look. Just in that room alone,

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like there was all sorts of stuff. So here's this, this attractive woman on this

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bed with her legs open, getting eaten out. She's blowing this other guy

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who's standing at next to the bed with, you know,

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just enjoying her mouth. Yeah. And there's

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lots of moans and groans and there's several of us just kind of standing.

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You're right next to me and we're just standing there watching. And I'm just looking

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at you like. And then in the other corner is that Symbian machine.

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And then there's another woman who's riding that and she's getting

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loud. And I remember thinking, wow, this. I mean, we got turned

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on, but it was also kind of overstimulating. Yeah.

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And so I remember we came out and we decided

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to go to a bedroom. Yeah. Because you were like, hey, maybe we should.

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We're here, we're here. Let's give this a shot. I'm all about it. And this

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was really the first time that I had played in

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front of people. Yes. So this was my first bout of

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exhibitionism. Yes. And we went into this room that was

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empty and there was a big,

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probably a full. It was like a full size in the middle or in the

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bedroom. And then there was an air mattress. Yes. On a very, like a twin

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size air mattress on the floor. Absolutely. We got the bed we got on

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the bed, and we started making out. And we went

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down on each other after a while, which was nice.

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And then I remember you slid

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me inside of you. We were missionaries,

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so I was on top of you. Your legs were around me, and I

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was doing okay. I was hard. I was turned on. I was

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focused on you. And then the doorbell started, kept ringing.

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And the bedroom that we had was right next to the door, was near the

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door. It was like a skip and a hop away from the door.

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And the rule of the house was you have to keep all the bedroom

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doors open. That was the rule. And so

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I remember the lights are on, the bedroom door is open,

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and people are coming in and out of the front door. And I just remember

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being really distracted and constantly looking

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up and looking to see who's coming in. And as we were

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having sex, one of our friends from the lifestyle

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and her husband walked in along with several other people,

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and they decided to watch the show, which was fine. Yeah. But she

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was right at my face. Except for that she ended up coming up

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to the bed. Bed. Elbows on. Elbows on the

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bed, holding her face. Literally inches

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away from our bodies. Yeah. Kind of

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in our space while we were trying to have sex. I think she got the

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hint and left. I think. So. I really struggled.

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So I was hard, but I struggled to fit. And so that's

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when the older guy, the owner of the house came in. And he was

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older. Yeah. And he came in,

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and I'm kind of with my eyes closed and he's touching my boobs.

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Yeah, that's right. And I remember looking up and telling.

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Him, yeah, no, that was really kind of the.

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That wasn't the very first time, but that was really the first time

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that we really stopped and went, hey, what are you doing? Yeah,

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yeah, yeah. Because he thought since he owned

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the house. Yes. And he threw the party. Yes. That he could touch

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anybody and he. Didn'T have to ask for consent. And that,

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I thought was interesting. That was. That was. That was interesting.

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That was really the first time I ever saw you come out and go,

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hey, that, no. Yeah, don't do that. And of course,

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that threw off my rhythm game even more. I mean, I think

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you finished. I think I'm pretty sure you finished. You wouldn't

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have not finished. I, I, I wouldn't have not finished. And I wouldn't

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have faked it. No, no, no. So I'm pretty sure you finished.

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Yeah. We've had some great. But that was a difficult one. I think you had

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me focus on you I did. Yeah. I do that. Yeah.

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And so that was. That party was interesting,

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but that was really where my anxieties with parties first

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developed because of that. And I remember us getting

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invited to another party in. In that area.

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And we went, and there was some attractive women

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there, and we were all outside by the pool. They had this

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big bar out by the pool on their deck there.

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And we were all there, and we were watching them make drinks. And everybody was

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drinking and having a good time, and they were getting sloshed. And I remember you

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kind of backing your ass against me, and you

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were rubbing my dick through my pants, and you were like, hey, you want

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to go inside? You want to fool around? You want to play?

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And I remember looking at you and telling you,

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I don't think I can. Like, I am way

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too distracted. I'm way too nervous, and I don't think I

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can. And then you said, well, do you want to have a drink? Maybe that'll

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loosen you up. And I was like, I don't. I don't think I can perform

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at this party. Yeah. One. There was a lot of very

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attractive women, and I didn't feel like I fit in there. Yeah.

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Because there was also attractive men. Yeah. And I definitely

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didn't feel like I was on that level. And so I remember

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thinking, there's. There's just no way. Like, this was. You gotta

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understand, this was at the very beginning of our. Of our time in

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the lifestyle. And so I remember thinking, no, there's. There's just no way.

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I can't. I can't do this. And so we were there for a little while.

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People started getting into the pool and having fun and all that good stuff.

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And I remember you and I were just like, well, we're going to. We're going

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to head out. We'll see you guys later. And we left. Yeah. And so

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that was pretty much the extent of our party. That's pretty much

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every. Well, the last parties we would go to, because I think we went to

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another one in that area. And we went in

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and said hi to everybody, and then we're like, okay, let's go.

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Because I knew that was your anxiety. Oh, I'm very easy.

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So I'm like, I'm very submissive to you. So it's like, wherever you want to

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do it. We can do it wherever. As far as you're concerned, you're fine.

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But for me, it's a bit different because, you know, it's like that first

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party triggered such major anxiety

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for me that it carried on for a long time, and then we

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moved out here, and I remember hearing everybody

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say, oh, house party. House party, house party. But we never got an invite.

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No. Well, hold up. You're going too far. Oh, did I

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pass? You pass something. What? Did I pass? Oh, Mr. Alvarez, please tell

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everybody about our house party that we decided to

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throw. I think we've mentioned it in a show before. I did. I forgot

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about that. So we were struggling to get invited

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to house parties after a while, and I had major anxiety.

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And so you decided to say,

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hey, why don't we just throw one? Yeah. Because we had a

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really pretty house in Corpus. Yeah, it was nice. Sorry.

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Yeah, it was really nice. And it had. It had a pool. It had

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a pool. It had. Our bedroom. Yeah, our bedroom was downstairs. So we

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were like, you know, no one can go upstairs. Let's just do this. It was

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empty. So I. I am a bit of a research geek.

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Yeah. And I was already anxious,

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so I was like, I need to. I need to research this. How do you

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throw a swinger party?

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And so I looked it up. I actually found some really

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good information, and I even printed it out. I had, like, a list

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of things that I had to do to prepare

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for this party. We set it up. I think we sent out

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the invites to several people that we knew in the circle. Yeah.

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About 8 or 10. Yeah. And people started showing up.

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And as people started showing up, I remember we had this circle

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of chairs and the couch and all that stuff in the living room,

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and everybody was sitting down. And I remember there was

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in particular, there was this couple that I had

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been seeing from the beginning, since we started. Yes.

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On aff. And I remember I found her really

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attractive, and I was intimidated immediately that she was even there.

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Right. And they were sitting down. You and I were

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sitting down in the chairs. Basically across from them in this circle,

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everybody's sitting there. And the nervous man in me

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turns into comedian, and I start entertaining everybody. I'm making

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jokes, and I'm talking, and we're doing the thing that we do. And then you

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realize that this is what I'm gonna do all night. Yeah, we need to get

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started. So I am all about, let's. Let's. Let's get the party started.

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Let's do this. I'm not gonna stay awake all night. And we just need

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to get this started. So I proceed to start rubbing you. In front of

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everybody as I'm telling antidotes. Yeah. And I'm like,

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no, we're gonna do this. I unzip your shorts. As I'm

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telling antidotes and stories, and. I start

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to blow you. As I'm telling anecdotes and stories.

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And I remember thinking very, very clearly, oh,

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this is happening now. And I remember making eye contact with the people

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I was talking to, and I'm like, so this is happening.

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Yeah. And then it kind of got everybody. Started because one girl was

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on the recliner getting eaten out by that guy. Yeah. And then we

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moved to the couch. We moved to the couch where several girls started blowing you.

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And then when they were done with you, one would start with you and

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then be like, can I try you? And I'm like, sure, yeah. And we just

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kept going back. We were basically both sitting on the couch, both getting oral

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from. And then somebody made it to the bedroom.

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To our bedroom. And by the time, you know it, there's about eight bodies

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on our king size bed. Just getting down. Getting it down.

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Yeah. Yeah. That was a time and time. That was fun. It was

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kind of weird, odd. You know,

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it was. It was different. It was different. It was different. I wouldn't say it

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was weird, but it was different considering we.

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We had very little experience. Yeah.

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It was hard to set that up properly, but we

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did it. We did. We. And, you know, now that I'm thinking

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about it, we even got invited to another party. And we

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walked in and we just saw like three people. And I think two

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of them were men and one lady. And we just walked right out. We're like,

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all right, we gotta go. That sounds about right. And so we left the

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vibes or everything. If there's no vibes. If there's no vibe,

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it's bad. You know what I don't get about house parties? What?

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There's not a lot of playing. So that's interesting that

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you say that since we've moved out here.

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Yeah, we've. We weren't invited a

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whole lot, but we. We got invited to one party when

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we first moved out here. Yes. And I remember the setup

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was nice. It was a nice house. Everybody was very sweet.

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And they started with games and icebreakers. Yeah. Remember that? Yeah.

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And so they. They did a bingo. And so everybody had to

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go talk to everybody else and. And talk about it was a lifestyle.

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Bingo. Yes. And so everybody had a card and you had to go over there

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and find who had this experience and who had that experience and

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you mark them off. I actually won that bingo. You did?

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Yeah. And I got a massager for it, which is pretty cool. An actual massager,

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like a Hitachi or anything. It was a. It was like a back massager.

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But I remember after that, they did the Jenga,

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which had numbered blocks on there, and each. And, like, you had

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to do something like. Yeah, yeah. A sexual act. Right. But not like a

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really bad sexual. No. Like, I had one girl who ended up.

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She. No, she was giving me a lap dance. Yeah.

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Yeah. And so things like that.

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But in the middle of, like, we did one or two rounds of that,

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and they kept it going. And you looked at me and you were like,

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are you ready to do this? Yeah. And I said, dude, let's go.

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And so we got up, we walked to one of the playrooms

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that looked really nice. It was kind of in a back area.

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Dark red lights in there. And they had a sibian

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machine that was not far from us. They had one of those yoga chairs.

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Yeah, those yoga sex chairs. And that's what we started with.

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And I remember being very nervous because I was still kind of

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holding on to this trauma from past show from passion.

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I fixed that real good, but I. Still had that nervousness. So I

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remember taking off my clothes and sitting in this chair.

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And you're like, I'm gonna go down on you for a while. Yeah. And I

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said, okay. And so you did. You were.

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You. You went down on me. And I was rock hard by that time.

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And people. That's when people started making their way in. Yes. And they were

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basically watching you go down on me while we

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watched others ride that sibian machine. And that was.

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Everybody started. Yeah, everybody started making their way back there. They started

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hearing us. Yeah. So they started hearing us. Yeah. And then you got

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on top of me and you started riding me on this yoga chair

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while we watched everybody else. Now, that was a lot of fun. Yeah. But I

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wasn't ready. I didn't want to come yet. And it's not because I

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didn't want to come because I would be done. It was because I didn't

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want to come yet because I wasn't.

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I wasn't sure where I wanted to play. You know, there was other rooms.

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And so you're very considerate. Also, if, you know I'm

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going to play with somebody else and you will.

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Will. And then you'll kind of not come so

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that. Just in case somebody else wants to, like, eat my. Yeah, if there's

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a girl or a guy who wants to go down on you, then, you know,

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some. Some people are into that, but some people are not. You know, they're not

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trying to eat a cream pie. You know. Oh, wow. So I normally will

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wait. Cream pies. I will. I will edge and wait.

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That is true. So I know. I will normally

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edge and wait until, you know, we know that we're probably wrapping

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up. And then I'm like, okay. Yeah. We made our way to the bed.

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We did. We made our way to another room where we found a.

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A good couple friend of ours who were playing on

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one side of the bed, and they were like, hey, come on. We got plenty

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of room over here. So we literally had sex right next to them

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while they were having sex right next to us. That would not be the last

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time, by the way. No, no, we always have sex right

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next to them. Yeah. It's almost like we got to reserve. Funny. It's my

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spot, so I remember that. And that was. That was.

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I didn't last long after that. And then when we were done with that,

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we pretty much just got dressed, and we were like, okay, well, we got somewhere

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we got to be tomorrow. So we left really quick. A lot of

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people. So especially, like, at that one, we were on the bed,

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and you were eating me out, and I kind of. You kind of pushed my

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leg over to where if someone's looking, they could see

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your tongue, kind of like. Yeah. So I like to give that shit.

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Yeah. You know, there's guys and there's women, and they're watching.

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What is. What do you do in that situation?

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Everyone freezes. Like, no one asks, hey, can I join?

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You know, the ideal thing would have to

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be somebody coming up who says, hey, do you

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mind if I get in there? Yeah. Because most likely we would be like.

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Yeah, because you do that sometimes. Yeah. Like, when we're with

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friends or whatever, and we're partying, you'll ask,

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hey, can I. Can I join? Yeah. And it's like.

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But nobody. Or should the person having. So I was

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told that the actual way to do it is if we're playing.

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Okay. And people are watching us, that we're supposed to signal

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to them to come and play. Now, in that particular

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night, the. The woman who gave

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me a lap dance that night. Yeah. There was a little bit of sexual tension

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between us. And so she was watching us when we were in that room.

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She was watching us play, and she was making heavy

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eye contact with both you and me.

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Yes. This was the first time I had ever had this

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experience. And I remember you telling me, I think she wants to fudge you.

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And I was like, are you sure? Yeah. Because she's just standing there

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watching. Yeah. Comes to find Out. I talked

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to her after the party and she made it real clear. She was like,

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I was trying to give you the signal to wave me over.

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Trying to show you that I was interested, that I wanted to fuck you.

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Oh yeah. And I was like, I had no idea. And she says,

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well, you know what? The next time we're at a party together fucking you,

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I'm not even asking. And I'm like, hey, by all means, do you.

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But that was the first time that I really sat back

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and said, oh, okay, how is this supposed to work exactly?

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And apparently how it's supposed to work is if you see

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somebody who's watching you and they're making eye contact and they're maybe giving

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you this typical signal. Okay. Non verbal signal.

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Yeah, like the baseball signals. Like. No, I think they're

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just facial expressions and whatnot. They seem interested.

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Okay, then you should, if you're interested,

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wave them over. Okay. And say something like, hey,

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do you want to join us? So yes. I remember

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when we were at, at a, at one of the clubs and I was

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giving eye contact to two of our friends and they had just had sex

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and I looked at them and I did something and they were both coming

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and I was like, oh no, no, no, no, no, I'm not calling you over.

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Like I remember. So I guess what's the signal? You know,

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if they're giving you sexy. Eyes, you should blink twice. Realistically,

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if they're making lots of eye contact, if they're standing there for

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a long period of time and if they have a facial expression that looks like

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they're interested. Okay. Then you should look over at them

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and say, hey, do you want to join? Because if

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we don't give them that verbal ability.

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So they're just going to stand there. Yeah. And I guess they can

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say yes or no. Right. Regarding their rules or their boundaries. I mean they

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can. Yeah. And it's that simple. Is that we just offered, they said no.

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Yeah. Like the end with that Okie dokie's. And they'll be like, no, I just

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want to watch. Or they'll be like, yeah, sure. And they'll come over. Oh right.

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But realistically, if you're watching somebody,

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you can come up to them and say, hey, would I be able to join?

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Man, that's a lot. But you're taking a chance and getting rejected. You're taking that

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chance of being told no. Yeah. And nobody wants that.

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And then say you're the couple. Then you'd have to be

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the one to say no, which is Uncomfortable in and of itself,

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you know? Yeah. I mean I've never had to try and

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keep a hard on while telling somebody uncomfortably, no, don't join us.

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Yeah. You know, because that would be difficult. I mean, if I didn't

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want somebody to join, I would just tell them, oh, no, thank you. Yeah,

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you're pretty sweet. We're doing our thing right now. You're pretty sweet. Yeah. I always

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feel like a deer in the headlights. Yeah. No, you. So I'm going to be

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like pressured into saying yes. I feel like everybody in the lifestyle should.

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It's not rejection, it's more of a. Not at this

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time. Okay. Like take it, take it just

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the way it is, you know? Yeah. So if you,

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if you had to speak to our

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newbies or to our new people who maybe

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have never had party experience.

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Okay. What would be your tips for them on

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what to expect or how they should act at

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a lifestyle party? You know, I would

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say you go in and you meet everybody.

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Right. You introduce yourself, you do that little chit chat. But when

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you're ready to play, find your spot.

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And I would say start with your partner,

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then kind of do a little tease or even like stand around and start teasing

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your partner because that's your person that's going to make you more comfortable.

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So you and I mostly play

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together. Yeah. Right. Like it's, we start out with each

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other. Yeah. And most parties we don't have

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anybody who plays with us. So it's normally. Because nobody

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plays. Yeah. Yeah. And it's not my, like they just don't play.

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So I say start with your partner, do a little teasing.

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Or if you see somebody that you're interested in and maybe you've spoken to

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them on, on you know, a social media site or whatever,

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go and do your little flirting. Don't be scared. It is nerve wracking.

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But. And don't be scared. Easier said than done, but it is it.

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Realistically, you're at a house where everybody's

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there for the same reasons. Yeah. Now what the problem is is

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that, you know, I, my suggestion would be don't

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have any expectations. True. Because you can walk into

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a play party and like we said earlier, people will not play.

446
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Yeah. And oftentimes from what we're told,

447
00:26:37,162 --> 00:26:41,218
people will drink till like 2 midnight to 2 in the morning

448
00:26:41,354 --> 00:26:44,786
and then they'll play if they still have it in them to play.

449
00:26:44,858 --> 00:26:48,306
And let me tell you, let me say this

450
00:26:48,378 --> 00:26:51,680
again, if you're drinking, it is

451
00:26:51,720 --> 00:26:55,360
not going to be fun. If you're drunk, it Is not going to be fun.

452
00:26:55,400 --> 00:26:59,536
Sex. Men do not. I mean, you get

453
00:26:59,608 --> 00:27:04,016
whiskey dick. Yeah. Yeah. Well, you know, and. And realistically,

454
00:27:04,208 --> 00:27:07,568
you know, the more you drink, the more you kind of get hot and sweaty.

455
00:27:07,664 --> 00:27:11,312
Not the good sweaty. And it is not fun. You know, and. And the

456
00:27:11,336 --> 00:27:14,464
big thing is, is I understand that when you drink,

457
00:27:14,512 --> 00:27:17,470
you lose inhibitions. It makes you a little.

458
00:27:18,090 --> 00:27:21,490
But there is a small window. There is. Where if you keep

459
00:27:21,530 --> 00:27:25,042
drinking. Yes. You will become obliterated.

460
00:27:25,106 --> 00:27:28,786
Yes. And I have a feeling that at one party we're

461
00:27:28,818 --> 00:27:32,194
probably going to have massive, massive fun. Fun. And the

462
00:27:32,202 --> 00:27:34,898
other party, we're going to have to start it. Maybe.

463
00:27:34,994 --> 00:27:38,994
Maybe. And I'm kind of excited. I'm prepared to start it at both places.

464
00:27:39,122 --> 00:27:42,478
What I've learned at these parties is everybody loves

465
00:27:42,494 --> 00:27:45,950
a good show. Yes. And they don't really care who's giving the show.

466
00:27:46,070 --> 00:27:49,758
And so what we tend to do is we go in there and we meet

467
00:27:49,814 --> 00:27:52,910
everybody and we're wearing clothes for about 30

468
00:27:52,950 --> 00:27:56,270
minutes and then we find a bedroom or we find a spot that.

469
00:27:56,310 --> 00:27:59,854
That is the fuck spot. We just go at it. That relaxes

470
00:27:59,902 --> 00:28:03,406
us. That relaxes us. The first nut of the night. Yes.

471
00:28:03,518 --> 00:28:07,182
Really kind of loosens you up and I love it. So I

472
00:28:07,206 --> 00:28:10,934
will say we are looking forward to these parties tonight. They are going to

473
00:28:10,942 --> 00:28:14,022
be a lot of fun. And if they're not fun, guess what? We're still going

474
00:28:14,046 --> 00:28:17,238
to have fun. That's right. Because damn, you were fine.

475
00:28:17,334 --> 00:28:20,422
So are you. You're going to look so handsome. You know what? I'm not

476
00:28:20,446 --> 00:28:23,842
going to lie. I'm going to look a little dapper. Yeah. I'm ready for 2025.

477
00:28:24,049 --> 00:28:27,222
2025 is going to be an amazing year. And let

478
00:28:27,246 --> 00:28:30,438
me tell you something, 2025 is going to be an amazing year

479
00:28:30,494 --> 00:28:34,134
because not only have we started

480
00:28:34,222 --> 00:28:37,478
this podcast where we get to communicate with

481
00:28:37,534 --> 00:28:41,358
our community. Yes. But we have

482
00:28:41,414 --> 00:28:44,894
some big changes coming down the line and,

483
00:28:45,062 --> 00:28:48,622
you know, we really are thankful for

484
00:28:48,726 --> 00:28:52,542
everybody who's been listening in on the podcast. We've got

485
00:28:52,566 --> 00:28:56,542
a lot of things happening regarding the podcast. Things are expanding,

486
00:28:56,606 --> 00:29:00,446
things are moving and shaking and it is getting popular over here.

487
00:29:00,598 --> 00:29:04,152
We are happy to report that. And it

488
00:29:04,176 --> 00:29:07,992
should be an interesting year. I think. So I know that we were talking

489
00:29:08,136 --> 00:29:12,264
podcast wise, we were talking about bringing

490
00:29:12,312 --> 00:29:16,200
on some guests every now and then. And so we

491
00:29:16,240 --> 00:29:19,960
will be making some changes to our format at some

492
00:29:20,000 --> 00:29:23,832
point and bringing on some guests occasionally and doing that sort of thing.

493
00:29:23,936 --> 00:29:27,112
But for right now, you are stuck with us

494
00:29:27,216 --> 00:29:31,218
and we are stuck with you. And we. And that's okay. We love it.

495
00:29:31,274 --> 00:29:35,202
Hope you guys have a wonderful new year. And I hope you have tons

496
00:29:35,266 --> 00:29:38,642
of amazing sexual encounters.

497
00:29:38,786 --> 00:29:42,562
Absolutely. Here's wishing you some great, great sex and a

498
00:29:42,586 --> 00:29:46,322
great, great 2025. You guys, thanks for joining

499
00:29:46,386 --> 00:29:48,670
us. We will see you next week.