Episodes

Welcome to Swinger 101 — the episode we wish every curious couple listened to before jumping into the lifestyle. In this Wednesday Quickie, Adam & Pris break down the real basics of swinging in a way only Beyond Monogamy can: honest, funny, raw, and actually helpful. If you’re brand new, lifestyle-curious, or still Googling questions at 2am, this episode is for you. We cover what swinging really is (and what it absolutely is not), how it differs from open relationships and polyamory, and why swi...

What happens when non-monogamy stops being about labels and starts being about lived experience? In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we’re joined by speaker, author, and relationship coach Evita “Lavitaloca” Sawyers for a conversation that goes far beyond surface-level polyamory talk. This episode is all about learning how to live non-monogamy on your own terms — not the internet’s, not your partner’s, and definitely not some outdated rulebook you nev...

Is lasting longer in bed really the goal—or have we been getting it wrong this whole time? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we dive headfirst into a topic that gets whispered about but rarely discussed honestly: instant gratification in sex . After a real-life conversation at the club sparked a bigger realization, Adam and Pris unpack why so many people—especially women—actually prefer when sex doesn’t drag on forever. From cultural myths about “five-minute...

Polyamory doesn’t have to be confusing, chaotic, or emotionally overwhelming. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we sit down with award-winning sex and relationships educator Leanne Yau —the brilliant mind behind Poly Philia Blog —to unpack jealousy, boundaries, emotional security, and why non-monogamy isn’t a “phase” or a lack of commitment. Leanne shares how she discovered non-monogamy at a young age, how being cheated on shaped her views of honesty and trust, and why jealou...

Compersion Isn’t Automatic — And That’s Completely Normal Compersion gets talked about a lot in ethical non-monogamy — sometimes like it’s a requirement, sometimes like it’s a badge of honor. But what happens when it just… doesn’t come naturally? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we get real about jealousy, emotional processing, missed conversations, and the pressure people feel to “do non-monogamy right.” This is a raw, honest conversation pulled straight f...

Episode Summary: In this powerful and overdue conversation, Adam & Pris are joined by Ashley and Rob from the United Bi Swinging Podcast to talk openly about bisexual men in the swinging lifestyle, the stigma that still exists even in sex-positive spaces, and why honest communication matters more than labels. Ashley shares how Rob came out early in their relationship and why that honesty laid the foundation for trust instead of fear. Rob opens up about navigating bisexuality as a man in the life...

In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we’re calling out one of the biggest turn-offs in the lifestyle: entitlement disguised as “being ghosted.” Just because someone doesn’t reply immediately doesn’t mean they disappeared — it usually means they’re busy living a real life. This episode was sparked by a real interaction on Reddit where a lack of instant replies turned into accusations, guilt-tripping, and a crash course in what not to do when talking to people in...

Episode Summary In this spicy, hilarious, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we sit down with lifestyle newcomer and content creator Rae Crush for a conversation that covers everything from cosplaying as anime cats to navigating entitlement, sex work stigma, hypersexuality, and what it’s really like being a single bisexual woman (aka a unicorn) in the lifestyle. Rae shares how she stumbled into the lifestyle, why she immediately felt at home, and how her journey as...

In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we’re recapping one of our wildest, sexiest, and most unforgettable nights yet — our official Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet at Club Eden San Antonio . From arriving early to record a live podcast with content creator Rae, to dancing, pizza breaks, lingerie changes, and multiple unexpected play sessions, this night turned into the ultimate reminder of why we love this lifestyle. We talk about: Hosting our first Beyond Monogamy...

SUMMARY Ever wonder what the original sexual revolution really looked like? Before there were swinger apps, lifestyle websites, or even the term “ethical non-monogamy,” there were people just living it — raw, real, and unapologetic. In this week’s episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we sit down with Sam L. Feldman — author of Hookups, Hiccups, and Happenstances — to talk about what life and love looked like in the 60s and 70s when freedom was brand new, communication was everything, an...

This Week’s QUICKIE: Confessionals This week’s QUICKIE goes deep into the Beyond Monogamy Confessional — the anonymous submission box where listeners spill their wildest lifestyle stories. Adam & Pris read through real confessions about losing interest in the lifestyle, navigating rejection, and the never-ending battle with “horny brain.” From saying no gracefully to balancing trust in BDSM play, it’s equal parts sexy, funny, and real-life relatable. They also shout out The Happy Swinger for the...

🎧 This Week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris This week we sit down with the one and only Ms. Nookie — certified love coach, founder of The Love Mastery Institute , and creator of the oh-so-clever Nookie Notes . She’s teaching us how to date smarter, flirt with intention, and communicate like grown-ass adults — without killing the vibe . From turning consent into foreplay to surviving the modern dating apps (spoiler: it’s a shark tank out there), Ms. Nookie keeps it real, funny, and refreshing...

QUICKIE: Holiday Stress, Libido Slumps & Lifestyle Survival Hosts: Adam & Pris Series: Beyond Monogamy — Wednesday QUICKIE Episode Summary (SEO-Optimized) Holiday stress hits hard — and yes, it can put your libido on ice. In this candid QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get real (and hilarious) about December’s money crunch, mental overload, and what to do when “just not in the mood” becomes the default setting. They unpack how finances and old triggers collide with lifestyle plans, why connection matters mo...

Episode Summary Adam & Pris sit down with Jhannyphil Contreras of Tropical Unicorn Travels to unpack the real world of lifestyle-friendly travel —from Temptation Resort vibes to practical safety tips, payment-plan budgeting, and how to pick the right adults-only resort for your energy. We get candid about community, confidence, and body acceptance, and how a thoughtful, drama-free plan can turn any couples’ getaway into something unforgettable. If you’ve been curious about Temptation Cancun, Hed...

🎙️ 1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy Summary & Show Notes: Adam & Pris celebrate a wild 365 days of Beyond Monogamy — from nervous first recordings to international guests and unfiltered confessions. In this honest, hilarious, and heartfelt anniversary episode, they reveal how the podcast changed their marriage, deepened their communication, and strengthened their connection inside and outside the lifestyle. They share favorite moments, biggest lesso...

What happens when a couple turns their home into one of Houston’s most talked-about lifestyle destinations? Adam and Pris sit down with Nicole and Isaac , founders of Pineapple House TX , for an open, hilarious, and eye-opening conversation about what it takes to build a judgment-free space for connection, curiosity, and seriously sexy fun. They talk about how it all started, the challenges of throwing house parties in the lifestyle, and what separates Pineapple House TX from anything else in th...

Mental Health & The Lifestyle: Depression, Anxiety, Jealousy & the Parts Nobody Talks About In this week’s Beyond Monogamy Wednesday QUICKIE , Adam & Pris crack open a conversation most lifestyle folks avoid: mental health . From depression that hides behind humor, to feeling unwanted in LS spaces, to the pressure of always “being on” because of content creation, this episode gets raw, honest, and deeply needed. Adam opens up about a form of depression that doesn’t look like the stereotypical “c...

The Lifestyle Is for Everyone: Inclusivity & Texas Desires Hotel Takeover Episode Summary This episode opens with a listener voicemail from a lesbian couple asking how they fit into the lifestyle—so we break down inclusive, real-world guidance for same-sex couples navigating LS spaces, boundaries, and community. Then we sit down with Texas Desires to preview their Naughty & Nice Hotel Takeover in San Antonio, Dec 5–6 , where we’ll be recording a live Beyond Monogamy podcast . Expect a true full-...

Inside the Mind of Adam: Love, Chaos & Building a Beyond-Monogamy Marriage Episode Type: QUICKIE Show: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris What keeps a man grounded when life, love, and the lifestyle all collide? In this fun, raw, and real QUICKIE, Pris flips the mic on her husband and co-host, Adam, to dig deep into how he balances it all: a fiery wife, a busy podcast, family life, and the ups and downs of non-monogamy. From jealousy and communication struggles to menopause, ADHD, finances, and th...

🎧 Inside Austin’s Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle Step inside Austin’s legendary adult boutique, Forbidden Fruit , with Adam & Pris for a wild and hilarious live recording of Beyond Monogamy . In this special episode, the duo explores the shelves of Texas’ oldest adult store — surrounded by locally made toys, leather gear, art, and laughter — while diving into the unspoken rules of flirting in the lifestyle . From favorite toy confessions...

Quickie Episode • Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Lifecycle Events 101: How to Survive (and Thrive) at Your First Swinger Party First link (all details & tickets): See Our Events Calendar Episode Summary Nervous about your first lifestyle event? We’ve got you. In this Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about first-timer anxiety , how to find the right events, what to expect once you’re there, and simple ways to meet people without feeling overwhelmed. We also share details for two big meetups: our N...

In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor , and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with real-life stories. 💧 Jaime’s work: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com 🌐 Our site: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 ...

Anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional Drop your wild stories, burning questions, or true confessions—100% anonymous. We may feature yours in a future episode. Catch Us on FullSwapRadio Listen every Thursday at 2:00 PM & 7:00 PM Central...

Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST Patreon (early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord): Show Notes Attachment & IFS: How to spot when a part (not your core self) is driving reactivity—and how to respond with...