Episodes

Join Adam and Pris as they recount their journey from bumbling beginnings to seasoned experts in the art of dirty talk. In a playful episode filled with laughter and insight, they share personal stories about discovering what works and what doesn’t when it comes to bedroom banter. Initially, Pris's attempts were marked by a noticeable accent that added humor, while Adam relished in detailing scenarios. The couple discusses how they’ve learned to balance humor, imagination, and descriptive storyt...

In this podcast episode, hosts Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of managing boundaries within friendships, especially in social and lifestyle settings. They explore scenarios where friends cross personal boundaries, whether due to drunken behavior or misunderstanding social cues, and how challenging it can be to address such situations without causing embarrassment. The conversation delves into the difficulties of saying no to friends versus strangers, the importance of empowerment, and th...

Flirting can often feel like navigating a minefield of awkwardness, especially when you're unsure if your advances are welcome. Adam and Pris tackle this topic head-on, sharing their personal experiences and hiccups along the way. They delve into the nuances of flirting, from differentiating friendly behavior from flirtatious intent to managing the anxiety that can arise when expressing attraction. Through humor and honesty, they illustrate how everyone, regardless of experience level, can encou...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris explore the nuanced social, internal, and external pressures that individuals might face in swinger and polyamory lifestyles. Adam shares his experiences of feeling uncomfortable yet pressured to engage in activities, highlighting the importance of communication and consent. They discuss how saying 'no' can be challenging but essential for maintaining autonomy and comfort. Pris talks about their journey in finding the confidence to set boundaries...

Adam and Pris delve into the notion of feeling like a third wheel in intimate relationships, especially within non-monogamous setups. They share insights from their personal journey, highlighting how shifting focus from mere experiences to deeper connections has transformed their interactions. The duo also tackles the art of flirting, encouraging authenticity and intention in communication. They reflect on how insecurities can intertwine with these dynamics and the significance of compersion, of...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the complexities and joys of maintaining a passionate and evolving intimate life after 40. They discuss how aging impacts sex drive and sexual confidence, sharing personal anecdotes and insights into how their relationship has transformed over the years. From dealing with menopause and antidepressants to discovering a newfound physical vitality, Adam and Pris explore the balance of sensuality, intimacy, and evolving desires, offer...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into a listener's letter that explores the complex territory of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. The listener shares their journey as one partner becomes drawn to polyamory, eager to build deeper individual connections outside their primary relationship. Meanwhile, the other partner grapples with feelings of anxiety and discomfort as they struggle to adjust to this new dynamic. Adam and Pris, through candid conversation, sh...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris delve into the concept of an inherent hierarchy within the swinger community, often referred to as 'tiers.' They question whether such a structure truly exists or if it's a perception rooted in individual insecurities. The hosts recount their own experiences as newcomers who felt intimidated by seemingly popular community members, only to later realize that attraction is subjective. Through a candid discussion, the episode serves as a reminder th...

In this episode of 'Beyond Monogamy,' Adam and Pris delve into the topic of labels within the context of ethical non-monogamy. They discuss how labels such as 'cuckold,' 'hot wife,' 'pansexual,' and 'demisexual' can help individuals navigate their identities and desires within various relationship dynamics. While labels can be useful for understanding shared interests, the hosts highlight the evolving nature of identity and how, over time, these labels may become less significant as deeper perso...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the complexities of maintaining an active swinging lifestyle while raising a family. With five children, including four teenagers, they provide insights into the balance between personal desires and parenting responsibilities. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing family and communication, reflecting on their own experiences of navigating babysitters and family commitments. Despite the challenges, Adam and Pris advocate f...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the intriguing topic of squirting, demystifying its nature and addressing common misconceptions. With an open-minded and informative approach, they discuss the difference between squirting and female ejaculation, as well as its composition. The hosts emphasize the importance of communication, especially for those who squirt frequently, and challenge the stigma surrounding this natural occurrence. Both entertaining and educational...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris explore the nuances of emotional connections within the swinging lifestyle. They discuss their personal journey from polyamory to a more friendship-focused approach, emphasizing the importance of setting clear boundaries. The podcast delves into the difference between romantic and non-romantic connections, highlighting the significance of consent and open communication when exploring sexual relationships. Adam and Pris reflect on their expe...

Join Adam and Pris as they revisit a lively Boogie Nights-themed meet and greet that was filled with laughter, new friendships, and unforgettable costumes. Pris dazzled in her 70s jumpsuit, while Adam sported a retro tennis ensemble, sparking conversations and camaraderie. It wasn't just the costumes that left an impact—valuable experiences with meet and greet dynamics are shared, along with useful tips for newcomers. Explore their adventurous weekend, all while meeting new people and fostering ...

In this engaging episode, Adam and Pris delve into the intricacies of hot wife culture, exploring its duality as both potentially empowering and objectifying. They candidly share their personal experiences, discussing how initial participation in this lifestyle was driven by Adam's kink, while Pris initially felt objectified. Over time, she gained empowerment by making decisions about her own desires and boundaries. They explore the dynamic of mutual respect and the journey from objectification ...

Adam and Pris explore the theme of selectiveness in attraction on today’s Beyond Monogamy episode, contrasting their personal journeys and preferences. Pris reflects on her evolving taste, starting from a preference for a specific cultural background to a more inclusive view. Adam shares how his experiences of being judged shaped his preference for personalities over looks. They both discuss how these preferences play a role in their lifestyle choices, from purely physical engagements to deeper ...

Pris and Adam's conversation unveils their ongoing journey in non monogamy, focusing on newfound connections and personal growth. Pris describes her recent date as transformative, embracing attraction and connection with others outside her marriage. Adam discusses his journey to understanding the necessity of emotional bonds for fulfilling sexual experiences. Their narrative addresses past struggles with intimacy and the restrictions they unknowingly imposed on each other. Emphasizing openness a...

On the Beyond Monogamy podcast, Pris and Adam delve into the social dynamics of lifestyle events, sharing their journey from feeling excluded to embracing community bonds. They discuss overcoming initial insecurities, like being left out of private gatherings, and the efforts required to host their own events. With candid reflections, they underline the importance of remaining open and welcoming to foster inclusivity. While expressing the desire for more male-centric meet-ups, Adam humorously ac...

The latest episode of 'Beyond Monogamy' delves into the nuances of non-monogamous relationships. Hosts Adam and Pris openly discuss their experiences with new relationship dynamics, including Pris’s exhilaration about an upcoming solo date with a couple. They also touch on the crucial role of inclusive exchanges and the importance of communication, especially in a context where boundaries are being redefined. Adam shares his appreciation for how these experiences enrich their relationship. Theme...

Adam and Pris embark on a candid discussion about their favorite sexual fantasies on this week’s Wednesday Quickie. They talk openly about the logistical challenges and appeal of various scenarios, such as surprise encounters and gang bangs. Adam describes his admiration for watching Pris with other partners, referencing amateur video inspirations, while also considering a shared experience with friends. Addressing everything from personal insecurities to humorous moments, the hosts invite liste...

Adam and Pris, hosts of 'Beyond Monogamy,' tackle the topic of jealousy in non-monogamous relationships. Pris recounts her early struggles with insecurity and fear of losing Adam to others, while Adam mentions the naturalness of such emotions. They discuss the evolution of their communication and how transparency helped Pris realize her own worth, reducing her jealousy. The episode underscores the significance of self-awareness and partnership dynamics in navigating the complex emotional landsca...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris delve into the intricacies of attraction within non-monogamous relationships. They address the scenario where attraction between couples does not align symmetrically, with only one partner from a couple feeling a connection. The hosts share their personal experiences and discuss solutions like separate play, respecting personal and couple boundaries, and maintaining friendships even when attraction isn't mutual. Emphasizing communication and unde...

In this episode, Adam and Pris explore the dynamics of making connections within and outside the lifestyle. Pris shares her experiences with people from the vanilla world, highlighting the challenges and misunderstandings that can arise when explaining ethical non-monogamy. Meanwhile, Adam discusses his comfort with forming connections in both worlds, emphasizing the importance of over-communication to avoid misinterpretations. Both hosts agree on the importance of establishing clear boundaries ...

In this episode of 'Beyond Monogamy,' hosts Adam and Pris delve into the concept of compersion, which is often regarded as the opposite of jealousy. As a term primarily used within polyamorous communities, compersion describes the happiness one feels when their partner finds joy and fulfillment with others. Adam and Pris discuss personal experiences navigating compersion, emphasizing its potential to strengthen relationships through empathy and understanding. They share candid insights into over...

Hosts Adam and Pris of Beyond Monogamy provide listeners with a comprehensive guide to swinger terminology. Through candid discussions, they explain the meanings behind terms like soft swap and full swap, highlighting the importance of understanding these concepts within the lifestyle. The episode also touches on the cultural phenomenon of pineapples as a swinger symbol, exploring its mysterious origins. With an emphasis on community and connection, Adam and Pris describe their experiences in me...