Swingin’ Into the Spotlight: Dan & Lacy of The Swing Nation Light Up Beyond Monogamy

You ever meet a couple and think, “Yep… they’re the real deal.” That’s exactly how we felt chatting with Dan & Lacy, the powerhouse duo behind The Swing Nation — the podcast that’s turned pineapples into power symbols and helped millions of people realize that “swingers” aren’t the wild caricatures the world assumes.

These two are everywhere: from TikTok and OnlyFans to massive lifestyle events like Secrets and Bliss Cruise. But before they were running one of the biggest swinger communities on the planet, they were just a couple trying to keep the spark alive across time zones — Dan deployed overseas, Lacy home with a camera and a mischievous idea.

🍍 From Horny Deployment to Global Brand

What started as a flirty OnlyFans experiment between a Northern Guy and a Southern Girl turned into a viral TikTok hit. Their third video — featuring a cheeky upside-down pineapple — racked up 11 million views, and boom 💥 The Swing Nation was born.

But fame wasn’t the plan. They were just being… them — real, raw, and unapologetically themselves. When the internet “outed” them as swingers, they had two options: crawl back into the pineapple closet or own it. Thankfully, they chose own it. And in doing so, they created something way bigger than either of them could’ve imagined.

🎙️ From TikTok Lives to The Swing Nation Podcast

The Swing Nation podcast took off because people needed it.
Every week, Dan & Lacy take on the big questions people whisper about: jealousy, consent, connection, and all the messy-sexy-human stuff that comes with ethical non-monogamy.

It’s not scripted, it’s not polished — and that’s the point. Lacy keeps it real with humor and vulnerability (and the occasional “I’ll cut a bitch” moment), while Dan brings that grounded, ex-military energy and a knack for turning chaos into connection. Together, they’re that couple you wish lived next door — the ones who make you laugh, think, and maybe blush a little.

🔥 The Swing Nation Empire

Between their Swinger Society community (nearly 50,000 members!), their club tours, hotel takeovers, and content that consistently gets shadow-banned but never stops spreading, they’ve built something much bigger than a podcast.

They’re hosting sold-out events at Secrets, working with lifestyle-friendly sponsors, and teasing a whole new brand that blends music-festival vibes with lifestyle energy — think Burning Man meets Body Shots.

Oh, and reality TV? Let’s just say there are NDAs involved and leave it at that 👀

💬 The Mission That Matters

Through all the chaos, Dan & Lacy stay anchored by one mission:

“We wanna shed a positive light on this community and show the world that swingers are not what you think they are. They’re your moms and dads, lawyers, teachers, and cops. Over 10 million Americans are living this lifestyle day to day — you just don’t know it.”

They’re fighting for visibility, authenticity, and freedom — and doing it with humor, honesty, and plenty of pineapple energy.

As Dan put it, “If 10 million Americans can’t live as their authentic self, how are we really a free country?”

That’s not just sexy talk — that’s the kind of statement that hits deep.

💞 Adam & Pris’ Take

We’ve met a lot of people in the lifestyle, but Dan & Lacy have this rare mix of swagger and sincerity. They’re not out here pretending to be experts — they’re just living it, owning their story, and showing others it’s okay to do the same.

It’s couples like them who remind us why Beyond Monogamy exists: to keep these conversations flowing, to keep challenging the old stigmas, and to show the world that ethical non-monogamy isn’t some shadowy secret — it’s just another way to love, connect, and live fully.

So here’s to Dan & Lacy — to every upside-down pineapple, every awkward first club night, every raw conversation that makes someone out there feel seen. 🍍❤️

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