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Alright y'all, before we
dive in, a quick heads up.

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This show is raw, real, and
definitely not rated pg.

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We're talking about adult themes, sexual
content, and the kind of stuff you

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probably don't want blasting through your
speakers at work or around your kits.

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So grab some headphones, pour your
drink of choice and get comfy.

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Oh, and just so we're clear, we are not
licensed therapists, counselors, or sex.

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Couches.

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Sex coaches.

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Sex coaches, not sex couches

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or just a couple of people sharing our
lives, experiences and sexy adventures.

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An ethical non-monogamy.

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So with that, pull up a
chair and enjoy the show.

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And.

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Hello, and welcome to another
episode of Beyond Monogamy.

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I'm Adam.

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And I'm Pris.

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And today on our Wednesday quickie,
we are going to be talking to this

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wonderful man right here of mine.

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Oh, oh.

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It is called Love Laughter in Life.

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With Adam.

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Uh, just so you guys know, I normally
plan the topics for the show.

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She told me today she had the
topic and she wasn't gonna tell

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me until we got on the show.

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So yeah.

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So today it's all about my man.

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Wow.

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My partner, my king, my
goodness, my chaos and my calm.

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Oh, Mr. Adam.

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Well, okay.

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Hello.

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Um, so we're gonna be keeping it real.

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We're gonna be keeping it fun.

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Real fun, and we're gonna just dive into
what love and relationships really looks

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like beyond, you know, beyond all these
little highlights stuff that we do.

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You know?

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Yeah.

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So you ready for this?

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Let's do it, baby.

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All right.

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This is fun.

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Is it okay?

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Yeah.

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Don't worry, it's gonna be fun.

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Okay.

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Okay, so the real stuff
right here, the real stuff.

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All right, honey, people are very curious
because you have a wife here who is.

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I'm 47 that you are.

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I am menopausal.

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I'm in menopause.

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That you are as well.

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I am ADHD.

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Yes you are.

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I am very controlling.

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Mm.

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Did you write that?

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No, I'm telling you I'm very controlling.

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I do.

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I, you know, I'm a, I'm, I would
say I'm a handful as are you.

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But this is all about you right now.

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Okay?

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Okay.

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This is not Priscilla's show.

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Okay.

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Everybody knows how freaking amazing I am.

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Of course.

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I'm talking about that.

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We're talking about how
freaking amazing you are.

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All right.

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Okay.

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So I wanna know, how do you balance that?

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Like, how do you ba what does
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How do you balance?

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My chaoticness, our lifestyle, our
podcast, our family and everything.

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How, what?

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What keeps Adam?

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Adam, because Okay.

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You don't really like I mean
everybody, you know, it's your husband.

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He's not always the great person.

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But I can actually say that mine
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Thank you.

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I mean, you know, we get
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Just like everybody.

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Of course.

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Right.

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We have our days where I don't
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wanna talk to me, and yeah.

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It is what it is.

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But we do have really good communication.

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So I wanna know like how
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with, let's just put it in a lifestyle.

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So how do you balance my chaoticness
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I don't know what I want to do.

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I don't know where I want to go.

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I don't know.

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Like what keeps you super calm?

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I mean, I know what keeps you
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know, how do you just balance that?

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Well, I can tell you, I mean, a good
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you to, I mean, you read, I read it.

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You read it, you're gonna fix it.

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It doesn't matter.

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I love it though.

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Uh, you know, honestly, when we,
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you and I know that I said that
a lot when we first got together.

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It was like, that meant a
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Pursued anybody.

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You were the first woman
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So there was a lot that went to that.

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Mm-hmm.

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Uh, as far as how I felt about you
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you when we were first dating because
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you could tell they were kind like
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like kind of scummy and stuff like that.

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Mm-hmm.

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Something about you when The few
times that we would get into it.

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You know, like we would have
an argument of some sort.

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You were very adamant about
certain things that I had never

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met anybody be adamant about.

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Like, okay, we need to get over this now.

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Yes.

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Let's not go to bed angry.

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Yes.

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Let's talk.

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So you were, I'm very stubborn
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I don't wanna talk about this.

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You need to leave me alone
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Mm-hmm.

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You know, for days and you didn't let me.

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And you were real kind of lovable about
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I remember the, the only time I
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early on in our relationship.

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And you called me back and I remember
answering, and you told me immediately.

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I never ever did that to you.

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I would never do that to you.

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I deserve better respect than that.

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And there was something
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That I sat back and I
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Like I, she, she deserves the
same respect that she gives me.

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Like that.

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I don't know what it was about that moment
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Mm-hmm.

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That kind of ingrained
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I mean, I was.

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Head over heels in love with you.

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And as we went on, I, I realized I
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Like anything and everything.

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And so just, just with that alone.

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You're frigging crazy.

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Like you're, I am.

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You've, there's a lot of
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crazy, I mean that with love.

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But there's a lot that,
that goes on with you.

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Like there's, you have a billion
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out how to make all of them happen.

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And you have, you're slacking, you have
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a billion different things and you're
sick with all of these different things.

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And really there's.

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No doctor has ever figured it out.

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Like even the doctor's like,
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like, but I feel horrible.

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Uh, I don't know.

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Change your oil.

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I don't know.

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You know, there's, there's a lot.

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And, and then when you turn it to you
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would even be in the lifestyle much less.

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Where we are with a
podcast in the lifestyle.

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Because you are so jealous or worth I am.

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You've you're getting,
you're getting better.

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No, I am, I'm a very jealous person.

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But it's not for insecurities.

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I, yeah.

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I don't think I, I, I know my worth.

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I know.

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I am fine with the way I
look and, and all that stuff.

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Like, it's not physical
jealousy that I usually get.

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It's more intellectual
jealousy, insecurities.

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We've discussed that before.

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But you know, it's, it's even with those,
I, I never figured you to be able to.

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Open your mind up well enough to
accept this kind of lifestyle.

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Yeah.

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To accept non-monogamy.

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Yeah.

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To, to let me enjoy the aspects
that I want to enjoy of it.

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I, I just never saw it happening.

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And there was some one day out of so
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you just came out and you were like.

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It makes sense to me now.

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I mean, I've got it.

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Well, and, and even you said it was like,
it, it was like a switch just flipped.

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It was something different.

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And it just made sense to you.

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But I don't know, I just, it you
just kind of to, to balance it all.

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To balance you.

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Uh, it's really just a mental stability
of I know she's gonna come around.

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Yeah.

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I know.

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She's gonna get better.

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I know that.

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It.

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'cause you always do, you've
always worked on getting better.

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Yeah, I mean, I do.

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I do.

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Well, thank you for your patience.

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Mm-hmm.

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So what do you think, what do you
think mainly like keeps us strong?

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Is it like, well first of all,
what is your love language?

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What would you say your love language is?

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To me.

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To you, like what do you like?

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Physical affection.

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Mm-hmm.

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I love the physical touch,
you know, that sort of thing.

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Like, it does a lot for me, but I'm
that guy who wants to feel wanted.

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Yeah.

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So when somebody physically
just in passing whatever Yeah.

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You know?

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Yeah.

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And what is mine?

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Yours is acts of service.

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Yeah, yeah.

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You, you love acts of service and do you,
and you love to give gifts and do you

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think we balance each other with that?

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Do you think I'm very affectionate
to you and do you think our

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love language is compatible?

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Yeah, I think so.

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Yeah.

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Me too.

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I think so.

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You know, you're very
physically affectionate with me.

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Yeah.

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Almost to the point to where, you know.

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Cock blocking in a way at,
at, uh, clubs and stuff.

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And, and you know, it's hard for
me to really complain about that

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because I already told you No, no, no.

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00:09:42,032 --> 00:09:43,112
I wouldn't complain about it.

263
00:09:43,112 --> 00:09:43,497
You didn't break away.

264
00:09:43,832 --> 00:09:46,262
I wouldn't complain about it because
I'm, I, I don't, I don't, some

265
00:09:46,532 --> 00:09:48,032
wait, you're my security blanket.

266
00:09:48,032 --> 00:09:48,182
Is it?

267
00:09:48,182 --> 00:09:53,372
So I'm just, when you've mentioned it more
than twice, it's for entertainment value.

268
00:09:53,432 --> 00:09:55,052
Besides, it helps me get to my point.

269
00:09:55,082 --> 00:09:55,442
Okay.

270
00:09:55,472 --> 00:09:59,582
Which is, you know, you are,
you show me physical affection.

271
00:09:59,582 --> 00:10:02,042
I, so it's hard for me to complain
about that because that's what I like.

272
00:10:02,162 --> 00:10:02,432
Yeah.

273
00:10:03,497 --> 00:10:08,417
Okay, so what is one thing
that we do to help us reconnect

274
00:10:08,417 --> 00:10:09,647
When the lifestyle is crazy.

275
00:10:11,507 --> 00:10:13,007
When the lifestyle is crazy.

276
00:10:13,037 --> 00:10:13,427
Yeah.

277
00:10:13,667 --> 00:10:15,077
We have hectic life.

278
00:10:16,112 --> 00:10:17,282
Like, we're busy.

279
00:10:17,282 --> 00:10:22,292
We're not only busy, like I, you see me,
people I like get out of, I'm at work.

280
00:10:22,322 --> 00:10:23,252
I don't even change.

281
00:10:23,252 --> 00:10:23,852
I'm here.

282
00:10:23,852 --> 00:10:23,942
Yeah.

283
00:10:24,362 --> 00:10:25,982
And it is very busy.

284
00:10:25,982 --> 00:10:29,182
And if I wasn't right here standing,
I'd be in the same clothes doing making

285
00:10:29,182 --> 00:10:30,322
dinner and stuff like that, kitchen stuff.

286
00:10:30,322 --> 00:10:37,352
So it's, I'm very curious to what you
what do you think makes us like reconnect,

287
00:10:37,622 --> 00:10:39,062
let's just put it in the lifestyle.

288
00:10:39,062 --> 00:10:42,332
So like, after a lifestyle event.

289
00:10:43,367 --> 00:10:44,087
Whatever.

290
00:10:44,267 --> 00:10:44,537
Yeah.

291
00:10:45,677 --> 00:10:49,127
What do you like to do
to reconnect with me?

292
00:10:49,997 --> 00:10:51,407
Well, there's a couple of things.

293
00:10:51,487 --> 00:10:55,927
Because obviously there's
the basic, we just, we just

294
00:10:55,927 --> 00:10:57,337
finished up a lifestyle event.

295
00:10:57,337 --> 00:11:03,697
We go to a bed, you know, whether it
be at a hotel bed or, or a house bed.

296
00:11:03,697 --> 00:11:04,987
But you know, we.

297
00:11:05,707 --> 00:11:07,147
Physically engage each other.

298
00:11:07,297 --> 00:11:07,687
Right.

299
00:11:07,687 --> 00:11:08,377
That's a given.

300
00:11:08,617 --> 00:11:08,917
Yeah.

301
00:11:09,007 --> 00:11:13,717
Uh, but as far as emotional reconnecting,
the thing that we do the best, it's,

302
00:11:13,717 --> 00:11:16,507
it's our happy place is to go out to eat.

303
00:11:16,627 --> 00:11:16,987
Yeah.

304
00:11:17,017 --> 00:11:18,517
And we'll, or go get our coffee.

305
00:11:18,517 --> 00:11:20,947
Go get our coffee, and
usually go out to eat too.

306
00:11:20,947 --> 00:11:21,007
Yeah.

307
00:11:21,012 --> 00:11:23,497
And, and we'll sit there and we'll recap.

308
00:11:23,617 --> 00:11:23,917
Yeah.

309
00:11:23,917 --> 00:11:27,157
Or, you know, or we'll, you know,
drink our coffee and we'll have

310
00:11:27,157 --> 00:11:28,567
a whole conversation about it.

311
00:11:28,567 --> 00:11:33,367
And that right there is where I get to
pick your brain on different experiences

312
00:11:33,367 --> 00:11:34,627
that you've had and how you've.

313
00:11:34,627 --> 00:11:37,772
Felt about certain things and you
get to talk to me about things and

314
00:11:37,772 --> 00:11:40,112
it's just a, it's good, you know?

315
00:11:40,202 --> 00:11:40,772
I like that.

316
00:11:40,802 --> 00:11:40,982
Yeah.

317
00:11:40,982 --> 00:11:43,082
We've learned a lot from
those conversations we have.

318
00:11:44,222 --> 00:11:47,462
Okay, so we know you've
been married before.

319
00:11:47,872 --> 00:11:50,902
You've had, I have previous relationships.

320
00:11:51,082 --> 00:11:51,502
Yes, I have.

321
00:11:51,532 --> 00:11:54,742
Um, I wanna say that this is
your longest relationship.

322
00:11:55,192 --> 00:11:59,242
That is a good, uh, and this is, this
is my longest, longest relationship.

323
00:11:59,242 --> 00:11:59,422
Confirm.

324
00:11:59,422 --> 00:11:59,482
Yeah.

325
00:11:59,932 --> 00:12:01,342
So we kind of grew up together.

326
00:12:01,552 --> 00:12:01,882
Yes.

327
00:12:01,912 --> 00:12:02,302
Right?

328
00:12:02,302 --> 00:12:02,902
Absolutely.

329
00:12:03,322 --> 00:12:08,722
So when did you realize that
it actual, it actually takes

330
00:12:08,722 --> 00:12:11,482
teamwork, not just chemistry.

331
00:12:12,607 --> 00:12:14,677
When did that kind of pop in your head?

332
00:12:15,007 --> 00:12:17,587
You know, honestly, it was a while.

333
00:12:17,797 --> 00:12:19,177
Yeah, it was a while.

334
00:12:19,177 --> 00:12:20,167
I would say it was a while.

335
00:12:20,167 --> 00:12:23,947
I would say, I would say probably
when we stopped being poly.

336
00:12:24,157 --> 00:12:24,607
Yeah.

337
00:12:25,267 --> 00:12:28,897
Uh, so I, after we stopped being poly.

338
00:12:29,992 --> 00:12:32,692
You started finding your voice a bit more.

339
00:12:32,992 --> 00:12:33,172
Yes.

340
00:12:33,232 --> 00:12:38,092
And also you and I started learning
how to properly communicate.

341
00:12:38,662 --> 00:12:38,842
Yes.

342
00:12:38,872 --> 00:12:42,112
Uh, because we thought we had a
really good way of communicating.

343
00:12:42,442 --> 00:12:43,102
Mm-hmm.

344
00:12:43,103 --> 00:12:43,113
Mm-hmm.

345
00:12:43,113 --> 00:12:43,153
And we did not.

346
00:12:43,762 --> 00:12:47,237
And we learned, no, we had to stop
throwing the spatulas and stuff.

347
00:12:47,377 --> 00:12:50,182
We, we learned, we learned
how to communicate.

348
00:12:50,182 --> 00:12:50,662
Definitely.

349
00:12:50,662 --> 00:12:51,892
And so with that.

350
00:12:52,477 --> 00:12:57,847
I think everything just kind of started
to mesh and we started to realize, you

351
00:12:57,847 --> 00:13:02,147
know, that's when I really started to
realize, but you also you know, you

352
00:13:02,147 --> 00:13:06,587
always gave a lot as far as service
to the family, and you still do.

353
00:13:06,617 --> 00:13:07,157
Yes.

354
00:13:07,227 --> 00:13:09,837
You know, you do
everything and, and you do.

355
00:13:09,837 --> 00:13:12,597
So like, it's, it's like a nature.

356
00:13:12,657 --> 00:13:13,047
Yeah.

357
00:13:13,047 --> 00:13:14,217
It's not even a question.

358
00:13:14,222 --> 00:13:14,342
Yeah.

359
00:13:14,362 --> 00:13:14,662
You know?

360
00:13:14,787 --> 00:13:14,907
Yeah.

361
00:13:15,157 --> 00:13:18,037
And so I started realizing.

362
00:13:18,592 --> 00:13:22,672
You know, this woman needs my help and I
need to, you know, kind of pick up Slack

363
00:13:22,672 --> 00:13:24,412
in certain arenas and stuff like that.

364
00:13:24,412 --> 00:13:27,407
I mean, I think we work really well
together, but I will, I will agree that

365
00:13:27,407 --> 00:13:31,037
your thoughts of it has to be teamwork.

366
00:13:31,817 --> 00:13:33,527
It's was there before, but.

367
00:13:34,487 --> 00:13:38,627
I spoil you, the kiddos and stuff.

368
00:13:38,627 --> 00:13:38,687
Yeah.

369
00:13:38,687 --> 00:13:40,337
And it's like, no, I got it.

370
00:13:40,337 --> 00:13:40,877
No, I got it.

371
00:13:40,877 --> 00:13:41,392
So, yeah.

372
00:13:41,397 --> 00:13:41,777
Yeah.

373
00:13:41,777 --> 00:13:42,827
We are rather spoiled.

374
00:13:42,947 --> 00:13:43,367
Yeah.

375
00:13:43,937 --> 00:13:44,957
Good for stepping up.

376
00:13:45,107 --> 00:13:45,947
I appreciate it.

377
00:13:46,037 --> 00:13:47,027
I just want you happy.

378
00:13:47,027 --> 00:13:48,707
If that makes you happy,
then by all means.

379
00:13:48,737 --> 00:13:49,217
All right.

380
00:13:49,547 --> 00:13:51,437
Now this is the fun part, guys.

381
00:13:51,437 --> 00:13:52,152
This is the fun part.

382
00:13:52,187 --> 00:13:53,807
This is even more fun right here.

383
00:13:53,837 --> 00:13:54,347
Oh, okay.

384
00:13:54,647 --> 00:13:57,887
So this is the, you know, the little.

385
00:13:59,087 --> 00:14:00,197
The little exciting part.

386
00:14:00,422 --> 00:14:00,712
Okay.

387
00:14:00,717 --> 00:14:00,977
Okay.

388
00:14:01,937 --> 00:14:05,747
Who is more likely to start
an argument, you or me,

389
00:14:06,747 --> 00:14:08,067
to start an argument?

390
00:14:09,147 --> 00:14:10,617
To start an argument?

391
00:14:12,057 --> 00:14:12,417
Whew.

392
00:14:13,437 --> 00:14:13,977
I think me, I

393
00:14:14,977 --> 00:14:15,487
really.

394
00:14:16,732 --> 00:14:17,752
I think me, actually, no.

395
00:14:17,812 --> 00:14:20,002
Yeah, I think you, yeah, yeah.

396
00:14:20,062 --> 00:14:21,052
No, no.

397
00:14:21,052 --> 00:14:21,687
It, and it's not.

398
00:14:21,767 --> 00:14:23,807
I will, it's not that I will
keep the argument going, trying.

399
00:14:23,807 --> 00:14:24,352
It's not that I'm trying.

400
00:14:24,352 --> 00:14:25,582
Yeah, you'll keep the argument going.

401
00:14:25,582 --> 00:14:27,772
It's not really the, that
I try to start an argument.

402
00:14:27,772 --> 00:14:29,572
It's just, I don't know
how to get my point across.

403
00:14:29,572 --> 00:14:34,492
Sometimes ADHD, I just don't
know my, I don't understand my

404
00:14:34,492 --> 00:14:35,662
words, so then I have to like.

405
00:14:36,322 --> 00:14:36,982
Hold on, baby.

406
00:14:36,982 --> 00:14:37,402
Lemme chat.

407
00:14:37,402 --> 00:14:38,032
GPT this real quick.

408
00:14:38,032 --> 00:14:40,942
But you've gotten, you've gotten better
about stopping me in my tracks and

409
00:14:40,942 --> 00:14:43,072
going, I know I'm not wording that right.

410
00:14:43,072 --> 00:14:43,972
Just give me a second.

411
00:14:43,972 --> 00:14:45,022
Gimme a moment, sir. Okay.

412
00:14:45,112 --> 00:14:46,312
Let me figure this out.

413
00:14:46,312 --> 00:14:46,882
Spit it out.

414
00:14:46,942 --> 00:14:49,762
You know who gives in first?

415
00:14:50,272 --> 00:14:54,652
Oh, that would be, well, I guess you,

416
00:14:55,652 --> 00:14:57,887
who says, I love you first each day?

417
00:15:00,602 --> 00:15:03,417
Me, I do Uhuh.

418
00:15:04,217 --> 00:15:05,017
I say it first.

419
00:15:05,237 --> 00:15:05,672
No, I do.

420
00:15:05,942 --> 00:15:06,332
I do.

421
00:15:06,332 --> 00:15:08,012
Because don't I have to?

422
00:15:08,162 --> 00:15:10,562
I have to be the one to wake
you up and stuff usually.

423
00:15:11,642 --> 00:15:12,512
No, you don't.

424
00:15:12,512 --> 00:15:14,792
You're still snoring when
my arms are going off.

425
00:15:15,092 --> 00:15:16,502
Not if I wake you up sexually.

426
00:15:17,282 --> 00:15:19,202
I usually throw in and I
love you in there somewhere.

427
00:15:19,622 --> 00:15:20,312
Oh man.

428
00:15:20,882 --> 00:15:23,462
Who plans the best dates?

429
00:15:25,097 --> 00:15:25,847
Oh dude.

430
00:15:26,147 --> 00:15:29,747
So I feel like even though this
is a show about me, I feel like

431
00:15:29,747 --> 00:15:33,317
it's really like subconsciously
on under the level about you.

432
00:15:33,707 --> 00:15:36,137
You, you, you plan the best dates.

433
00:15:36,137 --> 00:15:36,407
Yes.

434
00:15:36,407 --> 00:15:38,747
What else do you do that's
great in this relationship?

435
00:15:38,942 --> 00:15:40,132
Who's more romantic?

436
00:15:40,522 --> 00:15:40,812
Yeah.

437
00:15:40,912 --> 00:15:42,827
Versus more practical.

438
00:15:42,832 --> 00:15:42,972
Yeah.

439
00:15:42,972 --> 00:15:43,697
What did I just say?

440
00:15:43,757 --> 00:15:43,847
Huh?

441
00:15:44,267 --> 00:15:44,927
You guys heard it?

442
00:15:45,257 --> 00:15:46,127
You guys heard it.

443
00:15:47,447 --> 00:15:49,307
I really feel like this
is the Priscilla show.

444
00:15:49,457 --> 00:15:50,237
You do honey.

445
00:15:50,612 --> 00:15:51,032
You do.

446
00:15:52,472 --> 00:15:52,802
All right.

447
00:15:52,832 --> 00:15:53,792
Holy crap.

448
00:15:54,302 --> 00:15:56,942
So this is like real talk
for people right here.

449
00:15:56,942 --> 00:16:01,412
This is for couples because I've been
getting this like question and, and how

450
00:16:01,412 --> 00:16:03,062
do we navigate and how do we do this?

451
00:16:03,362 --> 00:16:09,162
I want you or I want you
what advice would you give to

452
00:16:09,162 --> 00:16:11,052
couples trying to grow together?

453
00:16:11,892 --> 00:16:12,942
And not a part.

454
00:16:13,122 --> 00:16:20,322
So you and I have, I have ADHD I
am very headstrong as so are you.

455
00:16:20,982 --> 00:16:26,652
But what, and you know, you've, like you
said, you've, you realized that we needed

456
00:16:26,652 --> 00:16:29,202
that teamwork, communication and all that.

457
00:16:29,982 --> 00:16:34,122
What advice would you give to couples
trying to grow together and not apart?

458
00:16:34,962 --> 00:16:36,132
Meet in the middle man.

459
00:16:36,342 --> 00:16:39,612
You know, I, I think that's what it all
comes down to is meeting into the middle.

460
00:16:39,612 --> 00:16:39,732
Mm-hmm.

461
00:16:40,002 --> 00:16:44,472
Because so many people, even when
they're fighting, everybody wants to win.

462
00:16:44,922 --> 00:16:45,312
Yeah.

463
00:16:45,312 --> 00:16:46,692
I gotta win, you know?

464
00:16:46,722 --> 00:16:46,782
Yeah.

465
00:16:46,782 --> 00:16:48,672
And, and, and you gotta
lose this argument.

466
00:16:48,672 --> 00:16:51,912
I gotta, and, and when somebody's
trying to win, nobody wins.

467
00:16:51,942 --> 00:16:52,272
Yeah.

468
00:16:52,332 --> 00:16:54,882
So, really, you gotta stop.

469
00:16:54,962 --> 00:16:56,252
So you have to stop.

470
00:16:56,822 --> 00:16:58,202
Stop arguing with each other.

471
00:16:58,202 --> 00:17:02,222
You have to talk to each other and you
have to be patient with each other.

472
00:17:02,227 --> 00:17:02,427
Mm-hmm.

473
00:17:02,512 --> 00:17:06,272
And I say that because, uh, a lot
of my fellas, they don't understand

474
00:17:06,272 --> 00:17:10,802
that women go into menopause or maybe
they have that time of the month and

475
00:17:10,802 --> 00:17:12,452
there are hormones that are involved.

476
00:17:12,782 --> 00:17:15,722
And I feel like men need to be a
bit more understanding to that.

477
00:17:15,932 --> 00:17:16,112
Yes.

478
00:17:16,212 --> 00:17:18,432
Of course, also in the same breath.

479
00:17:18,972 --> 00:17:24,762
It doesn't give a, a woman no
a reason to to act horribly.

480
00:17:24,762 --> 00:17:25,272
It doesn't.

481
00:17:25,272 --> 00:17:30,612
And women, you really have
to open yourself up to that.

482
00:17:30,612 --> 00:17:32,352
I'm just gonna add a little sprinkle.

483
00:17:32,532 --> 00:17:36,432
You have to open up yourself to that
because had I not opened up that part

484
00:17:36,432 --> 00:17:38,322
of me to you, you would've never known.

485
00:17:38,327 --> 00:17:39,612
No, we would've never known.

486
00:17:39,612 --> 00:17:42,072
We would gone through the, we've
had conversation through the con.

487
00:17:42,102 --> 00:17:45,012
We just would've been not happy.

488
00:17:45,042 --> 00:17:46,272
'cause we were not.

489
00:17:46,647 --> 00:17:49,437
Happy Not with each other,
just not in ourselves.

490
00:17:49,437 --> 00:17:50,307
We were just not happy.

491
00:17:50,427 --> 00:17:50,697
Yeah.

492
00:17:50,697 --> 00:17:52,587
I mean, I could tell that
there was changes afoot.

493
00:17:52,797 --> 00:17:52,917
Yeah.

494
00:17:52,977 --> 00:17:57,027
Uh, but you know, we guys, we have to
really be understanding to that because

495
00:17:57,207 --> 00:18:02,277
there's a lot of things that are happening
in women that we don't have to deal with

496
00:18:02,307 --> 00:18:07,707
and we don't understand, and they have
difficulty explaining in the moment.

497
00:18:08,047 --> 00:18:11,437
And so if you can be patient with that
and you can wait and just kind of mm-hmm.

498
00:18:11,677 --> 00:18:12,287
Work through it.

499
00:18:12,817 --> 00:18:12,877
It.

500
00:18:13,357 --> 00:18:14,587
The reward is there.

501
00:18:14,947 --> 00:18:15,307
Yeah.

502
00:18:15,427 --> 00:18:16,927
You know, the reward is there.

503
00:18:16,987 --> 00:18:17,767
That's good.

504
00:18:17,857 --> 00:18:18,127
Yeah.

505
00:18:18,397 --> 00:18:19,087
I like that.

506
00:18:19,147 --> 00:18:23,437
That's how I feel about it now,
because I feel this is the Adam show.

507
00:18:23,977 --> 00:18:24,902
What is it?

508
00:18:25,122 --> 00:18:25,957
It is.

509
00:18:26,017 --> 00:18:27,097
Okay.

510
00:18:27,097 --> 00:18:27,107
What?

511
00:18:27,157 --> 00:18:30,667
What makes you feel appreciated
in a healthy relationship?

512
00:18:30,667 --> 00:18:32,497
I would say we have a
healthy relationship.

513
00:18:32,502 --> 00:18:33,157
Yeah, I know we do.

514
00:18:33,487 --> 00:18:34,927
What makes you feel appreciated?

515
00:18:35,557 --> 00:18:36,847
What makes me feel appreciated?

516
00:18:36,847 --> 00:18:39,197
Well, you know, it's
just the simple things.

517
00:18:39,227 --> 00:18:39,557
Yeah.

518
00:18:39,707 --> 00:18:41,597
Literally showing appreciation.

519
00:18:41,807 --> 00:18:41,987
Yeah.

520
00:18:42,017 --> 00:18:45,407
Uh, literally, you know,
the physical affection.

521
00:18:45,407 --> 00:18:46,937
Hey, thank you so much for doing.

522
00:18:46,967 --> 00:18:47,327
Of course.

523
00:18:47,327 --> 00:18:50,297
Well, I don't really get that from you.

524
00:18:50,657 --> 00:18:52,487
You tend to focus on the negatives.

525
00:18:52,487 --> 00:18:55,207
So you walk in, you're like
hello, you didn't do this.

526
00:18:55,207 --> 00:18:55,597
And I'm like.

527
00:18:56,287 --> 00:18:58,252
But did you see all the
other stuff they did?

528
00:18:58,267 --> 00:18:58,387
Yeah.

529
00:18:58,387 --> 00:19:01,252
So my honey is like a, I
mean like a teenage boy.

530
00:19:01,522 --> 00:19:05,092
So you gotta give 'em the appreciation
and then you can tell them what

531
00:19:05,092 --> 00:19:06,502
they haven't finished doing.

532
00:19:06,802 --> 00:19:08,812
I mean, come on, gimme a break.

533
00:19:08,812 --> 00:19:09,172
You know?

534
00:19:09,172 --> 00:19:11,242
So, uh, that's, that's my thing.

535
00:19:11,272 --> 00:19:12,112
I like that.

536
00:19:12,772 --> 00:19:13,192
Yeah.

537
00:19:13,492 --> 00:19:17,452
So how do you deal with, I'm not
really a shut down type of person,

538
00:19:17,452 --> 00:19:18,712
but how do you deal with that?

539
00:19:18,712 --> 00:19:21,322
How do you deal with when I have
moments where I'm just like, I

540
00:19:21,322 --> 00:19:23,312
wanna just shut down and I don't
wanna communicate with you.

541
00:19:24,217 --> 00:19:27,187
Do you, do you think
people should give space?

542
00:19:27,187 --> 00:19:27,877
Absolutely.

543
00:19:28,357 --> 00:19:29,737
Let people cool down.

544
00:19:29,767 --> 00:19:30,187
Yes.

545
00:19:30,217 --> 00:19:30,607
Yeah.

546
00:19:30,667 --> 00:19:31,027
Yes.

547
00:19:31,027 --> 00:19:35,497
If that's what they request, that's
what you should give if, and the

548
00:19:35,497 --> 00:19:36,997
transparency should be there.

549
00:19:37,147 --> 00:19:37,507
Yeah.

550
00:19:37,567 --> 00:19:42,157
So if I want you to just give
me a minute, give me a minute.

551
00:19:42,697 --> 00:19:44,917
You know, don't, don't infringe on that.

552
00:19:44,917 --> 00:19:47,257
Don't, don't push for it, you know?

553
00:19:47,257 --> 00:19:47,317
Yeah.

554
00:19:47,317 --> 00:19:49,207
And that goes for, for both sides.

555
00:19:49,237 --> 00:19:50,437
It's like, be.

556
00:19:51,457 --> 00:19:54,127
Very obvious about,
okay, I need some time.

557
00:19:54,127 --> 00:19:55,447
You need to walk away from me.

558
00:19:55,537 --> 00:19:55,597
Yeah.

559
00:19:55,597 --> 00:19:58,207
If you don't express that,
that person's not gonna know.

560
00:19:58,747 --> 00:20:02,347
But also to the other person, if
they tell you, I need some time,

561
00:20:02,347 --> 00:20:03,937
you need to just gimme some space.

562
00:20:03,967 --> 00:20:04,237
Yeah.

563
00:20:04,387 --> 00:20:05,497
Give 'em some space.

564
00:20:05,827 --> 00:20:10,717
And then after that, you know, after a,
a, a small amount of time, however long it

565
00:20:10,717 --> 00:20:14,737
has to be, you know, you knock on the door
or whatever, and you go, Hey, can you let

566
00:20:14,737 --> 00:20:17,212
me know when you're done with your space?

567
00:20:18,097 --> 00:20:18,877
So that we can talk.

568
00:20:19,117 --> 00:20:19,267
Yeah.

569
00:20:19,267 --> 00:20:20,437
And then leave it at that.

570
00:20:20,497 --> 00:20:20,797
Yeah.

571
00:20:20,917 --> 00:20:22,962
Things will cool off and it'll work.

572
00:20:22,962 --> 00:20:26,857
I feel, I feel like a lot of our friends
and a lot of just listeners and stuff are

573
00:20:26,857 --> 00:20:30,427
probably going through some really, really
hard times right now, and I kind of wanted

574
00:20:30,427 --> 00:20:38,857
to give them a little bit of, of like, not
advice, but these are some tough times and

575
00:20:39,757 --> 00:20:41,497
I know the holidays are about to come up.

576
00:20:41,497 --> 00:20:45,667
People get really sad and whatnot,
and you're in the lifestyle.

577
00:20:46,417 --> 00:20:49,837
And I just wanted to let y'all,
and I wanted Adam to show you that

578
00:20:50,137 --> 00:20:52,897
communication can be really healthy.

579
00:20:52,897 --> 00:20:53,592
It's a game changer.

580
00:20:53,892 --> 00:20:54,232
It is.

581
00:20:54,412 --> 00:20:55,312
It is a game changer.

582
00:20:55,317 --> 00:21:00,247
And, and you can be, we've had our
moments, I mean, we're not perfect.

583
00:21:00,247 --> 00:21:05,392
We've had our shouts where we're
just yelling and then one of us has

584
00:21:05,392 --> 00:21:07,837
to like calm down and be like, okay.

585
00:21:08,367 --> 00:21:09,327
Every, everybody has that.

586
00:21:09,387 --> 00:21:10,467
Yeah, everybody.

587
00:21:10,527 --> 00:21:12,027
And I feel like.

588
00:21:12,987 --> 00:21:14,277
People are at the edge.

589
00:21:14,277 --> 00:21:18,507
And so I wanted to make a very
fun and lighthearted little show.

590
00:21:18,777 --> 00:21:19,017
Yeah.

591
00:21:19,017 --> 00:21:24,267
Well, you know, I mean it's the number
one cause for divorces is finances.

592
00:21:24,297 --> 00:21:24,627
Yes.

593
00:21:24,657 --> 00:21:26,707
You know that the number
one cause for divorces Yes.

594
00:21:26,707 --> 00:21:27,387
Is finances.

595
00:21:27,387 --> 00:21:27,507
Yes.

596
00:21:27,987 --> 00:21:30,447
And, and disagreements on finances.

597
00:21:30,452 --> 00:21:30,462
Mm-hmm.

598
00:21:30,537 --> 00:21:32,937
And we are living through a very
tough time where everybody's

599
00:21:32,937 --> 00:21:33,927
having financial issues.

600
00:21:33,927 --> 00:21:34,017
We are.

601
00:21:34,017 --> 00:21:34,107
Yeah.

602
00:21:34,407 --> 00:21:38,277
Uh, but I think it's very important
for everybody to remember that.

603
00:21:39,717 --> 00:21:44,337
Your number one priority should be
your partner, your family, your family.

604
00:21:44,342 --> 00:21:44,502
Mm-hmm.

605
00:21:44,667 --> 00:21:47,367
Your, the people that you love the most.

606
00:21:47,727 --> 00:21:51,567
Finances are always gonna be hard and Yes.

607
00:21:51,667 --> 00:21:54,547
I understand there's bills gotta
be paid and sometimes they gotta

608
00:21:54,547 --> 00:21:57,997
get pushed to the back or this and
that and, and that is stressful.

609
00:21:58,117 --> 00:21:58,297
Mm-hmm.

610
00:21:58,807 --> 00:22:00,247
But don't forget that.

611
00:22:00,802 --> 00:22:04,492
The number one thing is your
relationships with your people.

612
00:22:04,642 --> 00:22:04,912
Yeah.

613
00:22:04,912 --> 00:22:09,532
You know, your family, your kids,
your, your spouse, your, your, those,

614
00:22:09,532 --> 00:22:14,632
those are the people that, how you act
towards them, they will always remember.

615
00:22:14,812 --> 00:22:15,172
Yeah.

616
00:22:15,382 --> 00:22:18,112
And, and so if you horrible.

617
00:22:18,892 --> 00:22:20,512
Yeah, they'll remember that.

618
00:22:20,572 --> 00:22:20,812
Yes.

619
00:22:20,972 --> 00:22:22,052
And it yes.

620
00:22:22,082 --> 00:22:24,932
Kind of leads to more toxicity.

621
00:22:25,202 --> 00:22:25,622
Yeah.

622
00:22:25,672 --> 00:22:29,242
So yeah, I, I mean, we've
been through some tough times.

623
00:22:29,242 --> 00:22:33,052
We've, we've had car repossessions,
I mean, we've been evicted before.

624
00:22:33,052 --> 00:22:34,642
I'm the only one working right now.

625
00:22:34,672 --> 00:22:36,112
You are the only one working right now.

626
00:22:36,112 --> 00:22:38,962
I, it's, it's, you know, it, it's hard.

627
00:22:38,962 --> 00:22:43,102
It's, it's one of those things where
it's like we, we do what we can do.

628
00:22:43,162 --> 00:22:43,582
Yes.

629
00:22:43,682 --> 00:22:43,902
And.

630
00:22:45,037 --> 00:22:49,237
I have constantly told you because between
the two of us, you are the worrier.

631
00:22:49,477 --> 00:22:49,927
Yes.

632
00:22:49,987 --> 00:22:51,727
Uh, so you tend to worry a lot.

633
00:22:52,327 --> 00:22:52,417
Mm-hmm.

634
00:22:52,657 --> 00:22:52,667
Mm-hmm.

635
00:22:52,667 --> 00:22:56,407
And it's like I've always
said, everything works out.

636
00:22:56,497 --> 00:22:56,797
Yes.

637
00:22:56,827 --> 00:22:58,087
Everything has always worked out.

638
00:22:58,117 --> 00:22:58,267
Yes.

639
00:22:58,327 --> 00:22:59,497
And every year.

640
00:23:00,052 --> 00:23:03,147
You've seen that every year
has gotten better and better.

641
00:23:03,147 --> 00:23:03,467
Oh yeah.

642
00:23:03,467 --> 00:23:04,612
And things always work out.

643
00:23:04,672 --> 00:23:04,882
Yeah.

644
00:23:04,882 --> 00:23:06,142
And things get better and better.

645
00:23:06,142 --> 00:23:08,152
And I've always promised you
that, that every year that

646
00:23:08,152 --> 00:23:10,342
would pass, it will get better.

647
00:23:10,792 --> 00:23:16,102
And if you're not a positive
person, you might not realize that.

648
00:23:16,642 --> 00:23:18,947
And that's really where I
was trying to focus on that.

649
00:23:18,947 --> 00:23:21,172
Oh me, I roll my eyes all
the time when he says that.

650
00:23:21,202 --> 00:23:23,812
'cause it's like, dude, you have no idea.

651
00:23:25,282 --> 00:23:28,252
I'm telling you, but
there's something to it.

652
00:23:28,762 --> 00:23:30,532
That's something to, it's
like, you have no idea.

653
00:23:30,562 --> 00:23:34,372
Uh, you know, and when and when it comes
to relationships, you know, I am not a

654
00:23:34,372 --> 00:23:39,652
relationship guru, but what I know is
I know that you are my priority Yes.

655
00:23:39,712 --> 00:23:41,152
Over anything else.

656
00:23:41,482 --> 00:23:43,702
And with that foundation.

657
00:23:43,707 --> 00:23:44,037
Mm-hmm.

658
00:23:44,737 --> 00:23:46,267
Everything is built on.

659
00:23:46,387 --> 00:23:46,477
Mm-hmm.

660
00:23:46,717 --> 00:23:51,487
So, so with that, since you are my,
my priority, if you come up to me and

661
00:23:51,487 --> 00:23:54,037
you say, this means everything to me.

662
00:23:54,187 --> 00:23:54,457
Yeah.

663
00:23:54,907 --> 00:23:55,777
Well, I'm gonna listen.

664
00:23:56,077 --> 00:23:56,347
Yeah.

665
00:23:56,587 --> 00:24:00,697
I'm gonna listen, I'm gonna
take note and I'm gonna tell

666
00:24:00,697 --> 00:24:02,647
you what means everything to me.

667
00:24:02,707 --> 00:24:03,007
Yeah.

668
00:24:03,097 --> 00:24:05,647
And you're gonna listen and we're
gonna figure this out together.

669
00:24:05,677 --> 00:24:05,902
We're gonna figure it out.

670
00:24:06,157 --> 00:24:06,217
Yeah.

671
00:24:06,817 --> 00:24:08,642
But I know that's your partner.

672
00:24:09,022 --> 00:24:09,242
Yes.

673
00:24:09,662 --> 00:24:10,322
That's your partner.

674
00:24:10,327 --> 00:24:10,687
Exactly.

675
00:24:10,687 --> 00:24:12,877
Like you have to, you have to listen.

676
00:24:12,877 --> 00:24:16,357
And I know, let me tell you, you can't
listen to each other when you're arguing.

677
00:24:16,987 --> 00:24:17,197
No.

678
00:24:17,437 --> 00:24:23,047
When you're yelling louder than the
person next to you, that's not okay.

679
00:24:23,197 --> 00:24:23,827
It's not.

680
00:24:24,157 --> 00:24:24,457
No.

681
00:24:24,457 --> 00:24:25,642
And you're not gonna get anywhere with it.

682
00:24:25,642 --> 00:24:26,282
You're not gonna get anywhere.

683
00:24:26,437 --> 00:24:27,757
You're not gonna get anywhere with it.

684
00:24:27,757 --> 00:24:30,937
You're just, you guys are gonna get
fluffier and fluffier with anger.

685
00:24:31,357 --> 00:24:31,447
Mm-hmm.

686
00:24:31,477 --> 00:24:33,397
And it's just not necessary.

687
00:24:33,647 --> 00:24:34,067
You know.

688
00:24:35,207 --> 00:24:40,247
The piece needs to be had before
communication can continue.

689
00:24:40,397 --> 00:24:40,727
Yeah.

690
00:24:41,387 --> 00:24:47,597
And if both are at a 10, yeah, and
both need to be down to a four.

691
00:24:47,627 --> 00:24:50,477
I feel like we tell each, we ask
each other that sometimes like we

692
00:24:50,477 --> 00:24:52,457
do, and I think you can read it too.

693
00:24:52,457 --> 00:24:58,847
I'm always exhausted and tired and
I'm grumpy and I have to talk myself.

694
00:24:59,192 --> 00:25:03,332
Into coming into the house and
seeing what chaos has happened.

695
00:25:03,662 --> 00:25:10,262
I will say that reactions make everything
they do, and if, if you react poorly

696
00:25:10,982 --> 00:25:13,442
then everything's gonna go downhill.

697
00:25:13,712 --> 00:25:13,892
Yeah.

698
00:25:13,892 --> 00:25:17,522
When, when we get into arguments, it's
because I've reacted to something.

699
00:25:17,852 --> 00:25:18,212
Yeah.

700
00:25:18,392 --> 00:25:18,872
Poorly.

701
00:25:19,497 --> 00:25:23,127
Or it's because you've reacted in
a way that, and, and now I think

702
00:25:23,127 --> 00:25:26,997
we've gotten better about whenever
there's a bad reaction, I think one

703
00:25:26,997 --> 00:25:30,987
of us looks at each other and goes,
okay, you're triggering me right now.

704
00:25:31,047 --> 00:25:31,407
Yeah.

705
00:25:31,797 --> 00:25:36,117
And I'm about to lose my
shit if you keep on with it.

706
00:25:36,117 --> 00:25:36,842
Or we say, you know what I mean?

707
00:25:37,137 --> 00:25:40,767
Or we say like, okay, you're,
you're coming at me a certain

708
00:25:40,767 --> 00:25:41,967
way and it's just gonna make.

709
00:25:42,927 --> 00:25:44,787
It's gonna make me react a different way.

710
00:25:44,847 --> 00:25:45,207
Yeah.

711
00:25:45,327 --> 00:25:45,597
Yeah.

712
00:25:45,602 --> 00:25:48,237
And so, and it sounds like
a lot, it sounds like a lot.

713
00:25:48,237 --> 00:25:48,387
It does.

714
00:25:48,387 --> 00:25:49,707
We were not those people.

715
00:25:49,887 --> 00:25:50,337
Yeah.

716
00:25:50,337 --> 00:25:54,867
Uh, it sounds like a lot, but let me tell
you something, man, instead of you know,

717
00:25:54,867 --> 00:25:56,787
popping off with anger immediately mm-hmm.

718
00:25:57,027 --> 00:26:00,417
And handling it that way, my
blood pressure don't get raised.

719
00:26:00,537 --> 00:26:02,612
I don't have to worry about
having a stroke or a heart attack.

720
00:26:03,372 --> 00:26:05,712
So maybe, I don't know, maybe I'm
gonna live a little bit longer.

721
00:26:05,922 --> 00:26:07,092
Yeah, I think so.

722
00:26:07,302 --> 00:26:07,602
Yeah.

723
00:26:07,607 --> 00:26:08,887
And the world will be happy there.

724
00:26:08,887 --> 00:26:09,942
Well, I wanted to, you
know, I wanted to see pe.

725
00:26:09,972 --> 00:26:14,232
I wanted to like just talk and
just have a little, I don't know,

726
00:26:14,292 --> 00:26:16,122
pick your brain kind of thing.

727
00:26:16,152 --> 00:26:17,812
You know, you love to
hear yourself talk, so.

728
00:26:18,592 --> 00:26:20,002
They all love to hear you.

729
00:26:20,062 --> 00:26:21,862
I love to hear myself talk.

730
00:26:21,862 --> 00:26:23,602
I'm so narcissistic.

731
00:26:24,622 --> 00:26:25,912
That's all I want to hear is my voice.

732
00:26:25,912 --> 00:26:27,262
And let me tell you something, I do.

733
00:26:27,532 --> 00:26:31,342
I hear myself talk all the time
because these shows, I have to listen

734
00:26:31,342 --> 00:26:34,252
to it like 40 times all the time
just to make, I don't even listen,

735
00:26:34,252 --> 00:26:36,382
make sure that it's, I don't, I
can't listen to it and it's too much.

736
00:26:36,382 --> 00:26:38,602
And then, guys, this is how crazy I am.

737
00:26:38,992 --> 00:26:40,552
I've heard it 40 times.

738
00:26:40,822 --> 00:26:45,952
I scheduled it to drop, then
it drops, and I listen to it.

739
00:26:46,407 --> 00:26:48,477
Because I have to make
sure that it dropped.

740
00:26:48,477 --> 00:26:48,987
Okay.

741
00:26:49,047 --> 00:26:49,587
You know?

742
00:26:50,037 --> 00:26:52,407
And I listened to it and I'm
like, huh, that was a good show.

743
00:26:52,497 --> 00:26:53,727
That was, I forgot that I said that.

744
00:26:55,092 --> 00:26:58,752
You know, or I'll hear something that you
said that I didn't hear in the moment.

745
00:26:58,782 --> 00:27:00,762
'cause I was too busy
thinking of a retort.

746
00:27:00,852 --> 00:27:01,242
Yes.

747
00:27:01,302 --> 00:27:02,472
Or listening to myself talk.

748
00:27:02,472 --> 00:27:03,192
You do that a lot.

749
00:27:03,192 --> 00:27:03,852
It happens.

750
00:27:03,912 --> 00:27:05,022
Yeah, it happens.

751
00:27:05,322 --> 00:27:08,472
I think that the, the big thing
that works for us is that we

752
00:27:08,472 --> 00:27:09,477
both agree we want to be happy.

753
00:27:10,577 --> 00:27:10,997
Yeah.

754
00:27:10,997 --> 00:27:12,827
So I would, I wanted to
kind of end with that.

755
00:27:12,827 --> 00:27:15,617
So like, some really key
important stuff, right?

756
00:27:15,647 --> 00:27:18,347
We wanna be happy, we wanna
be happy, we communicate.

757
00:27:18,347 --> 00:27:20,417
I, you know, we don't wanna
fight, we don't want to, we don't

758
00:27:20,417 --> 00:27:21,827
want to argue with each other.

759
00:27:22,157 --> 00:27:24,407
Uh, we don't want to
have those bad feelings.

760
00:27:24,797 --> 00:27:25,607
Your favorite?

761
00:27:25,607 --> 00:27:26,807
Agree to disagree.

762
00:27:26,987 --> 00:27:29,312
I can't stand, agree to
disagree, but it is what it is.

763
00:27:29,312 --> 00:27:30,227
Agree to disagree.

764
00:27:30,227 --> 00:27:31,517
It's a thing like.

765
00:27:31,942 --> 00:27:35,752
We don't always see eye to eye and that's
okay, but we should, when I'm right all

766
00:27:35,752 --> 00:27:40,042
the time, I'm right all the time and
we don't ever see, she said wrongly.

767
00:27:40,072 --> 00:27:40,492
Yeah.

768
00:27:40,972 --> 00:27:44,662
No, I mean, I, I guess agree to disagree.

769
00:27:44,692 --> 00:27:44,932
Yeah.

770
00:27:44,937 --> 00:27:45,177
Yeah.

771
00:27:45,332 --> 00:27:47,372
We've never threatened
to leave each other.

772
00:27:47,612 --> 00:27:48,812
No, no.

773
00:27:48,812 --> 00:27:49,862
That's not even an option.

774
00:27:49,862 --> 00:27:50,312
No.

775
00:27:50,612 --> 00:27:53,342
And you know where we're
at in our relationship.

776
00:27:53,822 --> 00:27:56,822
I've told you there's not
a single thing that can.

777
00:27:57,427 --> 00:28:00,967
Really make me wanna leave you that
I don't think that we can work out.

778
00:28:01,207 --> 00:28:01,357
Yeah.

779
00:28:01,387 --> 00:28:04,657
Except for one very specific instance.

780
00:28:05,137 --> 00:28:10,477
And that's if I find out and I see
actual proof of you badmouthing

781
00:28:10,477 --> 00:28:15,487
me to other people, that is
unforgivable, that's malicious.

782
00:28:15,487 --> 00:28:16,897
But even like, and mine is
even like cheating on me or

783
00:28:16,897 --> 00:28:18,187
anything, like, I'm good.

784
00:28:18,187 --> 00:28:21,007
Mine is, you know, I, I don't know.

785
00:28:21,757 --> 00:28:22,897
I don't think I have one.

786
00:28:23,047 --> 00:28:23,377
Really?

787
00:28:23,677 --> 00:28:24,217
Yeah.

788
00:28:24,547 --> 00:28:25,172
You hurt my children.

789
00:28:26,002 --> 00:28:27,687
Well, that would never happen
because they're my children too.

790
00:28:27,687 --> 00:28:29,422
Yeah, you're a very, yeah,
you're a very sweet person.

791
00:28:29,422 --> 00:28:31,162
So that's something that
would've really happen.

792
00:28:31,162 --> 00:28:32,872
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

793
00:28:33,082 --> 00:28:35,542
I mean, don't threaten each other.

794
00:28:35,542 --> 00:28:38,602
It's not, it's not necessary.

795
00:28:39,082 --> 00:28:40,012
Talk to each other.

796
00:28:40,432 --> 00:28:41,572
Remember your priorities.

797
00:28:41,632 --> 00:28:42,922
Remember your priorities.

798
00:28:43,012 --> 00:28:46,462
If your priorities are to take,
take care of your spouse and

799
00:28:46,462 --> 00:28:47,727
your kids and to be happy.

800
00:28:48,502 --> 00:28:49,972
Remember those priorities.

801
00:28:50,002 --> 00:28:50,092
Mm-hmm.

802
00:28:50,092 --> 00:28:52,132
And then it'll be easier
not to lose your shit.

803
00:28:52,132 --> 00:28:55,107
Communicate, communicate,
communicate all the way.

804
00:28:55,312 --> 00:28:55,972
Communicate.

805
00:28:56,147 --> 00:28:57,467
I, I, I can't smash that enough.

806
00:28:57,467 --> 00:29:00,652
Even if you don't like to see each
other and you don't want to send a text.

807
00:29:00,652 --> 00:29:03,232
We've had text messaging, apologies.

808
00:29:03,232 --> 00:29:04,732
Text messaging, arguments.

809
00:29:04,732 --> 00:29:05,782
We've had everything.

810
00:29:06,112 --> 00:29:11,172
I so yeah, I just wanna, you know,
everybody sees us and they're like, oh.

811
00:29:11,397 --> 00:29:14,907
F you're always happy and
blah, blah, blah, blah.

812
00:29:14,907 --> 00:29:18,507
And yeah, I just wanted to, you know,
Hey man, you know, I'm not the, I'm

813
00:29:18,507 --> 00:29:19,917
not the easiest person to live with.

814
00:29:19,917 --> 00:29:21,417
I mean, you, you put
up with a lot of crap.

815
00:29:22,047 --> 00:29:23,847
Just the same as I put
up with a lot of crap.

816
00:29:23,847 --> 00:29:27,477
But what you, what you guys
see on the show, this is real.

817
00:29:27,477 --> 00:29:28,287
This is us.

818
00:29:28,347 --> 00:29:28,407
Yeah.

819
00:29:28,467 --> 00:29:32,757
And we would have this conversation
exactly like this even if we

820
00:29:32,757 --> 00:29:33,717
weren't recording right now.

821
00:29:34,057 --> 00:29:37,837
Because this is how we
interact with each other.

822
00:29:37,927 --> 00:29:38,137
Yeah.

823
00:29:38,137 --> 00:29:40,387
And it's okay to talk to your spouse.

824
00:29:40,762 --> 00:29:46,672
This way, it's okay to talk to your spouse
and, and I can't emphasize that enough.

825
00:29:46,822 --> 00:29:46,882
Yeah.

826
00:29:46,942 --> 00:29:51,562
Because so many of us are in a
relationship with somebody for so

827
00:29:51,562 --> 00:29:57,112
long and we don't know how to express
the very thing that's inside of us.

828
00:29:57,112 --> 00:29:57,172
Yeah.

829
00:29:57,592 --> 00:29:58,942
And no one can just
don't know how to say it.

830
00:29:59,002 --> 00:30:01,942
And I know that there's other places
and it's like we, we can't really tell

831
00:30:01,942 --> 00:30:03,802
you how you can talk to your spouse.

832
00:30:04,252 --> 00:30:04,732
Everybody's different.

833
00:30:04,732 --> 00:30:08,902
You don't, you don't need someone to
tell you how to talk to your spouse, but.

834
00:30:09,682 --> 00:30:14,572
There's friends that you can reach out
to if maybe you wanna get your words

835
00:30:14,572 --> 00:30:19,402
right or you chat GPT or you don't
know how to express whatever you're

836
00:30:19,402 --> 00:30:22,882
feeling and maybe your friend has gone
through it or something like that.

837
00:30:23,362 --> 00:30:24,292
And that's okay.

838
00:30:24,292 --> 00:30:29,062
And guys, keep in mind, like he said,
us women, man, we are so hormonal.

839
00:30:29,422 --> 00:30:32,242
It's, it's a thing and it's, it is.

840
00:30:32,242 --> 00:30:33,297
And you know, I, it's hard.

841
00:30:33,322 --> 00:30:34,942
I know for guys speaking.

842
00:30:35,392 --> 00:30:39,202
As a guy, I, not a lot of us
know about that sort of stuff.

843
00:30:39,202 --> 00:30:42,742
Now I knew about it ahead of
time because my mom was very

844
00:30:42,742 --> 00:30:44,422
vocal about it in our household.

845
00:30:44,422 --> 00:30:44,482
Yeah.

846
00:30:44,512 --> 00:30:46,012
When she was going through menopause.

847
00:30:46,462 --> 00:30:48,262
Uh, so I had our experiences.

848
00:30:48,292 --> 00:30:50,872
I knew what we had dealt with,
but I only knew what we had dealt

849
00:30:50,872 --> 00:30:54,202
with from my father's end, and
my father was a bit of a bastard.

850
00:30:54,592 --> 00:30:56,542
Uh, so with that.

851
00:30:57,142 --> 00:31:01,342
All I knew was I wanted to be
more understanding to my wife

852
00:31:01,342 --> 00:31:03,382
than my father was to my mother.

853
00:31:03,772 --> 00:31:07,672
And so when we started seeing
signs of that, I knew that I

854
00:31:07,672 --> 00:31:09,442
had to be a bit more sensitive.

855
00:31:09,472 --> 00:31:12,142
Now, I didn't know what exactly
I was gonna be dealing with.

856
00:31:12,652 --> 00:31:16,792
Um, and I think that's the hard
part for a lot of us is even the

857
00:31:16,792 --> 00:31:19,642
person going through it doesn't know
what they're gonna be dealing with.

858
00:31:19,647 --> 00:31:21,712
And, and keep in mind
men go through shit too.

859
00:31:21,742 --> 00:31:22,102
Yeah.

860
00:31:22,162 --> 00:31:23,632
I mean, dude, those guys are hormonal.

861
00:31:23,662 --> 00:31:25,312
This, and I know a lot of folks,
this man, I've been with him

862
00:31:25,312 --> 00:31:26,542
for a very long time, and.

863
00:31:27,052 --> 00:31:30,952
I've seen the ups and the
downs and the changing stuff

864
00:31:30,952 --> 00:31:32,452
and oh man, I get depressed.

865
00:31:32,452 --> 00:31:34,732
I have days where I do
not want to get outta bed.

866
00:31:35,032 --> 00:31:35,122
Mm-hmm.

867
00:31:35,362 --> 00:31:37,162
I don't want to answer my phone.

868
00:31:37,192 --> 00:31:37,282
Mm-hmm.

869
00:31:37,522 --> 00:31:41,302
I, I'll, I'll have people that I talk to
every single day and all of a sudden they

870
00:31:41,302 --> 00:31:43,132
won't hear from me, you know, at all.

871
00:31:43,432 --> 00:31:44,992
W we're human man.

872
00:31:45,052 --> 00:31:45,112
Yeah.

873
00:31:45,112 --> 00:31:47,722
There's not a single one of
us except for robots that can,

874
00:31:47,782 --> 00:31:49,342
that can act any other way.

875
00:31:49,402 --> 00:31:49,792
Yeah.

876
00:31:49,882 --> 00:31:56,902
And the best way to figure it all out is
with 100% open honesty and communication.

877
00:31:56,902 --> 00:31:56,962
Yeah.

878
00:31:56,962 --> 00:31:58,072
And I can't say that enough.

879
00:31:58,432 --> 00:32:01,192
You just have to just come out with it.

880
00:32:01,462 --> 00:32:01,552
Yeah.

881
00:32:01,582 --> 00:32:02,272
You just say it.

882
00:32:02,272 --> 00:32:02,967
Yes, you do.

883
00:32:03,142 --> 00:32:06,502
And I would, I think a lot of us
would rather have hurt feelings

884
00:32:07,102 --> 00:32:09,982
and know the honest truth openly.

885
00:32:10,792 --> 00:32:13,372
Then lies to our face, you know?

886
00:32:13,942 --> 00:32:14,242
Yeah.

887
00:32:14,302 --> 00:32:14,842
That's just me.

888
00:32:15,112 --> 00:32:15,442
I don't know.

889
00:32:16,462 --> 00:32:17,752
So how are you doing mentally, sir?

890
00:32:18,262 --> 00:32:20,212
Mentally, I'm doing pretty good.

891
00:32:20,322 --> 00:32:27,702
I will say, since we're talking
so openly the podcast is always

892
00:32:27,702 --> 00:32:30,612
my, my number one obsession.

893
00:32:30,617 --> 00:32:30,917
Mm-hmm.

894
00:32:31,897 --> 00:32:33,357
And this is.

895
00:32:34,077 --> 00:32:34,712
Yes, this is our baby.

896
00:32:34,712 --> 00:32:37,557
I have to remind him that he
has to stop at a certain time.

897
00:32:37,767 --> 00:32:38,667
This is our baby.

898
00:32:38,787 --> 00:32:38,937
Mm-hmm.

899
00:32:39,177 --> 00:32:45,017
And, and, uh, you know, since I
got laid off I live, breathe, eat.

900
00:32:45,182 --> 00:32:46,427
I, I do everything.

901
00:32:46,457 --> 00:32:47,807
It's, it's all podcast.

902
00:32:48,227 --> 00:32:52,547
And I'm doing so for
a, a couple of reasons.

903
00:32:52,857 --> 00:32:58,677
First and foremost, I love this,
like, I love this creative outlet.

904
00:32:58,707 --> 00:33:00,357
I love being able to com.

905
00:33:00,702 --> 00:33:07,692
Communicate with such an awesome community
that we've built because we've built an

906
00:33:07,692 --> 00:33:10,992
entire community of over 10,000 people.

907
00:33:11,112 --> 00:33:11,202
Mm-hmm.

908
00:33:12,762 --> 00:33:17,772
In several different countries, including
the us, several different states.

909
00:33:18,072 --> 00:33:23,412
These are people that listen to our show
and they come back twice a week and they

910
00:33:23,412 --> 00:33:25,422
listen and they interact and they're just.

911
00:33:25,527 --> 00:33:28,977
Yeah, they're a part of our family
and I just think that's so incredible.

912
00:33:28,977 --> 00:33:30,177
And if we're gonna, we appreciate it.

913
00:33:30,177 --> 00:33:31,557
Put our name on it.

914
00:33:31,947 --> 00:33:33,267
It has to be great.

915
00:33:33,312 --> 00:33:33,532
Yes.

916
00:33:33,987 --> 00:33:37,647
And then the other part of it too
is I would love for us to be able to

917
00:33:37,647 --> 00:33:39,597
do this for the rest of our lives.

918
00:33:39,597 --> 00:33:39,927
That'd be great.

919
00:33:39,927 --> 00:33:44,367
And I would love it if you didn't have
to work a daytime job so that we could

920
00:33:44,757 --> 00:33:49,647
interview and do traveling as much as,
as we need to for the sake of this show.

921
00:33:49,707 --> 00:33:49,887
Yes.

922
00:33:50,047 --> 00:33:54,817
And so both of those reasons
I am working, uh, tirelessly.

923
00:33:54,862 --> 00:33:54,952
Yes.

924
00:33:55,312 --> 00:33:57,562
To get this where we need to have it.

925
00:33:57,832 --> 00:33:58,372
I love it.

926
00:33:58,462 --> 00:33:58,792
Yeah.

927
00:33:58,852 --> 00:33:59,577
And so, well, I appreciate it.

928
00:33:59,872 --> 00:34:00,772
I appreciate it.

929
00:34:01,052 --> 00:34:03,902
I hope our listeners, I,
I, I appreciate you guys.

930
00:34:04,182 --> 00:34:08,772
And I really, I do it for you guys
because I've quit the show so many times

931
00:34:08,772 --> 00:34:12,972
and I'm reminded that there's a lot
of people out there who actually rely.

932
00:34:13,557 --> 00:34:18,507
On this show, whether it be to get through
boredom, whether it be to take some advice

933
00:34:18,697 --> 00:34:21,697
some people are having a bad day, they
listen to the show, they feel better.

934
00:34:21,697 --> 00:34:23,197
I think that's incredible.

935
00:34:23,587 --> 00:34:26,827
And for those of you who feel that way,
when you go outta your way to tell us

936
00:34:26,827 --> 00:34:28,987
that, like all I can say is thank you.

937
00:34:29,267 --> 00:34:33,017
You know, you really make our day
with that kind of praise and, uh, it

938
00:34:33,227 --> 00:34:35,717
it reminds us of, of why we do this.

939
00:34:36,887 --> 00:34:37,217
Yeah.

940
00:34:37,517 --> 00:34:37,997
I like that.

941
00:34:38,447 --> 00:34:38,867
Yeah.

942
00:34:38,957 --> 00:34:39,407
Well, thank you.

943
00:34:39,767 --> 00:34:40,157
Hey.

944
00:34:40,682 --> 00:34:41,702
That's what I'm here for.

945
00:34:42,357 --> 00:34:43,772
I appreciate it and uh, I think.

946
00:34:44,522 --> 00:34:45,782
I think this was a really good show.

947
00:34:47,297 --> 00:34:47,857
I think this is fun.

948
00:34:47,917 --> 00:34:48,257
Of course.

949
00:34:48,257 --> 00:34:50,612
You know, we gotta do our long,
it was the Priscilla show, Al.

950
00:34:50,672 --> 00:34:51,962
Hey, I can't help it.

951
00:34:52,022 --> 00:34:52,862
It was the Priscilla show.

952
00:34:52,862 --> 00:34:54,032
I was just talking to you.

953
00:34:54,032 --> 00:34:55,142
We're just having a conversation.

954
00:34:55,142 --> 00:34:58,502
Every, every conversation is a
Priscilla conversation, so I suppose so.

955
00:34:58,532 --> 00:35:03,022
But for everybody who's
joining us via live on TikTok.

956
00:35:03,202 --> 00:35:03,592
Hi.

957
00:35:03,622 --> 00:35:04,222
Hi.

958
00:35:04,777 --> 00:35:08,757
And everybody who's gonna be listening
or watching the show thanks for hanging

959
00:35:08,757 --> 00:35:10,317
with us for this week's quickie.

960
00:35:10,527 --> 00:35:14,817
If you loved it, make sure to like,
subscribe, share, and leave us a review.

961
00:35:15,357 --> 00:35:19,287
Seriously, guys, it, it helps us grow
and keeps this conversation going.

962
00:35:19,347 --> 00:35:23,087
Yes, and you can find
everything beyond monogamy at

963
00:35:23,127 --> 00:35:30,257
www.beyond-monogamy.com, including our
Beyond Monogamy Confessionals Guys.

964
00:35:30,257 --> 00:35:31,577
Yeah, gotta look at that spicy.

965
00:35:31,577 --> 00:35:31,757
Yeah.

966
00:35:31,847 --> 00:35:35,897
It's blog, post merch,
and all the juicy extras.

967
00:35:35,927 --> 00:35:36,677
Heck yeah.

968
00:35:36,857 --> 00:35:39,317
And don't forget to
check out our events tab.

969
00:35:39,707 --> 00:35:40,427
Very important.

970
00:35:40,427 --> 00:35:44,837
Our events tab on our website for
details on upcoming Beyond Monogamy

971
00:35:44,837 --> 00:35:49,427
events like the upcoming Texas
Legends Hotel takeover in San Antonio

972
00:35:49,427 --> 00:35:50,927
from December 5th to the seventh.

973
00:35:51,257 --> 00:35:55,337
We will be, uh, datetime
uh, entertainment there.

974
00:35:55,517 --> 00:35:55,757
Yes.

975
00:35:55,757 --> 00:35:56,927
Be doing a live show out there.

976
00:35:56,957 --> 00:35:57,197
Yes.

977
00:35:57,317 --> 00:36:03,797
And our Beyond Monogamy Meet and Greet at
Club Eden San Antonio on December 13th.

978
00:36:03,797 --> 00:36:05,657
That one is going to be nice.

979
00:36:05,657 --> 00:36:08,627
If you want all that information,
like you said, it's on our event tabs.

980
00:36:08,627 --> 00:36:09,227
Absolutely.

981
00:36:09,752 --> 00:36:14,072
Um, we are also streaming every
Thursday on full swap radio.com

982
00:36:14,072 --> 00:36:16,232
at 2:00 PM and 7:00 PM Central.

983
00:36:16,232 --> 00:36:19,672
So tune in and show us
some love over there too.

984
00:36:19,852 --> 00:36:19,912
Yeah.

985
00:36:21,112 --> 00:36:25,342
And if you wanna help us keep growing
this community, join our Patreon at

986
00:36:25,342 --> 00:36:30,577
patreon.com/BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
That's right.

987
00:36:30,847 --> 00:36:35,197
That's where you'll get early access,
behind the scenes moments such

988
00:36:35,197 --> 00:36:38,467
as these and after hours content.

989
00:36:38,467 --> 00:36:44,227
I try to keep it up to date as much as
possible, but hey, you know we put on a

990
00:36:44,227 --> 00:36:46,357
lot of the bloopers actually in the show.

991
00:36:47,257 --> 00:36:47,947
Oh yeah.

992
00:36:48,457 --> 00:36:48,877
So I don't know.

993
00:36:49,387 --> 00:36:50,197
We'll see what happens.

994
00:36:50,437 --> 00:36:54,787
Anyways, with that, I just wanna
say thank you for listening and

995
00:36:54,787 --> 00:36:56,647
we will see you guys next week.

996
00:36:56,887 --> 00:36:57,427
Bye.