Inside Austin’s Oldest Adult Store: Exploring Sex Toys, Local Pleasure Brands & Flirting in the Lifestyle

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Alright y'all, before we
dive in, a quick heads up.

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This show is raw, real, and
definitely not rated pg.

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We're talking about adult themes, sexual
content, and the kind of stuff you

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probably don't want blasting through your
speakers at work or around your kits.

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So grab some headphones, pour your
drink of choice and get comfy.

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Oh, and just so we're clear, we are not
licensed therapists, counselors, or sex.

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Couches.

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Sex coaches.

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Sex coaches, not sex couches

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or just a couple of people sharing our
lives, experiences and sexy adventures.

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An ethical non-monogamy.

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So with that, pull up a
chair and enjoy the show.

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And.

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Hello, and welcome to another
episode of Beyond Monogamy.

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I'm Adam.

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And I'm Pris.

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And today we have the great
pleasure of being here at this

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wonderful event that's being held
as a block party here in Austin.

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We are inside our sponsor's spot.

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Yes, it is Forbidden Fruit
here in Austin, Texas.

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What?

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Uh, if you don't know anything about it.

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Rewind back a few episodes,
you'll find the episode where

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we interviewed the owner.

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The owner.

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Mm-hmm.

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And, uh, I think that was a great
show and it talks a lot about this.

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Today mm-hmm.

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And what we're doing here today.

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Mm-hmm.

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Uh, so we are having our first Beyond
Monogamy meet and greet q and a

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and all that good stuff out here.

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And we are just tickled pink to be here.

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We are.

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Tickled pink.

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Tickled pink.

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Tickled pink.

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He said Tickled pink.

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Yeah.

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So, um, I could say that.

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Yeah.

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Um, forbidden Fruit is it's, it is the
oldest adult store here in Austin, Texas.

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And right now where we're at,
let's just paint the picture.

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Paint away.

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It is a quaint little store.

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I'm actually, it looks
little from the outside.

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It is not little in the inside.

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It's very, it has a lot of different
toys, a lot of adult products.

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It's surrounded by vintage stores and
across the street they have popups and it.

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It's an Austin party,
let me tell you baby,

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it is an Austin party and
I think that's really cool.

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It's really neat to come out here
and just see everybody just kind

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of getting along and enjoying this
kind of beautiful day out here.

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There's original artwork they're
gonna be having, they actually are

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posting it right now inside the store.

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Yeah.

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Ironic

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Art.

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That is sold by local artists.

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Fun fact.

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Lynn, the owner has been the
owner for many, many years.

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She lets a lot of local she
carries a lot of local artists.

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Artists, a lot of local companies.

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Yeah.

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The toys that we actually do unboxing and,
and tryout, they're locally from Austin.

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There are leather makers that have a
lot of, people that are into like the,

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the chokers and the chains and the
whips, the floggers and stuff like that.

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Yeah, yeah.

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They, um, they're here so she carry,
there's clothing from local people

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that make it, like this store is
Austin rooted and it is amazing.

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It's been here for years.

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Years, absolutely.

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Absolutely.

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You know, I, I, I think
a lot of people, uh.

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To go cheap when it comes to their toys.

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Oh my gosh.

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And they order through Amazon
or te that's me or whatever.

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That's te te that's me.

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So, but realistically, if you've
listened to our last show, when,

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when we interviewed mm-hmm.

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Uh, Lynn, she talks about
the products that they carry.

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Mm-hmm.

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The products that they carry, like
you were saying, are local mm-hmm.

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To Texas.

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Mm-hmm.

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They're either made in Austin, they're,
they're made in Houston, Dallas.

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She really tries to stay true
to the companies that are here.

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Yeah.

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And she sends out really good product.

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She does.

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She does.

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Which is really,

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really cool.

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And because when you buy a product
that's not from the original, like

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manufacturer, right, like the rose,
there are plenty of roses around.

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But if you don't get it from the
original person or from a. Renewable,

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I don't know how to say that word.

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Reputable, reputable,
reputable, reputable company.

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Then that's when you know, uh.

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They're good.

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Right.

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And she backs up all her work.

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yeah.

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That's, and that's the, the
cool thing about it mm-hmm.

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Is that she is the go-between to
ensure that you have a great product.

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Yes.

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Which is cool.

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I think that's really neat.

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It is.

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There's not a whole lot of
companies now that really give that

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particular backing and that kind of.

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Satisfaction.

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I mean, the, the people that
work here actually are passionate

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about the toys and which is cool.

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Yes,

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yes they are.

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Especially, um, Johnny has been with
her for many years and they are amazing.

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They know the product.

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They know, like they, when
I came in and I got an item.

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They plugged it in, they
made sure it worked.

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And if I knew how to work it, because
I am that person that'll buy it, and

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I'll be like click, click, click.

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Yeah.

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How do you turn this on?

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Like in the middle of the session.

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Hey, that's true.

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Um, so yeah, a lot of knowledge.

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There are a lot of toys, honey, boo.

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That I have never.

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Ever seen.

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There's a lot of toys
that I've always wanted.

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So as you can, if you're watching us,
you can probably see that we're not

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really paying attention to the camera.

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I need toy lamp right now.

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Our eyes are all over the
place because we are currently

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surrounded by tons of different.

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Pin penises, penai.

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I mean, could you, lots of pin penis.

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I don't even

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think it's an, I don't even think
you're, you don't need to call

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'em that because are they, I would
start, it's a, I would say that it's,

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they are, it's a bunch of dildos.

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A bunch of dildos.

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Which is some, it's funny because I've
said that at a meet and greet before.

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I'm like, oh look, it's a bunch of dildos.

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Mm-hmm.

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That was a joke.

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I've never said that.

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Guys don't get upset with me.

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I call out of my human dildo.

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Oh, this is

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true.

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Mm-hmm.

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Yeah.

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There's a lot of, I mean, honey,
we do, we have a lot of toys here.

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Now I'm looking at it because they
have a whole area just for guy

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toys and I'm looking at a bunch of
flashlights now, Austin area, um, is

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the original maker of the, is the
original maker of the, of the Fleshlight.

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the actual fleshlight.

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Now there are other products out
here, but that one is the one deep

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Fleshlight that started it all

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from Austin, Texas.

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That's

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right.

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And you know, I

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gotta say.

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And I, I had you not,

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have you ever tried one?

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I've

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never tried one.

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And I was talking to Johnny about this,
uh, the last time we were here, Uhhuh.

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It's that I don't know, I just
felt really weird about it.

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I, I was never a, a toy guy for myself.

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I, I could understand it with women.

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It made sense.

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I was like, mm-hmm.

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Okay, whatever.

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But for guys, I'm like.

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My hand is the cheapest toy I got, and
I, you know, oh, for, for sure, for sure.

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But, and so, I mean, I can get
it done better than any toy.

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Well, you purchased the toy for me.

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I did.

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And I gotta say it's good.

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Yeah, it's good.

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It's, it's like a, it's like a cocking,
but like a vibrating cut, but it's a

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firm one, so it doesn't go, and
it's a c shaped, and so it goes.

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Around your penis, but it doesn't my
shaft, but it's not a whole circle.

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So there's no constriction there.

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No.

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And the little balls at the end vibrate.

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And so it gives you stimulation
along with your partner.

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Yes.

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Stimulation.

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And, and you know,

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it looked initially, now it
looked very intimidating.

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Yeah.

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Um, but after the first couple
of uses, I was like, I got this.

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Have you used it?

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I know you used it with me.

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Have you ever used it alone?

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I have used it alone.

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Yeah.

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I've used it alone.

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And I've recorded

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You have

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Uhhuh.

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Oh.

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Oh yeah.

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Let me tell you, Uhhuh, you know
how I say I'm not a good finisher?

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Yeah.

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Oh, I finished baby, and it was good.

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And I saved it in case
anybody ever wanted to see it.

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I mean, hello.

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That's right.

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Oh, you know what?

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I, I've never shown
anybody, but I don't know.

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Do I have that video?

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I think I may be sent it to you.

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Okay.

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You were at work.

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Oh, yes.

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And I was in the bed.

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Yes.

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I do remember with

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little boys to men on the background.

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A little bunch of candles.

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Got some baby oil.

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No, no.

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I didn't do any of that.

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No.

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But uh, but you did use it a lot.

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I did.

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And you know what, I,
you know what to tell me.

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I will say that when I use that
toy, it is important to use lube.

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Yes.

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Because, so

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it's important.

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That is not fun to.

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It's you, you, so to dry
it, like do dry, like no.

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Like guys.

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No, I have to tell

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you something funny now that, now that
he said that, um, that we're talking

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about loo last night we were having sex
and as we tend to do, because I've been

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really, really horny, like I've been
really, I, I get these up, up and downs.

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Up and downs.

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And when I know that my life
is gonna be a little bit better

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when I have a hectic, stressful.

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Couple of weeks or whatever.

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I just go into a funk.

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Right?

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I've, shit has been aligning
and so anyway, we're having

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sex and we're starting, right?

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I'm like, God, I need that.

258
00:08:54,680 --> 00:08:54,980
Right?

259
00:08:54,980 --> 00:08:59,210
So I'm there, I'm playing with
myself and I have my toy and it's

260
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a, it's one that goes inserted.

261
00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:06,350
And then the, it's kind of like a,
like a long LJ, like a J It's like a J.

262
00:09:06,350 --> 00:09:06,410
Yeah.

263
00:09:06,410 --> 00:09:09,740
And it goes in and then the top
is like a, a air sucker, right?

264
00:09:09,745 --> 00:09:09,765
Yeah.

265
00:09:09,860 --> 00:09:10,100
Yeah.

266
00:09:10,220 --> 00:09:14,310
And so, great toy and I'm starting,
and then Adam is there and he's like,

267
00:09:14,310 --> 00:09:15,840
if I can just get past your toy.

268
00:09:15,840 --> 00:09:16,920
And I was like, oh, sorry.

269
00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:17,880
It, that thing was

270
00:09:17,880 --> 00:09:18,660
taken up some room.

271
00:09:19,375 --> 00:09:20,155
And I was like, hold on.

272
00:09:20,295 --> 00:09:21,510
And she's like, go ahead
and shove it in there.

273
00:09:21,510 --> 00:09:22,980
And I'm like, okay, I'll try.

274
00:09:23,040 --> 00:09:24,960
I was like, hold on, do we need lube?

275
00:09:25,200 --> 00:09:27,420
And he is like, no.

276
00:09:27,795 --> 00:09:28,275
Yeah.

277
00:09:28,515 --> 00:09:30,885
And so I reach over and
I grab the lube, right?

278
00:09:30,885 --> 00:09:31,125
And I,

279
00:09:32,145 --> 00:09:35,415
and she's getting mad at me because
I'm making jokes at this time.

280
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And so I, 'cause it's
a hilarious situation.

281
00:09:37,245 --> 00:09:37,335
And

282
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so I squirt the lube on my toy and he
goes, and then I put it away and he goes,

283
00:09:43,125 --> 00:09:43,395
wait.

284
00:09:43,395 --> 00:09:44,775
And I'm like, why are you
putting the lube away?

285
00:09:45,225 --> 00:09:45,435
Why?

286
00:09:46,005 --> 00:09:46,305
The whole

287
00:09:46,305 --> 00:09:48,670
reason why you took it out was
for me, you just lewd up your toy.

288
00:09:49,560 --> 00:09:49,950
What the hell?

289
00:09:50,610 --> 00:09:51,270
What's that gonna do?

290
00:09:51,425 --> 00:09:53,220
I, I was like, it needs loop too.

291
00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:54,300
Like it did.

292
00:09:54,300 --> 00:09:55,350
It was already in there.

293
00:09:55,410 --> 00:09:55,890
But

294
00:09:55,890 --> 00:09:56,810
The toy was good.

295
00:09:56,870 --> 00:09:58,310
I know, but I still wanted it.

296
00:09:58,490 --> 00:09:59,960
I had to get past that damn thing.

297
00:10:00,740 --> 00:10:01,040
You know?

298
00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:05,000
I mean, it was essentially a double
vagina penetration is what that was,

299
00:10:05,000 --> 00:10:06,710
that double vaginal penetration.

300
00:10:06,710 --> 00:10:06,770
It

301
00:10:06,770 --> 00:10:07,430
is so good.

302
00:10:08,220 --> 00:10:08,510
Yeah.

303
00:10:08,675 --> 00:10:09,095
Yeah.

304
00:10:09,095 --> 00:10:09,150
That is.

305
00:10:09,210 --> 00:10:11,975
Do you like that when, whenever
you have your toy inserted and

306
00:10:12,035 --> 00:10:14,585
I go in, uh, yeah, afterwards.

307
00:10:15,225 --> 00:10:17,775
I do actually you have to go
in first and then the toy.

308
00:10:18,035 --> 00:10:20,225
Um, but, um, I do like it
because that was tough.

309
00:10:20,225 --> 00:10:24,455
But that toy in particular
is a little rough.

310
00:10:24,515 --> 00:10:27,605
It hurts my pelvic bone when really,
when you're in there, is it two

311
00:10:27,605 --> 00:10:28,025
jade?

312
00:10:28,025 --> 00:10:30,845
It's, it's like too much of a J

313
00:10:30,935 --> 00:10:31,415
Yeah,

314
00:10:31,715 --> 00:10:33,065
like a. Like a hook.

315
00:10:33,065 --> 00:10:34,445
Or maybe if you were to
go a little finger hook.

316
00:10:34,475 --> 00:10:35,795
You know what, we're gonna try it tonight.

317
00:10:35,885 --> 00:10:37,895
I think if you bend back a little
bit, we're gonna try it tonight.

318
00:10:37,895 --> 00:10:38,075
Huh.

319
00:10:38,195 --> 00:10:39,155
But anyway, yeah.

320
00:10:39,605 --> 00:10:43,505
Anyway, so yeah, it's, um, yes,
there's, you do need lube with

321
00:10:43,505 --> 00:10:47,165
toys, but there's a lot of different
things that we're looking at.

322
00:10:47,165 --> 00:10:51,425
There's one right here called Black
Opal that looks like a butt plug.

323
00:10:51,425 --> 00:10:52,925
Oh no, it's a glass.

324
00:10:52,955 --> 00:10:53,255
Oh yeah.

325
00:10:53,255 --> 00:10:54,155
Look, it's a glass.

326
00:10:54,155 --> 00:10:54,220
Oh yeah.

327
00:10:54,225 --> 00:10:54,575
No, no, no.

328
00:10:54,575 --> 00:10:56,960
That's a. That looks, oh my gosh.

329
00:10:57,020 --> 00:10:57,590
Yeah, that's a butt

330
00:10:57,590 --> 00:10:57,890
plug.

331
00:10:57,890 --> 00:10:58,430
Look at that one.

332
00:10:58,430 --> 00:10:59,240
That's an orchid pulse.

333
00:10:59,240 --> 00:11:00,410
I need to see the person afterwards.

334
00:11:00,410 --> 00:11:02,420
And I believe it's glass as well.

335
00:11:03,320 --> 00:11:03,770
Now what?

336
00:11:03,830 --> 00:11:07,340
So there's some cock rings over here,
and that's a, that's the Huxley.

337
00:11:07,340 --> 00:11:08,750
Fiercely powerful.

338
00:11:08,780 --> 00:11:09,410
Oh my gosh.

339
00:11:09,500 --> 00:11:09,920
Which one?

340
00:11:09,920 --> 00:11:11,660
Fiercely powerful right
here, this blue one.

341
00:11:11,690 --> 00:11:12,320
Oh yeah.

342
00:11:12,420 --> 00:11:13,740
And it looks fiercely powerful.

343
00:11:13,740 --> 00:11:14,850
Actually, you know what it looks.

344
00:11:15,750 --> 00:11:18,540
It looks like you remember that
one year we got our kids those

345
00:11:18,540 --> 00:11:20,160
rings that had the lights on 'em?

346
00:11:20,190 --> 00:11:20,790
Yeah.

347
00:11:20,790 --> 00:11:22,260
And you could do like
that and they'd shine.

348
00:11:22,290 --> 00:11:22,680
Yeah, it

349
00:11:22,680 --> 00:11:24,510
kind of looks like that,
but a really big one.

350
00:11:24,660 --> 00:11:24,720
Yeah.

351
00:11:24,720 --> 00:11:25,920
Like is that a flashlight?

352
00:11:26,610 --> 00:11:28,020
It's definitely not a flashlight.

353
00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:28,620
No.

354
00:11:28,740 --> 00:11:29,520
Oh, look at that one.

355
00:11:29,520 --> 00:11:31,140
That one you can like draw string it.

356
00:11:31,980 --> 00:11:32,910
Oh wow.

357
00:11:32,910 --> 00:11:33,150
Look

358
00:11:33,150 --> 00:11:33,240
at

359
00:11:33,240 --> 00:11:33,570
that.

360
00:11:33,570 --> 00:11:33,690
That's.

361
00:11:34,515 --> 00:11:35,535
My goodness.

362
00:11:35,775 --> 00:11:36,405
That's smart.

363
00:11:36,435 --> 00:11:40,695
I feel like a kid in a candy store and
I'm assuming maybe that is like that

364
00:11:40,695 --> 00:11:44,120
little bin right there where there's
like some loose It's for you to try 'em

365
00:11:44,120 --> 00:11:45,480
Raiders until those, you can try 'em.

366
00:11:45,555 --> 00:11:46,275
Oh, I mean, I'll try 'em.

367
00:11:46,275 --> 00:11:47,625
But you can grab, you should go grab one.

368
00:11:47,685 --> 00:11:48,945
It's very interactive.

369
00:11:49,455 --> 00:11:49,785
Yeah.

370
00:11:49,935 --> 00:11:50,145
Yeah.

371
00:11:50,145 --> 00:11:50,835
Grab one,

372
00:11:51,585 --> 00:11:52,065
memento.

373
00:11:52,155 --> 00:11:52,755
Poor Vo.

374
00:11:52,755 --> 00:11:53,235
Hold on.

375
00:11:54,930 --> 00:11:56,835
We can at least tell
him what it looks like.

376
00:11:56,875 --> 00:11:58,585
It's that one and it's that box.

377
00:11:59,585 --> 00:11:59,995
This one.

378
00:12:00,140 --> 00:12:00,530
Yeah.

379
00:12:02,690 --> 00:12:02,960
Yeah.

380
00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:06,090
So these are not, we're not unboxing.

381
00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:06,510
Okay.

382
00:12:06,810 --> 00:12:12,330
This right here is a pretty love, and
lemme tell you this is, it has clitoris

383
00:12:12,390 --> 00:12:15,480
stimulation and in insert insertion.

384
00:12:15,780 --> 00:12:16,920
So what is it like G-Spot?

385
00:12:16,980 --> 00:12:20,070
It's G-spot and clitoris is
what it's supposed to be.

386
00:12:20,130 --> 00:12:20,220
And.

387
00:12:22,140 --> 00:12:22,770
Oh wow.

388
00:12:23,010 --> 00:12:23,280
Yep.

389
00:12:24,930 --> 00:12:26,190
They, oh, let's see.

390
00:12:26,190 --> 00:12:26,850
That's nice.

391
00:12:26,940 --> 00:12:27,720
Oh my gosh.

392
00:12:27,990 --> 00:12:31,980
And it is, it has 30
functions of vibration, guys.

393
00:12:33,000 --> 00:12:36,300
And I like how it has a little
picture here if y'all can see it.

394
00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:40,890
It has a little picture up and
downs of like what it's gonna do.

395
00:12:40,890 --> 00:12:47,010
And silicone has 30 functions of
vibration, silicone, and it's waterproof.

396
00:12:49,980 --> 00:12:51,000
And it takes batteries.

397
00:12:51,180 --> 00:12:55,350
I mean, who doesn't like, I like the ones
that take batteries 'cause I lose a lot

398
00:12:55,350 --> 00:12:56,785
of these wires, but that's pretty nice.

399
00:12:58,285 --> 00:12:58,575
Yeah,

400
00:12:58,890 --> 00:12:59,280
I like that.

401
00:12:59,280 --> 00:12:59,400
Look.

402
00:12:59,400 --> 00:13:00,150
It says tester.

403
00:13:00,285 --> 00:13:01,655
It's got some, it's a tester.

404
00:13:01,660 --> 00:13:02,280
It's like it's a

405
00:13:02,280 --> 00:13:02,790
tester.

406
00:13:02,820 --> 00:13:05,010
Do not, do not use these without test.

407
00:13:05,010 --> 00:13:07,500
Do not insert vaginally
when you're testing.

408
00:13:07,500 --> 00:13:09,420
Don't go to the back and be like, hi.

409
00:13:10,050 --> 00:13:11,040
We'll be right back.

410
00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:11,580
Where's your resume?

411
00:13:12,790 --> 00:13:14,320
Let me try these real quick.

412
00:13:14,360 --> 00:13:15,830
We'll be back in just a second.

413
00:13:16,220 --> 00:13:19,250
They also have a lot of books.

414
00:13:20,000 --> 00:13:23,150
They have Ultimate Guide
to Anal Sex for Men.

415
00:13:24,095 --> 00:13:27,905
Oh, see, look, this is the little,
this is the guy that, it's a cocking.

416
00:13:28,925 --> 00:13:31,265
Oh, it's a cocking and

417
00:13:33,035 --> 00:13:33,455
flashlight.

418
00:13:34,355 --> 00:13:35,045
Oh, it's, you put it,

419
00:13:35,045 --> 00:13:39,575
it's, you put it on and it has these
little like fangs for the clip.

420
00:13:40,535 --> 00:13:42,755
See, now this is, this
would be comfortable.

421
00:13:43,205 --> 00:13:43,775
Okay, well for you.

422
00:13:43,775 --> 00:13:46,115
I mean, I don't have a penis,
so I dunno how comfortable,

423
00:13:48,305 --> 00:13:50,105
but Yeah, no, they carry a lot of.

424
00:13:50,450 --> 00:13:52,640
Good quality items.

425
00:13:53,000 --> 00:13:55,610
They also have, like I
said, they have books.

426
00:13:57,410 --> 00:14:00,770
They have the Ultimate
Guide to Anal Sex for Women.

427
00:14:00,770 --> 00:14:00,920
Lemme

428
00:14:00,920 --> 00:14:01,760
tell you, you need that.

429
00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:02,300
I

430
00:14:02,300 --> 00:14:02,960
do.

431
00:14:02,990 --> 00:14:03,080
Yeah.

432
00:14:03,170 --> 00:14:04,190
Because you have been, well, they have

433
00:14:04,190 --> 00:14:06,890
an ultimate guide to Anal Sex for Men.

434
00:14:06,975 --> 00:14:07,265
Yeah.

435
00:14:07,265 --> 00:14:07,705
I don't need that.

436
00:14:07,710 --> 00:14:08,450
Yeah, no, I'm good.

437
00:14:08,510 --> 00:14:10,250
But I mean, for, yeah,
for women that would.

438
00:14:12,060 --> 00:14:13,890
I've never had get your mojo back.

439
00:14:13,890 --> 00:14:19,020
I've never had simulation through my anus.

440
00:14:19,680 --> 00:14:20,430
Well, so

441
00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:23,130
you used to do that
with your first husband?

442
00:14:23,400 --> 00:14:23,760
Yeah.

443
00:14:23,760 --> 00:14:24,780
Did you not enjoy it?

444
00:14:24,780 --> 00:14:25,860
You just did it for him?

445
00:14:25,860 --> 00:14:25,935
I would.

446
00:14:26,040 --> 00:14:28,590
I just did it for him and I
would, I would masturbate.

447
00:14:28,620 --> 00:14:28,740
So

448
00:14:28,740 --> 00:14:29,910
you got no pleasure out of it.

449
00:14:29,910 --> 00:14:31,620
Outside of the masturbation

450
00:14:32,130 --> 00:14:32,160
Uhuh.

451
00:14:32,190 --> 00:14:34,890
I mean, I like the little
bit of the pain to it.

452
00:14:34,950 --> 00:14:35,190
Yeah.

453
00:14:35,670 --> 00:14:36,000
But,

454
00:14:36,120 --> 00:14:41,760
But was he like, when he did it,
was it, uh, gentle or was it like,

455
00:14:41,850 --> 00:14:43,080
yeah, bam, bam, bam, bam, bam.

456
00:14:43,110 --> 00:14:43,710
No,

457
00:14:43,950 --> 00:14:44,190
No.

458
00:14:44,760 --> 00:14:48,330
You know, the bam bam, bam bam didn't
start until I got into the lifestyle.

459
00:14:48,360 --> 00:14:49,560
I didn't know people did that.

460
00:14:49,710 --> 00:14:50,160
Really?

461
00:14:50,460 --> 00:14:50,670
Yeah.

462
00:14:50,670 --> 00:14:50,910
No.

463
00:14:50,920 --> 00:14:55,435
All of my past sexual experiences
were never bam, bam, bam.

464
00:14:55,735 --> 00:14:56,155
How funny.

465
00:14:56,185 --> 00:14:56,475
Yeah.

466
00:14:56,510 --> 00:14:57,860
Because now it seems like they all are.

467
00:14:58,640 --> 00:14:59,180
Yeah.

468
00:14:59,450 --> 00:14:59,870
No.

469
00:15:00,470 --> 00:15:00,740
Mm-hmm.

470
00:15:00,890 --> 00:15:01,460
None of them.

471
00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:02,300
None of them.

472
00:15:03,020 --> 00:15:07,220
So I gotta say, and I'm, I'm, I'm just
gonna go back to the flashlight because

473
00:15:07,220 --> 00:15:11,450
I'm, I'm really, I mean, that looks like
things are really, really interesting.

474
00:15:11,450 --> 00:15:13,100
Now, I've seen some videos

475
00:15:13,130 --> 00:15:14,930
that those look like vagina lips,

476
00:15:15,680 --> 00:15:18,050
and that one right there
actually looks like a butt hole.

477
00:15:18,920 --> 00:15:25,400
But, I've seen these things in
videos like porn's used and.

478
00:15:26,225 --> 00:15:29,135
I can't imagine how it would feel.

479
00:15:29,135 --> 00:15:33,665
I, I, I wouldn't expect that it
feels anything like an actual blow

480
00:15:33,665 --> 00:15:36,465
job, 'cause like you guys have toys.

481
00:15:36,465 --> 00:15:37,635
You women have toys.

482
00:15:37,815 --> 00:15:37,995
Yes.

483
00:15:37,995 --> 00:15:41,005
That will replicate
somebody going down on you.

484
00:15:42,020 --> 00:15:42,240
Yes.

485
00:15:42,245 --> 00:15:45,555
You know, you have, there's even one
that you cup over and it's got like a

486
00:15:45,555 --> 00:15:47,595
little tongue that goes over like that.

487
00:15:47,595 --> 00:15:47,685
Oh yeah.

488
00:15:47,715 --> 00:15:48,495
I mean, come on.

489
00:15:49,035 --> 00:15:49,845
That's a little tough.

490
00:15:49,845 --> 00:15:50,175
Yeah.

491
00:15:50,175 --> 00:15:53,055
And it's got like little fake lips and
it's got a little tongue goes like that.

492
00:15:53,835 --> 00:15:54,345
Oh, you know what,

493
00:15:54,405 --> 00:15:56,955
I had some, A friend told me they
had that and they didn't like

494
00:15:56,955 --> 00:15:58,755
it, that it was too aggressive.

495
00:15:59,055 --> 00:15:59,835
Too aggressive?

496
00:15:59,835 --> 00:16:00,225
Yeah.

497
00:16:00,675 --> 00:16:01,065
Wow.

498
00:16:02,055 --> 00:16:02,445
What a critique.

499
00:16:02,445 --> 00:16:02,895
I was like,

500
00:16:02,895 --> 00:16:05,145
are you sure It wasn't
toy, it wasn't Jake.

501
00:16:05,865 --> 00:16:06,945
He's a bit aggressive.

502
00:16:07,035 --> 00:16:07,245
I'm just

503
00:16:07,515 --> 00:16:07,665
kidding.

504
00:16:07,665 --> 00:16:08,895
It was too aggressive.

505
00:16:08,955 --> 00:16:10,695
Yeah, and he called me
a whore in the morning.

506
00:16:11,745 --> 00:16:12,135
Just kidding.

507
00:16:12,195 --> 00:16:12,675
That's funny.

508
00:16:13,995 --> 00:16:14,295
You know?

509
00:16:14,295 --> 00:16:15,080
But he tried to choke me.

510
00:16:15,285 --> 00:16:17,355
But you guys, you know,
you've got the clit sucker,

511
00:16:17,355 --> 00:16:18,555
you've got all sorts of stuff.

512
00:16:18,615 --> 00:16:18,705
Mm-hmm.

513
00:16:19,035 --> 00:16:21,555
Will replicate what a person does.

514
00:16:21,555 --> 00:16:21,645
Yes.

515
00:16:21,645 --> 00:16:22,725
When they go down on you.

516
00:16:23,115 --> 00:16:27,315
I don't know how well this
would replicate a blow jobb.

517
00:16:28,275 --> 00:16:30,435
Now I know you could lu
it up and do all that.

518
00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:31,665
I would, I don't know.

519
00:16:31,715 --> 00:16:32,375
I think you would enjoy it.

520
00:16:32,870 --> 00:16:33,830
You think I would enjoy it?

521
00:16:33,860 --> 00:16:33,920
Huh?

522
00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:34,070
I

523
00:16:34,070 --> 00:16:34,580
I do.

524
00:16:34,580 --> 00:16:35,720
I think you would enjoy it.

525
00:16:35,780 --> 00:16:38,720
Now there's this thing here, and
I was gonna ask Johnny about this,

526
00:16:38,750 --> 00:16:41,930
'cause I don't, I don't know what
exactly it is, but there's eggs.

527
00:16:41,990 --> 00:16:43,250
Do you see those eggs right there?

528
00:16:44,390 --> 00:16:47,660
I think those might be kegel balls.

529
00:16:47,810 --> 00:16:50,660
No, really egg shaped?

530
00:16:50,750 --> 00:16:51,830
I mean, I don't know.

531
00:16:51,890 --> 00:16:52,220
We'll ask.

532
00:16:52,220 --> 00:16:52,370
Those

533
00:16:52,370 --> 00:16:55,580
are legit eggs because in the,
in the cup over there, there's an

534
00:16:55,580 --> 00:16:56,750
eggshell that's been broken open.

535
00:16:56,750 --> 00:16:57,380
Oh, maybe they're just

536
00:16:57,380 --> 00:16:58,400
like little toy prizes.

537
00:16:58,400 --> 00:16:58,460
Oh,

538
00:17:00,140 --> 00:17:02,900
you mean like those chocolate
eggs at the, at the grocery store?

539
00:17:02,930 --> 00:17:03,440
Yes.

540
00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:04,460
I don't think so.

541
00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:05,360
Yes.

542
00:17:05,390 --> 00:17:06,260
I don't think that's a thing.

543
00:17:07,010 --> 00:17:07,700
I mean, now look at this.

544
00:17:07,700 --> 00:17:08,840
So there's this one here.

545
00:17:08,870 --> 00:17:11,480
This one here has a bunch
of bumps all around it.

546
00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:11,660
Right.

547
00:17:11,660 --> 00:17:11,720
So

548
00:17:11,720 --> 00:17:12,590
that feels good.

549
00:17:12,980 --> 00:17:14,150
And then it's got a handle.

550
00:17:14,180 --> 00:17:14,600
Yes.

551
00:17:14,840 --> 00:17:15,500
That feels good.

552
00:17:15,500 --> 00:17:16,280
I, I

553
00:17:16,340 --> 00:17:17,630
can jab people with it.

554
00:17:17,630 --> 00:17:17,930
I,

555
00:17:18,410 --> 00:17:22,820
I feel like those are, and I don't know
if that's for anal play, but those are

556
00:17:22,820 --> 00:17:24,650
really good for teasing right there.

557
00:17:24,800 --> 00:17:25,190
Yeah.

558
00:17:25,880 --> 00:17:26,970
You know, I will say that, that.

559
00:17:28,220 --> 00:17:32,720
Some of these are really
rather large and thick and

560
00:17:33,030 --> 00:17:35,640
They're pretty, you know, I
think they're pretty standard.

561
00:17:35,640 --> 00:17:40,740
My mind goes is that these could probably
be pretty, uh, hefty if you swing 'em at

562
00:17:40,740 --> 00:17:42,510
somebody, you know, like you hit somebody.

563
00:17:42,510 --> 00:17:42,630
Oh yeah.

564
00:17:43,020 --> 00:17:43,770
That's embarrassing.

565
00:17:43,770 --> 00:17:43,980
They're heavy.

566
00:17:43,980 --> 00:17:45,555
Somebody hits you with a dildo.

567
00:17:45,555 --> 00:17:46,835
Yeah, they're, they're, yeah.

568
00:17:46,835 --> 00:17:47,730
They're, they're weighty.

569
00:17:47,850 --> 00:17:48,240
They're girthy.

570
00:17:48,240 --> 00:17:48,750
They are.

571
00:17:48,810 --> 00:17:49,110
They are.

572
00:17:49,350 --> 00:17:49,590
G they're,

573
00:17:49,770 --> 00:17:50,740
and it's they are.

574
00:17:52,765 --> 00:17:55,465
They're, and they come in all
different shapes and sizes

575
00:17:55,495 --> 00:17:58,195
and quirky screws and swivels.

576
00:17:59,275 --> 00:18:00,055
Oh my gosh.

577
00:18:00,115 --> 00:18:02,695
I don't know if they carry it here,
but if they don't, they need to.

578
00:18:02,725 --> 00:18:10,135
There are some dildos that look
like they are dragony scales, but

579
00:18:10,185 --> 00:18:15,255
not pokey ones, but like these
kinds, like that silicone material.

580
00:18:15,285 --> 00:18:15,645
Okay.

581
00:18:15,945 --> 00:18:20,445
I've seen 'em and I think like you wear it
or like you put it on, you can even strap

582
00:18:20,445 --> 00:18:23,085
like a, a certain piece of it to your leg.

583
00:18:23,115 --> 00:18:24,315
And I grind on them.

584
00:18:25,665 --> 00:18:26,325
Have you seen them?

585
00:18:26,685 --> 00:18:27,135
No.

586
00:18:27,315 --> 00:18:29,655
Yeah, I'm gonna show 'em to you, please.

587
00:18:29,655 --> 00:18:29,925
Yeah.

588
00:18:29,925 --> 00:18:30,945
And I'm gonna tell them here

589
00:18:32,505 --> 00:18:33,555
by all me, because I

590
00:18:33,555 --> 00:18:37,935
think, I think they're like hand made,
not like specifically made, not handmade,

591
00:18:37,935 --> 00:18:40,365
but specifically made for like whatever.

592
00:18:40,365 --> 00:18:41,775
I'm gonna Yeah, I'll share 'em with you.

593
00:18:41,805 --> 00:18:42,945
'cause I don't think, yeah.

594
00:18:43,785 --> 00:18:43,995
Yeah.

595
00:18:43,995 --> 00:18:44,715
That's interesting.

596
00:18:44,760 --> 00:18:48,830
I always found this portion
very, very fascinating.

597
00:18:48,890 --> 00:18:52,740
As you can see, there's this
whole area of strap ons.

598
00:18:52,890 --> 00:18:53,340
Yes.

599
00:18:53,340 --> 00:18:57,700
And, uh, these right up here,
those are lit, literally just the

600
00:18:57,760 --> 00:18:59,680
belts for the strap ons mm-hmm.

601
00:18:59,920 --> 00:19:02,355
That you would have to
insert your dildo through.

602
00:19:02,355 --> 00:19:02,635
You have to

603
00:19:02,635 --> 00:19:03,610
attach a dildo to it.

604
00:19:03,640 --> 00:19:03,880
Now,

605
00:19:03,880 --> 00:19:06,970
I didn't realize, it
took me years to realize.

606
00:19:07,525 --> 00:19:09,565
That they sell the belt by themselves.

607
00:19:09,565 --> 00:19:12,535
I always thought that the dildo
automatically had a belt attached to it.

608
00:19:12,585 --> 00:19:13,035
Did you?

609
00:19:13,035 --> 00:19:13,635
I did.

610
00:19:13,815 --> 00:19:14,295
I did.

611
00:19:14,295 --> 00:19:15,405
I thought it was a thing,

612
00:19:15,405 --> 00:19:18,735
so I didn't even know those existed

613
00:19:19,725 --> 00:19:20,025
really,

614
00:19:20,325 --> 00:19:23,985
for years and I realized what they wore
and I was like, what do you mean strap on?

615
00:19:24,495 --> 00:19:26,805
I didn't understand when
people would say that.

616
00:19:26,805 --> 00:19:31,455
And then as I got older and I came in
lifestyle, then I realized what it was.

617
00:19:31,455 --> 00:19:33,165
But I have always wanted one.

618
00:19:33,165 --> 00:19:34,965
Now I have heard from my.

619
00:19:35,670 --> 00:19:39,630
Lesbian friends that well, one couple.

620
00:19:40,050 --> 00:19:42,630
She was married to a, she was
married to a woman and she said

621
00:19:42,630 --> 00:19:46,260
that her partner enjoyed the boxers.

622
00:19:46,320 --> 00:19:50,100
There's boxers and you insert
the dildo and then 'cause

623
00:19:50,100 --> 00:19:51,540
they're, it's more comfortable.

624
00:19:51,690 --> 00:19:52,260
Oh, I'm sure.

625
00:19:52,530 --> 00:19:56,680
I've also heard that you should
be careful with the ones that have

626
00:19:56,680 --> 00:20:00,100
like certain bases to 'em because
it's hitting your pelvic bone.

627
00:20:00,790 --> 00:20:03,430
The one that I want and.

628
00:20:04,840 --> 00:20:08,620
I think we're gonna end up getting
is one that inserts inside of you

629
00:20:08,620 --> 00:20:12,520
and then or inside of me, and then it
has like a vibration and everything

630
00:20:12,580 --> 00:20:14,650
and it has the dildo attached.

631
00:20:14,650 --> 00:20:14,710
Yeah.

632
00:20:14,710 --> 00:20:15,730
So there's no belt.

633
00:20:15,940 --> 00:20:18,250
Um, I think those are so sexy.

634
00:20:18,250 --> 00:20:20,170
Even the thought of it right
now just kind of turns me on.

635
00:20:21,370 --> 00:20:22,420
Because I feel like that's good.

636
00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:22,780
Yeah.

637
00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:23,530
Go with it, girl.

638
00:20:23,530 --> 00:20:24,580
That is because this show's

639
00:20:24,580 --> 00:20:26,650
gonna end at some point
and we are surrounded.

640
00:20:26,980 --> 00:20:28,390
That is, um, by things
that can pleasure you.

641
00:20:28,660 --> 00:20:32,230
I don't know, I, and I'm not gonna
lie to you, not jumping ahead or

642
00:20:32,230 --> 00:20:33,430
like talking too much about it.

643
00:20:33,460 --> 00:20:38,320
I find that the strap on is very sexy,

644
00:20:38,560 --> 00:20:40,900
so I know that you've always
wanted to have that experience.

645
00:20:40,900 --> 00:20:40,990
Yes.

646
00:20:40,990 --> 00:20:42,520
Both giving and receiving.

647
00:20:43,105 --> 00:20:45,205
Do you see that one that
straps onto your leg?

648
00:20:45,205 --> 00:20:45,865
It's on the shelf.

649
00:20:45,890 --> 00:20:46,090
I do.

650
00:20:46,130 --> 00:20:46,450
I see that.

651
00:20:46,480 --> 00:20:46,770
Okay.

652
00:20:46,770 --> 00:20:48,415
Yeah, so that's what I'm talking about.

653
00:20:48,475 --> 00:20:48,715
Wow.

654
00:20:48,715 --> 00:20:49,555
That's interesting.

655
00:20:49,555 --> 00:20:50,330
I've never seen that before.

656
00:20:50,330 --> 00:20:50,740
It's kind of

657
00:20:50,740 --> 00:20:51,205
sexy

658
00:20:51,415 --> 00:20:52,675
so that she can ride your leg.

659
00:20:52,705 --> 00:20:53,425
Yes.

660
00:20:53,605 --> 00:20:54,415
That's kind of hot,

661
00:20:54,475 --> 00:20:54,895
right?

662
00:20:54,895 --> 00:20:55,195
That's

663
00:20:55,195 --> 00:20:55,585
kind of hot.

664
00:20:55,585 --> 00:20:56,755
Actually, I could use that.

665
00:20:56,935 --> 00:20:59,305
Oh, let me tell you ladies,
we're gonna have some fun.

666
00:21:00,145 --> 00:21:00,625
That's right.

667
00:21:01,075 --> 00:21:05,035
Because if I entertain you and another
woman, I can put that on my leg and

668
00:21:05,035 --> 00:21:07,615
uh, one of you could ride one and
one of you could ride the other.

669
00:21:07,615 --> 00:21:08,275
You know what I'm saying?

670
00:21:09,055 --> 00:21:10,195
I got some pretty long legs.

671
00:21:10,465 --> 00:21:11,455
Yes, you do.

672
00:21:11,460 --> 00:21:11,730
That's right.

673
00:21:12,775 --> 00:21:15,715
Oh my goodness, baby, you make that work,
you guys could line up behind each other.

674
00:21:15,715 --> 00:21:15,835
Mm-hmm.

675
00:21:16,135 --> 00:21:16,945
Anyways.

676
00:21:17,275 --> 00:21:20,005
And in this right here, size does matter.

677
00:21:20,065 --> 00:21:23,425
So that's what I was gonna get to for you.

678
00:21:23,500 --> 00:21:23,920
Mm-hmm.

679
00:21:24,005 --> 00:21:26,515
For you specifically, obviously
you can't speak for every

680
00:21:26,515 --> 00:21:29,335
woman, but for you specifically.

681
00:21:29,365 --> 00:21:29,725
Yeah.

682
00:21:30,415 --> 00:21:31,105
What size?

683
00:21:31,135 --> 00:21:32,605
'cause there's so many sizes here.

684
00:21:32,605 --> 00:21:34,615
Like what would be your comfortable size?

685
00:21:34,615 --> 00:21:36,445
Would you go for something really big?

686
00:21:37,075 --> 00:21:37,405
Um, I

687
00:21:37,405 --> 00:21:39,235
have one of those Johnsons at home.

688
00:21:39,235 --> 00:21:39,655
Yeah.

689
00:21:39,660 --> 00:21:39,800
Um.

690
00:21:42,250 --> 00:21:43,450
We're gonna have to try that tonight.

691
00:21:43,480 --> 00:21:44,020
I don't know.

692
00:21:44,950 --> 00:21:47,770
But if I have to come over here
and find my own, I would like,

693
00:21:47,830 --> 00:21:51,700
as I would probably do a six to
seven inch would be my preference.

694
00:21:51,700 --> 00:21:52,510
A six to seven inch?

695
00:21:52,510 --> 00:21:52,780
Yeah.

696
00:21:52,785 --> 00:21:59,440
Yeah, because you're about,
you're about six, six and a half.

697
00:21:59,470 --> 00:22:03,010
Almost a 7:00 AM I, and I would
say you're a seven sometimes too.

698
00:22:03,220 --> 00:22:03,550
Am I?

699
00:22:04,030 --> 00:22:04,450
Yeah.

700
00:22:04,690 --> 00:22:05,320
Oh my gosh.

701
00:22:05,410 --> 00:22:07,300
Oh, and, and you're girthy too.

702
00:22:07,660 --> 00:22:08,170
Am I?

703
00:22:09,220 --> 00:22:09,370
Yeah.

704
00:22:09,370 --> 00:22:09,730
Look at that.

705
00:22:09,730 --> 00:22:11,020
You're just talking me up, girl.

706
00:22:11,050 --> 00:22:11,230
Oh,

707
00:22:11,230 --> 00:22:12,400
I mean, I'm being honest.

708
00:22:12,430 --> 00:22:15,280
Yeah, I've always know, but I'm,
I've always said that you've had a

709
00:22:15,280 --> 00:22:16,960
a I'm not a, I'm not a,
I'm not for size queens.

710
00:22:17,200 --> 00:22:18,010
You know, size queens.

711
00:22:18,010 --> 00:22:18,310
Don't.

712
00:22:18,490 --> 00:22:19,090
I'm not your guy.

713
00:22:19,210 --> 00:22:19,300
No.

714
00:22:19,300 --> 00:22:19,690
Sorry.

715
00:22:20,170 --> 00:22:23,020
And then, I mean, like I'm saying
like, you're normally a six,

716
00:22:23,020 --> 00:22:24,550
but I can get you to a seven.

717
00:22:24,940 --> 00:22:25,480
Yes.

718
00:22:25,540 --> 00:22:26,530
I can get you to seven.

719
00:22:26,560 --> 00:22:27,460
Oh, you've gotten me.

720
00:22:27,610 --> 00:22:28,030
Yeah.

721
00:22:28,210 --> 00:22:28,540
Yeah.

722
00:22:28,540 --> 00:22:32,270
You've gotten me like super there and
I've gotten you and girthy you are girthy.

723
00:22:32,270 --> 00:22:34,680
Like I couldn't, no,
that's not going into butt.

724
00:22:35,220 --> 00:22:36,030
Oh my gosh.

725
00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:37,200
That's not going into butt.

726
00:22:37,950 --> 00:22:38,610
Sorry.

727
00:22:39,030 --> 00:22:39,690
Not gonna happen.

728
00:22:40,290 --> 00:22:44,040
Hey, you know, Lynn is just passing by and
she's like, oh, what are we talking about?

729
00:22:44,310 --> 00:22:44,730
That's right.

730
00:22:45,030 --> 00:22:48,960
When you can make the owner of
the sex shop blush, then maybe

731
00:22:48,960 --> 00:22:50,460
it's an interesting conversation.

732
00:22:50,520 --> 00:22:51,030
Camera for this.

733
00:22:51,635 --> 00:22:55,710
It's because I was like, man, the, I
want all those strap ons over there.

734
00:22:55,770 --> 00:22:56,670
I wanna have some fun.

735
00:22:56,670 --> 00:22:57,660
I'm about to have a party.

736
00:22:58,350 --> 00:22:59,520
She's sitting here talking about 'em.

737
00:22:59,520 --> 00:23:00,360
She's getting turned on.

738
00:23:00,360 --> 00:23:01,830
And I'm like, okay, you're
gonna have settle down.

739
00:23:02,160 --> 00:23:02,845
We got a long day.

740
00:23:03,385 --> 00:23:04,205
Got a bit of a yeah.

741
00:23:05,205 --> 00:23:09,675
No, it is, um, it's definitely like,
I'm like in la land here, so, okay.

742
00:23:10,695 --> 00:23:12,030
You got this, are you back to my number?

743
00:23:12,120 --> 00:23:15,395
You, you've got this whole
wall of different toys.

744
00:23:15,545 --> 00:23:15,695
Mm-hmm.

745
00:23:16,085 --> 00:23:17,885
If you had to choose one Okay.

746
00:23:18,395 --> 00:23:19,205
To take home,

747
00:23:19,325 --> 00:23:19,655
yeah.

748
00:23:20,585 --> 00:23:21,935
Which one would you choose?

749
00:23:22,655 --> 00:23:24,485
If it's for you and I,

750
00:23:26,855 --> 00:23:30,635
I would do that Buzz Bunny
or that sweet over there.

751
00:23:31,820 --> 00:23:32,540
Oh yeah.

752
00:23:32,600 --> 00:23:32,720
Yeah.

753
00:23:32,720 --> 00:23:35,205
So you enjoy that, that
kind of I enjoy those.

754
00:23:35,275 --> 00:23:37,400
Yeah, that kind of, because
you had something like the

755
00:23:37,400 --> 00:23:38,540
buzz bunny at one point.

756
00:23:38,900 --> 00:23:39,290
Oh yeah.

757
00:23:39,380 --> 00:23:40,280
Didn't it break though?

758
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:40,340
Yeah.

759
00:23:40,400 --> 00:23:41,135
Yeah, I think it died.

760
00:23:41,135 --> 00:23:41,465
You could use that

761
00:23:41,465 --> 00:23:42,890
buddy until it was go.

762
00:23:43,100 --> 00:23:43,610
Yeah.

763
00:23:44,570 --> 00:23:49,160
And if I had to do it just for
maybe future play with somebody,

764
00:23:49,220 --> 00:23:51,560
I would do the one I want.

765
00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,260
So that strappy on one.

766
00:23:54,310 --> 00:23:54,880
This is

767
00:23:55,270 --> 00:23:59,320
an interesting conversation because I
have always wondered when it comes to

768
00:23:59,320 --> 00:24:07,250
swinging if somebody say, wants to play
with you and you guys set something up and

769
00:24:07,250 --> 00:24:08,900
all of a sudden they bust out with toys.

770
00:24:09,140 --> 00:24:10,070
Are you good with that?

771
00:24:10,400 --> 00:24:10,910
I am.

772
00:24:11,330 --> 00:24:13,010
I think we've had an
experience like that before.

773
00:24:13,070 --> 00:24:13,190
Oh God.

774
00:24:13,275 --> 00:24:15,915
We, we were with a couple and they, they
busted out with some of their toys and

775
00:24:15,915 --> 00:24:17,275
I found, and that's how I found.

776
00:24:17,660 --> 00:24:17,720
Yeah.

777
00:24:18,350 --> 00:24:19,610
Different toys that I like.

778
00:24:20,270 --> 00:24:20,480
Yeah.

779
00:24:20,480 --> 00:24:20,505
Um, yeah,

780
00:24:21,500 --> 00:24:23,540
I enjoy toys.

781
00:24:23,630 --> 00:24:28,670
I enjoy because I have a
lot of clitoris stimulation.

782
00:24:28,700 --> 00:24:28,790
Mm-hmm.

783
00:24:29,030 --> 00:24:30,920
For me, that's, I mean, look at us.

784
00:24:30,920 --> 00:24:33,890
Yesterday we had like two sessions and
then I was like, I'm so sorry honey boo.

785
00:24:33,890 --> 00:24:35,470
But I still want to come some more.

786
00:24:35,590 --> 00:24:36,910
And I had my toy out.

787
00:24:36,970 --> 00:24:37,240
Yeah.

788
00:24:37,245 --> 00:24:37,465
And I was.

789
00:24:38,770 --> 00:24:40,570
Filled and coming to that.

790
00:24:40,600 --> 00:24:40,960
Yeah.

791
00:24:41,200 --> 00:24:44,200
And then after your session, I was turned
on again and I had to go for another one.

792
00:24:44,710 --> 00:24:44,860
Yeah.

793
00:24:44,860 --> 00:24:45,730
And so it was a

794
00:24:45,730 --> 00:24:46,090
good night.

795
00:24:46,450 --> 00:24:47,440
So I like that.

796
00:24:47,440 --> 00:24:48,470
Like I love toys.

797
00:24:48,470 --> 00:24:53,240
I think I think if you're gonna play
with me, your best bet is to bring a toy.

798
00:24:54,110 --> 00:24:54,350
Yeah.

799
00:24:54,530 --> 00:24:54,980
Yeah.

800
00:24:55,040 --> 00:24:55,790
Because

801
00:24:56,730 --> 00:25:00,210
If you actually want, if
they want you to get off

802
00:25:00,360 --> 00:25:01,020
Yeah.

803
00:25:01,020 --> 00:25:02,715
Like bring a toy and don't.

804
00:25:03,705 --> 00:25:07,305
Let me tell you, man, for
me, don't tell me this.

805
00:25:07,305 --> 00:25:09,135
Like, oh, I can, I can make you come.

806
00:25:09,135 --> 00:25:09,915
You can.

807
00:25:09,945 --> 00:25:14,205
And I'm not saying you can't, but I'm
gonna have a more fulfilling time.

808
00:25:14,205 --> 00:25:15,465
If you make me come

809
00:25:16,905 --> 00:25:17,445
with a toy,

810
00:25:17,475 --> 00:25:21,375
with a, with or stimulation
for my clip, like I don't care.

811
00:25:21,375 --> 00:25:21,715
Well, there you go.

812
00:25:22,065 --> 00:25:22,410
Okay.

813
00:25:22,410 --> 00:25:27,675
Hey, if your tongue can work
that fast, good for you.

814
00:25:27,735 --> 00:25:28,305
Stay there.

815
00:25:30,975 --> 00:25:32,235
Um, that's just me.

816
00:25:33,540 --> 00:25:34,230
I don't know.

817
00:25:34,230 --> 00:25:36,950
I love, I like, I will tell
you that my first husband

818
00:25:36,950 --> 00:25:38,990
was very intimidated by toys.

819
00:25:39,050 --> 00:25:39,350
Really?

820
00:25:39,350 --> 00:25:41,150
He thought it took away from him.

821
00:25:41,240 --> 00:25:42,350
And it did.

822
00:25:42,650 --> 00:25:43,100
Did it really?

823
00:25:43,100 --> 00:25:43,370
Yeah.

824
00:25:43,370 --> 00:25:45,530
The toy made me come faster than he did.

825
00:25:45,560 --> 00:25:48,080
He didn't, and I was young.

826
00:25:48,470 --> 00:25:48,680
Yeah.

827
00:25:48,770 --> 00:25:50,990
And he, we weren't very experienced.

828
00:25:51,040 --> 00:25:54,730
And I didn't know even what an orgasm was.

829
00:25:55,780 --> 00:25:56,470
I was having 'em.

830
00:25:56,530 --> 00:25:56,770
Yeah, you

831
00:25:56,770 --> 00:25:57,970
had mentioned that before.

832
00:25:58,030 --> 00:25:58,090
I

833
00:25:58,090 --> 00:25:59,950
was having 'em, but I
was having 'em by myself.

834
00:26:00,745 --> 00:26:01,415
You had never had one.

835
00:26:01,415 --> 00:26:02,370
Another person or I would have one.

836
00:26:02,370 --> 00:26:03,205
He would go down on me.

837
00:26:03,235 --> 00:26:08,395
I would never, I never had one
with penetrative sex penetration.

838
00:26:08,455 --> 00:26:08,815
Yeah.

839
00:26:08,995 --> 00:26:12,055
So when was the first time that
you had one with penetrative sex?

840
00:26:12,135 --> 00:26:13,305
Probably You homie?

841
00:26:13,335 --> 00:26:13,635
No.

842
00:26:14,745 --> 00:26:15,375
Really?

843
00:26:15,435 --> 00:26:15,855
Yeah.

844
00:26:16,125 --> 00:26:17,355
Like a really good one.

845
00:26:17,355 --> 00:26:18,435
Wow.

846
00:26:18,585 --> 00:26:19,755
And geez.

847
00:26:19,785 --> 00:26:20,145
Yeah.

848
00:26:20,745 --> 00:26:21,765
I just feel bad for you.

849
00:26:22,185 --> 00:26:22,695
Yeah.

850
00:26:22,725 --> 00:26:25,065
Now you see over here they
have that perfect position.

851
00:26:25,065 --> 00:26:26,205
Wed sex pillow.

852
00:26:26,415 --> 00:26:28,425
I see these things on TikTok all the time.

853
00:26:28,425 --> 00:26:29,865
I want one of those.

854
00:26:30,075 --> 00:26:30,495
And

855
00:26:31,035 --> 00:26:32,895
because, you gotta put the
pillow underneath you, it

856
00:26:32,895 --> 00:26:34,695
wedges you those wedgie pillows.

857
00:26:34,755 --> 00:26:35,415
They're fun.

858
00:26:35,595 --> 00:26:35,775
Oh yeah.

859
00:26:36,445 --> 00:26:37,825
I want every, I want everything.

860
00:26:38,995 --> 00:26:40,375
I talk about those, uh, and
pretty much every workshop

861
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:43,480
I teach, I think they're,
everyone needs them.

862
00:26:45,230 --> 00:26:48,110
I could use it to prop me up
when I'm watching TV at night.

863
00:26:49,110 --> 00:26:52,410
I mean, we use pillows and especially for
me, when you're getting me doggy style,

864
00:26:52,410 --> 00:26:54,000
I need to have a pillow underneath me.

865
00:26:55,050 --> 00:26:59,880
Now I want to go back to the idea
of, of interjecting toys into

866
00:26:59,940 --> 00:27:03,150
a, uh, into a swinging session.

867
00:27:03,450 --> 00:27:03,720
Yeah.

868
00:27:03,720 --> 00:27:05,610
Say it's the first time Okay.

869
00:27:05,670 --> 00:27:06,840
That you're with somebody.

870
00:27:06,960 --> 00:27:08,040
The very first time.

871
00:27:08,040 --> 00:27:10,770
I can understand after the first
time, but the very first time you'd

872
00:27:10,770 --> 00:27:12,060
be okay with people bringing toys.

873
00:27:12,270 --> 00:27:12,630
Yeah.

874
00:27:12,630 --> 00:27:15,450
And I think honestly, if you're gonna
meet up with somebody, I think that's a

875
00:27:15,450 --> 00:27:17,730
really good, valid conversation to have.

876
00:27:18,480 --> 00:27:18,690
Yeah.

877
00:27:19,020 --> 00:27:19,110
Yeah.

878
00:27:19,110 --> 00:27:19,290
Like

879
00:27:19,290 --> 00:27:20,910
I think you should have that conversation.

880
00:27:20,910 --> 00:27:22,950
Do you, do you like toys?

881
00:27:23,040 --> 00:27:26,640
Um, are you okay with,
with that kind of play?

882
00:27:27,000 --> 00:27:29,940
I think those are really, now that
I'm thinking about it, I think those

883
00:27:29,940 --> 00:27:32,700
are really good questions to ask

884
00:27:33,180 --> 00:27:34,320
before setting up play,

885
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,870
guys or women, everybody.

886
00:27:36,900 --> 00:27:38,880
You should ask some major questions.

887
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,510
You should ask the person that
you're gonna play with what,

888
00:27:42,540 --> 00:27:43,470
how do they get pleasure?

889
00:27:43,470 --> 00:27:44,190
Do they get pleasure?

890
00:27:45,570 --> 00:27:52,800
With clitoris stimulation, with anal
play, or is it just penetration?

891
00:27:53,190 --> 00:27:56,400
Like those are some really valid
questions that you should ask.

892
00:27:56,700 --> 00:27:58,050
Those are valid questions.

893
00:27:58,050 --> 00:27:59,700
Have you ever asked
anybody those questions?

894
00:27:59,760 --> 00:28:00,090
No.

895
00:28:00,090 --> 00:28:05,520
So I have had the conversation
about toys, uh, before play before,

896
00:28:05,520 --> 00:28:10,890
but it's normally women that ask
me if I would be intimidated if.

897
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:14,650
If I have a problem with toys being
interjected in play and stuff like that,

898
00:28:14,650 --> 00:28:17,500
and I'm like, for me, I'm a pleaser.

899
00:28:17,740 --> 00:28:23,500
So obviously if it's gonna be toys that
get you off, by all means bring it on.

900
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,450
You know, uh, we can do that.

901
00:28:25,480 --> 00:28:28,820
I don't necessarily need it
on me but if that's just one

902
00:28:28,820 --> 00:28:30,320
of those things, by all means.

903
00:28:30,350 --> 00:28:30,650
Yeah.

904
00:28:30,830 --> 00:28:31,070
Yeah.

905
00:28:31,160 --> 00:28:34,850
I, um, those are some,
those are like really good.

906
00:28:35,615 --> 00:28:40,355
Conversation starters also, if you're
just meeting somebody and you really

907
00:28:40,355 --> 00:28:42,515
wanna play with them and you've
already had like a little bit of

908
00:28:42,515 --> 00:28:47,195
conversation and y'all are ready for
that, like gather some information.

909
00:28:47,195 --> 00:28:55,505
I don't think enough people express how
they orgasm or get pleasure from sex.

910
00:28:55,505 --> 00:28:57,160
I don't think they express it enough.

911
00:28:57,845 --> 00:28:58,745
To their partner.

912
00:28:58,775 --> 00:29:02,645
Well, you know, and that's the hard part
because even when we were first together

913
00:29:02,645 --> 00:29:06,425
for the first couple years, I felt like it
was difficult to have that conversation.

914
00:29:06,655 --> 00:29:10,765
It was, I didn't know how
to express that to you.

915
00:29:10,765 --> 00:29:13,915
And I guess previous relationships maybe.

916
00:29:13,915 --> 00:29:14,155
Yeah,

917
00:29:14,155 --> 00:29:16,255
you kind of had this negative.

918
00:29:16,900 --> 00:29:19,720
Outlook on it because of past partners?

919
00:29:19,810 --> 00:29:20,470
I guess so.

920
00:29:20,500 --> 00:29:22,420
Um, and I mean, I, I'm good with it.

921
00:29:22,420 --> 00:29:23,500
You're like, yeah, I don't have a problem.

922
00:29:23,560 --> 00:29:25,030
It, it's just that, yeah.

923
00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:27,650
Geez, I even have friends that
are my age right now, and if I,

924
00:29:28,190 --> 00:29:30,800
if I use a toy and they're like,
oh, no, no, no, no, it's okay.

925
00:29:30,800 --> 00:29:31,550
And I'm like, really?

926
00:29:32,450 --> 00:29:34,175
And they're my age because they
feel like it's intimidating.

927
00:29:34,175 --> 00:29:35,800
Like, oh, it's a toy.

928
00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:36,820
It's a bad thing.

929
00:29:36,820 --> 00:29:38,230
It shouldn't make me orgasm.

930
00:29:38,230 --> 00:29:39,130
It should be somebody.

931
00:29:40,240 --> 00:29:42,220
It should be actual flesh person.

932
00:29:42,700 --> 00:29:42,770
So weird.

933
00:29:42,770 --> 00:29:42,835
You know.

934
00:29:42,840 --> 00:29:42,880
Weird.

935
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:43,450
That's my thing

936
00:29:43,450 --> 00:29:47,050
is if you're using a toy on somebody,
then that person just made you come.

937
00:29:47,055 --> 00:29:47,235
Yeah.

938
00:29:47,410 --> 00:29:47,620
Yeah.

939
00:29:47,620 --> 00:29:50,190
They were using a toy, but
they were operating the toy.

940
00:29:50,910 --> 00:29:51,020
There you go.

941
00:29:51,020 --> 00:29:51,060
You

942
00:29:51,060 --> 00:29:51,270
know?

943
00:29:51,270 --> 00:29:54,690
So, I mean, if you use a
dildo on yourself and, and go,

944
00:29:54,690 --> 00:29:56,040
well, I just made myself come.

945
00:29:56,070 --> 00:29:57,480
Was it you or was it the dildo?

946
00:29:58,080 --> 00:29:59,190
It was a combination of the both.

947
00:29:59,190 --> 00:29:59,430
Right.

948
00:29:59,435 --> 00:29:59,595
There

949
00:29:59,595 --> 00:29:59,835
you go.

950
00:30:00,150 --> 00:30:00,660
There you go.

951
00:30:00,780 --> 00:30:01,500
Which came first?

952
00:30:01,500 --> 00:30:02,220
The chicken or the egg?

953
00:30:02,730 --> 00:30:03,300
There you go.

954
00:30:03,300 --> 00:30:03,840
The dildo.

955
00:30:04,170 --> 00:30:04,650
That's right.

956
00:30:05,100 --> 00:30:07,800
So I, you know, I really
think that people shouldn't be

957
00:30:07,800 --> 00:30:09,600
intimidated by putting toys No.

958
00:30:09,930 --> 00:30:11,130
Into their sex sessions.

959
00:30:11,130 --> 00:30:12,570
Especially even if it's the first one.

960
00:30:12,570 --> 00:30:14,370
As long as you had the
conversation about it.

961
00:30:14,400 --> 00:30:14,490
Mm-hmm.

962
00:30:14,760 --> 00:30:15,540
It's okay.

963
00:30:15,630 --> 00:30:15,720
Mm-hmm.

964
00:30:15,990 --> 00:30:18,270
Like it's all right to say, you know what?

965
00:30:18,270 --> 00:30:23,820
I can really orgasm if I involve
this humongous 24 inch dildo.

966
00:30:24,330 --> 00:30:24,870
Cool.

967
00:30:24,960 --> 00:30:27,510
Well, if that makes you happy,
well let's, let's do it.

968
00:30:27,660 --> 00:30:27,780
Yeah.

969
00:30:27,780 --> 00:30:30,060
I don't know if I can lift
it 'cause that sounds heavy.

970
00:30:30,360 --> 00:30:30,630
Yeah.

971
00:30:31,140 --> 00:30:32,190
But we'll figure it out.

972
00:30:33,720 --> 00:30:34,110
That's right.

973
00:30:35,110 --> 00:30:35,950
You're my best audience.

974
00:30:35,950 --> 00:30:36,310
You know that

975
00:30:37,180 --> 00:30:38,110
apparently.

976
00:30:38,110 --> 00:30:38,710
That's right.

977
00:30:39,070 --> 00:30:41,920
You love to hear yourself
talk to Oh my gosh,

978
00:30:41,920 --> 00:30:42,490
I do.

979
00:30:42,490 --> 00:30:43,810
I'm so narcissistic.

980
00:30:44,290 --> 00:30:45,040
What can I say?

981
00:30:45,970 --> 00:30:47,170
This is, this is your husband.

982
00:30:47,950 --> 00:30:48,790
So do we do I love what

983
00:30:48,790 --> 00:30:50,165
you guys were just talking about.

984
00:30:50,275 --> 00:30:50,565
Yeah.

985
00:30:50,665 --> 00:30:51,245
We literally have.

986
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:57,560
People come in and have that conversation
like, how do I get a toy, into play

987
00:30:57,560 --> 00:30:59,660
without intimidating my partner.

988
00:30:59,665 --> 00:30:59,825
Yeah.

989
00:30:59,830 --> 00:31:00,080
Yeah.

990
00:31:00,080 --> 00:31:05,180
Uhhuh and, uh, we actually we did a
sidewalk sex clinic with Annie Sprinkle

991
00:31:05,900 --> 00:31:10,220
way back in the day, and that was one
of the questions I heard somebody ask

992
00:31:10,220 --> 00:31:14,930
her, like, not only that, but also
feeling guilty about using a tool.

993
00:31:14,960 --> 00:31:16,685
Yes, I did.

994
00:31:17,000 --> 00:31:17,990
I used to feel guilty

995
00:31:18,300 --> 00:31:18,495
And.

996
00:31:19,130 --> 00:31:24,560
Then and what happens if I can't
have an orgasm without using a toy?

997
00:31:24,620 --> 00:31:25,970
And her response was brilliant.

998
00:31:25,970 --> 00:31:29,450
She's like, well, what are you
hoping to achieve an orgasm?

999
00:31:29,450 --> 00:31:30,230
Then what does it matter?

1000
00:31:30,455 --> 00:31:30,515
Yeah,

1001
00:31:31,085 --> 00:31:31,985
exactly

1002
00:31:32,015 --> 00:31:32,645
how you do.

1003
00:31:32,645 --> 00:31:32,795
It's

1004
00:31:32,795 --> 00:31:33,780
well put, people's a big deal.

1005
00:31:34,005 --> 00:31:34,185
Put.

1006
00:31:34,185 --> 00:31:35,205
And there's nothing wrong.

1007
00:31:35,325 --> 00:31:35,775
Yeah.

1008
00:31:36,375 --> 00:31:40,420
With using it to, if that's
what it takes, get you there.

1009
00:31:40,580 --> 00:31:41,460
I mean, you're, you're older.

1010
00:31:42,170 --> 00:31:42,660
Exactly.

1011
00:31:43,010 --> 00:31:43,860
That is what it takes.

1012
00:31:44,010 --> 00:31:44,500
Exactly.

1013
00:31:45,520 --> 00:31:46,785
No, it, it's true.

1014
00:31:46,785 --> 00:31:50,265
It's like I, um, I mean, I enjoy sex.

1015
00:31:50,295 --> 00:31:50,505
Yeah.

1016
00:31:50,565 --> 00:31:52,605
But yeah, as do, why that, that toy.

1017
00:31:53,850 --> 00:31:54,720
Yeah, please.

1018
00:31:54,990 --> 00:31:55,320
Yeah.

1019
00:31:55,380 --> 00:31:56,880
Makes it way better sometimes.

1020
00:31:57,540 --> 00:31:57,870
Yeah.

1021
00:31:57,870 --> 00:31:59,730
And know, frankly, I'm exhausted.

1022
00:32:00,120 --> 00:32:03,000
Well, I was gonna say, so when we
first started carrying, everybody's

1023
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,200
heard of the rabbit, right?

1024
00:32:04,200 --> 00:32:04,440
Yeah.

1025
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:05,550
Everybody talks about the rabbit.

1026
00:32:05,550 --> 00:32:05,880
Mm-hmm.

1027
00:32:05,895 --> 00:32:08,160
Well, before there was the
rabbit, there was the beaver.

1028
00:32:09,390 --> 00:32:09,990
The beaver.

1029
00:32:09,990 --> 00:32:10,530
A little.

1030
00:32:10,620 --> 00:32:13,410
We've got a little sex toy
museum up there in the front.

1031
00:32:13,410 --> 00:32:14,250
Okay, there it is.

1032
00:32:14,250 --> 00:32:14,940
There's the beaver.

1033
00:32:15,690 --> 00:32:15,720
Okay.

1034
00:32:15,720 --> 00:32:16,170
We're definitely

1035
00:32:16,170 --> 00:32:17,100
gonna show you all the beaver.

1036
00:32:17,100 --> 00:32:17,250
It's

1037
00:32:17,250 --> 00:32:18,915
what the rabbit was based off of.

1038
00:32:19,365 --> 00:32:22,125
Uh, because these are Japanese,
these are Japanese toys, and they.

1039
00:32:22,440 --> 00:32:24,090
Had the same laws as Texas.

1040
00:32:24,270 --> 00:32:24,660
Okay.

1041
00:32:24,660 --> 00:32:28,440
Back then, they could not make
anything for sexual stimulation

1042
00:32:28,440 --> 00:32:29,580
that looked like genitalia.

1043
00:32:29,910 --> 00:32:34,410
So it literally looks like these ornate
little men or women on these totems

1044
00:32:34,410 --> 00:32:36,540
with this little animal, you know?

1045
00:32:36,540 --> 00:32:38,190
Because the totems obviously Oh my.

1046
00:32:38,700 --> 00:32:39,900
The animals externally.

1047
00:32:39,900 --> 00:32:39,960
Yeah.

1048
00:32:40,320 --> 00:32:44,460
So we would, like, when we were demoing
this toy way back in the day when

1049
00:32:44,460 --> 00:32:46,800
we were down on sixth Street Wow.

1050
00:32:46,800 --> 00:32:50,690
Our whole building from
1981 to 20 20, uh, 20, yeah.

1051
00:32:50,720 --> 00:32:55,625
2011. Um, at the very end of
it, that's what we would say.

1052
00:32:55,625 --> 00:32:58,085
It's like people would be like,
don't worry about, you know, your

1053
00:32:58,085 --> 00:33:00,875
partner will thank you, because
let's face it, if they get a little

1054
00:33:00,875 --> 00:33:03,245
tired and they've had enough mm-hmm.

1055
00:33:03,485 --> 00:33:03,965
But you have it.

1056
00:33:03,965 --> 00:33:06,755
You can always leave it to Beaver.

1057
00:33:07,775 --> 00:33:09,155
I'll leave it to Beaver.

1058
00:33:09,485 --> 00:33:10,085
Oh my

1059
00:33:10,240 --> 00:33:10,480
gosh.

1060
00:33:11,250 --> 00:33:14,840
While in the bee myself, because a lot of
people don't even know that, that I know.

1061
00:33:15,665 --> 00:33:16,535
Oh my God.

1062
00:33:16,535 --> 00:33:16,655
I

1063
00:33:16,655 --> 00:33:17,315
love that show.

1064
00:33:17,975 --> 00:33:18,245
Wow.

1065
00:33:18,245 --> 00:33:19,175
Leave it the beaver.

1066
00:33:19,235 --> 00:33:19,475
Leave

1067
00:33:19,475 --> 00:33:20,015
it to Beaver.

1068
00:33:20,380 --> 00:33:20,960
The Beaver

1069
00:33:21,210 --> 00:33:22,530
Be the Be the be.

1070
00:33:24,095 --> 00:33:26,225
That is So now someone
needs to make the beaver.

1071
00:33:26,525 --> 00:33:26,915
Yeah.

1072
00:33:27,155 --> 00:33:27,815
Bring it back.

1073
00:33:27,815 --> 00:33:28,595
Bring it back.

1074
00:33:28,600 --> 00:33:28,890
Bring the beaver.

1075
00:33:28,895 --> 00:33:29,945
Bring back the beaver.

1076
00:33:29,950 --> 00:33:30,250
Yeah.

1077
00:33:30,310 --> 00:33:31,240
We're all about it.

1078
00:33:31,240 --> 00:33:34,030
One of my favorite jokes, the
dirtiest thing ever said on tv.

1079
00:33:34,780 --> 00:33:36,610
Ward, you were a little hard
on the beaver last night.

1080
00:33:37,610 --> 00:33:39,620
Forbidden fruit has comedians, people

1081
00:33:39,710 --> 00:33:40,160
That's right.

1082
00:33:40,160 --> 00:33:42,620
And they've got an
overload of beaver jokes.

1083
00:33:43,310 --> 00:33:47,210
So if you're looking for beaver
jokes, this is the place to be.

1084
00:33:47,490 --> 00:33:48,360
Yeah, my goodness.

1085
00:33:48,420 --> 00:33:50,640
That's why I, but, you know, know
that's really why I love this place.

1086
00:33:50,790 --> 00:33:54,240
Yeah, because you can go to
the big box stores Of course.

1087
00:33:54,330 --> 00:33:57,180
And like I, like I've said in past
episodes, you go to the big box stores.

1088
00:33:57,180 --> 00:33:57,905
These people, they're, they're just.

1089
00:33:58,425 --> 00:33:59,805
They're just there working for a paycheck.

1090
00:33:59,805 --> 00:34:01,000
They're not passionate about this.

1091
00:34:01,000 --> 00:34:01,760
They're not passionate.

1092
00:34:01,760 --> 00:34:02,475
And it's understandable.

1093
00:34:02,475 --> 00:34:03,105
It's a job.

1094
00:34:03,165 --> 00:34:03,435
Yeah.

1095
00:34:03,585 --> 00:34:04,905
Uh, this place is different.

1096
00:34:04,935 --> 00:34:05,265
Yes.

1097
00:34:05,295 --> 00:34:08,835
In the fact that the people that
work here, they know their business.

1098
00:34:08,865 --> 00:34:09,075
Yes.

1099
00:34:09,075 --> 00:34:11,235
They know what everything is.

1100
00:34:11,265 --> 00:34:11,355
Yes.

1101
00:34:11,360 --> 00:34:12,165
That they have in stock.

1102
00:34:12,165 --> 00:34:13,215
They know how to use it.

1103
00:34:13,215 --> 00:34:14,385
They know everything about it.

1104
00:34:14,805 --> 00:34:15,865
Uh, and I think that's great.

1105
00:34:15,940 --> 00:34:16,160
And.

1106
00:34:16,530 --> 00:34:23,010
W just so you know, when you go into
an adult toy store, have your questions

1107
00:34:23,010 --> 00:34:29,310
there, anything you wanna know, anything
you are curious about, they'll help you.

1108
00:34:29,580 --> 00:34:29,850
That's right.

1109
00:34:29,850 --> 00:34:32,790
Um, if you're here, if you.

1110
00:34:33,270 --> 00:34:37,470
Come to Forbidden Fruit, they will
definitely educate you on what you need.

1111
00:34:37,950 --> 00:34:40,770
You know, they also have
little workshops here.

1112
00:34:41,100 --> 00:34:43,710
They do, they have workshops, I think
once a month, something like that.

1113
00:34:43,710 --> 00:34:43,800
Mm-hmm.

1114
00:34:44,040 --> 00:34:46,290
I think Johnny does one on cio.

1115
00:34:47,070 --> 00:34:47,400
Cio,

1116
00:34:47,460 --> 00:34:47,730
yeah.

1117
00:34:47,940 --> 00:34:48,240
Lynn.

1118
00:34:48,300 --> 00:34:51,360
Uh, what, what are the, uh, remind
me what are the different, uh,

1119
00:34:51,390 --> 00:34:53,070
workshops, workshops that y'all have?

1120
00:34:53,070 --> 00:34:53,860
We've got so.

1121
00:34:55,945 --> 00:34:56,455
Different ones.

1122
00:34:56,455 --> 00:34:58,075
I know Johnny does a fellatio, right?

1123
00:34:58,075 --> 00:35:05,305
We do, uh, an oris, which is a combination
Kaus fellatio or just a Fellatio 1 0 1.

1124
00:35:05,725 --> 00:35:08,995
Uh, the BDSM classes are really popular.

1125
00:35:09,325 --> 00:35:15,295
The 1.0, the 2.0, you know, 1.0 basics.

1126
00:35:15,415 --> 00:35:15,445
Okay.

1127
00:35:15,805 --> 00:35:17,635
Uh, then we've also done some rope.

1128
00:35:18,065 --> 00:35:21,125
We've had all kinds of workshops
where we're actually bringing in

1129
00:35:21,125 --> 00:35:23,705
Melissa D with Body Joy tomorrow.

1130
00:35:24,365 --> 00:35:26,165
To do body reverence for him.

1131
00:35:26,885 --> 00:35:26,975
Oh wow.

1132
00:35:26,975 --> 00:35:27,065
It's

1133
00:35:27,065 --> 00:35:30,455
about, so you have a partner
who is male presenting

1134
00:35:30,725 --> 00:35:30,755
Uhhuh.

1135
00:35:31,095 --> 00:35:36,705
This is a workshop to show you how
to through, you know, just touch,

1136
00:35:37,065 --> 00:35:40,365
learn how to, you know, revere Yeah.

1137
00:35:40,365 --> 00:35:45,255
Body, and help them get into a
really relaxed, you know, zen-like

1138
00:35:45,255 --> 00:35:48,055
state so that they can really enjoy.

1139
00:35:48,055 --> 00:35:48,115
Yeah.

1140
00:35:48,940 --> 00:35:50,080
A deeper Yeah.

1141
00:35:50,530 --> 00:35:51,190
Neurotic and emotional

1142
00:35:51,190 --> 00:35:51,490
experience.

1143
00:35:51,490 --> 00:35:51,940
I love that.

1144
00:35:51,940 --> 00:35:52,180
Well, you

1145
00:35:52,180 --> 00:35:53,650
know, Lynn, I just use weed,

1146
00:35:56,350 --> 00:35:56,980
that's all.

1147
00:35:57,155 --> 00:35:57,695
That's right.

1148
00:35:58,135 --> 00:35:58,575
I love that.

1149
00:35:58,575 --> 00:36:00,520
That's, that's my body
reverence right there.

1150
00:36:01,060 --> 00:36:01,100
I know.

1151
00:36:01,100 --> 00:36:01,295
That's gonna be tomorrow

1152
00:36:01,445 --> 00:36:02,335
it's six, six o'clock.

1153
00:36:02,560 --> 00:36:03,160
Yeah.

1154
00:36:03,160 --> 00:36:04,780
So they have lots of
different workshops here.

1155
00:36:05,290 --> 00:36:05,470
Totally.

1156
00:36:05,530 --> 00:36:06,160
Very cool.

1157
00:36:06,160 --> 00:36:06,580
I love that.

1158
00:36:06,580 --> 00:36:07,060
Very cool.

1159
00:36:07,090 --> 00:36:12,175
Um, she just mentioned one BDSM 1 0 1.

1160
00:36:12,285 --> 00:36:12,575
Yeah.

1161
00:36:12,725 --> 00:36:13,015
Yeah.

1162
00:36:13,075 --> 00:36:13,815
Or 0.1.

1163
00:36:14,470 --> 00:36:15,820
I wanna come to that one.

1164
00:36:16,120 --> 00:36:17,920
Yeah, I'm very curious.

1165
00:36:17,950 --> 00:36:23,230
Um, we go to all these clubs and
they do the flogging and stuff

1166
00:36:23,230 --> 00:36:29,330
like that, and I would like to,
to try that or see if I like that.

1167
00:36:30,680 --> 00:36:31,880
It sounds fun, you know,

1168
00:36:32,835 --> 00:36:34,760
I'm just open to different experiences.

1169
00:36:34,790 --> 00:36:34,850
Yeah.

1170
00:36:35,060 --> 00:36:38,000
So I find that there
was a lot of different.

1171
00:36:38,630 --> 00:36:43,910
Aspects of kink that I had
just the incorrect notions on.

1172
00:36:44,360 --> 00:36:47,750
And I think that's a lot of us, you
know, you see things on television or you

1173
00:36:47,750 --> 00:36:49,460
hear murmurs about this or that mm-hmm.

1174
00:36:49,730 --> 00:36:51,200
And it's so wrong.

1175
00:36:51,530 --> 00:36:54,920
And then you find out about
things and it's like, oh

1176
00:36:55,310 --> 00:36:56,120
yeah, okay.

1177
00:36:56,735 --> 00:36:57,025
Okay.

1178
00:36:57,030 --> 00:37:02,820
Well we, we had come into we had
come in here and we were, I don't

1179
00:37:02,820 --> 00:37:03,630
even know what I was talking about.

1180
00:37:03,630 --> 00:37:04,380
I got distracted.

1181
00:37:04,860 --> 00:37:05,580
I saw a pretty girl.

1182
00:37:06,525 --> 00:37:06,795
Yeah.

1183
00:37:06,795 --> 00:37:07,695
That is a pretty girl.

1184
00:37:07,725 --> 00:37:08,655
I went, that does happen.

1185
00:37:09,435 --> 00:37:13,665
That does happen in shops like these
is her, there are pretty girls looking

1186
00:37:13,665 --> 00:37:18,435
at adult toys and my wife, who has been
bisexual pretty much all of her life

1187
00:37:18,915 --> 00:37:21,795
is just learning how to talk to women.

1188
00:37:22,455 --> 00:37:23,025
That's right.

1189
00:37:23,025 --> 00:37:27,585
It's she's, I have to teach her
the subtle act of checking women

1190
00:37:27,585 --> 00:37:29,985
out without being so obvious.

1191
00:37:29,990 --> 00:37:30,480
I'm so creepy.

1192
00:37:30,615 --> 00:37:31,215
I'm like this.

1193
00:37:31,215 --> 00:37:32,475
You are totally creepy.

1194
00:37:32,895 --> 00:37:33,045
Yeah.

1195
00:37:33,045 --> 00:37:33,225
Look,

1196
00:37:33,225 --> 00:37:34,005
I look creepy like.

1197
00:37:34,830 --> 00:37:40,710
I'll never forget when, when we first
moved out here to Central Texas and

1198
00:37:41,140 --> 00:37:45,220
where we came from was very conservative
as opposed to where we are at now.

1199
00:37:45,250 --> 00:37:45,790
Yes.

1200
00:37:45,880 --> 00:37:49,600
And I remember very
specifically, stop staring.

1201
00:37:49,735 --> 00:37:49,855
Sorry.

1202
00:37:49,855 --> 00:37:52,055
I remember very specifically that.

1203
00:37:53,945 --> 00:37:56,870
That there was a girl behind the
counter who was ringing us up, Uhhuh,

1204
00:37:56,995 --> 00:38:00,385
and she did not have a bra on and her
nipples were popping out of her shirt.

1205
00:38:00,415 --> 00:38:00,685
Oh, we were at the

1206
00:38:00,685 --> 00:38:01,615
sandwich place and

1207
00:38:01,615 --> 00:38:06,025
you like, ordered your sandwich
and immediately came up to me and

1208
00:38:06,025 --> 00:38:07,915
was like, she's not wearing a bra.

1209
00:38:08,155 --> 00:38:09,685
Did you see that she's not wearing a bra?

1210
00:38:09,715 --> 00:38:11,785
And I'm like, are you ate?

1211
00:38:12,480 --> 00:38:12,910
What is this?

1212
00:38:13,495 --> 00:38:14,245
What are you doing?

1213
00:38:14,395 --> 00:38:17,455
Like you have them yourself.

1214
00:38:17,855 --> 00:38:18,755
Come on, it's.

1215
00:38:20,120 --> 00:38:21,080
She got all excited.

1216
00:38:21,080 --> 00:38:21,170
I

1217
00:38:21,175 --> 00:38:22,160
don't know what to tell you people.

1218
00:38:22,160 --> 00:38:23,720
I, um, she's a girl.

1219
00:38:23,720 --> 00:38:24,050
Crazy.

1220
00:38:24,050 --> 00:38:25,070
I like women.

1221
00:38:25,490 --> 00:38:26,840
We're work.

1222
00:38:26,900 --> 00:38:30,560
They're so beautiful and soft and
they smell good and they're so pretty.

1223
00:38:30,920 --> 00:38:31,250
Yeah.

1224
00:38:31,280 --> 00:38:31,580
Yeah.

1225
00:38:31,675 --> 00:38:32,635
I can agree with that.

1226
00:38:32,665 --> 00:38:33,745
I like women myself.

1227
00:38:33,745 --> 00:38:34,040
She's just staring.

1228
00:38:34,045 --> 00:38:34,495
You see,

1229
00:38:34,495 --> 00:38:35,725
Hey, I'm looking at you.

1230
00:38:35,725 --> 00:38:38,635
And she just so happens
to be in my line of sight.

1231
00:38:38,665 --> 00:38:40,495
What am I supposed to do anyways?

1232
00:38:40,825 --> 00:38:43,945
I, you know, I, I find you and,
and we're gonna go off on a little

1233
00:38:43,945 --> 00:38:46,195
bit of a tangent because there's
a lot I want to talk to actually.

1234
00:38:46,225 --> 00:38:46,465
Okay.

1235
00:38:46,570 --> 00:38:50,290
But really that kind of brings
up something interesting.

1236
00:38:50,440 --> 00:38:50,800
Okay.

1237
00:38:51,760 --> 00:38:55,990
Recently you've learned something
new about yourself when it

1238
00:38:55,990 --> 00:38:57,100
comes to dealing with women.

1239
00:38:57,100 --> 00:39:00,130
And that that thing is
listen to your husband.

1240
00:39:01,330 --> 00:39:02,420
Yeah, listen to your husband.

1241
00:39:02,475 --> 00:39:03,580
You gonna keep saying that?

1242
00:39:03,850 --> 00:39:04,510
Listen to your husband.

1243
00:39:05,530 --> 00:39:06,430
I'm gonna ride that wave.

1244
00:39:06,790 --> 00:39:07,420
Listen to your husband.

1245
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,300
So my beautiful wife here has struggled.

1246
00:39:10,600 --> 00:39:15,250
Being able to talk to women, and
she gets very discouraged very

1247
00:39:15,250 --> 00:39:18,670
quickly if she's not being chased.

1248
00:39:19,130 --> 00:39:22,220
Even if somebody has expressed
interest, she kind of like gets

1249
00:39:22,220 --> 00:39:26,660
discouraged because maybe it didn't
happen quite the way she wanted it to.

1250
00:39:27,140 --> 00:39:33,740
And so, yeah she recently took my
advice on something and I did, and

1251
00:39:33,740 --> 00:39:35,660
it panned out very well for her.

1252
00:39:35,660 --> 00:39:36,470
And now.

1253
00:39:37,145 --> 00:39:37,745
Guess what?

1254
00:39:37,905 --> 00:39:39,375
Guess who's gonna Thank you.

1255
00:39:39,380 --> 00:39:39,470
Good.

1256
00:39:39,590 --> 00:39:41,085
A good looking woman
who's interested in her.

1257
00:39:41,825 --> 00:39:42,305
That's right.

1258
00:39:42,305 --> 00:39:42,935
Thank you.

1259
00:39:43,475 --> 00:39:44,170
So, yes, you're very welcome.

1260
00:39:44,350 --> 00:39:48,455
Um, I was actually, let me
tell you people, I have great

1261
00:39:48,485 --> 00:39:50,345
communication with my husband.

1262
00:39:50,375 --> 00:39:57,425
I, I have come to this, I don't know,
I've come to this area in my life

1263
00:39:57,425 --> 00:39:59,975
where it's like be very transparent.

1264
00:40:00,125 --> 00:40:02,105
I admit when I'm wrong.

1265
00:40:02,105 --> 00:40:02,975
I try to take.

1266
00:40:04,130 --> 00:40:05,300
What is that called that
you're always saying?

1267
00:40:05,300 --> 00:40:05,720
Accountability.

1268
00:40:05,750 --> 00:40:09,050
Accountability and stuff like that?

1269
00:40:09,230 --> 00:40:11,570
With things with my husband, right?

1270
00:40:11,960 --> 00:40:15,380
I'm not, I don't know how I
can be transparent with men.

1271
00:40:15,590 --> 00:40:20,815
I'm so scared to be like, not transparent
with women, but open, but more open.

1272
00:40:21,085 --> 00:40:22,010
Open communication.

1273
00:40:22,010 --> 00:40:23,090
Open communication.

1274
00:40:23,090 --> 00:40:25,250
See if they're interested and if they are.

1275
00:40:26,375 --> 00:40:30,430
What kind of interesting, interested
are you and you know, I don't know.

1276
00:40:30,430 --> 00:40:30,695
And, but

1277
00:40:30,695 --> 00:40:33,485
see that, that brings up a good
point because you are not alone

1278
00:40:33,485 --> 00:40:35,765
on this, and this is something
that I've heard from a lot mm-hmm.

1279
00:40:35,765 --> 00:40:37,715
Of women that are interested in women.

1280
00:40:37,985 --> 00:40:38,675
Oh, I have a woman.

1281
00:40:38,675 --> 00:40:39,305
Women have trouble.

1282
00:40:39,365 --> 00:40:42,845
I have a woman's group, only
women's group that I belong to,

1283
00:40:43,295 --> 00:40:47,585
and they are absolutely fantastic.

1284
00:40:47,695 --> 00:40:52,585
They, I can ask any question on
there, and I get so many different

1285
00:40:52,585 --> 00:40:55,855
answers and I'm not gonna lie to you.

1286
00:40:55,855 --> 00:40:58,945
A lot of them pretty
much say what you say.

1287
00:40:59,500 --> 00:40:59,980
You know.

1288
00:41:00,010 --> 00:41:00,100
Well,

1289
00:41:00,100 --> 00:41:04,820
yeah, and, and I think some women
it down and some women don't.

1290
00:41:04,820 --> 00:41:05,120
We don't

1291
00:41:05,120 --> 00:41:06,170
know how to talk to women.

1292
00:41:06,170 --> 00:41:06,440
Women

1293
00:41:06,440 --> 00:41:07,460
don't know how to talk to women.

1294
00:41:07,460 --> 00:41:08,185
I think that's incredible.

1295
00:41:08,185 --> 00:41:08,345
Like

1296
00:41:08,345 --> 00:41:12,890
we're, I think I was scared of rejection
and I've told that to you before

1297
00:41:12,890 --> 00:41:14,180
that I've been scared of rejection.

1298
00:41:14,210 --> 00:41:14,450
Yeah.

1299
00:41:14,540 --> 00:41:19,160
I'm also, I don't, for this certain
particular scenarios, I don't wanna

1300
00:41:19,160 --> 00:41:22,700
cross BI don't wanna cross boundaries
with someone who is married.

1301
00:41:23,025 --> 00:41:27,675
Um, or someone who has a partner,
I wanna make sure that we're all

1302
00:41:27,675 --> 00:41:32,985
very open and understanding because
I might be interested in you, but

1303
00:41:32,985 --> 00:41:34,275
I'm not interested in your husband.

1304
00:41:34,695 --> 00:41:39,010
And so I think those kind of conversations
sometimes are a little bit difficult.

1305
00:41:39,365 --> 00:41:40,385
Difficult,

1306
00:41:40,815 --> 00:41:44,325
Because it's one of those things where
if you say it the wrong way Yeah.

1307
00:41:44,325 --> 00:41:45,795
It could be taken the wrong way.

1308
00:41:46,695 --> 00:41:46,755
Yeah.

1309
00:41:46,755 --> 00:41:47,595
And you could be removing
yourself from, and so what I do

1310
00:41:47,595 --> 00:41:50,895
is I do voice notes people
so they can hear my tone.

1311
00:41:52,725 --> 00:41:53,865
Don't do it through text.

1312
00:41:53,865 --> 00:41:56,745
If you're interested in a woman, I'm
gonna give you some advice and my

1313
00:41:56,745 --> 00:42:01,310
husband gives me, if you're interested,
let them know you're interested.

1314
00:42:01,490 --> 00:42:02,200
Let them know you're interested.

1315
00:42:02,200 --> 00:42:03,615
They cannot read your mind.

1316
00:42:03,705 --> 00:42:03,885
No.

1317
00:42:03,945 --> 00:42:05,295
I know women.

1318
00:42:05,815 --> 00:42:05,845
Okay.

1319
00:42:06,385 --> 00:42:09,265
I'm not gonna say all women, but
I have it really easy with men.

1320
00:42:09,265 --> 00:42:10,435
I don't mind talking to them.

1321
00:42:10,435 --> 00:42:13,495
I don't mind expressing what
I like and what I don't like.

1322
00:42:14,065 --> 00:42:15,565
I can't do that with women.

1323
00:42:15,665 --> 00:42:16,535
I'm just scared.

1324
00:42:17,085 --> 00:42:20,925
Yeah, so we, um, we're here,
we're having a good time here.

1325
00:42:20,925 --> 00:42:24,600
And of course, you know,
it's, um, a lot of.

1326
00:42:25,230 --> 00:42:26,760
Women stuffed toys.

1327
00:42:26,850 --> 00:42:27,690
A lot of toys.

1328
00:42:27,690 --> 00:42:28,140
Yeah.

1329
00:42:28,140 --> 00:42:28,150
Yeah.

1330
00:42:28,350 --> 00:42:31,770
So with that, uh, you know,
we've, we've had a really great

1331
00:42:31,770 --> 00:42:33,030
time doing the show out here.

1332
00:42:33,280 --> 00:42:35,740
By the time you're listening to
it, it will be the day after.

1333
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:35,890
Yes.

1334
00:42:35,890 --> 00:42:36,550
Sorry guys.

1335
00:42:36,580 --> 00:42:36,670
Yes.

1336
00:42:36,670 --> 00:42:40,045
We're not gonna be here
at the time, uh, but

1337
00:42:40,585 --> 00:42:44,425
but we will be here till, uh,
4:00 PM So, uh, for those of you

1338
00:42:44,425 --> 00:42:46,795
who follow our socials, maybe
we'll be seeing you possibly.

1339
00:42:46,795 --> 00:42:47,245
Yes.

1340
00:42:47,245 --> 00:42:47,905
Yes, yes, yes.

1341
00:42:48,415 --> 00:42:50,305
Definitely check out Forbidden Fruit.

1342
00:42:50,585 --> 00:42:55,265
For all of our listeners who come into the
Austin area, decide to buy from Forbidden

1343
00:42:55,265 --> 00:42:59,145
Fruit, they are online, but also if you
come here, all you gotta do is tell 'em.

1344
00:42:59,600 --> 00:43:04,640
We are friends of BM and you beyond
monogamy and you will get 10% off.

1345
00:43:04,640 --> 00:43:05,120
That's right.

1346
00:43:05,120 --> 00:43:05,750
Yeah, that's right.

1347
00:43:05,960 --> 00:43:08,630
So, uh, you definitely
want to, uh, hit them up.

1348
00:43:08,630 --> 00:43:10,670
They, they sell quality toys, guys.

1349
00:43:10,760 --> 00:43:11,750
Quality toys.

1350
00:43:11,780 --> 00:43:12,260
It is, yeah.

1351
00:43:12,260 --> 00:43:13,370
They have a lot of good stuff.

1352
00:43:13,400 --> 00:43:13,700
Yeah.

1353
00:43:13,700 --> 00:43:16,400
So we appreciate you
guys joining us today.

1354
00:43:16,460 --> 00:43:18,770
With that, just a few things
I gotta list for you here.

1355
00:43:18,770 --> 00:43:20,870
You know how we do, right?

1356
00:43:20,870 --> 00:43:21,380
Mm-hmm.

1357
00:43:21,755 --> 00:43:22,255
As always.

1358
00:43:23,130 --> 00:43:24,570
We do have our Patreon.

1359
00:43:24,570 --> 00:43:26,880
We would love for you
to, uh, scope it out.

1360
00:43:26,880 --> 00:43:29,620
There's a lot of extra stuff that
we're putting on there along, along

1361
00:43:29,620 --> 00:43:31,170
a lot of bloopers, a lot of bloopers.

1362
00:43:31,500 --> 00:43:34,140
And uh, also, you know,
you just never know.

1363
00:43:34,140 --> 00:43:36,750
There might be a, a bonus
episode here or there.

1364
00:43:36,750 --> 00:43:38,790
So yeah, definitely go scope that out.

1365
00:43:39,070 --> 00:43:45,280
Also, we are on full swap radio every
Thursday at 2:00 PM and 6:00 PM and.

1366
00:43:45,820 --> 00:43:50,530
We have some another event coming up the,
uh, December 5th through the seventh.

1367
00:43:50,530 --> 00:43:50,620
Mm-hmm.

1368
00:43:50,860 --> 00:43:56,620
There is a San Antonio takeover, uh,
naughty or nice through Texas Legends.

1369
00:43:56,830 --> 00:44:02,170
And all of that can be found on our
website, www.beyond-monogamy.com.

1370
00:44:02,500 --> 00:44:06,820
And all you gotta do is go to the events
tab, and right next to the events tab is

1371
00:44:06,820 --> 00:44:09,610
actually our Beyond Monogamy confessional.

1372
00:44:10,195 --> 00:44:13,915
That you can actually go in
there and leave a confession.

1373
00:44:13,915 --> 00:44:16,585
You can tell us a good story,
you can tell us anything you

1374
00:44:16,585 --> 00:44:18,745
want, and it's 100% anonymous.

1375
00:44:18,745 --> 00:44:20,425
We would love to hear from you.

1376
00:44:20,785 --> 00:44:23,575
And if you don't wanna be anonymous,
you can also leave us a voicemail.

1377
00:44:23,575 --> 00:44:24,205
Yeah, how about that?

1378
00:44:24,205 --> 00:44:24,265
Yeah.

1379
00:44:24,445 --> 00:44:26,725
So there's a lot of stuff that
can be done at that website.

1380
00:44:26,725 --> 00:44:31,115
Go check us out www.beyond-monogamy.com.

1381
00:44:31,435 --> 00:44:33,795
Uh, and as always subscribe, share.

1382
00:44:35,085 --> 00:44:36,885
Comment, review whatever you can.

1383
00:44:36,885 --> 00:44:38,715
You're gonna help us
grow in this community.

1384
00:44:38,955 --> 00:44:44,745
We appreciate all of your help
and I think we can say that we

1385
00:44:44,745 --> 00:44:46,305
will see you guys next week.

1386
00:44:46,335 --> 00:44:46,815
Yes.

1387
00:44:46,815 --> 00:44:46,875
Bye.