Content Creators, Swingers & Gooning: Rae Gets Real

Meet Rae: Our Newest Lady of Beyond Monogamy

Alright friends, let’s just get this out of the way early — Rae is officially one of the newest Ladies of Beyond Monogamy, and yes… you’re going to be seeing a lot more of her.

That means future events, future meet-ups, future shenanigans, and plenty of opportunities to hang out with us and our growing crew of amazing humans, including Rae and Nicole from The Pineapple House TX. If you’ve ever come to one of our events, you already know the vibe — welcoming, sexy, respectful, and fun as hell.

This episode was recorded live at Club Eden San Antonio, and before we even hit record, we knew it was going to be special.

From “New to the Lifestyle” to “Wait… How Is She This Comfortable?”

Rae is new to the lifestyle — like, less-than-ten-events new — and yet when she walked into the room, it was straight up record-scratch energy.

All eyes. Zero awkwardness. Natural confidence.

As Adam said on the show: “I would’ve never guessed you were new. You just fit.”

And that’s kind of the theme of this entire episode — finding the place where you don’t feel like the odd one out anymore.

Cosplay, Content Creation & Calling BS on Entitlement

Rae has been creating content since she was 19, carving out a niche with cosplay, anime aesthetics, and humor that’s equal parts flirty and unfiltered.

Yes, she dresses up as anime cats.
Yes, the internet loves it.
Yes, some people think that somehow means they’re entitled to her body.

Hard no.

One of the realest moments of the episode was when we talked about the idea that content creators “can’t be real lifestylers.” To which we collectively say: absolutely not.

As Rae put it perfectly: “You’re not walking into a room filming everyone. It’s consensual. If we both benefit, why not?”

Peanut butter. Meet jelly.

Let’s Talk About Gooning (Yes, Really)

We also went there — hypersexuality, gooning, and what it feels like to finally be in a space where you don’t feel broken for wanting sex.

Rae said it best when she shared how monogamy muted her sex drive… and how the lifestyle felt like hitting Nirvana.

Or as Adam summarized it: “You can rub one out for business or pleasure.”

Truly inspirational words.

Why Communication Changes Everything

One of the most powerful takeaways from this episode was how much better sex gets when communication is normalized — especially for women.

No guessing. No ego. No pretending.

Just honest conversations about what feels good and what doesn’t.

Revolutionary, we know.

Huge Thanks to Club Eden San Antonio

Massive shout-out to Chris and the entire staff at Club Eden San Antonio for always making the space safe, welcoming, and perfect for these conversations.

It’s not just a club — it’s home.

Follow Rae & Stay Connected

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https://raecrush.carrd.co

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www.beyond-monogamy.com

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