Nobody planned any of this. Not the lifestyle. Not the podcast. Definitely not the Uber ride. And yet here we are.
This week on Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris sit down with Myrina and Tristan from @AccidentalSwingers — one of the most beloved and genuinely unique podcasts in the ENM space — and the conversation does not disappoint.
Myrina and Tristan stumbled into the lifestyle in 2018 thanks to a neighbor couple, a Latin dance club in St. Petersburg, and an Uber driver who politely asked if everything was okay in the back seat. (It was. Very okay.) What followed was a first playdate, a lot of confusion, an iPhone full of audio diaries, and eventually a podcast that thousands of people turn to when they need to hear that real couples navigate this life imperfectly — and come out better for it.
In this episode:
→ The full origin story behind the name Accidental Swingers
→ How a personal audio diary accidentally became a fan-favorite podcast
→ Jealousy — what it actually feels like, how they navigated it early, and why owning your reaction changes everything
→ What happens when menopause shows up mid-lifestyle journey (spoiler: it's a lot)
→ Aging in the lifestyle and why the community doesn't talk about it enough
→ How Myrina became the Naughty Headmistress of Naughty Nawlins — and what to expect at the 2026 event
→ The Accidental Swingers Discord group for Naughty attendees and how it works
Naughty Nawlins 2026 runs July 8–12 in New Orleans. Over 4,000 people. Multiple hotels. Themed parties, afternoon orgies, piano bars, education panels, and enough going on at any one moment that you can absolutely build a choose-your-own-adventure experience. Info and tickets at naughtyneworleans2026.com.
Check out The Accidental Swingers:
Website: https://accidentalswingers.com/
Episodes: https://accidentalswingers.com/podcasts/
YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/TheAccidentalSwingers
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/accidentalswingers/
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AccidentalSwingers
Twitter/X: https://www.twitter.com/myrina_tristan
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@accidentalswingers
IMDB: https://www.imdb.com/title/tt22019250/?ref_=ext_shr_lnk
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