Sex Work, Swinging, & Gooning: Rae's Real Talk On The Lifestyle

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Alright y'all, before we
dive in, a quick heads up.

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This show is raw, real, and
definitely not rated pg.

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We're talking about adult themes, sexual
content, and the kind of stuff you

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probably don't want blasting through your
speakers at work or around your kits.

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So grab some headphones, pour your
drink of choice and get comfy.

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Oh, and just so we're clear, we are not
licensed therapists, counselors, or sex.

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Couches.

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Sex coaches.

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Sex coaches, not sex couches

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or just a couple of people sharing our
lives, experiences and sexy adventures.

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An ethical non-monogamy.

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So with that, pull up a
chair and enjoy the show.

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And.

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Hello and welcome to another
episode of Beyond Monogamy.

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I'm Adam.

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And I'm Pris.

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And today, as you can see, if you are
watching the show, there is an incredibly

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sexy woman that is here at our table.

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No, we did not meet her out in the
parking lot, although we did technically

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kind of meet her out in the parking lot.

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Uh, we have a, a wonderful opportunity
to do a show with what I've been

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hoping to do, a show with a content
creator who is in the lifestyle.

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Mm-hmm.

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And then also.

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A new person to the lifestyle.

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Mm-hmm.

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So this is like, a couple of different
angles that I really wanted to get on.

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So we would like to
welcome Rae to the show.

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Welcome to the show.

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Thank you.

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Thank you.

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Welcome to the show.

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Now, you know, I, I'm curious as far as,
you're really new to the lifestyle, right?

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Oh, very, very new.

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Um, I. Became single again
on August 1st of this year.

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Okay.

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Oh wow.

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Okay then.

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That's my birthday.

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It is.

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Mm-hmm.

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Happy, happy belated, mega belated.

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Thank you.

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Um, but I, first, I'm
trying to remember, oh yeah.

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A neighbor of mine actually,
that I was messing around

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with randomly on a Wednesday.

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He was like, let's go to
this place called TPC.

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I was like, let's go.

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And I didn't know what it was really.

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And uh, ever since then I was
like, oh, I kind of feel at home.

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It just worked.

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Yeah, it just happened and I was like, oh,
I think this is what I've been missing.

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And I'm just very new to it.

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And most of the events I've been
to have been at the Pineapple

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House, which y'all interviewed.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Um, and I've loved it ever
since, but I am very new.

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That's where we met you to
less 10 less than 10 events.

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So that's Oh, wow.

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Wow.

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Less than 10 events.

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Yes.

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And you know, I would've
never guessed that.

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'cause when we met you at the party.

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You just fit in.

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Yeah.

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Very comfortable.

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Like a fat kid in a candy store.

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Like I mean, you were there and I
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new until you told us thank you.

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That actually means a lot to me.

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'cause like every single time I
go there granted, y'all got me two

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wine glasses in, so I'm That's okay.

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I'm much.

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Social butterfly, but I was, every
time I go I'm just like nervous.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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It is nerve wracking.

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Yeah.

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I get that.

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Oh, especially as a, as still get nervous.

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A single woman.

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Yeah.

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I'm not even going to as a couple.

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Like that's, that's very
nerve wracking because you are

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the, what everyone looks for.

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And what everyone kind of
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get your attention and stuff.

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So, yeah.

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That, oh man.

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When you walked into the house mm-hmm.

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When we met you, like
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Yeah.

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Like in a good way.

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And it's just one of those
things you just kind of command

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the attention when you walk in.

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It's like, whoa.

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Who's that?

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That's good.

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You heard the record Scratch movies.

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Everybody just kind of looked back.

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Alright, now they're too loud.

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Did I do the dumb, did I do
the the silly face though?

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Yeah.

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You're on.

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Yeah.

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No.

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So.

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I think it's really cool that
you're new in the lifestyle.

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Mm-hmm.

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We're gonna explore more of
that, but I actually want to

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talk about your content creation.

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Yeah, absolutely.

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Um, because we have freshly
discovered you and yeah.

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It's kind of cool, like, I gotta
say one the stuff that I followed,

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you're freaking hilarious, man.

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You're so fun.

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Or thank you, like you're a
hard time taking compliments,

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but that is such really sweet.

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Thank you.

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Yeah.

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I try to be as authentic
as I can on that for sure.

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And it really does show shows, you know,
kind of gives us a, an idea of just kind

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of that free wielding personality of like,
this is me take it or leave it, you know,

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kind of trash talk in, but also like, yes,
there is a little bit of tea on there.

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I have my whole tea highlight on
Yeah, both men and women, including.

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Him like a, everyone seems
to really like those.

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Yeah.

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It's fun.

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When, when did you start making content?

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Um, so I started making content at 19.

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Okay.

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Which is very young.

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Yeah.

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Um, and honestly, most people like who
do it at that age, like they're just

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trying to get out of bad situation.

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They're just trying to move out.

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And that's what I did,
and then I did it and.

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It just all kind of fell into
place and I was like, this is

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actually, I'm kind of good at this.

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Like I kind of understand the schedule
and I've always really struggled with

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that regular nine to five work schedule.

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Mm-hmm.

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And so it just kind of worked out
and I've been doing it ever since.

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So it's like end of
2019, beginning of 2020.

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Wow.

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So it was especially booming.

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'cause during the pandemic, everyone was.

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Beating off.

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And so, uh, and that's like when
OnlyFans was really booming.

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But yeah, it's been a while.

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That's when I started.

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Yeah.

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And then I got off and then I came back.

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Well, it's, you started
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Yeah.

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But we, we revamped it.

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Wow.

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That's cool.

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Yeah.

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So, so when you started, was there.

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Was there a theme when you first
started or was it kind of like,

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let me just kind of figure this
out and see where I go with it?

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Oh man.

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So for my age at the time I'm
sure y'all remember like on

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TikTok and really everywhere else,
that e girl, that was the thing.

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So the E girl, the gamer
girl, the whatever.

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Oh, okay.

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And I already kind of fit that
and that was like the huge,

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gooning trend on TikTok was, yeah.

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You know, the silly, like mega
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the pigtails, the gamer headset.

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Mm-hmm.

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That was the thing.

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And that was already what I was
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So I just, it just all worked out.

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'cause I was like, oh, let
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And it just.

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Took ahead.

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It just happened there, huh?

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Yeah, it was, I was pretty lucky,
honestly, the way that it all panned out.

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It's so cool.

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Yeah.

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That's interesting.

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Now, as a content creator, and this is the
part that I'm always curious about mm-hmm.

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Because what platforms
are you on first off?

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Like your social medias
and that sort of stuff.

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I just have Instagram, TikTok, my Twitter.

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I have to, you know, as y'all
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Yeah.

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Honestly, my TikTok is less promotional.

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It's really just kind of to shit posts
and for people to see different sign me.

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Um, it's really my Instagram that I, am
trying to drive traffic to, but it's just

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Instagram, TikTok, Twitter, and OnlyFans.

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OnlyFans.

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Yeah.

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Right on.

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That's awesome.

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Yeah.

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Only on OnlyFans.

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Yeah.

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Right on.

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That's cool.

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And on, well, on, on, I haven't like.

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Delved into your OnlyFans.

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Yeah.

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Is it more, is it a lot
of your solo content?

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Are you, are you dressed up?

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Is it like cosplay and stuff like that?

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Yeah, so that's kind of
my niche is cosplaying.

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I've always loved cosplaying.

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I think that it's, I love makeup and
so, you know, getting suggestions

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from, for characters and, you know,
I, I'm a huge anime and video game

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nerd, especially with anime and so.

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I just love cosplaying.

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Yeah.

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And that's kind of my niche is that
they like to see me in different

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cosplays, and then sometimes I'll
do just regular photos of me.

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Yeah, yeah.

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But for the most part, yeah, like
on there, it's, it's solo content

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as of the, it's been on and off.

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Like with other people, um, OnlyFans is
kind of tricky about tagging and stuff.

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Yeah, yeah.

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Yeah.

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Mm-hmm.

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Very annoying.

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Mm-hmm.

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But, um, it's really just been this year
that I've been really going hard on trying

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to record with other people and, and it,
I'm still nervous about it every time.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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But it's been very fun.

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It's a mutually beneficial decision.

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Exactly.

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It's like, it's, it's,
it's great and honestly.

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Being new to the swingers community
as well, that's actually like

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they're helping each other, right?

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Yeah.

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Get used to new Yeah.

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One, one handwash the other, so to speak.

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Yeah.

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Thing with people.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, yeah.

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That's, I, and so that's, that
kinda leads me into, so I've

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talked about this in past shows.

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Where there is a large amount
of the community that seems to

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believe that content creators
cannot be actual lifestylers.

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And this drives me nuts.

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Because I don't, I don't agree with it.

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And we've voiced this before, but a lot of
people have said, well, how are you going

260
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to ask people to pay for your content?

261
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Mm-hmm.

262
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When I can probably sleep with
you for free in the lifestyle.

263
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Mm. And it's like, okay.

264
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I can understand the questioning of it.

265
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Yeah.

266
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Mm-hmm.

267
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But at the same time, we are a
community that accepts everybody.

268
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Mm-hmm.

269
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And there's a pot for every
lid and somebody's into this,

270
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and maybe you're not into it.

271
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Why do you have to?

272
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Mm-hmm.

273
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Why do you have to dog it?

274
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You know what I'm saying?

275
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Yeah, exactly.

276
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Yeah.

277
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And so we've run into that too.

278
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We've run into, when we started talking
monetization of the podcast and people are

279
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like, well, that's not for the community.

280
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Yeah.

281
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You know, things like that.

282
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Yeah.

283
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You know?

284
00:09:02,987 --> 00:09:08,447
People have an issue with
monetization and the lifestyle.

285
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Mm-hmm.

286
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Yeah.

287
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They feel like things should be mm-hmm.

288
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Free.

289
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I'm kind of curious what your thoughts are
on it, you know, and this is also coming

290
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from someone who's just new to all this.

291
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Yeah.

292
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So I feel like I have a
very doey perspective, but.

293
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Honestly.

294
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So first I actually ran into my first
issue relating to that where there was

295
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actually a guy asking a mutual friend of
ours, like, um, well he RSVP to an event,

296
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and then he personally dmd me mm-hmm.

297
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And was like, are you
gonna be at this one?

298
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And when I said No, he didn't show up.

299
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And so it was very clear that the, a
lot of my fan base is from Houston.

300
00:09:41,512 --> 00:09:41,752
Okay.

301
00:09:41,752 --> 00:09:46,102
So that is something even in just regular
dating, I have to be wary of Yeah.

302
00:09:46,312 --> 00:09:47,872
Um, of like false pretenses mm-hmm.

303
00:09:48,112 --> 00:09:48,952
And stuff like that.

304
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But as for like, monetization with the
lifestyle, I mean, you're not walking

305
00:09:55,012 --> 00:09:57,442
into the room filming everyone Yeah.

306
00:09:57,532 --> 00:10:00,052
Being like, I'm making money off of you.

307
00:10:00,057 --> 00:10:00,217
Yeah.

308
00:10:00,237 --> 00:10:01,552
And you don't get a say in that.

309
00:10:01,612 --> 00:10:01,732
Yeah.

310
00:10:01,762 --> 00:10:04,672
It's, you know, filming
with people consensual.

311
00:10:04,672 --> 00:10:04,852
Mm-hmm.

312
00:10:05,092 --> 00:10:05,727
You know, I feel like.

313
00:10:06,602 --> 00:10:07,322
Times are hard.

314
00:10:07,742 --> 00:10:10,202
Like why not make an extra buck?

315
00:10:10,202 --> 00:10:11,372
Like why not do that?

316
00:10:11,372 --> 00:10:13,862
And it's cool if they don't want to do it.

317
00:10:14,042 --> 00:10:14,372
Yeah.

318
00:10:14,852 --> 00:10:17,282
But that doesn't really
work for everybody.

319
00:10:17,282 --> 00:10:22,802
And I think that it's a wonderful place
to make content because you have such

320
00:10:22,802 --> 00:10:26,882
a accepting community and you have a
community of people that really just

321
00:10:26,882 --> 00:10:30,242
want to be there for the vibes, really.

322
00:10:30,242 --> 00:10:30,332
Oh yeah.

323
00:10:30,332 --> 00:10:32,972
And I feel like it's a great place
to connect and meet with people.

324
00:10:33,677 --> 00:10:36,347
It's almost like, it's like
a box wrapped with a bow.

325
00:10:36,347 --> 00:10:36,677
Like, why not?

326
00:10:37,622 --> 00:10:39,587
If you wanna play with me,
are you cool with on camera?

327
00:10:39,587 --> 00:10:40,757
We can both make money.

328
00:10:40,762 --> 00:10:43,577
Like, yeah, that's f it's a
peanut butter and jelly situation.

329
00:10:43,577 --> 00:10:44,897
They just go together.

330
00:10:44,957 --> 00:10:47,297
Like you would, you wouldn't
figure there'd be issue with it.

331
00:10:47,297 --> 00:10:47,507
Yeah.

332
00:10:47,507 --> 00:10:50,387
I think that this is a great place
to, to make content, you know?

333
00:10:50,387 --> 00:10:50,807
Yeah.

334
00:10:51,167 --> 00:10:54,287
But you know, and you know, I, I
see a lot of the complaints come

335
00:10:54,287 --> 00:10:57,107
from a, a specific type of person.

336
00:10:57,587 --> 00:11:01,127
These are the same guys that
will message women and be like,

337
00:11:01,187 --> 00:11:02,907
Hey, can you send me nudes?

338
00:11:02,937 --> 00:11:04,077
Like it's titty Tuesday.

339
00:11:04,077 --> 00:11:04,167
Mm-hmm.

340
00:11:04,407 --> 00:11:05,967
Can you send me a picture of your tets?

341
00:11:05,972 --> 00:11:06,062
Mm-hmm.

342
00:11:06,147 --> 00:11:09,897
You know, and it's like they want
women to give them free pictures, and

343
00:11:09,897 --> 00:11:14,037
then when somebody like Pris or, or
somebody that, that has an OF goes,

344
00:11:14,037 --> 00:11:16,887
well, you can see 'em if you pay 7 99.

345
00:11:16,977 --> 00:11:18,137
Then they're, they get butt hurt.

346
00:11:18,197 --> 00:11:18,482
Yeah.

347
00:11:18,482 --> 00:11:19,692
You know, and it's like,
well, what the fuck?

348
00:11:20,282 --> 00:11:20,522
Yeah.

349
00:11:20,522 --> 00:11:21,722
You guys don't belong here.

350
00:11:21,812 --> 00:11:22,412
Yeah.

351
00:11:22,412 --> 00:11:25,892
It's that weird, weirdly
placed in entitlement.

352
00:11:25,982 --> 00:11:26,192
Yeah.

353
00:11:26,192 --> 00:11:28,832
And I think that's like outside of
the swingers community as well as

354
00:11:28,832 --> 00:11:33,332
that, a lot of people think that
they're just entitled to have things.

355
00:11:33,337 --> 00:11:34,112
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

356
00:11:34,142 --> 00:11:38,912
And like regardless of me doing OF, like
there's been so many times where people

357
00:11:38,912 --> 00:11:43,507
have felt genuinely entitled to have my
nudes and I'm like, I don't know you.

358
00:11:43,697 --> 00:11:43,987
Yeah.

359
00:11:44,137 --> 00:11:46,022
Like, you know what I'm saying?

360
00:11:46,022 --> 00:11:46,592
Yeah.

361
00:11:46,592 --> 00:11:48,467
I. I'm not surprised.

362
00:11:48,587 --> 00:11:52,637
Yeah, and you know, a lot of those
assumptions come throughout the

363
00:11:52,637 --> 00:11:54,257
lifestyle for different aspects.

364
00:11:54,437 --> 00:11:58,277
So like, if you're a bisexual woman,
automatically people figure, oh,

365
00:11:58,277 --> 00:11:59,657
well you're gonna sleep with anybody.

366
00:11:59,897 --> 00:12:00,377
Oh my God.

367
00:12:00,767 --> 00:12:04,577
They always assume that, and it's, and
I'm just easily, so, easily attainable.

368
00:12:04,637 --> 00:12:05,147
Yeah.

369
00:12:05,147 --> 00:12:05,237
Yeah.

370
00:12:05,237 --> 00:12:08,042
If there's a. Phallic thing on
the floor, and probably it's

371
00:12:08,042 --> 00:12:09,002
probably gonna go inside me.

372
00:12:09,002 --> 00:12:11,612
It's just like, no, I like,
people are still picky.

373
00:12:11,612 --> 00:12:11,942
Yes.

374
00:12:11,942 --> 00:12:11,962
You know?

375
00:12:12,407 --> 00:12:12,627
Yes.

376
00:12:12,737 --> 00:12:13,347
Like, yes.

377
00:12:13,352 --> 00:12:13,622
Yeah.

378
00:12:13,622 --> 00:12:17,232
And, and it's funny because, uh,
we're gonna be doing a future show

379
00:12:17,262 --> 00:12:22,382
with another podcaster friend of ours
who it's called United By Swinging.

380
00:12:22,432 --> 00:12:25,762
And really I wanted to focus
on them on a show because.

381
00:12:26,227 --> 00:12:30,967
There's a lot of bi men who struggle
to come out in the lifestyle.

382
00:12:30,967 --> 00:12:32,317
They just don't feel comfortable.

383
00:12:32,347 --> 00:12:32,437
Mm-hmm.

384
00:12:32,677 --> 00:12:36,717
Because people, especially a lot of
maybe homophobic men in the lifestyle.

385
00:12:36,747 --> 00:12:38,697
I saw Y's episode about that.

386
00:12:38,697 --> 00:12:38,707
Yeah.

387
00:12:38,732 --> 00:12:39,992
I'm pretty sure I watched that one.

388
00:12:40,077 --> 00:12:40,437
Yeah.

389
00:12:40,437 --> 00:12:41,137
And you know, it's, it's.

390
00:12:41,697 --> 00:12:42,927
It's problematic.

391
00:12:42,957 --> 00:12:43,017
Yeah.

392
00:12:43,017 --> 00:12:46,467
And it's like, I'm, I'm straight,
but I don't have issues with

393
00:12:46,647 --> 00:12:47,997
a guy touching me or anything.

394
00:12:47,997 --> 00:12:51,927
Or if, if we play with a couple that has
a bisexual male, like, doesn't bother me.

395
00:12:52,497 --> 00:12:55,047
But there are people who
have issues with that.

396
00:12:55,077 --> 00:12:55,497
Yeah.

397
00:12:55,557 --> 00:12:59,757
And uh, you know, when I was talking
to, uh, certain bi men that, that

398
00:12:59,787 --> 00:13:03,147
are afraid to come out, it's like
a lot of these men just figure,

399
00:13:03,177 --> 00:13:05,637
oh, they want to sleep with me.

400
00:13:05,967 --> 00:13:06,297
Yes.

401
00:13:06,297 --> 00:13:08,997
And it's like, no dude, like
that doesn't mean that they

402
00:13:08,997 --> 00:13:10,052
want to sleep with every guy.

403
00:13:10,052 --> 00:13:10,062
Yeah.

404
00:13:10,062 --> 00:13:12,777
I mean, it's kind of like the running
joke of like, when you tell, like when

405
00:13:12,777 --> 00:13:15,597
you're younger, like much younger, and
you tell your friend that you're gay,

406
00:13:15,597 --> 00:13:17,517
they're like, oh, I hope, like what?

407
00:13:17,517 --> 00:13:18,387
Do you have a crush on me?

408
00:13:18,387 --> 00:13:18,777
Or something?

409
00:13:18,777 --> 00:13:21,327
And it's like, okay, hold
your horses, take it easy.

410
00:13:21,327 --> 00:13:22,317
Get off your high horse.

411
00:13:22,737 --> 00:13:25,107
Not my type, but it's kind of like that.

412
00:13:25,107 --> 00:13:25,197
Yeah.

413
00:13:25,197 --> 00:13:28,077
Like they assume that just
bi people or gay people, like

414
00:13:28,077 --> 00:13:29,307
they're just gonna want that.

415
00:13:29,367 --> 00:13:29,487
Yeah.

416
00:13:29,492 --> 00:13:29,612
Yeah.

417
00:13:29,697 --> 00:13:33,417
And it's like, and and, but it's also
that, that it leans into the assumption.

418
00:13:34,002 --> 00:13:38,202
Of the lifestyle period where when
you, when people outside of the

419
00:13:38,202 --> 00:13:41,562
lifestyle find out that you're in the
lifestyle, they automatically assume,

420
00:13:41,592 --> 00:13:42,882
oh, well, are you flirting with me?

421
00:13:42,887 --> 00:13:43,057
Yeah.

422
00:13:43,482 --> 00:13:43,602
Yes.

423
00:13:43,602 --> 00:13:44,532
Are you trying to bed me?

424
00:13:44,652 --> 00:13:44,952
Yes.

425
00:13:44,952 --> 00:13:45,072
You know?

426
00:13:45,072 --> 00:13:48,192
And it's like, no, bro, no, I'm good.

427
00:13:48,192 --> 00:13:48,582
Yeah.

428
00:13:48,732 --> 00:13:50,652
Like, we don't have to, we
don't have to have that talk.

429
00:13:50,952 --> 00:13:54,832
We just ask, you know, we've actually
seen faces of people that have

430
00:13:54,832 --> 00:13:57,122
asked oh, well, what's your podcast?

431
00:13:57,122 --> 00:13:58,742
And it's like, well, it's a sex podcast.

432
00:13:58,742 --> 00:14:00,062
We're, we're in the lifestyle.

433
00:14:00,062 --> 00:14:01,022
Mm-hmm.

434
00:14:01,023 --> 00:14:01,033
And.

435
00:14:01,472 --> 00:14:07,472
You know, once they see that they either
go Really okay, or they go, oh, okay.

436
00:14:07,502 --> 00:14:07,862
Sorry.

437
00:14:08,822 --> 00:14:09,932
It's like, it's, it's cool.

438
00:14:10,442 --> 00:14:14,612
If you want, you can tap the wrist
and it'll take you to the, it'll

439
00:14:14,612 --> 00:14:15,752
take you to the show, you know?

440
00:14:16,202 --> 00:14:16,622
So, yeah.

441
00:14:16,782 --> 00:14:21,282
I, I always found it kind of interesting
and I know that there's gonna be

442
00:14:21,282 --> 00:14:23,272
a lot of major opinions about it.

443
00:14:23,572 --> 00:14:23,752
Yeah.

444
00:14:23,842 --> 00:14:27,182
Uh, but people who are
involved in sex work.

445
00:14:27,692 --> 00:14:32,102
Are just as included in
this as everybody else's.

446
00:14:32,102 --> 00:14:32,492
I mean, it's job.

447
00:14:32,492 --> 00:14:33,662
They're all trying to make money.

448
00:14:33,707 --> 00:14:33,997
Yeah.

449
00:14:34,142 --> 00:14:34,502
Yeah.

450
00:14:34,502 --> 00:14:35,437
I mean, times and party.

451
00:14:35,437 --> 00:14:38,732
And at that point I really do,
like, I don't, I think that

452
00:14:38,732 --> 00:14:41,162
these problems exist everywhere.

453
00:14:41,252 --> 00:14:41,312
Yeah.

454
00:14:41,312 --> 00:14:44,312
So it's like no community of people.

455
00:14:44,312 --> 00:14:46,292
I mean, I was just talking about
it earlier where it's like.

456
00:14:46,562 --> 00:14:47,822
There's always gonna be weirdos.

457
00:14:48,002 --> 00:14:48,212
Yeah.

458
00:14:48,242 --> 00:14:48,542
Always.

459
00:14:48,542 --> 00:14:48,602
Yeah.

460
00:14:48,602 --> 00:14:51,212
There's always gonna be annoying
people or people you don't get along

461
00:14:51,212 --> 00:14:52,592
with or people who disagree with you.

462
00:14:52,592 --> 00:14:56,252
Because when you have a community
of people, everyone is different.

463
00:14:56,402 --> 00:14:56,522
Yeah.

464
00:14:56,522 --> 00:14:58,832
And so I'm not surprised that
these problems still exist here.

465
00:14:58,832 --> 00:14:58,922
Mm-hmm.

466
00:14:59,162 --> 00:15:01,082
And to pretend that they wouldn't Yeah.

467
00:15:01,087 --> 00:15:02,297
Is just ignorant.

468
00:15:02,537 --> 00:15:02,617
Ignorant.

469
00:15:02,617 --> 00:15:02,857
Yeah.

470
00:15:04,647 --> 00:15:05,137
Exactly.

471
00:15:06,237 --> 00:15:06,457
Yes.

472
00:15:08,402 --> 00:15:08,612
Yeah.

473
00:15:08,912 --> 00:15:09,602
No, it is.

474
00:15:09,602 --> 00:15:11,792
It's, um, and it's, it's really hard.

475
00:15:12,212 --> 00:15:15,572
It was really hard for me when I, when
we started coming out and stuff like

476
00:15:15,572 --> 00:15:20,222
that, that it was like, dang, people
just have, they're judgy and they're,

477
00:15:20,552 --> 00:15:22,802
how are you gonna make money off of this?

478
00:15:22,802 --> 00:15:22,862
Yeah.

479
00:15:22,892 --> 00:15:23,972
And how are you gonna do that?

480
00:15:23,972 --> 00:15:27,842
And it's like, gotta be got a
lot simpler than people think.

481
00:15:27,872 --> 00:15:28,202
Yeah.

482
00:15:28,202 --> 00:15:28,212
Yeah.

483
00:15:28,532 --> 00:15:29,727
Everybody could be doing it.

484
00:15:29,727 --> 00:15:30,392
Yeah.

485
00:15:30,392 --> 00:15:31,772
It's a lot simpler.

486
00:15:31,772 --> 00:15:34,872
Like the difficulties are like
usually unspoken, but like, yeah.

487
00:15:35,537 --> 00:15:36,227
It's easy.

488
00:15:36,287 --> 00:15:38,627
If you have a camera and you
have a body, it could work.

489
00:15:38,717 --> 00:15:39,617
Yes, that's right.

490
00:15:39,617 --> 00:15:43,297
And, you know, so, so what I
found interesting is and I,

491
00:15:43,387 --> 00:15:44,857
stop me if I'm wrong, but.

492
00:15:45,337 --> 00:15:47,437
You're just a naturally
horny person though.

493
00:15:47,737 --> 00:15:48,307
Yes.

494
00:15:48,307 --> 00:15:51,667
I actually made a story post,
which I'm pretty sure you saw.

495
00:15:51,672 --> 00:15:51,882
I did.

496
00:15:51,982 --> 00:15:52,842
And I was like a heart.

497
00:15:52,842 --> 00:15:53,922
Wait, was it the Gooning one?

498
00:15:54,542 --> 00:15:55,762
Yes, it was the Gooning one.

499
00:15:55,832 --> 00:15:56,122
Yeah.

500
00:15:56,122 --> 00:15:57,842
Y'all feel to young now ask somebody.

501
00:15:57,937 --> 00:16:00,427
I thought I knew what Gooning
was and I really had to go and I

502
00:16:00,427 --> 00:16:03,487
embarrassed my children and asked
them, and I did two children.

503
00:16:03,517 --> 00:16:03,877
Oh yeah.

504
00:16:03,907 --> 00:16:04,627
Oh Lord.

505
00:16:04,957 --> 00:16:05,257
Oh no.

506
00:16:05,257 --> 00:16:07,957
It's an open, yeah, I asked my
boy, I was like, what is that?

507
00:16:08,827 --> 00:16:09,697
Oh my God.

508
00:16:09,697 --> 00:16:10,477
Don't laugh at me.

509
00:16:10,477 --> 00:16:12,277
I knew what it was, but I
wanted to embarrass them.

510
00:16:12,307 --> 00:16:13,237
That's hilarious.

511
00:16:13,597 --> 00:16:13,927
Yeah.

512
00:16:13,987 --> 00:16:18,817
Um, I have always, I'm gonna
go on a bit of a tangent here.

513
00:16:18,817 --> 00:16:19,507
It's my, go ahead.

514
00:16:19,507 --> 00:16:23,887
I have always been a
very hypersexual person.

515
00:16:23,917 --> 00:16:24,157
Okay.

516
00:16:24,157 --> 00:16:28,217
Since a very, very young age and like
to the point where I remember being

517
00:16:28,217 --> 00:16:31,782
like 12, 13, which obviously puberty
age, but it was just like, this is

518
00:16:31,782 --> 00:16:35,352
a bit much like even for me, I was
like, this is a little much, man.

519
00:16:35,357 --> 00:16:39,372
You have to do schoolwork at some point
and it just never really died down.

520
00:16:39,432 --> 00:16:39,582
Yeah.

521
00:16:39,582 --> 00:16:44,742
And the only times it did die down was
when I was in monogamous relationships.

522
00:16:44,772 --> 00:16:45,102
Yeah.

523
00:16:45,162 --> 00:16:50,502
That's when all of a sudden my just
sex drive just I, well, no, suddenly

524
00:16:50,922 --> 00:16:52,212
I didn't really care about it.

525
00:16:52,512 --> 00:16:53,682
I didn't really care about sex.

526
00:16:53,682 --> 00:16:53,872
I didn't.

527
00:16:54,522 --> 00:16:55,842
Like by myself.

528
00:16:55,842 --> 00:16:59,922
I was doing what I needed to do, but like
with them, like my sex drive was so low.

529
00:16:59,982 --> 00:17:00,072
Mm-hmm.

530
00:17:00,312 --> 00:17:00,372
Yeah.

531
00:17:00,422 --> 00:17:03,182
It was just dying slowly
every single time.

532
00:17:03,452 --> 00:17:11,222
And then I went to my first swingers
event and or I went to the clubs and then

533
00:17:11,222 --> 00:17:16,802
the first swingers event at Pineapple
House and I was like, this, I think I've

534
00:17:16,802 --> 00:17:19,352
reached Nirvana, like this is kind of.

535
00:17:20,027 --> 00:17:23,897
Where I need to be because
everyone here is freaky.

536
00:17:23,897 --> 00:17:25,877
Like I don't feel like the
freaky one in the room.

537
00:17:25,907 --> 00:17:26,057
Yeah.

538
00:17:26,062 --> 00:17:26,272
Yeah.

539
00:17:26,277 --> 00:17:27,677
Everyone's no, yeah.

540
00:17:27,737 --> 00:17:28,817
Doing their own thing.

541
00:17:28,817 --> 00:17:31,007
They have their own thing
that they're there for.

542
00:17:31,037 --> 00:17:31,247
Yeah.

543
00:17:31,367 --> 00:17:36,347
And I don't feel, so, I feel like there's
something like wrong with me, I guess.

544
00:17:36,377 --> 00:17:36,527
Yeah.

545
00:17:36,527 --> 00:17:37,877
Like I need to repress that.

546
00:17:37,877 --> 00:17:39,047
I guess that's where I'm getting at.

547
00:17:39,047 --> 00:17:39,287
Mm-hmm.

548
00:17:39,652 --> 00:17:40,877
So, yeah.

549
00:17:40,877 --> 00:17:44,687
So it's funny that you say that because
I've, I've said it, I've said it on

550
00:17:44,687 --> 00:17:49,947
the show that I have a very, very hyper
hypersexual, life, and I've always have.

551
00:17:49,947 --> 00:17:50,007
Yeah.

552
00:17:50,517 --> 00:17:53,667
Uh, and so I remember as a
young kid just growing up and

553
00:17:53,667 --> 00:17:56,577
not, not getting enough Yeah.

554
00:17:56,667 --> 00:17:58,557
And thinking, God, there's
something wrong with me.

555
00:17:58,562 --> 00:17:58,712
Yeah.

556
00:17:58,717 --> 00:17:58,917
Yeah.

557
00:17:58,917 --> 00:18:01,617
Like, I shouldn't be
masturbating 10 times a day.

558
00:18:01,647 --> 00:18:02,997
I feel that, you know what I'm saying?

559
00:18:03,002 --> 00:18:03,392
Like Yeah.

560
00:18:03,537 --> 00:18:05,097
Like this is not natural.

561
00:18:05,127 --> 00:18:05,247
Yeah.

562
00:18:05,277 --> 00:18:07,737
Because I have to go about my day.

563
00:18:07,917 --> 00:18:08,037
Yeah.

564
00:18:08,037 --> 00:18:09,327
But I still get things done.

565
00:18:09,477 --> 00:18:10,167
You know what I'm saying?

566
00:18:10,457 --> 00:18:10,722
And so.

567
00:18:11,582 --> 00:18:16,562
It was exciting to see that there are
other hypersexual people out there

568
00:18:16,952 --> 00:18:21,152
who are kind of dealing, and, and of
course you're in the perfect spot.

569
00:18:21,212 --> 00:18:21,362
Mm-hmm.

570
00:18:21,632 --> 00:18:23,892
Because you're a content creator.

571
00:18:23,937 --> 00:18:27,537
So you can rub one out
for business or pleasure.

572
00:18:27,717 --> 00:18:30,327
That's literally what I say, all my
story all the time where I'm like, I

573
00:18:30,387 --> 00:18:32,487
love gooning, and Gooning is my job.

574
00:18:32,662 --> 00:18:34,822
So it's like I just, it works.

575
00:18:34,822 --> 00:18:35,907
It works all.

576
00:18:35,912 --> 00:18:38,487
Let's tell the older people that
listen, oh, what is gooning?

577
00:18:38,517 --> 00:18:43,347
So Gooning is, it can have, it can
have casual, I mean, we gotta tell them

578
00:18:43,352 --> 00:18:44,967
casual, casual or negative connotation.

579
00:18:44,967 --> 00:18:47,037
But for the most part, when
people are like, oh, I'm about

580
00:18:47,037 --> 00:18:48,777
to goon it, or like, I'm gooning.

581
00:18:49,197 --> 00:18:51,537
You're rubbing one out, you're jerking it.

582
00:18:51,627 --> 00:18:53,097
Like it's that's what it is.

583
00:18:53,097 --> 00:18:58,527
Like now the word gooner uhhuh, that
more so has like a negative connotation.

584
00:18:58,707 --> 00:19:02,097
Um, but, but it's just someone
who, who just beats off a lot.

585
00:19:02,547 --> 00:19:02,757
Yeah.

586
00:19:02,787 --> 00:19:03,057
You know?

587
00:19:03,057 --> 00:19:04,617
So you would be considered a honey?

588
00:19:05,037 --> 00:19:05,397
Oh yeah.

589
00:19:05,457 --> 00:19:07,737
100. Yeah, you would be considered one.

590
00:19:07,737 --> 00:19:09,652
But it's not bad because
I'm a goonette bro.

591
00:19:09,652 --> 00:19:09,967
There you go.

592
00:19:11,782 --> 00:19:14,632
So, you know, I don't have people that
have negative connotations with it.

593
00:19:14,632 --> 00:19:14,692
Yeah.

594
00:19:14,842 --> 00:19:15,412
I do.

595
00:19:15,412 --> 00:19:16,222
Not really.

596
00:19:16,222 --> 00:19:16,822
I, I have.

597
00:19:17,137 --> 00:19:21,397
Fluctuations of high sex
drive, but I'm very submissive.

598
00:19:21,757 --> 00:19:22,807
Especially like, yeah, she keeps up.

599
00:19:22,897 --> 00:19:26,587
I keep up and I remember when we first
got together, I was like, dude, really?

600
00:19:26,587 --> 00:19:27,637
You're gonna be one of those guys?

601
00:19:28,117 --> 00:19:30,607
But then I was like, oh wow,
sex is actually this good.

602
00:19:30,867 --> 00:19:31,747
Okay.

603
00:19:31,747 --> 00:19:32,227
It down.

604
00:19:32,227 --> 00:19:32,807
It really is.

605
00:19:32,807 --> 00:19:35,422
Like when it's good, when
it's good, you can good.

606
00:19:35,422 --> 00:19:35,977
It's good forever.

607
00:19:36,007 --> 00:19:36,667
Yes.

608
00:19:36,667 --> 00:19:37,627
And it's like can't get enough.

609
00:19:37,627 --> 00:19:38,077
Oh wow.

610
00:19:38,082 --> 00:19:39,222
I've only just recently.

611
00:19:40,117 --> 00:19:41,737
People like really wouldn't expect this.

612
00:19:41,737 --> 00:19:45,007
And I have to say this on camera,
that I've had really bad sex,

613
00:19:45,007 --> 00:19:46,897
like my whole sexual life.

614
00:19:46,897 --> 00:19:47,137
Same.

615
00:19:47,137 --> 00:19:47,347
Yeah.

616
00:19:47,377 --> 00:19:51,817
Like, and granted, I've, I'm
only 25, but like from 16 to 25.

617
00:19:51,907 --> 00:19:52,147
Yeah.

618
00:19:52,327 --> 00:19:53,137
Rough.

619
00:19:53,227 --> 00:19:53,407
Yeah.

620
00:19:53,437 --> 00:19:53,707
Okay.

621
00:19:54,277 --> 00:19:55,357
So it's been rough.

622
00:19:55,387 --> 00:19:57,667
I have not gotten good
head until this year.

623
00:19:57,847 --> 00:19:58,297
Yeah.

624
00:19:58,297 --> 00:19:59,872
I saw your story on that
until two months ago.

625
00:20:00,132 --> 00:20:02,287
Um, I like, it's just been bad.

626
00:20:02,557 --> 00:20:03,157
And then.

627
00:20:03,712 --> 00:20:04,432
Ever since.

628
00:20:04,432 --> 00:20:07,492
It's funny, it's like, it's almost
like the universe is like calling me to

629
00:20:07,492 --> 00:20:11,632
this place because like every time I go
or even like with the people that I'm

630
00:20:11,632 --> 00:20:13,762
meeting, I'm like, oh, it's really good.

631
00:20:13,792 --> 00:20:14,002
Yeah.

632
00:20:14,572 --> 00:20:14,752
Yeah.

633
00:20:14,812 --> 00:20:15,922
It's really good.

634
00:20:15,922 --> 00:20:20,222
And especially I will say that
I've, I've gotten I'm older and I

635
00:20:20,222 --> 00:20:26,017
started younger, so just imagine all
these years of having crappy sex.

636
00:20:26,137 --> 00:20:26,377
Horrible sex.

637
00:20:26,377 --> 00:20:26,577
Yeah.

638
00:20:26,582 --> 00:20:26,762
Yeah.

639
00:20:26,762 --> 00:20:27,542
Awful sex.

640
00:20:27,622 --> 00:20:32,752
I found that it's even better when you're
in the lifestyle and you actually tell

641
00:20:32,752 --> 00:20:36,112
somebody what you like, because for some
reason I couldn't tell people like the

642
00:20:36,112 --> 00:20:37,642
guy I was with or the woman I was with.

643
00:20:37,642 --> 00:20:37,702
Yeah.

644
00:20:37,702 --> 00:20:39,452
I feel that it feels like
there's some sort of.

645
00:20:40,192 --> 00:20:40,762
Disconnection.

646
00:20:40,762 --> 00:20:43,492
Weird disconnection,
pressure, and also tension.

647
00:20:43,552 --> 00:20:43,642
Yeah.

648
00:20:43,642 --> 00:20:45,232
They might even get defensive.

649
00:20:45,237 --> 00:20:45,487
Yeah.

650
00:20:45,772 --> 00:20:45,982
Yeah.

651
00:20:45,982 --> 00:20:47,002
It's just, I've seen that actually.

652
00:20:47,092 --> 00:20:48,262
So it's easier in the lifestyle.

653
00:20:48,262 --> 00:20:50,242
You're like, look, I
don't like head like this.

654
00:20:50,242 --> 00:20:51,352
I like it like this.

655
00:20:51,352 --> 00:20:55,222
And you're like, well, and
especially, yeah, especially if

656
00:20:55,222 --> 00:20:56,392
you're a woman in the lifestyle.

657
00:20:56,812 --> 00:20:58,672
It's also different for
women in the lifestyle.

658
00:20:59,032 --> 00:21:01,192
Our bodies are just the way we s them.

659
00:21:01,192 --> 00:21:01,252
Yeah.

660
00:21:01,252 --> 00:21:04,222
The way we feel pleasure is
so much different than men.

661
00:21:04,522 --> 00:21:07,632
And it's kind of like the age
old joke of oh, don't stop.

662
00:21:07,632 --> 00:21:08,172
Keep doing that.

663
00:21:08,172 --> 00:21:08,872
And then they change it up.

664
00:21:09,927 --> 00:21:10,472
Why would you do that?

665
00:21:10,492 --> 00:21:11,172
No, don't do that.

666
00:21:11,847 --> 00:21:12,987
Don't just send people.

667
00:21:12,987 --> 00:21:13,047
Yeah.

668
00:21:13,437 --> 00:21:17,907
It's all about, I feel like, at least
my experience with non-monogamy so far.

669
00:21:18,537 --> 00:21:20,607
You have to have good communication.

670
00:21:20,637 --> 00:21:20,757
Yes.

671
00:21:20,912 --> 00:21:21,072
Yeah.

672
00:21:21,387 --> 00:21:21,537
Yeah.

673
00:21:21,567 --> 00:21:23,547
Or else it's not gonna work.

674
00:21:23,547 --> 00:21:25,977
And if you don't like something
drama, you need to say something.

675
00:21:26,007 --> 00:21:26,697
Exactly.

676
00:21:26,697 --> 00:21:26,937
Yeah.

677
00:21:26,967 --> 00:21:27,597
Yes.

678
00:21:27,657 --> 00:21:27,837
Yeah.

679
00:21:27,837 --> 00:21:29,007
It was very inviting too.

680
00:21:29,097 --> 00:21:29,337
Yes.

681
00:21:29,342 --> 00:21:29,512
Yeah.

682
00:21:30,117 --> 00:21:30,417
Yeah.

683
00:21:30,417 --> 00:21:32,547
Talking about really quick
about the lifestyle, and I

684
00:21:32,547 --> 00:21:33,597
just, it just popped in my head.

685
00:21:33,597 --> 00:21:33,717
Mm-hmm.

686
00:21:33,957 --> 00:21:36,312
Because you're, you're
new, very, and you are.

687
00:21:36,982 --> 00:21:38,842
Considered a unicorn, right?

688
00:21:38,842 --> 00:21:39,142
Yes.

689
00:21:39,142 --> 00:21:39,472
Single bi.

690
00:21:39,472 --> 00:21:39,622
Okay.

691
00:21:40,017 --> 00:21:42,292
I I, I, I am trying to learn the terms.

692
00:21:42,352 --> 00:21:43,042
Yeah, it's okay.

693
00:21:43,042 --> 00:21:47,377
I know that, like, is, is unicorn like
just a single female or a single bi?

694
00:21:47,847 --> 00:21:49,402
It's a, a single bi female.

695
00:21:49,432 --> 00:21:49,522
Mm-hmm.

696
00:21:49,522 --> 00:21:51,802
Who, who is actually looking for couples.

697
00:21:52,102 --> 00:21:52,432
Okay.

698
00:21:52,432 --> 00:21:52,442
Yeah.

699
00:21:52,442 --> 00:21:55,852
So it's very, very specific and, and
people, I have to get offended by

700
00:21:55,852 --> 00:21:57,292
it, i'm sorry if you get offended.

701
00:21:57,382 --> 00:21:59,932
Oh no, I, I actually just
got a unicorn headband.

702
00:22:00,262 --> 00:22:00,862
Oh, there you go.

703
00:22:00,862 --> 00:22:03,502
And I wanna go to events so I
don't have to answer the question.

704
00:22:03,712 --> 00:22:03,772
Yeah.

705
00:22:04,702 --> 00:22:09,122
Do you, do you feel safe in the
communities that you're going to, I

706
00:22:09,122 --> 00:22:12,602
know you, we've met you at the Pineapple
house, which is, I feel a very safe place.

707
00:22:12,842 --> 00:22:16,472
But since you've been in the, in the
community or in the lifestyle, do you feel

708
00:22:16,472 --> 00:22:18,452
it's safe in every place that you go to?

709
00:22:18,512 --> 00:22:20,672
Am I allowed to talk
about specific places?

710
00:22:20,702 --> 00:22:21,692
You could talk about whatever.

711
00:22:21,722 --> 00:22:21,992
Okay.

712
00:22:21,992 --> 00:22:23,267
I mean, we don't need to, so like.

713
00:22:24,242 --> 00:22:27,032
S I'm not a huge fan of Pendulum Club.

714
00:22:27,122 --> 00:22:27,392
Okay.

715
00:22:27,482 --> 00:22:30,212
Um, it's just, maybe it's the crowd.

716
00:22:30,392 --> 00:22:33,332
I'm just not a huge fan of, of
the men that approached me there.

717
00:22:33,332 --> 00:22:33,422
Mm-hmm.

718
00:22:33,662 --> 00:22:34,412
To be honest.

719
00:22:34,492 --> 00:22:38,092
And granted, I don't really go to
clubs anymore like that with, without

720
00:22:38,182 --> 00:22:39,802
like a sexual partner because Yeah.

721
00:22:40,402 --> 00:22:41,602
It's just a swarm.

722
00:22:41,602 --> 00:22:43,312
It's like so suffocating.

723
00:22:43,642 --> 00:22:47,272
Um, and it's almost like a,
like a, like a weird line kind

724
00:22:47,272 --> 00:22:48,442
of, for, it's just strange.

725
00:22:48,622 --> 00:22:48,682
Wow.

726
00:22:48,682 --> 00:22:49,762
And it's overwhelming.

727
00:22:49,792 --> 00:22:49,882
Mm-hmm.

728
00:22:50,122 --> 00:22:51,922
And I don't, it makes me uncomfortable.

729
00:22:52,557 --> 00:22:55,227
But first of all, I love the night game.

730
00:22:55,377 --> 00:22:57,087
It's, I love that place.

731
00:22:57,087 --> 00:22:57,717
It's here in Houston.

732
00:22:57,717 --> 00:22:58,797
It's fantastic.

733
00:22:58,847 --> 00:23:00,407
I felt very safe there.

734
00:23:00,647 --> 00:23:04,487
And in the back rooms that they
have with the private rooms and the

735
00:23:04,487 --> 00:23:08,927
like, public play rooms, there's
a guy like there in the back.

736
00:23:09,017 --> 00:23:09,377
Okay.

737
00:23:09,377 --> 00:23:13,717
And I saw firsthand that there
was a guy, I don't know why he was

738
00:23:13,717 --> 00:23:15,577
yelling, there was an altercation.

739
00:23:15,637 --> 00:23:15,757
Mm-hmm.

740
00:23:16,132 --> 00:23:18,382
And the, the, the guard, I guess
I'm just gonna call him that.

741
00:23:18,502 --> 00:23:18,562
Yeah.

742
00:23:18,592 --> 00:23:24,407
Um, he sounds ominous, but, but
he immediately, like it stopped.

743
00:23:24,407 --> 00:23:25,492
It immediately stopped it.

744
00:23:25,582 --> 00:23:28,312
And that just made me feel
really good and safe as a woman.

745
00:23:28,462 --> 00:23:29,962
Um, like he keeps a good eye.

746
00:23:29,962 --> 00:23:31,102
Everyone there is friendly.

747
00:23:31,342 --> 00:23:34,402
As for like, I, the events that
I've been to, I've only been

748
00:23:34,402 --> 00:23:35,527
at the Pineapple House so far.

749
00:23:35,527 --> 00:23:35,727
Okay.

750
00:23:35,727 --> 00:23:35,847
Yeah.

751
00:23:35,847 --> 00:23:36,007
Okay.

752
00:23:36,007 --> 00:23:37,882
So this is my first event
that hasn't been there.

753
00:23:37,972 --> 00:23:38,002
Okay.

754
00:23:38,002 --> 00:23:38,722
Or in my hometown.

755
00:23:38,722 --> 00:23:38,782
Yeah.

756
00:23:39,082 --> 00:23:43,192
And I can only speak from that and I
have felt so unbelievably comfortable.

757
00:23:43,192 --> 00:23:43,252
Yeah.

758
00:23:43,372 --> 00:23:44,392
I'm a huge fan of like.

759
00:23:44,517 --> 00:23:48,087
Nicole and Isaac were so amazing with just
making me feel like, Hey, you doing okay?

760
00:23:48,087 --> 00:23:48,357
I know you're new.

761
00:23:48,357 --> 00:23:48,507
Mm-hmm.

762
00:23:48,927 --> 00:23:50,322
They're so, no, they're great hosts.

763
00:23:50,392 --> 00:23:50,682
Good.

764
00:23:50,952 --> 00:23:51,722
Such good hosts.

765
00:23:51,747 --> 00:23:53,967
And that makes me feel
very safe and comfortable.

766
00:23:53,967 --> 00:23:54,027
Yeah.

767
00:23:54,267 --> 00:23:57,927
Legitimately, I've, like, so far I have,
and granted, I haven't been going to

768
00:23:57,927 --> 00:23:59,637
as many events as I could have, but.

769
00:23:59,852 --> 00:24:03,272
With the ones that I have, I
have felt very safe and welcomed.

770
00:24:03,332 --> 00:24:03,692
That's good.

771
00:24:03,692 --> 00:24:04,172
Really safes.

772
00:24:04,232 --> 00:24:04,682
That's good.

773
00:24:04,682 --> 00:24:07,622
Other than that one guy, but yeah, they,
they took care of that actually for me.

774
00:24:07,712 --> 00:24:07,892
Yeah.

775
00:24:07,892 --> 00:24:09,662
They saw and they're like, okay,
he's not allowed to anymore.

776
00:24:09,692 --> 00:24:09,842
Yeah.

777
00:24:09,872 --> 00:24:10,412
So I'm like, great.

778
00:24:10,652 --> 00:24:14,927
We, and, and I'm sure you keep your head
on a swivel, you gotta good pay attention

779
00:24:14,927 --> 00:24:16,457
to your surroundings, I mean mm-hmm.

780
00:24:16,458 --> 00:24:16,468
It's.

781
00:24:16,468 --> 00:24:17,037
Crazy out there.

782
00:24:17,037 --> 00:24:17,637
Yeah.

783
00:24:17,637 --> 00:24:18,597
Women, the instinct.

784
00:24:18,657 --> 00:24:19,047
Yeah.

785
00:24:19,047 --> 00:24:20,427
You have to go with your gut.

786
00:24:20,427 --> 00:24:21,537
This is Eden.

787
00:24:21,807 --> 00:24:23,007
This is gonna be your first time here?

788
00:24:23,037 --> 00:24:23,337
Yes.

789
00:24:23,397 --> 00:24:25,737
It's pretty much like the
club you just described.

790
00:24:25,737 --> 00:24:27,297
It's, um, there's somebody back there.

791
00:24:27,597 --> 00:24:31,137
This is the only club
that we've really been to.

792
00:24:31,137 --> 00:24:33,267
We've been to not Colette's, what was it?

793
00:24:34,327 --> 00:24:34,467
Players.

794
00:24:34,467 --> 00:24:34,832
The players.

795
00:24:34,832 --> 00:24:37,652
It was, it was fine.

796
00:24:37,652 --> 00:24:38,702
It's different now, but.

797
00:24:39,392 --> 00:24:40,682
Eden is really safe.

798
00:24:40,682 --> 00:24:43,442
I feel like, especially for single women
and single men, we see 'em all time.

799
00:24:43,442 --> 00:24:44,612
We've been pretty satisfied here.

800
00:24:44,612 --> 00:24:46,082
It's really considered our home club.

801
00:24:46,082 --> 00:24:47,072
Like it's pretty chill.

802
00:24:47,072 --> 00:24:47,252
Enjoy it.

803
00:24:47,252 --> 00:24:49,562
And we haven't been to
the Houston clubs yet.

804
00:24:49,597 --> 00:24:49,817
No.

805
00:24:49,997 --> 00:24:50,937
Uh, we want to.

806
00:24:50,937 --> 00:24:51,337
Oh, you haven't?

807
00:24:51,342 --> 00:24:51,572
No.

808
00:24:51,572 --> 00:24:51,812
Okay.

809
00:24:51,812 --> 00:24:52,172
Yeah.

810
00:24:52,172 --> 00:24:54,422
I honestly go to the night game first.

811
00:24:54,422 --> 00:24:55,382
It's really cool.

812
00:24:55,382 --> 00:24:57,602
I will shout out of certain
thing that they have there that

813
00:24:57,602 --> 00:24:59,042
I've never seen anywhere else.

814
00:24:59,222 --> 00:25:00,457
It's a shadow box.

815
00:25:01,022 --> 00:25:02,372
Oh, so you go behind it?

816
00:25:02,372 --> 00:25:02,582
Yeah.

817
00:25:02,582 --> 00:25:02,592
Yeah.

818
00:25:02,592 --> 00:25:04,982
And when you dance behind it,
it goes slowmo in the front.

819
00:25:05,657 --> 00:25:06,587
Sexy.

820
00:25:06,797 --> 00:25:07,337
Interesting.

821
00:25:07,337 --> 00:25:09,197
I love watching the women on there.

822
00:25:09,197 --> 00:25:09,347
Yeah.

823
00:25:09,347 --> 00:25:10,667
We're gonna have to make a trip out there.

824
00:25:10,667 --> 00:25:11,302
Yes, we are.

825
00:25:11,587 --> 00:25:11,867
Yeah.

826
00:25:11,867 --> 00:25:13,127
Hey, hit me up.

827
00:25:14,657 --> 00:25:17,297
We'll, we're gonna be, we're gonna
be going to Houston a lot, so.

828
00:25:17,297 --> 00:25:17,747
Yeah.

829
00:25:17,752 --> 00:25:17,862
Yeah.

830
00:25:17,867 --> 00:25:23,187
You know, I, I, so you've been doing
this, this content for a while now?

831
00:25:23,187 --> 00:25:23,427
Mm-hmm.

832
00:25:23,757 --> 00:25:29,187
And as far as your cos play when
did you say, okay, you know what?

833
00:25:29,682 --> 00:25:32,892
I'm gonna set up the camera and
I'm just gonna like, because

834
00:25:32,892 --> 00:25:34,512
it's sexy, I'm gonna goon it out.

835
00:25:34,932 --> 00:25:36,522
I'm gonna be real with y'all.

836
00:25:36,972 --> 00:25:38,832
It immediately started like that.

837
00:25:38,837 --> 00:25:39,087
Yeah.

838
00:25:39,157 --> 00:25:39,447
Okay.

839
00:25:39,452 --> 00:25:43,032
Yeah, I was trying to just
full send it, I guess.

840
00:25:43,032 --> 00:25:46,362
And I it started out actually
with my best friend 'cause we were

841
00:25:46,362 --> 00:25:47,652
both trying to move out together.

842
00:25:47,652 --> 00:25:47,742
Mm-hmm.

843
00:25:48,042 --> 00:25:49,272
And we're like, this is fantastic.

844
00:25:49,272 --> 00:25:51,552
And, and the people were
coming for both of us and it

845
00:25:51,552 --> 00:25:53,022
kind of made it more like, um.

846
00:25:53,697 --> 00:25:56,787
It gave it a certain vibe because
it was two girls on there.

847
00:25:57,027 --> 00:25:57,117
Mm-hmm.

848
00:25:57,567 --> 00:26:01,827
Um, but we slowly faded her out and
now she's my manager, but she, um.

849
00:26:02,802 --> 00:26:06,072
She helped me, you know, kind of
steer the direction of just these,

850
00:26:06,222 --> 00:26:10,902
it started out really bad, like
Snapchat weird grainy filters.

851
00:26:10,902 --> 00:26:11,247
Yeah, yeah, yeah.

852
00:26:11,442 --> 00:26:14,412
Like, you know, everyone starts at
a certain point and it was, man,

853
00:26:14,412 --> 00:26:16,422
I need to, and honestly, I need to
go back and delete some of those.

854
00:26:16,422 --> 00:26:20,652
They were really, they were really
bad, but, you know, as it, as the

855
00:26:20,652 --> 00:26:23,992
more I did it, it was, it just
started getting into like, oh hey.

856
00:26:24,487 --> 00:26:27,787
You like anime, I've seen your Instagram,
you should cosplay this, and then

857
00:26:27,787 --> 00:26:28,987
another reason you should cosplay that.

858
00:26:28,987 --> 00:26:32,377
So I started slowly cosplay these
popular characters that, you

859
00:26:32,377 --> 00:26:33,607
know, they like to beat off to.

860
00:26:33,612 --> 00:26:33,997
Yeah, yeah.

861
00:26:34,057 --> 00:26:36,727
And then I'm like, oh
wait, I love Cosplaying.

862
00:26:36,727 --> 00:26:37,212
This is it.

863
00:26:37,457 --> 00:26:39,577
And so that just kind of
became a regular thing.

864
00:26:39,847 --> 00:26:42,907
And yeah, people would be surprised,
but I just do it on my phone.

865
00:26:43,402 --> 00:26:43,852
That's awesome.

866
00:26:44,122 --> 00:26:45,682
Phone, you know, your videos.

867
00:26:45,742 --> 00:26:47,782
I are really great videos.

868
00:26:47,812 --> 00:26:48,022
Yeah.

869
00:26:48,022 --> 00:26:49,102
They're not amateur looking at all.

870
00:26:49,102 --> 00:26:51,412
I, I really wouldn't
have guessed your phone.

871
00:26:51,412 --> 00:26:52,247
My, wow, that's impressive.

872
00:26:52,277 --> 00:26:52,567
Yeah.

873
00:26:52,567 --> 00:26:53,527
I edit all of my stuff.

874
00:26:54,147 --> 00:26:54,367
Wow.

875
00:26:54,367 --> 00:26:57,592
That's, and so as, as a content
creator doing what you do, how many

876
00:26:57,592 --> 00:26:59,692
hours do you put towards it a week?

877
00:26:59,902 --> 00:27:03,807
Is it, is it for me a full-time
job or that's, that's where

878
00:27:03,807 --> 00:27:06,027
I, I get tired honestly.

879
00:27:06,027 --> 00:27:08,877
So like my schedule,
and granted, they're so.

880
00:27:09,447 --> 00:27:10,767
My subs are so sweet to me.

881
00:27:10,767 --> 00:27:10,827
Yeah.

882
00:27:10,977 --> 00:27:13,287
I'm so thankful for the fan
base that I have because they

883
00:27:13,287 --> 00:27:14,637
are really, really sweet.

884
00:27:14,637 --> 00:27:14,697
Yeah.

885
00:27:14,967 --> 00:27:18,507
Um, they, they're very
understanding that it's just me.

886
00:27:18,507 --> 00:27:19,617
It's just a one man show.

887
00:27:19,647 --> 00:27:22,977
'cause there is a high expectation for
OnlyFans girls because a lot of them

888
00:27:22,977 --> 00:27:27,357
are managed uhhuh, so it's, you know,
they pump out crazy stuff all the time.

889
00:27:27,387 --> 00:27:27,447
Yeah.

890
00:27:27,507 --> 00:27:28,137
That's not me.

891
00:27:28,377 --> 00:27:29,547
We're like homegrown, you know?

892
00:27:29,967 --> 00:27:31,887
So, um, small business.

893
00:27:31,887 --> 00:27:36,527
But the hours, it honestly depends on
the week and what content I am making.

894
00:27:36,527 --> 00:27:38,537
'cause if I'm just throwing
on a quick, cos play to take.

895
00:27:38,882 --> 00:27:43,862
Photos for the timeline, which the
general schedule is like Monday

896
00:27:43,922 --> 00:27:45,512
sorry, Wednesday, Friday and Saturday.

897
00:27:45,662 --> 00:27:45,932
Okay.

898
00:27:46,142 --> 00:27:49,592
Those are where, like my photo sets will
happen, or if I do a video, sometimes it's

899
00:27:49,592 --> 00:27:51,362
one to two videos a week on the timeline.

900
00:27:51,542 --> 00:27:56,432
But for like my PPPs, like the extra
paid stuff, like if I'm filming with

901
00:27:56,462 --> 00:28:00,842
people, if I'm scheduling stuff out,
like it's always October and December

902
00:28:00,842 --> 00:28:02,912
are insane for filming with other people.

903
00:28:02,912 --> 00:28:02,922
Really.

904
00:28:02,942 --> 00:28:04,952
'cause that's the coplay,
I mean, Halloween, you're.

905
00:28:05,507 --> 00:28:06,167
Dressing up.

906
00:28:06,707 --> 00:28:08,297
Oh, everybody looking
for a dress up video?

907
00:28:08,297 --> 00:28:08,477
Yes.

908
00:28:08,622 --> 00:28:08,822
Right.

909
00:28:09,017 --> 00:28:12,767
And then for Christmas, they're wanting
to get a Christmas present for themselves.

910
00:28:12,767 --> 00:28:14,927
A lot of people don't see
family on the holidays.

911
00:28:14,927 --> 00:28:15,077
Oh yeah.

912
00:28:15,077 --> 00:28:15,947
And they're gonna beat off.

913
00:28:15,947 --> 00:28:16,007
Yeah.

914
00:28:16,097 --> 00:28:16,877
And that's great.

915
00:28:17,087 --> 00:28:23,552
You know, Merry Christmas, but like,
it's some day, sorry, some weeks.

916
00:28:23,552 --> 00:28:25,532
Yeah, it's, it can be like.

917
00:28:26,357 --> 00:28:27,617
10 hours of full work.

918
00:28:27,767 --> 00:28:29,057
Really not that bad.

919
00:28:29,267 --> 00:28:31,187
Um, in terms of like regular jobs?

920
00:28:31,217 --> 00:28:31,277
Yeah.

921
00:28:31,547 --> 00:28:33,527
I've been in and outta the
service industry since I was

922
00:28:33,527 --> 00:28:35,057
16, so this is great for me.

923
00:28:35,117 --> 00:28:41,057
But on the really intense weeks, I
will be working for like 10 to 12 hours

924
00:28:41,057 --> 00:28:45,107
a day editing stuff ev like almost
every day of that week or something.

925
00:28:45,107 --> 00:28:45,257
Wow.

926
00:28:45,257 --> 00:28:45,887
And it ends up being.

927
00:28:46,772 --> 00:28:48,392
An egregious amount of hours.

928
00:28:48,392 --> 00:28:48,757
Like Yeah.

929
00:28:48,992 --> 00:28:51,092
I honestly don't keep track of my hours.

930
00:28:51,097 --> 00:28:51,117
Yeah.

931
00:28:51,237 --> 00:28:53,637
'cause I don't too much because
it's just, it's just everywhere.

932
00:28:53,637 --> 00:28:53,957
It's too much.

933
00:28:53,957 --> 00:28:54,157
Yeah.

934
00:28:54,267 --> 00:28:54,877
Yeah, yeah.

935
00:28:55,442 --> 00:28:55,652
Yeah.

936
00:28:55,652 --> 00:28:56,157
I get that.

937
00:28:56,377 --> 00:29:02,282
You know, I, we, not only the podcasts,
but you know, Pris and I, we, we do,

938
00:29:02,972 --> 00:29:04,842
uh, tiktoks and the reels mm-hmm.

939
00:29:04,842 --> 00:29:05,432
And all that stuff.

940
00:29:05,432 --> 00:29:05,492
Yeah.

941
00:29:05,492 --> 00:29:09,032
And like I have, I have a series
that I do on my tiktoks and

942
00:29:09,032 --> 00:29:11,132
the reels, and Pris has hers.

943
00:29:11,912 --> 00:29:13,232
It's a lot of work.

944
00:29:13,232 --> 00:29:16,172
It is because it's like, not only
are you recording, but you're

945
00:29:16,172 --> 00:29:17,822
editing and you're scheduling.

946
00:29:17,827 --> 00:29:17,907
Mm-hmm.

947
00:29:17,987 --> 00:29:19,202
And just all of this stuff.

948
00:29:19,207 --> 00:29:19,347
Mm-hmm.

949
00:29:19,802 --> 00:29:24,062
And it's a lot of creativity that, my
goodness man, if it's like, I just want

950
00:29:24,062 --> 00:29:25,742
to get under the bed sometimes, it's hard.

951
00:29:25,742 --> 00:29:29,642
Honestly, it's not even the stuff,
I'm gonna be real, the stuff for my

952
00:29:29,642 --> 00:29:34,482
OnlyFans it's really the stuff for
Instagram, like my tiktoks and reels.

953
00:29:34,487 --> 00:29:34,627
Mm-hmm.

954
00:29:34,997 --> 00:29:36,732
Those are take a long time.

955
00:29:37,062 --> 00:29:37,872
A long time.

956
00:29:37,877 --> 00:29:38,097
Yeah.

957
00:29:38,202 --> 00:29:38,292
Yeah.

958
00:29:38,322 --> 00:29:43,722
Because I edit either the lighting
or I, I have to retake it like it's,

959
00:29:44,562 --> 00:29:47,232
there's so many people online who
would be like, wish I had that job.

960
00:29:47,232 --> 00:29:48,552
You know, and, you know, whatever.

961
00:29:49,602 --> 00:29:54,192
Like, I mean, I wish I had,
I have to record a TikTok.

962
00:29:54,442 --> 00:29:57,712
There's been nights where I would
have to record just one TikTok for two

963
00:29:57,712 --> 00:29:59,062
hours straight 'cause I can't get it.

964
00:29:59,062 --> 00:30:02,752
Mm. Or like if there's something
trending that I need to hop on.

965
00:30:02,842 --> 00:30:03,052
Yeah.

966
00:30:03,052 --> 00:30:03,772
And it's a dance.

967
00:30:04,332 --> 00:30:04,602
Yeah.

968
00:30:04,692 --> 00:30:05,502
Oh my God.

969
00:30:05,862 --> 00:30:06,492
Oh my God.

970
00:30:06,522 --> 00:30:07,182
I can't even imagine.

971
00:30:07,182 --> 00:30:10,452
It's, it's just, it's just intense
and I'm like sweating in my room

972
00:30:10,452 --> 00:30:11,652
and trying to figure this out.

973
00:30:11,652 --> 00:30:15,642
Especially in Coplay Hot and yeah,
the poses sometimes that I have to

974
00:30:15,642 --> 00:30:17,202
do with those Coplay sometimes are.

975
00:30:17,652 --> 00:30:20,592
Very difficult, but, and I was
wondering about that because I've

976
00:30:20,592 --> 00:30:26,232
seen some of, of your stuff and
your, I mean, your makeup is perfect.

977
00:30:26,262 --> 00:30:26,352
Mm-hmm.

978
00:30:26,592 --> 00:30:29,232
And you're in these things and
I'm like, dude, you're in Texas.

979
00:30:29,232 --> 00:30:31,152
Like, you've gotta be sweating.

980
00:30:31,482 --> 00:30:31,692
Oh.

981
00:30:31,692 --> 00:30:35,462
But you can't tell by the
pictures like you look pristine.

982
00:30:36,042 --> 00:30:38,892
Thankfully, I actually
don't sweat as much.

983
00:30:39,042 --> 00:30:39,162
Okay.

984
00:30:39,162 --> 00:30:39,222
Yeah.

985
00:30:39,282 --> 00:30:41,952
Um, that's like, I don't
sweat on my face that much.

986
00:30:41,952 --> 00:30:44,142
I get very red, but I
don't sweat on my face.

987
00:30:44,832 --> 00:30:47,437
I don't have a deal with sweat
a lot, but it's just hot.

988
00:30:47,502 --> 00:30:48,162
It's hot.

989
00:30:48,252 --> 00:30:48,672
It is hot.

990
00:30:48,672 --> 00:30:51,252
It's not only Texas, it is Houston, Texas.

991
00:30:51,257 --> 00:30:51,437
Oh yeah.

992
00:30:51,637 --> 00:30:51,677
Humidity.

993
00:30:51,682 --> 00:30:55,212
It is the most mud, humidity, disgusting
humidity, weather for 90% of the year.

994
00:30:55,212 --> 00:30:55,482
Humidity.

995
00:30:55,662 --> 00:30:56,232
And it does.

996
00:30:56,232 --> 00:30:59,232
It gets very hot, especially with
outside photos on my patio with.

997
00:30:59,247 --> 00:31:00,692
Oh my goodness.

998
00:31:00,697 --> 00:31:01,407
They're unbearable.

999
00:31:01,407 --> 00:31:03,327
Sometimes we're out there
for like almost an hour.

1000
00:31:03,387 --> 00:31:05,457
My best friend's sweating,
taking my pictures if I'm

1001
00:31:05,457 --> 00:31:07,287
sweating, posing it's nasty.

1002
00:31:08,907 --> 00:31:10,137
Sounds like fun.

1003
00:31:10,137 --> 00:31:10,317
Yeah.

1004
00:31:10,407 --> 00:31:13,647
Now, now where do you get your ideas from?

1005
00:31:13,647 --> 00:31:18,267
Like, I mean, as you go along, like
how is it just, do you sit there and

1006
00:31:18,267 --> 00:31:20,667
think, okay, what am I gonna do next?

1007
00:31:20,667 --> 00:31:24,447
Like I, I've seen you do polls kind
of asking some of your friends.

1008
00:31:24,447 --> 00:31:25,257
That's a recent thing.

1009
00:31:25,287 --> 00:31:26,037
Yeah, that is.

1010
00:31:26,037 --> 00:31:27,687
So how did you come about it before?

1011
00:31:28,182 --> 00:31:28,962
Honestly.

1012
00:31:29,062 --> 00:31:32,452
And I actually have realized this
year that it's very unsustainable

1013
00:31:32,652 --> 00:31:34,542
to have a spark process.

1014
00:31:35,832 --> 00:31:36,762
It is unsustainable.

1015
00:31:36,762 --> 00:31:39,312
It's unsustainable, it's so difficult,
it's unsustainable, and it's like,

1016
00:31:40,152 --> 00:31:42,972
I don't do well with that, like
diamonds form under pressure thing.

1017
00:31:43,452 --> 00:31:46,722
Um, and having to wait for some,
for me to have a good idea.

1018
00:31:46,782 --> 00:31:46,902
Mm-hmm.

1019
00:31:47,142 --> 00:31:48,582
It's just not sustainable.

1020
00:31:48,582 --> 00:31:50,872
And so, my process was really.

1021
00:31:51,232 --> 00:31:55,042
It's really just meetings with my best
friend, being like, where should we go?

1022
00:31:55,132 --> 00:31:58,342
Have you seen anything trending
that you think that I should hop on?

1023
00:31:58,552 --> 00:32:04,132
As for poses, honestly, a lot of them
are repeat poses in different areas

1024
00:32:04,132 --> 00:32:07,702
because they're not really, of course
they're coming for the poses, but they

1025
00:32:07,702 --> 00:32:09,382
wanna see me in a specific cosplay.

1026
00:32:09,382 --> 00:32:09,472
Mm-hmm.

1027
00:32:09,742 --> 00:32:10,972
And they wanna see my body.

1028
00:32:11,002 --> 00:32:11,122
Mm-hmm.

1029
00:32:11,362 --> 00:32:14,842
So nine times outta 10, the guys that
are just browsing on my stuff, they're

1030
00:32:14,842 --> 00:32:16,802
not like, it's about 20 degrees off.

1031
00:32:16,802 --> 00:32:18,332
You know, like Okay, I gotcha.

1032
00:32:18,332 --> 00:32:19,892
They're not being anal about that.

1033
00:32:19,892 --> 00:32:19,902
Yeah.

1034
00:32:20,067 --> 00:32:21,727
But I'm taking my tip back.

1035
00:32:22,832 --> 00:32:26,702
But the, I, um, the ideas are really,
most of it is from my best friend.

1036
00:32:26,702 --> 00:32:27,002
She Okay.

1037
00:32:27,242 --> 00:32:30,332
I will, there's so many days,
literally la this past Monday,

1038
00:32:30,542 --> 00:32:34,802
um, I was like, dude, I am so out
of ideas for poses for this week.

1039
00:32:34,802 --> 00:32:35,582
I don't know what to do.

1040
00:32:35,732 --> 00:32:37,682
And she'll just immediately
get right back on it.

1041
00:32:37,682 --> 00:32:40,292
And then there's some days where I'm
like, I know exactly what I want to do.

1042
00:32:40,292 --> 00:32:40,302
Yeah.

1043
00:32:40,472 --> 00:32:40,592
Yeah.

1044
00:32:40,592 --> 00:32:41,432
And it's just kind of.

1045
00:32:41,777 --> 00:32:44,747
Repeats of poses that I'll tweak a
little bit to make it refreshing.

1046
00:32:45,737 --> 00:32:46,937
But, um, yeah.

1047
00:32:46,942 --> 00:32:49,817
Yeah, that's, you know, I am just
gonna give you something right quick.

1048
00:32:50,837 --> 00:32:52,367
Linda, from Bob's burgers.

1049
00:32:53,112 --> 00:32:56,927
Linda, I, I've actually had people
suggest know you would totally

1050
00:32:56,927 --> 00:32:58,967
kick, you would do a kickass, Linda.

1051
00:32:59,122 --> 00:33:00,262
Now you have to do it for them.

1052
00:33:00,422 --> 00:33:01,022
I love Linda.

1053
00:33:01,517 --> 00:33:04,007
Well, because I'm looking at with
your glasses and everyth, like if

1054
00:33:04,007 --> 00:33:06,797
you were to get the glasses the cat,
like, dude, you would have that.

1055
00:33:06,797 --> 00:33:07,697
She's hot, man.

1056
00:33:07,702 --> 00:33:08,062
She's hot.

1057
00:33:08,572 --> 00:33:09,502
Love wine.

1058
00:33:11,097 --> 00:33:11,667
Bob's Burger.

1059
00:33:11,667 --> 00:33:12,057
Yeah.

1060
00:33:12,057 --> 00:33:13,887
No, you could totally,
but you could have that.

1061
00:33:15,912 --> 00:33:16,617
There you go.

1062
00:33:16,917 --> 00:33:19,542
And one of these days I want to see
is, I'll, I'll take that suggestion.

1063
00:33:19,542 --> 00:33:20,822
It's coming from a very important person

1064
00:33:22,947 --> 00:33:23,127
now.

1065
00:33:23,127 --> 00:33:26,067
I, you know, I'm, I'm actually,
I've been really excited to have

1066
00:33:26,067 --> 00:33:28,827
you on the show, partly because
a, I think you're incredibly hot.

1067
00:33:28,887 --> 00:33:29,217
Yes.

1068
00:33:29,397 --> 00:33:31,342
You, uh, which you're just,
you're lovely to look at.

1069
00:33:31,827 --> 00:33:32,037
Thank you.

1070
00:33:32,097 --> 00:33:33,447
And you're fun and you're real.

1071
00:33:33,447 --> 00:33:35,052
Like down earth, you have a great energy.

1072
00:33:35,072 --> 00:33:35,292
Yes.

1073
00:33:35,397 --> 00:33:38,212
And we realized that
immediately when we met you.

1074
00:33:38,212 --> 00:33:40,437
Like, I mean, they were telling
me, they were like, she's here.

1075
00:33:40,437 --> 00:33:41,187
And I was like, who?

1076
00:33:41,187 --> 00:33:42,087
And they were telling me who it was.

1077
00:33:42,087 --> 00:33:43,377
And I was like, where?

1078
00:33:43,377 --> 00:33:44,727
Let's go say hi to her.

1079
00:33:44,727 --> 00:33:45,507
That's what, oh, I'm so sorry.

1080
00:33:45,507 --> 00:33:45,897
Nicole.

1081
00:33:45,897 --> 00:33:47,652
Nicole brought you over to To me.

1082
00:33:47,672 --> 00:33:47,892
Yes.

1083
00:33:48,192 --> 00:33:49,677
And thank God for that.

1084
00:33:50,097 --> 00:33:50,967
I was like, Ooh.

1085
00:33:51,057 --> 00:33:51,327
Yep.

1086
00:33:51,327 --> 00:33:52,047
I like this one.

1087
00:33:52,047 --> 00:33:53,037
And you know, this is nice.

1088
00:33:53,037 --> 00:33:55,677
Yeah, this is, I really
could not read you.

1089
00:33:55,737 --> 00:33:56,427
I know everything.

1090
00:33:56,427 --> 00:33:57,387
Oh, she's good at that.

1091
00:33:58,157 --> 00:33:59,447
Yeah, she's good at that this whole time.

1092
00:33:59,447 --> 00:34:02,717
I mean, I even texted you being
like, I hope Pris doesn't hate me.

1093
00:34:02,722 --> 00:34:02,922
Yeah.

1094
00:34:03,202 --> 00:34:06,842
I don't, I No, you have no idea how
many times I get texted like that.

1095
00:34:06,872 --> 00:34:07,362
Yeah, yeah.

1096
00:34:07,402 --> 00:34:08,657
I get those all the time.

1097
00:34:08,687 --> 00:34:09,257
Yeah.

1098
00:34:09,257 --> 00:34:11,237
No, and I'm very quiet in chat.

1099
00:34:11,357 --> 00:34:13,067
Like I, I am better in person.

1100
00:34:13,217 --> 00:34:13,967
Um, yeah, for sure.

1101
00:34:14,087 --> 00:34:15,767
I can talk your ear off in person.

1102
00:34:16,127 --> 00:34:19,247
I just, I get really bo uh, focused or
something and I just don't answer back.

1103
00:34:19,247 --> 00:34:20,447
But that's just the way I am.

1104
00:34:20,537 --> 00:34:21,377
Yeah.

1105
00:34:21,383 --> 00:34:22,457
And I'm totally cool with that.

1106
00:34:22,457 --> 00:34:22,517
Yeah.

1107
00:34:22,517 --> 00:34:24,677
I'm such a flexible person, so Yeah.

1108
00:34:24,677 --> 00:34:25,457
And I'm, I'm a chatter.

1109
00:34:25,847 --> 00:34:28,067
And you and I when we talk,
he's home all the time.

1110
00:34:28,632 --> 00:34:33,047
It's like, okay, uh, it's
called content creation.

1111
00:34:33,047 --> 00:34:34,067
Guys home all the time.

1112
00:34:34,067 --> 00:34:37,757
I'm sorry, but you have a couple of
content creators, full-timers here.

1113
00:34:37,997 --> 00:34:38,957
Don't talk shit man.

1114
00:34:39,047 --> 00:34:40,337
You with your normie job.

1115
00:34:40,337 --> 00:34:42,042
I want, I wanna be home.

1116
00:34:43,547 --> 00:34:45,197
Gooning out all day.

1117
00:34:45,287 --> 00:34:46,667
Girl, you couldn't afford that.

1118
00:34:46,847 --> 00:34:48,557
I You couldn't handle it.

1119
00:34:48,557 --> 00:34:48,597
You couldn't handle it.

1120
00:34:48,597 --> 00:34:49,002
Let's try this.

1121
00:34:50,417 --> 00:34:51,242
You can't live this life.

1122
00:34:51,252 --> 00:34:51,762
Let's try this.

1123
00:34:51,767 --> 00:34:53,597
It takes a special person to walk.

1124
00:34:53,602 --> 00:34:54,202
I a manager these shoes.

1125
00:34:54,292 --> 00:34:54,922
I know man.

1126
00:34:54,922 --> 00:34:56,227
Pris is kind of a special lady.

1127
00:34:56,607 --> 00:34:57,387
She is pretty special.

1128
00:34:58,492 --> 00:35:01,982
You just saying that 'cause you wanna
sleep with her, which I understand.

1129
00:35:02,002 --> 00:35:02,022
I do.

1130
00:35:02,022 --> 00:35:03,682
I mean, you don't have
to try too hard, Judy.

1131
00:35:05,002 --> 00:35:05,392
And see.

1132
00:35:05,392 --> 00:35:08,872
So this is kind of the cool part here
is that we get to say this on our show

1133
00:35:08,872 --> 00:35:10,252
because this is our platform here.

1134
00:35:10,582 --> 00:35:11,032
Is that.

1135
00:35:11,242 --> 00:35:11,332
Yes.

1136
00:35:12,142 --> 00:35:15,847
For those of you who are
naysayers about, well, you cannot.

1137
00:35:16,837 --> 00:35:21,937
Have the lifestyle and you know, you can't
do the lifestyle and content creation.

1138
00:35:21,937 --> 00:35:25,057
That is totally false because we
are about to make some content.

1139
00:35:25,117 --> 00:35:25,327
That's it.

1140
00:35:25,327 --> 00:35:28,597
We are, and we're gonna do, so we're gonna
mention that we're hitting it tonight.

1141
00:35:28,807 --> 00:35:28,957
Sexy.

1142
00:35:29,017 --> 00:35:29,317
Yeah.

1143
00:35:29,317 --> 00:35:31,267
So as you can see, the
lights are going down.

1144
00:35:31,267 --> 00:35:33,307
So with that, we're gonna
start wrapping up here.

1145
00:35:33,397 --> 00:35:33,487
Yes.

1146
00:35:33,697 --> 00:35:35,287
And we've got some fun to have.

1147
00:35:35,287 --> 00:35:35,297
Yeah.

1148
00:35:35,297 --> 00:35:36,397
We have some business to events too.

1149
00:35:37,207 --> 00:35:39,577
So, big shout out to to Chris.

1150
00:35:39,582 --> 00:35:42,912
And Club Eden for letting
us do the show here.

1151
00:35:42,972 --> 00:35:43,152
Thank you.

1152
00:35:43,152 --> 00:35:43,427
Yes, thank you.

1153
00:35:43,427 --> 00:35:44,652
We appreciate that.

1154
00:35:44,892 --> 00:35:46,542
Uh, thank you Rae for joining us.

1155
00:35:46,542 --> 00:35:46,872
Thank you.

1156
00:35:47,592 --> 00:35:51,222
We are actually here tonight for
the Beyond Monogamy event that

1157
00:35:51,222 --> 00:35:53,922
we do, uh, here at, at Club Eden.

1158
00:35:54,192 --> 00:35:58,752
And so we will you'll hear back later
guys, 'cause we got some stuff to do.

1159
00:35:58,757 --> 00:36:02,502
We got some fun to Dan know I
gotta, oh yeah, we gotta hit it.

1160
00:36:02,802 --> 00:36:06,432
So with that, thank you for listening
and we will see you guys next week.

1161
00:36:06,642 --> 00:36:07,212
Bye.

1162
00:36:07,217 --> 00:36:07,367
Bye.

1163
00:36:07,627 --> 00:36:07,847
Bye.