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Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris

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Swinger Age Limits? The Truth About Age in the Lifestyle
March 8, 2026

Swinger Age Limits? The Truth About Age in the Lifestyle

Is There an Age Limit in the Swinger Lifestyle? One of the most common questions people quietly ask about ethical non-monogamy and swinging is this: Am I too old for the lifestyle? Or on the flip side… is there such a thing a...

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CONFESSIONS: Lifestyle Red Flags, Unrealistic Expectations & Jealousy in ENM
March 4, 2026

CONFESSIONS: Lifestyle Red Flags, Unrealistic Expectations & Jealousy…

What happens when fantasy crashes into reality in the lifestyle? In this Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE episode, Adam and Pris dive into two anonymous confessional submissions that hit on some of the biggest challenges in ethical no...

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How to Start the Swinging Conversation + Lifestyle Rejection Real Talk
March 1, 2026

How to Start the Swinging Conversation + Lifestyle Rejection Real Talk

This week on Beyond Monogamy, we’re diving into two powerful throwback QUICKIE episodes that still hit just as hard today.First up: How do you even bring up swinging or ethical non-monogamy with your partner?That first conversation can either build connection or completely derail a relation…

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Judged for Ethical Non-Monogamy? How to Handle Critics, Bullies & Moral Authority
Feb. 26, 2026

Judged for Ethical Non-Monogamy? How to Handle Critics, Bullies & Mor…

Ever been told your relationship “isn’t real love”?Ever had someone look at ethical non-monogamy and decide they’re suddenly the moral authority over your life?Yeah. Same.In this QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we’re diving into something nobody talks about enough —…

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Cheating vs Ethical Non-Monogamy: Honesty, Jealousy & Modern Dating Culture
Feb. 22, 2026

Cheating vs Ethical Non-Monogamy: Honesty, Jealousy & Modern Dating C…

What happens when modern dating culture, social media, jealousy, and ethical non-monogamy collide under one roof? In this deeply personal episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we unpack a real-life situation that spar...

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Swinger Club 101: What Newbies Should Know Before Going to a Lifestyle Club
Feb. 18, 2026

Swinger Club 101: What Newbies Should Know Before Going to a Lifestyl…

Thinking about going to your first swinger club but feeling nervous, anxious, or unsure what to expect? This Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris is your ultimate beginner’s guide to lifestyle clubs. ...

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Swinger Education Matters: Inside Forbidden Fruit’s Workshops
Feb. 15, 2026

Swinger Education Matters: Inside Forbidden Fruit’s Workshops

Most people think swinging is all vibes, chemistry, and “we’ll figure it out when we get there.” In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we explain why that mindset is exactly why so many couples struggle early ...

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Swinging Reality Check: What Nobody Warns You About in the Lifestyle
Feb. 8, 2026

Swinging Reality Check: What Nobody Warns You About in the Lifestyle

Everybody talks about how hot the swinging lifestyle is. Nobody talks about the emotional whiplash. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we get brutally honest about the parts of swinging that don’t show up i...

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Unfair Swinger Rules: The Boundaries That Break Couples
Feb. 4, 2026

Unfair Swinger Rules: The Boundaries That Break Couples

Some swinger rules sound great… until you actually have to live with them. In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we dive headfirst into the most common unfair rules in swinging and ethical no...

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Unfiltered but Not Unkind: Hard Truths About Swinger Etiquette & Communication
Feb. 1, 2026

Unfiltered but Not Unkind: Hard Truths About Swinger Etiquette & Comm…

Unfiltered but Not Unkind is one of those episodes that needed to happen. In this raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation, Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on the lifestyle behaviors we all quietly side-eye… but rarely sa...

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One-Sided Rules in the Swinger Lifestyle: Insecurity, Control & Communication
Jan. 28, 2026

One-Sided Rules in the Swinger Lifestyle: Insecurity, Control & Commu…

What happens when the swinger lifestyle starts to feel less like freedom and more like permission? In this raw and honest Beyond Monogamy Quickie , Adam and Pris unpack a listener confession that hits closer to home than most...

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Non-Monogamy, Attachment & Communication — ft. Sex Therapist Martha Kauppi
Jan. 25, 2026

Non-Monogamy, Attachment & Communication — ft. Sex Therapist Martha K…

This episode is a deep, grounded, and powerful conversation. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we sit down with relationship and sexuality professional Martha Kauppi , an AASECT-certified sex therapist, au...

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How to Set Up a Gang Bang (Planning, Consent & Fantasy Reality)
Jan. 21, 2026

How to Set Up a Gang Bang (Planning, Consent & Fantasy Reality)

This Wednesday Quickie goes places. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we dive headfirst into a real, unfiltered conversation about how to set up a gang bang — not the porn version, but the actual real-life...

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Luxury Lifestyle Cruises Explained: Inside LLV Club’s Adults-Only Travel Experiences
Jan. 18, 2026

Luxury Lifestyle Cruises Explained: Inside LLV Club’s Adults-Only Tra…

If you’ve ever seen photos of adults-only lifestyle cruises or hotel takeovers and thought, “That looks incredible… but also a little intimidating,” this episode is for you. Adam & Pris sit down with Claudia and Pepe Aguirre ...

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Swinger 101: Rules, Boundaries, Jealousy & How to Start Safely
Jan. 14, 2026

Swinger 101: Rules, Boundaries, Jealousy & How to Start Safely

Welcome to Swinger 101 — the episode we wish every curious couple listened to before jumping into the lifestyle. In this Wednesday Quickie, Adam & Pris break down the real basics of swinging in a way only Beyond Monogamy can:...

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Non-Monogamy on Your Own Terms: Growth, Jealousy & Freedom with Evita "Lavitaloca" Sawyers
Jan. 11, 2026

Non-Monogamy on Your Own Terms: Growth, Jealousy & Freedom with Evita…

What happens when non-monogamy stops being about labels and starts being about lived experience? In this powerful and deeply honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we’re joined by speaker, author, and relationsh...

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Instant Gratification in Sex: Why Finishing Fast Isn’t a Failure
Jan. 7, 2026

Instant Gratification in Sex: Why Finishing Fast Isn’t a Failure

Is lasting longer in bed really the goal—or have we been getting it wrong this whole time? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we dive headfirst into a topic that gets whispered about but r...

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Polyamory, Jealousy, and Boundaries: Making Non-Monogamy Make Sense with Polyphilia
Jan. 4, 2026

Polyamory, Jealousy, and Boundaries: Making Non-Monogamy Make Sense w…

Polyamory doesn’t have to be confusing, chaotic, or emotionally overwhelming. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we sit down with award-winning sex and relationships educator Leanne Yau —the brilliant mind ...

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Compersion Isn’t Automatic: Jealousy, Growth & Real Non-Monogamy
Dec. 31, 2025

Compersion Isn’t Automatic: Jealousy, Growth & Real Non-Monogamy

Compersion Isn’t Automatic — And That’s Completely Normal Compersion gets talked about a lot in ethical non-monogamy — sometimes like it’s a requirement, sometimes like it’s a badge of honor. But what happens when it just… do...

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Bi Men in Swinging: Breaking Stigma with United Bi Swinging (Ashley & Rob)
Dec. 28, 2025

Bi Men in Swinging: Breaking Stigma with United Bi Swinging (Ashley &…

Episode Summary: In this powerful and overdue conversation, Adam & Pris are joined by Ashley and Rob from the United Bi Swinging Podcast to talk openly about bisexual men in the swinging lifestyle, the stigma that still exist...

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Busy Isn’t Ghosting: Entitlement, Boundaries & Lifestyle Etiquette
Dec. 24, 2025

Busy Isn’t Ghosting: Entitlement, Boundaries & Lifestyle Etiquette

In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we’re calling out one of the biggest turn-offs in the lifestyle: entitlement disguised as “being ghosted.” Just because someone doesn’t reply immediately...

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Sex Work, Swinging, & Gooning: Rae's Real Talk On The Lifestyle
Dec. 21, 2025

Sex Work, Swinging, & Gooning: Rae's Real Talk On The Lifestyle

Episode Summary In this spicy, hilarious, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we sit down with lifestyle newcomer and content creator Rae Crush for a conversation that covers everything from cosp...

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Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet: Club Eden, Content Creators & One Wild Night
Dec. 17, 2025

Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet: Club Eden, Content Creators & One Wild …

In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris , we’re recapping one of our wildest, sexiest, and most unforgettable nights yet — our official Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet at Club Eden San Antonio . Fro...

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The Original Swingers: Sam L. Feldman on Hookups, Hiccups & Freedom
Dec. 14, 2025

The Original Swingers: Sam L. Feldman on Hookups, Hiccups & Freedom

SUMMARY Ever wonder what the original sexual revolution really looked like? Before there were swinger apps, lifestyle websites, or even the term “ethical non-monogamy,” there were people just living it — raw, real, and unapol...

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