“It’s been hard to find couples we’re both attracted to…”

Sound familiar? One listener wrote in about struggling to connect in their local lifestyle scene. Pris’ take: maybe you’re trying too hard. Let things happen organically and stop measuring your success by how much playtime you’re getting. Adam added, “We’ve been in this for 14 years — and it took the last four to really find our people.”

Because truth is, everyone comes in chasing experiences… until you realize the best ones happen with people you actually like.

Saying No Without Being a Jerk

Another confession hit close to home — a listener who couldn’t say no. We’ve all been there: you don’t want to hurt someone’s feelings, so you ghost. Adam and Pris admit they used to do that too. Now, they preach radical honesty.

“Don’t ghost,” Pris says flatly. “Be upfront. Say there’s no vibe. It saves everyone’s time — and dignity.”

BDSM, Trust, and That Gut-Punch of Rejection

One confessor opened up about venturing into the BDSM world, only to be rejected by the one Dom she trusted. The heartbreak was real, and Pris’ empathy was too. That story led to a deep dive into how trust and communication are everything — in kink or in swinging.

Adam said it best: “If someone tells you no, it sucks… but honesty is everything. Even if it stings at first, you’ll respect it later.”

Horny Brain: A Real Lifestyle Epidemic

Then came the laughs. “Horny brain,” as Adam calls it, is that post-drink, mid-flirt fog where logic leaves the room. They recounted a recent hotel takeover — a sea of naked people and endless possibilities — where they ended up doing… absolutely nothing.

Pris laughed, “We had every chance to play, but instead we crashed out at 10:30 like old people. And it was perfect.”

When Vanilla & Lifestyle Collide

One final confessional brought up a classic debate: keeping your lifestyle life separate from your vanilla life. A listener was scolded for wanting to mail a fellow wife a small gift — a pair of leggings — because it “mixed vanilla with lifestyle.”

Adam’s reaction? “Dude, chill. That’s an overreaction.” Pris agreed: “I would’ve never played with him again.” Sometimes, the biggest red flag isn’t the kink — it’s the overreaction.

Community Shoutouts & Upcoming Fun

Adam & Pris also shouted out The Happy Swinger for their custom handmade lamp and lifestyle gifts — and yes, the infamous penis whistle that had them cracking up on-air.

Mark Your Calendars

• Beyond Monogamy Meet & Greet — Naughty & Nice Edition
• 📍 Club Eden San Antonio
• 📅 Saturday, Dec 13 @ 9 PM Central
• Come hang out, grab a drink, and maybe jump on a live taping with Adam & Pris before the club opens.

Tune In, Show Up, Speak Out

Stream Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris every Thursday at 2 PM and 7 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.

Join the fam at Patreon.com/BeyondMonogamyWithAdamPris for early access, behind-the-scenes moments, and those spicy after-hours extras you won’t get anywhere else.

Submit your own anonymous story at www.Beyond-Monogamy.com via the Confessional — because your story might just be the next one on-air.