In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with award-winning sex and relationships educator Leanne Yau, better known as Polyphilia, to talk about polyamory, jealousy, boundaries, and why non-monogamy doesn’t have to be confusing or chaotic.
Leanne has become one of the most trusted voices in the non-monogamy space by turning complex emotional topics into relatable, practical, and meme-worthy insights. In this conversation, we go deep—without getting preachy—into the real feelings people experience when exploring open relationships.
We talk about:
• How Leanne discovered non-monogamy at a young age
• Why jealousy is normal—and how to work with it instead of suppressing it
• The difference between boundaries and control
• Why non-monogamy isn’t a phase or fear of commitment
• Generational shifts in how people approach relationships
• Navigating privacy and authenticity as a content creator
One of the biggest takeaways from this episode is that jealousy isn’t the enemy—it’s information. When people are told jealousy is “bad,” they stop talking about it, and that’s when resentment and miscommunication grow. Leanne explains how to unpack jealousy in a way that actually strengthens relationships instead of destroying them.
We also break down the myth that having boundaries means you’re insecure. Boundaries aren’t about limiting your partner—they’re about knowing yourself, communicating clearly, and creating relationships that actually work for the people in them.
Whether you’re polyamorous, curious about open relationships, or just questioning traditional relationship norms, this episode offers clarity, validation, and a lot of “oh damn… that makes sense” moments.
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