QUICKIE: Flirting Fumbles: A Guide to Connection
In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris discuss the intricacies of flirting, especially across genders. Adam admits to struggling with flirting with women, elaborating on how natural it feels for him with men. They delve into the importance of eye contact and genuine connection, suggesting that successful flirting requires more than mere compliments. Touching on their personal experiences, the hosts emphasize the value of honesty and the need for unique approaches to capturing someone’s interest. This discussion serves as a humorous yet insightful guide for anyone looking to improve their flirting skills.
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From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place.
Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy.
🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday.
🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com]]>
From hotwife adventures and swinger fails to polyamorous growing pains and everything in between, no topic is too taboo and no story is off-limits. Whether you're a seasoned swinger, lifestyle-curious, or just here for the juicy stories—you're in the right bed… we mean, place.
Expect real talk, lots of laughs, and candid conversations about sex, relationships, parenting, judgment, and finding connection beyond traditional monogamy.
🛏️ New episodes drop every Sunday and Wednesday.
🎥 Now with video! Watch on YouTube or visit www.beyond-monogamy.com]]>
Jessica Fern & David Cooley on Attachment, Resentment & Rewriting the Rules of Non-Monogamy
Guests: Jessica Fern (author of Polysecure, Polywise, and Transforming the Shame Triangle) and David Cooley (restorative-justice facilitator, creator of Restorative Relationship Conversations).
Episode Summary
In this heart-to-heart, Adam & Pris sit down with Jessica Fern and David Cooley to go deeper than "What is polyamory?" They unpack attachment styles, why resentment is jealousy's sneaky cousin, and how the Shame Triangle (inner persecutor, inner victim, inner rescuer) quietly shapes conflict—and how to transform it with practical tools rooted in IFS and restorative practices.
The convo hits real-life dynamics: ditching the "50/50" myth, navigating capacity and time (especially with kids), and why relationships thrive when both partners bring 100%—just not in the same way every day. Adam & Pris get candid about their own poly chapter, burnout, and finding balance, while Jessica & David share how their post-divorce collaboration became one of their healthiest partnerships.
Keywords: Jessica Fern, David Cooley, Polysecure, Polywise, Transforming the Shame Triangle, attachment theory, IFS therapy, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, jealousy vs resentment, relationship repair, capacity, family dynamics, Beyond Monogamy podcast, Full Swap Radio.
Listen & Subscribe
- Website: beyond-monogamy.com
- Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
- Patreon (early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord): Patreon.com/BeyondMonogamywith
Show Notes
- Attachment & IFS: How to spot when a part (not your core self) is driving reactivity—and how to respond with needs-based clarity.
- Jealousy vs. Resentment: Resentment is the "check-engine light" for unmet needs or long-standing imbalances—don't villainize it, learn from it.
- The 50/50 Myth: Healthy partnerships aren't perfectly split; they're capacity-aware and transparent about changing needs over time.
- Polyamory + Parenting: Why time/energy constraints shift when kids are young—and how integrating partners into the family system can help.
- The Shame Triangle: Inner persecutor ➝ inner victim (shame) ➝ inner rescuer/escapers (over/under-functioning, numbing, projection) and how to break the cycle.
- Collaboration After Divorce: Jessica & David describe dissolving romance, rebuilding trust, and co-creating work that actually deepens harmony.
Guest Links & Resources
- JessicaFern.com — book info, events, workshops (New book Transforming the Shame Triangle releases on October 31; pre-release discount via site).
- Polysecure, The Polysecure Workbook, Polywise — widely available wherever books are sold.
- Upcoming signings mentioned: Asheville (Malaprops, Oct 28), Atlanta (Cherish Books, Nov 4), Bay Area events week of Dec 17 with a day-long workshop on Dec 22.
Favorite Moments
"Resentment is a really important signal—like a dashboard light. There's a need underneath it asking to be seen."
"Stop chasing 50/50. Bring your 100%—and expect your partner to bring theirs—in ways that ebb and flow with real capacity."
"The Shame Triangle links that inner critic, the shame it creates, and the 'escapes' we use to avoid feeling it. Naming it is the first step to changing it."Timestamps
- 00:01 — Meet Jessica & David; books, backgrounds, collaboration
- 16:00 — Sacredness, conditioning & rethinking mononormative scripts
- 18:00 — Jealousy vs. resentment; needs, signals & repair
- 22:00 — Ditching 50/50; capacity, boundaries, expectations
- 29:00 — Poly + parenting; integrating partners into family systems
- 44:00 — The Shame Triangle explained (persecutor, victim, rescuer/escapers)
- 54:00 — Why feedback can trigger shame—and how to receive it better
- 55:00 — Book release timing & event tour details
Support the Show
Love the conversation? Join our Patreon for early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord hangs, and more. Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST.
Follow us: Facebook @BeyondMonogamy4U • Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u • TikTok @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond • YouTube @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
In this heart-to-heart, Adam & Pris sit down with Jessica Fern and David Cooley to go deeper than "What is polyamory?" They unpack attachment styles, why resentment is jealousy's sneaky cousin, and how the Shame Triangle (inner persecutor, inner victim, inner rescuer) quietly shapes conflict—and how to transform it with practical tools rooted in IFS and restorative practices.
The convo hits real-life dynamics: ditching the "50/50" myth, navigating capacity and time (especially with kids), and why relationships thrive when both partners bring 100%—just not in the same way every day. Adam & Pris get candid about their own poly chapter, burnout, and finding balance, while Jessica & David share how their post-divorce collaboration became one of their healthiest partnerships.
Keywords: Jessica Fern, David Cooley, Polysecure, Polywise, Transforming the Shame Triangle, attachment theory, IFS therapy, ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, jealousy vs resentment, relationship repair, capacity, family dynamics, Beyond Monogamy podcast, Full Swap Radio.
Listen & Subscribe- Website: beyond-monogamy.com
- Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
- Patreon (early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord): Patreon.com/BeyondMonogamywith
- Attachment & IFS: How to spot when a part (not your core self) is driving reactivity—and how to respond with needs-based clarity.
- Jealousy vs. Resentment: Resentment is the "check-engine light" for unmet needs or long-standing imbalances—don't villainize it, learn from it.
- The 50/50 Myth: Healthy partnerships aren't perfectly split; they're capacity-aware and transparent about changing needs over time.
- Polyamory + Parenting: Why time/energy constraints shift when kids are young—and how integrating partners into the family system can help.
- The Shame Triangle: Inner persecutor ➝ inner victim (shame) ➝ inner rescuer/escapers (over/under-functioning, numbing, projection) and how to break the cycle.
- Collaboration After Divorce: Jessica & David describe dissolving romance, rebuilding trust, and co-creating work that actually deepens harmony.
- JessicaFern.com — book info, events, workshops (New book Transforming the Shame Triangle releases on October 31; pre-release discount via site).
- Polysecure, The Polysecure Workbook, Polywise — widely available wherever books are sold.
- Upcoming signings mentioned: Asheville (Malaprops, Oct 28), Atlanta (Cherish Books, Nov 4), Bay Area events week of Dec 17 with a day-long workshop on Dec 22.
- 00:01 — Meet Jessica & David; books, backgrounds, collaboration
- 16:00 — Sacredness, conditioning & rethinking mononormative scripts
- 18:00 — Jealousy vs. resentment; needs, signals & repair
- 22:00 — Ditching 50/50; capacity, boundaries, expectations
- 29:00 — Poly + parenting; integrating partners into family systems
- 44:00 — The Shame Triangle explained (persecutor, victim, rescuer/escapers)
- 54:00 — Why feedback can trigger shame—and how to receive it better
- 55:00 — Book release timing & event tour details
Love the conversation? Join our Patreon for early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord hangs, and more. Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST.
Follow us: Facebook @BeyondMonogamy4U • Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u • TikTok @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond • YouTube @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
]]>The Great Expectations
Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Episode Summary
In The Great Expectations, Adam & Pris get real about one of the trickiest parts of ethical non-monogamy: managing what you think is going to happen versus what actually happens. From club nights that don't go as planned to the pressure of "performing" in lifestyle settings, they unpack how expectations—ours, our partners', and everyone else's—shape attraction, confidence, and connection. This candid, funny, and raw conversation explores emotional intelligence, insecurity, chemistry, and the myth of having "no expectations." Spoiler: everyone has them, and that's human.
Whether you're new to swinging or deep into open relationship life, you'll leave with practical perspective: the fewer expectations you cling to, the more freedom (and fun) you'll find.
Show Notes
Topics Covered
- The illusion of "no expectations" in the lifestyle
- Why we still walk into clubs hoping for magic (and why it rarely plays out like a fantasy)
- How unrealistic expectations can kill the vibe before the night even starts
- Attraction vs. organic connection: letting chemistry lead
- Emotional intelligence as a lifestyle superpower
- Releasing insecurities and learning to care less (with age and experience)
- "Podcaster expectations" vs. real-life anxiety and social energy
- Expectations and performance pressure—why honest communication matters
- Respect, boundaries, and the expectations partners set for each other
Featured Moments
- Pris opens up about letting go and growing emotional maturity.
- Adam talks about mental pressure, male performance, and speaking up instead of spiraling.
- A funny play-by-play of how fantasy scripts fall apart in real life—and why that's okay.
- A shared takeaway: try not to have expectations, but admit you always will—then choose flexibility over frustration.
Listen & Connect
Stream this episode on all major podcast platforms and catch us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST.
Explore everything—blogs, videos, events, and our anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional—at www.beyond-monogamy.com.
Support the Show & Explore the Lifestyle
Join Our Patreon
Love the raw conversations and want more? Get early access, behind-the-mic clips, uncut moments, and member-only perks by joining our Patreon. Your support keeps the mics on and the real talk flowing.
👉 Become a Patron
Find Your People
Ready to connect with like-minded folks? Use our links—your sign-ups directly support the podcast:
- SDC (events, parties, community): https://www.sdc.com/?ref=38236
- 3Fun (meet, match, explore): https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK11932
Click, explore, and say hi—we appreciate you using our links!
Episode SEO
Keywords: swinger podcast, non-monogamy podcast, expectations in the lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, open relationship podcast, Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris, lifestyle confidence, emotional intelligence, relationship growth, swinging community.
In The Great Expectations, Adam & Pris get real about one of the trickiest parts of ethical non-monogamy: managing what you think is going to happen versus what actually happens. From club nights that don't go as planned to the pressure of "performing" in lifestyle settings, they unpack how expectations—ours, our partners', and everyone else's—shape attraction, confidence, and connection. This candid, funny, and raw conversation explores emotional intelligence, insecurity, chemistry, and the myth of having "no expectations." Spoiler: everyone has them, and that's human.
Whether you're new to swinging or deep into open relationship life, you'll leave with practical perspective: the fewer expectations you cling to, the more freedom (and fun) you'll find.
Show Notes Topics Covered- The illusion of "no expectations" in the lifestyle
- Why we still walk into clubs hoping for magic (and why it rarely plays out like a fantasy)
- How unrealistic expectations can kill the vibe before the night even starts
- Attraction vs. organic connection: letting chemistry lead
- Emotional intelligence as a lifestyle superpower
- Releasing insecurities and learning to care less (with age and experience)
- "Podcaster expectations" vs. real-life anxiety and social energy
- Expectations and performance pressure—why honest communication matters
- Respect, boundaries, and the expectations partners set for each other
- Pris opens up about letting go and growing emotional maturity.
- Adam talks about mental pressure, male performance, and speaking up instead of spiraling.
- A funny play-by-play of how fantasy scripts fall apart in real life—and why that's okay.
- A shared takeaway: try not to have expectations, but admit you always will—then choose flexibility over frustration.
Stream this episode on all major podcast platforms and catch us on FullSwapRadio.com every Thursday at 2 PM & 7 PM CST.
Explore everything—blogs, videos, events, and our anonymous Beyond Monogamy Confessional—at www.beyond-monogamy.com.
Support the Show & Explore the Lifestyle Join Our PatreonLove the raw conversations and want more? Get early access, behind-the-mic clips, uncut moments, and member-only perks by joining our Patreon. Your support keeps the mics on and the real talk flowing. 👉 Become a Patron
Find Your PeopleReady to connect with like-minded folks? Use our links—your sign-ups directly support the podcast:
- SDC (events, parties, community): https://www.sdc.com/?ref=38236
- 3Fun (meet, match, explore): https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK11932
Click, explore, and say hi—we appreciate you using our links!
Episode SEOKeywords: swinger podcast, non-monogamy podcast, expectations in the lifestyle, ethical non-monogamy, open relationship podcast, Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris, lifestyle confidence, emotional intelligence, relationship growth, swinging community.
]]>This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes
Episode Summary
In this bold and beautifully honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we head across the pond to chat with UK writer, educator, and ethical non-monogamy coach Rosie Kay, the voice behind thiskindagirl.co.uk.
Rosie pulls back the curtain on what it really means to live ethically non-monogamous in today's world—far beyond the clichés of "swingers in suburbia." From discovering her bisexuality in her teens to finding freedom (and a few fears) in London's clubs, Rosie shares how she turned curiosity, courage, and COVID downtime into one of the UK's most refreshingly honest lifestyle blogs.
Together, we dive into bisexuality without shame, breaking stereotypes, emotional honesty and the art of giving consent even when you're not directly involved, plus the cultural contrasts between the UK and US lifestyle scenes. This one's for anyone navigating open relationships or the messy-beautiful reality of non-monogamy in 2025 and beyond.
Show Notes
Guest: Rosie Kay — thiskindagirl.co.uk
Key Topics Covered
- Rosie's personal journey into non-monogamy & bisexuality
- How This Kind of Girl started during COVID lockdown
- UK vs. US lifestyle culture—what's changing and what's the same
- The emotional side: jealousy, consent, self-awareness, and confidence
- Breaking stereotypes: who actually participates in the lifestyle
- Inclusivity, women's empowerment, and moving beyond shame
Best Quote
"Once you realize that other women aren't your competition, you'll have a much better life—not just a better sex life." — Rosie Kay
Follow Rosie
- Website: thiskindagirl.co.uk
Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
- Website & blog: www.beyond-monogamy.com
- Stream us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST: fullswapradio.com
- Find us on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, X, YouTube, and Reddit: @BeyondMonogamy
Rosie pulls back the curtain on what it really means to live ethically non-monogamous in today's world—far beyond the clichés of "swingers in suburbia." From discovering her bisexuality in her teens to finding freedom (and a few fears) in London's clubs, Rosie shares how she turned curiosity, courage, and COVID downtime into one of the UK's most refreshingly honest lifestyle blogs.
Together, we dive into bisexuality without shame, breaking stereotypes, emotional honesty and the art of giving consent even when you're not directly involved, plus the cultural contrasts between the UK and US lifestyle scenes. This one's for anyone navigating open relationships or the messy-beautiful reality of non-monogamy in 2025 and beyond.
Show NotesGuest: Rosie Kay — thiskindagirl.co.uk
Key Topics Covered- Rosie's personal journey into non-monogamy & bisexuality
- How This Kind of Girl started during COVID lockdown
- UK vs. US lifestyle culture—what's changing and what's the same
- The emotional side: jealousy, consent, self-awareness, and confidence
- Breaking stereotypes: who actually participates in the lifestyle
- Inclusivity, women's empowerment, and moving beyond shame
- Website: thiskindagirl.co.uk
- Website & blog: www.beyond-monogamy.com
- Stream us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST: fullswapradio.com
- Find us on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, X, YouTube, and Reddit: @BeyondMonogamy
© Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
]]>Forbidden Fruit: Keeping Austin Sexy Since the '80s
The Story of an Austin Icon
We sit down with Lynn Raridon, owner of Forbidden Fruit, Austin's beloved sex-positive boutique and education hub. From the early 1980s to today, Forbidden Fruit has blended sexual empowerment, community connection, and hands-on education—long before "sex positivity" was a hashtag.
From Punk Rock to Pleasure Revolution
Born out of Austin's punk scene and home party sales that brought products into living rooms, Forbidden Fruit evolved into a community institution. Lynn shares the legal hurdles of the late '80s and the clever pivots (like labeling vibrators as educational models) that kept the doors open and the mission alive.
More Than a Store—A Movement
- Workshops & classes: BDSM Basics, Fellatio 101, and more, taught by experienced educators.
- Local makers: artisan floggers, paddles, collars, lingerie, and kink gear.
- Erotic art exhibits: rotating local art and cultural programming.
- Trusted guidance: lube testing, body-safe materials, and matching toys to preferences.
- Convenience: online ordering and easy curbside pickup.
Visit Forbidden Fruit
🌐 Website: www.forbiddenfruit.com
📣 Official social links are listed on their website (footer & product pages).
🛍️ Shop toys, lube, lingerie & BDSM gear • Explore workshops & in-store art
Beyond Monogamy Live at Forbidden Fruit — November 8
Join Adam & Pris at the shop on Friday, Nov 8 during the neighborhood block party. Forbidden Fruit opens at 12 PM; we'll be inside with a live show, Q&A, a meet-and-greet, and merch—plus we'll pop on a few social lives throughout the afternoon.
Listen, Watch & Connect
Follow Beyond Monogamy
🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
📱 Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u • TikTok: @beyond.monogamy • X/Twitter: @beyomono
💬 Join our Discord (link on website)
🛍️ Merch & blogs: beyond-monogamy.com/shop
📻 Full Swap Radio: Thursdays @ 1 PM & 6 PM CST
We sit down with Lynn Raridon, owner of Forbidden Fruit, Austin's beloved sex-positive boutique and education hub. From the early 1980s to today, Forbidden Fruit has blended sexual empowerment, community connection, and hands-on education—long before "sex positivity" was a hashtag.
From Punk Rock to Pleasure RevolutionBorn out of Austin's punk scene and home party sales that brought products into living rooms, Forbidden Fruit evolved into a community institution. Lynn shares the legal hurdles of the late '80s and the clever pivots (like labeling vibrators as educational models) that kept the doors open and the mission alive.
More Than a Store—A Movement- Workshops & classes: BDSM Basics, Fellatio 101, and more, taught by experienced educators.
- Local makers: artisan floggers, paddles, collars, lingerie, and kink gear.
- Erotic art exhibits: rotating local art and cultural programming.
- Trusted guidance: lube testing, body-safe materials, and matching toys to preferences.
- Convenience: online ordering and easy curbside pickup.
Visit Forbidden Fruit 🌐 Website: www.forbiddenfruit.com 📣 Official social links are listed on their website (footer & product pages). 🛍️ Shop toys, lube, lingerie & BDSM gear • Explore workshops & in-store art
Beyond Monogamy Live at Forbidden Fruit — November 8Join Adam & Pris at the shop on Friday, Nov 8 during the neighborhood block party. Forbidden Fruit opens at 12 PM; we'll be inside with a live show, Q&A, a meet-and-greet, and merch—plus we'll pop on a few social lives throughout the afternoon.
Listen, Watch & Connect Play the Episode | Spotify | Apple Podcasts | YouTube | FullSwapRadio (Thu 1 & 6 PM CST) Follow Beyond Monogamy🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📱 Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u • TikTok: @beyond.monogamy • X/Twitter: @beyomono 💬 Join our Discord (link on website) 🛍️ Merch & blogs: beyond-monogamy.com/shop 📻 Full Swap Radio: Thursdays @ 1 PM & 6 PM CST
]]>Tentaciones isn't just a swingers' club; it's a movement. Built with passion, culture, and a whole lot of reggaetón energy, this Latino-owned lifestyle club blends music, sensuality, and community into one unforgettable experience.
Angel and Dulce share how they transformed their 20-year relationship, event-planning expertise, and deep ties to LA's Latino community into a sex-positive safe space where connection and culture collide. From converting a banquet hall into an 18,000-square-foot play space to educating a new generation of Latinx swingers about consent and communication, their story is bold, raw, and beautifully authentic.
They talk about:
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How COVID boredom and orgy porn sparked the idea that became Tentaciones Club.
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The challenges of bringing Latino machismo culture into open, ethical non-monogamy.
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Why music and environment are key to creating comfort and connection.
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How they're balancing work, family, and sex-positive entrepreneurship.
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And the importance of teaching respect, consent, and community inside the lifestyle.
This episode isn't just about a club — it's about representation, passion, and the power of owning your truth. Whether you're in the lifestyle or just lifestyle-curious, you'll leave inspired by their hustle, humor, and heart.
📍 About Tentaciones Club (Los Angeles, CA)
Located in the heart of Los Angeles, Tentaciones Club is a sensual, inclusive, and proudly Latino-centered lifestyle venue that brings together couples, singles, and open-minded adults for unforgettable nights of music, dance, and connection.
With over 9,000 sq. ft. of play space (and another 9,000+ in expansion), Tentaciones delivers an experience that's equal parts sexy and safe — featuring vibrant Latino music, open dance floors, and intimate playrooms that celebrate freedom, consent, and community.
Their mission? To create a family-like atmosphere where the Latino lifestyle community can express themselves authentically, without judgment or taboo.
👉 Follow and support Tentaciones Club:
📍 Los Angeles, CA
🌐 Tentaciones Club on TikTok
📸 Instagram: @tentacionesclubla (insert handle if available)
📧 Membership & Events: info@tentacionesclub.com
🎧 Show Notes
Highlights & Time Stamps:
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[00:00] Adam & Pris introduce Dulce & Angel of Tentaciones Club
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[04:00] How a banquet hall turned into a lifestyle dream space
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[07:00] The cultural challenges of normalizing swinging in Latino communities
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[12:00] Building connection, family, and respect inside the club
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[15:00] The power of music, dance, and vibe — reggaetón, bachata, and consent
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[23:00] Fetishization, machismo, and educating new members
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[30:00] How Dulce embraced her bisexuality and Angel learned true communication
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[40:00] The business grind — running a club while raising kids and trading crypto
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[45:00] Upcoming events: Las Santas y los Santos theme night
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[50:00] Virtual walkthrough of the 18,000-square-foot club
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[51:00] Final thoughts and connections
🥂 Support the Hosts
💋 Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
Exploring open relationships, swinging, polyamory, and the real-life stories behind them — with humor, honesty, and heart.
🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
📻 Stream on FullSwapRadio.com: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
📱 Follow Us:
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy
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X / Twitter: @beyomono
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YouTube: Beyond Monogamy Podcast
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Discord: Join the conversation! (link on website)
🎁 Support & Merch: beyond-monogamy.com/shop
📝 Leave a Review: Apple Podcasts | Spotify | FullSwapRadio
🗝️ SEO Tags / Keywords
Primary: Tentaciones Club Los Angeles, Latino lifestyle club, Los Angeles swingers, Beyond Monogamy Podcast, Dulce and Angel interview, LA sex-positive scene, ethical non-monogamy podcast
Secondary: Latino swingers, reggaeton club LA, open relationships, Latinx lifestyle culture, sex positivity, swinger event Los Angeles, lifestyle education, full swap community
Tentaciones isn't just a swingers' club; it's a movement. Built with passion, culture, and a whole lot of reggaetón energy, this Latino-owned lifestyle club blends music, sensuality, and community into one unforgettable experience.
Angel and Dulce share how they transformed their 20-year relationship, event-planning expertise, and deep ties to LA's Latino community into a sex-positive safe space where connection and culture collide. From converting a banquet hall into an 18,000-square-foot play space to educating a new generation of Latinx swingers about consent and communication, their story is bold, raw, and beautifully authentic.
They talk about:
-
How COVID boredom and orgy porn sparked the idea that became Tentaciones Club.
-
The challenges of bringing Latino machismo culture into open, ethical non-monogamy.
-
Why music and environment are key to creating comfort and connection.
-
How they're balancing work, family, and sex-positive entrepreneurship.
-
And the importance of teaching respect, consent, and community inside the lifestyle.
This episode isn't just about a club — it's about representation, passion, and the power of owning your truth. Whether you're in the lifestyle or just lifestyle-curious, you'll leave inspired by their hustle, humor, and heart.
📍 About Tentaciones Club (Los Angeles, CA)Located in the heart of Los Angeles, Tentaciones Club is a sensual, inclusive, and proudly Latino-centered lifestyle venue that brings together couples, singles, and open-minded adults for unforgettable nights of music, dance, and connection.
With over 9,000 sq. ft. of play space (and another 9,000+ in expansion), Tentaciones delivers an experience that's equal parts sexy and safe — featuring vibrant Latino music, open dance floors, and intimate playrooms that celebrate freedom, consent, and community.
Their mission? To create a family-like atmosphere where the Latino lifestyle community can express themselves authentically, without judgment or taboo.
👉 Follow and support Tentaciones Club: 📍 Los Angeles, CA 🌐 Tentaciones Club on TikTok 📸 Instagram: @tentacionesclubla (insert handle if available) 📧 Membership & Events: info@tentacionesclub.com
🎧 Show NotesHighlights & Time Stamps:
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[00:00] Adam & Pris introduce Dulce & Angel of Tentaciones Club
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[04:00] How a banquet hall turned into a lifestyle dream space
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[07:00] The cultural challenges of normalizing swinging in Latino communities
-
[12:00] Building connection, family, and respect inside the club
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[15:00] The power of music, dance, and vibe — reggaetón, bachata, and consent
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[23:00] Fetishization, machismo, and educating new members
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[30:00] How Dulce embraced her bisexuality and Angel learned true communication
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[40:00] The business grind — running a club while raising kids and trading crypto
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[45:00] Upcoming events: Las Santas y los Santos theme night
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[50:00] Virtual walkthrough of the 18,000-square-foot club
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[51:00] Final thoughts and connections
💋 Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris Exploring open relationships, swinging, polyamory, and the real-life stories behind them — with humor, honesty, and heart.
🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Stream on FullSwapRadio.com: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST 📱 Follow Us:
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy
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X / Twitter: @beyomono
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YouTube: Beyond Monogamy Podcast
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Discord: Join the conversation! (link on website)
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]]>It's uncomfortable. It's raw. But it's happening more often than people want to admit. Adam and Pris share personal experiences, listener stories, and hard truths about how boundaries get crossed, why consent isn't a one-time agreement, and how alcohol, pressure, and silence enable abuse inside supposedly "safe" spaces.
From club scenes and takeovers to one-on-one dates, the duo breaks down the difference between flirting and coercion, and why "no" should never be negotiable. They discuss the unspoken struggles many face — especially women and closeted men — around finding their voice, saying no without guilt, and holding others accountable.
Pris opens up about being an advocate for women in the lifestyle, creating code words and safe-word systems for friends at clubs, and the importance of protecting each other — even if that means calling out bad behavior from someone you love. Adam sheds light on the machismo stigma that stops men from reporting when they've been touched without consent, reminding listeners that assault doesn't discriminate by gender.
Together, they stress that being sex-positive means being consent-positive. And that the strength of this community depends on speaking up, watching out for one another, and building spaces where everyone feels safe to explore — not just sexually, but emotionally too.
If you've ever felt unsafe, silenced, or unsure how to react when boundaries are crossed, this episode will remind you that you're not alone. Healing starts with awareness, and awareness begins with conversations like this one.
📝 Show Notes (for Podpage, YouTube description, or Spotify "episode info")
Episode: Quickie – Sexual Assault in the Lifestyle: Why Consent Still Matters
Hosts: Adam & Pris – Beyond Monogamy Podcast
Runtime: ~30 minutes
Tone: Raw, honest, compassionate, empowering
Topics Covered:
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What sexual assault can look like inside the lifestyle
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The dangerous myth that "swingers always consent"
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How alcohol and intoxication blur boundaries
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Why men are often silent victims, too
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How to create safe-word systems with friends at events
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The psychology of freezing during unwanted touch
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How to safely intervene if you see someone uncomfortable
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Rebuilding safety and trust in your lifestyle community
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Why being sex-positive requires being consent-positive
Key Takeaways:
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Consent isn't implied — it's active, ongoing, and revocable.
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Being in the lifestyle doesn't mean being "available."
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Read the room. Respect boundaries. Call out bad behavior.
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Clubs and hosts must create a culture of safety and accountability.
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Every "no" matters — and so does every voice that speaks up.
Resources & Links:
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Visit www.beyond-monogamy.com for blogs, support resources, and past episodes
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Join the community on:
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy and @adam&beyond
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
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Listen every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
CTA:
👉 Like, subscribe, share, and leave a review — your feedback helps keep important conversations like this alive.
It's uncomfortable. It's raw. But it's happening more often than people want to admit. Adam and Pris share personal experiences, listener stories, and hard truths about how boundaries get crossed, why consent isn't a one-time agreement, and how alcohol, pressure, and silence enable abuse inside supposedly "safe" spaces.
From club scenes and takeovers to one-on-one dates, the duo breaks down the difference between flirting and coercion, and why "no" should never be negotiable. They discuss the unspoken struggles many face — especially women and closeted men — around finding their voice, saying no without guilt, and holding others accountable.
Pris opens up about being an advocate for women in the lifestyle, creating code words and safe-word systems for friends at clubs, and the importance of protecting each other — even if that means calling out bad behavior from someone you love. Adam sheds light on the machismo stigma that stops men from reporting when they've been touched without consent, reminding listeners that assault doesn't discriminate by gender.
Together, they stress that being sex-positive means being consent-positive. And that the strength of this community depends on speaking up, watching out for one another, and building spaces where everyone feels safe to explore — not just sexually, but emotionally too.
If you've ever felt unsafe, silenced, or unsure how to react when boundaries are crossed, this episode will remind you that you're not alone. Healing starts with awareness, and awareness begins with conversations like this one.
📝 Show Notes (for Podpage, YouTube description, or Spotify "episode info")Episode: Quickie – Sexual Assault in the Lifestyle: Why Consent Still Matters Hosts: Adam & Pris – Beyond Monogamy Podcast Runtime: ~30 minutes Tone: Raw, honest, compassionate, empowering
Topics Covered:
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What sexual assault can look like inside the lifestyle
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The dangerous myth that "swingers always consent"
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How alcohol and intoxication blur boundaries
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Why men are often silent victims, too
-
How to create safe-word systems with friends at events
-
The psychology of freezing during unwanted touch
-
How to safely intervene if you see someone uncomfortable
-
Rebuilding safety and trust in your lifestyle community
-
Why being sex-positive requires being consent-positive
Key Takeaways:
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Consent isn't implied — it's active, ongoing, and revocable.
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Being in the lifestyle doesn't mean being "available."
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Read the room. Respect boundaries. Call out bad behavior.
-
Clubs and hosts must create a culture of safety and accountability.
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Every "no" matters — and so does every voice that speaks up.
Resources & Links:
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Visit www.beyond-monogamy.com for blogs, support resources, and past episodes
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Join the community on:
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy and @adam&beyond
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
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Listen every Thursday on FullSwapRadio.com at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
CTA: 👉 Like, subscribe, share, and leave a review — your feedback helps keep important conversations like this alive.
]]>Guests: Dan & Lacy of The Swing Nation
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Beacons hub: beacons.ai/theswingnation2
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Events & community: SwingerSociety.net
What we cover
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The accidental launch: Deployed Dan, "Southern Girl" OnlyFans, and a viral upside-down pineapple TikTok that outed them overnight—and why they chose to own it.
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Why the podcast: Long-form answers to the same TikTok questions (jealousy, where to start, boundaries) and building a searchable library for newbies.
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Rules that work for them: Usually same-room full swap, always protection, and group chats over side DMs—with realistic "gray areas" at events.
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When one partner is more sought-after: How they check their egos, keep it respectful, and why "connection first" beats counting notches.
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Clout vs. authentic interest: The awkward moments, being recognized, and why they often play with a trusted circle.
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Community at scale: Discord in the tens of thousands, sell-out takeovers, and trying to be present hosts while the AC breaks and the DJ swaps sets.
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First-timer advice: You don't have to play. Dance, watch, vibe, talk, take baby steps—and be honest about where you're at.
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It's a social club (with optional sex): What keeps people coming back is kindness, connection, and being seen without judgment.
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Creator realities: Shadowbans, banned accounts, and posting 3–5x/day across TikTok/IG/Facebook/X/Clapper/Reddit. Why they chose values-aligned sponsors over generic ad networks.
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What's next: TV conversations under NDA, a new music-festival-meets-hotel-takeover brand, and a quick LA trip in October. Stay tuned.
Links from the episode
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The Swing Nation hub: beacons.ai/theswingnation2
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Swinger Society events/memberships: SwingerSociety.net
Beyond Monogamy essentials
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New episodes weekly + Quickie Wednesdays
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We're on Full Swap Radio Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
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Everything (blogs, transcripts, platforms, merch): www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Socials:
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Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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X/Twitter: @beyomono
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam)
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
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If you enjoyed this convo, like, subscribe, share, and drop a review—it's the easiest way to help us grow the community. Thanks for listening!
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🎙️ Show Notes
Episode Title: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle
Episode Summary:
What happens when your first (or even tenth) swinging experience doesn't go as planned? Adam & Pris dive into how to handle those moments without letting them ruin your outlook on the lifestyle. From bad sex, awkward vibes, or ED issues, they share personal stories and practical strategies for reframing those nights into valuable lessons.
What You'll Hear in This Episode:
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Why one bad swinger night can feel like a dealbreaker (especially for newbies)
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Pris's "no second chances" rule vs. Adam's "everyone deserves another shot" mindset
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The role of communication, forgiveness, and learning in navigating bad encounters
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Red flags that truly are dealbreakers vs. just one-off bad vibes
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How to reset expectations and give the lifestyle another try
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Why some of the best nights happen right after the worst ones
Why This Episode Matters:
So many couples quit the lifestyle after a negative experience. This conversation shows you how to move forward instead of letting one bad night define your entire journey.
Links & Resources:
🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
📱 Follow us on socials:
🎧 Available everywhere you listen: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora & more.
]]>Episode Title: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle
Episode Summary: What happens when your first (or even tenth) swinging experience doesn't go as planned? Adam & Pris dive into how to handle those moments without letting them ruin your outlook on the lifestyle. From bad sex, awkward vibes, or ED issues, they share personal stories and practical strategies for reframing those nights into valuable lessons.
What You'll Hear in This Episode:
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Why one bad swinger night can feel like a dealbreaker (especially for newbies)
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Pris's "no second chances" rule vs. Adam's "everyone deserves another shot" mindset
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The role of communication, forgiveness, and learning in navigating bad encounters
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Red flags that truly are dealbreakers vs. just one-off bad vibes
-
How to reset expectations and give the lifestyle another try
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Why some of the best nights happen right after the worst ones
Why This Episode Matters: So many couples quit the lifestyle after a negative experience. This conversation shows you how to move forward instead of letting one bad night define your entire journey.
Links & Resources: 🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST 📱 Follow us on socials:
🎧 Available everywhere you listen: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora & more.
]]>Jonathan breaks down everything ENM and polyamorous families need to know about child custody risks, de facto parent status, divorce disputes, property ownership, wills, medical directives, employment discrimination, and how judges actually view non-traditional families in court.
Whether you're a swinger, poly, or exploring ENM, this is one of those conversations that could protect your kids, your partners, and your lifestyle. If you've ever worried about being "outed" in court, losing custody, or what happens if your throuple breaks up—this episode is packed with answers.
📝 Show Notes (SEO-Optimized)
Leave us a review! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
Your reviews help Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris grow, get discovered, and keep amazing guests like Jonathan coming on the show.
In this week's episode, we're diving deep into the legal side of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging with Jonathan Lane, a Maryland/DC attorney who is out as poly himself and dedicated to protecting non-traditional families in the courtroom.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:
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⚖️ Custody & Courts — How judges view ENM parents, the "best interest of the child" standard, and why outcomes often depend on your county.
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👩👩👧 De Facto Parent Status — What it means, how it protects non-bio/non-adoptive parents, and the strict criteria involved.
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💔 Divorce & Breakups — Why written agreements, even texts, matter when disputes over cheating or swinging arise.
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🏡 Property, Inheritance & Wills — How throuples/quads can own property together, protect assets, and secure inheritance rights.
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🏥 Medical Directives & Power of Attorney — Why ENM partners should set these up before emergencies.
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👩⚖️ Employment Discrimination — Why "at will" jobs can be risky, and where (Cambridge, Somerville, Berkeley, Oakland) ENM is starting to see protections.
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🌎 Cultural Shifts — How awareness and acceptance of non-monogamy are growing nationwide, even if the laws are still catching up.
Jonathan also shares stories from real cases where polyamory and kink showed up in court, from custody battles to divorce disputes—and what lessons we can all take from them.
🔗 Links & Resources
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Connect with Jonathan Lane: JD Lane Law - www.jdlanelaw.com
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Our socials:
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Stream us every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com
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Visit our website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
Jonathan breaks down everything ENM and polyamorous families need to know about child custody risks, de facto parent status, divorce disputes, property ownership, wills, medical directives, employment discrimination, and how judges actually view non-traditional families in court.
Whether you're a swinger, poly, or exploring ENM, this is one of those conversations that could protect your kids, your partners, and your lifestyle. If you've ever worried about being "outed" in court, losing custody, or what happens if your throuple breaks up—this episode is packed with answers.
📝 Show Notes (SEO-Optimized)Leave us a review! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Your reviews help Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris grow, get discovered, and keep amazing guests like Jonathan coming on the show.
In this week's episode, we're diving deep into the legal side of ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, and swinging with Jonathan Lane, a Maryland/DC attorney who is out as poly himself and dedicated to protecting non-traditional families in the courtroom.
What You'll Learn in This Episode:-
⚖️ Custody & Courts — How judges view ENM parents, the "best interest of the child" standard, and why outcomes often depend on your county.
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👩👩👧 De Facto Parent Status — What it means, how it protects non-bio/non-adoptive parents, and the strict criteria involved.
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💔 Divorce & Breakups — Why written agreements, even texts, matter when disputes over cheating or swinging arise.
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🏡 Property, Inheritance & Wills — How throuples/quads can own property together, protect assets, and secure inheritance rights.
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🏥 Medical Directives & Power of Attorney — Why ENM partners should set these up before emergencies.
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👩⚖️ Employment Discrimination — Why "at will" jobs can be risky, and where (Cambridge, Somerville, Berkeley, Oakland) ENM is starting to see protections.
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🌎 Cultural Shifts — How awareness and acceptance of non-monogamy are growing nationwide, even if the laws are still catching up.
Jonathan also shares stories from real cases where polyamory and kink showed up in court, from custody battles to divorce disputes—and what lessons we can all take from them.
🔗 Links & Resources-
Connect with Jonathan Lane: JD Lane Law - www.jdlanelaw.com
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Our socials:
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Stream us every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com
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Visit our website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
If you love hanging out with us every week, please take a minute to leave us a review, hit that subscribe button, and share the show with your friends. It may not seem like much, but reviews are the lifeblood that keep Beyond Monogamy growing. It only takes a few seconds, and it helps us reach more open-minded, curious, and lifestyle-friendly listeners just like you.
💬 About This Episode
In today's QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into one of those ouch moments almost every couple in the lifestyle has faced:
👉 What do you do when someone makes it crystal clear they're into your spouse… but not into you?
This episode is raw, funny, and a little sting-filled as we unpack:
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Real stories from our own encounters when attraction wasn't mutual.
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How being "the partner left out" can stir up jealousy, frustration, or even self-doubt.
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Why delivery matters — the difference between respectful honesty and underhanded sneaking.
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The role communication plays in softening the sting (and why sugarcoating sometimes happens).
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How to handle being iced out, ignored, or overlooked without letting it kill your confidence.
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Tips for reframing rejection so it doesn't ruin your night — or your relationship.
We don't just talk theory; we get vulnerable about the awkward moments that made us sour, laugh, and learn. And like always, we keep it playful while shining a light on the deeper emotional side of ethical non-monogamy.
🎧 Why Listen?
If you've ever thought "Wait, why don't they want me too?" or if you've had to sit with the sting of rejection in the lifestyle, this episode is for you. We share practical ways to deal with it, plus a few laughs that prove you're not alone.
🔗 Connect With Us
Thanks for listening and supporting Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris!
📲 Follow & Connect:
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST — streaming alongside some of the best voices in the lifestyle community.
]]>In today's QUICKIE, Adam & Pris dive into one of those ouch moments almost every couple in the lifestyle has faced: 👉 What do you do when someone makes it crystal clear they're into your spouse… but not into you?
This episode is raw, funny, and a little sting-filled as we unpack:
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Real stories from our own encounters when attraction wasn't mutual.
-
How being "the partner left out" can stir up jealousy, frustration, or even self-doubt.
-
Why delivery matters — the difference between respectful honesty and underhanded sneaking.
-
The role communication plays in softening the sting (and why sugarcoating sometimes happens).
-
How to handle being iced out, ignored, or overlooked without letting it kill your confidence.
-
Tips for reframing rejection so it doesn't ruin your night — or your relationship.
We don't just talk theory; we get vulnerable about the awkward moments that made us sour, laugh, and learn. And like always, we keep it playful while shining a light on the deeper emotional side of ethical non-monogamy.
🎧 Why Listen?If you've ever thought "Wait, why don't they want me too?" or if you've had to sit with the sting of rejection in the lifestyle, this episode is for you. We share practical ways to deal with it, plus a few laughs that prove you're not alone.
🔗 Connect With UsThanks for listening and supporting Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris!
📲 Follow & Connect:
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
-
TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST — streaming alongside some of the best voices in the lifestyle community.
]]>We're celebrating YOU with a sexy Review Giveaway, sponsored by our friends at Forbidden Fruit – Austin.
Here's how to enter:
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Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify.
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Screenshot it.
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Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at www.beyond-monogamy.com.
📅 Ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025 at 11:59 PM CST
📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025 during our QUICKIE episode + on socials.
Your reviews help new listeners find us — and each entry is a chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit.
This week on Beyond Monogamy, we're joined by the brilliant Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi (aka Rabbi Nikki) — queer, poly, sex-positive rabbi, writer, and educator. Together, we explore how faith, spirituality, and ethical non-monogamy intersect, and how breaking the silence on desire in religious spaces can transform lives.
🔥 Topics include:
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Coming out as polyamorous in religious and professional spaces.
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What sacred texts really say (or don't say) about non-monogamy.
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Queerness, feminism, and sex positivity in modern Jewish life.
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Why honesty, consent, and ethics matter more than outdated dogma.
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Real-life ENM experiences — from dating apps to married life.
Rabbi Nikki brings wisdom, humor, and lived experience to the mic, making this a must-listen for anyone exploring the deeper spiritual side of ethical non-monogamy.
🌐 Guest Links
✨ Learn more about Rabbi Nikki: www.rabbinikki.com
📻 Catch Us Weekly
🎧 Listen on Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube.
📻 Tune in every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on Full Swap Radio.
📲 Follow & Connect
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Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy + @adam&beyond
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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Facebook: /beyondmonogamy4u
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
🙌 Don't forget to like, subscribe, share, and review — your interaction helps us grow, keeps us visible, and fuels future conversations.
]]>Here's how to enter:
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Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify.
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Screenshot it.
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Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at www.beyond-monogamy.com.
📅 Ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025 at 11:59 PM CST 📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025 during our QUICKIE episode + on socials.
Your reviews help new listeners find us — and each entry is a chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit.
This week on Beyond Monogamy, we're joined by the brilliant Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi (aka Rabbi Nikki) — queer, poly, sex-positive rabbi, writer, and educator. Together, we explore how faith, spirituality, and ethical non-monogamy intersect, and how breaking the silence on desire in religious spaces can transform lives.
🔥 Topics include:
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Coming out as polyamorous in religious and professional spaces.
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What sacred texts really say (or don't say) about non-monogamy.
-
Queerness, feminism, and sex positivity in modern Jewish life.
-
Why honesty, consent, and ethics matter more than outdated dogma.
-
Real-life ENM experiences — from dating apps to married life.
Rabbi Nikki brings wisdom, humor, and lived experience to the mic, making this a must-listen for anyone exploring the deeper spiritual side of ethical non-monogamy.
🌐 Guest Links✨ Learn more about Rabbi Nikki: www.rabbinikki.com
📻 Catch Us Weekly🎧 Listen on Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube. 📻 Tune in every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on Full Swap Radio.
📲 Follow & Connect-
Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy + @adam&beyond
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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Facebook: /beyondmonogamy4u
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
🙌 Don't forget to like, subscribe, share, and review — your interaction helps us grow, keeps us visible, and fuels future conversations.
]]>We're giving back to our community with a sexy review giveaway, sponsored by our friends at Forbidden Fruit – Austin. Here's how to enter:
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Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify.
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Screenshot it.
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Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at www.beyond-monogamy.com.
📅 Giveaway ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025, at 11:59 PM CST
📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025, during our QUICKIE episode + across all socials.
Your reviews help new listeners find our show — and every entry boosts your chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit. Don't wait, get your review in today!
🎙 Episode: Would You Rather? ENM Quickie Edition
In this spicy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam and Pris play an unfiltered game of "Would You Rather?" with an ethical non-monogamy twist. From sexy lifestyle scenarios to hilarious couple debates, nothing's off the table.
🔥 Topics we cover:
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House Party vs Lifestyle Club — where would you rather play?
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Flirt all night vs play fast — which gets your motor running?
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Pool party fun vs themed costume parties — which vibe wins?
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Threesome vs Full Swap — which brings more intimacy and connection?
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Watch or be watched? — the ultimate ENM performance question.
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Same-room vs separate-room play — where do couples feel most comfortable?
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Plus: conversations about time in play sessions, neighbor fantasies, sexy yacht vs mansion parties, and even a wild round of glory holes vs blindfolds.
This episode blends humor, personal stories, and real insights into how couples navigate swinging, poly, and ethical non-monogamy in all their messy, fun, and sexy forms.
🌐 Where to Listen & Connect
🎧 Listen everywhere: Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris.
📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST.
📲 Follow & Connect:
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Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy + @adam&beyond
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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Facebook: /beyondmonogamy4u
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
💬 Don't forget to like, subscribe, share, and review — your interaction helps us grow, keeps us visible, and fuels future conversations.
]]>-
Leave us a review on Apple Podcasts (words matter!) or a rating on Spotify.
-
Screenshot it.
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Send it to us on Instagram @beyond_monogamy_4u, Facebook /beyondmonogamy4u, or through the contact page at www.beyond-monogamy.com.
📅 Giveaway ends: Tuesday, September 30, 2025, at 11:59 PM CST 📢 Winners announced: Wednesday, October 1, 2025, during our QUICKIE episode + across all socials.
Your reviews help new listeners find our show — and every entry boosts your chance to win a fun adult toy courtesy of Forbidden Fruit. Don't wait, get your review in today!
🎙 Episode: Would You Rather? ENM Quickie EditionIn this spicy Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam and Pris play an unfiltered game of "Would You Rather?" with an ethical non-monogamy twist. From sexy lifestyle scenarios to hilarious couple debates, nothing's off the table.
🔥 Topics we cover:
-
House Party vs Lifestyle Club — where would you rather play?
-
Flirt all night vs play fast — which gets your motor running?
-
Pool party fun vs themed costume parties — which vibe wins?
-
Threesome vs Full Swap — which brings more intimacy and connection?
-
Watch or be watched? — the ultimate ENM performance question.
-
Same-room vs separate-room play — where do couples feel most comfortable?
-
Plus: conversations about time in play sessions, neighbor fantasies, sexy yacht vs mansion parties, and even a wild round of glory holes vs blindfolds.
This episode blends humor, personal stories, and real insights into how couples navigate swinging, poly, and ethical non-monogamy in all their messy, fun, and sexy forms.
🌐 Where to Listen & Connect🎧 Listen everywhere: Apple, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris. 📻 Catch us on Full Swap Radio every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST.
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Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy + @adam&beyond
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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Facebook: /beyondmonogamy4u
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
💬 Don't forget to like, subscribe, share, and review — your interaction helps us grow, keeps us visible, and fuels future conversations.
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👉 Get spicy perks: Sign up for SDC with promo code 38236
🎧 Episode Summary
What happens when TikTok meets the swinger lifestyle? In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Amber & Jeff—better known as the Savage Swingers. With their bold, funny, and unfiltered approach, Savage Swingers have built a huge following by showing the lifestyle as it really is: messy, sexy, and authentic.
We dive into their story—from a wild tent camping first experience at a music festival, to becoming lifestyle content creators with thousands of followers. Along the way, we laugh about resting bitch face problems, talk through misconceptions about swingers, and explore how communication and education are the real keys to keeping relationships strong.
If you've ever wondered what it's like to live your truth publicly in the ethical non-monogamy world—or you just need some savage laughs with your lifestyle inspo—this episode brings it all.
💡 What You'll Hear in This Episode
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How Savage Swingers went from nervous TikTok posts to lifestyle influencers
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Their not-so-glamorous first experience (tent camping, no A/C, and yep… still fun)
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The biggest swinger lifestyle myths they want to bust
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Why communication + education are everything for newbies
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How they handle jealousy, insecurities, and staying authentic
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What it's really like to be recognized at lifestyle events
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The importance of showing not just the sexy highlights, but the real struggles too
🔑 Keywords & Topics
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Savage Swingers interview
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TikTok swingers
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swinger lifestyle myths
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ethical non-monogamy podcast
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open relationship communication
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ENM content creators
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jealousy and reassurance in swinging
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Beyond Monogamy podcast guests
🔗 Savage Swingers Links
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TikTok: SavageSwingers 1.0, 2.0, 3.0
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YouTube: Savage Swingers
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Patreon: The Savage Swingers
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Website: savageswingers.com
🔗 Beyond Monogamy Links
Find more episodes, blogs, and community spaces at: www.beyond-monogamy.com
Follow us everywhere:
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
Streaming Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.
]]>👉 Join our communities & connect with us off the mic:
👉 Get spicy perks: Sign up for SDC with promo code 38236
🎧 Episode SummaryWhat happens when TikTok meets the swinger lifestyle? In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Amber & Jeff—better known as the Savage Swingers. With their bold, funny, and unfiltered approach, Savage Swingers have built a huge following by showing the lifestyle as it really is: messy, sexy, and authentic.
We dive into their story—from a wild tent camping first experience at a music festival, to becoming lifestyle content creators with thousands of followers. Along the way, we laugh about resting bitch face problems, talk through misconceptions about swingers, and explore how communication and education are the real keys to keeping relationships strong.
If you've ever wondered what it's like to live your truth publicly in the ethical non-monogamy world—or you just need some savage laughs with your lifestyle inspo—this episode brings it all.
💡 What You'll Hear in This Episode-
How Savage Swingers went from nervous TikTok posts to lifestyle influencers
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Their not-so-glamorous first experience (tent camping, no A/C, and yep… still fun)
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The biggest swinger lifestyle myths they want to bust
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Why communication + education are everything for newbies
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How they handle jealousy, insecurities, and staying authentic
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What it's really like to be recognized at lifestyle events
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The importance of showing not just the sexy highlights, but the real struggles too
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Savage Swingers interview
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TikTok swingers
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swinger lifestyle myths
-
ethical non-monogamy podcast
-
open relationship communication
-
ENM content creators
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jealousy and reassurance in swinging
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Beyond Monogamy podcast guests
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TikTok: SavageSwingers 1.0, 2.0, 3.0
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YouTube: Savage Swingers
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Patreon: The Savage Swingers
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Website: savageswingers.com
Find more episodes, blogs, and community spaces at: www.beyond-monogamy.com
Follow us everywhere:
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
Streaming Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.
]]>👉 Leave us a review on our website
👉 Review us on Apple Podcasts
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Episode Summary – QUICKIE: Having The Talk
Starting the journey into ethical non-monogamy isn't about parties or dating apps—it begins with a single conversation: how do you even bring this up with your partner? In this Lifestyle 101 Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get raw, funny, and brutally honest about what that first talk looked like for them (spoiler: it wasn't perfect) and what they've learned along the way.
They share:
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Timing matters – don't drop the "lifestyle bomb" in the middle of a fight or after a few too many drinks.
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The preamble is everything – set the stage gently, ask if your partner is in a good headspace, and be ready for big feelings.
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Insecurities are normal – both men and women may wonder, "Am I not enough?" and that's okay.
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Reassurance isn't optional – words of affirmation, consistent support, and clear communication keep your foundation solid.
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Rules and boundaries – from safe words to texting check-ins, clear agreements protect both your relationship and your fun.
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Consent is sexy – not just with play partners, but between you and your spouse, every step of the way.
Adam & Pris keep it 100% real about jealousy, insecurities, ultimatums, and the mistakes they made as newbies—and they drop practical advice for how couples can avoid the crash-and-burn moments while setting themselves up for success.
At the end of the day, "having the talk" isn't a one-time thing. It's a conversation that will keep evolving with your relationship, and the key is staying honest, open, and connected.
Show Notes
Episode Title: QUICKIE – Having The Talk: Lifestyle 101 with Adam & Pris
Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
In this episode you'll learn:
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Why timing and setting are critical when you bring up non-monogamy.
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How to use a preamble to ease your partner into sensitive conversations.
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The role of reassurance and emotional safety in keeping your relationship strong.
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Why rules, boundaries, and safe words matter for beginners.
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How alcohol and ultimatums can derail healthy conversations.
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The truth about consent—between partners and with others.
Links & Community:
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SDC promo link (Promo code: 38236)
Also streaming on: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, YouTube, and every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.
]]>Starting the journey into ethical non-monogamy isn't about parties or dating apps—it begins with a single conversation: how do you even bring this up with your partner? In this Lifestyle 101 Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get raw, funny, and brutally honest about what that first talk looked like for them (spoiler: it wasn't perfect) and what they've learned along the way.
They share:
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Timing matters – don't drop the "lifestyle bomb" in the middle of a fight or after a few too many drinks.
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The preamble is everything – set the stage gently, ask if your partner is in a good headspace, and be ready for big feelings.
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Insecurities are normal – both men and women may wonder, "Am I not enough?" and that's okay.
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Reassurance isn't optional – words of affirmation, consistent support, and clear communication keep your foundation solid.
-
Rules and boundaries – from safe words to texting check-ins, clear agreements protect both your relationship and your fun.
-
Consent is sexy – not just with play partners, but between you and your spouse, every step of the way.
Adam & Pris keep it 100% real about jealousy, insecurities, ultimatums, and the mistakes they made as newbies—and they drop practical advice for how couples can avoid the crash-and-burn moments while setting themselves up for success.
At the end of the day, "having the talk" isn't a one-time thing. It's a conversation that will keep evolving with your relationship, and the key is staying honest, open, and connected.
Show NotesEpisode Title: QUICKIE – Having The Talk: Lifestyle 101 with Adam & Pris Podcast: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
In this episode you'll learn:
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Why timing and setting are critical when you bring up non-monogamy.
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How to use a preamble to ease your partner into sensitive conversations.
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The role of reassurance and emotional safety in keeping your relationship strong.
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Why rules, boundaries, and safe words matter for beginners.
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How alcohol and ultimatums can derail healthy conversations.
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The truth about consent—between partners and with others.
Links & Community:
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SDC promo link (Promo code: 38236)
Also streaming on: Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, YouTube, and every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.
]]>Francesca opens up about her own journey: from childhood as a natural counselor, to studying psychology, tantra, BDSM, and shamanic practices that connect fantasy with healing. She breaks down the roots of modern kink, leather culture, and polyamory, while challenging myths that label kink as "just trauma" or non-monogamy as "abnormal."
Together, we dive into:
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How fantasies are shaped by trauma, culture, and healing opportunities.
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Sacred Kink practices that transform play into intention, empowerment, and soul connection.
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Addiction vs. vibrancy — how to tell when desire is a compulsion and when it's authentic.
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Erotic hypnosis, empowerment scenes, and fantasy integration for deeper intimacy.
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Menopause & vitality: how to break the cultural curse of aging, embrace bioidentical hormone replacement, and keep passion alive in long-term relationships.
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Jealousy reframed: why Francesca says "don't call it jealousy" and how to uncover the deeper roots of those feelings.
This is one of those episodes that's hot, spiritual, and full of practical wisdom. Whether you're kinky, poly, swinging, or just curious, Francesca brings tools and insights that can change the way you approach intimacy.
Show Notes
🔥 Guest Links & Resources
🎙️ What You'll Learn in This Episode
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The shamanic roots of BDSM and why kink can be sacred.
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How trauma and fantasy connect — and how to heal without losing your desires.
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Why menopause doesn't mean the end of sex (and how to advocate for hormone health).
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Practical ways couples can juggle family, non-monogamy, and still keep intimacy alive.
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How reframing "jealousy" can unlock deeper self-understanding and stronger connections.
💬 Join the Conversation
If Francesca's story and wisdom resonate with you, share this episode with a friend or partner, and let's keep breaking stigmas together.
📲 Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy | @adam&beyond
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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Stream Thursdays on Full Swap Radio at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
👉 Don't forget to like, review, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen. Your support helps us bring on amazing guests like Francesca!
]]>Francesca opens up about her own journey: from childhood as a natural counselor, to studying psychology, tantra, BDSM, and shamanic practices that connect fantasy with healing. She breaks down the roots of modern kink, leather culture, and polyamory, while challenging myths that label kink as "just trauma" or non-monogamy as "abnormal."
Together, we dive into:
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How fantasies are shaped by trauma, culture, and healing opportunities.
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Sacred Kink practices that transform play into intention, empowerment, and soul connection.
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Addiction vs. vibrancy — how to tell when desire is a compulsion and when it's authentic.
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Erotic hypnosis, empowerment scenes, and fantasy integration for deeper intimacy.
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Menopause & vitality: how to break the cultural curse of aging, embrace bioidentical hormone replacement, and keep passion alive in long-term relationships.
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Jealousy reframed: why Francesca says "don't call it jealousy" and how to uncover the deeper roots of those feelings.
This is one of those episodes that's hot, spiritual, and full of practical wisdom. Whether you're kinky, poly, swinging, or just curious, Francesca brings tools and insights that can change the way you approach intimacy.
Show Notes🔥 Guest Links & Resources
🎙️ What You'll Learn in This Episode
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The shamanic roots of BDSM and why kink can be sacred.
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How trauma and fantasy connect — and how to heal without losing your desires.
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Why menopause doesn't mean the end of sex (and how to advocate for hormone health).
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Practical ways couples can juggle family, non-monogamy, and still keep intimacy alive.
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How reframing "jealousy" can unlock deeper self-understanding and stronger connections.
💬 Join the Conversation If Francesca's story and wisdom resonate with you, share this episode with a friend or partner, and let's keep breaking stigmas together.
📲 Connect with Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy | @adam&beyond
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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Stream Thursdays on Full Swap Radio at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
👉 Don't forget to like, review, and subscribe on Spotify, Apple, or wherever you listen. Your support helps us bring on amazing guests like Francesca!
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🎙️ Episode Summary
In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive deep into the world of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, and everything in between. We talk real stories, messy moments, and the kind of raw honesty you won't find anywhere else. If you've ever wondered what it's actually like to navigate relationships beyond traditional monogamy, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a few surprises.
Whether you're a seasoned swinger, exploring polyamory, or just curious about ENM (ethical non-monogamy), we break down the lifestyle in a way that's both relatable and real.
📌 Show Notes
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Topics covered: consent, communication, jealousy, swinging etiquette, and the unglamorous truths of the lifestyle.
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Why listen? This isn't a "highlight reel"—it's the authentic ups, downs, and everything in between that make non-monogamy real.
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SEO keywords woven in: swinging podcast, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory relationships, ENM community, lifestyle couples, consensual non-monogamy stories.
🌐 Connect With Us
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Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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X / Twitter: @beyomono
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
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Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
⚡ Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share—your reviews and community support help us grow and keep creating raw, unfiltered conversations about love, sex, and everything beyond monogamy.
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In this week's episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive deep into the world of ethical non-monogamy, swinging, polyamory, and everything in between. We talk real stories, messy moments, and the kind of raw honesty you won't find anywhere else. If you've ever wondered what it's actually like to navigate relationships beyond traditional monogamy, this episode is packed with insights, laughs, and a few surprises.
Whether you're a seasoned swinger, exploring polyamory, or just curious about ENM (ethical non-monogamy), we break down the lifestyle in a way that's both relatable and real.
📌 Show Notes-
Topics covered: consent, communication, jealousy, swinging etiquette, and the unglamorous truths of the lifestyle.
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Why listen? This isn't a "highlight reel"—it's the authentic ups, downs, and everything in between that make non-monogamy real.
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SEO keywords woven in: swinging podcast, ethical non-monogamy, polyamory relationships, ENM community, lifestyle couples, consensual non-monogamy stories.
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Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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X / Twitter: @beyomono
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
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Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST
⚡ Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share—your reviews and community support help us grow and keep creating raw, unfiltered conversations about love, sex, and everything beyond monogamy.
]]>Click here: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com/reviews/new/
Your reviews aren't just kind words—they're fuel. They help us climb the podcast charts, bring in more incredible guests, and keep the conversation about ethical non-monogamy real, raw, and unfiltered. So hit that link, drop a few stars (we love the shiny 5's ✨), and let us know how we're doing.
💻 Episode Summary
This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're diving into a topic that every swinger, poly couple, and ethically non-monogamous adventurer should have on their radar: catfishing in the lifestyle.
No, not fishing in swamps or noodling in muddy rivers—we're talking about people pretending to be someone they're not online, sliding into lifestyle spaces with fake photos, shady profiles, and sometimes even predatory intentions.
From AOL chatrooms and puppy-love disasters to today's TikTok scammers asking Adam for $45 nail money (yes, that happened), we unpack decades of personal stories, listener anecdotes, and lifestyle lessons. We break down:
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🎭 The Types of Catfish:
– Filter fiends & "20-year-old" photos
– Fake couples (ahem… actually just one lonely guy)
– Profiles with pro-model shots only
– "I swear my partner knows!"… when they don't
– The scammers fishing for your nudes (and why we don't trade pics unless you're real) -
🚩 Red Flags to Watch For:
– No face pics
– Always "too busy" to meet or video chat
– Overeager for nudes or instant hookups
– Stories that just don't add up -
💔 The Fallout:
– Emotional letdowns & wasted time
– Safety concerns, especially for women
– Erosion of trust in lifestyle communities
– Why a single lie makes people wonder, "What else are they hiding?" -
🛡️ Protect Yourself:
– Video verify (FaceTime, Messenger, Zoom—anything live)
– Meet first at lifestyle clubs or trusted meet & greets
– Cross-reference profiles on sites like SDC, SLS, Kasidie
– Build a trusted network who can vouch for people
– And above all—trust your gut. If it feels off, it probably is.
Through all the laughs and real talk, Adam and Pris remind us that the lifestyle is built on trust, consent, and honesty. Without that, the sexy adventures we love lose their magic.
🔥 Key Takeaway
Catfishing isn't just annoying—it can be unsafe. Protect yourself, protect your community, and keep the fun alive by staying vigilant and unapologetically real.
📣 Join the Conversation
We want YOUR stories! Have you ever been catfished in the lifestyle? Drop us a voicemail, send a message, or hit us up on our socials. We might even feature your story in a future QUICKIE episode.
📺 Where to Listen & Watch
Catch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris everywhere podcasts stream:
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Apple Podcasts
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Spotify
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Amazon Music
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Pandora
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iHeartRadio
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YouTube → @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
And don't forget—you can also find us on FullSwapRadio.com, streaming every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST.
🌐 Connect With Us
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Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam)
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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Remember—you are part of our community, and our community is our family. 💜
]]>Your reviews aren't just kind words—they're fuel. They help us climb the podcast charts, bring in more incredible guests, and keep the conversation about ethical non-monogamy real, raw, and unfiltered. So hit that link, drop a few stars (we love the shiny 5's ✨), and let us know how we're doing.
💻 Episode SummaryThis week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we're diving into a topic that every swinger, poly couple, and ethically non-monogamous adventurer should have on their radar: catfishing in the lifestyle.
No, not fishing in swamps or noodling in muddy rivers—we're talking about people pretending to be someone they're not online, sliding into lifestyle spaces with fake photos, shady profiles, and sometimes even predatory intentions.
From AOL chatrooms and puppy-love disasters to today's TikTok scammers asking Adam for $45 nail money (yes, that happened), we unpack decades of personal stories, listener anecdotes, and lifestyle lessons. We break down:
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🎭 The Types of Catfish: – Filter fiends & "20-year-old" photos – Fake couples (ahem… actually just one lonely guy) – Profiles with pro-model shots only – "I swear my partner knows!"… when they don't – The scammers fishing for your nudes (and why we don't trade pics unless you're real)
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🚩 Red Flags to Watch For: – No face pics – Always "too busy" to meet or video chat – Overeager for nudes or instant hookups – Stories that just don't add up
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💔 The Fallout: – Emotional letdowns & wasted time – Safety concerns, especially for women – Erosion of trust in lifestyle communities – Why a single lie makes people wonder, "What else are they hiding?"
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🛡️ Protect Yourself: – Video verify (FaceTime, Messenger, Zoom—anything live) – Meet first at lifestyle clubs or trusted meet & greets – Cross-reference profiles on sites like SDC, SLS, Kasidie – Build a trusted network who can vouch for people – And above all—trust your gut. If it feels off, it probably is.
Through all the laughs and real talk, Adam and Pris remind us that the lifestyle is built on trust, consent, and honesty. Without that, the sexy adventures we love lose their magic.
🔥 Key TakeawayCatfishing isn't just annoying—it can be unsafe. Protect yourself, protect your community, and keep the fun alive by staying vigilant and unapologetically real.
📣 Join the ConversationWe want YOUR stories! Have you ever been catfished in the lifestyle? Drop us a voicemail, send a message, or hit us up on our socials. We might even feature your story in a future QUICKIE episode.
📺 Where to Listen & WatchCatch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris everywhere podcasts stream:
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Apple Podcasts
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Spotify
-
Amazon Music
-
Pandora
-
iHeartRadio
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YouTube → @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
And don't forget—you can also find us on FullSwapRadio.com, streaming every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST.
🌐 Connect With Us-
Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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X (Twitter): @beyomono
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam)
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
If you enjoyed this episode:
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⭐ Leave us a review → Review Us Here
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👍 Like, share, and subscribe on YouTube
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🔄 Share the podcast with your lifestyle friends and communities
Remember—you are part of our community, and our community is our family. 💜
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Title: QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?
Description:
In this week's QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get messy (literally) with a raw and funny conversation about cum. Why do some love it while others hate it? Is swallowing a turn-on or a dealbreaker? What role does diet play in taste? And how does cum play fit into the swinger lifestyle with all its rules, boundaries, and safety concerns?
From embarrassing stories and personal kinks to the psychology of facials and cream pies, this episode is all about opening up the conversation — sticky jokes included.
You'll Hear About:
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Why porn creates unrealistic cum expectations
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Swallowing vs. spitting (and why consent always matters)
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The psychology behind facials and cream pies
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Cum rules in the swinger lifestyle
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How diet, hydration, and habits affect taste
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Turn-ons, turn-offs, and awkward cum moments
Links & Info:
👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube
👉 Streaming every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on Full Swap Radio
👉 Follow us on socials for giveaways coming in September:
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
Don't forget to like, subscribe, and review — it helps us grow!
]]>Title: QUICKIE: Cum Talk – Love It, Hate It, or Wipe It Off?
Description: In this week's QUICKIE, Adam & Pris get messy (literally) with a raw and funny conversation about cum. Why do some love it while others hate it? Is swallowing a turn-on or a dealbreaker? What role does diet play in taste? And how does cum play fit into the swinger lifestyle with all its rules, boundaries, and safety concerns?
From embarrassing stories and personal kinks to the psychology of facials and cream pies, this episode is all about opening up the conversation — sticky jokes included.
You'll Hear About:
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Why porn creates unrealistic cum expectations
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Swallowing vs. spitting (and why consent always matters)
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The psychology behind facials and cream pies
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Cum rules in the swinger lifestyle
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How diet, hydration, and habits affect taste
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Turn-ons, turn-offs, and awkward cum moments
Links & Info: 👉 Listen on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Amazon Music, Pandora, iHeartRadio, and YouTube 👉 Streaming every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on Full Swap Radio 👉 Follow us on socials for giveaways coming in September:
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
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YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
Don't forget to like, subscribe, and review — it helps us grow!
]]>Paul shares insider insights on why people seek out alternative relationship styles, what their massive trove of real-world data reveals about the future of monogamy, and how 20% of members now identify as "disclosed non-monogamous"—meaning their partners are aware of, or even participate in, their activity on the site.
We dive into cultural shifts, surprising academic studies (like research showing 80% of women on the platform are in sexless or orgasm-less marriages, while men often join seeking emotional validation), and the myths that mainstream society gets wrong about ethical non-monogamy.
And yes, we also got some juicy behind-the-scenes details—like why France is Ashley Madison's weakest market (because infidelity is already culturally normalized!) and the story of Bobby Goldman, aka The Curvy Widow, who turned her Ashley Madison adventures into an off-Broadway play.
Whether you're curious about the lifestyle, actively practicing ethical non-monogamy, or just fascinated by the psychology of relationships, this episode peels back the stereotypes and gives you an inside look at how monogamy and non-monogamy are evolving in 2025 and beyond.
📌 Show Notes & Key Takeaways
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Guest: Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer, Ashley Madison
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Ashley Madison Facts:
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🌎 85+ million members worldwide
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📊 Roughly 1.13 active women for every 1 active paid man account (yes, women are there!)
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🔐 Features include private photo lockers, stealth mode, and discretion tools to protect user privacy
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💡 Fun fact: Ashley Madison has even been parodied on The Simpsons, proving its cultural impact
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Hot Topics Discussed:
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Why monogamy shouldn't always be the default
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How women often lead the transition into non-monogamy
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The "One Penis Policy" red flag in lifestyle dynamics
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Why toys aren't competition—they're allies
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How better communication = stronger relationships, monogamous or not
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Memorable Quote: "When monogamy becomes monotony." – Paul Keable
🔗 Connect With Us
👉 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
👉 YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
👉 Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
👉 TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond
👉 X (Twitter): @beyomono
👉 Facebook: Beyond Monogamy
👉 Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
👉 Full Swap Radio: Catch us every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com
💬 Call to Action
If you loved this episode, please take a moment to like, subscribe, share, and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you listen. Reviews help us grow and reach more open-minded people like you—and if your review makes us laugh or smile, we might just read it on a future show!
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Paul shares insider insights on why people seek out alternative relationship styles, what their massive trove of real-world data reveals about the future of monogamy, and how 20% of members now identify as "disclosed non-monogamous"—meaning their partners are aware of, or even participate in, their activity on the site.
We dive into cultural shifts, surprising academic studies (like research showing 80% of women on the platform are in sexless or orgasm-less marriages, while men often join seeking emotional validation), and the myths that mainstream society gets wrong about ethical non-monogamy.
And yes, we also got some juicy behind-the-scenes details—like why France is Ashley Madison's weakest market (because infidelity is already culturally normalized!) and the story of Bobby Goldman, aka The Curvy Widow, who turned her Ashley Madison adventures into an off-Broadway play.
Whether you're curious about the lifestyle, actively practicing ethical non-monogamy, or just fascinated by the psychology of relationships, this episode peels back the stereotypes and gives you an inside look at how monogamy and non-monogamy are evolving in 2025 and beyond.
📌 Show Notes & Key Takeaways-
Guest: Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer, Ashley Madison
-
Ashley Madison Facts:
-
🌎 85+ million members worldwide
-
📊 Roughly 1.13 active women for every 1 active paid man account (yes, women are there!)
-
🔐 Features include private photo lockers, stealth mode, and discretion tools to protect user privacy
-
💡 Fun fact: Ashley Madison has even been parodied on The Simpsons, proving its cultural impact
-
-
Hot Topics Discussed:
-
Why monogamy shouldn't always be the default
-
How women often lead the transition into non-monogamy
-
The "One Penis Policy" red flag in lifestyle dynamics
-
Why toys aren't competition—they're allies
-
How better communication = stronger relationships, monogamous or not
-
-
Memorable Quote: "When monogamy becomes monotony." – Paul Keable
👉 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 👉 YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris 👉 Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u 👉 TikTok: @beyond.monogamy & @adam&beyond 👉 X (Twitter): @beyomono 👉 Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 👉 Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy 👉 Full Swap Radio: Catch us every Thursday at 1 PM & 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com
💬 Call to ActionIf you loved this episode, please take a moment to like, subscribe, share, and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, YouTube, or wherever you listen. Reviews help us grow and reach more open-minded people like you—and if your review makes us laugh or smile, we might just read it on a future show!
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🕒 Episode Timeline Highlights
[00:02] – The "All Swingers Are Hot" Myth
Adam & Pris admit they once thought swingers were all gym-bodied models. Reality check? Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, and vibes. Ads and social media only show the "highlight reel." Real life = regular people who just happen to be into consensual non-monogamy.
[00:05] – Swinging = Cheating?
Nope! Swinging is built on consent and honesty, not sneaking around. Pris shares how people back home used to tell her to "just cheat" instead of being openly poly. Spoiler: that's not how ethical non-monogamy works.
[00:07] – Orgies Everywhere?
The stereotype says swinger parties are non-stop sex. Reality? Many parties are more drinks than dicks. Some are social, some are DTF, but not every event turns into a late-night orgy fest.
[00:09] – Jealousy Doesn't Exist?
Pris calls herself "territorial, not jealous," while Adam confesses he gets a little turned on when other people want Pris. Bottom line: jealousy happens — it's human nature. Communication keeps it from blowing up.
[00:11] – Only People in Their 20s Do It
Big myth. Most community members are in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Twentysomethings may play on apps or college parties, but real community and connection usually grow later.
[00:14] – Midlife Crisis Stereotype
Swinging isn't just about "key parties for suburban boomers." Sure, some discover it later in life, but Adam & Pris argue it's more about freedom, empty-nest energy, and exploring fantasies — not a "crisis."
[00:17] – The Pineapple Obsession
Ah yes, the iconic upside-down pineapple. It is everywhere, but not everyone rocking one is in the lifestyle. Some folks are just really into tropical fruit or… hospitality tattoos.
[00:20] – Always DTF, All the Time?
Nope. Swingers aren't horny robots. Most prefer conversation, connection, and consent over "let's bang strangers immediately."
[00:22] – No Boundaries?
Swingers may actually have more boundaries than the "vanilla" world. From soft swap rules to consent culture, boundaries are what make it work.
[00:23] – It's Just White, Middle-Class Couples
False. Adam & Pris (both Hispanic) point out how diverse lifestyle communities really are.
[00:25] – Everyone Is Bi
Not true. Some are, some aren't. And no, two men and a woman in a threesome doesn't automatically mean the guys are gay. Inside the lifestyle, the "all women are bi" stereotype is also exaggerated.
[00:27] – Swingers Only Club & Party
Sure, some love it, but many are just as happy brunching, binging Netflix, or chilling with lifestyle friends. Not every weekend ends with strobe lights and a playroom.
[00:28-30] – Funny Extras & Inside Jokes
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All swingers own hot tubs (if only).
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Black silicone wedding bands = swinger "flag" (or maybe just gym wear).
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All men are porn-star sized (false).
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Eye contact = "I want you" (false, sometimes you're just listening).
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"Practice makes perfect" → Maybe swingers are better lovers? Adam & Pris lean toward yes.
😂 Examples of Stereotypes
From Outside the Lifestyle:
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Swinging = cheating.
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Everyone's bisexual.
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Swingers are all white, rich, and midlife crisis couples.
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Every party = giant orgy.
From Inside the Lifestyle:
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The "real unicorn" is a straight woman.
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Black wedding rings, pineapple tattoos, or hot tubs = guaranteed swinger.
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All lifestyle men have mustaches (really?).
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"Practice makes perfect" — swingers are assumed to be expert lovers.
🔑 Takeaway
Most stereotypes are laughable at best and damaging at worst. The lifestyle is as diverse and unique as the people in it. It's not about fitting a pineapple-shaped mold — it's about honesty, fun, and writing your own story.
📢 Get Connected
Catch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris every Thursday at 1 PM and 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.
👉 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
👉 Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u
👉 Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
👉 TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam)
👉 X (Twitter): @beyomono
👉 Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
👉 YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
💬 Like, share, subscribe, and drop us a review anywhere you listen — or leave us a voice message straight from our website. Your support helps us keep busting myths (and maybe a few bedsprings along the way).
]]>[00:02] – The "All Swingers Are Hot" Myth Adam & Pris admit they once thought swingers were all gym-bodied models. Reality check? Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, and vibes. Ads and social media only show the "highlight reel." Real life = regular people who just happen to be into consensual non-monogamy.
[00:05] – Swinging = Cheating? Nope! Swinging is built on consent and honesty, not sneaking around. Pris shares how people back home used to tell her to "just cheat" instead of being openly poly. Spoiler: that's not how ethical non-monogamy works.
[00:07] – Orgies Everywhere? The stereotype says swinger parties are non-stop sex. Reality? Many parties are more drinks than dicks. Some are social, some are DTF, but not every event turns into a late-night orgy fest.
[00:09] – Jealousy Doesn't Exist? Pris calls herself "territorial, not jealous," while Adam confesses he gets a little turned on when other people want Pris. Bottom line: jealousy happens — it's human nature. Communication keeps it from blowing up.
[00:11] – Only People in Their 20s Do It Big myth. Most community members are in their 30s, 40s, and 50s. Twentysomethings may play on apps or college parties, but real community and connection usually grow later.
[00:14] – Midlife Crisis Stereotype Swinging isn't just about "key parties for suburban boomers." Sure, some discover it later in life, but Adam & Pris argue it's more about freedom, empty-nest energy, and exploring fantasies — not a "crisis."
[00:17] – The Pineapple Obsession Ah yes, the iconic upside-down pineapple. It is everywhere, but not everyone rocking one is in the lifestyle. Some folks are just really into tropical fruit or… hospitality tattoos.
[00:20] – Always DTF, All the Time? Nope. Swingers aren't horny robots. Most prefer conversation, connection, and consent over "let's bang strangers immediately."
[00:22] – No Boundaries? Swingers may actually have more boundaries than the "vanilla" world. From soft swap rules to consent culture, boundaries are what make it work.
[00:23] – It's Just White, Middle-Class Couples False. Adam & Pris (both Hispanic) point out how diverse lifestyle communities really are.
[00:25] – Everyone Is Bi Not true. Some are, some aren't. And no, two men and a woman in a threesome doesn't automatically mean the guys are gay. Inside the lifestyle, the "all women are bi" stereotype is also exaggerated.
[00:27] – Swingers Only Club & Party Sure, some love it, but many are just as happy brunching, binging Netflix, or chilling with lifestyle friends. Not every weekend ends with strobe lights and a playroom.
[00:28-30] – Funny Extras & Inside Jokes
-
All swingers own hot tubs (if only).
-
Black silicone wedding bands = swinger "flag" (or maybe just gym wear).
-
All men are porn-star sized (false).
-
Eye contact = "I want you" (false, sometimes you're just listening).
-
"Practice makes perfect" → Maybe swingers are better lovers? Adam & Pris lean toward yes.
From Outside the Lifestyle:
-
Swinging = cheating.
-
Everyone's bisexual.
-
Swingers are all white, rich, and midlife crisis couples.
-
Every party = giant orgy.
From Inside the Lifestyle:
-
The "real unicorn" is a straight woman.
-
Black wedding rings, pineapple tattoos, or hot tubs = guaranteed swinger.
-
All lifestyle men have mustaches (really?).
-
"Practice makes perfect" — swingers are assumed to be expert lovers.
Most stereotypes are laughable at best and damaging at worst. The lifestyle is as diverse and unique as the people in it. It's not about fitting a pineapple-shaped mold — it's about honesty, fun, and writing your own story.
📢 Get ConnectedCatch Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris every Thursday at 1 PM and 6 PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com.
👉 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 👉 Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u 👉 Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u 👉 TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) & @adam&beyond (Adam) 👉 X (Twitter): @beyomono 👉 Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy 👉 YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
💬 Like, share, subscribe, and drop us a review anywhere you listen — or leave us a voice message straight from our website. Your support helps us keep busting myths (and maybe a few bedsprings along the way).
]]>Adam and Pris get personal, funny, and brutally honest about their own experiences in the swinging lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. They share stories of performance anxiety, distractions, delayed ejaculation, women who take a long time (or never) to orgasm, and the mental tricks that can get in the way of the Big O. Plus, they bust through common myths like:
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"Men always finish."
-
"If he doesn't orgasm, he's not attracted to me."
-
"Women orgasm easily during penetration."
-
"Toys mean I'm not enough."
-
"If it didn't end in orgasm, it was bad sex."
This episode isn't just about sex mechanics — it's about shifting perspective, communication, and celebrating pleasure in all its forms (with or without the finish line).
Episode Highlights with Timestamps
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[00:02:00] Adam shares a recent play experience where a partner admitted she rarely orgasms — and why communication made the moment better.
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[00:04:00] Pris reveals how few partners have been able to make her orgasm, and the shift she made in openly sharing what works for her.
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[00:07:00] The story of a "gold star lesbian" partner and Pris faking it… until she didn't.
-
[00:09:30] Adam admits how distractions, stress, and even clocks in the room have blocked his ability to finish.
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[00:12:00] The impact of alcohol, drugs, and overstimulation on men's ability to orgasm.
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[00:16:00] Myth-busting: "Men always finish" and the pressure behind it.
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[00:18:00] Myth-busting: "If he doesn't finish, he's not attracted to me."
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[00:23:00] Adam's story about lasting for hours at 19 and how cultural myths about "lasting forever" shaped his views.
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[00:26:00] Myth-busting: "If she doesn't orgasm, I failed as a lover."
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[00:28:00] Discussion on toys: helpers, not competitors.
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[00:34:00] Squirting ≠ orgasm — important distinctions.
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[00:38:00] Adam on the insecurity of thinking women only wanted Pris, not him.
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[00:45:00] Locker room talk, cultural machismo, and how bragging about "orgasms achieved" feeds insecurity.
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[00:50:00] The psychology of orgasm, fantasies, and why some men come quicker with new partners.
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[00:53:00] How shifting perception from "must orgasm" to "enjoy the ride" changes everything.
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[00:57:00] Call to listeners: Share your "when the Big O didn't happen" stories for a future QUICKIE episode.
Show Notes
Welcome to another wild and real conversation on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris. In this episode, When the Big O Doesn't Happen, we tackle one of the most common, yet rarely talked about, experiences in sex: what happens when someone can't finish.
👉 We discuss performance anxiety, pressure, myths, insecurities, swinging lifestyle dynamics, and how to shift focus toward connection and pleasure instead of just chasing orgasms.
👉 Whether you're exploring the swinger lifestyle, polyamory, or ethical non-monogamy, this episode offers laughs, relatability, and some practical reassurance that you're not alone when the Big O doesn't make an appearance.
Where to Listen & Connect
✨ Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
✨ Full Swap Radio: Catch us streaming every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com
✨ YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris — don't forget to subscribe (help Adam get his plaque 👀)
✨ Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U
✨ Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
✨ X (Twitter): @beyomono
✨ TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) | @adam&beyond (Adam)
✨ Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
Support the Show
💬 We want your stories! Have you ever been in a situation where the Big O didn't happen? Send us your story at www.beyond-monogamy.com or leave us a voicemail. We may feature you in a future QUICKIE episode!
👍 Like, 💌 Share, ✅ Subscribe, and ⭐️ Leave us a review on your favorite platform or directly on our website. Reviews help more people discover the show and keep the conversations flowing.
]]>Adam and Pris get personal, funny, and brutally honest about their own experiences in the swinging lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy. They share stories of performance anxiety, distractions, delayed ejaculation, women who take a long time (or never) to orgasm, and the mental tricks that can get in the way of the Big O. Plus, they bust through common myths like:
-
"Men always finish."
-
"If he doesn't orgasm, he's not attracted to me."
-
"Women orgasm easily during penetration."
-
"Toys mean I'm not enough."
-
"If it didn't end in orgasm, it was bad sex."
This episode isn't just about sex mechanics — it's about shifting perspective, communication, and celebrating pleasure in all its forms (with or without the finish line).
Episode Highlights with Timestamps-
[00:02:00] Adam shares a recent play experience where a partner admitted she rarely orgasms — and why communication made the moment better.
-
[00:04:00] Pris reveals how few partners have been able to make her orgasm, and the shift she made in openly sharing what works for her.
-
[00:07:00] The story of a "gold star lesbian" partner and Pris faking it… until she didn't.
-
[00:09:30] Adam admits how distractions, stress, and even clocks in the room have blocked his ability to finish.
-
[00:12:00] The impact of alcohol, drugs, and overstimulation on men's ability to orgasm.
-
[00:16:00] Myth-busting: "Men always finish" and the pressure behind it.
-
[00:18:00] Myth-busting: "If he doesn't finish, he's not attracted to me."
-
[00:23:00] Adam's story about lasting for hours at 19 and how cultural myths about "lasting forever" shaped his views.
-
[00:26:00] Myth-busting: "If she doesn't orgasm, I failed as a lover."
-
[00:28:00] Discussion on toys: helpers, not competitors.
-
[00:34:00] Squirting ≠ orgasm — important distinctions.
-
[00:38:00] Adam on the insecurity of thinking women only wanted Pris, not him.
-
[00:45:00] Locker room talk, cultural machismo, and how bragging about "orgasms achieved" feeds insecurity.
-
[00:50:00] The psychology of orgasm, fantasies, and why some men come quicker with new partners.
-
[00:53:00] How shifting perception from "must orgasm" to "enjoy the ride" changes everything.
-
[00:57:00] Call to listeners: Share your "when the Big O didn't happen" stories for a future QUICKIE episode.
Welcome to another wild and real conversation on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris. In this episode, When the Big O Doesn't Happen, we tackle one of the most common, yet rarely talked about, experiences in sex: what happens when someone can't finish.
👉 We discuss performance anxiety, pressure, myths, insecurities, swinging lifestyle dynamics, and how to shift focus toward connection and pleasure instead of just chasing orgasms.
👉 Whether you're exploring the swinger lifestyle, polyamory, or ethical non-monogamy, this episode offers laughs, relatability, and some practical reassurance that you're not alone when the Big O doesn't make an appearance.
Where to Listen & Connect✨ Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com ✨ Full Swap Radio: Catch us streaming every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM CST on FullSwapRadio.com ✨ YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris — don't forget to subscribe (help Adam get his plaque 👀) ✨ Facebook: Beyond Monogamy 4U ✨ Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u ✨ X (Twitter): @beyomono ✨ TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) | @adam&beyond (Adam) ✨ Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
Support the Show💬 We want your stories! Have you ever been in a situation where the Big O didn't happen? Send us your story at www.beyond-monogamy.com or leave us a voicemail. We may feature you in a future QUICKIE episode!
👍 Like, 💌 Share, ✅ Subscribe, and ⭐️ Leave us a review on your favorite platform or directly on our website. Reviews help more people discover the show and keep the conversations flowing.
]]>This fun, candid conversation covers mismatched libidos, how to keep sex exciting after years together, the realities of high sex drive relationships, and how lifestyle couples often break the mold. They discuss "wrong" times for sex, how menopause can shift desire, and even the role of toys, lube, and experimentation in keeping the spark alive. Adam and Pris also touch on the emotional side — insecurities, communication, and what to do when one partner just isn't in the mood.
Whether you're having daily "bang-a-thons," enjoying slow-burn intimacy, or wondering how to spice things up, this episode blends humor, honesty, and practical advice for couples in and out of the lifestyle. It's equal parts sexy banter, relationship insight, and playful oversharing — just the way Beyond Monogamy listeners love it.
Show Notes:
Topics Covered:
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Adam & Pris's personal sex frequency (spoiler: it's a lot) vs. national averages
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Why lifestyle couples may naturally have more sex than vanilla couples
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"Wrong" times for sex (and why Adam thinks they don't exist)
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How high libidos can be both a blessing and a scheduling challenge
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The effect of menopause, stress, and life changes on sexual desire
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Strategies for keeping sex fresh after years together — toys, positions, new experiences
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Navigating mismatched sex drives and maintaining intimacy
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The emotional side: insecurity, compersion, and lifestyle dynamics
-
Pills, patches, and creams — medications that can help with libido issues
-
Fun personal stories, including why ribs and milkshakes once led to truck hookups
Listen on Our Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
Catch Us on Full Swap Radio: Streaming every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM EST alongside other amazing lifestyle podcasts — FullSwapRadio.com
Follow & Connect with Us:
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Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u
-
Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
-
X / Twitter: @beyomono
-
TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) | @adam&beyond (Adam)
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Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
-
YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
Support the Show:
If you love what we do, help us grow! Like, share, subscribe, and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform. We read every single one (usually while naked), and your feedback helps us reach more sexy, open-minded listeners like you.
This fun, candid conversation covers mismatched libidos, how to keep sex exciting after years together, the realities of high sex drive relationships, and how lifestyle couples often break the mold. They discuss "wrong" times for sex, how menopause can shift desire, and even the role of toys, lube, and experimentation in keeping the spark alive. Adam and Pris also touch on the emotional side — insecurities, communication, and what to do when one partner just isn't in the mood.
Whether you're having daily "bang-a-thons," enjoying slow-burn intimacy, or wondering how to spice things up, this episode blends humor, honesty, and practical advice for couples in and out of the lifestyle. It's equal parts sexy banter, relationship insight, and playful oversharing — just the way Beyond Monogamy listeners love it.
Show Notes:Topics Covered:
-
Adam & Pris's personal sex frequency (spoiler: it's a lot) vs. national averages
-
Why lifestyle couples may naturally have more sex than vanilla couples
-
"Wrong" times for sex (and why Adam thinks they don't exist)
-
How high libidos can be both a blessing and a scheduling challenge
-
The effect of menopause, stress, and life changes on sexual desire
-
Strategies for keeping sex fresh after years together — toys, positions, new experiences
-
Navigating mismatched sex drives and maintaining intimacy
-
The emotional side: insecurity, compersion, and lifestyle dynamics
-
Pills, patches, and creams — medications that can help with libido issues
-
Fun personal stories, including why ribs and milkshakes once led to truck hookups
Listen on Our Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
Catch Us on Full Swap Radio: Streaming every Thursday at 2PM & 7PM EST alongside other amazing lifestyle podcasts — FullSwapRadio.com
Follow & Connect with Us:
-
Facebook: facebook.com/beyondmonogamy4u
-
Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
-
X / Twitter: @beyomono
-
TikTok: @beyond.monogamy (Pris) | @adam&beyond (Adam)
-
Reddit: r/beyond_monogamy
-
YouTube: @BeyondMonogamywithAdamPris
Support the Show: If you love what we do, help us grow! Like, share, subscribe, and leave us a review on your favorite podcast platform. We read every single one (usually while naked), and your feedback helps us reach more sexy, open-minded listeners like you.
]]>You'll hear the behind-the-scenes truth about juggling a packed LS schedule, family life, work, and the mental/emotional load that comes with always being "on" socially and sexually. They get into:
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Signs you're in a lifestyle rut (and why it's totally normal)
-
How social burnout and "swinger hangovers" sneak up on you
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Financial, family, and time realities no one talks about
-
The mental load of playing with new partners vs. your long-term partner
-
Fresh ways to recharge: new events, exploring kinks, changing your social circle
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Why reconnecting with your partner might be the ultimate fix
Whether you're brand-new to the Lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, this episode will have you nodding, laughing, and maybe rethinking your weekend plans.
Show Notes
Feeling like your swinger lifestyle has gone from hot to not? You're not alone. In this week's Beyond Monogamy Podcast, Adam & Pris talk openly about hitting a lifestyle lull—what causes it, how it affects both your sex life and social life, and the exact things they've done to bounce back.
From avoiding "repetitive event syndrome" to experimenting with new kinks, to finding the right people who recharge your energy, this episode is a must-listen for anyone in ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, or the swinging scene.
🎧 Listen on Spotify → Follow & Watch on Spotify (and leave us a review!)
📺 Watch the video version → Subscribe on YouTube
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✅ Don't forget to LIKE, SHARE, REVIEW & SUBSCRIBE wherever you listen—your support keeps this community thriving!
]]>You'll hear the behind-the-scenes truth about juggling a packed LS schedule, family life, work, and the mental/emotional load that comes with always being "on" socially and sexually. They get into:
-
Signs you're in a lifestyle rut (and why it's totally normal)
-
How social burnout and "swinger hangovers" sneak up on you
-
Financial, family, and time realities no one talks about
-
The mental load of playing with new partners vs. your long-term partner
-
Fresh ways to recharge: new events, exploring kinks, changing your social circle
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Why reconnecting with your partner might be the ultimate fix
Whether you're brand-new to the Lifestyle or a seasoned swinger, this episode will have you nodding, laughing, and maybe rethinking your weekend plans.
Show NotesFeeling like your swinger lifestyle has gone from hot to not? You're not alone. In this week's Beyond Monogamy Podcast, Adam & Pris talk openly about hitting a lifestyle lull—what causes it, how it affects both your sex life and social life, and the exact things they've done to bounce back.
From avoiding "repetitive event syndrome" to experimenting with new kinks, to finding the right people who recharge your energy, this episode is a must-listen for anyone in ethical non-monogamy, polyamory, or the swinging scene.
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]]>We're recapping EVERYTHING from Adam's big birthday weekend — the swinger club, the Airbnb takeover, the sexy chaos, the unexpected drama, and yes… the lap dances, public play, and post-party recovery. 🎂🔥
From nervous planning to wild partying, Adam & Pris take you behind the scenes of their epic 60+ person hybrid house party in Bulverde, Texas — featuring sex-positive vibes, a projector playing porn over a mattress (yes, really), poolside fun, and a few communication hiccups along the way.
This is the real, raw (and sometimes messy) look at what it's like to throw a lifestyle birthday party and what we learned about friends, sex, expectations, and keeping it sexy AF while staying grounded in communication and love.
💥 BONUS: Want to stay at the same place we threw the party? Check out our friend Martin Ray's Airbnb here:
👉 https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/19046843?viralityEntryPoint=1&unique_share_id=260726FF-3155-4077-8E89-AF75BA7B70C0&slcid=7443b33c852a4aab83d26d11709952ae&s=76&feature=share&adults=1&channel=native&slug=vx0TEPBs&source_impression_id=p3_1754436972_P3D1VTAxkC2CZj5h
🔥 In This Episode:
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Adam's honest confession about birthday anxiety 😬
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How we threw a 60+ person hybrid lifestyle party (and survived)
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The difference between house parties, play parties, and full DTF chaos
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Swinger etiquette: BYOB, hygiene, clean up after yourself please 🙃
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Adam's rotation at the swinger club (yep, he had a harem)
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Reconnection struggles + post-play communication realness
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Lap dances, projector porn, and poolside stories
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Why we didn't play with new people at the party (and what we'd change)
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Thoughts on pills, consent, intoxication, and creating safe spaces
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What it means to be part of this beautiful, messy, sex-positive community 💕
🔗 Links & Resources
🌐 Website: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com
🎧 Listen on all platforms: Spotify, Apple, Pandora, Amazon, iHeart
🎥 YouTube: Beyond Monogamy on YouTube
🛏 Airbnb Location: Martin Ray's Hill Country Airbnb
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We're recapping EVERYTHING from Adam's big birthday weekend — the swinger club, the Airbnb takeover, the sexy chaos, the unexpected drama, and yes… the lap dances, public play, and post-party recovery. 🎂🔥
From nervous planning to wild partying, Adam & Pris take you behind the scenes of their epic 60+ person hybrid house party in Bulverde, Texas — featuring sex-positive vibes, a projector playing porn over a mattress (yes, really), poolside fun, and a few communication hiccups along the way.
This is the real, raw (and sometimes messy) look at what it's like to throw a lifestyle birthday party and what we learned about friends, sex, expectations, and keeping it sexy AF while staying grounded in communication and love.
💥 BONUS: Want to stay at the same place we threw the party? Check out our friend Martin Ray's Airbnb here: 👉 https://www.airbnb.com/rooms/19046843?viralityEntryPoint=1&unique_share_id=260726FF-3155-4077-8E89-AF75BA7B70C0&slcid=7443b33c852a4aab83d26d11709952ae&s=76&feature=share&adults=1&channel=native&slug=vx0TEPBs&source_impression_id=p3_1754436972_P3D1VTAxkC2CZj5h
🔥 In This Episode:-
Adam's honest confession about birthday anxiety 😬
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How we threw a 60+ person hybrid lifestyle party (and survived)
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The difference between house parties, play parties, and full DTF chaos
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Swinger etiquette: BYOB, hygiene, clean up after yourself please 🙃
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Adam's rotation at the swinger club (yep, he had a harem)
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Reconnection struggles + post-play communication realness
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Lap dances, projector porn, and poolside stories
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Why we didn't play with new people at the party (and what we'd change)
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Thoughts on pills, consent, intoxication, and creating safe spaces
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What it means to be part of this beautiful, messy, sex-positive community 💕
🌐 Website: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com 🎧 Listen on all platforms: Spotify, Apple, Pandora, Amazon, iHeart 🎥 YouTube: Beyond Monogamy on YouTube 🛏 Airbnb Location: Martin Ray's Hill Country Airbnb 📻 Now streaming on Full Swap Radio: https://www.fullswapradio.com 🛒 Merch + Giveaways: coming soon! Follow us on socials for updates.
💬 Help Us Grow!If you love the show — share it with your community, post it in your groups, and leave us a review. 👂 Leave us a voicemail on our site: https://www.beyond-monogamy.com 📲 Follow @beyondmonogamy on TikTok, Facebook, Instagram, Threads, & X
]]>In this fun, flirty, and candid episode, Adam and Pris take you behind the scenes of their wildest birthday celebration yet! Recorded from their luxe Airbnb in Bulverde, Texas, this episode is a warm-up to Adam's 43rd birthday bash—complete with poolside vibes, swinger shenanigans, sexy basketball-themed outfits, and over 60 guests expected.
They reflect on what it means to truly celebrate within the lifestyle, from their early days of not getting invited to house parties to now throwing their own hybrid event—a party that blends socializing and sexy play. They share personal stories about their Friday night visit to the swingers' club with close friends, talk through the difference between play parties and social parties, and even break down the realities of reconnecting as a couple afterward.
Expect a lot of honesty, laughter, a dash of anxiousness, and real talk about boundaries, desires, communication, and—of course—birthday sex goals. The episode closes with a teaser for their next "Quickie" where they'll give you the full debrief of how the birthday bash actually went down.
🔥 What You'll Hear in This Episode:
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🎂 Adam's feelings about aging and why he finally wanted to celebrate big this year
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🏡 A full description of their dreamy, sex-positive Airbnb party setup
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🍾 Why lifestyle house parties are not always play parties
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💬 Navigating invitations, first-timers' nerves, and common questions
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🛏️ The difference between DTF parties and hybrid events
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😏 Adam's Friday night sex recap—including who, where, and how many
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❤️ Reconnection, edging, and managing playtime expectations
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🧠 Real talk on anxiety, communication, and checking in with your partner
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🛑 What to do when something feels off and how to bring it up respectfully
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💋 Pris's thoughts on reclaiming and managing jealousy gracefully
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🏀 Hopes, fears, and what they want to happen at tonight's main birthday party
🔗 Links & Resources:
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🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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📲 Voicemail & Contact: Contact Form on Website
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🧢 Merch Drop & Giveaways: Coming soon – follow us on socials for updates!
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🎥 YouTube: Beyond Monogamy on YouTube
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📱 Socials: @beyondmonogamy on all platforms
📢 Help Us Grow!
If you love our show, the best gift you can give is a share and a review!
Tell your friends, post it in your groups, or shout us out at your next meet & greet.
⭐️ Like. 🔁 Share. 💬 Comment.
❤️ Review us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or our Website
🎧 Stay Tuned…
Catch our Wednesday Quickie for the official post-party recap. Will Adam survive the harem? Will Pris go full party goddess? Will anyone sleep at all? 👀
]]>They reflect on what it means to truly celebrate within the lifestyle, from their early days of not getting invited to house parties to now throwing their own hybrid event—a party that blends socializing and sexy play. They share personal stories about their Friday night visit to the swingers' club with close friends, talk through the difference between play parties and social parties, and even break down the realities of reconnecting as a couple afterward.
Expect a lot of honesty, laughter, a dash of anxiousness, and real talk about boundaries, desires, communication, and—of course—birthday sex goals. The episode closes with a teaser for their next "Quickie" where they'll give you the full debrief of how the birthday bash actually went down.
🔥 What You'll Hear in This Episode:-
🎂 Adam's feelings about aging and why he finally wanted to celebrate big this year
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🏡 A full description of their dreamy, sex-positive Airbnb party setup
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🍾 Why lifestyle house parties are not always play parties
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💬 Navigating invitations, first-timers' nerves, and common questions
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🛏️ The difference between DTF parties and hybrid events
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😏 Adam's Friday night sex recap—including who, where, and how many
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❤️ Reconnection, edging, and managing playtime expectations
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🧠 Real talk on anxiety, communication, and checking in with your partner
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🛑 What to do when something feels off and how to bring it up respectfully
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💋 Pris's thoughts on reclaiming and managing jealousy gracefully
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🏀 Hopes, fears, and what they want to happen at tonight's main birthday party
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🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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📲 Voicemail & Contact: Contact Form on Website
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🧢 Merch Drop & Giveaways: Coming soon – follow us on socials for updates!
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🎥 YouTube: Beyond Monogamy on YouTube
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📱 Socials: @beyondmonogamy on all platforms
If you love our show, the best gift you can give is a share and a review! Tell your friends, post it in your groups, or shout us out at your next meet & greet.
⭐️ Like. 🔁 Share. 💬 Comment. ❤️ Review us on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or our Website
🎧 Stay Tuned…Catch our Wednesday Quickie for the official post-party recap. Will Adam survive the harem? Will Pris go full party goddess? Will anyone sleep at all? 👀
]]>In this no-holds-barred Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dive back into the world of booty business in the most Beyond Monogamy way possible. From their own hilarious and personal experiences to prepping disasters, myths, curiosity, and boundaries, this episode is full of laughs, real talk, and some serious honesty about all things backdoor. Whether you're a curious first-timer or a seasoned seat captain, you're gonna want to hear this. Oh — and yes, we're still locking the back door… for now.
📝 Show Notes:
Topics Covered:
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Boozy backdoor requests (yes, drunk Pris is bold!)
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Anal prep: what we didn't know then vs. what we know now
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Lube talk — why "just spit on it" is not a thing
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The myth of the "anal orgasm"
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Poop stories, plug training, and why some things should never be warming
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Dominance, power dynamics, and fingers where fingers weren't expected
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Why this isn't a judgment zone — just don't use our lube budget on Frank's Hot Sauce
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Listener invitation: we want to hear YOUR anal stories! The good, the bad, and the unexpectedly gassy. Stay anonymous or join us as a guest — no shame in the booty game.
🔗 Stay Connected
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www.beyond-monogamy.com
👉 Leave us a voicemail, find all our socials, watch video clips, and listen to every episode in one place!
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See you next week — BYE! 🍑
]]>Topics Covered:
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Boozy backdoor requests (yes, drunk Pris is bold!)
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Anal prep: what we didn't know then vs. what we know now
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Lube talk — why "just spit on it" is not a thing
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The myth of the "anal orgasm"
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Poop stories, plug training, and why some things should never be warming
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Dominance, power dynamics, and fingers where fingers weren't expected
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Why this isn't a judgment zone — just don't use our lube budget on Frank's Hot Sauce
PLUS:
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Listener invitation: we want to hear YOUR anal stories! The good, the bad, and the unexpectedly gassy. Stay anonymous or join us as a guest — no shame in the booty game.
🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 👉 Leave us a voicemail, find all our socials, watch video clips, and listen to every episode in one place!
📱 Social Media:
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy
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YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam Pris
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Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
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Twitter (X): @BeyoMono
If you laughed, cringed, or learned something new about the wonders (and warnings) of backdoor exploration, show us some love:
❤️ Like 🔁 Share 💬 Comment 🎧 Subscribe ⭐️ Leave a Review on your favorite podcast platform
New episodes every Sunday and Wednesday. We're raw, we're real, and we're barely holding it together — and that's exactly how we like it.
See you next week — BYE! 🍑
]]>From her upbringing in a swinger household (yes, really!) to the lessons learned through poly pitfalls and fantasy fulfillment, Jessica doesn't hold back. We talk red flags, relationship dynamics, and the art of empowered play—all while laughing, flirting, and sipping our favorite Dutch Bros.
Whether you're a couple seeking a unicorn, a single lady considering stepping into the lifestyle, or just here for the spicy stories, this episode will make you rethink what it really means to be a unicorn.
📄 Show Notes:
Guest: Jessica – Lifestyle unicorn, proud bisexual woman, and certified badass
Hosts: Adam & Pris
Episode Theme: Unicorns in the Lifestyle – the truth, the fantasy, and the real talk
🎧 What You'll Hear in This Episode:
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When Jessica realized she was bisexual and how her family reacted
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Growing up in a swinger household (!)
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Transitioning from a partnered swinger to a solo unicorn
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The biggest red flags she sees from couples
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Why confidence is a unicorn's secret weapon
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How she handles being fetishized—and where she draws the line
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What makes a couple unicorn-worthy
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Jessica's fantasy bucket list (yes, she's been the surprise guest 👀)
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Unicorn burnout and learning her boundaries
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And Adam's not-so-subtle birthday fantasy wishlist 😏
🦄 Jessica's Unicorn Tips for Couples:
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Both partners should communicate—no one-sided vibes
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Don't just hunt—connect
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Don't love-bomb or breadcrumb—just be real
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Respect her time, her space, and her place in the dynamic
🖥️ Find More:
🌐 www.beyond-monogamy.com
📸 TikTok, IG, FB: @beyond.monogamy
🎥 YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
📬 DM us, comment, email—or leave us a voicemail on the site. We might just feature your message on a future episode!
☕ Support Us:
Love the show? Fuel our Dutch Bros addiction and help us keep the mics hot! You can "buy us a coffee" right on our site.
⭐ Don't Forget:
👉 Like, subscribe, and leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen
👉 Smash that LIKE and SUBSCRIBE on YouTube
👉 Share this episode with a unicorn-curious friend
👉 Join the conversation—because your voice matters in this community
Thanks for listening—and we'll see you next week. Bye! 👋
]]>From her upbringing in a swinger household (yes, really!) to the lessons learned through poly pitfalls and fantasy fulfillment, Jessica doesn't hold back. We talk red flags, relationship dynamics, and the art of empowered play—all while laughing, flirting, and sipping our favorite Dutch Bros.
Whether you're a couple seeking a unicorn, a single lady considering stepping into the lifestyle, or just here for the spicy stories, this episode will make you rethink what it really means to be a unicorn.
📄 Show Notes:Guest: Jessica – Lifestyle unicorn, proud bisexual woman, and certified badass Hosts: Adam & Pris Episode Theme: Unicorns in the Lifestyle – the truth, the fantasy, and the real talk
🎧 What You'll Hear in This Episode:-
When Jessica realized she was bisexual and how her family reacted
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Growing up in a swinger household (!)
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Transitioning from a partnered swinger to a solo unicorn
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The biggest red flags she sees from couples
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Why confidence is a unicorn's secret weapon
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How she handles being fetishized—and where she draws the line
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What makes a couple unicorn-worthy
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Jessica's fantasy bucket list (yes, she's been the surprise guest 👀)
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Unicorn burnout and learning her boundaries
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And Adam's not-so-subtle birthday fantasy wishlist 😏
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Both partners should communicate—no one-sided vibes
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Don't just hunt—connect
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Don't love-bomb or breadcrumb—just be real
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Respect her time, her space, and her place in the dynamic
🌐 www.beyond-monogamy.com 📸 TikTok, IG, FB: @beyond.monogamy 🎥 YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris 📬 DM us, comment, email—or leave us a voicemail on the site. We might just feature your message on a future episode!
☕ Support Us:Love the show? Fuel our Dutch Bros addiction and help us keep the mics hot! You can "buy us a coffee" right on our site.
⭐ Don't Forget:👉 Like, subscribe, and leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen 👉 Smash that LIKE and SUBSCRIBE on YouTube 👉 Share this episode with a unicorn-curious friend 👉 Join the conversation—because your voice matters in this community
Thanks for listening—and we'll see you next week. Bye! 👋
]]>📋 Show Notes:
In This Episode:
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What aftercare really means in swinging—not just kink.
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Pris's early disconnects and emotional needs post-play.
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Adam's role in providing reassurance and reclaiming.
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How their dynamic changed after polyamory.
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What "aftercare" looks like for them today (spoiler: cuddles, food, and mini-rounds).
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An unexpected (and moody) moment after sexy video play.
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Upcoming plans for Adam's birthday bash & how aftercare will fit into a wild weekend.
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Communication tips for couples figuring out their own post-play rituals.
Listener Takeaway:
Aftercare isn't one-size-fits-all. It's about connection, reassurance, and finding rituals that keep you grounded. Whether it's a cuddle, convo, or simply being held—it matters.
💬 Connect With Us:
🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com
📸 Instagram: @beyond.monogamy
🎥 YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
🎧 Listen everywhere podcasts stream!
☕ Support the Podcast:
Love what we're doing? Buy us a coffee or drop a message at www.beyond-monogamy.com. Your support keeps our late-night pillow talks and sexy stories going strong.
⭐ Don't Forget:
👉 Like, subscribe, and share this episode!
👉 Leave a review—it seriously helps us grow and reach more open-minded lovers like you.
👉 Tag us if you're listening—we love seeing who's tuning in! #BeyondMonogamyPodcast
In This Episode:
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What aftercare really means in swinging—not just kink.
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Pris's early disconnects and emotional needs post-play.
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Adam's role in providing reassurance and reclaiming.
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How their dynamic changed after polyamory.
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What "aftercare" looks like for them today (spoiler: cuddles, food, and mini-rounds).
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An unexpected (and moody) moment after sexy video play.
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Upcoming plans for Adam's birthday bash & how aftercare will fit into a wild weekend.
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Communication tips for couples figuring out their own post-play rituals.
Listener Takeaway: Aftercare isn't one-size-fits-all. It's about connection, reassurance, and finding rituals that keep you grounded. Whether it's a cuddle, convo, or simply being held—it matters.
💬 Connect With Us:🌐 Website: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📸 Instagram: @beyond.monogamy 🎥 YouTube: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris 🎧 Listen everywhere podcasts stream!
☕ Support the Podcast:Love what we're doing? Buy us a coffee or drop a message at www.beyond-monogamy.com. Your support keeps our late-night pillow talks and sexy stories going strong.
⭐ Don't Forget:👉 Like, subscribe, and share this episode! 👉 Leave a review—it seriously helps us grow and reach more open-minded lovers like you. 👉 Tag us if you're listening—we love seeing who's tuning in! #BeyondMonogamyPodcast
]]>With Pris battling sinus hell and Adam riding a tidal wave of sexual energy, tensions rose, communication faltered, and an epic (but educational) clash ensued. From missed signals and mixed emotions to makeup conversations and lessons learned, this episode is a vulnerable, laugh-out-loud, and totally relatable look at the highs and lows of navigating the lifestyle when you're not on the same page.
Whether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with insights, love, and the occasional eye-roll. 😅
📝 Show Notes:
In this episode:
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How a sexy weekend at a swinger beach takeover turned into an unexpected emotional low
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What happens when one partner's energy is high and the other is running on empty
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The impact of unspoken expectations and poor planning
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Why checking in is just as sexy as checking out (of the moment)
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The difference between "separate play" in theory vs. reality
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How illness, anxiety, and miscommunication can crash even the sexiest of plans
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Rebuilding trust, processing conflict, and loving through the mess
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The real reason you need to talk before the clothes come off
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And a peek into the passionate, hilarious, and heartfelt way Adam & Pris always find their way back to each other
Key takeaway:
Even experienced lifestyle couples fumble. But with accountability, open hearts, and clear communication, those messy moments can become opportunities for deeper love, stronger connection, and better future playdates.
🔗 Links & Resources:
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🌐 Visit us at: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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📩 Send us a voicemail or email — we love hearing from our community!
-
🎙️ Catch us on all major podcast platforms
-
📲 Follow us:
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
-
TikTok: @beyond.monogamy
-
YouTube & Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
-
With Pris battling sinus hell and Adam riding a tidal wave of sexual energy, tensions rose, communication faltered, and an epic (but educational) clash ensued. From missed signals and mixed emotions to makeup conversations and lessons learned, this episode is a vulnerable, laugh-out-loud, and totally relatable look at the highs and lows of navigating the lifestyle when you're not on the same page.
Whether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or a seasoned swinger, this episode is packed with insights, love, and the occasional eye-roll. 😅
📝 Show Notes:In this episode:
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How a sexy weekend at a swinger beach takeover turned into an unexpected emotional low
-
What happens when one partner's energy is high and the other is running on empty
-
The impact of unspoken expectations and poor planning
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Why checking in is just as sexy as checking out (of the moment)
-
The difference between "separate play" in theory vs. reality
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How illness, anxiety, and miscommunication can crash even the sexiest of plans
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Rebuilding trust, processing conflict, and loving through the mess
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The real reason you need to talk before the clothes come off
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And a peek into the passionate, hilarious, and heartfelt way Adam & Pris always find their way back to each other
Key takeaway: Even experienced lifestyle couples fumble. But with accountability, open hearts, and clear communication, those messy moments can become opportunities for deeper love, stronger connection, and better future playdates.
🔗 Links & Resources:-
🌐 Visit us at: www.beyond-monogamy.com
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📩 Send us a voicemail or email — we love hearing from our community!
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🎙️ Catch us on all major podcast platforms
-
📲 Follow us:
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Instagram: @beyond_monogamy_4u
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TikTok: @beyond.monogamy
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YouTube & Facebook: Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris
-
Ever tried to get down and dirty only to be stared down by your dog? Or have a cat walk across your back mid-thrust? You're not alone. From sex-curious Labradors to judgmental chihuahuas, this episode dives into the hilariously awkward reality of being a swinger with fur babies in the house.
We're sharing our own stories (yes, Pris once had to bribe a cat with ham) and reading hilarious listener tales of animal antics that brought the mood to a screeching halt.
📄 Show Notes:
🔹 Topic: The chaos pets bring to our private lifestyle moments
🔹 Type: QUICKIE (short & spicy)
🔹 Hosts: Adam & Pris
🔹 Runtime: ~32 minutes
In this episode:
- 🐶 When pets become unexpected voyeurs
- 🐱 "That time the cat brought a toy to bed… during playtime"
- 🐾 How lifestyle folks deal with barking, meowing, and staring
- 🛏️ Listener submissions: The funniest pet interruptions in the wild
Whether you're into swinging, polyamory, or just trying to have a peaceful night in with a partner, this episode is a hilarious look at how pets really don't care about your plans.
🔗 Links & Resources:
🎧 Listen now on:
- Spotify
- Apple Podcasts
- Amazon Music
- iHeartRadio
- Pandora
- Or stream it directly at www.beyond-monogamy.com
💌 Got a funny story or question? Drop us a voicemail or send a message through our website.
📲 Follow Us:
Stay connected and catch all the spice:
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- X: @BeyoMono
Ever tried to get down and dirty only to be stared down by your dog? Or have a cat walk across your back mid-thrust? You're not alone. From sex-curious Labradors to judgmental chihuahuas, this episode dives into the hilariously awkward reality of being a swinger with fur babies in the house.
We're sharing our own stories (yes, Pris once had to bribe a cat with ham) and reading hilarious listener tales of animal antics that brought the mood to a screeching halt.
📄 Show Notes:🔹 Topic: The chaos pets bring to our private lifestyle moments
🔹 Type: QUICKIE (short & spicy)
🔹 Hosts: Adam & Pris
🔹 Runtime: ~32 minutes
In this episode:
- 🐶 When pets become unexpected voyeurs
- 🐱 "That time the cat brought a toy to bed… during playtime"
- 🐾 How lifestyle folks deal with barking, meowing, and staring
- 🛏️ Listener submissions: The funniest pet interruptions in the wild
Whether you're into swinging, polyamory, or just trying to have a peaceful night in with a partner, this episode is a hilarious look at how pets really don't care about your plans.
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📄 Show Notes:
Guest: Jeremy – Adam's longtime friend and a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community.
In this episode:
- 🧠 How Jeremy's coming out journey shaped his understanding of self-love and acceptance.
- 📲 The queer side of hookup culture and dating apps—raw, funny, and real.
- 💬 Why people outside the lifestyle can still deeply relate to the struggles of being judged.
- 🌈 The value of safe spaces, emotional honesty, and having a community—even if you're not "in the lifestyle."
- 🥂 Catching up after years apart, what's changed, and what still matters most.
Guest: Jeremy – Adam's longtime friend and a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community.
In this episode:
- 🧠 How Jeremy's coming out journey shaped his understanding of self-love and acceptance.
- 📲 The queer side of hookup culture and dating apps—raw, funny, and real.
- 💬 Why people outside the lifestyle can still deeply relate to the struggles of being judged.
- 🌈 The value of safe spaces, emotional honesty, and having a community—even if you're not "in the lifestyle."
- 🥂 Catching up after years apart, what's changed, and what still matters most.
1. Opener & Trigger
- Quick disclaimer on mature content
- Adam shares being hurt by judgment on social media (a "vomit emoji" left on their celebratory post)
2. The Impact of Judgment
- How such reactions drive people "back into the closet"
- Comparing lifestyle judgment to what LGBTQ+ people experience
3. Discretion vs Authenticity
- Why some choose to stay hidden
- Prize the power and impact of openness and advocacy
4. Life-Strengthening Benefits
- Stories on how ethical non-monogamy has improved communication and personal growth
- Their experience facing and overcoming shame
5. Cultural & Religious Conditioning
- The role of upbringing and religious beliefs in shaping moral judgments
- Adam's thoughts on his seminary background and shifting perspectives
6. Visibility & Acceptance
- The mainstream rise of swinging thanks to social media and LGBTQ normalization
- The value of staying true to oneself and celebrating non-traditional relationships
7. Season Updates & Community Ask
- New website launch: www.beyond-monogamy.com (featuring episodes, blog posts, voicemail feature, and future plans like video & guests)
- Encouragement to share with "vanilla" listeners who may just be curious
- Upcoming season updates and attendance at the Port Aransas Beach Takeover
✅ Key Takeaways
- Judgment from others often stems from personal insecurities or societal conditioning
- Open non-monogamy can foster growth, connection, and emotional resilience
- Visibility matters—not just for the hosts, but for listeners exploring their own path
- Community support plays a therapeutic role in navigating lifestyle choices
🔗 Connect & Support
- Visit: www.beyond-monogamy.com for full episodes, blogs, and a voicemail feature
- Stay tuned for new season content, refreshed branding, video interviews, and guest voices
- Love the episode? Share it with friends or vanilla listeners—interest doesn't equal participation!
- Quick disclaimer on mature content
- Adam shares being hurt by judgment on social media (a "vomit emoji" left on their celebratory post)
2. The Impact of Judgment
- How such reactions drive people "back into the closet"
- Comparing lifestyle judgment to what LGBTQ+ people experience
3. Discretion vs Authenticity
- Why some choose to stay hidden
- Prize the power and impact of openness and advocacy
4. Life-Strengthening Benefits
- Stories on how ethical non-monogamy has improved communication and personal growth
- Their experience facing and overcoming shame
5. Cultural & Religious Conditioning
- The role of upbringing and religious beliefs in shaping moral judgments
- Adam's thoughts on his seminary background and shifting perspectives
6. Visibility & Acceptance
- The mainstream rise of swinging thanks to social media and LGBTQ normalization
- The value of staying true to oneself and celebrating non-traditional relationships
7. Season Updates & Community Ask
- New website launch: www.beyond-monogamy.com (featuring episodes, blog posts, voicemail feature, and future plans like video & guests)
- Encouragement to share with "vanilla" listeners who may just be curious
- Upcoming season updates and attendance at the Port Aransas Beach Takeover
- Judgment from others often stems from personal insecurities or societal conditioning
- Open non-monogamy can foster growth, connection, and emotional resilience
- Visibility matters—not just for the hosts, but for listeners exploring their own path
- Community support plays a therapeutic role in navigating lifestyle choices
- Visit: www.beyond-monogamy.com for full episodes, blogs, and a voicemail feature
- Stay tuned for new season content, refreshed branding, video interviews, and guest voices
- Love the episode? Share it with friends or vanilla listeners—interest doesn't equal participation!
📝 Show Notes
🎧 What to Expect (Hooks)
- The origin story: Pris's early experiences and Adam's initiation
- First swings: Revisiting that nervous yet thrilling moment
- Polyamory experiment: Why it began, why it ended—and what they learned
- Emotional growth:
- Managing jealousy and reassurance
- The value of communication and community
- ADHD & Anxiety: How mental health shaped social dynamics
- Kinks & Connection Styles: Their unique approach
- Launch plans: What's next for the podcast
🧭 Podcast Timeline
- [00:15] Intro & purpose of show
- [01:05] Pris shares her early adventures
- [04:55] Adam's perspective on first shared experience
- [11:13] Moving to Austin—broader community
- [23:05] Mental health & social confidence
- [43:27] Kinks & sexual dynamics as a duo
- [59:52] Life update: fully in the lifestyle
- [01:02:34] Holiday message & final goodbyes
💡 Key Takeaways
- Transparent communication builds trust
- Non-monogamy is a journey—different stages have different needs
- Personal growth often comes through discomfort
- Community adds stability, acceptance, and fun content for this show
🌐 Links & Resources
- Our website: www.beyond-monogamy.com – Find blogs, voicemail, plus future videos & guest episodes
- Join the community: Facebook groups for South/Central Texas
- Mental health tools: Resources on ADHD and social anxiety (coming soon)
🚀 Call to Action
- Subscribe on Apple, Spotify, iHeart & more
- Leave a review to help others discover us
- Visit & explore our website | www.beyond-monogamy.com | —and don't be shy, leave us a voicemail share your story
🎧 What to Expect (Hooks)
- The origin story: Pris's early experiences and Adam's initiation
- First swings: Revisiting that nervous yet thrilling moment
- Polyamory experiment: Why it began, why it ended—and what they learned
- Emotional growth:
- Managing jealousy and reassurance
- The value of communication and community
- ADHD & Anxiety: How mental health shaped social dynamics
- Kinks & Connection Styles: Their unique approach
- Launch plans: What's next for the podcast
🧭 Podcast Timeline
- [00:15] Intro & purpose of show
- [01:05] Pris shares her early adventures
- [04:55] Adam's perspective on first shared experience
- [11:13] Moving to Austin—broader community
- [23:05] Mental health & social confidence
- [43:27] Kinks & sexual dynamics as a duo
- [59:52] Life update: fully in the lifestyle
- [01:02:34] Holiday message & final goodbyes
💡 Key Takeaways
- Transparent communication builds trust
- Non-monogamy is a journey—different stages have different needs
- Personal growth often comes through discomfort
- Community adds stability, acceptance, and fun content for this show
🌐 Links & Resources
- Our website: www.beyond-monogamy.com – Find blogs, voicemail, plus future videos & guest episodes
- Join the community: Facebook groups for South/Central Texas
- Mental health tools: Resources on ADHD and social anxiety (coming soon)
🚀 Call to Action
- Subscribe on Apple, Spotify, iHeart & more
- Leave a review to help others discover us
- Visit & explore our website | www.beyond-monogamy.com | —and don't be shy, leave us a voicemail share your story
