Culture & Events Episodes

Why are people so shitty? It's the question nobody can answer, but this week Adam & Pris sure try. In this candid episode of Beyond Monogamy, your favorite swinger podcast couple airs a little dirty laundry (no names, promise) about drama, bullies, and trolls in the swinger lifestyle and ethical non-monogamy community — and how to protect yourself without losing your fun. In this episode: The 80–90% of the lifestyle community that's wonderful — and the tiny percentage that isn't A group owner ...

Birthdays hit different in the swinger lifestyle. On this quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam & Pris recap Adam's entire birthday weekend — from free sopapillas and a taco-house serenade to a full-blown celebration at their home club that proves ethical non-monogamy knows how to throw a party. In this episode of your favorite swinger podcast: Birthday breakfast at Eddie's Taco House, where Adam campaigned like a politician for free sopapillas An intimate dinner with three other couples —...

What actually makes a swinger club great? On this Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam & Pris throw open the doors of their home club — Club Eden San Antonio — for a candid, laugh-out-loud review of everything a lifestyle club should be. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just ethical non-monogamy curious, consider this your field guide to on-premise club life. In this episode: The #1 thing to look for in any swinger club (hint: it's not the dance floor) Why vigilant staff make or break a lifestyle club ...

What does it take to build the world's largest lifestyle event from a house party to a 3,000+ person New Orleans takeover? Adam and Pris sit down with Bob Hannaford, founder and CEO of Naughty Events and the mastermind behind Naughty N'Awlins — the most iconic swinger and kink convention on the planet. Bob pulls back the curtain on 28 years of growth, the Cathedral of Kink dungeon, the Sexual Freedom Parade, consent culture at scale, and what makes Naughty N'Awlins unlike any event in the lifest...

This week on Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris sit down with Myrina and Tristan from The Accidental Swingers — and yes, the name is exactly as real as it sounds. Nobody planned this. Not the lifestyle, not the podcast, not the Uber makeout session that started it all. And yet here we are. These two are OG voices in the ENM space, and in this episode they pull zero punches. We get the full origin story, an honest conversation about jealousy and emotional connection, the real talk on menopause and a...

What happens when a perfectly normal lifestyle club night suddenly goes sideways — and someone ends up leaving in an ambulance? That's exactly what happened to Adam & Pris this past weekend, and they're holding absolutely nothing back in this week's Quickie. It started as a fun night at the club — good friends, some friendly competition between cubbies, and seriously enthusiastic playtime. Then things took a wild, unexpected turn. One person in their crew ended the night with EMTs, an ER visit,...

Adam and Pris just got back from a week-long Florida trip — Disney World with the kids by day, and a night at the Florida Tree House lifestyle club that completely blew their minds. This episode covers all of it: the rides, the food, the play, a very forward woman who gave Adam the blueprint he never knew he needed, and a real conversation about feeling unsexy when life is piling up. Show Notes Disney World Recap Yes, World — not Disneyland (Adam got corrected fast). Six miles a day in brutal ...

We got a message that stopped us in our tracks — and honestly, it took us right back to the beginning. A listener found us on TikTok and sent in one of the most thoughtful, honest questions we've ever received: How do you prepare as a couple for your first lifestyle event when one of you is pumped and the other is... cautiously optimistic? In this QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dig into the confessional of a married couple — 20 years in, incredible communication, and gearing up for a Halloween hotel tak...

This past weekend, Adam and Pris were at a hotel takeover. Not just attending — they were there working, recording a live podcast episode in front of a room full of lifestyle people who were very much already in party mode. That full live show drops this Sunday, and trust us, you're going to want to hear it. But here's the thing about recording a live show at a hotel takeover full of beautiful, festive, very distracted humans: you don't exactly get to deliver a thoughtful breakdown of what hote...

What happens when fantasy crashes into reality in the lifestyle? In this Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE episode, Adam and Pris dive into two anonymous confessional submissions that hit on some of the biggest challenges in ethical non-monogamy: unrealistic expectations, red flags, obligation, and jealousy. The first story? A couple casually posts they’ll be at a lifestyle hotel in Palm Springs. A husband — who they’ve NEVER spoken to — drives three hours expecting play. No chemistry. Pushy energy. Awk...

Everybody talks about how hot the swinging lifestyle is. Nobody talks about the emotional whiplash. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we get brutally honest about the parts of swinging that don’t show up in fantasies, porn, or Instagram highlight reels — the stuff that quietly hits you after your first party, your first rejection, or your first “why do I feel like this?” moment. We break down the biggest reality checks people experience when they start swinging, including: ...

Some swinger rules sound great… until you actually have to live with them. In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we dive headfirst into the most common unfair rules in swinging and ethical non-monogamy — the ones couples swear will “protect the relationship” but often do the exact opposite. From “no feelings allowed” to approval rules, same-room-only forever, no single guys, and the classic double standards where one partner can do things the other can’t, we bre...

Unfiltered but Not Unkind is one of those episodes that needed to happen. In this raw, funny, and deeply honest conversation, Adam & Pris pull back the curtain on the lifestyle behaviors we all quietly side-eye… but rarely say out loud. This isn’t a call-out episode. There’s no rage, no dunking, and definitely no drama farming. Instead, it’s thoughtful honesty, humor, and real talk about swinger etiquette, communication breakdowns, confidence versus self-awareness, and why “just communicate mor...

Compersion Isn’t Automatic — And That’s Completely Normal Compersion gets talked about a lot in ethical non-monogamy — sometimes like it’s a requirement, sometimes like it’s a badge of honor. But what happens when it just… doesn’t come naturally? In this Wednesday Quickie episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we get real about jealousy, emotional processing, missed conversations, and the pressure people feel to “do non-monogamy right.” This is a raw, honest conversation pulled straight ...

🎙️ 1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy Summary & Show Notes: Adam & Pris celebrate a wild 365 days of Beyond Monogamy — from nervous first recordings to international guests and unfiltered confessions. In this honest, hilarious, and heartfelt anniversary episode, they reveal how the podcast changed their marriage, deepened their communication, and strengthened their connection inside and outside the lifestyle. They share favorite moments, biggest less...

In this electrifying episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we head west to Los Angeles to meet Dulce and Angel, the powerhouse couple behind Tentaciones Club — one of the hottest new lifestyle destinations in Southern California. Tentaciones isn’t just a swingers’ club; it’s a movement. Built with passion, culture, and a whole lot of reggaetón energy, this Latino-owned lifestyle club blends music, sensuality, and community into one unforgettable experience. Angel and Dulce share how the...

In this powerful and necessary Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam and Pris set aside the usual flirty fun to tackle one of the most difficult but crucial conversations in the non-monogamous community — sexual assault in the lifestyle. It’s uncomfortable. It’s raw. But it’s happening more often than people want to admit. Adam and Pris share personal experiences, listener stories, and hard truths about how boundaries get crossed, why consent isn’t a one-time agreement, and how alcohol, pressure, and s...

🔥 Episode Summary: In this no-holds-barred Wednesday QUICKIE, Adam and Pris dive back into the world of booty business in the most Beyond Monogamy way possible. From their own hilarious and personal experiences to prepping disasters, myths, curiosity, and boundaries, this episode is full of laughs, real talk, and some serious honesty about all things backdoor. Whether you're a curious first-timer or a seasoned seat captain, you're gonna want to hear this. Oh — and yes, we’re still locking the b...

Aftercare isn't just for kink! In this intimate and hilarious QUICKIE, Adam & Pris share their personal journey navigating aftercare in the swinger lifestyle—from disconnection and insecurity to reclaiming, cuddling, and late-night drive-thru confessions. They get real about how aftercare plays out after playdates, poly dynamics, and even sexy video calls. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just exploring, this episode offers insight, laughs, and maybe a few “oh shit, that’s us” moments. 📋 Sh...

📍 Show Notes 1. Opener & Trigger Quick disclaimer on mature content Adam shares being hurt by judgment on social media (a “vomit emoji” left on their celebratory post) 2. The Impact of Judgment How such reactions drive people “back into the closet” Comparing lifestyle judgment to what LGBTQ+ people experience 3. Discretion vs Authenticity Why some choose to stay hidden Prize the power and impact of openness and advocacy 4. Life-Strengthening Benefits Stories on how ethical non-monogamy ha...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris tackle the sensitive topic of sex work within the swinging community, focusing on the rise of OnlyFans among swingers. They explore the contrasting views on monetizing content within the community, with one side arguing that financial gain contradicts the essence of swinging, while the other supports sex work as an inclusive and legitimate expression of lifestyle choices. Pris shares her journey through various forms of sex work, highlighti...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris delve into the concept of an inherent hierarchy within the swinger community, often referred to as 'tiers.' They question whether such a structure truly exists or if it's a perception rooted in individual insecurities. The hosts recount their own experiences as newcomers who felt intimidated by seemingly popular community members, only to later realize that attraction is subjective. Through a candid discussion, the episode serves as a reminder th...

Adam and Pris, hosts of 'Beyond Monogamy,' tackle the topic of jealousy in non-monogamous relationships. Pris recounts her early struggles with insecurity and fear of losing Adam to others, while Adam mentions the naturalness of such emotions. They discuss the evolution of their communication and how transparency helped Pris realize her own worth, reducing her jealousy. The episode underscores the significance of self-awareness and partnership dynamics in navigating the complex emotional landsca...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the perplexing issue of infidelity within open relationships, specifically within the lifestyle community. Despite the inherent freedom offered by these relationships, some individuals still resort to cheating, leading to heartbreaking consequences like divorce. Adam and Pris discuss personal experiences with infidelity and emphasize the importance of communication in preventing such issues. The hosts highlight that while lifesty...