Let me tell you something. There are two conversations that will absolutely rock a relationship: 1) “We need to talk about money.”2) “So… how would you feel about possibly having sex with other people?” One of those usually ends in budgeting spre…
Oh You’re the Moral Authority Now? Let’s talk about judgment. Not the cute kind. Not the “hmm I don’t like those shoes” kind. I’m talking about the full-blown, preachy, keyboard-warrior, “I could NEVER do that” kind. Because apparently… the inte…
Cheating, “Micro-Cheating,” and Why Ethics Matter More Than Labels Alright y’all… today’s episode came from one of those moments where parenting, relationships, and modern dating culture all decide to pull up a chair at the same damn table and star…
Swinger Club 101: So You’re Thinking About Going… Alright. Let’s talk about it. You’ve been curious. You’ve Googled things. Maybe you’ve lurked on lifestyle sites. Maybe you’ve even bought an outfit that’s been sitting in your closet waiting for i…
Swinging Isn’t Just About Sex — It’s About Learning There’s a lie a lot of people believe when they first step into the lifestyle. “We’ll figure it out as we go.” Sounds harmless. Sounds adventurous. Sounds sexy. It’s also why so many couples en…
What Nobody Warns You About When You Start Swinging Everyone warns you about STIs. Nobody warns you about the drive home. The quiet. The replaying every interaction in your head like a mental highlight reel you didn’t ask for. That’s the real i…
Some rules look cute on paper.And then you live them… and suddenly you’re irritated, confused, or quietly resentful. Welcome to our Wednesday Quickie episode where Pris and I talk about unfair rules in swinging — the ones couples swear are about “b…
Unfiltered but Not Unkind is the episode where we finally said the quiet parts out loud. You know those moments when you leave a party, get in the car, take a sip of your drink, and say, “Okay… I don’t want to sound judgy, but WHAT was that?” Yeah.…
Sometimes the hardest part of the swinger lifestyle isn’t jealousy. It’s silence. In this Quickie Confessional episode of Beyond Monogamy, we read a listener message that made both of us pause, look at each other, and say, “Yeah… we’ve lived some …
Non-Monogamy, Attachment & Why Communication Is Way Harder Than It Sounds Some episodes are sexy. Some episodes are funny. And then there are episodes that quietly rearrange your brain. This one did that. We sat down with sex therapist and educ…
How to Set Up a Gang Bang (And Why It’s Way More Work Than Porn Makes It Look) Let’s get something straight right out of the gate. Fantasies sound hot. Fantasies look hot. Fantasies are easy to talk about when nobody has to actually schedule anyth…
Let me guess. You’ve seen those pictures of lifestyle cruises or hotel takeovers and thought, “That looks incredible… but I would absolutely overthink the hell out of it.” Same. That’s exactly why this episode happened. Pris and I sat down with …
If you’ve ever typed “How does swinging actually work?” into Google and immediately regretted it — congrats, this episode is for you. This week’s Wednesday Quickie is officially Swinger 101, and it’s basically us answering the questions everyone is…
Some episodes feel like a conversation. Others feel like therapy — the kind you didn’t know you needed until you’re sitting there nodding, quietly whispering, “Oh… damn.” This one? Yeah. This was that episode. When Evita “Lavitaloca” Sawyers join…
Let’s talk about a sexual plot twist no one warned us about. Somewhere between bad rom-com advice, locker-room myths, and stand-up comedians roasting “three-pump chumps,” a whole generation got fed the same lie: “Good sex lasts forever.” And yet……
Polyamory Doesn’t Have to Be Complicated (Even When Feelings Are) Some guests come on the show and immediately make you feel smarter just by listening. Leanne Yau—aka Polyphilia—is one of those people. This episode felt less like an interview and …
Compersion Isn’t Automatic — And That Doesn’t Mean You’re Failing Let’s talk about compersion. Not the Instagram version. Not the “look how evolved we are” version. The real one — the messy, uncomfortable, sometimes awkward version that shows up i…
Bi Men in Swinging: Let’s Talk About the Stigma Some episodes are fun. Some are spicy. And some… some are necessary. This one? Very necessary. We sat down with Ashley and Rob from the United Bi Swinging Podcast and had one of those conversations …
Busy Isn’t Ghosting: A Lifestyle Reality Check Let’s clear something up real quick. Busy does not mean rude.Busy does not mean uninterested.Busy definitely does not mean ghosting. This Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris…
Meet Rae: Our Newest Lady of Beyond Monogamy Alright friends, let’s just get this out of the way early — Rae is officially one of the newest Ladies of Beyond Monogamy, and yes… you’re going to be seeing a lot more of her. That means future events,…
We Threw a Meet & Greet… and Accidentally Started an Orgy Let me just say this right now — we did not wake up Saturday morning thinking, “Tonight feels like a nine-person orgy kind of night.” But here we are. This Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Bey…
The Original Swingers: Sam L. Feldman on Sex, Freedom & The ’70s Revolution By Adam from Beyond Monogamy Before there were apps, websites, or even the word “swinger,” there were people like Sam L. Feldman — out there living it, loving it, and prob…
Confessions from the Lifestyle: The Raw, Real & Ridiculous Side of Swinging Every now and then, an episode comes along that perfectly captures what Beyond Monogamy is all about — real people, real stories, and real talk about the lifestyle. This …
If you’ve ever swiped through dating apps muttering “everyone’s lying” under your breath — this episode’s for you. When Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sat down with Ms. Nookie, creator of the Love Mastery Institute and Nookie Notes, we knew we we…
