Education Episodes

In this powerful and refreshingly funny conversation, Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris sits down with psychologist, Gestalt therapist, creator of Gotitas de Poliamor, and author Jaime Gama to unpack what it really takes to thrive in ethical non-monogamy. We dive into jealousy vs. compersion, swinging vs. polyamory, boundaries, Latin culture, and unlearning shame—mixing research-backed wisdom with real-life stories. 💧 Jaime’s work: www.gotitasdepoliamor.com 🌐 Our site: www.beyond-monogamy.com 📻 ...

Full Swap Radio: Thursdays at 1 PM & 6 PM CST Patreon (early access, After Hours clips, bonus minis, Discord): Show Notes Attachment & IFS: How to spot when a part (not your core self) is driving reactivity—and how to respond with...

This Kind of Girl: UK Writer Rosie Kay on Non-Monogamy, Bisexuality & Breaking Lifestyle Stereotypes Ethical Non-Monogamy Bisexuality Confidence & Consent Lifestyle Culture Episode Summary In this bold and beautifully honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we head across the pond to chat with UK writer, educator, and ethical non-monogamy coach Rosie Kay, the voice behind thiskindagirl.co.uk. Rosie pulls back the curtain on what it really means to live ethically non-monogamous in ...

Family law gets real when you’re living outside the box of traditional monogamy. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Maryland/DC attorney Jonathan Lane, a polyamorous lawyer who specializes in ethical non-monogamy, custody battles, divorce, inheritance, and family protections. Jonathan breaks down everything ENM and polyamorous families need to know about child custody risks, de facto parent status, divorce disputes, property ownership, wills, medical directive...

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In this powerful and deeply intimate conversation, Adam & Pris sit down with Francesca Gentille — internationally recognized teacher, coach, and author — to explore the intersections of trauma healing, sacred kink, non-monogamy, and empowered aging. Francesca opens up about her own journey: from childhood as a natural counselor, to studying psychology, tantra, BDSM, and shamanic practices that connect fantasy with healing. She breaks down the roots of modern kink, leather culture, and polyamory...

In this week’s episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, the world’s #1 married dating app with over 85 million members worldwide. Far from being just a platform for secret liaisons, Ashley Madison has become a fascinating case study in how technology, desire, and changing social norms are reshaping conversations around non-monogamy, intimacy, and discretion. Paul shares insider insights on why people seek out alternativ...

In this week’s Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down the most popular swinger stereotypes — testing each one to see if it’s truth… or total BS. From pineapples and hot tubs to midlife crises and “porno-sized Johnsons,” nothing was off-limits in this hilarious 30-minute myth-busting ride. 🕒 Episode Timeline Highlights [00:02] – The “All Swingers Are Hot” Myth Adam & Pris admit they once thought swingers were all gym-bodied models. Reality check? Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, and...

In this special guest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, the duo reunites with Jeremy, Adam’s high school friend, for a raw and heartfelt conversation about sexuality, identity, and acceptance. Jeremy, who is openly gay and outside the lifestyle, shares his unique perspective on queer experiences, chosen family, and how judgment plays out both inside and outside the lifestyle community. The trio dives into meaningful discussions about dating apps, dealing with shame, and the power of h...

📍 Show Notes 1. Opener & Trigger Quick disclaimer on mature content Adam shares being hurt by judgment on social media (a “vomit emoji” left on their celebratory post) 2. The Impact of Judgment How such reactions drive people “back into the closet” Comparing lifestyle judgment to what LGBTQ+ people experience 3. Discretion vs Authenticity Why some choose to stay hidden Prize the power and impact of openness and advocacy 4. Life-Strengthening Benefits Stories on how ethical non-monogamy ha...

In this podcast episode, hosts Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of managing boundaries within friendships, especially in social and lifestyle settings. They explore scenarios where friends cross personal boundaries, whether due to drunken behavior or misunderstanding social cues, and how challenging it can be to address such situations without causing embarrassment. The conversation delves into the difficulties of saying no to friends versus strangers, the importance of empowerment, and th...

In this episode of 'Beyond Monogamy,' Adam and Pris delve into the topic of labels within the context of ethical non-monogamy. They discuss how labels such as 'cuckold,' 'hot wife,' 'pansexual,' and 'demisexual' can help individuals navigate their identities and desires within various relationship dynamics. While labels can be useful for understanding shared interests, the hosts highlight the evolving nature of identity and how, over time, these labels may become less significant as deeper perso...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the complexities of maintaining an active swinging lifestyle while raising a family. With five children, including four teenagers, they provide insights into the balance between personal desires and parenting responsibilities. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing family and communication, reflecting on their own experiences of navigating babysitters and family commitments. Despite the challenges, Adam and Pris advocate f...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris explore the nuances of emotional connections within the swinging lifestyle. They discuss their personal journey from polyamory to a more friendship-focused approach, emphasizing the importance of setting clear boundaries. The podcast delves into the difference between romantic and non-romantic connections, highlighting the significance of consent and open communication when exploring sexual relationships. Adam and Pris reflect on their expe...

Pris and Adam's conversation unveils their ongoing journey in non monogamy, focusing on newfound connections and personal growth. Pris describes her recent date as transformative, embracing attraction and connection with others outside her marriage. Adam discusses his journey to understanding the necessity of emotional bonds for fulfilling sexual experiences. Their narrative addresses past struggles with intimacy and the restrictions they unknowingly imposed on each other. Emphasizing openness a...

The latest episode of 'Beyond Monogamy' delves into the nuances of non-monogamous relationships. Hosts Adam and Pris openly discuss their experiences with new relationship dynamics, including Pris’s exhilaration about an upcoming solo date with a couple. They also touch on the crucial role of inclusive exchanges and the importance of communication, especially in a context where boundaries are being redefined. Adam shares his appreciation for how these experiences enrich their relationship. Theme...

Adam and Pris embark on a candid discussion about their favorite sexual fantasies on this week’s Wednesday Quickie. They talk openly about the logistical challenges and appeal of various scenarios, such as surprise encounters and gang bangs. Adam describes his admiration for watching Pris with other partners, referencing amateur video inspirations, while also considering a shared experience with friends. Addressing everything from personal insecurities to humorous moments, the hosts invite liste...

In this episode of 'Beyond Monogamy,' hosts Adam and Pris delve into the concept of compersion, which is often regarded as the opposite of jealousy. As a term primarily used within polyamorous communities, compersion describes the happiness one feels when their partner finds joy and fulfillment with others. Adam and Pris discuss personal experiences navigating compersion, emphasizing its potential to strengthen relationships through empathy and understanding. They share candid insights into over...

Hosts Adam and Pris of Beyond Monogamy provide listeners with a comprehensive guide to swinger terminology. Through candid discussions, they explain the meanings behind terms like soft swap and full swap, highlighting the importance of understanding these concepts within the lifestyle. The episode also touches on the cultural phenomenon of pineapples as a swinger symbol, exploring its mysterious origins. With an emphasis on community and connection, Adam and Pris describe their experiences in me...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive deep into the nuances of communication within intimate relationships. They stress the importance of open and honest dialogue, sharing their personal experiences of overcoming communication hurdles. Through anecdotes, such as a transformative moment at a Hooters, they illustrate how candid conversations can enhance a relationship. Whether dealing with issues from family influence or learning to express feelings tactfully, Adam and Pris ...

Adam and Pris of Beyond Monogamy explore the complexities surrounding public displays of affection among swingers. Through a candid chat, they reveal their personal experiences and boundaries regarding PDA in different venues, like bars or meet and greets. Pris shares her enthusiasm for PDA, noting it's important to be responsive to social cues and respectful to all parties involved. The hosts also recount scenarios where they had to navigate awkward situations due to unclear signals. This podca...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the concept of separate play within their relationship. Initially wary of being apart during play, they share their journey from discomfort to embracing separate play as a means to experience personal pleasure while maintaining their connection. They discuss why establishing boundaries and understanding personal kinks, like Pris’s enjoyment in orchestrating play dates, are crucial for this arrangement. Through their candid discus...

The podcast 'Beyond Monogamy' reveals a discussion about a couple's venture into polyamory. Adam expresses enthusiasm at the idea of multiple romantic relationships, while Pris was resistant due to discomfort around time sharing. Circumstances became more challenging due to Pris' menopause and depression, and a temporary separation for work reasons. Ultimately, polyamory wasn’t for them and they ended their journey after five years.

In this episode of 'Beyond Monogamy', Adam and Pris candidly share their experiences at sex clubs. They discuss the initial nerves of attending one for the first time, the different atmospheres these clubs offer and how these clubs operate. This open dialogue is aimed at debunking misconceptions around lifestyle-related activities, as they delve into personal stories and anecdotes with humor and honesty.