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In this Wednesday QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we’re calling out one of the biggest turn-offs in the lifestyle: entitlement disguised as “being ghosted.” Just because someone doesn’t reply immediately doesn’t mean they disappeared — it usually means they’re busy living a real life. This episode was sparked by a real interaction on Reddit where a lack of instant replies turned into accusations, guilt-tripping, and a crash course in what not to do when talking to people in...

This Week’s QUICKIE: Confessionals This week’s QUICKIE goes deep into the Beyond Monogamy Confessional — the anonymous submission box where listeners spill their wildest lifestyle stories. Adam & Pris read through real confessions about losing interest in the lifestyle, navigating rejection, and the never-ending battle with “horny brain.” From saying no gracefully to balancing trust in BDSM play, it’s equal parts sexy, funny, and real-life relatable. They also shout out The Happy Swinger for ...

🎧 This Week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris This week we sit down with the one and only Ms. Nookie — certified love coach, founder of The Love Mastery Institute, and creator of the oh-so-clever Nookie Notes. She’s teaching us how to date smarter, flirt with intention, and communicate like grown-ass adults — without killing the vibe. From turning consent into foreplay to surviving the modern dating apps (spoiler: it’s a shark tank out there), Ms. Nookie keeps it real, funny, and refreshingly...

🎙️ 1 Year of Beyond Monogamy: How We Grew, Loved, and Laughed Through Non-Monogamy Summary & Show Notes: Adam & Pris celebrate a wild 365 days of Beyond Monogamy — from nervous first recordings to international guests and unfiltered confessions. In this honest, hilarious, and heartfelt anniversary episode, they reveal how the podcast changed their marriage, deepened their communication, and strengthened their connection inside and outside the lifestyle. They share favorite moments, biggest less...

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In this week’s episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Paul Keable, Chief Strategy Officer at Ashley Madison, the world’s #1 married dating app with over 85 million members worldwide. Far from being just a platform for secret liaisons, Ashley Madison has become a fascinating case study in how technology, desire, and changing social norms are reshaping conversations around non-monogamy, intimacy, and discretion. Paul shares insider insights on why people seek out alternativ...

In this candid and unfiltered episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite tattooed duo takes on a topic every swinger, poly, and ethically non-monogamous couple hits sooner or later—the dreaded Lifestyle Lull. From burnout after back-to-back events, to the toll of repetitive routines, Adam & Pris share their own “meh” moments, why they happen, and the real-life ways they’ve reignited their spark without breaking boundaries. You’ll hear the behind-the-scenes truth about juggling a...

This week on Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we’re diving horn-first into the mysterious world of unicorns—those rare, magical, and often misunderstood single bisexual women in the lifestyle. Our guest Jessica, a self-proclaimed unicorn and seasoned swinger, opens up about discovering her sexuality, navigating the lifestyle solo, dealing with unicorn hunters, and knowing her worth in a world that sometimes forgets to ask. From her upbringing in a swinger household (yes, really!) to the lesson...

Aftercare isn't just for kink! In this intimate and hilarious QUICKIE, Adam & Pris share their personal journey navigating aftercare in the swinger lifestyle—from disconnection and insecurity to reclaiming, cuddling, and late-night drive-thru confessions. They get real about how aftercare plays out after playdates, poly dynamics, and even sexy video calls. Whether you're a seasoned swinger or just exploring, this episode offers insight, laughs, and maybe a few “oh shit, that’s us” moments. 📋 Sh...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the financial realities of swinging. They discuss the various costs involved in the lifestyle, from babysitting fees to subscription-based websites, and how it can quickly add up. Adam and Pris share their personal experiences of navigating these expenses with limited budgets in the beginning. They touch on essential costs like grooming and gym memberships, and discuss strategies for managing these expenses. This episode provides ...

In this episode, Adam and Pris discuss the complexities of navigating attraction within the swinging lifestyle. They explore scenarios where one might encounter others who are friendly and engaging but whom they are not sexually attracted to. The podcast offers candid discussions on how to handle such situations gracefully without hurting feelings. Adam and Pris share personal anecdotes on politely declining advances and maintaining friendships despite a lack of physical attraction. They also to...

This podcast episode provides a deep dive into the swinging lifestyle and its personal impact on two hosts, Adam and Pris. Adam introduces the podcast by describing the concept of swinging, recounting how he stumbled upon adult magazines and discovered his father’s hidden interest in the lifestyle. Pris shares her early encounters with open relationships and her initial exploration of swinging, which was fraught with regret due to a judgmental partner. Through candid storytelling, both hosts rev...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris tackle the sensitive topic of sex work within the swinging community, focusing on the rise of OnlyFans among swingers. They explore the contrasting views on monetizing content within the community, with one side arguing that financial gain contradicts the essence of swinging, while the other supports sex work as an inclusive and legitimate expression of lifestyle choices. Pris shares her journey through various forms of sex work, highlighti...

Flirting can often feel like navigating a minefield of awkwardness, especially when you're unsure if your advances are welcome. Adam and Pris tackle this topic head-on, sharing their personal experiences and hiccups along the way. They delve into the nuances of flirting, from differentiating friendly behavior from flirtatious intent to managing the anxiety that can arise when expressing attraction. Through humor and honesty, they illustrate how everyone, regardless of experience level, can encou...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris delve into the concept of an inherent hierarchy within the swinger community, often referred to as 'tiers.' They question whether such a structure truly exists or if it's a perception rooted in individual insecurities. The hosts recount their own experiences as newcomers who felt intimidated by seemingly popular community members, only to later realize that attraction is subjective. Through a candid discussion, the episode serves as a reminder th...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into the complexities of maintaining an active swinging lifestyle while raising a family. With five children, including four teenagers, they provide insights into the balance between personal desires and parenting responsibilities. They emphasize the importance of prioritizing family and communication, reflecting on their own experiences of navigating babysitters and family commitments. Despite the challenges, Adam and Pris advocate f...

Pris and Adam's conversation unveils their ongoing journey in non monogamy, focusing on newfound connections and personal growth. Pris describes her recent date as transformative, embracing attraction and connection with others outside her marriage. Adam discusses his journey to understanding the necessity of emotional bonds for fulfilling sexual experiences. Their narrative addresses past struggles with intimacy and the restrictions they unknowingly imposed on each other. Emphasizing openness a...

The latest episode of 'Beyond Monogamy' delves into the nuances of non-monogamous relationships. Hosts Adam and Pris openly discuss their experiences with new relationship dynamics, including Pris’s exhilaration about an upcoming solo date with a couple. They also touch on the crucial role of inclusive exchanges and the importance of communication, especially in a context where boundaries are being redefined. Adam shares his appreciation for how these experiences enrich their relationship. Theme...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris delve into the intricacies of attraction within non-monogamous relationships. They address the scenario where attraction between couples does not align symmetrically, with only one partner from a couple feeling a connection. The hosts share their personal experiences and discuss solutions like separate play, respecting personal and couple boundaries, and maintaining friendships even when attraction isn't mutual. Emphasizing communication and unde...

Hosts Adam and Pris of Beyond Monogamy provide listeners with a comprehensive guide to swinger terminology. Through candid discussions, they explain the meanings behind terms like soft swap and full swap, highlighting the importance of understanding these concepts within the lifestyle. The episode also touches on the cultural phenomenon of pineapples as a swinger symbol, exploring its mysterious origins. With an emphasis on community and connection, Adam and Pris describe their experiences in me...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris candidly discuss their personal experiences with rejection, both within friendships and intimate relationships. Rejection is framed as an inevitable part of life, particularly for those exploring non-traditional relationship dynamics. The episode delves into how rejection can manifest, such as through ghosting or explicit disinterest, and explores the psychological impacts. While Adam admits to struggling with feelings of self-doubt, Pris e...