Multiamory (Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren & Emily Sotelo Matlack)

Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Sotelo Matlack are the trio behind Multiamory — one of the most respected and longest-running podcasts in the non-monogamy space. Since 2014, they've been delivering research-backed, judgment-free advice for every kind of modern relationship, from ethical non-monogamy and polyamory to swinging, casual dating, and relationship anarchy. With hundreds of episodes, millions of downloads, and listeners in countries around the world, Multiamory has been featured in NPR, Cosmopolitan, Vice, Huffington Post, Oprah Daily, and Elle — and they've presented at Google's Seattle campus and served as keynote speakers at conferences nationwide.
They are also co-authors of Multiamory: Essential Tools for Modern Relationships, a practical, research-grounded guide to communication and connection for all relationship styles, available everywhere books are sold. Emily narrated the audiobook herself.
Dedeker is a relationship coach, writer, and non-monogamy educator with a background in somatic experiencing and trauma healing. Jase is a healthy masculinity educator, sex-positivity advocate, and consent educator with roots in Buddhist mindfulness and positive psychology. Emily is the show's editor and producer, an actor and singer, and a proud vegan who now calls New York City home.
They met through a quad in Los Angeles that, by their own admission, imploded spectacularly — and then kept recording anyway. That stubbornness turned into something remarkable. Multiamory isn't just a podcast. It's the resource a lot of us wish we'd had when we were flying blind.