Drama & Ethics Episodes

In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about the impact of bad swinging experiences and why one flop doesn’t have to end your lifestyle journey. From erectile dysfunction struggles to mismatched vibes and awkward first encounters, they break down the most common reasons people walk away after a negative night — and how to process, communicate, and bounce back stronger. Adam shares why he believes in second chances and growth, while Pris explains why her instinct is to shut it down...

Family law gets real when you’re living outside the box of traditional monogamy. In this episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we sit down with Maryland/DC attorney Jonathan Lane, a polyamorous lawyer who specializes in ethical non-monogamy, custody battles, divorce, inheritance, and family protections. Jonathan breaks down everything ENM and polyamorous families need to know about child custody risks, de facto parent status, divorce disputes, property ownership, wills, medical directive...

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In this powerful and deeply intimate conversation, Adam & Pris sit down with Francesca Gentille — internationally recognized teacher, coach, and author — to explore the intersections of trauma healing, sacred kink, non-monogamy, and empowered aging. Francesca opens up about her own journey: from childhood as a natural counselor, to studying psychology, tantra, BDSM, and shamanic practices that connect fantasy with healing. She breaks down the roots of modern kink, leather culture, and polyamory...

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In this week’s Beyond Monogamy QUICKIE, Adam & Pris break down the most popular swinger stereotypes — testing each one to see if it’s truth… or total BS. From pineapples and hot tubs to midlife crises and “porno-sized Johnsons,” nothing was off-limits in this hilarious 30-minute myth-busting ride. 🕒 Episode Timeline Highlights [00:02] – The “All Swingers Are Hot” Myth Adam & Pris admit they once thought swingers were all gym-bodied models. Reality check? Swingers come in all shapes, sizes, and...

In this candid and unfiltered episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite tattooed duo takes on a topic every swinger, poly, and ethically non-monogamous couple hits sooner or later—the dreaded Lifestyle Lull. From burnout after back-to-back events, to the toll of repetitive routines, Adam & Pris share their own “meh” moments, why they happen, and the real-life ways they’ve reignited their spark without breaking boundaries. You’ll hear the behind-the-scenes truth about juggling a...

his is the one you've been waiting for... 😈 We’re recapping EVERYTHING from Adam’s big birthday weekend — the swinger club, the Airbnb takeover, the sexy chaos, the unexpected drama, and yes… the lap dances, public play, and post-party recovery. 🎂🔥 From nervous planning to wild partying, Adam & Pris take you behind the scenes of their epic 60+ person hybrid house party in Bulverde, Texas — featuring sex-positive vibes, a projector playing porn over a mattress (yes, really), poolside fun, and a...

🎙️ Episode Summary: In this fun, flirty, and candid episode, Adam and Pris take you behind the scenes of their wildest birthday celebration yet! Recorded from their luxe Airbnb in Bulverde, Texas, this episode is a warm-up to Adam’s 43rd birthday bash—complete with poolside vibes, swinger shenanigans, sexy basketball-themed outfits, and over 60 guests expected. They reflect on what it means to truly celebrate within the lifestyle, from their early days of not getting invited to house parties t...

What happens when one half of the couple is ready to party and the other just wants to crawl under a blanket and hide? In this raw, real, and brutally honest episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, your favorite lifestyle couple opens up about the emotional hangover that came with a steamy swinger beach takeover that didn’t quite go as planned. With Pris battling sinus hell and Adam riding a tidal wave of sexual energy, tensions rose, communication faltered, and an epic (but educational) c...

n this laugh-out-loud QUICKIE episode of Beyond Monogamy with Adam & Pris, we’re talking about the real MVPs of lifestyle interruptions: our pets. Ever tried to get down and dirty only to be stared down by your dog? Or have a cat walk across your back mid-thrust? You're not alone. From sex-curious Labradors to judgmental chihuahuas, this episode dives into the hilariously awkward reality of being a swinger with fur babies in the house. We’re sharing our own stories (yes, Pris once had to bribe...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris dive into the financial realities of swinging. They discuss the various costs involved in the lifestyle, from babysitting fees to subscription-based websites, and how it can quickly add up. Adam and Pris share their personal experiences of navigating these expenses with limited budgets in the beginning. They touch on essential costs like grooming and gym memberships, and discuss strategies for managing these expenses. This episode provides ...

This podcast episode provides a deep dive into the swinging lifestyle and its personal impact on two hosts, Adam and Pris. Adam introduces the podcast by describing the concept of swinging, recounting how he stumbled upon adult magazines and discovered his father’s hidden interest in the lifestyle. Pris shares her early encounters with open relationships and her initial exploration of swinging, which was fraught with regret due to a judgmental partner. Through candid storytelling, both hosts rev...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris explore the nuanced social, internal, and external pressures that individuals might face in swinger and polyamory lifestyles. Adam shares his experiences of feeling uncomfortable yet pressured to engage in activities, highlighting the importance of communication and consent. They discuss how saying 'no' can be challenging but essential for maintaining autonomy and comfort. Pris talks about their journey in finding the confidence to set boundaries...

Adam and Pris delve into the notion of feeling like a third wheel in intimate relationships, especially within non-monogamous setups. They share insights from their personal journey, highlighting how shifting focus from mere experiences to deeper connections has transformed their interactions. The duo also tackles the art of flirting, encouraging authenticity and intention in communication. They reflect on how insecurities can intertwine with these dynamics and the significance of compersion, of...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris delve into a listener's letter that explores the complex territory of polyamory and non-monogamous relationships. The listener shares their journey as one partner becomes drawn to polyamory, eager to build deeper individual connections outside their primary relationship. Meanwhile, the other partner grapples with feelings of anxiety and discomfort as they struggle to adjust to this new dynamic. Adam and Pris, through candid conversation, sh...

Join Adam and Pris as they revisit a lively Boogie Nights-themed meet and greet that was filled with laughter, new friendships, and unforgettable costumes. Pris dazzled in her 70s jumpsuit, while Adam sported a retro tennis ensemble, sparking conversations and camaraderie. It wasn't just the costumes that left an impact—valuable experiences with meet and greet dynamics are shared, along with useful tips for newcomers. Explore their adventurous weekend, all while meeting new people and fostering ...

On the Beyond Monogamy podcast, Pris and Adam delve into the social dynamics of lifestyle events, sharing their journey from feeling excluded to embracing community bonds. They discuss overcoming initial insecurities, like being left out of private gatherings, and the efforts required to host their own events. With candid reflections, they underline the importance of remaining open and welcoming to foster inclusivity. While expressing the desire for more male-centric meet-ups, Adam humorously ac...

Adam and Pris, hosts of 'Beyond Monogamy,' tackle the topic of jealousy in non-monogamous relationships. Pris recounts her early struggles with insecurity and fear of losing Adam to others, while Adam mentions the naturalness of such emotions. They discuss the evolution of their communication and how transparency helped Pris realize her own worth, reducing her jealousy. The episode underscores the significance of self-awareness and partnership dynamics in navigating the complex emotional landsca...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, Adam and Pris delve into the intricacies of attraction within non-monogamous relationships. They address the scenario where attraction between couples does not align symmetrically, with only one partner from a couple feeling a connection. The hosts share their personal experiences and discuss solutions like separate play, respecting personal and couple boundaries, and maintaining friendships even when attraction isn't mutual. Emphasizing communication and unde...

In this episode, Adam and Pris explore the dynamics of making connections within and outside the lifestyle. Pris shares her experiences with people from the vanilla world, highlighting the challenges and misunderstandings that can arise when explaining ethical non-monogamy. Meanwhile, Adam discusses his comfort with forming connections in both worlds, emphasizing the importance of over-communication to avoid misinterpretations. Both hosts agree on the importance of establishing clear boundaries ...

In this episode of Beyond Monogamy, hosts Adam and Pris candidly discuss their personal experiences with rejection, both within friendships and intimate relationships. Rejection is framed as an inevitable part of life, particularly for those exploring non-traditional relationship dynamics. The episode delves into how rejection can manifest, such as through ghosting or explicit disinterest, and explores the psychological impacts. While Adam admits to struggling with feelings of self-doubt, Pris e...