S1 E6 Exploring Intimacy Beyond Monogamy: A Candid Discussion

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the show. Hello,

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and welcome to another episode of Beyond Monogamy. I'm Adam.

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And I'm Pris. And today you're joining us.

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We're gonna do something a little bit different today.

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We normally do topics, but today we really wanted to kind of delve

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into some. Some random questions that maybe we

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don't always think to ask each other.

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Oh, you know, you and I, we know each other well.

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We have known each other for several years, and I'd like

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to think that I know you better than anybody does.

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I think so, yeah. Yeah. That's fair to say. Yeah.

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So you know me. I'm very inquisitive. I know

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you. You. You ask a lot of questions. Try. I think that

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the two of us can come up with some good stuff here. Okay. And so

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I think we made a good list. I think we're. We've got some ideas.

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And so those of you who want to get to know us a little

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bit better, you're about to find out because we're about to learn some stuff about

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each other right now. Okay. Okay. So I'm gonna go ahead and start us off.

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All right. That's all right. Yes. I got a question for you.

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Okay. What's more exciting, the anticipation

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or the actual experience? For me,

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the actual experience. The actual experience.

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Yeah. The anticipation, if I

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can be brutally honest, is never good.

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If. If not.

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If. So, I've had a few men that just

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haven't been up to par for whatever reason.

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Right. And so my anticipation up to

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it isn't really thrilling.

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That makes sense. You know, but once it's in the action,

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I'm like, okay, this was freaking awesome. So you actually enjoyed

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the experiences? I do, yeah. Oh,

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yeah. The buildup of it. Now, if I'm playing with women,

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it's different. Okay. The anticipation is there.

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Really? I'm like, ah, is it time?

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And what. And what's the difference?

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Women rarely disappoint.

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Okay. Is that true? For me,

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I guess it's an experience. I think so, yeah.

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And not to not to dog it.

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But, yeah. It's just what it is. It's. I love both.

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Yeah. You know, and the men that we have

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been with or I have been with hasn't, you know,

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been pretty good, actually. They're making me

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change my way of thinking, for sure. Yeah.

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Well, that's good, you know, because previously you had comfort

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with men, but you didn't enjoy men. Yes.

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Yeah. So. Yeah. How about you? Well,

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wait, I'm not gonna ask you that question. No, I'm gonna ask you another question.

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Okay. What's the funniest thing that's ever happened

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to you at a lifestyle event? Oh,

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wow. You know,

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I don't know if it's necessarily funny.

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Probably nobody would find it very funny.

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I probably would go. So it was.

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There was. There was an event at a very big

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outdoor area. Okay.

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And it was really one of our first

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events that we went to with these groups

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that we're in. And I

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have such horrible social anxiety and everything,

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but I had been kind of putting myself out there, and people were starting to

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kind of notice me. And then I had that shirt printed that

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has Adam written all over it.

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Yes. And I stood there in the middle,

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and I was like, the first one there, and people start walking

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in, and that's the first thing they see is me and a

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shirt with my name. And I

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remember just freaking out as

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I see people coming up, and there's people that are

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walking in, and they're pointing, and they're like, oh. You know, And I can tell

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they're. And I'm not blaming them. It. I. I set

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it up that way, but I remember just kind of having,

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like, major panic attacks. Yeah. Going,

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why did I do this to myself? That's funny. I didn't know you were having

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a. Major panic attack, dude. I was. That's funny.

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Yeah. So bad. And I remember just.

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Just kind of trying to get myself together, and. And people would

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come up, and it was the same joke over and over again. People would come

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up to me, and they'd be like, hey, are you Adam? And I'd be like,

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no, actually, I'm Gary. And. And then that would lead into

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conversation where I'd proceed to. You're such a.

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I don' Doing in life, man. But this is what

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it is. It is what it is. This is it.

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And so, you know, we haven't been to too many.

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Too many events for me to have much

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to say there. Yeah. Yeah. Funny. No,

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I guess not. I don't even have a funny one from

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a lifestyle. No, no, no. Well,

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I got one for you here. So what would you say?

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What's a lesson we've learned that we never

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expected in the lifestyle?

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Ooh. A lesson we've learned. I don't know.

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You're gonna have to give me one. Huh. A lesson

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we've learned that we've never expected in the lifestyle

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is to basically give

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everybody a chance. Be inclusive. Be inclusive.

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Yeah, that's kind of hard for me. Yeah, we were

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just talking about that. Yeah, it's kind of hard for me because I

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come from a time. Not a time from a family who is

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very judgmental, and so I feel like I carry

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that sometimes with me, and I'm

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not very inclusive to people, and you

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always have to remind me to be that way. So that's a really good lesson.

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That's a really good lesson. Yeah, that is a good lesson. Yeah. To be inclusive,

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because. Yeah, I. And it's something that you. You should expect

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in the lifestyle, but you don't. You really don't see

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it. No. You don't see it as often. And, you know, I mean,

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nobody wants to admit it, but there are the occasional clicks,

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and it is what it is. Yeah. But there's a lot of

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people that inclusivity is not go

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hand in hand with this. It doesn't, unfortunately. Yeah.

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Yeah. And so I really need to. To learn to do that better.

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I feel like I. I am, for the most part,

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but I. I need to be better about it. Yeah, Yeah, I hear you.

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But we're always trying to better ourselves. Yes, we are. I got you

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as a husband. What does that mean? I better.

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Well, that's true. Yeah. Yeah. You married up. I did.

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Oh, okay. If we're planning a themed lifestyle party,

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what theme would we go with? What theme would

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we go with? Oh, my gosh.

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That would be incredible. Right? I would love SpongeBob.

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I would like. Or Bob's Burgers.

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Yeah. Can we do a Bob's Burger themed event?

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That would be so fun, actually.

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Right? I think that would be pretty cool. Yeah, that would.

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Oh, my goodness. I'm already. I got it. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know, I think

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one would be. You don't like themes. Well, I don't. I really don't.

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But you love to be in the spotlight when it's themed, which is so

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funny. Like, you don't like planning a themed event, but if I were to tell

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you, hey, it's a themed event, you would be so freaking down.

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You're such a brat. You'd be so down. Well, so if

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I were to Pick one. I would pick, like,

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superheroes, because that's just fun.

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Well, Star wars is superheroes. Oh, yeah. No, I'm saying like,

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if. If we weren't doing Star Wars. Okay. Like if they like Avengers.

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Yeah, yeah. Superheroes.

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Yeah, yeah. Just. Okay, well, all superheroes. So,

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like, would you go like from just any superhero period? Any superheroes at

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all? They have to be an actual superhero. You can't just

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make them up. We should do superhero and villains.

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Oh, right. Superheroes and villains.

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Yeah. Yeah. That's good. Right? Oh,

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man. Whoever does that needs to invite us. Yeah. Or at

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least take pictures. No, invite us.

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Okay. Invite inclusivity.

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Hello. That's right. That's the lesson that we've learned.

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That's right. Okay, well, I got one for you here.

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What's the one thing you'd include in a

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dream lifestyle club if you owned one?

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Lower fees. Really? Well,

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so now, to be fair, a lot of

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these fees pay for a lot of

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really great amenities. Yeah. So I don't.

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I don't really want to take away from these clubs that

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are charging high fees because they are high fees for a reason.

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Yeah. Right. You know, there's a lot that you get out of it.

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Okay. So a dream lifestyle club. If I

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owned one, I would have equal,

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beautiful bathrooms for both the men and the women.

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Praise you. Yeah. I would have free

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bottle water. Dig it. And that's

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pretty much it. I like that. Right. I think those are. I think

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yalls bathrooms need to be up to par. Oh, dude.

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Yeah. And I think free bottled water or

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just like a water where we don't have to wait at the bar. Because I

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will. I mean, I take my own water in. Right. And they. These people,

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these places you can take your own water. Yeah. And they don't.

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Like, you take it to the very back, but you can. Right.

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But sometimes people don't have cups. Like free water

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bottle. Free. Free water. Free water.

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Like, you don't have to get in line. Like, it's. There's a water container somewhere,

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like a big jug. Is there one? You know,

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I. I don't think so. No. I don't think so. Better bathrooms.

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But I. Well, I will tell you, if it. If it were my call.

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Yeah. I would absolutely want them to have

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like a. A shower facility.

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Okay. Not just a shower where you can get cleaned up actually

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in the shower is what I heard. There's one up

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north. Really? You could do that? Yeah. Heated.

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I love that. Yeah. We're gonna have to ask our friends because I think there's

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One. Really? Yeah, dude. Yeah, that would be cool.

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Do you like to shower? I mean, you like to shower me. I like to

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shower you. But I've never been to shower anybody out.

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No, that is a no. That's a. That's a rule. That is mine.

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Not a boundary. Right? Yeah. And that's all you, baby.

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Yeah. Yeah. You can them in the pool. Now, what if they're like those

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locker room standup showers that you would see at the beginning of a. A be

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horror movie. Okay. You know what I'm saying? What if it was that I couldn't

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somebody in one of those? Yeah. I didn't think so.

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Okay. I can tell by your look. That would

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be a no, ladies and gentlemen. That would be a no. That would be a

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no. Okay, next question. Oh, my gosh.

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Yeah. What's one activity or dynamic?

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You've always been curious but haven't tried yet,

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huh? What haven't we tried?

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What haven't we tried? Well, you wanted to do a gang bang.

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Yes. And you haven't had that.

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But to be fair, that's. You are now going to get lots of messages.

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Can I be part of that? Takes a lot,

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logistically. Yeah. Because one, you need.

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You need people who. Who I trust. Who you

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trust. Yeah. Who are also well

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endowed. Enough to get the job done. Yes. Who also know

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how to fuck well enough to get the job done. Who are

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also. Okay fucking.

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While other guys are in the mix. Yes.

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And available at the same time as everybody else.

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Yeah. That's difficult. That's a

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lot. That is. That's something that can happen at a club or.

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Yeah. Or a house party. Or a house party. Yeah.

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But that is doable. It is so doable. It is. We're going to

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a house party. Oh, yeah. Yeah. For New Year's

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Eve. Yeah. And we will be banging it out, man. Yes.

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Yeah. So let's see. Oh,

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man, that's gonna be fun. Let's see. You never know.

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So one activity. So that's mine. What is one that you've been

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curious about but haven't tried?

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Well, for me,

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because we've done just about everything. Yeah.

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But I would say probably.

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What do they call them? Reverse gang bangs. That's where it's

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the guy and it's just a bunch of women. But I don't want to like,

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get like. I don't. I don't want a strap on near me or

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anything like that. Yeah. I just want it to be like, just. Just like

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me and a bed full of women. Yeah. Because I.

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I want to Disappoint more than one woman at a time. I've never been

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able to do that. I'm sure you have. I'm sure I. I disappointed every

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woman in my life, but not simultaneously. Yeah.

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No, you're not. You're not disappointed. No, I like you.

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Yeah. Thank goodness. I know. Yeah. That's why I married you.

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You're the only one that's not disappointed. Okay. You get to read the next one.

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Okay. What's your favorite type of connection?

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Flirty and casual or deep and meaningful?

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Well, flirty and casual can turn into deep and

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meaningful. This is true. On a technicality.

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But I like. I like flirty and casual. Really?

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Yeah. I like. I like to.

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If we're at a meet and greet, we're flirting, and it's very casual.

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I know at some point something may happen,

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but. Yeah, I love. I love the flirting casual.

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I love the flirting casual with both sexes.

252
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Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Yeah. Wow. We are different. Oh, we are so different.

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You are that other one. I am absolutely deep and meaningful. Yeah.

254
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I thought. Absolutely. Well, I am the. I am the transactional number.

255
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That's true. Because I need that deep and meaningful connection.

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I want to like the person I'm with.

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Like, really same. No, but, like, really, really.

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Like, like, yeah, I enjoy them as people.

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I want to hang around them. That sort of thing like that.

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Yeah. That's a deep and meaningful connection. Yeah, I'm not talking.

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I want to, like, take them out to dinner and propose to him later.

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And it's, you know, it's just a deeper, meaningful connection.

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But, yeah, we are very different. You. I mean.

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I mean, always with the transaction, it. Turns into the

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deep and meaningful because. Does it? When they become a regular customer.

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Yes. Stop it. You're so

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silly. Yeah, no, it just depends. It was still

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too fun. Oh, my God. All right. Would you rather spend the

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night at a lifestyle resort, a private party or

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a big event? Okay, so I know the answer for this for both of us.

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What is it? We don't like to stay anywhere. No way.

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We. We have, as of lately, we have gone

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out and stayed with friends. We're trying new,

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which is something we have never done.

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And for lifestyle friends, yeah, we've stayed with, like, regular friends,

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but lifestyle friends, never. And,

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yeah, this is definitely different for us. And it's been super

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casual. Yeah. We go, we're tired, we get our water burger,

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and we go to bed. Like, it's been super cash.

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And I gotta say, I like it.

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Yeah. Yeah. But it's not something that we. You Know we

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do, but. Well, I can. A lifestyle resort. Lifestyle resort.

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I. I don't know if I would pay money for a lifestyle resort

284
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just because. I'm just saying. Oh, I know. Yes, you're so.

285
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Yes. But I'm saying the.

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It's a party all the time out there from what I'm told. I mean,

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I could be very wrong, but I was told it's. Well, we're gonna find out.

288
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We're gonna be doing one next year. Eddie Murphy's over here. Party all the time.

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Party all the time. Yeah, but that's what.

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That's what. And, man, I'm old, dude. Yeah, I like to go to bed

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by 9 or 10 o'clock. I ain't trying to party all night long. You know

292
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what that does to my liver? Well, you don't drink, baby.

293
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Well, I mean, it just makes it tired.

294
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I'm like, what about your liver? It's tired, man. It wants

295
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to go to bed at 10. Yeah. My liver's like, hey, let's go to bed.

296
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Vamos. Yeah, I could use more water and let's go to bed.

297
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And so, yeah, that's. I just, I can't. I don't want to do

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that now at a private party. Would I sleep over?

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We talked about it at that one party because they offered.

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They said, hey, if you guys don't want to go, oh, yeah, you can stay

301
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here. And actually, this party that we're going to at New Year's,

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we could have gotten. We could have gotten a bed, but we didn't. No,

303
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we just. We don't live far. Yeah. Yeah. But we're just going

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really to bang it out and then leave. Yeah. At midnight

305
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at 12:01. We'll be like, see you guys later. Yeah,

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but really, I. I don't.

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I don't. I wouldn't have a problem with it,

308
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but I wouldn't be totally comfortable.

309
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Yeah, we like our bed. Oh, totally. And we like it super cold and we

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like to cuddles with each other. And I damn sure ain't spending the night at

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a big event. I don't even know what that means. I don't know,

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is it a convention center or sleeping in the hallway? Is this

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like one of those graduation ceremonies where people are camped

314
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out there? No, thanks. I'm good.

315
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Okay. Yeah, yeah. No. So what is

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your ideal way to unwind after a lifestyle

317
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night out? I like to come

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back and you and I are usually

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washing up or whatever and we're done

320
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eating our food because we always stop to get food. Yeah.

321
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And just kind of relaxing with you.

322
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And then we usually just. Yeah,

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most times. Most times we get a couple of rounds before we go to

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bed. Unless it's like we're super tired and we just

325
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go straight to bed. Yeah, yeah, but that's my favorite

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thing. Like just getting some food and relaxing

327
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with you and kind of reconnecting. I like that.

328
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Yeah, yeah. You know, that's, that's always been our,

329
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our number one routine. Yeah, so that's, that's a good way

330
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to do it. I was gonna say, you know, always getting food.

331
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I mean, that's what we always do. We're such little piggies. Yeah, well, we normally

332
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have a drive. We normally have a drive.

333
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Yeah, we're never close, so we, we drive, we eat our little French

334
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fries on the way home. French fries. Yeah. So always

335
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the, the number one guy. Gotta carve it up.

336
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Yeah, that's how we do it. All right, so what's one lifestyle activity or

337
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scenario you'd want to try next year?

338
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Oh, that's a good one. Well,

339
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we have a lot of different things that we want to try next year,

340
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so. I know. Yeah. Or scenario. I know. We're going to like. We're going to

341
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try to do the big event that's at the beach.

342
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Oh, yeah, right. That's an activity, that beach takeover.

343
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Yeah. Yeah, we're definitely gonna try our best to do

344
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that one. And I'm really hoping to plan a trip to

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Colorado. That would be fun.

346
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Yeah. Yeah. And now scenario. Well, so I got

347
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a scenario. Okay. I don't know how well it works out, but what

348
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I've always wanted. Okay. Is to set up

349
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a little, I don't know,

350
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three, two to three couple orgy

351
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made up of couples that are really like,

352
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like are in our circle, like our close friends. That is so easy.

353
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Well, no, not really. I mean, I mean,

354
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maybe not, you know, I'm. I'm talking about like the close friends,

355
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you know what I mean? Yeah. It's more of a fantasy than anything else

356
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because I know it's probably not going to happen. But the idea is to

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set up, you know, these couples who we really

358
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just friggin love and just have

359
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this frigging heated orgy of

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just sex and fun and craziness and everybody's

361
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laughing and everybody's kissing and rubbing and touching and fucking

362
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and crazy and just happening stuff right there. I can

363
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dig it. Can you dig it? I can dig it. I can dig it.

364
00:22:08,298 --> 00:22:12,370
Right, let's do that. That's a really good scenario. Yeah, that's a

365
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really good scenario. Oh, it's hotness. Yeah. And if there was any way for

366
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that to happen in 2025, that would be incredulous. I would

367
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like scenario.

368
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I don't have one. I think you should take mine.

369
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I want that one. Take it, girl. Let's do it.

370
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Yeah, I think we're gonna bout it, boy. We'll do it together.

371
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Yes. Yes, of course. Well, yeah. That was a given.

372
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Yeah, I guess so. That's. That's pretty good. All right.

373
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What? Is it me? Yeah, I think so. Okay. Yeah. What's your ideal

374
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way to break the ice at a party?

375
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Ooh. Well, at a party,

376
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to break the ice, I usually kind of say, we're.

377
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Going upstairs now to break the ice.

378
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Yeah. I mean, isn't that breaking the ice? I thought that's like

379
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conversation starters and stuff. I don't know. I mean, it's a lifestyle

380
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party. We do. We. We're already talking.

381
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We. Yeah, that's true. We do. I think lifestyle parties need.

382
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People are scared to kind of get the rolling. Well, remember we went and.

383
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And when somebody, our friend told us, oh, yeah, people don't play at lifestyle.

384
00:23:20,432 --> 00:23:23,460
What? What? Yeah, yeah, I remember.

385
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They won't play till like two in the morning. And I'm like, what? Yeah.

386
00:23:26,944 --> 00:23:30,064
No, we're leaving 2 in the morning. I'm leaving here at 10. Are you crazy?

387
00:23:30,112 --> 00:23:33,340
Yeah. So how I break the ice

388
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for everybody to get started is to tell everybody that we're starting.

389
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Yeah. And we normally find the bedroom. You know what's nice

390
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is whenever we do that and then people eventually show up and they're watching

391
00:23:44,412 --> 00:23:48,076
us. That's hot. But when we say it and we go

392
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and we're banging it out and nobody shows up, I'm like,

393
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I'm just disappointed in humankind because I'm putting

394
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on. A pretty good show and you are, like, at your top notch. I really

395
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do my best to lay it down. You do, sir. I try.

396
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And people are missing out.

397
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So our icebreaker is to start the fun.

398
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Start the fun. That's. That's. That's a pretty good way to start it. That's a

399
00:24:12,902 --> 00:24:16,286
pretty good way. So we've already done that one or we've already done the.

400
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Do you have any fantasies you're hoping to explore tonight? No.

401
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No. Okay,

402
00:24:22,462 --> 00:24:26,382
right here. Are you more into watching, participating, or a little bit

403
00:24:26,406 --> 00:24:29,560
of both. Oh, dude. So you're not

404
00:24:29,600 --> 00:24:33,256
playing deep. Okay. Yeah. You're not playing.

405
00:24:33,408 --> 00:24:36,872
You have participating. Oh, yeah. Okay. So I

406
00:24:36,896 --> 00:24:40,296
gotta say, I'm a little bit of Both now. I love

407
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watching you. Yes. That's my number one. I love watching you.

408
00:24:44,048 --> 00:24:47,496
So it's hot watching. Yeah. Right. I love participating,

409
00:24:47,608 --> 00:24:50,696
obviously. So you mix and match, Right?

410
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I normally start whenever we have a threesome or even sometimes

411
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moresome. I'll sit back. Is that what it's called? I think that's

412
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what I'm calling. Okay, I'll sit back and I'll watch you get started with

413
00:25:02,024 --> 00:25:05,680
everybody. Yeah. And I'll literally just sit back and Jack,

414
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I love. So I love and watch you. I love when you're watching me because

415
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I'm going to put on a show. For you and you always

416
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do. You never fail. No. And so I will

417
00:25:17,240 --> 00:25:20,880
literally just sit there and. And I think people kind

418
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of get freaked out by that and they're like, oh, you want

419
00:25:24,376 --> 00:25:27,206
to come in here? And I'm like, no, go ahead, do your thing.

420
00:25:27,278 --> 00:25:30,582
Yeah, I'll be there. I'll be there in a little while. Yeah. And I

421
00:25:30,606 --> 00:25:34,550
will literally just watch you and jack off until

422
00:25:34,670 --> 00:25:38,374
I can't take it anymore. Yeah. I like to watch you.

423
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Do you. I love to watch you,

424
00:25:41,102 --> 00:25:45,078
like, if we're playing with somebody and I don't

425
00:25:45,094 --> 00:25:48,742
know, the guy's still trying to get it up or trying

426
00:25:48,766 --> 00:25:51,238
to get back in, you know, trying to get in the mood. Yeah. And he's

427
00:25:51,254 --> 00:25:54,560
going down on me. I am watching you. Really? Yes. Like,

428
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I love that. I love to watch you. I.

429
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And I love to watch you. And I love when you know that I'm looking

430
00:26:01,096 --> 00:26:05,100
at you and we make eye contact. My God. Cuz, it's like

431
00:26:05,800 --> 00:26:09,584
so hot. Dude, give it to her. Oh. You know,

432
00:26:09,592 --> 00:26:12,768
and obviously there's nothing better than, you know,

433
00:26:12,904 --> 00:26:16,752
two women on my bone. I don't even know better

434
00:26:16,776 --> 00:26:20,288
than two women on mine. What woman?

435
00:26:20,344 --> 00:26:24,176
You are too fine. Yes. I love it. Where did this conversation

436
00:26:24,288 --> 00:26:28,360
go? What is something that always sets the mood for you?

437
00:26:28,660 --> 00:26:32,396
Oh, always sets the mood for me. You know what? It's.

438
00:26:32,508 --> 00:26:35,996
It's not anything very difficult.

439
00:26:36,108 --> 00:26:39,084
What sets the mood for me. Is Eric Clapton playing in the back?

440
00:26:39,172 --> 00:26:43,116
Oh, God, no. Who's that other guy? There's another guy,

441
00:26:43,148 --> 00:26:46,520
the saxophone guy. Oh, Kenny G. Yeah. Kenny G.

442
00:26:47,620 --> 00:26:50,828
No way. What puts the mood for me? What puts the mood for me is

443
00:26:50,884 --> 00:26:54,362
the simplest thing. It's touch. Yeah,

444
00:26:54,506 --> 00:26:57,850
it is the simplest touch. Yeah. Touch my arm,

445
00:26:57,930 --> 00:27:00,986
touch my leg, rub up against me,

446
00:27:01,058 --> 00:27:05,178
whatever. Any kind of touch that you bump into

447
00:27:05,234 --> 00:27:08,298
me and it's like you're laughing and you bump into me. That sort of thing.

448
00:27:08,354 --> 00:27:12,122
Yeah. Total affection. Gets me every Time.

449
00:27:12,226 --> 00:27:15,482
And that absolutely will set them. That's why I'm always on

450
00:27:15,506 --> 00:27:19,082
your arm. Always. Like, I'm always constantly rubbing about the

451
00:27:19,106 --> 00:27:22,804
touch. Yeah. Yeah, it does. So it does world. It relaxes you.

452
00:27:22,892 --> 00:27:25,908
Yeah, big time. Big time. But it also puts you in the mood if I'm

453
00:27:25,924 --> 00:27:28,240
touching in the right spot. Oh, in touch with.

454
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Incredible. Incredible. Yeah. I love that.

455
00:27:32,380 --> 00:27:35,652
So let's see here. How do you like to

456
00:27:35,676 --> 00:27:39,480
be approached in a. In, like, a public setting,

457
00:27:39,980 --> 00:27:43,796
whether it be sex club or regular

458
00:27:43,908 --> 00:27:48,120
public place? I like a quick introduction.

459
00:27:48,470 --> 00:27:51,662
Quick introduction. So you see me at a

460
00:27:51,686 --> 00:27:55,374
spot, and you reach out your hand, you're like,

461
00:27:55,542 --> 00:27:58,654
hey, Pris, I've seen you. So I.

462
00:27:58,742 --> 00:28:02,606
I appreciate it when. When the guys or even the girls do that. They're like,

463
00:28:02,678 --> 00:28:06,206
hey, Pris, I've seen you online. I haven't talked to you because,

464
00:28:06,278 --> 00:28:10,286
you know, whatever. And, you know, they blurt

465
00:28:10,318 --> 00:28:14,286
out whatever. Like, you have funny posts or you have a really pretty

466
00:28:14,318 --> 00:28:17,890
smile. Yeah, that right there. The handshake.

467
00:28:18,550 --> 00:28:22,190
The simple little handshake and the. Just a

468
00:28:22,230 --> 00:28:25,950
quick little interaction will make

469
00:28:25,990 --> 00:28:29,406
me feel so comfortable, really. And that's the best way to approach

470
00:28:29,478 --> 00:28:33,102
me. Now, if you approach me and you

471
00:28:33,126 --> 00:28:36,570
know what I'm gonna do if you're, like, all over me

472
00:28:36,870 --> 00:28:39,694
and like, God, you are just, like,

473
00:28:39,782 --> 00:28:43,022
so fine. I've seen you on Facebook and

474
00:28:43,046 --> 00:28:46,612
different groups. I would look at you and be

475
00:28:46,636 --> 00:28:49,440
like, that arm on a break. Like,

476
00:28:50,060 --> 00:28:52,760
you need to come at me way. I'm.

477
00:28:53,180 --> 00:28:57,172
I'm very. I am very transactional. But I'm also.

478
00:28:57,276 --> 00:29:00,980
Respect me. Like, show me my man respects me.

479
00:29:01,020 --> 00:29:04,276
My man respects every woman. Like, I expect that.

480
00:29:04,348 --> 00:29:07,892
I. You know, I guess I don't set the bar. You do. You set the

481
00:29:07,916 --> 00:29:11,800
bar. So, like, that's. If you want to, like, really make a good impression,

482
00:29:12,200 --> 00:29:15,712
either ask me if you can give me a hug. Reach out

483
00:29:15,736 --> 00:29:19,136
your hand and shake it and just say, hi.

484
00:29:19,248 --> 00:29:22,384
I'm. You know, you'd be like, hi, I'm Adam,

485
00:29:22,432 --> 00:29:25,744
and I've seen you online, and I want to, you know, want to talk a

486
00:29:25,752 --> 00:29:28,736
little bit. Can I hit you up? Yeah.

487
00:29:28,928 --> 00:29:31,632
Just because you said that so respectfully.

488
00:29:31,776 --> 00:29:34,800
Yes. Yes. Well, you know,

489
00:29:34,840 --> 00:29:37,740
for me, I'm much simpler. You are.

490
00:29:39,260 --> 00:29:42,260
All you have to do is just come up to me and say,

491
00:29:42,300 --> 00:29:46,452
hi. Yeah. Maybe touch my arm and

492
00:29:46,636 --> 00:29:50,340
introduce yourself. And then, hey, some of these women,

493
00:29:50,460 --> 00:29:53,796
though, they come in for a kiss. You know, it's like, hey,

494
00:29:53,908 --> 00:29:57,300
okay, I. I now know

495
00:29:57,340 --> 00:30:00,340
who you are. I. I get you.

496
00:30:00,380 --> 00:30:04,232
I understand you. Yeah. Don't do that. Do not no.

497
00:30:04,256 --> 00:30:07,784
You don't like. You don't like somebody coming in for a kiss? No, no,

498
00:30:07,952 --> 00:30:11,624
I dig it. I like it. I'm not gonna lie. I like when

499
00:30:11,632 --> 00:30:14,840
a woman comes up. To me and just Some strange. You don't even

500
00:30:14,880 --> 00:30:18,184
know her. No. Well, okay, so that's what I'm saying. Like I'm saying,

501
00:30:18,272 --> 00:30:22,056
actually. No, I can still dig that. I can still dig that

502
00:30:22,208 --> 00:30:26,740
because I like the experience

503
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:30,198
of kissing different people.

504
00:30:30,344 --> 00:30:34,202
Yeah. The variety. Yeah. Okay. I am. I am.

505
00:30:34,306 --> 00:30:37,642
I'm all buffet, baby. No, I'm all buffet. I'll go over

506
00:30:37,666 --> 00:30:40,938
there for the variety. Yeah. And then I'm like, all right, boo boo,

507
00:30:40,954 --> 00:30:44,906
go and wash your mouth. Yeah, it's for me. I just.

508
00:30:45,058 --> 00:30:48,474
I overthink it. What do you mean, you overthink it? Don't come in for a

509
00:30:48,482 --> 00:30:51,430
kiss for me. You don't even know. Like. I don't even know where. No,

510
00:30:51,810 --> 00:30:54,602
no. Ain't happening.

511
00:30:54,666 --> 00:30:58,532
Yeah. Now, don't get me wrong. I'm not going around smooching and

512
00:30:58,556 --> 00:31:02,628
smooching. I don't. I don't go. Oh, please explain.

513
00:31:02,724 --> 00:31:06,372
I don't go to anybody and say, hey, come here,

514
00:31:06,396 --> 00:31:09,988
you let me kiss you. I don't do that. You know why I don't

515
00:31:10,004 --> 00:31:12,800
do that? Because I'm usually at your arm. Well, that.

516
00:31:13,500 --> 00:31:17,412
Actually. That's pretty much reason enough. But that. And I

517
00:31:17,436 --> 00:31:20,804
just don't. I don't. I don't want to be rejected, so I don't put myself

518
00:31:20,852 --> 00:31:24,470
out there like that. Yeah. So when somebody kisses me,

519
00:31:24,770 --> 00:31:28,110
I like it because it makes me feel wanted.

520
00:31:28,450 --> 00:31:31,962
Yeah. I know you hate it when I say that, but it makes

521
00:31:31,986 --> 00:31:35,562
me feel wanted. And I like that. I dig that. It feels good to

522
00:31:35,586 --> 00:31:38,970
know that somebody wants me enough to. Where they're like,

523
00:31:39,010 --> 00:31:43,018
okay, I gotta kiss this dude. Yeah. I'm like, hell's yeah, go for it.

524
00:31:43,074 --> 00:31:46,538
You know, I know you don't care for that. That you.

525
00:31:46,594 --> 00:31:50,252
That someone goes up to you and kisses you. Yeah. No. Yeah. No. You're not

526
00:31:50,276 --> 00:31:53,960
a fan. No. Not a big fan of that. I have stopped many.

527
00:31:55,060 --> 00:31:58,300
I have stopped many. Ask. Yeah, it's an.

528
00:31:58,340 --> 00:32:01,852
Ask. Yeah. Can I kiss you? And when I hear it, I'm like,

529
00:32:01,956 --> 00:32:05,772
no, just kidding. I'm kidding. I'm kidding.

530
00:32:05,836 --> 00:32:09,516
Oh, you're such a tough guy. No, I don't know. I don't.

531
00:32:09,548 --> 00:32:12,720
I don't. I don't like. Oh, they can kiss me on the cheek. Yeah.

532
00:32:13,620 --> 00:32:16,292
I'm not like you on that part at all.

533
00:32:16,436 --> 00:32:19,540
No, no. I'm getting. I'm getting a Little bit

534
00:32:19,580 --> 00:32:22,996
more easier at giving. Kiss on the lips.

535
00:32:23,028 --> 00:32:26,132
Like, you know, when I. When we see our friends and whatever,

536
00:32:26,276 --> 00:32:30,068
but a complete stranger. No, it kissed

537
00:32:30,084 --> 00:32:33,140
me on the cheek. Yeah. Okay. I'm not. I'm not that person.

538
00:32:33,260 --> 00:32:36,612
I'm not that person. No, I'm very. First of

539
00:32:36,636 --> 00:32:39,428
all, I've been in the dental field for what?

540
00:32:39,564 --> 00:32:43,120
I was in it for, like, 25 years. Yeah. 20 something years. That.

541
00:32:43,480 --> 00:32:46,060
No, I'm all about oral health,

542
00:32:46,920 --> 00:32:49,792
like, completely. And I even tell you that I'm like, okay,

543
00:32:49,856 --> 00:32:52,320
fine, like, you're making out with all these people. Can you please go and,

544
00:32:52,360 --> 00:32:56,032
like, rinse your mouth or do something because there's

545
00:32:56,096 --> 00:33:01,120
so many freaking germs in your mouth. Yeah. So no goodness.

546
00:33:01,280 --> 00:33:04,620
I know. I overthink it. So you really kill a bit.

547
00:33:07,160 --> 00:33:10,486
I can't believe you just carry Listerine with you, Babbitt.

548
00:33:10,568 --> 00:33:14,042
Oh, you kiss whomever you want. Oh, how you gonna follow it

549
00:33:14,066 --> 00:33:17,978
up with that? You're tell me all of this negative stuff and then

550
00:33:18,034 --> 00:33:21,190
say, but you do what you want, girl.

551
00:33:21,650 --> 00:33:24,790
Take it on the bricks, man. Trying to hear that.

552
00:33:25,330 --> 00:33:28,266
You are crazy. Let. Don't.

553
00:33:28,378 --> 00:33:31,898
Don't ask me if you don't like the answer. We're literally. That's. That's. Oh,

554
00:33:31,914 --> 00:33:34,522
it's a question. That's what we're doing. Let's see,

555
00:33:34,626 --> 00:33:38,042
what. Where are we at? Oh, right here. Do you have

556
00:33:38,066 --> 00:33:41,930
a favorite type of couple or a person you click with

557
00:33:42,050 --> 00:33:46,154
in these spaces? So I guess the spaces would be like clubs

558
00:33:46,202 --> 00:33:49,562
or let's say meet and greets, because we've been. We're going to be going to

559
00:33:49,586 --> 00:33:53,146
those more even. Just the groups, period. Yeah. Do you have a. A couple

560
00:33:53,178 --> 00:33:55,390
of, like, a couple or type.

561
00:33:57,810 --> 00:34:01,910
A physical type? No, no, not at all.

562
00:34:02,460 --> 00:34:05,396
A personality type? Absolutely. Yeah.

563
00:34:05,508 --> 00:34:08,804
I find I gravitate towards genuine

564
00:34:08,852 --> 00:34:12,520
people. Yeah. People who are unapologetically themselves.

565
00:34:13,260 --> 00:34:16,612
I can tell when somebody's not being their genuine

566
00:34:16,676 --> 00:34:20,052
self, and I can

567
00:34:20,156 --> 00:34:23,040
feel it. You know, you just feel, you know,

568
00:34:23,340 --> 00:34:26,724
somebody is not necessarily being their. Their true

569
00:34:26,772 --> 00:34:30,180
selves. And I'm necessarily drawn

570
00:34:30,260 --> 00:34:33,649
to people who are just genuinely

571
00:34:33,729 --> 00:34:36,993
kind and very

572
00:34:37,081 --> 00:34:40,829
similar to me in my values and.

573
00:34:41,289 --> 00:34:44,529
But what if you don't know them? If I don't know them,

574
00:34:44,569 --> 00:34:47,749
then I have to just judge them off of physicality.

575
00:34:48,169 --> 00:34:51,905
And since I don't have a type. Yeah, you're pretty open

576
00:34:51,977 --> 00:34:55,761
to everybody. Yeah, yeah. You know, I do like a good smile.

577
00:34:55,905 --> 00:34:58,949
Yeah. A dimple. Yeah. Will catch my attention.

578
00:34:59,250 --> 00:35:03,274
I. I love. I like long hair, but I also like short hair.

579
00:35:03,322 --> 00:35:06,954
So, I mean, it's hard to. Really? Yeah. You really like. I'm not picky.

580
00:35:07,002 --> 00:35:11,310
I like. I like what? I like. I used to gravitate toward

581
00:35:12,050 --> 00:35:15,434
Latinos. Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, that's right. Yeah.

582
00:35:15,482 --> 00:35:17,950
I used to gravitate toward Latinos.

583
00:35:20,050 --> 00:35:24,226
Comfortable. I guess. I don't even know because

584
00:35:24,418 --> 00:35:29,070
us Latinas are freaking crazy now.

585
00:35:29,370 --> 00:35:33,170
I moving here and

586
00:35:33,290 --> 00:35:36,870
seeing all the diversity. Yeah.

587
00:35:37,770 --> 00:35:41,710
My goodness. Anybody? I mean, I have

588
00:35:42,410 --> 00:35:46,850
some really expanded. Oh, my goodness. There are some white

589
00:35:46,890 --> 00:35:49,778
guys that I was like, I would never. And oh, my God,

590
00:35:49,874 --> 00:35:53,710
yes, please. There's some blondes

591
00:35:53,790 --> 00:35:57,438
that I'm like, oh, my God. Yeah. You are

592
00:35:57,494 --> 00:35:59,970
the freaking hottest. Yes.

593
00:36:01,030 --> 00:36:04,510
And we're, you know, so everybody. Yeah, no, I don't even have.

594
00:36:04,550 --> 00:36:07,230
I don't think I have a type anymore. But I think it's safe to say

595
00:36:07,270 --> 00:36:11,294
that. That you've adapted more of my policy of

596
00:36:11,462 --> 00:36:14,530
personality over looks. Yes.

597
00:36:14,870 --> 00:36:18,174
I mean, you're not 100. You're not 100% like I am.

598
00:36:18,262 --> 00:36:21,152
No, I'm 100% personality overlooked. Yeah.

599
00:36:21,286 --> 00:36:25,052
But it's safe to say that a good portion of

600
00:36:25,076 --> 00:36:27,836
what you find attractive is personality.

601
00:36:27,948 --> 00:36:31,212
Yes. Overlooked. Yes. Yeah,

602
00:36:31,276 --> 00:36:34,280
for sure. It's very safe to say. I like.

603
00:36:34,740 --> 00:36:38,988
If you can make me at least laugh a little bit. Not too much because,

604
00:36:39,044 --> 00:36:42,636
you know, not that much. Not that much.

605
00:36:42,708 --> 00:36:46,076
Oh, you see there? That comes out. Take it easy.

606
00:36:46,108 --> 00:36:49,442
Okay. Yeah. No, if. If you can hold a

607
00:36:49,466 --> 00:36:53,202
conversation with me and you're okay with me jumping around

608
00:36:53,306 --> 00:36:56,802
my conversation because I have massive ADHD by the time we

609
00:36:56,826 --> 00:37:00,162
go to these meet and greets is worn off. Yeah. So if you

610
00:37:00,186 --> 00:37:04,002
can stay for the ride. You're my

611
00:37:04,026 --> 00:37:07,650
people. So. Yeah, I. I gravitate toward

612
00:37:07,810 --> 00:37:11,202
anybody who's sweet. Well, we went to this

613
00:37:11,226 --> 00:37:14,948
one party last weekend and I

614
00:37:15,004 --> 00:37:18,500
found myself speaking to so many

615
00:37:18,620 --> 00:37:21,732
and oh, my goodness gracious, it was so

616
00:37:21,756 --> 00:37:24,756
nice. I want to say that,

617
00:37:24,908 --> 00:37:28,276
you know, we went to an event this past weekend and

618
00:37:28,348 --> 00:37:32,308
we met probably close to 300 people.

619
00:37:32,444 --> 00:37:36,560
Yeah. And every single person that we met

620
00:37:37,180 --> 00:37:40,292
was just about the nicest person we ever

621
00:37:40,316 --> 00:37:43,622
met. Even if it was our first time meeting or

622
00:37:43,646 --> 00:37:47,010
if it was our second time meeting or if we knew them for a while.

623
00:37:47,390 --> 00:37:51,078
Everybody in that building was loving,

624
00:37:51,254 --> 00:37:54,118
accepting, and inclusive.

625
00:37:54,294 --> 00:37:57,290
Yes. And there wasn't any drama.

626
00:37:57,710 --> 00:38:00,742
Everybody was just there vibing.

627
00:38:00,886 --> 00:38:05,078
It was so genuine. And it was different personalities. All walks

628
00:38:05,094 --> 00:38:09,140
of life, different dresses and suits and all

629
00:38:09,180 --> 00:38:12,948
sorts of personalities. So great. And everybody had a

630
00:38:13,004 --> 00:38:16,260
great time. So that is what even makes

631
00:38:16,300 --> 00:38:20,240
me open my eyes more to just being

632
00:38:20,780 --> 00:38:24,880
inclusive. And I want to surround myself with

633
00:38:25,180 --> 00:38:28,228
People that are like that. Like, just fun, for sure.

634
00:38:28,284 --> 00:38:31,796
And you know me. I don't friend a lot of people. No, I know that.

635
00:38:31,868 --> 00:38:35,550
I friended so many people from that. Did you? From that little

636
00:38:35,590 --> 00:38:38,638
group. Oh, that's nice that we went. You know, I was like, oh,

637
00:38:38,654 --> 00:38:42,606
my goodness. I remember your face. Click. Yeah. And it's like, dude, our calendar

638
00:38:42,638 --> 00:38:46,382
is filling up. Because I'm totally trying to get together with all these

639
00:38:46,406 --> 00:38:50,210
people just to kind of, you know, make some connections. Starting to see the dings

640
00:38:50,790 --> 00:38:54,206
notifications. Thanks for that. You're welcome. Appreciate it.

641
00:38:54,278 --> 00:38:57,710
You're welcome. Okay, well, okay, so then we

642
00:38:57,750 --> 00:39:01,848
are here. Is that right? Yes. What's the most exciting

643
00:39:01,944 --> 00:39:04,660
experience you've had at a party?

644
00:39:05,840 --> 00:39:09,160
Most exciting. So we

645
00:39:09,200 --> 00:39:12,340
went to a party up north,

646
00:39:12,720 --> 00:39:15,940
and I think it was our first party here.

647
00:39:16,400 --> 00:39:19,780
Yeah. Yeah, yeah. And we.

648
00:39:21,680 --> 00:39:24,568
We played on that little sofa thingy.

649
00:39:24,584 --> 00:39:28,340
Majigger. Yeah. That was the first time. Yeah. And I was kind of.

650
00:39:28,670 --> 00:39:31,878
So I'm. I wasn't always comfortable with my body. A yoga chair,

651
00:39:31,934 --> 00:39:34,690
I think they call it or something. Want one so bad.

652
00:39:35,150 --> 00:39:38,534
That would go good in the room. We'd have room in here. Yeah.

653
00:39:38,662 --> 00:39:42,038
So, yeah, that was. That was. That was my most

654
00:39:42,094 --> 00:39:46,118
exciting experience. That. Because everybody that

655
00:39:46,174 --> 00:39:49,462
went. I could say I was

656
00:39:49,486 --> 00:39:53,062
attractive to most of them. Yeah. Yeah. And I think you were, too.

657
00:39:53,166 --> 00:39:56,774
Yeah. And there was that little sibian machine people were using that

658
00:39:56,782 --> 00:40:00,122
was right next to us. Yeah. And so we got to watch people. Yeah.

659
00:40:00,166 --> 00:40:04,114
And the people are watching us. So hot. That was

660
00:40:04,282 --> 00:40:07,790
probably the most exciting experience

661
00:40:08,170 --> 00:40:11,550
by far for me. That was a good one.

662
00:40:11,850 --> 00:40:15,602
That was definitely a good one. Wow. I can. You know, I didn't think about

663
00:40:15,626 --> 00:40:19,378
that one. Ooh, here's for you. What's your go

664
00:40:19,434 --> 00:40:23,186
to? Way to keep the vibe sexy and

665
00:40:23,258 --> 00:40:26,658
fun. The go to. Way to keep the vibe sexy

666
00:40:26,674 --> 00:40:30,064
and fun. Tell us, Adam, how do you keep it sexy and fun?

667
00:40:30,162 --> 00:40:33,828
Oh, my goodness. That voice. Yeah. Who is that? That sounds

668
00:40:33,844 --> 00:40:36,760
like a Lisa to me. That was Lisa.

669
00:40:38,460 --> 00:40:42,596
So that's a tough one, because I am the least sexy.

670
00:40:42,708 --> 00:40:46,852
Yeah. You keep it fun, though. I do keep it fun. Yeah. And I

671
00:40:46,876 --> 00:40:49,844
am silly. I make jokes. Yes.

672
00:40:49,892 --> 00:40:53,380
Because I get nervous. I make jokes. And they're normally little.

673
00:40:53,500 --> 00:40:56,772
Little funny jokes. They're not anything too lame.

674
00:40:56,836 --> 00:41:00,046
But I tend to. I tend to keep you laughing. Yeah.

675
00:41:00,078 --> 00:41:02,910
While I'm getting pounded. Yeah. And we've been in, like,

676
00:41:03,030 --> 00:41:06,622
couple swamps where we're. We make everybody laugh.

677
00:41:06,686 --> 00:41:10,190
Like, it's. It's not. It's like, you need to stop. I can't Help it.

678
00:41:10,230 --> 00:41:13,502
I get nervous and I start. You know, I do that whole thing. Well,

679
00:41:13,526 --> 00:41:16,702
you're always called the Energizer Bunny. Why do they

680
00:41:16,726 --> 00:41:20,462
call me that and be. Well, I can't say it because I'm gonna be

681
00:41:20,486 --> 00:41:23,742
tooting my own horn. Because you come and then you kind of

682
00:41:23,766 --> 00:41:27,012
stay hard and then you're at it again. Yeah. I have to make that

683
00:41:27,036 --> 00:41:30,196
the motto of this show because I feel like we mention it almost every show.

684
00:41:30,268 --> 00:41:33,652
Yeah, but it is what that is. The no kissing my husband.

685
00:41:33,796 --> 00:41:37,172
Oh, my God. Let's make it the

686
00:41:37,196 --> 00:41:38,560
motto of the show.

687
00:41:40,620 --> 00:41:44,360
This is. And that's how we keep it fun. Yeah. So sexy.

688
00:41:45,580 --> 00:41:49,348
Now, are you more into planned connections,

689
00:41:49,524 --> 00:41:52,880
or do you like to see where the night takes you?

690
00:41:53,280 --> 00:41:56,920
I would like to see where the night takes us. It never ends up like

691
00:41:56,960 --> 00:42:01,112
that. It's always a planned connection. But I've heard

692
00:42:01,176 --> 00:42:04,420
so many great stories of people going to, like,

693
00:42:04,960 --> 00:42:08,632
I don't know, a pub run or something. And then they're like, yeah, well,

694
00:42:08,656 --> 00:42:12,020
I met so and so, and we did so and so,

695
00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:16,328
and then we did some so and so's and then we. Went across the street.

696
00:42:16,464 --> 00:42:18,900
Yeah. So I love that.

697
00:42:20,110 --> 00:42:23,910
Planned is also fun. So here's. Here's my thing

698
00:42:23,950 --> 00:42:28,438
to this. All I can really be into is planned connections.

699
00:42:28,614 --> 00:42:32,086
And the reason why is because if I rely

700
00:42:32,118 --> 00:42:35,894
on where the night takes me, my overthinking

701
00:42:35,942 --> 00:42:38,930
is going to remove me from anything. Good.

702
00:42:40,110 --> 00:42:43,846
You feel me, dog? Yeah. Because I'm

703
00:42:43,878 --> 00:42:47,400
going to sit there and I'm going to overthink and I'm going to think,

704
00:42:47,590 --> 00:42:51,204
oh, maybe she's not really wanting it. Maybe I.

705
00:42:51,292 --> 00:42:54,880
Okay, so all. So all the flags are there. You've already.

706
00:42:55,340 --> 00:42:59,300
She's already made the move, and no

707
00:42:59,340 --> 00:43:03,108
one's been rejected. Okay. Okay. And so

708
00:43:03,164 --> 00:43:06,360
that's where the night takes you. That's how that goes.

709
00:43:07,500 --> 00:43:11,220
You can do that. I can do that. You can do that.

710
00:43:11,340 --> 00:43:14,804
I don't know. Planned connections just seems more appealing

711
00:43:14,852 --> 00:43:18,308
to my. I'm down for whichever freakness. I guess I'm

712
00:43:18,324 --> 00:43:22,304
a little bit of a control freak, I guess. Yeah, but emphasis on

713
00:43:22,312 --> 00:43:26,016
the freak. You know what I'm saying? Just kidding. No, I'm really a control

714
00:43:26,088 --> 00:43:29,344
freak. And so realistically,

715
00:43:29,472 --> 00:43:33,152
I. I would want the planned connection, but I think.

716
00:43:33,336 --> 00:43:36,460
I think I could do the where the night.

717
00:43:36,760 --> 00:43:40,140
I just don't think it would ever really come up because

718
00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:44,016
that's never been anything that's been in my corner. It's never been anything

719
00:43:44,048 --> 00:43:48,026
that's. Because it's never been in your Corner. Because we're

720
00:43:48,058 --> 00:43:51,270
not drinkers. Right. And so

721
00:43:51,730 --> 00:43:54,714
not that. Not to say that y'all are alcoholics. We're not even saying that.

722
00:43:54,802 --> 00:43:58,310
It's just that we're. We're not drinkers. So we're pretty much

723
00:43:58,770 --> 00:44:01,786
ready to party afterwards.

724
00:44:01,978 --> 00:44:05,402
And everyone's usually tired. Yeah. You know, like,

725
00:44:05,426 --> 00:44:09,674
there was. There was one time we. I remember we were at

726
00:44:09,762 --> 00:44:12,960
a certain hotel. It was a takeover.

727
00:44:13,090 --> 00:44:16,644
Huh. And we were out by the pool the whole

728
00:44:16,692 --> 00:44:20,212
time. And then I. Because everyone told us it was going

729
00:44:20,236 --> 00:44:23,172
to start like that. Yeah. And so we were down in the pool waiting for

730
00:44:23,196 --> 00:44:26,932
things to start off, and nothing ever really happened. So then everybody ended up

731
00:44:26,956 --> 00:44:30,484
going upstairs and up to the second floor,

732
00:44:30,532 --> 00:44:33,748
wherever we were staying. And I thought, oh, man,

733
00:44:33,804 --> 00:44:36,292
there's gonna. We're gonna go up there and it's gonna be orgies all over the

734
00:44:36,316 --> 00:44:39,924
place, everywhere. We got up there, and everybody was asleep.

735
00:44:40,052 --> 00:44:43,670
It was like 2 in the morning. Snoring, or maybe it was 3,

736
00:44:43,790 --> 00:44:47,094
but everybody was asleep. And I was like. And we found out there

737
00:44:47,102 --> 00:44:50,758
was really nothing going on. There was an orgy room. Nothing. I was like,

738
00:44:50,814 --> 00:44:55,222
yeah, nothing really took place. So. Yeah, you know,

739
00:44:55,406 --> 00:44:58,790
that was kind of. That specifically was

740
00:44:58,830 --> 00:45:02,262
a planned connection for sure. All right, so what's your

741
00:45:02,286 --> 00:45:05,050
ultimate bucket list? Experience in the lifestyle?

742
00:45:05,790 --> 00:45:09,142
I mean, you've kind of mentioned it. You wanna. You want a bed full

743
00:45:09,166 --> 00:45:12,718
of women. I do. I do. I would like a bed

744
00:45:12,734 --> 00:45:16,062
full of women. But not. Not just a bed full of women,

745
00:45:16,246 --> 00:45:19,806
but a bed full of women where people

746
00:45:19,878 --> 00:45:23,678
can watch us. Oh. So we're in this

747
00:45:23,734 --> 00:45:27,230
big, round, centered bed. There's people all

748
00:45:27,270 --> 00:45:30,970
around us, and it's me and you.

749
00:45:31,270 --> 00:45:34,638
Thanks. Yeah, you're in there. Inclusivity. That's right.

750
00:45:34,694 --> 00:45:39,100
Because we are one. By the sake of the law and

751
00:45:39,800 --> 00:45:43,312
just because I love you so. You're my soulmate. You're my penguin.

752
00:45:43,456 --> 00:45:46,220
Anyway, I'm there, you're there.

753
00:45:46,600 --> 00:45:49,500
Maybe two other women. Maybe three other women,

754
00:45:50,040 --> 00:45:53,536
right? Yes. One on your side, one on my side

755
00:45:53,688 --> 00:45:57,120
and one in the middle. Right. I like where this

756
00:45:57,160 --> 00:46:01,226
is going. And we just all go at it.

757
00:46:01,328 --> 00:46:04,614
That is the non stop. And everybody. I want that

758
00:46:04,782 --> 00:46:08,390
watching. I want that bucket list. They're watching. Right. But they're not just

759
00:46:08,430 --> 00:46:11,590
watching. They're getting into each other.

760
00:46:11,630 --> 00:46:15,254
You know what I'm saying? Like, they're all watching. Oh. And getting all

761
00:46:15,342 --> 00:46:19,366
horny and. Yeah. They can't help but. And so then people start using,

762
00:46:19,438 --> 00:46:23,010
like, the edge of the bed to get it on

763
00:46:23,310 --> 00:46:26,358
while they're watching all of us get it on. Boom.

764
00:46:26,454 --> 00:46:29,538
Bucket list. Make that shit happen, yo.

765
00:46:29,634 --> 00:46:33,762
You got it, baby. Get it done. That sounds like an amazing

766
00:46:33,906 --> 00:46:37,282
trip to make. And I would travel for that one. Well, there you go.

767
00:46:37,306 --> 00:46:40,626
Look at the next one. Uh, what is. What is.

768
00:46:40,698 --> 00:46:44,274
If you could choose anywhere in the world for a lifestyle getaway,

769
00:46:44,402 --> 00:46:47,490
where would it be? Anywhere in the world. Well,

770
00:46:47,530 --> 00:46:50,754
you know, we have a lot of friends that go to. And I

771
00:46:50,762 --> 00:46:54,470
don't know if I'm gonna say this right. I think it's Jamaica Hido.

772
00:46:57,150 --> 00:47:00,250
Hedonism. Yeah. Yeah. What is hedonism?

773
00:47:01,790 --> 00:47:04,678
It's my understanding. It's almost like a. I thought it was a.

774
00:47:04,734 --> 00:47:08,130
Like an adult resort. Oh, I thought it was an action.

775
00:47:08,830 --> 00:47:12,998
No, I don't think so. I think the one that they refer to

776
00:47:13,054 --> 00:47:16,166
is. I don't know what the actual meaning of it is.

777
00:47:16,238 --> 00:47:19,254
I don't have the dictionary in front of me. We have nerdy friends that are

778
00:47:19,262 --> 00:47:22,004
going to get this answer for you. You know that they're going to send me

779
00:47:22,012 --> 00:47:25,760
that email. Oh, yeah, she is. I already know who it is.

780
00:47:26,380 --> 00:47:30,292
But, you know, I. I was under the impression that it was an

781
00:47:30,316 --> 00:47:33,748
adult resort where they have a lot of drinking

782
00:47:33,764 --> 00:47:37,400
and playing and. Oh, you see, I thought hedonism

783
00:47:37,980 --> 00:47:41,668
was an act. Like a sexual act. Like just crazy

784
00:47:41,764 --> 00:47:45,828
getting drunk and like. Well, kind of just like a nude type

785
00:47:45,844 --> 00:47:49,922
of thing. No. I don't know. But I

786
00:47:49,946 --> 00:47:53,522
don't want to say no. Okay. But I also don't want to say. Yes,

787
00:47:53,586 --> 00:47:57,810
that's anywhere in the world. So I would love to do that. That's interesting.

788
00:47:57,890 --> 00:48:01,346
Okay. I would love to go to Jamaica. Me personally.

789
00:48:01,458 --> 00:48:03,870
You know, there is.

790
00:48:04,970 --> 00:48:08,338
I think I would want to go to somewhere a little.

791
00:48:08,394 --> 00:48:11,666
A little cold. Okay, so like Colorado.

792
00:48:11,778 --> 00:48:14,706
Yeah. So I was thinking a little colder.

793
00:48:14,818 --> 00:48:17,270
Okay. Like glass.

794
00:48:17,770 --> 00:48:21,350
Colorado could be cool. I was thinking cold,

795
00:48:22,410 --> 00:48:25,030
like Alaska. I was thinking like Greenland.

796
00:48:26,010 --> 00:48:29,378
You know what I'm saying? Somewhere where there's lots

797
00:48:29,394 --> 00:48:34,978
of ice, lots of cold, or even like the northern Canadian

798
00:48:35,074 --> 00:48:38,402
area and just where it's really cold

799
00:48:38,546 --> 00:48:41,842
and you, you know, you're basically snowed in, but you got

800
00:48:41,866 --> 00:48:43,830
it nice and toasty inside.

801
00:48:44,600 --> 00:48:48,160
Wearing my little Eskimo boots with like just

802
00:48:48,200 --> 00:48:51,792
a little fur, little jacket and just completely naked

803
00:48:51,856 --> 00:48:55,328
underneath. Yep, yep. Let's do that. Let's do that. We gotta

804
00:48:55,344 --> 00:48:58,864
make that happen. Oh, my God. I can see the dollar

805
00:48:58,912 --> 00:49:01,340
sign. Oh, my God. I was just about to.

806
00:49:02,360 --> 00:49:05,952
Yes. Oh, my God. Let's do that. Let's do that. Okay. That's a good

807
00:49:05,976 --> 00:49:09,850
one, actually. Yeah, I like that. So what's your Idea of

808
00:49:09,890 --> 00:49:13,162
a perfect lifestyle event. Just a place where

809
00:49:13,186 --> 00:49:16,954
we can talk. So I don't like to go to lifestyle

810
00:49:17,002 --> 00:49:21,002
events where it's super noisy. Okay. Because I

811
00:49:21,026 --> 00:49:24,218
want to talk to people. For instance,

812
00:49:24,314 --> 00:49:27,306
this one party we went to last weekend,

813
00:49:27,498 --> 00:49:30,778
you were still able to have conversations. I was,

814
00:49:30,834 --> 00:49:33,914
yeah. That was great. And I think that was a really good setting. I think

815
00:49:33,922 --> 00:49:37,774
it was because the DJ was at a very far corner. Yeah. It wasn't

816
00:49:37,822 --> 00:49:41,230
overpowering. It wasn't like I was able to have some

817
00:49:41,270 --> 00:49:44,782
conversations with people. So my perfect event would

818
00:49:44,806 --> 00:49:48,510
be a nice chill place where you can

819
00:49:48,550 --> 00:49:51,070
still hold a conversation with somebody.

820
00:49:51,230 --> 00:49:54,846
Because what's the point of going to events

821
00:49:54,878 --> 00:49:58,478
if you can't meet people? Dude, we went to an event once

822
00:49:58,534 --> 00:50:01,854
and it's like all of us. You're there for like an hour and

823
00:50:01,862 --> 00:50:05,312
then all of a sudden the band starts playing, the live band starts playing and

824
00:50:05,336 --> 00:50:08,432
it blows everybody away. And it's like, I can't hear nothing,

825
00:50:08,496 --> 00:50:12,000
bro. I gotta go. Yeah. It's like,

826
00:50:12,040 --> 00:50:15,824
no, if. If I can't hear you, I don't want to be there.

827
00:50:15,912 --> 00:50:19,568
Yeah, yeah, for sure. That does. Definitely. You'll see me put my little loops

828
00:50:19,584 --> 00:50:23,376
in so I can. So you're not over stimulated. Yes.

829
00:50:23,488 --> 00:50:26,640
Gotta get those. Yes. Oh, right here.

830
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:30,778
Look at that. Now, do you prefer playful banter or

831
00:50:30,834 --> 00:50:34,810
deep conversations to break the ice? Playful banter,

832
00:50:34,890 --> 00:50:37,594
because you're going to make me laugh and giggle and I'm going to touch you.

833
00:50:37,762 --> 00:50:41,850
You are so different from me. You want a deep conversation.

834
00:50:42,010 --> 00:50:45,066
I love the ice conversation, dude. The moment

835
00:50:45,098 --> 00:50:48,778
I can have a philosophical conversation with somebody.

836
00:50:48,954 --> 00:50:52,266
That is an incredible time. Because.

837
00:50:52,418 --> 00:50:55,594
Oh, my gosh. Boring. No way.

838
00:50:55,682 --> 00:50:58,728
I mean, no, I like having there. And I could have some real deep.

839
00:50:58,834 --> 00:51:02,060
Because you're. You're an intellectual. I am.

840
00:51:02,180 --> 00:51:05,676
Yeah. Get out. Have you heard me talk on these?

841
00:51:05,748 --> 00:51:09,052
You're. You're an intellectual. So you would. You'd like that.

842
00:51:09,236 --> 00:51:12,764
I. Yeah, well, I was also a philosophy major at

843
00:51:12,772 --> 00:51:16,220
one point, so. And I love to see you get into

844
00:51:16,260 --> 00:51:20,892
a really good conversation with people. I love sexy

845
00:51:20,956 --> 00:51:24,652
nerdiness comes out and it's like, dude, keep talking.

846
00:51:24,716 --> 00:51:28,550
You know, I. I really enjoy learning about other people.

847
00:51:28,670 --> 00:51:32,406
Yeah. And what their opinions are on things. And it just.

848
00:51:32,558 --> 00:51:36,326
Man, I get into it. I dig it. It's a lot better than this small

849
00:51:36,398 --> 00:51:40,246
talk, you know? I mean, small talk does nothing for me. Give me some deep,

850
00:51:40,358 --> 00:51:43,862
deep conversations. Yes. Which is.

851
00:51:43,966 --> 00:51:47,302
It was a repeat of the. Of the same one. So. Yeah. Yeah.

852
00:51:47,446 --> 00:51:50,822
So, yeah, it's. I love. I love the

853
00:51:50,846 --> 00:51:54,486
playful Banter. Yeah. That is some good stuff. Yeah,

854
00:51:54,598 --> 00:51:58,132
it's very cute when that's. That's right up your alley. It is.

855
00:51:58,236 --> 00:52:02,164
Because I am not a very serious person.

856
00:52:02,252 --> 00:52:05,120
I look serious. It's the rbf, but I'm not.

857
00:52:05,420 --> 00:52:08,596
Like, we have a couple,

858
00:52:08,788 --> 00:52:12,196
and the guy is forever making

859
00:52:12,268 --> 00:52:15,200
me laugh. That's why I was saying the spongebob, because I was like.

860
00:52:17,340 --> 00:52:20,708
And so it just. It. That makes me feel more comfortable.

861
00:52:20,804 --> 00:52:23,676
Sure. Yeah. And if it's, like, cutesy,

862
00:52:23,708 --> 00:52:27,244
flirty, I'm so down for it. Really?

863
00:52:27,332 --> 00:52:31,292
Yeah. And see, I don't. I realize I don't know how to flirt.

864
00:52:31,356 --> 00:52:34,812
Yes, you do. So. No, I don't at all. So I

865
00:52:34,836 --> 00:52:38,252
was. I was trying to figure that out. Like, what exactly is flirting?

866
00:52:38,316 --> 00:52:41,932
What is flirting to you? Well, flirting to me

867
00:52:41,956 --> 00:52:44,360
is definitely not. When you come up to me and you're like,

868
00:52:44,900 --> 00:52:48,444
so what is that? I don't like. That's not

869
00:52:48,452 --> 00:52:51,714
flirting. That's. I don't know. I don't know. It's not. Not. Well, it might be

870
00:52:51,722 --> 00:52:55,794
flirting, but it's not flirting. I like. I like the. The funny.

871
00:52:55,922 --> 00:52:59,394
The funny flirty. The jokesy, flirty. Okay, but that's.

872
00:52:59,442 --> 00:53:02,466
But what I'm asking is, what is flirting?

873
00:53:02,658 --> 00:53:06,258
Oh, I don't know. What is it? Like, how do you know you're being

874
00:53:06,314 --> 00:53:10,306
flirted with? What is flirting? You kind of make the girl or

875
00:53:10,378 --> 00:53:14,482
the guy, like, kind of get bashful, and it's like, that's what's flirting.

876
00:53:14,546 --> 00:53:17,438
I think so. If they get bashful. Yeah.

877
00:53:17,634 --> 00:53:20,838
So if they don't get bashful, I. Mean, geez, you used to flirt

878
00:53:20,854 --> 00:53:23,330
with me all the. You still flirt with me.

879
00:53:23,790 --> 00:53:27,478
I guess I do, don't I? Yes, I do.

880
00:53:27,534 --> 00:53:30,758
And like, when we first started. Like, when we first started, like,

881
00:53:30,814 --> 00:53:33,410
talking, you would do this.

882
00:53:34,750 --> 00:53:37,702
We'd be next to each other, and you. I could just feel your eyes on

883
00:53:37,726 --> 00:53:41,094
me. And I'd look back and you'd be like, what are you looking at?

884
00:53:41,262 --> 00:53:44,928
And you're like, oh, you. You. You're just

885
00:53:44,984 --> 00:53:48,352
so pretty. Well, you are. Yeah. And I still do

886
00:53:48,376 --> 00:53:51,984
that. But you. I think you're over it now. No, you're beautiful.

887
00:53:52,032 --> 00:53:55,024
You make me blush all the time. Oh, my God. So when you're flirting with

888
00:53:55,032 --> 00:53:57,792
me, I'm gonna tell you. See, that's flirting. So. Okay, but don't do the same

889
00:53:57,816 --> 00:54:01,620
flirting you do with me with other people. That's my flirting motif.

890
00:54:02,040 --> 00:54:05,392
That is mine. Very personal. That's right. But you do

891
00:54:05,416 --> 00:54:08,528
flirt. You do. I flirt with other people. You do,

892
00:54:08,584 --> 00:54:12,080
Yeah. I think when you tell somebody

893
00:54:12,660 --> 00:54:14,960
you look hot in that dress,

894
00:54:15,460 --> 00:54:20,140
that's a flirt. That's a flirt. Okay. It's also a not

895
00:54:20,180 --> 00:54:23,308
a comment. What do you call that compliment? A compliment.

896
00:54:23,484 --> 00:54:26,760
I mean, it could be a comment. Too, that,

897
00:54:27,780 --> 00:54:31,100
that is also flirting. I was actually, you know what

898
00:54:31,220 --> 00:54:34,860
I told at this past event, I told one of our

899
00:54:34,900 --> 00:54:39,030
friends, I was walking past her and she was looking fine.

900
00:54:39,770 --> 00:54:42,990
And I was, I stopped her and I said,

901
00:54:43,450 --> 00:54:47,314
you are looking fine in that dress. I said

902
00:54:47,402 --> 00:54:51,330
that that dress is so hot that that

903
00:54:51,370 --> 00:54:55,234
dress is wearing. You see, there you go.

904
00:54:55,402 --> 00:54:59,122
And you know what the thing about it was? It wasn't a

905
00:54:59,146 --> 00:55:03,010
cheesy pickup line. Like, I meant it like she slamming

906
00:55:03,090 --> 00:55:06,658
in that dress. And that's what that was the only way that I could convey

907
00:55:06,674 --> 00:55:10,082
it because I, I have my own special way of

908
00:55:10,106 --> 00:55:13,618
talking which you say is old man

909
00:55:13,674 --> 00:55:17,458
language because I, I use very old style or old

910
00:55:17,514 --> 00:55:21,122
school slang. Yeah, but the way I

911
00:55:21,146 --> 00:55:25,154
talk is the way I talk. Yes. You know, and it comes off,

912
00:55:25,242 --> 00:55:28,114
I guess, a little flirty, I suppose. Yes,

913
00:55:28,242 --> 00:55:31,138
it is what it is. I don't know. You're a good flirt.

914
00:55:31,234 --> 00:55:34,002
Well, you know, that's the thing is. Is you do need to work on your

915
00:55:34,026 --> 00:55:36,154
flirting game. Not a thing. But I don't know how to flirt with, like,

916
00:55:36,202 --> 00:55:39,354
I can flirt with men all day. Yeah. Don't know

917
00:55:39,362 --> 00:55:42,826
how to flirt with women. Now. What's the disconnect there? I don't

918
00:55:42,858 --> 00:55:46,570
know. Why can't you flirt with a woman? Because I

919
00:55:46,610 --> 00:55:50,042
want to flirt like a man flirts, which I don't like the

920
00:55:50,066 --> 00:55:53,322
way men flirt. What, you want to grab your balls and spit and go,

921
00:55:53,346 --> 00:55:56,602
hey, that's not how y'all flirt. Eat some fried aggressive men. I want to

922
00:55:56,626 --> 00:55:59,754
like, I, I feel like I come off like an aggressive man. Like a.

923
00:55:59,842 --> 00:56:02,952
Where it's like, well, you said yourself that people have.

924
00:56:03,056 --> 00:56:06,840
I did a poll, I did a poll on that on Facebook, and I was

925
00:56:06,880 --> 00:56:10,072
like, how do y'all like it? And a lot of

926
00:56:10,096 --> 00:56:13,352
women said, you need to be direct with me, which I'm so

927
00:56:13,376 --> 00:56:17,320
down for because I'm very direct. Yeah. I have started

928
00:56:17,360 --> 00:56:20,760
being direct with men also. Like, it's been working

929
00:56:20,800 --> 00:56:24,824
out for you, hasn't it? It has. It hasn't

930
00:56:24,872 --> 00:56:28,296
gone too bad. So, you know, I'm a big believer in over

931
00:56:28,368 --> 00:56:32,014
communication and stating your expectations. I do

932
00:56:32,022 --> 00:56:35,662
that. Intentions. Yes. And this is for you

933
00:56:35,686 --> 00:56:39,150
to just pay all my bills, sir. You know,

934
00:56:39,190 --> 00:56:42,558
I, I, I definitely there's, there's certain people that

935
00:56:42,694 --> 00:56:45,918
I state my intentions if they're sexual. Yeah.

936
00:56:46,014 --> 00:56:49,886
So there's people that. I'll tell them straight up. Hey, you know,

937
00:56:49,958 --> 00:56:53,134
I'm not gonna lie. I'm. I'm interested sexually. Yeah.

938
00:56:53,182 --> 00:56:56,824
We can make that happen somewhere down the road. That'd be great. Yeah.

939
00:56:56,952 --> 00:57:00,504
There are others that I have never said that to. Yeah.

940
00:57:00,632 --> 00:57:04,072
Probably never will. And it's not because I don't want to,

941
00:57:04,256 --> 00:57:08,856
but it just because maybe I don't feel comfortable throwing

942
00:57:08,888 --> 00:57:12,168
that out there. I mean, you've said it to people where I'm like, are we

943
00:57:12,224 --> 00:57:15,704
there yet? Are we? Oh, you jumped a

944
00:57:15,712 --> 00:57:19,384
line. I'm like, oh, oh, okay. You know. Yeah. Which works

945
00:57:19,432 --> 00:57:21,656
well. I try to speak for myself. So I don't know if you notice,

946
00:57:21,688 --> 00:57:25,320
whenever we. We tell people, I'll normally jump out there and I'll say,

947
00:57:25,360 --> 00:57:29,448
hey, look. So I don't know. I can't speak on Pris's behalf, but I know.

948
00:57:29,584 --> 00:57:32,952
I'm feeling the vibe. I like what's happening here.

949
00:57:33,136 --> 00:57:36,792
And I'm down to take it to the bedroom if you guys want to take

950
00:57:36,816 --> 00:57:40,296
this to the next level. Priscilla can just stay right here sitting up. But that's

951
00:57:40,328 --> 00:57:43,560
just me saying that. I don't know what Pris is going to say. What about

952
00:57:43,600 --> 00:57:44,900
you, honey? What do you think.

953
00:57:47,200 --> 00:57:51,256
Bliss? What choice do I have? Oh, my gosh. I don't

954
00:57:51,288 --> 00:57:54,438
know how you live with me. Me? Because I am freaking hilarious. You are so

955
00:57:54,494 --> 00:57:58,086
funny. Oh my gosh. Like, you teeter totter on the.

956
00:57:58,238 --> 00:58:01,206
On the edge of like getting stabbed, almost death. Yeah.

957
00:58:01,238 --> 00:58:04,758
Yeah. You like that? I do. It kind of turns me off.

958
00:58:04,814 --> 00:58:08,550
It does? Yeah. It's like going to the zoo and pretending you're gonna jump into

959
00:58:08,590 --> 00:58:12,198
the lion's den, but you don't actually do it. No. No.

960
00:58:12,334 --> 00:58:15,478
You're a silly man. Oh, I'm so silly.

961
00:58:15,654 --> 00:58:19,252
I am very silly. One day you're gonna catch me when I'm real saucy.

962
00:58:19,406 --> 00:58:20,700
Saucy, huh?

963
00:58:24,160 --> 00:58:27,736
You'll be like, okay, let's do this. Hubba hubba.

964
00:58:27,848 --> 00:58:31,060
You're so soft. That's good stuff. Well, you know,

965
00:58:31,840 --> 00:58:35,320
I gotta tell you, I ran out of questions. Yeah.

966
00:58:35,400 --> 00:58:39,032
And I think. Oh, look. Yeah. With that being said.

967
00:58:39,136 --> 00:58:42,420
Yeah, I think that's a good. A good little. That was fun.

968
00:58:42,880 --> 00:58:45,560
Yeah. A good little. Time to sign off there. What do you think? I think

969
00:58:45,600 --> 00:58:48,392
so. So I just want to take a quick moment to say thank you to

970
00:58:48,416 --> 00:58:52,226
everybody listening today. We really appreciate you guys tuning

971
00:58:52,258 --> 00:58:56,178
in and just being a part of our little

972
00:58:56,234 --> 00:59:00,498
chat, our little time together. What, you're listening into is.

973
00:59:00,634 --> 00:59:04,130
It's unapologetically us. This is us

974
00:59:04,170 --> 00:59:07,522
all the time. We should apologize anyway, though. If you spend time with

975
00:59:07,546 --> 00:59:11,634
us, this is us. You know how we are. And I'm

976
00:59:11,682 --> 00:59:14,994
really just honored that you guys

977
00:59:15,122 --> 00:59:18,700
are taking this trip with us because we. We really

978
00:59:18,740 --> 00:59:22,012
love it. Yeah. And thank you. No, thank you.

979
00:59:22,036 --> 00:59:25,548
To everybody that showed so much love to us

980
00:59:25,604 --> 00:59:29,340
at this last party. Absolutely. You guys really made us

981
00:59:29,380 --> 00:59:32,780
feel special. Yeah. And kind

982
00:59:32,820 --> 00:59:36,572
of. You kind of got us shy. We kind of went to a corner and

983
00:59:36,596 --> 00:59:39,692
we're like, oh, my God. And for. For those of you who were at the

984
00:59:39,716 --> 00:59:43,928
party that we didn't get to talk to very long, you know,

985
00:59:43,984 --> 00:59:46,664
we apologize that we didn't get to spend any time with you guys.

986
00:59:46,712 --> 00:59:50,152
But every single person that we met and. And we

987
00:59:50,176 --> 00:59:53,592
got introduced to some of the best people we've ever

988
00:59:53,616 --> 00:59:57,752
met in our lives. Yeah. Gotta say. Yeah. And I. I really hope that

989
00:59:57,776 --> 01:00:00,872
we get to run into many of you on a one on one setting so

990
01:00:00,896 --> 01:00:03,352
that we can get to know each other. Yes. Because that would be great.

991
01:00:03,456 --> 01:00:06,968
I hope that you guys had a wonderful Christmas. Yes. And have

992
01:00:07,024 --> 01:00:10,268
a very, very safe New Year's.

993
01:00:10,364 --> 01:00:13,713
Absolutely. You guys be safe out there. And 20,

994
01:00:13,790 --> 01:00:17,052
25, here we come, baby. Yeah. We're gonna have a special

995
01:00:17,156 --> 01:00:20,556
show. We are gonna have a special on New Year's. It's gonna

996
01:00:20,588 --> 01:00:23,692
be a big bang. It's gonna be a big bang. All right, babies. Well,

997
01:00:23,716 --> 01:00:27,644
you guys have a great day and we'll catch you.

998
01:00:27,732 --> 01:00:29,840
Bye. Bye.

999
01:00:36,040 --> 01:00:36,780
Sa.