S1 E21 Slutting it Out: Exploring New Horizons in Relationships

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the show. Hello and welcome

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to another episode of Beyond Monogamy. I'm Adam.

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And I'm Priz. And today, you know, I was talking about

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a few things today. We've. We've actually been conversing a lot lately

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about our journey right now, where we're at

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as compared to where we started.

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Obviously, it's been a 13, almost 14 year journey.

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Damn. And while it's not the three

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decades that friends we have,

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you know, it's not comparable to that, obviously,

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but we have been in there for a check, you know,

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some change. We've been in there and

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I'm really enjoying where we're at right now. And I like

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to say. I know that you like to say it. This is

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our hoe phase, right? Yeah, we're hoeing it up.

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We're hoeing it up. We're hoeing it up, but we're not hoeing it up.

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We hoe it up in our mind. We're hoeing it up. In theory. Yeah.

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Yeah. No, we talk. We talk dirty quite a bit about a

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lot of. I've been hoeing it up for a long time.

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Chances are if you're in our circle,

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we may have talked about you at one point or another. Even if

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they're not in our circle, that's. Well, I mean, if they're not in our circle,

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but we have to know them. So obviously we can't talk about them if we

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don't know them. I mean, I've talked about people in pictures and been like,

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yeah, well, you're. Just throwing me off. I'm sorry.

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So anyways, we have talked. You know, if you're in our circle, we've talked

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about you when we have sex. Because we like to talk during sex.

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Yes. And that just makes things hotter. And of course, you know,

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it's one of those things where it kind of plants an idea

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in your head and it's like, maybe that would be kind of

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hot. Yeah, maybe this would be a neat thing

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to do. Yeah. But you know,

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I've really felt like the more we talk about

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slutting each other out, so to speak,

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as I. Sip my Dutch bros. Yeah. Go ahead. The more

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it. It sounds to me like we're

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both opening up to some new

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experiences. Yeah. Yeah, I think so.

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I mean, that's the plan. Yeah. So you've got some new experiences That I

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do. I have a date with

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a couple. Yeah, I do. A solo

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date with a couple. I do a solo date with a couple. Yes. I have

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a solo date with a couple. So I have been chatting with the

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couple for a while. We've known them for a while, I guess,

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just in circles. Right. And they

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only play with. With women, which is fine. Right.

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Everybody has their preference. Everybody has their preference. And we did not play separately

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when I met them. And they were cool with that. They totally understood.

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But then I reached out to them when you and I had talked about it,

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and I was like, so if you're still interested,

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I'm down. Yeah. Yeah. But there.

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So, yeah, we're gonna go out Thursday, see if the vibe is there. I could

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tell you the vibe is there. For sure. They are. They're nice. Yeah.

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You've. So I will tell you that I really.

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They came out to one of our little meetups that we had.

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Yeah. Yeah. And I loved.

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And I mentioned this to you, I loved how inclusive

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they were to you, to everybody. Well,

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you know, it's really. It's one of those things where. Because we've

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run across couples who are only into

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the woman. Right. We. We've run across this before,

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and a lot of times the couple will just

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kind of. Kind of ignore me or not

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really acknowledge me very much. Vice versa.

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Yeah. They're into the women. I mean, men. And they just want you. They kind

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of ignore you. Well, that's. That's a little bit less. But most. There's a lot

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of couples that look for just. Okay, gotcha. Yeah. And so this is something that

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we've seen quite a bit where the. The couples will kind of sidestep me or

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not really engage me as much because their interest is

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in the woman. Yeah. And then that usually turns me off. Which is funny because

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it usually turns me off. Yeah. This couple that you're talking

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to, they're really nice people. They're cool. And, you know,

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I don't feel at all awkward or anything like that. It was.

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It was neat because you were able to really converse

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with them. Converse with them. And I had to kind of back away a

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little bit. I didn't Want to be rude, but at the same time, I have

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a tendency to hijack conversations. And,

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you know, I felt it was a little important for you guys to kind of

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get the vibe straight and that sort of thing. So I just kind of

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took a back seat and talked to some other people and that sort of thing.

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Yeah. And it's funny because we were laughing because we.

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They have a group. Not a group. We have a group. We have a group

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chat. Was just. They have a group or. No, a joint Facebook account.

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So it's them two and me talking. And I don't really

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chat too much on there. When we met them in person,

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I was chatting their whole ears off. You know, I could hear you just

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walking away. I said, oh, my goodness. I gave them their whole. And I apologized

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this morning. I was like, I'm so sorry. I talk a lot when I.

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I apologize then. Because I was like. Anyway, they were laughing

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because they're like, Yeah, I can tell that because we. I don't really chat a

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lot online. Yeah, I guess. Well, there was a lot you had to catch up

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on. Better in person. Yeah. So there was a lot of. I,

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I. And you were talking kind of fast. I kept hearing you go from one

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thing to another to another, trying to get it all in.

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Yeah. Okay. ADHD owls are. They're already worn

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off. Okay. So they got the real Priscilla.

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Yeah. Yeah. I filtered and

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so this. You guys are gonna go. You're gonna go have dinner

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during the week. Yes, I guess. To see if the vibe is there.

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Yeah. Okay. That's the plan. And then once it's

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agreed upon that the vibe is there, what? Then I think we go and

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set something up. Yeah. Yeah. Next steps. Next steps.

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Wowza. That's it. And how do you feel about that?

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I'm kind of excited. Yeah.

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Yeah. I'm letting myself be excited. I will say I've never seen

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you excited about something like this ever. Never. Never. Never.

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No, I. It's out of my comfort zone completely.

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Yeah. Complete. Just chit. Just chatting with them without

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you kind of interjecting yourself or me pulling you to

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interject you. I didn't even do that yesterday.

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Yeah. I always feel bad because I'm always. Stepping over you,

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which was different for me, because I talk a lot.

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Well, you know, it was easy, and I jump along. It was kind of easy

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for me because there's a

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girl that you and I are kind of seeing together,

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and I was perfectly

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just into conversation with her, so that really worked out. And you

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kind of went and had your Little side gig. And yeah,

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it was a nice thing that was going on. How do you

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feel about it? About you and the couple? Yeah, it's new.

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It's new. You know, I will say that I like the

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idea, of course. You know, because I have that whole hot

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wife. I don't want to call it fantasy, it's more of a kink.

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So I have a hot wife kink. So the idea of you playing

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and getting satisfied by other people turns

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me on. Yeah. So obviously that's, that's a cool, a cool

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thing. Yeah. I'm not a jealous person.

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There are moments where I get this uneasiness in my stomach,

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like I'm not involved. You know what I mean?

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But it's not a hurtful thing. It's just a. I'm not

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used to this thing. Yeah. You know what I mean? Because it's.

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We never really have done this. We did it when we were poly,

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obviously. Yeah, but that was different. That was a bit different.

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That was more on the romantic side of it. Yeah. Yeah,

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I can see you have more. You have, you're more

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interested. What do you mean? So you're usually not

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interested in what I'm, what I'm doing.

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Like, I'm all in your business. I know I am all

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in your. Sorry, ladies. I am all in this business.

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This man is my world. I am obsessed

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with him. He is. Yeah, My love. But I'm all

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in your business, right? I mean, I ask questions like, I'm on,

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but I, you know, I'm like, what did you do? Who are you talking to?

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How's it going? Blah, blah, blah. You don't, you're not really interested

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in anything. Well, so I

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wasn't for a while. For a long time I wasn't.

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And then things have picked up recently. And by

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recently I mean the past couple of months. You're starting to let your mind relax

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more. You're starting to go with the flow and now you're starting

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to get more messages and you're starting to have more conversations

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and you're starting to not communicate. I was just about to say that. And I'm

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not being very transparent, let me tell you. And I have apologized to

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him. We had two very back to back discussions. Literally, literally from

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one day to the next, hours apart. Yeah. And then I was like,

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oh, by the way. Because it just,

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I don't know what, it just blows. It just gets outta my mind.

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Like it's in there and I can. And I can understand to, to some.

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Extent, especially right now. Yeah. And so I was like, you know, it's tax season.

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I know you're very busy and that sort of thing, but if it's something major,

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you. You need to communicate it with me. And I told you that one day,

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and I was like. But I said, I understand. Yeah. And then I swear,

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20, 24 hours later, the next day, and then it's like,

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again, nothing. Like. Like you're not communicating with me.

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And I'm like, okay, so this is kind of getting annoying because

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we've already talked about it. But the thing I preach

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and, you know, that's the thing that. That I found most annoying about it was

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because I've spent the past several years trying to

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figure out how to adapt and change my ways to.

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To be more transparent for your comfort. Yeah.

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And as soon as I do, you start going backwards,

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and I'm like, what the hell, man? Yeah. But I.

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Like I said, I understand. It's tax time. There's a lot of things going on.

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There's a lot in your brain, and it's hard to remember.

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I. I personally, I. I do this thing where it's like. And I've said this

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before, if people message me, and it's

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doesn't seem like, to me, like it's anything that would

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ever go anywhere. Maybe they don't live close.

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Maybe it's, you know, I can tell by the personality

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mashup. It's maybe just sex talk or it doesn't

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look like anything that's really gonna sprout into anything. I don't really

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mention it because why mention

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it if I know it? Nothing's gonna come out of it. Yeah. You know what

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I mean? But if somebody messages me and say it's somebody that I

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maybe had been into previous or it was somebody that I showed

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interest in, it looks like something could come out

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of it. Then I. Then I let you know. I'm like, oh, so.

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And so message me, and this is what come out of it,

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and this is what I'm hoping for. Blah, blah, blah. You know what I mean?

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I try to. I try to keep that in mind. I try to let you

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know, it's not very quickly. It normally takes

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me a little bit. But I do tell you. Yeah. You know, it's normally,

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like later on that day or the next morning or something.

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Yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah. Because there's a lot. I mean,

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we're parents. Yeah, we're parents and we're working adults,

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and it's like we have other stuff. We talk about, and I

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honestly, I just forget it's not. When I come

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home, I'm out. I maybe will get

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on my phone next to you. I maybe I'll do a little

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messaging here and there. But I'm done. I'm done peopling.

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Yeah. I'm done momming. I'm done. Yeah.

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And so that just completely comes out of my mind,

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like who I talk to. No idea.

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Yeah. Don't remember. And not that it's not

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important to me. It just doesn't. It. There's no room for that memory

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in my brain, so it just kind of goes away. I mean, I forget to

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even mention. I mean, to even talk to people, like to return their messages.

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So. And see, it wouldn't normally be an issue because

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we would play as a couple. Yeah. But now we're. But now.

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Yeah. So now. Yeah. And so now. So it's like you need to be.

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A bit more transparent now. You're very interested

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when what I. Which I find. Which is different.

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That's why it's not. So that's why I just forget to tell you because

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I've never been. It's always been us. So messages.

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You've always been in the. In the group to see who's messaging me.

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And it's like, oh, yeah. By the way, I just.

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Well, so this is exciting for me and I'll tell you why.

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Because for so many years,

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I have been overly excited about

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the lifestyle and being in the lifestyle and getting

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our experiences and all of these things. Right. And I've

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always felt like you were not that

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into it. You know, like you were into it, but you were not

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that into it. Not as much as I was. Yeah. So it was almost like.

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Yeah. You know, sometimes I felt like you were just doing it for me.

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Yeah. And I think. Think you were for a good portion of

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time there. Yeah. Probably you were just doing it for me. Yeah. And so

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now we've reached this time in our journey

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where it's like, okay, I'm letting myself enjoy this.

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I'm letting myself go and enjoy this sexually.

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I'm opening my mind to new experiences and you're having

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conversations on your own. Previous to that, it was

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always me. Like, I was always the one who. I just got used

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to being the one who was carrying the conversation. Yeah. I was the one who

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was making the contacts and the connections.

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And then whenever we would all meet in person, that's when they would actually

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meet you. Yeah. You know, because they've been in the group chat with

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you for a long time, but they have no idea if you even

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exist. Yeah. And then they finally meet you in person. It's like, oh,

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either they like you or they don't like you. Yes. You know what I mean?

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It's new to me because I'm not used to

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not speaking for you. Yeah, I know. I am

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so used to speaking. I know. And I like the

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fact that you're finding your voice. You're having your own

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conversations. You're letting people be interested in you

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as an individual rather than in us

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as a couple. Yeah. As a couple, we're pretty strong.

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It's pretty. It's more comfortable together.

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Yeah, well, because you don't. It's not all on you.

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Yeah. You know. Yeah. Well,

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I mean, it's. It's nice. And it's like,

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okay, well, we're gonna see if we can.

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If we can at least see where this goes.

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See what happens. Yeah. Yeah. So. Yeah.

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Yeah. So how am I liking it? That's. That's really the,

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the number one question, because I'm kind of straddling

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the, the two. I, I, I really enjoy that

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whole hot wife aspect. So my wife's gonna go have

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some fun with somebody else, and I'm not gonna be there, so I'm

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gonna be at home just kind of imagining all sorts,

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you know? And I think it's my

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imagination going off its deep end that gets me excited because I'm like,

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I don't know what's going on. Yeah. It could be everything. It could be nothing.

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Yeah. And so that's where I

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always kind of got enticed about is,

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really. But also at the same as

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to get a new experience and to see if you like it and

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really try to keep an open mind. Yeah. And so I'm

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just like, oh, man. Wow. It's a

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weird feeling. This is a new one. She. So you don't even know if you

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really like this until it happens. Right. Because it's. This has never happened. Right.

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Right. I don't even know if I like it. Yeah. Well, I mean,

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you're keeping a good, open mind. Keeping an open mind. Here's.

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Here's where I. This is the pervert in me,

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right here. This is the reason why I have always wanted

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that wife that seeked

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out extramarital fun

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for her own pleasure.

287
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Right. So, you know, like, you know, I'm on Reddit

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and I'm in all those nasty subreddits,

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you know, where you can read all sorts of stuff, different stories and whatnot.

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It reminds me of Penthouse, but a

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lot of these things revolve Around.

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Well, you know, I.

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Me and my buddies were out drinking. My wife was

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at home. You know, we decided we were going

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to go hang out at the house. So we went to the house and,

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you know, I got up to go to the bathroom, and when I came back,

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my wife was blowing my friend. Mm. You know, stuff like that.

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Like, just the thought of that going,

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oh, man, I can. I can bring home a friend and be like,

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hey, you know, I'm go to the restaurant. I'll be right back. And then just

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walk into my wife being just totally slutty with somebody

302
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is such a major turn on.

303
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And so I. And because you're not doing that for me,

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like, this woman decided, I've got to have

305
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this dick. And so, bam, she started going down on this dude. You know,

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that, to me, is the real turn on. It's.

307
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It's not just the act. It's knowing that you want it.

308
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Right. That really turns me off. Yeah. And so I always wanted

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that slutty wife who wanted to do so well. So the

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fact I'm just going to dinner, so. Well, yeah. Hey, but that.

311
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That in and of itself. And you're excited about it? Yeah, I am.

312
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They're really nice people. And so we'll

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see. We'll see how. How I know it's

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going to go well. I mean, they're cool. I'm cool.

315
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Yeah. Pretty simple. Pretty simple. So we'll see.

316
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I mean, we've never done this. So this is.

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This is. This is new territory.

318
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You know, We've never done this with

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a couple and you. Well, we've done it once with a couple and you.

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But we knew them very, very, very, very, very, very well.

321
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Yeah. And we've never done this with a

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couple and you outside of them. Right.

323
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So that's where it's new. But you've played separately from me before.

324
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Yeah, several times before. Yeah. But it

325
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was more or less done for me.

326
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Yes. Yeah. Yeah. What's that

327
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now? Yeah, for you, of course. You didn't seem

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so sure there. I mean, for you and for me, too, you know. Really?

329
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Yeah. I mean, I get girl and girl. Yes.

330
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No, but I'm talking about your past stuff. I'm not talking about right now.

331
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Oh, yeah, yeah. I'm talking about the past stuff. Yeah. I mean,

332
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the past stuff. It was a couple. You're talking about the couple that we've always.

333
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Just you playing separately. Oh, yeah. Stay with

334
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me now. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. Just you, you, you playing separately.

335
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It's been primarily guys. Yes. Because that's the easiest thing

336
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to set up. Yes. Setting up with a couple

337
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has. It's something we've always talked

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about, but not always the easiest thing to do. Now,

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I will say this. We've had, we've had discussions about the four way connection

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and how it's difficult. We always say

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it's not difficult, but then sitting back and really thinking about it,

342
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it is difficult. Because I'm selective. Because you're selective,

343
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because other members are selective. You know, sometimes it just

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doesn't work. Sometimes the couple likes me. Sometimes the couple likes you.

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And in situations like that,

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we can now explore those avenues in

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a separate way and not hold each other back.

348
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Essentially. We can enjoy. Yeah,

349
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the couple. Yeah. You know. Yeah, for sure.

350
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So it works out. Yeah. Like, I mean, again,

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it's all, it's very, it's. It's still new and

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we don't. Well, so.

353
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So every time you mention that, I feel like that's you interjecting

354
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negativity into the thought. Really? No, I just. Because you keep,

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you know, we can't just talk like, you can't just talk about how

356
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you're interested and excited about it. You always have to take these back steps

357
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to go. Well, I mean, it hasn't happened yet, so we're really

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gonna see. That's you keeping the negative energy around

359
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it. You know what I mean? Like, that's every,

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every single time. It's like you don't let yourself enjoy.

361
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Yeah. What this is supposed to be. Yeah, you're probably

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right. And so, you know, you were. Earlier you were like,

363
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oh. And then earlier you were all on board. See that, that part always comes

364
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in. But I am, I am excited. If I

365
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wasn't excited, I wouldn't have set it up. Yeah,

366
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well, you haven't done it yet either. I wouldn't have set it up.

367
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I reminded them, they reminded me. It's.

368
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And it's the anticipation

369
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because I've already talked to them. So I won't

370
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be that nervous is kind

371
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of cool and see if I can keep the conversation going, you know?

372
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Yeah. Now, so this

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is, this is you and you're going to be doing that now. How would

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you feel if I, if I set something up with a couple myself like this?

375
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Like, you really, you really just. You really met them. Like,

376
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really, you've met them before. Yeah, but this was.

377
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Now you're meeting them in a different light. Right.

378
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If we were to play, like, how am I gonna feel? I know this

379
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one's gonna be great because again, chemistry's freaking awesome.

380
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Like, Just talking to them on messenger

381
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is. It's not. It's very sporadic, but it's cool,

382
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you know. Yeah. It's not all sexual

383
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and actually it's not sexual. Now this

384
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I find interesting. It is not a sexual message. You are very

385
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transactional. I would figure you'd want that. So I' to be

386
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a little less in that way with

387
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certain people really. If I want the

388
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dick and I want a single guy and I want the dick or I want

389
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the. I'm gonna ask you.

390
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I'm going about this one a little different. Like I

391
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know they're interested sex wise. With me.

392
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They made it very clear the first time they asked. Yeah.

393
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So I know that's there.

394
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But like when we talk, it's.

395
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I'm trying to get used to the fact of the want, if that

396
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makes sense. Yeah. You know? Yeah. I am very transactional and

397
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I am still transactional with certain people.

398
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Okay. With others I'm like,

399
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oh, let's see, let's try this. You know,

400
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but we'll. I know it's going to be cool.

401
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You know, for me it's, it's. I can't,

402
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like. I know that I'm available to

403
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other couples to play, you know,

404
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so like I could easily do an M F M threesome

405
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with another couple. Yeah. But I've never had that experience without

406
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you there. Right.

407
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So I, I know I

408
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would enjoy it. Yeah. But I've just.

409
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I can't even fathom the thought of doing it without you there.

410
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Yeah. Isn't that funny? That is funny.

411
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Yeah. I've just never thought about it because like I've done it, I've taken part

412
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in it. Yeah. And you've sat off to the side and watched.

413
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Yeah. You know, I'm just. I've always been grungingly.

414
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Begrudgingly. Oh, big grungingly. There's no grunge.

415
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Oh, no grunge.

416
00:25:17,140 --> 00:25:20,572
Yes. You know, so the. I. I get what you mean when you

417
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say it's. It's. It hasn't been done yet. It's a new experience.

418
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You don't know. So like, and, and then for you. Right? Like you're not a

419
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jealous person. Yeah, I am. I'm a. Yeah.

420
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When are you gonna never stop? Ever. Never gonna stop being jealous.

421
00:25:34,988 --> 00:25:38,860
Never ever. No. What's there to be jealous? It's not, it's not really.

422
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You have the whole me. It's not. It's just you're

423
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entering my territory. It's territory territory.

424
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So. And everybody respects that. Oh,

425
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everybody respects it. But I'm always going to be.

426
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I don't ever. I don't want to drop that

427
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guard. That guard is going to stay here forever. I'm very nice

428
00:26:00,012 --> 00:26:03,628
about it. I'm not very. I'm not an alpha where I'm

429
00:26:03,644 --> 00:26:07,388
like, you cannot talk to my man. No, I'm not like that.

430
00:26:07,524 --> 00:26:10,922
No, I am. I just know. I just know that

431
00:26:10,946 --> 00:26:15,190
I'm a very territorial person. So you

432
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allowing me to go out and be with

433
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another couple for you is hot

434
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in two different ways. But for me to do it.

435
00:26:26,370 --> 00:26:30,058
No, I would totally support you if you wanted to do that. I would

436
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totally be like, go. I don't know how

437
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I feel. Not to ask before. Oh,

438
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but I wonder if we

439
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came to an impasse somewhere along the line

440
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where I wanted to do something and

441
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you said, okay, give it a try. I don't know how I'm going to feel

442
00:26:51,036 --> 00:26:54,340
about it. And I do it, and I really like

443
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it, and you don't. And you

444
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voice the fact that you don't like it. Like, you really don't like

445
00:27:01,736 --> 00:27:05,500
it, but I really do.

446
00:27:06,120 --> 00:27:09,344
Who wins in that tug of war? Like, what's the. How do

447
00:27:09,352 --> 00:27:12,416
you. I already know how it's going to play out. How would it play out?

448
00:27:12,568 --> 00:27:16,128
I would tell you I didn't like it. Yeah. You would

449
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probably argue that you liked it.

450
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I would be like, okay, I'd give in.

451
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And then you'd probably do it

452
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another time, whatever it is, and know that I

453
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still didn't like it. And then you'd stop.

454
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Well, what if I sat there and I said, I. I would really like

455
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it if you could just. Just try. Just try to like

456
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it and I would. I really try.

457
00:27:45,810 --> 00:27:49,082
Wow. Yeah. I would try. I would try. I mean. Yeah.

458
00:27:49,146 --> 00:27:52,522
Such a good wife. That's so nice. So many things that we've done.

459
00:27:52,626 --> 00:27:55,544
Yeah. Are pretty much have gone that way.

460
00:27:55,632 --> 00:27:59,384
Yeah. Like, try it. Yeah, do it. A lot of it is try it on.

461
00:27:59,552 --> 00:28:03,192
Just keep an open mind and try something. You know, sometimes it

462
00:28:03,216 --> 00:28:06,536
works out, sometimes it doesn't. Yeah. But, yeah,

463
00:28:06,568 --> 00:28:08,808
I mean, that's the. The big thing is, I think,

464
00:28:08,864 --> 00:28:12,840
experiences, and there's a lot of things that. That we

465
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:16,472
haven't tried that

466
00:28:16,496 --> 00:28:19,816
we haven't gotten certain experiences that we want to.

467
00:28:19,888 --> 00:28:23,620
I mean, who knows? Yeah. We may like it, we may not. Yeah.

468
00:28:23,960 --> 00:28:27,072
Like, you want to do a gang bang. I do. I don't.

469
00:28:27,136 --> 00:28:29,984
I don't know if you'd like that or I don't know if you wouldn't like

470
00:28:29,992 --> 00:28:32,480
it. You know what I mean? Like, I'm not saying you wouldn't. I'm saying I.

471
00:28:32,520 --> 00:28:35,776
I don't. I don't know. Because we've never done it before. Yeah, no,

472
00:28:35,848 --> 00:28:38,944
like sometimes when we would invite a guy

473
00:28:38,992 --> 00:28:42,752
over, you would be about that

474
00:28:42,936 --> 00:28:46,368
is. It's still. They're not your toys.

475
00:28:46,464 --> 00:28:49,656
They're still people. But what if I tell?

476
00:28:49,808 --> 00:28:53,816
No, you cannot think of it like that. Yes. They're not your choices.

477
00:28:54,008 --> 00:28:57,416
Well, you gotta treat them like people. If I tell Tom, Dick and Harry,

478
00:28:57,448 --> 00:29:01,064
I want a gang bang now, we're not gonna have a whole session of

479
00:29:01,232 --> 00:29:05,128
how many times can you come? And if you can't come within 10

480
00:29:05,184 --> 00:29:08,820
minutes, you're getting off of me, the next person is coming.

481
00:29:09,200 --> 00:29:12,712
Do you know what I mean? Wow, that is detailed. Yeah, but I would be

482
00:29:12,736 --> 00:29:16,104
that detailed. I'd be like, look, I'm not gonna stay here with my legs

483
00:29:16,152 --> 00:29:20,148
wide open or my mouth white. No, no, no, no. This is gon. I want.

484
00:29:20,204 --> 00:29:23,572
Because this is my fantasy. This is what I want.

485
00:29:23,676 --> 00:29:26,980
Now are you good? Because you may not come. Wow. Sure.

486
00:29:27,020 --> 00:29:30,740
I'm. I'm good, Bruce. Okay, cool. That's interesting.

487
00:29:30,820 --> 00:29:33,492
Yeah. You have to, you know, you put it that way and I'm like,

488
00:29:33,516 --> 00:29:37,476
you know, that just makes a lot of sense because it's

489
00:29:37,508 --> 00:29:40,980
not. It's not. Do you know what I mean? Like, it's not

490
00:29:41,020 --> 00:29:44,100
for their. I want to please them, but it's not for

491
00:29:44,140 --> 00:29:46,804
them. It's for me. It's my fantasy. So.

492
00:29:46,892 --> 00:29:50,712
Yeah, that's interesting. That is something that we haven't done. That is

493
00:29:50,736 --> 00:29:53,272
something we have not done. But now you made me feel like I have to

494
00:29:53,296 --> 00:29:56,488
dig. Now it just sounds too hard. I don't know. But see, that's me.

495
00:29:56,544 --> 00:29:59,592
I think that's what I've been saying. What I've been saying, you make my fantasy

496
00:29:59,656 --> 00:30:03,288
leave. But that's what I'm saying. That's why I overthink these things.

497
00:30:03,424 --> 00:30:06,632
And I've been saying, logistically, it sounds like a nightmare.

498
00:30:06,696 --> 00:30:10,056
Yeah, see, but you see how I just. I just sprayed it all out?

499
00:30:10,128 --> 00:30:13,672
Yeah, yeah, it sounds. It sounds logistically like a

500
00:30:13,696 --> 00:30:16,962
major nightmare. Transactional. I can't do

501
00:30:16,986 --> 00:30:20,030
it. I can't do it. I can.

502
00:30:20,810 --> 00:30:25,106
I mean, I just. I don't think anything wrong with transactional. I don't,

503
00:30:25,218 --> 00:30:29,314
like. I don't either. For some people.

504
00:30:29,402 --> 00:30:32,610
I just couldn't do it. You know, we were at the.

505
00:30:32,730 --> 00:30:36,210
The club once and there was a couple that. That waved us on

506
00:30:36,250 --> 00:30:39,602
and we were going to have sex and

507
00:30:39,706 --> 00:30:42,962
I couldn't get hard because I didn't I don't really

508
00:30:42,986 --> 00:30:47,154
know them. You know what I mean? Like, I haven't ever really spoken

509
00:30:47,202 --> 00:30:50,146
to them, and I didn't really have a connection,

510
00:30:50,338 --> 00:30:53,682
so it was really, really difficult to stay hard.

511
00:30:53,786 --> 00:30:57,250
Yeah. And I didn't. I finally, by the third

512
00:30:57,290 --> 00:31:00,162
time, I was like, yeah, I'm gonna walk away from this. Yeah. And you're like,

513
00:31:00,186 --> 00:31:03,762
have fun. And I was like, yeah. You know, I mean, because I

514
00:31:03,786 --> 00:31:07,074
just. And it has nothing to do with them because she was very attractive.

515
00:31:07,122 --> 00:31:10,562
Oh, yeah, yeah. Yeah. And, you know, I hadn't talked about it. I. It was.

516
00:31:10,586 --> 00:31:14,394
It was a random thing. Yeah. I, you know, I really haven't spoken

517
00:31:14,442 --> 00:31:18,074
to them. I haven't had any conversation ever. And so I didn't

518
00:31:18,122 --> 00:31:21,866
have that connection. I really have to have that connection,

519
00:31:22,058 --> 00:31:25,754
and it makes that big of a difference. You know, had I maybe

520
00:31:25,802 --> 00:31:29,898
had a couple of conversations with her prior to that, you know, via messenger

521
00:31:29,914 --> 00:31:33,514
or something, gotten to know her and that sort of thing. Hells yeah.

522
00:31:33,642 --> 00:31:36,990
That probably would have changed the whole trajectory of it. Yeah.

523
00:31:37,770 --> 00:31:41,218
Because like I said, I found her very attractive. Yeah. But I was like,

524
00:31:41,274 --> 00:31:44,850
man, it's just. It's. It's more of the

525
00:31:44,890 --> 00:31:47,938
connection than anything else. It's a big deal to me. No, for sure.

526
00:31:47,994 --> 00:31:52,082
For sure. You know, and I never really say. I always knew it

527
00:31:52,106 --> 00:31:55,890
in theory, but that one really came and

528
00:31:55,930 --> 00:31:58,738
put it to the test there. It did. Wow.

529
00:31:58,914 --> 00:32:02,098
And I was embarrassed. I haven't had that happen in a long

530
00:32:02,154 --> 00:32:05,392
time. Oh, yeah. So embarrassed. Really?

531
00:32:05,496 --> 00:32:08,960
Yeah. Because I'm not a fan of not being able

532
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:10,020
to operate,

533
00:32:13,480 --> 00:32:16,112
and I haven't had that problem for a while.

534
00:32:16,216 --> 00:32:18,700
Yeah. You know what I mean?

535
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,792
Yeah. But I understand why the problem was

536
00:32:23,816 --> 00:32:26,112
a problem. And when I knew the problem was a problem, I was like,

537
00:32:26,136 --> 00:32:28,960
all right, no, we're not doing this. Yeah. I felt. I,

538
00:32:29,000 --> 00:32:32,292
I, I, I was. I felt bad because I felt like I

539
00:32:32,316 --> 00:32:35,844
kind of get to know somebody. That takes

540
00:32:35,892 --> 00:32:39,044
work, that takes too much. And you're into the pleasure.

541
00:32:39,092 --> 00:32:42,260
Now you want the pleasure. Now you don't want to have to work.

542
00:32:42,380 --> 00:32:45,940
Yes. To be somebody in their circle in order to have sex

543
00:32:45,980 --> 00:32:49,668
with them sometimes. That's exactly. Exactly. Thank you.

544
00:32:49,804 --> 00:32:52,644
We should, like, record that so that I can just play it for people and

545
00:32:52,652 --> 00:32:56,644
be like, this is exactly what I want. Hold on. Here's a disclaimer.

546
00:32:56,692 --> 00:33:00,224
I don't want to work at this relationship. I just want the.

547
00:33:00,312 --> 00:33:03,392
The pleasure. Yes. Can we

548
00:33:03,416 --> 00:33:06,720
do that? Well, hey, man, there's some. There's some people out there that are like

549
00:33:06,760 --> 00:33:10,176
that. There is. Yeah. The Question is, are you attracted

550
00:33:10,208 --> 00:33:13,100
to them? Who knows? You gotta find them first.

551
00:33:13,880 --> 00:33:17,456
And then, I don't know. You're selective. I'm select. Yeah.

552
00:33:17,568 --> 00:33:21,584
Yeah. You wouldn't choose somebody just because they have the same mentality

553
00:33:21,632 --> 00:33:22,860
of thinking as you.

554
00:33:24,600 --> 00:33:28,956
Yeah, yeah. Now, if you were more like me,

555
00:33:29,108 --> 00:33:32,460
who can find something attractive about almost everybody,

556
00:33:32,620 --> 00:33:35,804
it would be a lot easier. No, it would be a

557
00:33:35,812 --> 00:33:39,180
lot easier to slut yourself out. Yeah. Yeah. But I see

558
00:33:39,220 --> 00:33:42,828
through it. Oh, man, you totally do. You know what's

559
00:33:42,844 --> 00:33:46,476
funny is you're very good

560
00:33:46,548 --> 00:33:49,756
at seeing through people's,

561
00:33:49,948 --> 00:33:53,702
especially guys. So that's why it makes it so transactional

562
00:33:53,766 --> 00:33:56,850
for me. Because you. You think that they're full of.

563
00:33:58,430 --> 00:34:01,414
And so it's like, you know what? Don't talk to me. I don't want to

564
00:34:01,422 --> 00:34:04,822
hear that I'm beautiful. I don't want to hear all of these lines that

565
00:34:04,846 --> 00:34:07,810
you're going to give me that you probably told five other women.

566
00:34:08,190 --> 00:34:12,070
Just come me. Exactly. Right? Am I.

567
00:34:12,110 --> 00:34:15,382
Am I reading you correctly? I know you so damn well,

568
00:34:15,406 --> 00:34:19,359
man. Exactly. So I understand. Some women need that

569
00:34:19,399 --> 00:34:23,071
connection. And good for you. And some men, obviously my husband.

570
00:34:23,135 --> 00:34:25,419
Yeah. And that's great.

571
00:34:25,879 --> 00:34:30,059
Like, good for you. I do not need that.

572
00:34:30,359 --> 00:34:33,899
Call me hollow. I'm a dark little heart.

573
00:34:34,199 --> 00:34:36,859
Whatever. Hollow. I don't need.

574
00:34:42,790 --> 00:34:46,366
I don't need that. I want to zoom a. Zoom, zoom in a boom,

575
00:34:46,398 --> 00:34:49,262
boom. I just. Dude, great.

576
00:34:49,366 --> 00:34:52,782
I'm so glad you know. Sorry for you.

577
00:34:52,886 --> 00:34:56,286
Sorry. I don't know. Tell you. She's selective.

578
00:34:56,398 --> 00:34:59,810
How do girls know if I'm attracted to them? Selective.

579
00:35:00,390 --> 00:35:03,210
How do girls know if you're attracted to them?

580
00:35:03,510 --> 00:35:05,370
You don't talk to them.

581
00:35:09,600 --> 00:35:12,740
You. You managed to avoid them in every way.

582
00:35:13,840 --> 00:35:17,176
Yeah. Because you have no way of knowing how to talk to women.

583
00:35:17,248 --> 00:35:20,488
You got no game. I got no game. No, you got no game.

584
00:35:20,624 --> 00:35:23,460
See, but this works for women, too. Like, I can be.

585
00:35:24,000 --> 00:35:26,140
For women, I can be transactional.

586
00:35:26,480 --> 00:35:30,088
But it's so hard because I want to know that they like

587
00:35:30,144 --> 00:35:33,832
me. I don't want to be transactional. Really. Like,

588
00:35:33,856 --> 00:35:36,934
the thought of being transactional seems so easy for women.

589
00:35:37,022 --> 00:35:40,966
Right. But it's not. A woman to a woman is not.

590
00:35:41,038 --> 00:35:44,310
Oh, it's not. So you mean I have to. You have

591
00:35:44,350 --> 00:35:47,990
to know that they like you and they're not just doing it to eat your

592
00:35:48,030 --> 00:35:50,918
box. Yeah. Okay. That's weird.

593
00:35:51,014 --> 00:35:52,890
Yeah, that's weird.

594
00:35:55,150 --> 00:35:58,630
Because women are so tricky. Yeah. Men are so

595
00:35:58,670 --> 00:36:02,678
easy. I am so sorry, guys, but y'all are so easy sometimes.

596
00:36:02,774 --> 00:36:06,298
It's like, I know. I Have a good

597
00:36:06,354 --> 00:36:10,362
personality. And I know that

598
00:36:10,386 --> 00:36:14,298
I'm cute. Okay. And I

599
00:36:14,354 --> 00:36:17,910
know that I have nice tits. Yes. We all know that.

600
00:36:18,770 --> 00:36:21,630
I have all of my teeth. Yes.

601
00:36:22,450 --> 00:36:26,746
I'm not. I'm well kept.

602
00:36:26,938 --> 00:36:30,202
Yeah. I keep up with myself. Yeah. In some way.

603
00:36:30,306 --> 00:36:33,804
Where you wear makeup. I do. Do your hair.

604
00:36:33,852 --> 00:36:38,240
You do your. So for men, it's, it's easy.

605
00:36:39,460 --> 00:36:43,880
Women, we're so catty. We're so.

606
00:36:44,900 --> 00:36:48,188
What is that word that you call me sometimes when I don't

607
00:36:48,204 --> 00:36:50,876
like everybody? H.

608
00:36:51,028 --> 00:36:54,716
Shallow. Oh, I was like,

609
00:36:54,788 --> 00:36:59,212
I was going through the list. There's a lot of words. I call you shallow.

610
00:36:59,276 --> 00:37:02,842
Yeah. Yeah. You're. You're women. Women can be shallow.

611
00:37:02,996 --> 00:37:05,490
Yeah. Pretentious. Pretentious.

612
00:37:07,590 --> 00:37:11,198
So it's hard. I can't be transactional.

613
00:37:11,374 --> 00:37:14,170
Tell me about it. Because I.

614
00:37:15,190 --> 00:37:18,574
You are. I have grown

615
00:37:18,622 --> 00:37:22,798
up. Yeah. Being told. I just

616
00:37:22,854 --> 00:37:26,990
look at you like a brother. Yeah. Like I've been told zone.

617
00:37:27,070 --> 00:37:30,850
Oh, dude, I get. I, I, I have gotten friend

618
00:37:30,890 --> 00:37:34,162
zone so many times throughout my life,

619
00:37:34,346 --> 00:37:37,762
and it stings at first when

620
00:37:37,786 --> 00:37:41,394
you get friendzoned. I've gotten friends and I've been lectured that I shouldn't

621
00:37:41,442 --> 00:37:45,234
feel that way. It's like, oh, well, you shouldn't feel that way because,

622
00:37:45,402 --> 00:37:48,386
you know, you should only be in this and friends and blah, blah, blah.

623
00:37:48,418 --> 00:37:51,506
And it's like, yeah, yeah, you know. Whoever tells you that needs to go choke

624
00:37:51,538 --> 00:37:55,506
on a dick. Oh, my God. Wow, that is severe.

625
00:37:55,618 --> 00:37:58,992
That is your feeling. That's true. My feelings are valid.

626
00:37:59,056 --> 00:38:02,240
Your feelings are valid. Oh, yeah. But it is

627
00:38:02,280 --> 00:38:05,072
very hard to be transactional with women. So.

628
00:38:05,176 --> 00:38:08,256
Yeah, I dig it. It's like if a woman wants

629
00:38:08,288 --> 00:38:11,648
to be with you, they should just say it. And I'm trying to get

630
00:38:11,704 --> 00:38:15,264
there, but then I come up to the people where, like, it's like,

631
00:38:15,352 --> 00:38:19,072
oh, well, let's do this. It's not

632
00:38:19,096 --> 00:38:23,100
that easy. But then, but then, you know,

633
00:38:23,750 --> 00:38:27,630
you've been asked out by other women

634
00:38:27,750 --> 00:38:32,158
on dates and you

635
00:38:32,214 --> 00:38:36,142
wouldn't feel okay or good about going out

636
00:38:36,166 --> 00:38:39,438
on a date with. With a single woman. I would now,

637
00:38:39,574 --> 00:38:43,790
but before. No. Yeah, before. Like maybe even a couple of months ago.

638
00:38:43,910 --> 00:38:46,958
So question. What if I.

639
00:38:47,014 --> 00:38:51,670
What? Well, I mean, even playing field. So you

640
00:38:51,710 --> 00:38:55,270
would go out on a date with a single woman? Yeah.

641
00:38:55,350 --> 00:38:58,050
Could I go out on a date with a single woman?

642
00:39:03,390 --> 00:39:07,334
Well, see, that's not fair right there. Oh, you gotta be equal

643
00:39:07,382 --> 00:39:10,598
playing field. You can say no to me. See, that's your thing. See,

644
00:39:10,654 --> 00:39:13,670
that's, that's. I can say no to you. You know,

645
00:39:13,790 --> 00:39:17,088
I am Selective on who

646
00:39:17,144 --> 00:39:20,736
I want you to be alone with, and there's actually nobody

647
00:39:20,768 --> 00:39:22,340
right now, so. Yeah.

648
00:39:23,800 --> 00:39:25,260
Do you know what I mean? Like,

649
00:39:26,520 --> 00:39:29,152
what if there was a woman or a man that you didn't like and you

650
00:39:29,176 --> 00:39:32,880
wanted me to go? Or you're. I don't trust them. Specific person.

651
00:39:33,000 --> 00:39:36,224
Yeah. I would say, no, I don't trust. Yeah, that's what I'm

652
00:39:36,232 --> 00:39:39,472
saying. Like. Yeah, no, but. But it's like. So you're saying it's case by

653
00:39:39,496 --> 00:39:42,496
case. Case by case. Yeah. Yeah. Which is cool. Yeah.

654
00:39:42,528 --> 00:39:45,720
Case by case. But what I'm saying, you'd be okay with it. Yes. Right on.

655
00:39:45,760 --> 00:39:48,600
Yes. Yeah. Now that's. That's very cool of you.

656
00:39:48,640 --> 00:39:52,232
Yeah. That's all I'm even playing field. Yeah. Because we were

657
00:39:52,256 --> 00:39:55,480
talking not too long ago and you were saying, I don't know how

658
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:58,904
well I would trust to go out with

659
00:39:58,992 --> 00:40:02,232
a single woman. Yeah. I didn't quite understand. I don't like the

660
00:40:02,256 --> 00:40:05,832
thought if I'm very honest. Okay. Why? I don't.

661
00:40:05,896 --> 00:40:09,080
Because I'm a very territorial person. I just

662
00:40:09,120 --> 00:40:12,290
don't like it. I don't like the thought. But I am willing to

663
00:40:12,330 --> 00:40:15,938
give the thought a little push and be like,

664
00:40:16,074 --> 00:40:19,586
well, let him try it, see if he likes

665
00:40:19,618 --> 00:40:23,390
it, see if you like it. And there you go.

666
00:40:24,250 --> 00:40:26,770
Situational situation.

667
00:40:26,930 --> 00:40:30,590
Situational. I can't help it. I'm a very territorial person.

668
00:40:31,130 --> 00:40:35,250
Yeah. Yeah. And I, you know, I'm always gonna be yours. I always

669
00:40:35,290 --> 00:40:38,962
be, always gonna understand that. And I know how much you love me

670
00:40:38,986 --> 00:40:42,782
and I am your queen and you adore me. Yeah, I know that,

671
00:40:42,806 --> 00:40:46,270
baby. But I do enjoy this aspect of the life too, you know?

672
00:40:46,310 --> 00:40:49,822
Yeah. Yeah. And so do I. We're more freeing and

673
00:40:49,846 --> 00:40:53,530
stuff. But you have to understand, you've always been up ahead.

674
00:40:55,110 --> 00:40:59,038
So when you. When you want to do something like that,

675
00:40:59,094 --> 00:40:59,930
it's like.

676
00:41:11,600 --> 00:41:15,304
So I've always been a step ahead of you, huh? Yeah, you've always been a

677
00:41:15,312 --> 00:41:19,032
step ahead and more

678
00:41:19,216 --> 00:41:23,260
mature, I guess, in your thinking.

679
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:27,060
We think differently. We do think differently. You.

680
00:41:27,440 --> 00:41:30,296
You're very trusting. You're very open.

681
00:41:30,448 --> 00:41:33,880
You're very. You wear your heart on your sleeve. Yeah. And you're very

682
00:41:33,920 --> 00:41:37,244
cynical. I am very cynical. You're pretty much the exact opposite of me

683
00:41:37,332 --> 00:41:40,924
in this situation. Complete opposite. You don't trust

684
00:41:40,972 --> 00:41:44,460
anybody. When you meet people, you're looking for the bad.

685
00:41:44,580 --> 00:41:48,556
Yes. And so you're. You're pretty much there. Guilty until proven.

686
00:41:48,588 --> 00:41:52,440
I'm looking through holes in your story. Yeah. I'm looking for.

687
00:41:54,100 --> 00:41:57,500
Are you really that Are you that right? And I can see

688
00:41:57,540 --> 00:42:01,168
through so freaking quick. It is.

689
00:42:01,304 --> 00:42:04,848
Sometimes I have to ignore it because we won't

690
00:42:04,864 --> 00:42:08,512
be friends with them. What? I mean, like, I just have to

691
00:42:08,536 --> 00:42:11,420
ignore it. And especially for, like, some women,

692
00:42:13,880 --> 00:42:16,020
I can do them so quickly.

693
00:42:17,560 --> 00:42:21,424
I used to tell you all the time. Yeah, you did. Back in

694
00:42:21,432 --> 00:42:24,832
the day. And I stopped telling you. So now I don't really. I. Now I

695
00:42:24,856 --> 00:42:28,694
just kind of keep it in. Yeah. Until something

696
00:42:28,782 --> 00:42:31,942
happens or you see something. And then I'm like, so I

697
00:42:31,966 --> 00:42:34,210
saw that two, three weeks ago.

698
00:42:35,150 --> 00:42:38,530
Yeah. And I can pretty. I pretty much call

699
00:42:40,350 --> 00:42:44,290
bullshit on people that I. That I. That we've actually met and

700
00:42:45,790 --> 00:42:49,046
they're not in our lives anymore because all

701
00:42:49,198 --> 00:42:52,220
was true or came to fruition. Yeah.

702
00:42:52,350 --> 00:42:55,824
But everybody that's in our lives now is great.

703
00:42:55,992 --> 00:42:58,140
Yeah. You know, I haven't seen.

704
00:42:59,240 --> 00:43:03,088
I haven't seen any major problems. Oh, man, I'm so glad.

705
00:43:03,184 --> 00:43:06,496
Yeah. So glad. Or I probably really haven't been looking, but. Oh,

706
00:43:06,528 --> 00:43:10,032
man, don't say that. Yeah, no, take a

707
00:43:10,056 --> 00:43:13,760
negative spin on that. We're doing good. Yeah. No, I haven't. I haven't seen

708
00:43:13,800 --> 00:43:17,280
any. Anybody that. I'm like, yeah, no,

709
00:43:17,320 --> 00:43:20,444
we're not. We're not doing that. Yeah. Well, you're European.

710
00:43:20,572 --> 00:43:23,240
Makes a difference. Yeah. I don't let you get.

711
00:43:24,180 --> 00:43:27,740
I don't let you get too overexcited. I always have to kind of bring you

712
00:43:27,780 --> 00:43:31,196
back down to. Yeah. La La Land. It's like,

713
00:43:31,348 --> 00:43:34,960
hi. Well, I, you know, I enjoy. Me, but I enjoy.

714
00:43:35,860 --> 00:43:39,600
Yeah, because you used to be. Used to get like, head over heels.

715
00:43:40,580 --> 00:43:44,140
Infatuation with people. And you're not

716
00:43:44,180 --> 00:43:47,900
like that anymore. No. You're very chill, cool,

717
00:43:47,980 --> 00:43:49,560
calm, friends.

718
00:43:51,860 --> 00:43:54,320
Sometimes you get a little too excited,

719
00:43:54,660 --> 00:43:57,480
but it usually wears off. And I kind of just,

720
00:43:58,020 --> 00:44:01,644
you know, it's like a new toy. A new toy.

721
00:44:01,692 --> 00:44:03,372
Like when you get a new. Do you know when you're little and you get

722
00:44:03,396 --> 00:44:06,988
so excited and it's like, fucking awesome. It's nre. Yeah.

723
00:44:07,084 --> 00:44:10,844
New relationship energy and not. You get that. You get that from friends.

724
00:44:11,012 --> 00:44:14,654
Yeah. Yeah. So even friends, you get that and it's great.

725
00:44:14,742 --> 00:44:18,590
I like to see you happy. So until you have

726
00:44:18,630 --> 00:44:22,686
floated in the clouds and you're gone, like, hello. But you haven't

727
00:44:22,718 --> 00:44:26,510
really done that in years. Yeah, but I

728
00:44:26,550 --> 00:44:29,934
still kind of look for that. Well, we're opposite

729
00:44:29,982 --> 00:44:33,246
from each other. Yes. That we keep each other balanced.

730
00:44:33,278 --> 00:44:36,926
Because, man, you are so. Just horribly

731
00:44:36,958 --> 00:44:40,142
negative sometimes with people. Oh, yeah. And I have

732
00:44:40,166 --> 00:44:43,766
to kind of remind you, it's like, hey, the Thoughts

733
00:44:43,798 --> 00:44:47,478
that you're having, you don't have any real reason

734
00:44:47,534 --> 00:44:51,190
to have them. That's just because you saw

735
00:44:51,230 --> 00:44:54,278
their face and you were like, I don't trust them. And it's

736
00:44:54,294 --> 00:44:57,302
like, wait a second now. You know, I mean, it hasn't done anything. Well.

737
00:44:57,326 --> 00:45:00,582
I just don't like the way they look. Well. And it's like, oh, my gosh.

738
00:45:00,646 --> 00:45:03,894
I mean, this could be the nicest person in the world.

739
00:45:04,062 --> 00:45:07,630
Can we at least meet them now? I will tell you, sometimes you're.

740
00:45:07,750 --> 00:45:10,766
Sometimes you're right, but sometimes you're not,

741
00:45:10,918 --> 00:45:14,366
you know, because it's come up and we have given people

742
00:45:14,438 --> 00:45:18,078
chances that have totally deserved them.

743
00:45:18,134 --> 00:45:21,102
They've. And they've earned them, and they were nice,

744
00:45:21,166 --> 00:45:24,574
wonderful. And then two weeks later, it all comes back and it's

745
00:45:24,622 --> 00:45:27,790
really hard. Well, sometimes, actually. No.

746
00:45:27,830 --> 00:45:30,846
The people that we actually have in our lives right now. Yeah.

747
00:45:30,958 --> 00:45:34,446
Nothing. Yeah. But the ones before that. Oh,

748
00:45:34,478 --> 00:45:38,246
yeah, most definitely. Absolutely. And I didn't say anything

749
00:45:38,278 --> 00:45:41,286
about it. No. So. Yeah.

750
00:45:41,478 --> 00:45:45,158
I try not to be Negative Nancy, but I am

751
00:45:45,214 --> 00:45:47,210
Negative Priscilla.

752
00:45:48,830 --> 00:45:52,630
Well, zebra can't change his stripes, you know. No, I mean,

753
00:45:52,670 --> 00:45:56,310
I, I. You like you the art. I do. I like

754
00:45:56,350 --> 00:45:59,158
me the way I am. And I'm not asking you to change. No. And I'm

755
00:45:59,174 --> 00:46:02,592
not asking you to change. Like, this is always going to be the yin and

756
00:46:02,616 --> 00:46:05,824
yang. Yeah. And we're always going to

757
00:46:05,832 --> 00:46:09,136
be together, of course. Work things out. We are going to die

758
00:46:09,248 --> 00:46:12,340
holding each other's hands is what I said. Absolutely.

759
00:46:13,480 --> 00:46:16,784
That's because you'll probably kill me. I will kill yourself afterwards.

760
00:46:16,912 --> 00:46:20,560
Of course. Yes. You always say that we're. Well, because you always tell me,

761
00:46:20,600 --> 00:46:24,032
oh, well, you know, we're gonna die together. That. That sounds more

762
00:46:24,056 --> 00:46:27,830
like a threat than any kind of romance at all.

763
00:46:27,950 --> 00:46:31,414
So I know that you mean it in a romantic way, but it sounds like

764
00:46:31,422 --> 00:46:34,530
a Dateline Thursday. We're gonna. We're gonna die together.

765
00:46:35,550 --> 00:46:39,174
That's gonna be the. The title that it says on the. On the headstone.

766
00:46:39,222 --> 00:46:42,090
Till death do we part. Oh, my gosh,

767
00:46:42,990 --> 00:46:44,690
you're depressing me.

768
00:46:46,670 --> 00:46:49,894
I always depress you. You give me anxiety

769
00:46:49,942 --> 00:46:53,462
and depression. I do. I give you anxiety.

770
00:46:53,526 --> 00:46:56,166
I give you depression. I make you scared.

771
00:46:56,278 --> 00:46:59,300
Yeah. All that.

772
00:47:00,640 --> 00:47:04,184
You're so negative towards me. The best relationship. Don't you?

773
00:47:04,272 --> 00:47:07,220
So much so. Yes, absolutely. No, actually,

774
00:47:08,480 --> 00:47:11,544
you are. You the greatest thing that's ever. I know. Yeah.

775
00:47:11,592 --> 00:47:14,824
Well, that's good. It's good to know that.

776
00:47:14,992 --> 00:47:17,640
I'm glad that I could tell you. You tell me every day. I do.

777
00:47:17,680 --> 00:47:20,712
Well, you know, I just want you to know that I appreciate you. I appreciate

778
00:47:20,776 --> 00:47:23,544
you. I appreciate the person that you are. It's a lot of fun to you.

779
00:47:23,552 --> 00:47:26,580
It's lots of ups and downs. More ups than down.

780
00:47:27,920 --> 00:47:30,300
The downs are less than the ups.

781
00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:34,072
There's more ups than down. I. You know, I am your negative

782
00:47:34,136 --> 00:47:37,848
little. I'm your little gray cloud that follows you like

783
00:47:37,904 --> 00:47:40,300
Eeyore. You're the Yang to my yang.

784
00:47:41,920 --> 00:47:45,400
I am. Oh, my gosh. Well, I mean.

785
00:47:45,520 --> 00:47:49,528
Yeah. So we have new adventures coming up. I'm excited.

786
00:47:49,624 --> 00:47:53,138
I'm excited to see all this goes.

787
00:47:53,314 --> 00:47:56,850
Yeah, I'm excited. I'm keeping an open mind. I'm not

788
00:47:56,890 --> 00:48:00,150
being. I'm not being negative, Nancy.

789
00:48:00,650 --> 00:48:03,990
I think it's going to be freaking cool. That's pretty cool.

790
00:48:04,490 --> 00:48:08,306
I do like to see your. You are. You are getting

791
00:48:08,378 --> 00:48:11,858
a literal. And it's kind of hot. I'm getting territorial. Am I?

792
00:48:11,914 --> 00:48:14,350
Yeah, it's kind of hot. It's kind of hard to know.

793
00:48:14,890 --> 00:48:17,910
Oh, he actually.

794
00:48:18,090 --> 00:48:21,726
I know that you care and you have what I'm doing, but now it's

795
00:48:21,758 --> 00:48:25,598
gotten a little extra, and it's like, oh, okay.

796
00:48:25,774 --> 00:48:28,850
Yeah. No, it's. It's getting a little rougher.

797
00:48:30,150 --> 00:48:33,358
I am. I am getting a little bit more

798
00:48:33,414 --> 00:48:36,478
passionate. Yes, you are. He has.

799
00:48:36,534 --> 00:48:40,238
I have. I have told him, and he has taken the reins.

800
00:48:40,334 --> 00:48:43,734
And you're good. I'm. I'm very sensual.

801
00:48:43,902 --> 00:48:47,494
You are trying to be sensual, but also a little animalist.

802
00:48:47,542 --> 00:48:50,742
I gotta show you that you're mine.

803
00:48:50,806 --> 00:48:54,230
Yes, I know. It's very hot. It's. It. You.

804
00:48:54,270 --> 00:48:58,214
You have to understand that you can think about whoever

805
00:48:58,262 --> 00:49:02,742
you want to think about. You know, you can do

806
00:49:02,766 --> 00:49:05,530
whatever you can with whomever you. Yes.

807
00:49:06,190 --> 00:49:09,450
But you're here with, and that pussy's mine.

808
00:49:10,270 --> 00:49:13,628
You know what I'm saying? And I'm going to show you every

809
00:49:13,684 --> 00:49:18,092
single day, however many times a day that

810
00:49:18,116 --> 00:49:21,452
is mine. Can you remind it in a little bit? Oh, yeah. No, no,

811
00:49:21,476 --> 00:49:25,120
no. That's happening. All right. Yeah. In the pocket.

812
00:49:25,780 --> 00:49:29,080
Hard as a rock. That's right.

813
00:49:31,300 --> 00:49:34,604
Yeah. No, I'm. I'm looking forward to this, so. Yeah,

814
00:49:34,652 --> 00:49:37,852
well, you know, it's. It's a new experience. I think

815
00:49:37,876 --> 00:49:41,618
that's pretty cool. Yeah. Yeah. I'm having a

816
00:49:41,754 --> 00:49:46,018
good time watching you explore this whole new arena.

817
00:49:46,114 --> 00:49:49,186
Yeah. That's pretty neat. That's pretty neat. It's fun.

818
00:49:49,338 --> 00:49:53,186
So, anyways, it was a wonderful conversation. I'm glad

819
00:49:53,218 --> 00:49:55,298
that we were able to do this because this was a lot of fun.

820
00:49:55,354 --> 00:49:58,914
I learned a whole lot And I'm really glad

821
00:49:58,962 --> 00:50:01,150
that we could do this. Me, too.

822
00:50:02,730 --> 00:50:06,452
But I'm gonna tell you now, A, I want

823
00:50:06,476 --> 00:50:10,068
to have sex because I'm very turned on, and I want to have sex now.

824
00:50:10,124 --> 00:50:13,380
Okay. But I'm also. I'm a little tired. You are a little

825
00:50:13,420 --> 00:50:16,452
tired, and that's because you have your cold brew right there. I know.

826
00:50:16,556 --> 00:50:19,748
We got Dutch bros really late. We did. Yeah, we did. So I'm

827
00:50:19,764 --> 00:50:22,900
a little tired. So I want to also. I want to have sex.

828
00:50:22,940 --> 00:50:26,068
I want to go to sleep. Okay. Then maybe have sex again. Okay.

829
00:50:26,164 --> 00:50:29,492
Okay. So with that, we're going to go ahead and end this show. Thank you

830
00:50:29,516 --> 00:50:33,220
guys so much for tuning in. We appreciate everything you guys do.

831
00:50:33,340 --> 00:50:36,548
We look forward to hearing from you, you know, to follow

832
00:50:36,604 --> 00:50:39,600
us on the social. You know, the social?

833
00:50:40,380 --> 00:50:43,524
Is that what they call social? So we are actually going to be coming up

834
00:50:43,532 --> 00:50:46,852
with some different little ways to get a hold of us.

835
00:50:46,956 --> 00:50:50,084
So we're not going to announce it right now. Oh, okay. Okay. But you can

836
00:50:50,092 --> 00:50:52,772
still find Prematurely ejaculate that. Exactly.

837
00:50:52,836 --> 00:50:55,840
Okay. You can still find us on Facebook,

838
00:50:56,390 --> 00:50:59,998
all that jive, you know, but,

839
00:51:00,134 --> 00:51:03,102
yeah, so we're going to have a new little link so that you can get

840
00:51:03,126 --> 00:51:06,430
a hold of us. Oh, man, look at that. I know. We're getting

841
00:51:06,470 --> 00:51:09,310
into the mainstream.

842
00:51:09,390 --> 00:51:12,750
We are. That's right. Anyways, thank you guys so much

843
00:51:12,790 --> 00:51:16,782
for tuning in, and we will be seeing y'all next week.

844
00:51:16,886 --> 00:51:17,650
Bye.