Navigating Fantasies in Relationships: Beyond Monogamy

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Hey, everybody, and welcome to Beyond Monogamy. I'm Adam. And I'm Pris.

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And today we're talking about fantasies.

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Now, realistically, this is more of an introspective.

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You get to peek into a window of that which is

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Adam and Pris, and we're talking about our specific

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fantasies. You know, a lot of people get into this lifestyle and

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they want to figure out what their fantasies are. Not a lot of people

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know what their fantasies are, and they want to try and live out their fantasies,

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wouldn't you say? Yes, for sure. Yeah. I've come across

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some new fantasies of mine. That's interesting. So when we

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started, I remember asking you often what your fantasies were,

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and it was like pulling teeth, like, you couldn't really give me anything,

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whereas I feel like I had a laundry list of fantasies.

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Yeah. So now, as time has gone on,

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it's been 13 years, there have been levels of kink that

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has unlocked. What would you say

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a good fantasy of yours is now?

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I. My newest fantasy is

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I want to be with a couple. You want to be with a couple?

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Yeah, I want. I want to be with a couple alone. I want to

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enjoy them and have them enjoy

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me. So you want to be in the middle of a love fest.

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Yes. And you want your husband nowhere in sight.

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Yes. And is that a part of the fantasy? No. Husband in sight.

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That is part of the fantasy. You will know where I'm at. You will

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know what I'm doing. Eh. I might send you a picture here and there.

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Video here and there. And I want to come back home to you.

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That is hot. That sounds very hot. So if you

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had to lay it out for us in fantasy

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level, how would you see this fantasy going?

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Describe a little bit of this for us, if you wouldn't mind. Well, I would

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meet them for dinner. Okay. Meet them for dinner and drinks,

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and we would already have talked about this. So they already have a room

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or we're going back to their place. Sure. And we

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finish up, we drive over there and

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you know, I usually start making out with the girl. Yeah.

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Yeah. And you have no problem with that? I will start making out with the

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guy. Make sure everybody's comfortable, you know? Sure.

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I'm very talkative, so I will always ask,

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are you. You okay with this? Are you good with this? And just start.

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Start going at it. Can't paint the whole picture. I mean,

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I can actually. We're on a podcast. Okay, you can.

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Okay. Well, I'd probably start with her. Okay.

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Start making out with her. Okay. While he's behind me.

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Because it's usually what happens. Sure. And he's rubbing

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both of us. Okay. And then I turn

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around and start making out with him. Okay. And she's

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behind me now. And we just take it to the bed.

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Okay, There you go. We're going to take it to the bed now. Take it

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to the bed. Take it to the bed, girl. Come on, let's. There you go.

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Where are we going with this? My goodness. I. I've gotta

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hear more. I am invested. Are you? Yes. Oh, my God. I mean,

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for sure. We're, you know, we'll take it to the bed and then just start

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making out again. Yeah. Clothes start coming off and the

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oral usually starts. The oral? Yes, the oral

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sex usually starts. I've never had. I mean, I have been with a couple,

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but it's. I. It was somebody that we knew

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and we had already been with them. Okay. Now that it's a bad thing,

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I just don't feel like I experienced it as

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I want to experience it. Well, now can you explain? I want it to be

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very sensual. Okay. I want it to be very.

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Not wham bam, thank you, ma'am. This is more of. Yeah.

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Like Cinemax porn, kind of. Yeah. I want that. Yes. I want

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that passion. I want to. For them to

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enjoy it as much as I'm enjoying it. Oh, yeah.

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You know. Absolutely. I don't want it to be exactly a

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wham bam. I want to. I want it to be very sensual now. So when.

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As. As all of this is going on, you're back on the bed.

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Right. Oral is starting to take place.

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Because this is a passionate kind of thing.

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Passionate. Lots of making out. Lots of kissing and licking

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and touching and rubbing. Yes. Where do you

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want it to go? Do you want it to be more female on. Female dominated?

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Do you want it to be more male on 2. Female domination.

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What do you want? We will already have talked about this.

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Because I want to make him feel good.

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Sure. I'm there for pleasure, so I get

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off on pleasuring the person. Sure. So I

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want him to feel good and I want her to feel

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good and then I want them to reciprocate it.

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You know, both of them just having their way with me.

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That is incredible. Now I know that a

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lot of women who enjoy other women.

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Yes. Sometimes are fully ready and

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prepared with strap ons and other toys that

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they can utilize to dominate a woman.

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Yes. Would you want to be dominated or would you

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want to dominate the woman? I would like to be.

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I would like to dominate the woman. Really? Yeah,

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really. So you would prefer a submissive woman?

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I would prefer a submissive woman. I'm more dominant. I'm kind

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of finding that I might even be more dominant with the men.

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Well, actually I am very dominant with the men. Yeah. I think I'm the

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only one who you're not. Not dominant with. Yeah. So I want to

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be still sensual and still very,

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you know, soft and romantic and all that good stuff.

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But I would like to be. I don't think I would on that first time.

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Wouldn't want any type of strap ons,

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really. I would like it to be maybe a vibrator,

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you know, I want it very. Be more passionate. Very passionate.

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Yeah, yeah. Not so much a strap on. We could do the strap

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on next time. Oh, gotcha.

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Okay. I don't play with my fantasy. There's no the man.

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I don't want to peg any guys. I don't want to do any of that.

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Mine is very. Yeah, mine is very. We're going to please you

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very orally and, you know,

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we're going to ride your brains out. Now I have a question

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for you. Can you ever be submissive

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with another man? Especially in that scenario?

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Because some men like to feel like they are

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dominating their wife and the other girl or whatever.

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It's kind of a thing that they. See in form if they're doing it

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without belittling.

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No humiliation. No humiliation. So don't

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call me names. Yeah. You know,

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and don't tell me what to do. So probably

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not. Let's just say. Okay. Because if you tell me, I don't like a man

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to say, hey, go and, go and suck her or

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go and lick her boobs or. Nope. You don't like to be told?

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No, I don't like to be told. What, except for. By me? Yes. I'm the

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only one who. You're the only one? Yeah. No, I do

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not like that. So in, in that scenario where you're meeting with another couple

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and it's your first time and things are Getting passionate. If the man

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starts taking more of a dominating role and starts

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treating you in that fashion, that will get rejected.

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Yes, I will tell them right then and there. Okay. If we're going to continue

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this. Calm down. Gotcha. Gotcha.

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Now, as far as your finishing moves of

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this spectacular fantasy.

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What. What are your favorite ways to

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have the whole thing finished? Stop it.

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You know, I'm very. Okay, I'm done. Well,

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no, I know how you are. I'm talking about the others. If you're such a

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people. Please. There is. Are people. So I am a people or I.

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I'll know when he's done. Yeah. You know. And where would

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you like for him to be done at? Ooh.

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Well, what's your preference?

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Pull off the condom and finish off on me.

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Really? Yes. Any particular spot?

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My stomach, if you can make it on my tits. I am so

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down for that. Wow. Yeah. Yeah.

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If we're blowing you and it's me and your girl, and we're blowing you

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and you can get it on both of us. Great. If you want to get

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it in my mouth and I make out with her, that's even better.

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Okay. So needless to say, you are pretty loose

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with come. Yes. When it comes to that kind of finishing.

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Is that. Is that. Yeah. One of your hot plays

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there that you're into. Yes. And then

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snap a picture.

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Like, seriously, I am all. If you are ever with

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me, people, and we are having some fun,

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feel free to video it. That's hot. Yeah. Pictures,

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you know, you can. You don't have to put my face in it. I have

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really long hair. But. Yes. Brings back memories to when we used to film.

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Content for only fans. Yeah. Yeah. Those are some good times.

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Yeah. So I like that. So if you can finish. I mean,

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it's great when you finish my mouth. Except I'm. I'm not a quitter,

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so I'm not a spitter. Yeah. So it's bad for pictures, but I think you'll.

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You'll take a moment. I can. I can make out with her. You know,

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I will say that you have always been really, really good about.

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Just in the middle of all of your play time.

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It's almost like you're playing to a camera. Yes. You become very

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porn star. And the show you put on is

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incredible. Yes. I love that. Oh, yeah. Because I

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know how much you enjoy it and I'm all for

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making you feel good, so. But. So now that's with me present.

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If I'm not there, that show's still on.

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That show Is still on. Because you're in my head. Heck,

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yeah. I dig it. Yeah, you're in my head. So that is one of

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my fantasies. That is a hot one. I want to be with a couple,

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and I want to come home to you, and I want to tell you how

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good of an experience it was. Sure. Because I tend

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to not let myself loose. Okay.

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With. Even when you're in the room. I've told you that. I just can't

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let myself loose. Like, I'm always in my head. Right now I have medication.

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My ADHD has been tamed. Right. So I've

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noticed that I've gotten more comfortable now, more relaxed.

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I'm curious. Say you get to experience your fantasy

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of going out there with a couple on your own,

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sans husband, In a situation like that,

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would you be able to let your mind go and just

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be pleasured? I. I would hope so. Yeah. I hope so. That would.

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Well, that's something you definitely have to practice to get better at. Yeah.

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Because you know me. Yeah. Yeah.

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I'm always in my head. That is an incredible fantasy. I love that.

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I know that. That is definitely something we both

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hope that you get to experience. Yeah. Because that is definitely one of the

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things that I like. That's. That's one of my kinks. Because if you

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go off with that couple, I'm gonna be here in the bed waiting for you.

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Chances are. Yeah. I'm gonna be incredibly turned on.

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Yeah. And waiting for you to text me and let me know that you're on

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your way home. Yes. And waiting for any kind of picture or video clip like

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it is on. Because I've got something to show you when you get through

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the door. You know what I mean? That's the hot part. That is the hot

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part that they. I think they call it reclaiming. I don't know

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if not everybody calls it that, but, yeah, it is an incredibly

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sensual, incredibly hot, I will bring

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you back kind of situation that will keep us going

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all weekend long. Yeah. So that is definitely a very

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hot fantasy. I know I have a laundry list of fantasies.

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When we've talked about it throughout the years, it's hard to keep

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experiences that we've had on the fantasy list.

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Okay. So I had a lot of fantasies that we've made reality.

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Yes. More than once. Yeah. And so it's hard to keep

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those on the fantasy list because it's like, well, is it a fantasy

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or is it a reality? I can easily do that this weekend. You know what

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I mean? So, realistically, the fantasy

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is one of those things, where is it going to happen? Will it ever

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happen? I don't know. But the thought of it is incredible. Do you have one?

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I do, I do. As of right now. My.

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My fantasy that I've really been enjoying

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the thought of is that you and I go to

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a. A party, a house party. Oh, that's right.

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Yeah. Or, or even an event, something like that,

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some sort of party. And we're there together and

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I tell you, hey, I'm going to go to the restroom. And you

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say, okay, I'm going to stay here. So you stay there talking with people and

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I walk off to the restroom where maybe somebody

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really attractive that we've been eye fucking each other for

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a while, she decides to follow me.

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Gotcha. And from there maybe pull me into a room or even into

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that bathroom. And we immediately start

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making out. Not a word is said.

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Yes. Not a single word is said. Hot.

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Just. She follows me in, closes the door and

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immediately we're making out. From there it just gets

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heavier and more passionate. And you can hear

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people talking outside the door. Yeah. You know, and it

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gets done that. It gets animalistic. Yes, it gets animalistic.

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And before you know it, you know, she's taking

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my pants off and she's going down on me right then and there, making me

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nice and hard. You know, she's maybe wearing a dress and she's pulling her

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panties off and we, we just go at it,

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okay. Right there, right then, not thinking about

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anything else except for that moment, just into it.

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And we go at it in every single way that we can.

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Multiple orgasms for as am I knocking. On the

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door at this. No, no, no, you're still, you're still out there talking. I'm eating.

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I mean, you're eating and talking and being a social butterfly.

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And finally, you know, I finish.

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Okay. Incredibly. Yeah. And just, just,

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just hot. Just incredibly hot. Yeah. And without saying

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a word, she puts her panties on,

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gets dressed, kind of straightens herself up and walks out. And I

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get dressed, I straighten myself up and I walk out

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and I go up to you and I tell you, hey, kiss me.

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And you kiss me and you can taste this

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other person on me. Yes. In which case

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you go, excuse me, guys, and you grab me by the hand

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and we go to another room and proceed to bang you like

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a Salvation army drum for the rest of our stay.

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That is prime time for crime time right

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there, my friend. I love that. Yeah, that's, that's a good one. That's, that's really.

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And that is so funny because all of these fantasies are so.

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They can so come true. They can, they can. I'm. I don't

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know if I'm mentally there yet with you as

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far as feeling okay about just dipping into the

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room with somebody and having fun. You're scared. Well, you give me

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a good amount to be scared about. Yeah. But.

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But don't worry, ladies. I'm not holding a knife to him.

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It's all good. It's definitely. Probably my top

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fantasy right now is that thought. I.

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I like the idea of separate play for you and

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I. It is part of the fantasy,

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primarily because you're going to creep back in there

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again. A big fantasy that I have is catch in

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the act. Yes. Being able to come home and

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knowing that you're here. But it's. It's that. It's that consented

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cheating again. Yes. It's walking in and hearing the moans,

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hearing the music, hearing the clapping sound. Yeah.

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And just kind of walking in and seeing you having this utterly

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blissful moment with somebody or somebody's. Yeah.

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And just standing there watching for a little while until I'm

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finally waved on to join. Or even just going

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to the other room and listening until it's all done. Yeah.

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I think that's probably one of the hottest fantasies

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that I've ever had that I. I know can.

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It can be made true. But it takes a lot

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logistically. Yeah, it does.

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Just mentally for me also. Yeah. I'm.

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I'm now getting way better at things

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like that happening, so it makes it easier for

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you and I. Yeah. So I'm more.

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I. I talk to you more about it. So.

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Yes, we need to make these fantasies come true. Yeah,

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we do. But it takes a. But a lot of it requires

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separation, and the separation for us to enjoy

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requires trust and comfort. And so, you know, you don't

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get trust and comfort overnight with some people. It takes some time.

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And I think that we're developing certain relationships with people

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that I think it's going to enable us

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to explore these fantasies at some point or another.

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Which is exciting. Yeah. I don't want to, because trust and comfort is a lot.

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We have been together for a very long time and I

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trust you and I am very comfortable with whatever you do. But it

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wasn't until recently that I really can

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tell you I am 100% comfortable

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with you and 100%

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trust you. Right, right. Like. Well, I mean,

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with all fantasies, I think you really have to have trust

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and comfort. Yes. People fantasize about all sorts of stuff

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that really Require that trust and comfort.

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I know that there's people who fantasize about cnc.

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I believe that stands for consensual non consent,

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something like that. It's basically where they're telling you no.

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They're saying, no, don't do this, but you're

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still kind of taking it.

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So say you're into cnc. Right?

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Okay. You're gonna get ready for

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bed or whatever, and then I'm gonna come up on you and try and take

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sex from you. Okay. And you're gonna play that role of no,

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no, I don't want to give it to you. Even though you really do want

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to give it to me. Got you. And I have to be a bit more

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forceful and kind of take it from you. See, like I would really only

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take that from you. Right. You wouldn't be able to do that with anybody else

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because you'd probably knock somebody out. Yes, I would.

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Definitely not. That's why CNC is not your king. I gotcha. Yeah. I didn't

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even know that was a king. I had to research that one. Wow. Yeah,

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I kept seeing it all over the place. I had to research that one.

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But, you know, there's. There's all of these fantasies

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take trust and comfort. Unless it involves

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you, in which case I'm sure you trusting and have comfort in yourself.

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I do. Yeah. That's nice. That's a good thing that you have.

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That's good. You know, But I will say

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that I do have a lot of fantasies. A lot of the fantasies

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revolve around you playing

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with others. Okay. Some involve me there,

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some don't. Okay. And then I have a lot of fantasies

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involving women that I'm friends with. Yeah.

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I can probably say I fantasize about almost every

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woman that I'm friends with. Yeah. In one way or another. Same.

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Yeah. Yeah. Really Same. That's interesting. Yeah.

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So if you're a female friend of ours, your ears

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are probably burning for sure. Yeah.

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But the males too. Well, see, there you go, man. We've got a

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lot of fun guys. I mean, seriously, I did not like men.

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No, you were. You were definitely a man hater.

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The men that we have in our. As our friends are. It's because

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they so great. They've proven to you that

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you that there are men out there that are. Nice, good to their

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wives. Yes. I love it. So. It does. I fantasize about

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all of them. Yeah? Yeah. The guys and the girls. Look at that.

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See, it must be tough being a bisexual. You just walk around with the phone

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Book underneath your arms, trying to make connection. Connections, yes. Yeah. No,

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luckily for me, this is a phone book. Oh, my God.

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Be nice. So I think as far as fantasies

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are concerned, it's safe to say that we have fantasies

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about just about everybody that's in our circle.

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Yes, females for me, but everybody for you.

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Yeah. And in one way or another, I have

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thought of or dreamt of or imagined these

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scenarios and probably came to them.

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Yeah. For every one of these people. Yeah.

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Yeah. But most times when

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I have thought of these scenarios, you're somewhere

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in there. Whether you're watching us or maybe

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peering through. No, that's just automatic. Okay. Whether you're

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peering through a crack in the door or listening from the other room

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or whatever, you're always involved in these fantasies,

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which I think is pretty cool, because that's safe to say. I. I like you.

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I like you. I like including you into all of my stuff.

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It's nice. And I'm glad that you actually have fantasies that you can speak

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about now, because for the longest time you didn't. I was so

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close minded. I felt like there. I would sit there and I

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would tell you all these fantasies that I. Was just so close minded. And I

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would ask you, what's your fantasy? And you'd be like, I don't really have any.

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I don't have any. And that was so disappointing. I have so many now.

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Yeah. I could probably write a book. Oh, my goodness.

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I would read that book. I know I would read that book. That's a good

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book. But you're not going to be able to hear about the next one until

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next week. Really? Oh, man. I. I think you should tell me the

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next one after we hang this up because we're going to have a talk

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about that one. Yes. Yeah. Now, as far as your fantasies are concerned,

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have you had any that were dealing with any kind of

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kinks that we've never really talked about or anything with

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like the BDSM side or any. Anything out of the ordinary

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that you don't usually. Well, for me,

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I've always wanted that sensual massage. The sensual massage.

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I want a girl to give me a nice sensual massage. Okay.

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And then finish me off. I gotcha. That is

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my. That's one of my favorite little fantasies I've always

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had. And I want to. I want it to be recorded, but not

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show my face. Interesting. Yeah. Or their face.

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Just like my body and their hands. So you want a

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female masseuse to give you an

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actual massage, Like a legit massage?

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Yes. And then from There. Have it turn into

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an erotic massage. Yes. With a happy ending.

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Yes. Interesting. Yes. That sounds like a lot of fun.

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I know, but that sounds like a tall order.

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Nope, that sounds like a difficult one because I haven't seen too

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many women in the lifestyle, at least in

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our connections that are masseuse.

404
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Yeah. I should start that company. You're not a masseuse.

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But you just. You're gonna hire a masseuse. That's considered.

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I think that's considered a sex ring. Oh, that's true.

407
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Yeah. And that's kind of illegal. Oh, yeah, yeah. You can't do that.

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Yeah, no, you can't. You can't establish a company that gives

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hand jobs or any. Any of those. That is

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very true. Yeah, that's kind of. I think that one through. Yeah, no, let's not

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do that. But that is a very hot fantasy. Yeah.

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And if there's anybody out there who is

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listening, who maybe knows somebody who fits that

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general capacity, shoot us a message or an email, because you just

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never know. Man, I'd like to let this woman's fantasy come true. Oh, I love

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you. That sounds incredible. I don't even have to be there.

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I'll drive you over there. I'll wait in the car. Yes. That is incredible.

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So I'm glad that we could discuss this,

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because, frankly, I think fantasies are important to

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explore, especially with your significant other. If you haven't

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had this discussion with your significant other, maybe have it.

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Yeah. And keep an open mind. Keep an open mind. Don't have any

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kind of judgment. Yes. Let this be a conversation between you

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and your best friend about their fantasies. And don't

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let it become about you unless that's a part of their fantasy.

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Don't. Don't go, oh, well, you need to include me in that.

427
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No, that this is a fantasy. It is just that.

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And it's just there for entertainment purposes to enjoy.

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You really want to nourish that. You really want to water that plant

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because it will grow into it. Yes. Yes.

431
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That is what you want. You want to hold. Hold true with. With fantasies.

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So my question to you out there, to all our listeners. What is your

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fantasy? What is that one major desire?

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And maybe you have more than one, but what is that top fantasy that you

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really want to have explored? And have you explored it?

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Is it still a fantasy if you have explored it? Or does it just become

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something you've done? I. I really would like

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to hear from my community about this. So if you get a chance,

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type up a little something, send it over to us via messenger or via

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email at beyond monogamy4u

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gmail.com that's beyond monogamy the number 4 the letter

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u gmail.com and send it to us

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so that we can have another little short episode like this

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that we can drop during the week and kind of catch your

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attention. We can read these on the air and let

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your community shine through. You know, let's all be

447
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a part of this. This is fun. Yeah. So with that we are

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going to probably explore a couple of our fantasies

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here in just a second. I got to hit stop record

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because I am getting turned on. Okay.

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So thank you so much for enjoying us this week. We will

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see you guys later on. Just remember every

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episode, every major episode drops on Sundays at

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5pm and we're going to have some more content dropping during the week

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such as this just quick 30 minute chats. So we

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will see you when we see you.