Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi, PhD

Rabbi Nikki DeBlosi (she/her) is a Reform rabbi, writer, speaker, and educator dedicated to creating spaces where people of all genders, sexualities, and relationship structures can find authentic spiritual belonging. She connects individuals and communities to the breadth and depth of Jewish tradition through inclusive, innovative, and insightful teaching, speaking, and ritual leadership in her freelance practice.

With a BA from Harvard University and both an MA and PhD from New York University in Performance Studies, Rabbi Nikki brings deep academic expertise in gender, sexuality, and cultural expression to her rabbinic work. Her lived experience as a queer and polyamorous woman informs her commitment to centering honesty, consent, and ethics in both faith and relationships.

Before launching her independent practice, she served as Associate Rabbi at New York University’s Bronfman Center for Jewish Student Life, where she was known for her compassionate presence, sharp intellect, and ability to meet people where they are. Today, Rabbi Nikki continues to teach, write, and speak widely about Judaism, queerness, sex-positivity, and ethical non-monogamy.

✨ Learn more about her work, writing, and upcoming events at www.rabbinikki.com