Embracing the Act of Self-Love: A Pioneering Conversation on Masturbation

1
00:00:18,880 --> 00:00:22,729
This podcast is intended for mature audiences only. We explore topics

2
00:00:22,777 --> 00:00:26,631
surrounding sexuality, intimate relationships, and related subjects

3
00:00:26,663 --> 00:00:29,831
in an open and candid manner. Please be advised that we are

4
00:00:29,863 --> 00:00:33,695
not licensed marriage or sex therapists and the content shared here

5
00:00:33,775 --> 00:00:37,327
is for entertainment and informational purposes only. If you are

6
00:00:37,351 --> 00:00:41,543
under 18 years of age or prefer not to engage with discussions about sex,

7
00:00:41,719 --> 00:00:45,295
relationships or mature language, we strongly recommend that you refrain

8
00:00:45,335 --> 00:00:48,551
from listening further. However, if you are of legal age and

9
00:00:48,583 --> 00:00:52,675
comfortable with this content, we invite you to settle in and enjoy the show.

10
00:00:54,495 --> 00:00:57,767
Hello and welcome to Beyond Monogamy. I'm Adam.

11
00:00:57,911 --> 00:01:01,207
And I'm Pris. And today we

12
00:01:01,231 --> 00:01:04,543
are going to be discussing masturbation.

13
00:01:04,719 --> 00:01:08,715
Masturbation. My honey is such a

14
00:01:09,375 --> 00:01:12,751
masturbation advocate. I am, you know, I'm not

15
00:01:12,783 --> 00:01:16,463
going to lie. I am a big believer in a

16
00:01:16,559 --> 00:01:19,947
healthy self. Love. Yeah. I think

17
00:01:19,971 --> 00:01:24,211
it's important. Yeah. You're actually the one who got me more

18
00:01:24,283 --> 00:01:27,091
relaxed in that realm. Really?

19
00:01:27,163 --> 00:01:30,779
Yes. Because previous to you, I hadn't had a

20
00:01:30,787 --> 00:01:34,419
lot of experiences. Right. And masturbation

21
00:01:34,507 --> 00:01:38,187
was not an experience that I had. Now we're

22
00:01:38,211 --> 00:01:41,835
going to paint this picture real quick. Okay. I was young when I got

23
00:01:41,875 --> 00:01:45,251
married. The first time. That was the first time I

24
00:01:45,323 --> 00:01:49,109
really figured out what masturbation was.

25
00:01:49,237 --> 00:01:53,021
Really? And I didn't know what an orgasm was.

26
00:01:53,173 --> 00:01:56,861
What? Yeah. That's incredible. I just

27
00:01:56,893 --> 00:02:00,157
didn't. And so when I finally had one, I had it by myself.

28
00:02:00,301 --> 00:02:03,661
Okay, let's fast forward. You know,

29
00:02:03,693 --> 00:02:07,165
I'm in this relationship. I was like, okay,

30
00:02:07,205 --> 00:02:10,557
so what else can you do to masturbate? Do just people just, you know,

31
00:02:10,581 --> 00:02:14,089
do they just use their fingers? Women like, what is it?

32
00:02:14,277 --> 00:02:18,125
Here came a vibrator. But I was with somebody who did not

33
00:02:18,425 --> 00:02:22,401
want me to use that. Oh, he had insecurities. He had insecurities.

34
00:02:22,473 --> 00:02:25,325
He did not want me to have an orgasm with a machine.

35
00:02:25,665 --> 00:02:29,125
Interesting. He wanted me to have an orgasm only with him.

36
00:02:29,945 --> 00:02:34,121
Okay. Which was fine,

37
00:02:34,313 --> 00:02:37,481
except I would never come with him.

38
00:02:37,593 --> 00:02:41,081
Right. I would only come with the. With the machine. So. So that.

39
00:02:41,153 --> 00:02:44,273
Yeah, I could see why he would have that insecurity then. Yeah. But you were

40
00:02:44,289 --> 00:02:47,593
the one who really got me into that because I asked you, I was

41
00:02:47,609 --> 00:02:51,385
like, do you masturbate? You know, I. I actually thought that

42
00:02:51,465 --> 00:02:54,441
something was wrong with me because I masturbate a lot.

43
00:02:54,513 --> 00:02:58,041
Yes. And I always have. I have had a very,

44
00:02:58,113 --> 00:03:01,569
very healthy relationship with myself for a very

45
00:03:01,617 --> 00:03:04,945
long time. Yeah. I think you've told me. You were young. I was

46
00:03:04,985 --> 00:03:07,887
very young. I mean, very, very young. Yeah.

47
00:03:07,951 --> 00:03:10,967
When I discovered that, I liked that yeah.

48
00:03:11,071 --> 00:03:15,095
And so throughout the years, it's just. It was my melatonin.

49
00:03:15,175 --> 00:03:19,327
It. It helped me go to sleep. I suffer from insomnia,

50
00:03:19,391 --> 00:03:23,047
so even as a teenager in early 20s, I would wake

51
00:03:23,071 --> 00:03:25,271
up in the middle of the night. Well, you know, I'm just going to rub

52
00:03:25,303 --> 00:03:28,663
one out. And then I would go back to sleep. Nice. And I

53
00:03:28,679 --> 00:03:31,495
could do that all. All night, you know.

54
00:03:31,535 --> 00:03:34,585
Yeah. Now, do you use anything?

55
00:03:34,705 --> 00:03:39,005
Do you use any type of toy?

56
00:03:39,825 --> 00:03:42,125
So that's interesting that you asked that.

57
00:03:42,505 --> 00:03:46,145
I was not aware of men's

58
00:03:46,225 --> 00:03:49,633
toys up until a few years

59
00:03:49,689 --> 00:03:53,697
ago. Yeah. With the whole advertising of the Fleshlight.

60
00:03:53,761 --> 00:03:57,537
Yeah. And, you know, pocket things like that.

61
00:03:57,681 --> 00:04:00,805
I've never used those toys.

62
00:04:02,185 --> 00:04:05,553
I feel like there's nobody that can get me off faster

63
00:04:05,609 --> 00:04:09,113
than myself. And that's even with you, because you can get

64
00:04:09,129 --> 00:04:12,393
me off relatively fast. Yes. But if I'm

65
00:04:12,449 --> 00:04:15,649
in self mode.

66
00:04:15,737 --> 00:04:19,537
Yeah, you're fast. I can be pretty quick about it. Yeah. And so,

67
00:04:19,601 --> 00:04:23,449
no, I've never utilized any toys. I'm kind of curious,

68
00:04:23,537 --> 00:04:27,195
though. I just hate to spend money on

69
00:04:27,235 --> 00:04:30,827
something like that and realize this is bunk. Yeah.

70
00:04:30,931 --> 00:04:34,795
Because then I'm stuck with it. Yes. And then, you know what, man?

71
00:04:34,875 --> 00:04:38,203
I don't want to have to clean machinery. Come on. Yeah.

72
00:04:38,339 --> 00:04:40,819
Housekeeping. I'll be your pocket. Oh,

73
00:04:40,947 --> 00:04:44,459
well, there you go. That was kind of.

74
00:04:44,547 --> 00:04:48,539
Yeah, that was very good. Now, what is your preference? Do you

75
00:04:48,587 --> 00:04:52,307
like to masturbate? I want. Show me. Set me

76
00:04:52,331 --> 00:04:55,699
the scene. Like, you're home. Now,

77
00:04:55,747 --> 00:04:59,435
I know this. Okay? So I already know. I already know how this is playing

78
00:04:59,475 --> 00:05:02,091
out, but we're going to play this out for people who do not know this,

79
00:05:02,163 --> 00:05:05,667
okay? So in. In a given day, say. I say I take

80
00:05:05,691 --> 00:05:08,387
the day off or I even. House is empty.

81
00:05:08,451 --> 00:05:11,931
Yeah, house is empty. I told my work, hey, I'm gonna be

82
00:05:11,963 --> 00:05:15,987
working from home today, okay. And that to me is code for

83
00:05:16,171 --> 00:05:19,575
don't bother me. I'm home. I'm relaxing. Yes. Right.

84
00:05:20,115 --> 00:05:23,507
Everybody has left. I put on something good on tv,

85
00:05:23,611 --> 00:05:26,731
and before you know it, my mind is always

86
00:05:26,843 --> 00:05:30,379
on sex. Okay. There's some sort of sex in my mind

87
00:05:30,547 --> 00:05:34,195
whether I'm thinking about time

88
00:05:34,235 --> 00:05:37,819
that we had in particular, or maybe I'm scrolling through Facebook

89
00:05:37,907 --> 00:05:41,587
and I see somebody that I crush on or have

90
00:05:41,611 --> 00:05:45,051
a thing for, something will pop into my head. I'll start getting

91
00:05:45,083 --> 00:05:48,667
turned on. Okay. You're very. Your mind

92
00:05:48,771 --> 00:05:52,315
is very. I'm very imaginative. Imaginative. Like you can

93
00:05:52,355 --> 00:05:55,467
paint some pictures. Yeah. I have some good imagination.

94
00:05:55,611 --> 00:05:59,091
And so I can very easily start getting myself turned on.

95
00:05:59,123 --> 00:06:02,099
Well, the moment that starts happening, before you know it, I'm.

96
00:06:02,147 --> 00:06:05,655
I'm rubbing myself through my shorts.

97
00:06:06,115 --> 00:06:09,451
And once that happens, then I'm like,

98
00:06:09,523 --> 00:06:14,227
okay, I might as well go to the bed because I

99
00:06:14,251 --> 00:06:17,435
can do it anywhere. But if I'm going to do it in the bed,

100
00:06:17,515 --> 00:06:20,875
it's nice and comfortable. I can put on some porn.

101
00:06:20,955 --> 00:06:24,267
Okay, what's your favorite porn?

102
00:06:24,451 --> 00:06:28,819
I am a big fan of watching amateur porn.

103
00:06:28,987 --> 00:06:32,739
But not just amateur couples, but more so amateur

104
00:06:32,787 --> 00:06:36,925
threesomes. Amateur couple swaps. Now your

105
00:06:36,965 --> 00:06:40,525
threesomes, is it male? Two males and a woman. You know,

106
00:06:40,565 --> 00:06:44,317
I like all threesomes, so. I mean, I like. I like

107
00:06:44,341 --> 00:06:47,725
the mfm. I like the fmf.

108
00:06:47,845 --> 00:06:51,389
Like, I. I'm. I'm A. You like all the alphabets? I do. I do.

109
00:06:51,437 --> 00:06:54,669
Just throw some Z's. All right, so there's a nice good porno.

110
00:06:54,717 --> 00:06:58,381
And it's these two very curvaceous

111
00:06:58,453 --> 00:07:02,225
Latinas and this guy who is well hung

112
00:07:02,825 --> 00:07:05,737
and he's about to get it on. Sure. Where's Mr.

113
00:07:05,801 --> 00:07:08,345
Adam? So I'm. By this time,

114
00:07:08,425 --> 00:07:11,537
normally. Normally I've.

115
00:07:11,601 --> 00:07:15,485
I've got my pants off. Yeah. Shorts are off

116
00:07:16,785 --> 00:07:19,881
completely. Just bare from the waist down in the bed.

117
00:07:19,953 --> 00:07:23,565
Okay. And by this time, I'm literally just

118
00:07:24,065 --> 00:07:27,937
working it harder because I.

119
00:07:28,001 --> 00:07:31,273
The goal here is, you know, I'm not going to lie, I like to

120
00:07:31,329 --> 00:07:35,231
see my dick get very hard.

121
00:07:35,303 --> 00:07:39,075
Like throbbing. Yes. And I will actually

122
00:07:39,535 --> 00:07:42,755
hold it at the base to kind of,

123
00:07:43,255 --> 00:07:46,543
I don't know, pressure or close off. Like where people. The guys wear their cock

124
00:07:46,559 --> 00:07:50,431
rings. Right. Just to kind of build up the pressure in there and to get

125
00:07:50,463 --> 00:07:54,111
it even harder. I love to see it get real hard. Yeah. And I

126
00:07:54,143 --> 00:07:57,367
will normally slow stroke it for a little while

127
00:07:57,471 --> 00:08:00,465
while watching whatever it is that I'm watching.

128
00:08:00,805 --> 00:08:04,069
I will. Three minutes in. Yeah. You know, it depends on.

129
00:08:04,117 --> 00:08:07,389
It really depends on not only the porn, but where my mind

130
00:08:07,437 --> 00:08:11,141
is at. Yes. But the two mixed together.

131
00:08:11,213 --> 00:08:16,413
Yeah. I could finish relatively quick. And normally where

132
00:08:16,549 --> 00:08:20,253
I finish in the porn makes a difference

133
00:08:20,309 --> 00:08:24,037
for me now. And I gotta. That is interesting. I have

134
00:08:24,061 --> 00:08:27,785
to throw that out there because this is gonna sound

135
00:08:27,825 --> 00:08:32,657
so frigging weird, but essentially I

136
00:08:32,721 --> 00:08:36,305
have to see a certain. Like, if I'm gonna come to

137
00:08:36,385 --> 00:08:40,585
a porn. Okay. It's gotta be the right spot

138
00:08:40,665 --> 00:08:44,041
in the porn. I don't wanna come to a part in the

139
00:08:44,073 --> 00:08:47,925
porn where maybe it's a transition from one room to another

140
00:08:48,225 --> 00:08:51,697
or it's a boring point of dialogue.

141
00:08:51,761 --> 00:08:55,563
Okay. Like, if I'm gonna come, I want it to be. I'm watching

142
00:08:55,619 --> 00:08:58,731
penetration or I'm watching some hot women get it on or something

143
00:08:58,763 --> 00:09:02,619
like that. If all of a sudden the friggin video

144
00:09:02,707 --> 00:09:06,203
cuts away to just the. The dude's face.

145
00:09:06,379 --> 00:09:09,619
The dude's just there just jacking off and it's like,

146
00:09:09,787 --> 00:09:13,415
that's the point where I came. I'm just gonna be like, dude, really?

147
00:09:13,795 --> 00:09:16,939
Like that's where, that's, that's where I'm gonna finish. Come on,

148
00:09:16,987 --> 00:09:20,315
man. Redo like it. Couldn't I have just held off

149
00:09:20,355 --> 00:09:24,027
for another Christian? Honey, that is so funny for it. To cut away back to

150
00:09:24,051 --> 00:09:28,475
the woman that's on the bed. You know, like difference. Now, do you like.

151
00:09:29,055 --> 00:09:34,143
So talking about masturbation, do you like to watch

152
00:09:34,319 --> 00:09:37,703
others? I do. I think we were

153
00:09:37,719 --> 00:09:41,159
talking about that the other day, as a matter of fact. I. So I will

154
00:09:41,207 --> 00:09:44,327
say this. When it comes to regular porn

155
00:09:44,391 --> 00:09:47,727
stars or only fan women

156
00:09:47,791 --> 00:09:51,303
who are maybe more mainstream, not so much the amateur

157
00:09:51,479 --> 00:09:54,947
when it comes to them getting a video of

158
00:09:55,011 --> 00:09:58,467
them fingering themselves or masturbating, does nothing for me.

159
00:09:58,531 --> 00:10:02,211
Okay. Doesn't turn me on the slightest. It's just

160
00:10:02,363 --> 00:10:05,691
not eventful for me. It will turn me

161
00:10:05,723 --> 00:10:09,379
on if I get it from a friend, from somebody I

162
00:10:09,427 --> 00:10:13,035
know, somebody maybe in my little group of friends or,

163
00:10:13,155 --> 00:10:16,307
or even like somebody that's in my town. I think

164
00:10:16,331 --> 00:10:19,803
that was asked at one point. Somebody asked. Yeah. Well,

165
00:10:19,899 --> 00:10:23,475
so that was kind of my big thing. It's almost goes

166
00:10:23,515 --> 00:10:27,355
back to that voyeur. Yeah. Aspect of it is like they're

167
00:10:27,395 --> 00:10:30,971
letting me in, they're letting me peek into this window and it's

168
00:10:31,003 --> 00:10:34,259
very personalized and so I like that. Yeah, that,

169
00:10:34,307 --> 00:10:40,051
that definitely does it. Now, could you do a video masturbating

170
00:10:40,163 --> 00:10:43,723
and send it to somebody? I. I'm sure you have.

171
00:10:43,819 --> 00:10:47,615
Yeah, I have. I've. I've done that before and.

172
00:10:48,035 --> 00:10:51,687
But that's where it gets

173
00:10:51,711 --> 00:10:54,959
a little difficult for me because then I

174
00:10:55,007 --> 00:10:58,823
start kind of getting insecure about, oh, I. Got you the

175
00:10:58,839 --> 00:11:02,327
angle. That's what we're talking about, how it looks on the video. And I'm

176
00:11:02,351 --> 00:11:05,999
like, I can't send that, you know, that looks horrible. Now, do you like

177
00:11:06,047 --> 00:11:10,207
to get videos of people

178
00:11:10,271 --> 00:11:13,951
masturbating, women masturbating to you? So like they slip into

179
00:11:13,983 --> 00:11:17,583
your DM and they're like, I just saw a video of you and you flash

180
00:11:17,639 --> 00:11:21,249
that dimple and that beard is

181
00:11:21,337 --> 00:11:24,577
amazing. I want to just sit on it

182
00:11:24,721 --> 00:11:27,925
and it got me horny. And now I'm.

183
00:11:28,265 --> 00:11:31,849
I'm so like turned on and wet that this is what

184
00:11:31,897 --> 00:11:36,073
happened and they send you a video. Yeah. Yeah. That is incredible.

185
00:11:36,209 --> 00:11:39,073
That that would be. It's never happened,

186
00:11:39,249 --> 00:11:43,457
but I will. Well, it's never happened with people you don't know are

187
00:11:43,561 --> 00:11:46,403
friends. I've sent you many of it. Oh, well,

188
00:11:46,419 --> 00:11:49,495
yeah, obviously you don't count. I don't count. Okay.

189
00:11:49,995 --> 00:11:53,019
You don't count. Okay. We're talking about everybody else.

190
00:11:53,067 --> 00:11:56,859
Yeah. And, you know, and that. I don't believe that that's

191
00:11:56,907 --> 00:12:00,299
really happened to me before, but I would think that would be incredible.

192
00:12:00,467 --> 00:12:04,575
Now, this is how much I'm into masturbation,

193
00:12:05,035 --> 00:12:08,611
is I can be having a DM conversation with somebody

194
00:12:08,643 --> 00:12:11,835
that I find attractive, and we could be talking about our regular

195
00:12:11,915 --> 00:12:15,825
day. We could be talking about anything. Okay. And I

196
00:12:16,165 --> 00:12:19,589
will be imagining that. Yes. And getting

197
00:12:19,637 --> 00:12:22,669
turned on. And I'll be rubbing myself while I'm. While I'm talking to them.

198
00:12:22,717 --> 00:12:26,309
And they have no idea. No idea. You get that?

199
00:12:26,357 --> 00:12:29,637
People? Yeah. Sorry, guys. I don't mean

200
00:12:29,661 --> 00:12:31,997
to put that in your head, but I do mean to put that in your

201
00:12:32,021 --> 00:12:35,557
head, because I do that. I can't help it. I have a

202
00:12:35,581 --> 00:12:38,805
high sex drive and I love to masturbate.

203
00:12:38,845 --> 00:12:42,159
I love to come. Now, you and I have.

204
00:12:42,287 --> 00:12:46,023
Have had. I think that's hot. When we, like, lay there and we.

205
00:12:46,159 --> 00:12:49,007
You watch me and I watch you. Yes.

206
00:12:49,191 --> 00:12:52,551
I love when you watch me masturbate.

207
00:12:52,623 --> 00:12:56,527
I love. You are the only person that I'm very comfortable with

208
00:12:56,711 --> 00:13:00,875
and can masturbate, too. I masturbate

209
00:13:01,175 --> 00:13:04,155
to you pretty frequently.

210
00:13:04,655 --> 00:13:07,721
Really? Yeah. How frequently would you say?

211
00:13:07,833 --> 00:13:11,273
At least, I don't know, maybe once a week if

212
00:13:11,289 --> 00:13:13,425
we're not already getting it on. I mean, we get it on a lot,

213
00:13:13,465 --> 00:13:16,817
but, you know, we do. We do have a. We have a healthy sex life.

214
00:13:16,881 --> 00:13:20,497
But I. Oh, I was always

215
00:13:20,561 --> 00:13:23,849
kind of curious about that because when we

216
00:13:23,897 --> 00:13:27,193
first got together, you had issue

217
00:13:27,289 --> 00:13:30,617
with me having porn on my iPad.

218
00:13:30,721 --> 00:13:34,153
Oh, gosh. And you would get a little jealous about that. And I think the

219
00:13:34,169 --> 00:13:38,341
issue. That's another insecurity. Yeah. That was an insecurity, was you didn't

220
00:13:38,373 --> 00:13:41,821
like me masturbating to porn. And so then even

221
00:13:41,853 --> 00:13:45,597
then, you would be like, I don't. I don't really care for you having porn,

222
00:13:45,621 --> 00:13:47,821
but if you're gonna watch porn, don't masturbate to it. And I was like,

223
00:13:47,853 --> 00:13:51,045
well, that's kind of silly. Yeah. Because what's the point of

224
00:13:51,085 --> 00:13:53,805
watching porn if I'm not going to masturbate to it? Who knew? I never watched

225
00:13:53,845 --> 00:13:57,693
porn. Really? Yeah. And so I remember that was a Discussion early on.

226
00:13:57,829 --> 00:14:01,309
And then I remember as time went on, you became okay with the porn.

227
00:14:01,477 --> 00:14:05,033
Then you were kind of like, I don't want you jacking off to other

228
00:14:05,089 --> 00:14:08,641
women that are. That we know, like, gosh, don't do

229
00:14:08,673 --> 00:14:12,241
that. Or if somebody sent me pics or vids, and you'd

230
00:14:12,273 --> 00:14:15,777
be like, did you jack off to their videos? And I'd be like,

231
00:14:15,921 --> 00:14:19,153
well, yeah. I mean, yeah, it was really, you know, I was

232
00:14:19,209 --> 00:14:23,217
super insecure about myself. Yeah. Yeah. And. And realistically

233
00:14:23,321 --> 00:14:26,801
now I'm like, hello, Share. Yeah. And so we

234
00:14:26,833 --> 00:14:30,445
will watch a video together that was sent to me, and we will

235
00:14:31,005 --> 00:14:34,709
sometimes start out. Yes. Masturbating together.

236
00:14:34,797 --> 00:14:38,581
Mutual masturbation. Yes. And you'll be there

237
00:14:38,733 --> 00:14:42,253
right next to me. My hands will be in between your legs. Your hands will

238
00:14:42,269 --> 00:14:45,869
be in between mine. And we'll be watching this

239
00:14:45,917 --> 00:14:48,865
video of a friend who sent Whatever.

240
00:14:49,325 --> 00:14:53,413
And it'll. It'll get us going. We won't finish that,

241
00:14:53,509 --> 00:14:57,021
though, because it always ends up being. But realistically,

242
00:14:57,133 --> 00:15:02,051
almost every one of our sex sessions when we started up begins

243
00:15:02,083 --> 00:15:05,427
with masturbation. Yeah. Not because I get turned

244
00:15:05,451 --> 00:15:09,163
on watching you. Oh, my goodness. You can watch me all

245
00:15:09,219 --> 00:15:13,299
day. All day. So as

246
00:15:13,387 --> 00:15:17,643
soon as you're there, I'm turned on. I love knowing

247
00:15:17,779 --> 00:15:20,939
somebody is masturbating to me.

248
00:15:21,027 --> 00:15:24,699
Really? And that started probably during

249
00:15:24,747 --> 00:15:28,219
the content time, so. Pandemic time. Yeah, that's right.

250
00:15:28,347 --> 00:15:31,215
I remember you telling me, hey,

251
00:15:31,255 --> 00:15:34,391
I'm actually. This is turning me off. Yeah, that.

252
00:15:34,463 --> 00:15:38,875
Now do you remember? Yeah. When I had my first call

253
00:15:39,335 --> 00:15:43,475
and the guy was just want to talk to me really quick to masturbate.

254
00:15:43,855 --> 00:15:47,615
And I said, I'll be right back, honey. And I went and did that con.

255
00:15:47,655 --> 00:15:52,055
Didn't last very long. Yeah, I thought that was amazing.

256
00:15:52,175 --> 00:15:55,269
Really, I did. I love to see you.

257
00:15:55,407 --> 00:15:59,401
I love to see them grow and just

258
00:15:59,433 --> 00:16:03,245
shoot it. So what's funny is

259
00:16:03,945 --> 00:16:07,305
because we've talked about our fantasies in the

260
00:16:07,345 --> 00:16:11,009
past and whatnot, and you having your fun without

261
00:16:11,057 --> 00:16:15,045
me and things like that. Not too long ago,

262
00:16:15,785 --> 00:16:19,553
you were talking to somebody off of Reddit,

263
00:16:19,689 --> 00:16:23,307
I guess somebody that you weren't. You just had a couple conversations with,

264
00:16:23,371 --> 00:16:27,067
and he charmed you. And I

265
00:16:27,091 --> 00:16:30,163
was out in the living room with the kids, and you came up to me

266
00:16:30,179 --> 00:16:33,275
and you said, honey, I'm going to go take a bath. And I said,

267
00:16:33,315 --> 00:16:36,819
okay. And you went and took a bath. And without

268
00:16:36,907 --> 00:16:42,195
telling me, you had a FaceTime conversation

269
00:16:42,275 --> 00:16:45,075
with this person who you didn't really know.

270
00:16:45,155 --> 00:16:49,679
No. And you basically watched him masturbate

271
00:16:49,787 --> 00:16:52,595
to you. Yes. Via FaceTime? Yes.

272
00:16:52,975 --> 00:16:56,207
And did you, Were you touching yourself too?

273
00:16:56,271 --> 00:17:00,263
Yes. Really? Oh, yes. Really? Most definitely. Did you come in that session?

274
00:17:00,359 --> 00:17:03,687
Really? Yes, really. And then I got all finished

275
00:17:03,711 --> 00:17:07,351
up and came back. That's incredible. I, I, I don't know what it

276
00:17:07,383 --> 00:17:11,475
is, but I love, I guess it goes back to the wanting,

277
00:17:12,335 --> 00:17:16,021
right? So it goes back to that, like I'm, I'm actually being wanted.

278
00:17:16,183 --> 00:17:20,153
I, yes. And it's, it's hot. It's very hot.

279
00:17:20,249 --> 00:17:23,365
But I'm learning to embrace it now. Really? And it's.

280
00:17:23,905 --> 00:17:27,321
I love. I Women. Oh, my gosh. If a

281
00:17:27,353 --> 00:17:29,845
woman is masturbating to me,

282
00:17:30,705 --> 00:17:34,401
I am super flattered. That is the

283
00:17:34,433 --> 00:17:38,065
hottest. So men, and you guys masturbate all the time.

284
00:17:38,145 --> 00:17:41,777
And it could be, you know, women are picky. Are they?

285
00:17:41,841 --> 00:17:44,673
Oh, hells yeah. Like, I, I mean, I am picky.

286
00:17:44,729 --> 00:17:47,801
So I, When a woman tells me they're

287
00:17:47,833 --> 00:17:50,805
masturbating to me. Yes.

288
00:17:51,385 --> 00:17:54,593
Send me a video. You know what?

289
00:17:54,609 --> 00:17:57,969
I do not worry about the angle. You know what I like almost as good

290
00:17:58,017 --> 00:18:01,537
as a video because I, I like videos. Obviously, if I'm

291
00:18:01,561 --> 00:18:04,805
into amateur porn and whatnot, videos are incredible.

292
00:18:05,105 --> 00:18:08,961
But just getting a voice recording

293
00:18:09,153 --> 00:18:12,811
of somebody moaning, done that,

294
00:18:12,883 --> 00:18:16,187
and, and doing that whole thing with a caption that says,

295
00:18:16,251 --> 00:18:19,347
this was me coming to you. Yes. Forget it.

296
00:18:19,411 --> 00:18:22,779
Yes. I've actually had a woman do that.

297
00:18:22,867 --> 00:18:25,935
Really? Oh, my gosh. And I was like,

298
00:18:26,435 --> 00:18:29,935
yes, that's hot. I'm going to hear it again.

299
00:18:30,915 --> 00:18:34,379
Just going to hear you say it again. So, yeah.

300
00:18:34,427 --> 00:18:37,955
So I think I have the same kind of mind with

301
00:18:37,995 --> 00:18:41,415
you that I love to please myself and I love to.

302
00:18:42,115 --> 00:18:45,651
When I'm feeling really stressed, it really helps me.

303
00:18:45,843 --> 00:18:48,627
Like, you can be in the shower. We just have finished having sex. You made

304
00:18:48,651 --> 00:18:51,715
me come, but I just need one more little session. You'll be in the shower.

305
00:18:51,755 --> 00:18:54,875
I'll have the, you know, I'll lay in the bed and be like, baby,

306
00:18:55,035 --> 00:18:58,371
I just need a little bit with my friend. And so my little bullet.

307
00:18:58,483 --> 00:19:01,811
And I get that because we've talked about the amount of

308
00:19:01,843 --> 00:19:05,309
times that I masturbate, you know, on, on any given day,

309
00:19:05,507 --> 00:19:09,337
a minimum of times that I will masturbate. Minimum would be

310
00:19:09,361 --> 00:19:12,793
like four times a day. That's including having sex. That's including

311
00:19:12,889 --> 00:19:16,577
having sex. So four times. Plus we'll have sex a

312
00:19:16,601 --> 00:19:19,753
few times, you know, and I will have come on a regular

313
00:19:19,809 --> 00:19:23,245
day. Minimum, seven, eight times a day. Flex.

314
00:19:23,745 --> 00:19:27,577
Well, you have to. So we've had this discussion. How do

315
00:19:27,601 --> 00:19:31,777
I start my day? I wake up, I Go to the restroom

316
00:19:31,961 --> 00:19:35,491
and I masturbate. And that's

317
00:19:35,523 --> 00:19:39,255
how I wake up. Yeah. And. And I like for you to masturbate

318
00:19:39,555 --> 00:19:43,083
next to me. And that's something that we've. I've recently

319
00:19:43,179 --> 00:19:46,675
started getting better at. Yes. Because I don't do it as much.

320
00:19:46,755 --> 00:19:50,211
So I used to get super insecure because you would go to the bathroom and

321
00:19:50,243 --> 00:19:53,587
masturbate and I'd be like, well, I want to be your first. Like, I want

322
00:19:53,611 --> 00:19:57,067
you to come in me first. Yeah. And then go master. So.

323
00:19:57,131 --> 00:20:00,011
But I don't like to wake you up sometimes. Or I don't like to bother

324
00:20:00,043 --> 00:20:03,369
you. Yeah. I think we went. We went past that. Yeah. When you're laying

325
00:20:03,417 --> 00:20:07,513
there and I can feel you kind of. And also understand that that

326
00:20:07,609 --> 00:20:10,617
is a morning functionality.

327
00:20:10,721 --> 00:20:14,285
Masturbation. Yeah. That is less about

328
00:20:14,625 --> 00:20:18,409
sexual ness. Yeah. And more about I need to

329
00:20:18,457 --> 00:20:21,857
wake. I need this jolt to my system. I need to wake up. Right.

330
00:20:22,001 --> 00:20:25,545
And that's going to wake me up. Yeah. And so that

331
00:20:25,585 --> 00:20:28,965
is more for functionality than it is sexuality.

332
00:20:29,375 --> 00:20:32,839
And then we'll go about our morning, and then we'll end up having sex

333
00:20:32,887 --> 00:20:36,455
once or twice. And then after we have sex once or twice in the morning,

334
00:20:36,495 --> 00:20:40,383
I'll jump in the shower where I'll probably masturbate again.

335
00:20:40,439 --> 00:20:42,711
Oh, yeah. I walk in there and I see you and I'm like, okay.

336
00:20:42,743 --> 00:20:45,903
Yeah. Normally that's a little less

337
00:20:45,959 --> 00:20:49,959
functionality and more sexuality either. Because whatever

338
00:20:50,007 --> 00:20:54,007
we talked about during our sex session is still in my head. Yes. Or I've

339
00:20:54,031 --> 00:20:57,903
got some sort of fresh fantasy in my head. Whatever. And I'll

340
00:20:57,999 --> 00:20:59,435
take care of it in the shower.

341
00:21:00,695 --> 00:21:04,835
I have masturbated at work. I have

342
00:21:05,295 --> 00:21:08,743
gone to the fitness center during lunch and

343
00:21:08,799 --> 00:21:12,175
masturbated in the dressing rooms before coming

344
00:21:12,215 --> 00:21:15,439
back to work. You know, I'll come

345
00:21:15,487 --> 00:21:18,795
home and sometimes that's the first. I'll change into

346
00:21:19,175 --> 00:21:23,081
comfortable clothing and I'll masturbate. Yeah. Yeah. It's pretty much.

347
00:21:23,113 --> 00:21:26,425
I mean. Yeah. So, I mean, that happened. And that's on a regular workday.

348
00:21:26,465 --> 00:21:29,761
That's a day that I'm not at home. If I'm at a. At home

349
00:21:29,793 --> 00:21:33,609
all day, I'm gonna be well

350
00:21:33,777 --> 00:21:36,905
taken care of throughout the day. Yes. Now it's cool.

351
00:21:36,945 --> 00:21:40,953
It's so cool. Not cool, but it's interesting that men can just. You can

352
00:21:40,969 --> 00:21:44,729
just do it with your hand. Like, it's. It's that easy. Yeah. For women,

353
00:21:44,817 --> 00:21:48,137
it's. It is that easy. But I have found

354
00:21:48,241 --> 00:21:51,667
that sometimes there's different toys now.

355
00:21:51,851 --> 00:21:55,371
There are. I only have Women come different ways.

356
00:21:55,443 --> 00:21:59,123
Yes. So, like, I am a note.

357
00:21:59,299 --> 00:22:02,615
Notepad time. I am a.

358
00:22:03,435 --> 00:22:06,335
Like my clit. Like clitoral. Yeah.

359
00:22:06,635 --> 00:22:09,851
Is how to get you off. But there are some

360
00:22:09,883 --> 00:22:13,627
women who get off by penetration and less clitoral

361
00:22:13,651 --> 00:22:18,215
stimulus. Yeah. There are some women who get off through anal.

362
00:22:18,755 --> 00:22:21,547
Yeah. Yeah. And we were discussing that.

363
00:22:21,651 --> 00:22:25,255
So for me, if I'm doing it myself,

364
00:22:25,795 --> 00:22:29,475
it's clit. Yeah. If you're

365
00:22:29,515 --> 00:22:32,995
doing it to me, I want you to mess with my clit,

366
00:22:33,035 --> 00:22:36,443
but I also want you to finger me. Sure. So, yeah, it is.

367
00:22:36,539 --> 00:22:40,147
It's very different for people. I have a little bullet

368
00:22:40,291 --> 00:22:43,877
that gets, you know, the job done.

369
00:22:44,061 --> 00:22:48,053
I do want to try the rose now.

370
00:22:48,069 --> 00:22:51,821
I thought you tried the little click sucker. I did,

371
00:22:51,933 --> 00:22:55,397
but I don't think I did it right. And it was more for show.

372
00:22:55,501 --> 00:22:58,665
Okay. Which got all three of y'all off.

373
00:22:59,085 --> 00:23:03,157
I do remember that, you know. Yeah. So I.

374
00:23:03,341 --> 00:23:07,541
I would love to get more toys and

375
00:23:07,613 --> 00:23:11,045
try to see what I really like.

376
00:23:11,465 --> 00:23:14,845
Right. Because I would. Yeah. The rose. I thought that was amazing.

377
00:23:15,185 --> 00:23:19,057
Yeah. Well, you know, and. But one thing that you didn't find amazing

378
00:23:19,121 --> 00:23:22,833
was that saddle machine that you get on top of,

379
00:23:22,889 --> 00:23:26,001
and you said it vibrated your entire. What was. What is that

380
00:23:26,033 --> 00:23:29,325
called? The Civian. Yes. Horrible.

381
00:23:29,665 --> 00:23:33,377
Really? Nothing was. So it doesn't get your good repair. It does. No,

382
00:23:33,481 --> 00:23:37,179
I would not spend money on that. I don't even.

383
00:23:37,227 --> 00:23:40,947
I mean, good for you. If you can figure out how to use

384
00:23:40,971 --> 00:23:44,083
it. And it works for you. Did not work. What was the biggest complaint for

385
00:23:44,099 --> 00:23:47,243
you on that? It didn't hit any spots,

386
00:23:47,339 --> 00:23:50,579
even when I was, like, on there. And my, like, clit was just

387
00:23:50,627 --> 00:23:53,547
on that little piece that moves.

388
00:23:53,611 --> 00:23:56,899
Yeah. No, it didn't do it. Didn't do it.

389
00:23:56,947 --> 00:23:59,963
No. That is interesting. It is. But,

390
00:23:59,979 --> 00:24:04,425
yeah, I don't. I mean, I liked. I do like to masturbate. I like to

391
00:24:04,585 --> 00:24:07,665
lay there and have you watch me. Now, do you like

392
00:24:07,705 --> 00:24:11,165
to masturbate to? Obviously,

393
00:24:11,785 --> 00:24:15,289
being a woman in the lifestyle you get. Do you want me to paint you

394
00:24:15,337 --> 00:24:19,281
my little you? Well, you get videos from friends. I do.

395
00:24:19,353 --> 00:24:22,585
From guy friends. Yes. Of them jacking

396
00:24:22,625 --> 00:24:25,529
off? If I ask for it. Yes. And, I mean,

397
00:24:25,577 --> 00:24:29,841
just the other night, we had a nice little session where

398
00:24:30,033 --> 00:24:34,225
somebody sent you a video of him jacking off and coming it.

399
00:24:34,345 --> 00:24:37,665
And it turned you on because that.

400
00:24:37,745 --> 00:24:41,409
Man just had so much come,

401
00:24:41,537 --> 00:24:45,265
and. It turned you on. I was like, homie, fill me up.

402
00:24:45,345 --> 00:24:49,049
And so we laid here in the bed naked,

403
00:24:49,177 --> 00:24:52,961
both of us together. And you turned on that phone

404
00:24:53,073 --> 00:24:56,817
and you started watching this video and you started taking care of yourself while I

405
00:24:56,841 --> 00:25:00,593
watched you. Yes. And I watched you and I started sucking on

406
00:25:00,609 --> 00:25:02,845
your nipples, which turned you on even more.

407
00:25:03,725 --> 00:25:07,797
And then I started jacking off watching

408
00:25:07,861 --> 00:25:11,781
you get off to his video. Yes. And so

409
00:25:11,813 --> 00:25:16,185
you do this thing where you jack off right on my.

410
00:25:16,525 --> 00:25:20,069
Yeah. And that. Oh, my gosh,

411
00:25:20,197 --> 00:25:23,425
is the best feeling. Is it?

412
00:25:23,765 --> 00:25:27,781
Yeah. I love that. But, yeah, we were. I was watching him and.

413
00:25:27,893 --> 00:25:31,093
And you came to a video of him, which got me off. I think I

414
00:25:31,109 --> 00:25:34,517
came twice, right? Yes. To the video. Yes. And that

415
00:25:34,541 --> 00:25:38,061
was just us masturbating right there. Yes. And I wasn't getting

416
00:25:38,093 --> 00:25:41,333
off to the video. I was getting off to you getting off to the video.

417
00:25:41,389 --> 00:25:44,853
Yeah. So, yeah, you weren't watching the video. I wasn't. I didn't care what was

418
00:25:44,869 --> 00:25:47,973
going on. I was watching you and recording me,

419
00:25:48,149 --> 00:25:51,341
which was incredible. Yes. Like, you looked so hot. Yeah.

420
00:25:51,413 --> 00:25:55,021
And so that's what I got off of. I got off watching you get

421
00:25:55,053 --> 00:25:58,265
off to somebody. I get off of you. I. I love for you to.

422
00:25:58,645 --> 00:26:02,227
Now that I'm. I don't know, comfortable, more secure.

423
00:26:02,291 --> 00:26:05,771
Yeah. I love to see you. Well, I always tell you,

424
00:26:05,843 --> 00:26:09,651
put that porn on. You know, I will blow you while

425
00:26:09,683 --> 00:26:12,855
you're watching the porn. Like, that's my.

426
00:26:13,235 --> 00:26:16,467
I know how you feel about me, but, yes, I love. I love

427
00:26:16,491 --> 00:26:19,851
to watch you as much as you love to watch me. That's incredible. So.

428
00:26:19,963 --> 00:26:22,855
So then with that being said.

429
00:26:23,755 --> 00:26:27,737
What? You've got to walk me through your whole little

430
00:26:27,851 --> 00:26:31,501
process, because a lot of times when you do masturbate.

431
00:26:31,573 --> 00:26:35,797
Yes, I'm not around. No, you're not around. And so

432
00:26:35,901 --> 00:26:39,333
I don't know what's going on. You've caught me several times

433
00:26:39,389 --> 00:26:42,557
before. I'm so used to it. And I'm meat and potatoes. It's very easy for

434
00:26:42,581 --> 00:26:45,941
me. You've got to break this down. So what are we looking at?

435
00:26:46,013 --> 00:26:49,581
So on a normal masturbation time,

436
00:26:49,733 --> 00:26:52,853
I am laying there and if there's nobody here,

437
00:26:52,989 --> 00:26:56,149
I'm laying there and I am watching some girl on girl

438
00:26:56,237 --> 00:26:59,381
porn. You're a fan of that girl on girl? I am. Now, I do not

439
00:26:59,413 --> 00:27:03,201
like. Like, I like point

440
00:27:03,233 --> 00:27:06,841
of view, eating pussy porn.

441
00:27:07,033 --> 00:27:10,833
Like, I want to see that and I want to see the tongue

442
00:27:10,889 --> 00:27:15,201
and I want to see the lips just getting spread

443
00:27:15,273 --> 00:27:18,761
open and eating, because I can imagine it happening to me.

444
00:27:18,873 --> 00:27:22,257
Yeah. And that just. It just turns

445
00:27:22,281 --> 00:27:26,185
me on. Does it? Oh, my goodness. I can come pretty

446
00:27:26,305 --> 00:27:29,285
fast. Can you? Yes. Now,

447
00:27:29,745 --> 00:27:33,289
if it's a video of a friend and they just sent me A video

448
00:27:33,337 --> 00:27:36,961
of them jacking off. Oh, my gosh,

449
00:27:37,153 --> 00:27:40,657
that's hot. Yeah. Yes. I love that.

450
00:27:40,841 --> 00:27:44,089
Oh, yes. Are we about to wrap up?

451
00:27:44,257 --> 00:27:47,673
I thought you were gonna walk us through. Oh, I'm sorry. You got

452
00:27:47,689 --> 00:27:50,937
a little distracted. I'm laying down and

453
00:27:50,961 --> 00:27:54,015
I'm watching whatever pornography,

454
00:27:54,205 --> 00:27:56,695
and I usually have my vibrator,

455
00:27:57,435 --> 00:28:01,475
and it doesn't take me very long because I can picture myself

456
00:28:01,555 --> 00:28:04,975
being the one getting pleased. Really. Which is.

457
00:28:05,315 --> 00:28:08,483
I mean, that's hot. Yeah. And when

458
00:28:08,499 --> 00:28:11,495
it's a guy jacking off, I. I love cum.

459
00:28:12,235 --> 00:28:16,491
So it's like, oh, my God, he's gonna shoot that, like, all over my tits.

460
00:28:16,603 --> 00:28:19,867
Yeah. And snap a picture, and I want to send it to my

461
00:28:19,891 --> 00:28:23,105
honey. Oh, my God. And he's gonna see it and

462
00:28:23,225 --> 00:28:26,433
he's. Going to jack off. There you go. Yeah. So I.

463
00:28:26,569 --> 00:28:29,641
I love that. I love getting.

464
00:28:29,713 --> 00:28:34,241
Please. I love to. I love people to jack off thinking

465
00:28:34,273 --> 00:28:36,565
about me. Yeah. So if you've done that,

466
00:28:37,505 --> 00:28:40,841
please let me know. Yeah, let me

467
00:28:40,873 --> 00:28:43,993
know. Yell it. Send an email.

468
00:28:44,089 --> 00:28:47,725
Send an email to beyond monogamy

469
00:28:48,275 --> 00:28:52,203
for you@gmail.com. so that's Beyond Monogamy,

470
00:28:52,339 --> 00:28:55,867
number four, letter U, gmail.com.

471
00:28:56,011 --> 00:28:59,539
and let this woman know if you have gotten off to her.

472
00:28:59,627 --> 00:29:03,375
Yes. Because she will get off to that. Yeah.

473
00:29:04,155 --> 00:29:08,051
Yes. So, yeah, I. I think. Oh, my gosh, man, you got me work.

474
00:29:08,123 --> 00:29:10,455
Yeah. Well, I'm about to take care of that baby. Oh,

475
00:29:11,035 --> 00:29:14,651
take care of me a couple times. It's gonna be on tonight.

476
00:29:14,803 --> 00:29:18,101
So listen, you guys out there in

477
00:29:18,173 --> 00:29:21,781
podcast land, I want you to just be

478
00:29:21,813 --> 00:29:25,677
able to enjoy yourselves. Don't forget the self love,

479
00:29:25,821 --> 00:29:29,173
self care. That is part of it. Yeah. It's good for mental health.

480
00:29:29,229 --> 00:29:33,045
It is. It is very good for mental health. Sometimes you just got to clear

481
00:29:33,085 --> 00:29:36,509
the pipes, man. And especially before you maybe

482
00:29:36,557 --> 00:29:40,037
go out on a date, you know, that might help you keep

483
00:29:40,101 --> 00:29:43,487
your. Your outlandish horniness in check.

484
00:29:43,551 --> 00:29:47,319
There you go. Yeah. Anyways, we are both worked up here

485
00:29:47,407 --> 00:29:51,119
thanks to this wonderful topic. So we're going to go take care of this.

486
00:29:51,287 --> 00:29:54,935
I hope you enjoyed the show and we will see you next

487
00:29:54,975 --> 00:29:56,355
week. Bye,