Oct. 1, 2025

QUICKIE: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle

QUICKIE: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle
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QUICKIE: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle

In this Beyond Monogamy Quickie, Adam & Pris get real about the impact of bad swinging experiences and why one flop doesn’t have to end your lifestyle journey. From erectile dysfunction struggles to mismatched vibes and awkward first encounters, they break down the most common reasons people walk away after a negative night — and how to process, communicate, and bounce back stronger. Adam shares why he believes in second chances and growth, while Pris explains why her instinct is to shut it down after one bad vibe. Together, they show how balancing those approaches can save your confidence, protect your relationship, and help you find better connections. If you’ve ever thought, “One bad swinging night means this isn’t for me,” this episode proves you can reset, learn, and still create amazing experiences in the lifestyle.


🎙️ Show Notes

Episode Title: One Bad Swinging Experience: How to Bounce Back in the Lifestyle

Episode Summary:
What happens when your first (or even tenth) swinging experience doesn’t go as planned? Adam & Pris dive into how to handle those moments without letting them ruin your outlook on the lifestyle. From bad sex, awkward vibes, or ED issues, they share personal stories and practical strategies for reframing those nights into valuable lessons.

What You’ll Hear in This Episode:

  • Why one bad swinger night can feel like a dealbreaker (especially for newbies)

  • Pris’s “no second chances” rule vs. Adam’s “everyone deserves another shot” mindset

  • The role of communication, forgiveness, and learning in navigating bad encounters

  • Red flags that truly are dealbreakers vs. just one-off bad vibes

  • How to reset expectations and give the lifestyle another try

  • Why some of the best nights happen right after the worst ones

Why This Episode Matters:
So many couples quit the lifestyle after a negative experience. This conversation shows you how to move forward instead of letting one bad night define your entire journey.

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